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P R E S I D E N T S P E N C E R W. K I M B A L L
Our family
Susan Jane Hibdon Joyce
TA B L E of C O N T E N T S N EW YO RK O C TO B E R 2 0 1 4
Where we live
192 Linden Street, 2nd floor
Brooklyn, New York 11221-4504
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JULYSEPTEMBER 2014
J U LY JUL AUG SEP
27 In response to Moscows
12 Long Beach, Long Island, claims that its troops are entering Su
with Dustins family for Fionas the Ukraine by mistake, Canadas
delegation to NATO tweets Mo 1
birthday
Geography can be tough with Tu 1 2
14 Fiona gets a library card for a map clearly marked RUSSIA
the first time, from the New York We 2 3
and NOT RUSSIA
Public Library Th 3 4
31 Chinas legislature, the
15 Fiona (4) National Peoples Congress, Fr 4 1 5
17 Dustin and Fiona to decides that Hong Kong cannot Sa 5 2 6
Hackettstown, New Jersey, on NJ democratically elect its own Su 6 3 7
Transits Morristown Line, part of leader in its next scheduled
Dustins goal to ride Greater New election, planned for 2017, leading Mo 7 4 8
Yorks entire rail network to widespread protests in Hong Tu 8 5 9
17 A giant crater suddenly Kong in the following weeks We 9 6 10
appears in the Yamal Peninsula, Sandy, the Montague Tubes Th 10 7 11
Russia, and scientists are at a SEPTEMBER reopen, returning the R train
loss to explain it, leading to Fr 11 8 12
4 Fionas first day of school: to its normal route between
widespreadand sometimes Manhattan and Brooklyn Sa 12 9 13
wildspeculation on its cause. prekindergarten in Ms. Gomezs
class at P.S. 147 Isaac Remsen For the first time since the Su 13 10 14
The most likely explanation: an
underground explosion of water, in Brooklyn. She goes for one government began tracking data Mo 14 11 15
salt, and natural gas, the result of hour that day and for two hours in 1976 more Americans are single Tu 15 12 16
climate change the following day. Monday, 8 than married
September, is her first full day We 16 13 17
Malaysia Airlines flight 17, on its 20 Dustin baptizes Joanne
11 Fiona goes to bed with Carol Lavoglio Th 17 14 18
way from Amsterdam to Kuala
Lumpur with 298 on board, is her pacifizer for the last time. 21 Dustin participates in Sister Fr 18 15 19
shot down over eastern Ukraine On Friday, 12 September, she Lavoglios confirmation Sa 19 16 20
by a missile fired by Russian and Susan had a slumber party
celebrating the end of her 21 President Thomas S. Su 20 17 21
separatists Monson, president of the Church,
pacifier days, and on Monday, Mo 21 18 22
251 August Camping with 15 September, Fiona and Dustin rededicates the Ogden Utah
Susans family at Promised Land Temple after a major remodeling Tu 22 19 23
shipped the pacifier off to
State Park, Pennsylvania Grammy (see page 11) that lasted three and a half years We 23 20 24
23 Elder David A. Bednar of the question, Should Scotland be an independent country? Scotland CO LO R KEY
the Quorum of the Twelve breaks chooses to remain a part of the United Kingdom, preserving the union
that has bound Scotland with England since 1707. An astounding 84.6% holidays
ground for the Meridian Idaho
Temple of registered voters turn out; 97% of eligible voters, which included, for travel
the first time, 16- and 17-year-olds, had registered. While Britainand birthdays
24 A 6.0-magnitude earthquake its flag, the Union Jacksurvives, it will not be as we know it: in order to
near Napa, California, is the convince Scots to vote no, the U.K.s central government in Westminster events in our lives
largest to strike the Bay Area since has promised to further the devolution of powers that began with the events in the Church
1989s Loma Prieta earthquake reestablishment of the Scottish parliament in 1999. world events
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promised land To the Poconos! Land. One of them did, and she gave me very good
state park his year, the Hibdon clan decided to instructions. (Apparently people stop there all the
25 JULY get together again, but instead of going to time seeking directions, so she had some practice.)
Donner Lake, we decided to try a new place: We finally got to the cabins a few minutes before
1 AUGUST 2014 Promised Land State Park in Pennsylvania, which I 22.00 very late and very dark (as forests are).
The Hibdons got discovered by searching for lakes with camping in the Grammy and Papa had a brand-new flashlight for
Poconos. Im glad we found it, and I hope we go back Fiona. She was thrilled to use it to find our cabin,
together for a again. which was a cozy two-room affair built by the Civilian
week of camping On Friday, 25 July, after a few days of family Conservation Corps during the Great Depression. It
and adventure in emails discussing supplies and arrival times, Dustin had an electric cooking stove, a wood-burning stove
and Fiona went to pick up our car from New Jersey. for heat, a refrigerator, and a table and chairs in one
the Poconos. While they were gone, I read a blog post titled Why room, and four bunks in the other. It had a front
I Took My Kids Toys Away (& Why They Wont porch with a picnic table, and in an outbuilding just
Get Them Back) and I was inspired to go through behind the cabin was a bathroom with hot running
Fiona and Colins toys and pack up a lot of them. I water and a shower. Even in the summer its pretty
decided that Im okay with building toys (blocks, chilly in the Poconos, especially at night, when the
for example), art supplies, and musical instruments, temperature usually dips into the 50s (1015C). We
but other than that, I tried to get rid of as much as curled up on our bunks which, honestly, were not
possible. Most of them werent trash, of course, so that comfortable and went to sleep.
