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Vigilance in his absence

The first right the husband has on the wife is that she should keep a firm vigil, in his
absence, over everything that belongs to him.

A Muslim wife must protect her husbands secrets, privacies, honor and dignity.
She also must protect his wealth, children, finance, belongings and other aspects
of his household, as much as possible.
Allah Almighty Says in the same verse (what means): "...So righteous women are
devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have
them guard..." [Quran 4:34]

Allah's Messenger said: "The wife is the guardian over the house of her
husband and his children." [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
And, If I were to command a single person to bow in prostration to another
person, I could have commanded a woman to bow down (in obedience and
respect, not in worship) to her husband. [Abu Daawood]

He furthermore, said: "Their (husbands') rights over you (wives) is that you do
not allow anyone whom they dislike onto your bedding and you do not allow
anyone whom they dislike into your house." [At-Tirmithi]
The wife must not leave the house except with her husband's permission and
approval. She must also lower her gaze, keep her voice low, keep her hands from
reaching out to anything evil and keep her tongue from any lewd or foul speech.
She also must not harm his parents or near relatives.
In another verse, Allah Sayas (what means): "And tell the believing women to
reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their
adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof..."[Quran 24:31]
Obedience

Good women have also to be obedient to husbands. The details of this general
commandment have been given by the Holy Prophet :

"Their (husbands') rights over you (wives) is that you do not allow anyone
whom they dislike onto your bedding and you do not allow anyone whom they
dislike into your house." [At-Tirmithi]
The wife has no right to give away anything from his home without his permission.
In case she does this, the man gets the reward for the charity and the woman will
bear the burden of sin. Nor can she leaves the home without his permission.

Allaah's Messenger said:


"The best woman is the one who when you look at her, you are pleased;
when you order her, she obeys; if you are absent from her, she guards herself and
your property." [At-Tabarani]
The general mandate for obedience has only one exception, i.e, if the husband tells
her not to offer the obligatory prayers, or not to keep the obligatory fasts or to
drink liquor, or to give up the prescribed veil, and to indulge in indecencies, she is
duty bound to reject such orders. No one has the right to force anyone to violate
the commandments of Allah, the Almighty, with this exception the wife must obey
her husband in all cases.

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