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Reflection
The skill I feel most comfortable with when it comes to addressing student conflict
directly is constructive assertiveness. The book describes it as relaying your concerns clearly and
insisting that misbehavior be corrected. One of the key parts that I took away from the class text
was that the teacher must resist being coerced or manipulated by students when they are
approached in a corrective sense. I believe that in the classroom it is important for the teacher to
have control and respect. In order to have a functional and successful classroom I believe that it
is important to have a structured well organized classroom that is based around respect.
In order to obtain constructive assertiveness in the classroom, the student needs to
understand that the teacher is in charge. Though the classroom is an environment for students to
explore their individuality and branch out to create their own identity, they still have to maintain
some form of respect for authority. Without authority I the classroom, then students will no
longer see the teacher as a person who is in charge, they view them as an equal. For a teacher to
ensure that they have control of the classroom they must create a bond with students. This bond
allows the teacher and student to understand when they have crossed their bounds and have
pushed too far, this minimizes the need for constructive assertiveness and sets up a strong
relationship between student and teacher.
Often times in a classroom, I feel like when I am being constructive and assertive that I
am being mean to students. I want to give in right away to their pleas and excuses. I think that is
human nature, we natural want to forgive the student and see the good that someone has to offer.
However when we do this it gives students the go-ahead and allows then to further their negative
behavior. Constructive and well thought out criticism allows students to review their own actions
and see how they can further themselves. By giving the student constructive assertiveness it
grants them the opportunity to look inward and find their own fault and how to improve. Yelling
and screaming at a student to get your way, will not get you far, it doesnt give them time to
reflect on their actions, it just gives them times to react.
One skill in the classroom that I need to improve on is empathetic responding. Though I
know as a teacher this may be a bad skill to have, personally I find it hard to view things from
another persons perspective. Some teachers in the classroom always want to be right, and I think
that for me in the classroom it will be important for me to not feel the need to always be right.
Clearly I know that there are two sides to every story and that often times the only way to settle
an argument is to find a compromise. In order to help better myself.
I think that in order for a teacher to be successful in the classroom they must successfully
utilize all three skills that are listed in the text book. To further myself and push myself to be a
better teacher I hope to one day fully master each of the skills that were listed. Though I have
troubles being empathetic, I am a kind hearted person and always try to see the best in people, by
using this gift I intend to be more empathetic and find solutions to the problems at hand. By
using each of the three skills I hope to create a well-rounded, fair, and respectful class full of
students.