I stashed them away until we could take them to
Goodwill. It was convenient that Fiona had decided A week of fun, adventure, and family
to go with Dustin, since I couldnt have culled the Grammy and Papa discovered that a church just up
herd with her present. It was also convenient that the road from our cabins was having a rummage sale.
we were about to leave town for a week, so that she The entire family ambled up to the sale right first
wouldnt notice that some of her toys were gone. thing after breakfast on Saturday, 26 July, but of
When they got back around 14.00, we were course we didnt really need or want anything there,
already far behind schedule. I had estimated that we especially after getting rid of so many toys a few days
would leave around noon and get to the cabin around earlier. Michael found an electric frying pan that
15.00. We packed up and I adjusted our estimate would be great for his crew trips. Dustin found two
to 17.00. We drove and drove, but we hadnt had tennis rackets for $1 each, which seemed like a great
any lunch, so we decided to stop at about the only idea since we can take them across the street and play
place there is near the highway in Troy, New Jersey: on the handball courts. Fiona found a wooden bear
Dunkin Donuts. We finally got into the vicinity of the that she bought for, I think, $1.50 her first purchase
state park as the sun was setting. It was then that we ever. She was very pleased.
discovered that Dustins phone, which we had been The next day, Sunday, 27 July, I woke up sick.
using to navigate, had no service and we didnt We hadnt really planned to go to church, because
know how to get to the park. it would have been really far anyway. Dustin took
We drove down one road, state highway 447, Fiona and Colin with the rest of the family over to the
that looked promising (no pun intended), but the lake, where they found some wild blueberry bushes!
bridge at the end was closed, so we had to turn Im sad I missed that part. They picked a lot, I think.
around. At the end of 447, Meanwhile, I was throwing up on the path to the
where it branches off from bathroom. Fortunately, though, I felt better right after
The sign Pennsylvania highway 191 that. I never did figure out what was wrong, since I
on our cabin in East Stroudsburg, there had eaten the same things as everyone else.
is a retro-looking roadside That afternoon, Karen threw a birthday party for
ice-cream stand called Fiona. We had an egg-and-spoon race in the road, and
Mary Annes Dairy Bar. I Fiona dropped her egg pretty much instantaneously.
suggested we stop there We also played pin the tail on the donkey, although
for directions. I hopped Im not sure it was a donkey it may have been some
out of the car and asked other animal and also I think we used tape instead
the teenage girls working of pins. There were two Sarah Lee cakes, one vanilla
there if they knew how and one chocolate, as well as streamers and flower
to get to Promised banners and cupcake papers full of candies.
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SUSAN
The group
Bob . Karen . Fiona
Ellen . Susan . Michael . Papa
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Mama & Fiona
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On Wednesday, 30 July, we went on a hike on woodpeckers pretty often and sometimes managed to Cabin guestbook
the Little Falls Trail on the other side of the lake. spot them in the trees. On Thursday, 31 July, Dustin This is the message in
There were some people out, but not a lot, and I repeated the Little Falls Trail hike with Grammy and Susans own handwriting
was a little nervous about bears especially when, Papa. At the beginning of the trail, near the top of that Susan and Fiona
partway around the loop, we found a giant pawprint the creek, several people were gathered looking at left in the guestbook in
in the mud. It was not a dog paw. We made sure to something in the water. Grammy, Papa, and Dustin our cabin.
make plenty of noise as we finished our hike. looked and saw a snake taking a swim.
Throughout the week, when we werent out on Some people, including Papa, reported bear
hikes and exploring, Grammy and Papas cabin was sightings near the cabins. Dustin made a habit later
the hang-out zone. Colin spent a lot of time hanging in the week of waking up before everyone else
out on a blanket in front of their cabin. He wasnt that and sitting in our rental car. The seats were much
stable yet, so sometimes he toppled over backwards, more ergonomic than the hard beds in the cabin,
but it usually wasnt a big problem for him. which gave his back a chance to recover from the
Fiona found a big rock she could sit on. previous nights sleep, and he could listen to NPR.
Someone had scaled a fish there, so she collected a lot He also hoped to have his own bear sighting but,
of fish scales. There were plenty of opportunities for unfortunately, it never came.
exploring, so that she did not feel any need for toys. On Friday, 1 August, our week of fun,
She even told us that she wanted to live there, in the adventure, and family came to an end. When it was
cabin, because there was so much to do and she liked time to go, we packed up all of our stuff, including a
being able to walk over to Grammy and Papas house lot of stuff that had been purchased at Goodwill or at
every day. I also showed her that she could eat some the rummage sale so we could drop it off at another
of the plants nearby, though sorrel was the only one I donation site. (Its always nice to get rid of stuff.)
was sure about. And, sure enough, when we got home, Fiona didnt
There was plenty wildlife, too. We heard even notice that some of her toys were gone. d
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6 AUGUST 2014 ho Wants to Be a Millionaire debuted in watched since high school. So I went to the end of
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DUSTIN
bluntly stated, I bombed.
The staff came back with the scored quizzes
and said that those who passed would have their
numbersthe ones from the envelopesannounced.
They were to move to the other side of the room
and await an interview with an associate producer.
Everyone else was free to go. The super hyper one
started calling out the numbers. It wasnt long before
she called out 198. I was in. So was Joanna, whose
number, 126, was called out a short time after mine.
We gave our condolences to Farhat and Jeff and
moved to the other side of the room.
I brought along the book Im currently reading,6
but by that point the excitement and the chatter in
the roomwhich would make it difficult to hear my
name when it was calleddistracted me too much
from reading. So I sat there, but the others at my table
werent nearly so chatty as Joanna and Farhat had
been. I eventually moved to a table closer so I could
more easily hear my name and ended up speaking to
someone who teaches geography to sixth graders in
a school just outside Philadelphia. It was definitely
a better way to pass the time than sitting in silence.
