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A guide for use with the advertising and welcoming ministries of your church
LIVING OUR
PROMISE
THROUGH YOU
HANDBOOK
Nashville, Tennessee
810 12th Avenue South
Nashville, TN 37203-4744
(615) 742-5400
First printing, March 2001, Revised 2006
Printed in the United States of America.
Prepared with assistance from the General Board of Discipleship in Nashville, TN.
All biblical quotations are from the New Revised Standard Version unless otherwise
noted.
Principal writers:
Barbara Nissen
Steve Horswill-Johnston
Contributing writers:
Charlene Bailey
Shirley F. Clement
Scott Ellis
Larry Hollon
Arvin R. Luchs
Craig Kennet Miller
Sam Ostrow
Emily Reece
Roger K. Swanson
Jackie Vaughan
Producer:
Steve Horswill-Johnston
Designer:
Robert Mott & Associates Graphic Communications • Keswick, Virginia
Editor:
Karen Risch, Just Write Literary and Editorial Partners • Keswick, Virginia
Churches can support Igniting Ministry by paying 100 percent of their World Service apportionments.
Individuals or groups can extend the impact of Igniting Ministry through gifts to The Foundation for United
Methodist Communications. These gifts may be directed toward supporting training, helping new churches, or
placing local or regional broadcast spots or radio, print and billboard ads. In addition, the Foundation can
establish challenge gifts or help with estate planning. For more information on how financial gifts can increase
the impact of Igniting Ministry, contact The Foundation for United Methodist Communications, P.O. Box
440228, Nashville, TN 37244-0228, or call (615)742-5776.
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Contents
Preface . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .v
Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .xi
About Igniting Ministry • What to Expect • How to Use This Handbook
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Preface
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Since newcomers to the church often see us first before they come into
the presence of our Lord and Savior, this resource is designed to help your
congregation deliver on the campaign promise:
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ur spiritual forebears, John Wesley, Jacob Albright and
Philip William Otterbein, shared a passion for
evangelism. They worked and prayed for people to
open their souls to God’s grace, to be reconciled to God and one
another and to become disciples in a community of believers.
The process was understood as a symphony in three movements.
The first notes were proclamation and invitation. The second
movement crescendoed to the new believer’s acceptance of God’s
forgiveness and repentance. It resolved in the third movement:
lifelong dedication to spiritual growth, compassionate outreach
and disciplined living.
The earliest members of Wesleyan, Evangelical and United Brethren
movements were known for the energy and innovation with which they
invited people to Christ and welcomed them to their circle. They took every
opportunity and used every means at their disposal to proclaim God’s love.
Igniting Ministry
They spoke to the heart in practical ways, using the popular media of the
faithfully carries day: print, song and preaching. They steadfastly refused to let their words
our traditions to be confined to the sanctuary and classroom. So God’s Word was shared
with the masses in the streets of England, the British Isles, the colonies in
the 21st century. America and eventually around the world.
Igniting Ministry faithfully carries our traditions to the 21st century. It
emphasizes the first movement of the symphony of grace. Like the hymns
and field preaching of 18th-century England, the messages are designed to
go beyond the people already in our congregations to invite the
unchurched and marginally churched to respond.
Introduction
A
busy mom drives her kids home from a soccer game and
pauses long enough to reconsider the invitation of a
friend to visit her church, as well as the meaning of a
message she’d seen on TV and just saw again on a billboard. It
feels like a coincidence, but she knows better. Donna realizes that
God’s love is for them, for her family, and that the people of The
United Methodist Church want to
touch her life because they care.
Meanwhile, the doors of United Methodist
churches everywhere open wide to welcome
worshippers. There is joy and expectancy,
anticipation that something good is about to
happen. In particular, members of the United
Methodist congregation in the town where Donna
lives are excited to be part of a uniting force of love.
