Preparation Section:
Strengthening
Your Seduction
Foundation!
In this section you'11 find...
How to Embrace a Winning Attitude with Women!!!
Turning Approach Anxiety Into Approach Eagerness!!!
The Pussy Pyramid to Let AH Interactions Serve You!!!
Set an Intelligent Intent for Who You Want to Be Around Women,
What Kind of Women You Want to Welcome in Your World, and
What You Want to Enjoy With Such Women!!!
The Perception Equalization Ritual to Start to Accept Yourself As
You Are, the Way You Are!!!
The Three Ongoing Seduction Success Preparation Steps:
1. Playfulness! 2. Positioning! 3. Paying attention!!!
Preparation Section Fun Assignment for Immediate Application!!!
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The greatest lover of all time. So smart, supportive, sexy and superb
Impeccable in every possible ways. The in every way. Most beautiful woman
most amazing source of ecstatic inside and outside. So talented,
satisfaction and everlasting pleasure. naturally enlightened, deeply caring,
Completely committed to sensational always constructive, positive and
seduction, sensuality and support! optimistic, a true Goddess!
Don't let the shadow of past experiences come in the way of the
flow of what you can have today, instead, let the future
reflection of the rays of the best that can be lead the way!
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2. Think of what kind of women you know you can have for sure, the typical kind
of women you've had in the past (if any??? But if not, it's ok too), with whom
there would be at least some sense of being pretty much equal, then write down
what it's like for you then, how you would think and act, and so on.
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Exercise #4: [In the room], share with your neighbor something
captivating about today! [At home], do it during conversations today!!!
2. Positioning! There's three aspects of positioning well improve...
A. Increase Immediate Proximity: For example, arriving at a restaurant, ask
for the table closer to a group of women you noticed. Readjust your path to
pass by closer to women (this of course has to be done intelligently, and time
and location must be taking into consideration. It is not about freaking them
out, or looking suspicious).
Exercise # 5: During the break, notice women that used to not make you feel so
comfortable, pass by closer than you normally would (without appearing
suspicious), then slightly slow down as you're next to her/them, breath out
pleasantly, smile gently, relax your shoulders, and focus on being at least a bit
more relaxed and redirecting your energy. Advanced students, do go for an opener,
and beginners, stick with just passing by feeling at least a bit more at ease!
B. Maximize Existing Opportunities: Become more aware of all existing
opportunity that you could take advantage of during your day without changing
a thing! For example, connecting in elevators, restaurants, fast food places,
traffic, while shopping, running errands, etc... Then, ask yourself, "what
simple steps could I add to increase those opportunities?" For example, eat our
rather than home, drive with windows down, ready to talk, wait for the next
elevator if you notice women arriving behind you, too far to catch this one, get
a female hair dresser etc.
C. Create a Route to Benefit from Repeated Exposure: Whatever your
preferred style is, night or day game (ideally both), select a few nearby
locations and visit regularly to built a supportive "rep" and benefit from
knowing the people there so you more easily get introduced to new people and
it also serves you as social proof by being the popular guy everyone knows and
likes. Your options to do that can range from bars, clubs and restaurants, to
coffee chops, specific stores, malls and library, to name just a few).
Assignment once you're back home (or within two days for those who are
watching at home), is to select at least 3 locations near by and start by passing by
and practicing feeling good in those places, even if you don't right away talk to
women! 10.
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Exercise #2: Now create your own power intention triad, Page 7!
Exercise #3: Answer the following questions, then condition a new sense
of self-approval as Vince takes you through the ritual, Page 8!
Exercise #4: [In the room], share with your neighbor something
captivating about today! [At home], do it during conversations today,
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Section One:
Approach
Any Woman
At Any Time,
Anywhere!
In this section you'll find...
Give Yourself More Options to Practice Approaching Women!!!
How to Better Deal With the Three Main Areas of Discomfort
Women Tend to Run Into!!!
Seven Main Possible Initial Responses!!!
Eight Steps Super Seduction System, Part One!!!
Smooth Ways to Slide Yourself Inside Their Mind and Penetrate
Their Reality!!!
Seven Top Tips to Put Together Powerful Openers!!!
Section One Fun Assignment for Immediate Application!!!
Be fair to all those horny women out there,
don't keep them waiting any longer!!!
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1. Initial Impact!
To avoid being perceived as a distraction or interruption, and instead to become
a source of interest and priority, it helps to be aware of where she's at, and pace
what she's going through, so indirectly, her first response to you is one of
agreement. For example, "I know we don't know each other, yet..."
Delivery is also key. We'll learn in just a moment how to best enter a woman's
reality in a way that is smooth and pleasant for both.
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S m o o t h W a y s to Slide Yourself
Inside T h e i r M i n d a n d Penetrate Their Reality!!!