Then I heard my name.
Emma introduced herself and shook my
hand. We sat down and she complimented me on
my handwriting, which is what people usually do
when they first meet me. She then asked me a few
uninspiring questions. Among them, whats on my
bucket listbut not travel and debt, because thats on
everyones bucket list. Which I understood, but I was
stumped. Im debt-free, but Id love to check more
places off my bucket list. Eventually I asked if mode The sign showing But thats okay. Im not bitter, I explained to
of travel might be considered, and Emma relented. Millionaire hopefuls my online friends. I havent seen their stupid show
So I told her that Id love to ride the entire Amtrak where the path to since high school anyway. Those people cant help it
system, and she said that that was pretty unique. She TV fame and fortune if they suck.
added that her father was hoping to take that train begins: at a nondescript I guess Ill just have to go earn a million dollars
in Canada that goes from, like, Toronto to Vancouver emergency exit door the old-fashioned way. Which, I guess, is a pretty
or Seattle. Its called the Canadian, and I said that Id in the middle of a decent destiny, too. d
love to take that trip, too. blank wall at ABCs
Emma said that I should get an email in two or headquarters on West NOTES
three weeks stating whether I was in the contestant 66th Street. 1. The American version was based on an existing British show
pool and containing further instructions. And with DUSTIN of the same name (with a top prize of 1 million instead of
that our very short interview was over and I left. instagram.com/p/rX-RxMRWvk $1 million, which makes it 1.52 times more valuable than the
American version, depending upon the exchange rate).
On my way home I stopped by the store and
2. As I recall, one of the questions was on the geographic
got some cookies-and-cream Pop-Tarts to celebrate order of states from east to west or vice versa. Super easy
getting to speak with an associate producer. (Pop- for a geography geek like me. I dont remember the other
Tarts are my Achilles heel.) question.
At noon the next day, I got an email updating me 3. For the record, in the chorus the order is Monica, Erica,
on my status. Thank you for your interest in being Rita, Tina, Sandra, Mary, and Jessica, and theres a line
a contestant on Who Wants To Be A Millionaire, toward the beginning of the song that states, I like Angela,
the email began. It continued: You have not been Pamela, Sandra, and Rita. Yeah, I was not going to be able
to remember that.
selected to be a potential contestant. We appreciate
4. Sic. Whoever runs WABCs Facebook page has a tendency
your continued interest in the show and thank you for to CAPITALIZE WAY TOO MUCH.
taking the time to audition with us. 5. Right after signing myself up, I submitted Susans name. She
And that was that. At least I did it. It was auditioned on Thursday, 7 August, at 17.00. She was also
fun. Susan auditioned on Thursday, 7 August, and ultimately rejected.
received her rejection email yesterday. We came. 6. On the Map: A Mind-Expanding Exploration of the Way the
We auditioned. We got rejected, I announced on World Looks by Simon Garfield (New York: Gotham Books,
Facebook. 2013); see page 24 in this magazine.
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After just a week his summer we went there are some little heart-shaped leaves
in a cabin, I think camping in a cabin. It that you can eat and they taste kind of
I might like life in
the woods even was so great. We got sour.
more than life in to sleep in bunk beds One day Mama was sick so she
the city. in a little cabin, and stayed in the cabin and the rest of us
our bathroom was in a house outside. went to the lake. There were blueberry
In the morning, we would get up and bushes there and we picked blueberries.
When Mama was better, we went back
to the lake and went swimming. I tried
Charlottes mask and floated around on
a purple floaty thing. But mostly I didnt
float, mostly I just fell out of the floaty
thing over and over. One time the water
was kind of deep and I let go of the
floaty thing and I sank down with my
eyes open. I tried to push off with my
feet to get out but them Bob grabbed
me. It was so fun and so silly!
We also had a birthday party for
me. There were two cakes, one was
vanilla and one was chocolate. We made
tie-dye t-shirts and we had an egg race.
Fiona had a smile on her
face for much of the time walk to Grammy and Papas cabin and I dropped my egg on the road so we
we were at Promised
Land State Park. have breakfast with everyone: Grammy, started over. Maybe a raccoon ate the
DUSTIN | 18.27 EDT, 27 JULY 2014
Papa, Ellen, Karen, Bob, Michael, and egg I dropped! We played some other
Martin. Charlotte and Heather couldnt games too. And we visited a giant eagles
come. We went exploring around the nest.
cabins, and near Grammy and Papas Even though we didnt have very
cabin we found some fish scales. They many toys, I really liked going to the
were really pretty and I put them in lake. I liked our cozy little cabin and
the pouch that Mama made for my sometimes I wish we lived there instead
magnifying glass. I also found out that of in New York City. d
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FIONA
Love,
Susan
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my favorite things
My big sister, ow that I can get I could do that for five whole minutes
rubber duckies, around on my own without getting distracted.
toy trumpets, and
nice bottles of milk I keep hearing Mama We also have some little yellow
so much to love! and Daddy mention ducks that I like to play with. They
that Im not really come in different sizes and some of
crawling, but it works for me there are them squeak. One of them has a spiky
some things I go back to again and again. hat on, and thats kind of interesting to
Little man: From an My favorite person, of course, chew on. They also float in the bathtub.
excursion on Metro-
North/NJ Transit to the is Fiona. I wiggle myself over to her Not that Im really into baths.
end of the Pascack Valley
Line in Spring Valley, whenever I can. She can do so many Not long ago, I learned how to use
New York, a favorite cool things. A while ago, she taught the blue and red trumpet that Mama and
photo of Colin emerges.