They are proud to be part of this church, this community, this Members of the town’s
concerted effort to bring guests into God’s house, so pleased that they are United Methodist
intentionally trying to be a more welcoming congregation. And, because of congregation are
the ads and the emphasis on welcoming, it’s even easier now for members excited to be part of a
to invite others to experience the community in which they worship, learn, uniting force of love.
share, laugh and cry.
When the bells ring at the church, members reach out with their hands
and hearts to everyone in their midst—newcomers, disconnected members,
second-time guests—to a mom and her children dressed as if they just
came from a soccer game.
The congregation remembers the promise the church has made to be
welcoming, to share the Good News of Jesus’ life and resurrection in a way
everyone can understand, and the promise to reach out and help those who
are hurting and questioning.
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Over time, the number tells people in membership classes and worship
services the story of those committed to reaching out and sharing the
gospel in word and deed—and so do the people of this United
Methodist church. ■
What to Expect
Igniting Ministry is a vital missional initiative to share the Good News
of God’s redeeming love to all people, inviting them into one of our
worshipping congregations. The campaign promise, “Our hearts, our
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Open Hearts
Creating a Welcoming Congregation
1
Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers,
for by doing that some have entertained angels
without knowing it.
H E B R E W S 1 3 : 2
A
woman in her 40s moved to a new town,
population 4,500. Although she worked in a city
35 miles away, this was the first time she’d lived in a
community this small. The town had doubled its size in less
than 10 years and was experiencing growing pains,
not the least of which was that the natives
regarded newcomers as interlopers.
Laura was interested in attending the United Methodist
church she’d seen advertised in the community newspaper. On
Sunday morning, she drove to Main Street. There she found two
churches. Neither had a visible address and neither had a sign
indicating its denomination. Comparing the drawing of the
church in the newspaper ad to the two churches hardly helped.
Finally, she decided upon the wooden frame church.
She found what she hoped was a legal parking space behind
the church and walked through the grass and around to the front
door. She was late and the church pews were filled. Feeling self-
conscious, she sat down in the only seat she could see: the very last pew, During the service,
which was cluttered with hymnals, papers, offering plates and other items choir members kept
for the morning. At last she discovered she was in a United Methodist staring at her. She
church. began to feel uneasy.
During the service, choir members kept staring at her. She began to feel Perhaps she wasn’t
uneasy. Perhaps she wasn’t supposed to be sitting there, or maybe even be supposed to be
there. Or was it the way she was dressed or how she looked? As confident as sitting there, or
Laura was, she felt uncomfortable. She smiled. The choir members maybe even be there.
continued to stare.
During a time in the service when church members were to greet each
other, a couple of people from the choir made their way to the back of the
church to greet her. Oh, that’s why they were staring at her. They must have
been the official greeters. When it was time to go to the front for
communion, Laura was embarrassed because she didn’t know when she
was supposed to go and what to do once she had taken the sacraments.
Some people were kneeling. Others returned to their seats immediately.
Someone in a pew across from her hissed, “Go! Go!” and motioned her
to get in line. They had been waiting for her to move so they could take
their places. Laura had been a United Methodist all of her life and had
attended church regularly. But everything was different here.
On the newcomers’ card that the choir member had given her was a
place to indicate a desire for a pastoral visit. Laura marked it. After the
service, no one approached her. No one her age acknowledged her. No one
asked if she needed anything. And the pastor didn’t call even after she
returned to the church two more times.
Each time Laura visited this church, she received a gracious welcome
from two members of the choir. She mentioned that she traveled a great
deal but would like to know how she could be involved. They gave her a
brochure. Each time, she marked that she would like the pastor to call.
No one did. ■
Hospitality As Ministry
How does your church welcome people? Is the welcome little more than
the initial encounter, or does the lifestyle of your church bring new people
into Christian community, disciple them and send them out?
Welcoming has everything to do with how we make people feel. Are
they comfortable? Physically, psychologically and spiritually, from the
appearance of the facility . . . to the ease of finding the appropriate place . . .
to being greeted and accepted yet not smothered . . . to feeling the joy and
anticipation of the congregation and the experience of God’s grace . . . to a
worship service that makes sense . . . to a sense of opportunities for personal
and spiritual growth?