To avoid coming across as an annoyance (unless it serves to do so), to generate a
smoother response from the start, it will pay off to pay attention to what she's
paying a attention to!!!
Happy to be there
Wishing to be elsewhere
When Part of A Group
Leading or being lead
There based on her own decision or somebody else's decision
Familiar with everyone or not
Familiar with location or first time there
If two or more women are present, how long have they known each other
The more you notice, the more you can comment on and the longer the
conversation and the greater the intrigue will tend to be!
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Instructions: With your partner (or in front of the mirror at home), practice each
of the following delivery options:
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Exercise #7: Now it's your turn to come up with the next few most
attainable steps for you, Page 16!
Exercise #10: GET YOUR ASS OUT THERE, and start to playfully pay
attention to all that we covered so far, and have fun applying at least
some of it, for experimentation and familiarization, knowing that it is not
final! Notice, there is NO PAGE # for this exercise, BECAUSE YOU
WON'T FIND THIS EXERCISE ON A PAGE, COME, GET YOUR
ASS OUT THERE!!! When NOW will be the best time to DO THAT!!!
As you start to take it to the field, you will come across many responses! Be wise,
and treat it all as an awesome study and an opportunity to constantly refine!
On the next page, write on the left side any unexpected responses, and on the right
side, three ideas of what you could say in such situation. Your comebacks don't
have to be that sophisticated, since the purpose is to start to condition your mind to
think "What could I have said, or say"!
Hurry NOW, get your sexy ass out there, it would be too
rude of you to much longer deprive those cock craving
hotties out there of your divine presence!!!
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Section Two:
Top Techniques
to Continue the
Conversation!
In this section you'll find...
Seven Steps Super Seduction System, Part Two!!!
The Infamous Handshake Analysis!!!
Four Main Elicitation Questions to Further Continue the
Conversation and Gather Deeper Structure Information!!!
Super Sequence to Continue the Conversation!!!
Putting Short, Simple Patterns Together!!!
The Deeper Purpose of The Pickup Process!!!
The Purpose of Doing Demos!!!
Designing Your Own Demos!!!
Section Two Fun Assignment for Immediate Application!!!
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Seven Steps Super Seduction System, Part Two (Steps 4, 5 and 6)!!!
4. Intrigue/Interest
Hand shake analysis
It's interesting how you answered, because it reveals something about you that
you probably aren't even aware of...
I don't know if you're aware of it, yet you slightly tilt your head when you
listen! Most people don't realize it, but we all have a preferred ear to listen, to
me, it seems that I can tell which one is your! [lead into the preferred hear
demos]
Generate more intrigue and give her more reasons why she must see you again or
stay longer there and then! For that...
REVEAL ONLY PARTIAL INFORMATION ABOUT HER,
AND PRE-ANNOUNCE THAT THERE IS MORE!
Yes, I am picking up more stuff about you, you'll have to ask me more, you
would really also love the chakra reading I do, it's too bad we don't have
enough time for this now.
5. Pacing Possible Problem
"Anyway, you're probably on your way somewhere, and I kind of have to go
myself..."
6. Use Situation
If she says she has to go, move to step 7, if she says she doesn't have to go,
continue, eventually relocate her slightly (site her down, move her out of the
way, etc.), do mention you don't have very much time, yet stay!
At this point, most girls will say, "Tell me, tell me? ", and if she doesn't ask, unless
you want to disqualify her, then just volunteer it because...
You cannot wait for the world to take you by the hand and
get you laid, you just must create that reality for yourself!!!
Then...Like if you were to ask me, I would say...
Three Main Categories of Responses
Firm/rapid handshake
You are a person when there is something that you want, me, I don't know what it
may be, yet I can tell that you find yourself wanting to go for it!
Calm/comfortable handshake
You are a person you can find yourself comfortable quickly and when you choose
to be at ease now, you can truly relax and enjoy yourself!
Shy/hesitant handshake
You are a person when you are exposed to something new, it may take you just a
little bit of time to now realize for yourself that this is safe! And when you do, you
can start to relax and be a little bit more comfortable...
Note: You don't have to do the whole routine right away, start by simply saying that she
has an interesting handshake, and add to it each time that you do it again with women!
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Outline and explanation of the three step process to put short patterns
together on the spot!
Chick is most excited about going to Europe for the Summer, and that is really
relevant and exciting to her. After you further inquire, she tells you that the reason
she's most excited about her tip, is that she's been waiting for this for this vacation
to happen forever. You let go of the details (Europe, trip, vacation, instead focus
on the core topic of having been waiting for THIS to happen for what seem like
forever. Now you have a topic that is still linked to what she was saying so it's a
smooth conversation that makes sense, she's attached to it, and excited about it,
and on top of that it's pure gold material to serve the seduction and start to link all
those good feelings to you.