DUSTIN | 30 JUNE 2014 me how to shake my head from side to Daddy had shown me so many times. I can
POSTED 2 JULY 2014; SHOPS AT
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side so I get dizzy. Whoo, so much fun! make four different noises on it: blowing
out or breathing in, on the end of it or the
top of it. Its so satisfying to make such a
loud noise. I think I like loud noises.
Another thing I love is my bottle.
Theres nothing like a nice bottle of milk
when Im done playing. Or while Im
playing. Or when I wake up. Or while
Im falling asleep. Mama and Daddy
keep saying that I should fall asleep
without a bottle, but why? Why would
I want to do that when I could drink
milk and fall asleep at the same time?
It is a little uncomfortable when I drop
the bottle and roll on top of it while
Im asleep, mostly because that causes
all the milk to leak out all over and get
me and my bed soggy. But its not a big
problem, really. I think Ill continue my
bedtime bottle as long as possible. d
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Pennsylvania
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urban park-in-the-sky
finally opens.
E
the past few
F O R years, the
buzz among
urban planners, locals,
and visitors alike has been
about the High Line. Have
1 you been to the High
TEXT & Line? The High Line
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BY DUSTIN have you seen it? You
M A N H AT TA N should really check out the
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High Line. I love the High
Line. High Line, High
Line, High Line Marcia,
Marcia, Marcia it seemed to be all anyone could
ever talk about. But, cmon, I thought, its just a
park. How special can a park really be?
It turns out, pretty special.
The High Line is a 2.33-kilometer (1.45-mile) linear park built
2 atop an old elevated freight rail line on Manhattans West Side. Its
southern end is at Gansevoort Street near the border between the
Track A restored section of
1 the original track. Meatpacking District and Chelsea. It runs parallel to the Hudson
instagram.com/p/tQVzeERWpr River waterfront for a few blocks and then continues northward,
End of the line Looking over paralleling Tenth Avenue to West 30th Street. At 30th it makes a
2 the railing at the High Lines sharp turn west and wraps around the West Side Yard, a large rail
southern end, at Washington
and Gansevoort streets. yard adjacent to Penn Station where the Long Island Rail Road
instagram.com/p/tQLCeuRWpk stores trains. The High Lines northern end touches West 34th Street
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PHASE 1 Opened 8 June 2009 WEST 30TH STREET
WAY
ELEVENTH AVENUE
TENTH AVENUE
NINTH AVENUE
H IG H
PHASE 3 Opened 21 September 2014
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West 30th Street West 34th Street
WEST
WEST 26TH STREET
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access via ramp
8
Chelsea Thicket
WEST 20TH STREET
Chelsea Market
Passage 3 WEST 15TH STREET
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Bridge This skybridge over West 15th Street, as
seen from the High Line, connected the factory ET
Gansevoort Woodland T ST
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and offices of the National Biscuit Company, OR
2EVO
better known as Nabisco. Today the factory is Overlook GA
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Chelsea Market, and the bridge is somewhat
reminiscent of the Bridge of Sighs in Venice.
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across from the Javits Center.
Those 2 kilometers are filled with trees, bushes,
flowers, and other plants, which in turn are abuzz with
insects and alive with singing birds. Visitors wend their
way along a path through and under and in between
the densely-packed buildings of a former industrial
district, now being turned into high-priced apartments,
condominiums, offices, and incubator space for startups
and entrepreneurs.
We visited for the first time shortly after we moved
to New York three years ago, and I finally understood
what all the buzz was about I was a convert.
That first visit was to the first two phases of
the High Line that were then open: phase 1, from
Gansevoort Street to West 20th Street, which opened 8
June 2009, and phase 2, from 20th to West 30th Street,
which opened 7 June 2011.
And last month, on 21 September, the highly-
anticipated phase 3, which comprises the remainder
of the High Line from 30th to West 34th Street, finally
opened to the public. I was excited to see the completed
project, so the next day, on 22 September, Colin and I
went to check it out. We started at the southern end and
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walked through phases 1 and 2 before walking through
6 7 8
phase 3.
Diamond skin Many of Chimney art Art Fire escape Older
If Im honest, phase 3 was a bit of a letdown. The the new buildings along inhabits both the High buildings along the High
official line is that the northernmost section of the the High Line have bold, Line and the walls of the Line are being restored
park retains the landscape and flora that characterized avant garde design. buildings around it. and reused in a renewed
instagram.com/p/tQQj6QxWhg instagram.com/p/tQQTeVRWhM neighborhood.
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largely, as we lay people would call them,
weeds. On a bright, sunny day, it feels incredibly
exposed: not only do the dense buildings below
West 30th Street give way to the wide openness
of the West Side Yard, the Hudson River, and
the open streets around, but there are few trees
in phase 3. Altogether it lacks the feeling of
enclosure like a leafy, green security blanket
almost that, for me, makes the first two
phases of the park so special.
Beyond that, the platform being
constructed over the West Side Yard on which
the massive Hudson Yards project is being built
will eventually be at the level of the High Line,
9 which will then become a landscaped space
on the perimeter of the Hudson Yards. Part of
10 what makes the High Line so special is that it is
elevated above the surrounding city, separated
and offering a respite from it. Doesnt that go
away if the surrounding city is brought up to the
same level?
Thats not to say theres nothing to like
in phase 3. One highlight is a sunken area
above West 30th Street where children can
crawl hamster-like through tunnels and
compartments. This is also the part of the line
where one can best see that it was at one time
a functioning rail line, with more of the rails
and ties left in place, and even the occasional
switch machinery which has been removed in
the other phases of the line, left in place here.
And the views of the West Side Yard, Midtown
Manhattan, and the Hudson River are sweeping
that is, until the rail yard and Midtown are
obscured by the Hudson Yards.