Remember a time when you have been a stranger and Watch Your Language
what made you feel cared for and accepted. Recalling those
elcoming newcomers
situations each time you meet someone new will make you
sensitive. Welcoming starts with being attuned to the needs
W
requires different methods
of communication. For example,
and hopes of people. When someone walks through the door we may use terms like narthex and
of a church, the first question is cultural: “Is there anyone sanctuary. Others may not know
here like me?” those terms. To reach out to
The answer of the welcoming congregation is, “There are everyone, we need to be willing to
many like you. We welcome you no matter who you are.” use terms like hallway and worship
center.
The second question is more personal: “Is there anyone
here who is interested in me?”
If the answer is no because the congregation is not prepared to receive
the guest hospitably, then the newcomer will look elsewhere—or may not
look again. But when a congregation is involved in a welcoming ministry,
the answer is “Yes, we are interested in you. Our hearts, our minds and our
doors are always open to you.” The message is clear.
The pitfall for many churches is that we think we are friendly because
we are friendly to each other. In developing a welcoming ministry, we must
begin to see ourselves as others do. Activities to help you look at what a
guest experiences can be found in the Welcoming 101 training, appendix
A1, as well as the supplementary sessions in appendices A3–A6.
When evangelism is assigned to an evangelism committee, the rest of
the congregation assumes it is the job of just those few people. Ah, that’s
someone else’s job, we might think. And it ends there.
It hasn’t been working well that way. We need everyone’s hands and
hearts.
Creating a welcoming and hospitable climate begins at the curb and
continues into the heart of the congregation. The ministry of welcoming
is not the responsibility of a few people or a committee. It is the
responsibility of the entire church family. In a welcoming and hospitable
church, the following “bare minimums” are firmly in place. (For more
information, see Ongoing Welcoming and Hospitality Ministry
Opportunities, appendix on B6.8.)
1. Greeters have the special ability to make everyone
Let Everyone Know feel welcome and appreciated. They are the front line
You’re a for welcoming God’s guests. They ask, “How can I
Welcoming Church serve you?”
nited Methodist 2. Ushers are your hosts. They make sure guests and
U Communications wants to
celebrate and recognize you when you
members are seated comfortably and to their liking and
needs.
seek to develop or redesign your
3. The congregation engages people they don’t know in
hospitality tasks with the Welcoming
Congregation Award. conversation, even if those people are members. It’s as
After completing the certification simple as, “Hi, my name is —————. I don’t think
process (appendix C1), your church we’ve met. What’s your name?”
will receive a plaque declaring you a
4. The pastor or core leadership team creates a worship
welcoming community. Hang the
plaque near your entryway, and visitors atmosphere that exudes the excitement of having a
will know your church as a welcoming personal relationship with Jesus Christ. They make it a
place before they enter. point to greet members and newcomers after the service.
In addition, a welcoming
designation will be added beside your Getting Everyone on Board
church name in the “Find-a-Church”
database, which you can access through “Does our church want to welcome strangers?” This is a
the denomination’s web site: central question, just as it is when we consider having guests
www.umc.org. in our own homes. The church may not be ready, but would
Please call us toll free at it be willing to welcome strangers? Your first task may be to
(877) 281-6535 and let us know if you help the congregation look to see if it wants to reach out and
plan to pursue welcoming certification. grow.
Preparing a congregation to be welcoming—that is,
developing a welcoming lifestyle in a church—takes time and
patience. Expectation, instruction, support and prayer help! The
sure that key leaders have read and understand the implications of
the information.
The more you can help this information to be interactive and personal
to all members, the better the chances of them having an “a-ha” moment
when they understand and want to create a welcoming culture in
your church.
Create excitement about what’s coming for the church!
Notes
Open Minds
Rethinking the “E-Word” to Build
an Inviting Congregation 2
Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit, and
there are varieties of services, but the same Lord; and there
are varieties of activities, but it is the same God who activates
all of them in everyone.