Exercise #13: Follow the H.I.H., E.C.T., and A.U.U. tree step on the spot
pattern building with your partner, wingman and of course sexy female
strangers, then write what you came up with for each step!
1. Identify Highest Interest (I.H.I.)
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2. Deepen her desire to be with you there and then and/or again!
Exercise #15: List the start of some Demo ideas you may and will have
(use the above question to open your mind to your own creativity...)
Super learning tip sample from Vince's Learning Loop: Certain things
in life must only be done once everything is perfectly into place.
Examples of that would be brain surgery, the launching of a shuttle,
and so on. Other things in life work better when you get started and
take a first step even if not perfect, such as sketching the outline of a
painting, composing a song, and also mastering seduction!
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Exercise #12: Pick a partner and take turns going through the super
sequence to continue the conversation, Page 29! To do those exercises at
home, Contact us to find out if we can hook you up with a practice buddy in your
area, so you can then also become each other's wing man!
Exercise #13: Follow the H.I.H., E.C.T., and A.U.U. tree step on the spot
pattern building with your partner, wingman and of course sexy female
strangers, then write what you came up with for each step, Page 31!
Exercise #15: List the start of some Demo ideas you may and will have,
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Bonus material mastery tip from Vince's Learning Loop: Some thing in
life require that we first have all the steps perfectly together before we
begin, such as brain surgery and the launching of a space shuttle. While
other thins in life work better when we simply start to take steps, even if
not perfectly at first, such a sketching the 1 st outline of a drawing and
starting to write a new song. Becoming super good at picking up and
bedding hot babes is more like the second one, you take a step, then
readjust.
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Section Three:
Hypnotic Seductive
Language and
Patterns!
In this section you 11 find...
Trance Words and Personal Jargon as Well As Language Deeper
Structure!!!
The Purpose of Pacing then Leading!!!
How to Use Truism, Links, Binds and Enhancers!!!
Embedded Commands!!!
Use Negation to Turn Around Objections!!!
Presuppositions to Assume the Seduction!!!
Pronouns and Time Shifts!!!
Ambiguity!!!
Seductive Storytelling: Quotes, Metaphors and Analogies!!!
Section Three Fun Assignment for Immediate Application!!!
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Links
Purpose: Enhance acceptance of the unfamiliar by linking it to the familiar.
Formula: "As you do X (and X), you do Y?" X = familiar, Y = new request.
Example: "As we just met, and we don't know each other yet, we'll soon be more
comfortable with each other."
Double Binds
Purpose: Create the illusion of choice by presenting two options that lead to the
same outcome.
Formula: "Would you rather do X [desired behavior] this way or that way?"
Example: "Shall we hang out again this week or this weekend?"
Enhancers
Purpose: To enhance and/or deepen and/or speed up the result.
Formula: "The more , the more ."
Example: "The more we know each other, the stronger we can connect."
Other examples of enhancer: "All the way..." "way down..." "even more..."
Embedded Commands
Definition: A command hidden within a sentence
Purpose: To bypass critical functions.
Example: "Sometimes people will out of the blue DO SOMETHING MORE
ADVENTUROUS."
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Presuppositions of Quantity:
Also
Other
The other
Next
The next one
Another thing
Which
Which one
What (which) other
With whom
How many/How often
All
One
Each
Both
First, second, third, etc.
Presuppositions of Experience and Awareness:
Feel
Sense
Experience
Embrace
Notice
Realize
Recognize
Find out
Find yourself
Imagine
Presuppositions of Choice:
Choose
Allow
Give permission
You can/You can't
You wish
You could/You may/You might
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Truism
Link
Double Bind
Enhancer
Embedded Command
Negation
Presuppositions of Time
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Presuppositions of Reason
Presuppositions of Quantity
Presuppositions of Choice
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Scope Ambiguity
Example: "Speaking to you as a person who's more open..."
Create your own example:
Syntactic Ambiguity
Examples: "Transforming mind technologies..." or "The soothing sound of nature
and my voice..."
Create your own example:
Content Ambiguity
Examples: "As I hold your hand, you can feel my fingers on the inside..." or "You
can let those feeling come all over your body!"
Create your own example:
Phonetic Ambiguity
Examples: "It's exciting to be turned onto new thing, because sometimes if feels so
good to take on a new direction, especially when it's been so hard for a long time,
it's good to finally come to that place of deeper relief! It's as you were to spread so
wide an imaginary set of wings..."
Create your own example:
Meaning Ambiguity
Examples: "Turned on."
Create your own example:
Punctuation Ambiguity
Example: "You say you are feeling truly connect. To me, it makes sense that
you would..."