Itself obscured by a lack of vision, the High
Line, like so much of the most beloved parts of
our cityscape, was almost demolished. (Parts
of it, totaling about half the original viaducts
length, were in fact dismantled in 1960 and
1991.) Now its transformation is finished, and it
9 10 creates a green ribbon of respite through some
Switch A bit more of Construction sight of the densest development on earth. It has
the rail infrastructure A forest of scaffolds been 80 years since freight trains traveled the
for which the High Line at 10 Hudson Yards,
was first built has been which will be the first West Side Line in 1934, and 34 since the viaduct
preserved in phase 3. completed tower in the closed in 1980. It has been well worth the
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Urban explorer Colin looks out over the Flyover.
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Rail yard Out-of-service Long Island Rail Road trains
await the afternoon rush hour as Midtown looms beyond.
One day this view of both the yard and the skyline will be
obscured by the Hudson Yards.
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LIRR A dual-mode engine which can run on both third-
rail electrical power on western Long Island and diesel
power in the east sits in the West Side Yard.
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A VISIT TO
THE
DANBURY
R A I LWAY
M U S E U M
DA N B U RY, C O N N E C TI C U T
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Norwalk, Housatonic, and New York and
New England into the New York, New
Haven, and Hartford Railroad. In its heyday
in the early 20th century, the station was
served by as many as 125 trains a day. After
World War II, passenger ridership declined,
as it did pretty much everywhere else in
the country, and the number of trains
dwindled. So did Danburys downtown as
shoppers fled to a new mall built on the
citys former fairgrounds 4 kilometers (2.5
miles) to the southwest. But the old train
station held on and escaped the wrecking
ball, and it was added to the National
Register of Historic Places in 1986.
In 1993, however, the buildings use as
an actual train station came to an end when
Metro-North closed the station in favor of
a stop just down the block. Danbury now
sees 28 trains a day on weekdays, 14 to and
14 from New York, most of which require a
connection at South Norwalk or Stamford.
There are just 12 trains a day 6 in each
direction on weekends. The present station
is a five-minute walk from the museum.
But thanks in part to the foresight of
the citys then-mayor, Gene Eriquez, who
didnt want to lose another downtown
building to urban blight, a group of local
railfans and volunteers got together to open
a railway museum in the old station and
its adjacent railyard. On 29 October 1995,
with the mayor in attendance, the restored
ALCO 2-6-0 Mogul (1907) station was dedicated, and in 1996 the
Boston & Maine 1455 s I complete my quest to ride museum opened.
This steam engine was A all the rails in Greater New York
including the regions three
Today the station building houses a
gift shop, a collection of vintage railroad
built by the American
Locomotive Company, commuter railroads, the Long Island Rail memorabilia, and, of course, a model
or ALCO, in Manchester, Road, Metro-North, and NJ Transit its railroad. Outside in the yard there are over
New Hampshire. nice to have something actually to go to 60 pieces of rolling stock, ranging from
instagram.com/p/rnySZixWug at the end of each line. Such was the case engines to passenger coaches to freight
in our last issue, when I wrote about my cars. Most of yard exhibits can be viewed
spread, PAGES 2021 visit in July 2014 to The Glass House, just from the outside, but there are a few
EMD FL-9 (1960) the residence of the late architect Philip cars visitors can go into. Our favorite was a
New York Central 2013 Johnson in New Canaan, Connecticut, at vintage railway post office.
Built by Electro-Motive the end of the shortest and westernmost of After our visit to the museum, we had
Diesel (EMD) and painted the three branches off Metro-Norths New lunch at a nearby pizzeria and took a quick
in New York Central Haven Line (see Dialann 15.12). jaunt down Danburys Main Street, lined
Lightning Stripes by The following month, in August 2014, with trees and a number of nicely restored
Metro-North to celebrate our entire family took a day trip on Metro- old buildings. Then it was back home, on
the 150th anniversary of rail North along the next of the New Haven the train of course, with one more segment
service on the New York Lines branches going east, to the end of the of Greater New Yorks passenger rail
Central Hudson Division. line in Danbury, Connecticut. And what network and one more railway museum
instagram.com/p/rnXLYMxWje did we go to at the end of the line? A railway checked off on our list. d
museum, of course!
INSET, PAGE 21 The Danbury Railway Museum is editors note: Much of the information
A lantern hangs from a post housed in the citys former Union Station, and some of the text in this article and the
outside the railway post which was built in 1903 following the accompanying captions are from Wikipedia
office car. consolidation of the three railroads that and the Danbury Railway Museums website,
instagram.com/p/rnOvkFRWme served Danbury the Danbury and danburyrailwaymuseum.org.
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TOP LEFT TOP right
Class PBr Coach Bethlehem Steel (1925) Reading 1547 PRR Class BNM-70 Baggage/Railway Post Office Car PRR 6507/6563
This passenger car was built in 1925 by Bethlehem Steel. The backs This railway post office was built in February 1910 for the Pennsylvania
of the rattan seats could be moved to either side of the seat to allow Railroad and has been completely restored. It was our favorite car at
passengers to face toward the front or the back. the museum.
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for the 29 March 1976 issue of The New Yorker, a New
Yorkers view of the world which shows, in typical
self-absorbed New York fashion, an outsized and
overly important Manhattan, along with everything
else. And the last numbered chapter in the book, 22,
is on Mapping the Brain. Though I was certainly
familiar with that phrase and concept, it hadnt
occurred to me that encephalography should be
included in a book about cartography.