1 C O R I N T H I A N S 1 2 : 4 – 6
“I
grew up in a very loving household with both parents
present for my upbringing. They were quite supportive of
my growth as a student, citizen and athlete, but we never
attended church. My parents grew up in different denominations
and my dad spent the first 20 years of their
marriage in the military. By the time they adopted
me, church was not a priority for my parents.
I know I benefited from their faiths, but we never
spoke much of God.
“When I was 14, a friend invited me to go snow skiing with his
church youth group. Growing up in Texas, I’d rarely seen snow, much
less skied on it, so I jumped at the chance. I gladly accepted the
invitation, and my life has been forever changed. I found in the church
the one thing my parents never offered: Jesus Christ. By the time they
“The youth director required attendance prior to the trip so he could adopted me, church
get to know us and weed out those seeking only a cheap vacation. I didn’t was not a priority for
object, and I was actually a little excited. It was great to be wanted. At my parents. I know I
school, attendance was the law; at church, they wanted me there to share benefited from their
the gospel. It was a gift that I’ll cherish forever. I started going to worship faiths, but we never
and UMYF in October, and by December, when we skied, Christ captivated spoke much of God.
me. The following spring, I was baptized and became a very active member
of my church.
territory for many members, they will need to be led and supported in their
efforts to invite. As with anything, the activity needs to be relatively easy
for beginners.
The television advertising presence of The United Methodist Church
makes it easier for members to talk about their churches and provides
opportunities to initiate conversations. A website designed to speak directly It is time for The
to the needs of newcomers (www.UnitedMethodist.org) acts as a bridge United Methodist
between the general public and the church. In addition, churches couple
their own Igniting Ministry media campaign with special Sundays designed
Church to move
to welcome guests invited and brought by church members. toward spiritual
Rethinking evangelism as a positive activity can be a good beginning. maturity by
• Of all the definitions, perhaps the most appealing is that evangelism encouraging and
is “introducing God’s people to God.”
even expecting
• In his book, Welcome!, Andrew Weeks reminds us that the Greek
members to
word, evangelia, means “well” (ev) and “tidings” (angelia).
Evangelism, then, is carrying the “well tidings” or “good news” from participate in
God to the world. Consider this spelling: evANGELism. invitational
• Or how about another definition provided by Weeks? Evangelism is ministry.
“holy gossip.” The word gossip was first found in English to mean a
godparent or one who shared the stories of the Good News of the
gospel of Jesus Christ. Invite people to participate in holy gossip!
We don’t need to share the depths of our faith to be invitational. At the
most elementary level, we do need to be able to articulate what we like
about our church experience that would entice others to attend.
It’s going to take time, so be ready to be patient and persistent. Like
welcoming, we will need to be committed to this ministry and help
members get on board with it. The congregation will need to discover the
answers to the following questions.
• Why is it important to be invitational?
• What are our expectations of the church in being invitational?
• What’s the personality of this church?
• What would I say about this church?
• Why do I think my church experience is important enough for A DVD of all UMC
others to also experience it? commercials is available
for viewing messages.
• Who would I invite?
• How would I invite them?
• What would I say?
Provide each member with the chart and the FRAN Plan leaflet and
encourage them to put the materials on their refrigerator or
somewhere where family members will see them often and can add
names as they think of them.
Many in our congregations just need to be encouraged to participate in
these basic ways. They will find that because of the Igniting Ministry media
campaign more people will recognize the name “United Methodist
Church” and be open to visiting.
For those who want to go even further, the church can offer training in
sharing faith in everyday settings. Faith-Sharing, by George E. Morris and
H. Eddie Fox, along with the video kit by the same title, is a six-week
training that includes principles, theory and practical help for sharing faith
in everyday networks of relationships.
Bring a Friend Sunday and Home for Christmas programs, developed by
the North Texas Conference of The United Methodist Church
(www.ntcumc.org), can also be used with Igniting Ministry.