Create your own example:
Tonal Ambiguity
Example: "Of course, you cannot do that [said as if saying the opposite]..."
Create your own example:
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Unfamiliar Familiar
Resistance Acceptance
Disempowering Empowering
Equation Equation
Isolation Implementation
of-Meta-Message of+Meta-Message
Shift of Context
Key Question:
In what other context that is more familiar
has the person already accepted the opposite understanding?
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Exercise #18: Create an example for each form of ambiguity, Page 43!
Bonus Exercise #19: Using a classic objection such as "I have a bore
friend" or I don't kiss on a first date", or "Let's just be friend", and
put together your own example of the V-Model Reframing System,
Page 44!
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Section Four:
Taking It
All the Way
Into a Number, Kiss,
and Fuck Close!!!
In this section you'll find...
Seven Steps Super Seduction System, Part Three!!!
Three Top Tips to Close them More Rapidly!!!
Wrapping Up The Deal: Finding out how smart she really is!!!
Planting the Seeds to Get Her Ready!!!
The Six Levels of Closing Her/Them!!!
Getting Them to Eagerly Call Back!!!
Vince's Personal Call Back Approach!
Section Four Fun Assignment for Immediate Application!!!
Seven Steps Super Seduction System, Part Three (Steps 7 -8) !!!
7. Structure Opportunity
Preparation for those who are not so at ease closing yet, at least take the lead
and wrap it up with ease, solidity and a smile!
Test close: "This is such an interesting conversation, it's too bad we don't have
more time, I am almost tempted to suggest we hang out some more.. .and if we
did, we could...[option to lead into the next one]
Close: "This is such an interesting conversation, what steps can we take to
continue this at some other time?"
8. Pre-Rehearsed Recovery
Have no specific expectation of what she should or shouldn't say!
Be prepared to play with whatever she may say!
Ease up and breath as she answers, to induce her into relaxation!
Break her pattern using humor (for example, "Oh, you were doing so good up
until now, come on, you can do better than that" or "Oh, you thought I was
flirting with you!!!" or "God, you do that so well, were did you learn how to do
that!!! LOL, I bet lots of guys buy into that and run away with their tail
between their legs!!!" and/or "Oh you got to teach me a to answer like that to a
guy, my niece just turned 18,1 want to help her out, she's got lots of guys
around her"!
Balance the humor with compassion and caring, soften your voice, relax your
body and say "seriously, I am aware that it is not always comfortable right
away when two people start to connect, yet you seem to be a rather interesting
person, that is why, it be fun to just hang out again"!
Exercise #20: Think of answers from chicks that would throw you off,
up until now. Have your partner say that answer to you and practice
keeping cool and playing with "NO" answers!
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Be certain to...
REHEARSE CLOSING! PRACTICE CLOSING RIGHT AWAY!
Exercise #21: Practice the "Opportunity to hang out with a really cool
new person going once, going twice, GONE" routine, as explained
during the boot camp"
Wrapping Up The Deal: Finding out how smart she really is!
The "I win no matter what model":
In which you either...
Get laid (or other enjoyable physical reward)!
Have fun connecting with another human being!
Gain very helpful learning!
Practice walking away stronger and smarter!
Exercise #22: Rename and reframe the close, in a way that allows you to
only succeed!
New name: New Frame:
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2. Emotional examples:
Calibration: observe her breathing, facial expression etc...
Ratification: on a scale from 1 to 10 and beyond, how much of those special
feelings are you feeling now?
3. Physical examples:
Massage: notice were she feels tense, mention it and slowly start to massage
her to notice her response.
Conversational touch: just as many people normally do during conversation,
touch her on the lap briefly and then lengthened the process to observe her
openness to it.
Curiosity touch: if she is wearing jewelry or has tattoos or some piercing,
reach for the object or tattoo and touch it while asking a question about it.
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2. Test close
"I am almost tempted to suggest we X...
3. Negation
"It's too bad we won't have another opportunity to hang out some more very
soon..."
4. Presupposition
"But if we did, it would be pretty cool to do X, and we could X..."
5. Assumption
"I tell you what, I am pretty busy myself, yet..."
6. Action
"What would you say is the best way for us to hang out again..."
Exercise #23: Go in the field and practice at least the first level of
closing, ideally all six!
If you aim for the phone #, you may or may not get it,
but when you aim beyond the phone number and get your aim,
you'll get the number anyway!!!
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Exercise #21: Practice the "Opportunity to hang out with a really cool
new person going once, going twice, GONE" routine, as explained
during the boot camp"!
Exercise #22: Rename and reframe the close, in a way that allows you to
only succeed, Page 48!
Exercise #23: Go in the field and practice at least the first level of
closing, ideally all six!
There's always
plenty juicy quality
available for me!!!
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