Maps have
become so ubiquitous
in our world today
that its easy to forget
how much we rely
upon them. After all,
I carry what is quite
possibly the most
detailed map of the
world ever created,
Google Maps, around
with me every day
in my pocket. At
any moment, I can
open a new tab in my
internet browser and find a map of almost any place
on the planet, including a full-color satellite image
and, increasingly, recent imagery of what it looks like
from the street. In such a world, its easy, even for a
geography junkie like me, to forget how important
and difficult a science cartography is, and how special
maps are. Even I am far removed from my days of
poring over maps of states, metropolitan areas, and
city centers in my moms Rand McNally Road Atlas
(thankfully, I still have a road atlas myself, though, it
dates from 2007 and, sadly, probably hasnt been on a
road trip with me since then).
Mr. Garfield perhaps said it best: The resulting
maps also have an effect on the way we learn to
see things. When were looking at maps on our
dashboard or on phones as we walk, we tend not to
look around or up so much. It is now entirely possible
to travel many hundreds of miles to the other end
of a country, perhaps, or even a continent without
having the faintest clue about how we got there.
A victory for GPS, a loss for geography, history,
navigation, maps, human communications and the
The cover of the 29 March 1976 issue of The New Yorker, sense of being connected to the world all around us
featuring Saul Steinbergs famous illustration View of the (page 384). d
World from 9th Avenue. This cover was parodied by The
Economist (inset) on the cover of its issue for 2127 March * Add this sentence to the list of things that are probably
2009, on the 33rd anniversary of The New Yorkers cover. longer than they need to be.
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WE BELIEVE IN CHRIST
BY DUSTIN
This is the fourth and final installment this year in which we record the the world is a part of the three-fold mission of the Church, and its a
talks Dustin gave in church as a youth. commandment.3
And I know that some of you who should and need to serve a
ood morning! My name is Dustin Joyce. For those mission dont want to. So youll have to start a little bit farther back.
G of you who dont know my family and me, we actually used
to live in this ward back when it was the Third Ward, but
Want to want to serve a mission. Its kind of like what Alma said
about faith in the Book of Mormon:
we ended up in Fourth Ward, or Carmel Ward, when the boundaries
were redrawn. But, now were back. I just havent been in this But behold, if ye will awake and arouse your faculties,
ward a lot because things would come up and it would be more even to an experiment upon my words, and exercise a
convenient for me to attend Carmel Ward. But Im here today, since particle of faith, yea, even if ye can no more than desire to
I have to give this talk. believe, let this desire work in you, even until ye believe in
In January, Ill be turning nineteen. At that time Ill be donning a manner that ye can give place for a portion of my words.4
the dark suit, name tag, and bike helmet that characterize the
Churchs missionaries around the world. At this time, Im preparing You can want to have faith if you dont already have it, and you
to serve a mission, and thats what my topic is today: preparing for a can want to want to serve a mission if you dont already want to
mission. serve a mission. But, no matter where you begin, at some point you
At the mini Missionary Training Center that this stake had with must want to serve.
the Central Stake at the beginning of last year, participants were
given something that President Hinckley once said. It was a list of
ten gifts that the Churchs missionaries should bring home with
them from their missions. Those ten things are:
2 Choose to serve a mission
The next step is to choose to serve a mission. You can want to
serve a mission all you want, but until you choose to serve a mission,
it aint happenin. Consciously choosing and making it a goal to
1. Knowledge of God and Christ. serve a mission will help get the ball rolling, so to speak, on the
2. Knowledge [of ] and love for scriptures. rest of your preparation to serve. When you and your parents and
3. Increased love for parents. the other people around you who can help you prepare know that
4. Love [for] people who[m] you serve. you have chosen to go, you can then begin working on some of the
5. Appreciation for hard work. other things that I will be talking about. It all begins with a choice.
6. Knowledge of importance of teamwork.
7. Recognition of importance of good dress and demeanor.
8. Appreciation of the beauty and value of personal virtue.
9. Faith to act and courage to try.
3 Learn to recognize and invite the Spirit
Learn to recognize the Spirit. More than anyone or anything on
your mission, the Spirit will be your guide, it will be your motivator.
10. Humility to pray.1 But there is someone out there who absolutely does not want you to
serve a mission and tell the world about the truth that you know I
In my talk today, Id like to present ten2 things that future think we all know who that someone is and you must be able to
missionaries can work on now to help prepare them serve missions distinguish between the feelings hell give you and the feelings that
from which they can bring these ten gifts home. the Spirit of the Lord will give you.
Recognizing and using the Spirit for the time of your mission
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Bearing testimony, singing a hymn, praying these
are just a few of the very obvious ways to invite the
Holy Ghost into your life often. Use them, practice
them, and the Spirit that you will have as you prepare
to serve an honorable, full time mission will greatly
help you and will be something that you take with
you on your mission.
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still need to know how people around the world live, as you are preparing for a mission, follow the
because theres still a chance you may be called to commandments, and keep the promises and
serve among them. If you know how they live before covenants that you have made and that you will make,
you go out in the mission field, it wont be such a and youll certainly have the Lords help in preparing
shock once you get there. If you have the opportunity for a mission, and when the Lords on your side, you
to travel to a foreign country, or even to another part cannot fail.
of the United States believe me, some parts of
America can seem like a foreign country take it! Conclusion
Take a foreign language in school to help familiarize Going on a mission will be one of the greatest
yourself with how to learn a foreign language and experiences youll ever have. Almost nowhere else
also to familiarize yourself with other cultures. Watch can you gain the amount of knowledge about the
PBS! Just do whatever it takes to get to love people gospel, life, yourself, and the world around as you
who arent like you before youre among them. It will will during the eighteen months or two years of your
be easier over here.
The question is mission. In order to be successful on your mission,
Along with learning to know and love foreign frequently asked: begin preparing for it now. Talk it over with your
cultures comes learning to eat varied and strange Should every parents, your Church leaders, your Heavenly Father,
foods. I have a problem with this one. No matter and even your friends. Figure out how to handle
where you get called, you may have to eat some
young man fill a things like college and financing. Decide whats best
foods that youre not familiar with. You either starve mission? And the for you. But remember that, if youre a young man,
or learn. Even in the United States, cuisine can vary answer has been going on a mission is the best thing you can do at that
greatly from one region to another, and even from point in your life.
one house to another, with the melting pot of cultures
given by the Lord. I know that sending missionaries throughout the
were blessed to have here in America. Like before, if It is Yes. Every world is one of the best things that the Church can
you learn now, itll be easier once you get out there. young man should do. I know that what the missionaries teach is true:
the Jesus Christ is the Son of God, and that he is the
fill a mission.
9 Learn to do housework
Speaking of food, let me return to the three
Ls of missionary work: learn to cook. Learn to do
Every man should
Savior of the world; that the books that testify of him,
the Bible and the Book of Mormon, are true; that the
man who brought us the Book of Mormon, Joseph
household chores. When youre out in the mission also pay his Smith, is a prophet of God; and that the Church has
field, mom and dad arent there to do the dishes, tithing. Every man continued to be led by the Lord Jesus Christ through
cook, shop, clean everything, and do all the other Joseph Smiths successors as President of the Church,
things they do. You have to handle it all for yourself.
should observe the and that our prophet today, President Gordon B.
Learn to do it before you go. Sabbath. Every Hinckley, leads us by divine inspiration. I know these
man should attend things are true and I say them in the name of our Lord
NOTES
doing that now. Live lifes mission rules: obey in the temple and 1. Slightly different versions of this list were printed in The
the commandments and keep the promises and New Era, March 2007, pages 24, and the Church News, 23
covenants youve already made and will make before
properly train his December 1995
and after you go on a mission. children, and do 2. I noticed only when I was laying out this article that the talk
actually includes only nine things, not tenI inadvertently
A lot can be said, of course, about living a many other mighty skipped number 8 when I recorded this talk in my journal
morally clean life. There are reminders of being
morally clean all around us. Heres just a short list of
works. Of course back in 2000 (and, I presume, when I presented it).
3. Yes, President Kimball did say that: Ensign, October 1974,
things that and people who remind us to live good he should.3 page 8; Aaronic Priesthood Manual 3 (1995 edition), lesson
lives: parents; teachers; friends; Church leaders; PRESIDENT 25
general authorities, apostles; prophets; CTR rings; SPENCER W. KIMBALL 4. Alma 32:27
the scriptures; For the Strength of Youth; church 5. Doctrine and Covenants 4
6. First Article of Faith
books, videos, music, and magazines the list goes
7. Romans 1:16
on and on. But Id like to mention something that the 8. President Gordon B. Hinckley, then president of the
Prophet said when he was here8 a few years ago: the Church, spoke at a regional conference in Dustins
five bes that he told us to be in his talk: hometown, Charlotte, on Sunday, 25 February 1996. The
regional conference was held in the Charlotte Coliseum,
1. Be grateful. which, notably, is where Dustins high-school graduation
2. Be clean. also took place. The Coliseum was demolished on 3 June
3. Be smart. 2007.
9. President Hinckley added to this list in later talks and in his
4. Be true.
PAINTING OF PRESIDENT book Way to Be!
5. Be humble.9 KIMBALL BY JUDITH A. MEHR,
COURTESY OF
THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST Also check out Ten Things to Know Before You Go by
Follow these words of advice from the Prophet OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS President James E. Faust, The New Era, July 2002, page 4
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few months after we moved to New
A York, I was on the L train on my way to
school in the morning. I was standing near
one of the doors when I realized something was
happening near the next set of doors. Im not sure
if I heard something, or if I noticed everyone else
looking, but I looked in that direction and realized
that a girl, probably in middle school, was throwing
up on the floor. No one moved. She was by herself
(meaning that she wasnt with a friend or a parent,
though obviously she wasnt actually all alone). I
couldnt believe that no one was doing anything at all.
Some people looked at her, and others sort of tried
to ignore her. But no one did or said anything. So I
walked over and asked if I could do something for
her. Of course I couldnt really do much; what can
you ever do for someone whos throwing up? But one
thing you can do is make sure they dont feel all alone,
which Im sure she did at that moment. She asked
if I had a tissue. I didnt, so I asked everyone else
around if they had one. Three or four people offered
up tissues and napkins. Another lady offered her a
cough drop to take the taste out of her mouth. I asked
if she was going to school or going home, and she said
she had to go to school because she had a test. For
Even in a city full of strangers goodness sake, she did not need to go to school, and
I told her that her teacher wouldnt mind her staying
others in need dont have to suffer home if shes sick, but she said she had to go.
BY SUSAN
I have thought before that it would be kind of awful
for my water to break on the subway when Im
all alone, meaning that everyone around me is a
stranger. It is just beyond awkward to have some
kind of sudden physical problem, especially a messy
one, around strangers. I decided that if I ever see
a womans water break in public, I will introduce
myself and hang out with her until she gets where she
needs to go or someone she knows arrives, because I
know I wouldnt want to be all alone in a situation
like that. Very often, we cant fix someones problems,
but we can be there with them so they dont have to
deal with those problems alone. d
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SUSAN 2 July 2014, 20.17 DUSTIN 3 August 2014, 19.58 DUSTIN 19 August 2014, 23.26
Impressive, eh? The past three days have been among Is it inappropriate to put pork barbecue on
the greatest in my life, because Ive had a a challah roll?
chocolate milkshake each day.
DUSTIN 22 August 2014, 22.39
Also because, each time I do, the song Now, 63 chapters, 1,975 verses, and Ive lost
Milkshake by Kelis starts running through track of how many months later, we are
my head. finally done reading Alma with Fiona.
DUSTIN 5 August 2014, 19.07 SUSAN, 23 August 2014, 22.36
Ive come to the sad realization that new I think the time has finally come for me
clothes cant make me look younger. They to dispose of my ion flashcards from AP
can, however, make me look cooler. So, Chemistry. And, in case youre wondering
even if I still look like a thirty-something tooI have no idea what chemical I spilled
dad, at least Im a cool-looking thirty- on them to make those brown spots.
SUSAN DUSTIN 7 July 2014, 17.20 something dad.
Fiona just walked up and gave me a hug and SUSAN 6 August 2014, 11.27
said, Im so glad you fixed the toilet paper Mom, hes in a hot air balloon!
holder! and walked away.
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@SEOIGH 8 July 2014, 20.42
This place.
#Manhattan #NYC #Mormon #LDS
your foot to extinguish it, you lazy jerk. @SEOIGH 2 July 2014, 16.16
Just ate too many Oreos in less than 24
DUSTIN 28 August 2014, 9.51 hours. (Of course, is that really possible? Is
On a sheet from the CDC that Susan and I too many Oreos a known quantity in the
received at Fionas pre-k orientation: universe?)
Act early by talking to your childs doctor if
your child Resists dressing, sleeping, and @SEOIGH 3 July 2014, 17.18
using the toilet Should I mock someone who pronounces
tomatillo as if it were an English word?
Um, there are four-year-olds who DONT
resist doing those things? Those exist?! @SEOIGH 3 July 2014, 18.54
Resisting the urge to go to Target just
DUSTIN 29 August 2014, 12.35 because its there.
You know the United States Postal Service @SEOIGH 15 August 2014, 13.03
has seen better days when you can say, Oh, @SEOIGH 4 July 2014, 17.21 Love the #DCMetro. Do not miss the
theres a crappy building. Must be the post I love that its the #4thofJuly and Im cold. annoying doors closing voice.
office Im looking for. And youre right. #NYC #weather #DC
DUSTIN 8 September 2014, 9.32 @SEOIGH 5 July 2014, 9.01 @SEOIGH 28 August 2014, 9.00
Fionas first full day of pre-k. Its 5 July and Im sitting here with a I have come to learn that right of way
Okay, so Ill admit it: its more emotional sweatshirt on. does not exist in the New Yorkers
than I thought it would be. #NYC #weather #loveit vocabulary. They either give it or take it
@SEOIGH 8 July 2014, 17.51 when they shouldnt.
SUSAN 12 September 2014, 22.27
Time for our bye bye pacifier sleepover! Showtime is the most dreadful word in @SEOIGH 29 August 2014, 8.58
the English language. @krispykreme > @DunkinDonuts
#NYC #NYCsubway
Just saying.
@SEOIGH 24 July 2014, 20.08 #donuts #orisitdoughnuts
This is the main reason I donate blood: an
excuse to eat these. (And all they cost was a @SEOIGH 29 August 2014, 12.29
pint of blood!) You know @USPS is in trouble when you
can say, Oh, theres a crappy building.
Must be the post office Im looking for.
And youre right.
Now, lest you feel sorry for Susan, dont @SEOIGH 18 September 2014, 13.13
worry: in a week or two, Fiona will switch Cant say Id want to do it all the time, but
and say that her mother is her favorite @SEOIGH 5 August 2014, 22.10 sometimes sitting here and spending the
person. Its sort of what she does. In the The evidence is mounting that the day playing the stock market is sort of fun.
meantime, Im happy to claim the title for #Bushwick #postoffice, 1369 Broadway,
now. @SEOIGH 24 September 2014, 10.28
#Brooklyn, is the worst one in the country. Just attended my first PTA meeting as a
DUSTIN 29 September 2014, 22.43 #NYC @USPS parent. It may be my last.
Sometimes living in New York has its @SEOIGH 11 August 2014, 8.13
advantages. Like when the state pays you @SEOIGH 25 September 2014, 16.26
Is it just me, or does holding a CD induce Made it to #BayHead on @NJTRANSITs
$350 to convince you that taxes arent too a tinge of nostalgia, like holding some relic
high. North Jersey Coast Line. 1,222 mi/1,966.6
from a bygone era? km/89% of #1380miles completed. #NJCL
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@DTJOYCE 23 August 2014 @DTJOYCE 20 September 2014 @DTJOYCE 26 September 2014
Just something we ran across in the Roosevelt Island Tramway Jefferson Market Library
neighborhood. Its pretty rare to find a car First Avenue, Manhattan. No matter how many Im grateful to live in a place where public
thats as short as a four-year-old. times I ride this, these views never get old. libraries look like this.
First day of
school. Ever.
8 September 2014, 15.02 edt
Fiona is excited after a
successful first-ever day of
school. She is in Ms. Gomezs
prekindergarten class at P.S. 147
Isaac Remsen here in Brooklyn.
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Wiehle-Reston East
The first phase of the D.C. Metros long-awaited Silver Line finally opened 26 July. Dustin and Fiona spent the
weekend with Nana, Randy, and Amanda at their home in Frederick, Maryland, 1417 August. Of course Dustin
and Fiona went to check out the new line and the five stations in its first phase. Wiehle-Reston East is the lines
current western terminus, though phase 2 will add six additional stations and take the Silver Line into Loudoun
County, Virginia, via a stop at Washington Dulles International Airport. Phase 2 is projected to open in 2018.
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