See the Contacts and References section in the back of this handbook
for details on these and other evangelism resources.
having one or two members greet guests. Beyond that first visit, people
should be contacted in some fashion and then, if they are interested in us
and our church, the process of discipling can begin.
There are several ways you can follow up, and the method you use will
be determined by the attitude of your community. Current research is
mixed on the most effective method for following up.
So in 2005 United Methodist Communications and The General Board
of Discipleship asked The Barna Group* to ask ‘seekers’ what they would
expect a church to do in response to their visit. Research 10 years ago
showed that a doorstep visit or phone call within 24 hours was likely to
elicit an 80 percent return of first-time guests. However, a study of the
The Barna
unchurched by the Barna Research Group showed that an unsolicited home
visit by the pastor or another church representative repulsed the Research Group
unchurched visitor, even if that visitor received a small gift. defines
In the 2005 study* Barna conducted for The United Methodist Church “unchurched” as
(mentioned in the paragraph above), ‘seekers’ indicated what types of someone who–
contact they wanted from a church after they visited. A slim majority of by choice, not
The Best Advocates for the Church circumstance
(such as illness
A ccording to Herb Miller’s research with the National Evangelistic
Association (Lubbock, Texas), when you compare the outreach, per
100 calls, of clergy and laity with similar gifts, the laity attract twice as
or infirmity)–
many people into the faith, presumably because secular people do not
hasn’t attended
perceive laity as being “paid” to invite them. worship, except
No doubt the underlying theme here is to avoid even the appearance of for a wedding or
selfish motives for inviting someone or showing interest in them: Asking
people to attend so that they will become members, or so they will serve on funeral, in the
committees, is recruiting, not inviting. And it’s certainly not discipleship. past six months.
Keep yourself focused on the ultimate objective, and think more about the
people you’re inviting than about what you are trying to accomplish by * to read the full research report, visit
inviting them. www.IgnitingMinistry.org/research
and download the pdf entitled
respondents said they prefer a letter (52%). Others preferred a telephone “Barna 2005”
call (40%), a scheduled home visit (28%), or an email (21%).”
People also said they would prefer in a follow-up contact to hear from
the pastor (37%). Others wanted to hear from the person in charge of
welcoming newcomers (23%) or a person whom they had met when they
visited (18%). Another 5% said it would not matter who contacted them
and 8% of respondents volunteered that they would not like to be
contacted at all.
Notes
Open Doors
Making the Church Hospitable
to Everyone
Send out your bread upon the waters.
3
E C C L E S I A S T E S 1 1 : 1
Then why isn’t Carlos, and hundreds of thousands like him, attending
church already? Is it really that hard to find a good church? According to the
Barna Research Group, there are almost too many to choose from, and
many are alienating. Take a look at these statistics.
Is it really • Nearly half of our neighbors do not share our faith, or a memory of
that hard to our faith, or our assumptions or our vocabulary.
find a good • Between 35 and 60 percent of our society does not attend church
regularly. In some communities, that figure rises to almost
church? 75 percent.
• Still, between 70 and 75 percent of these people identify religion as
important or very important in their lives.
• Between 40 and 60 percent of the unchurched report praying to
God daily or weekly. They identify themselves as having faith, but
they choose not to participate in a congregation.
Despite these modern-day facts of life, many of us continue to do
business as if we exist in a “churched” society, as if most everyone knows
what we know, believes what we believe and wants what
A Vital Church we want. However, according to research published by the
Today, people join Barna Research Group in May 2004, and March, 2005,
congregations, not denominations.
there are 75 million unchurched people living in the
They “shop” for churches, looking for activities
(worship style, child care, youth programs, self-
United States – one-third of the adult population.
help, spiritual growth, social opportunities, It used to be that the congregation was not
outreach) that meet their needs. The message responsible for finding ways to help others fit in. If people
of redemption may be the same from church to stayed away, it was assumed they did not have any faith.
church, but the congregation itself needs to fit Yet nine out of ten unchurched people say they
what the person is looking for. believe in God. Then why aren’t they in church? The
A vital church, our church, must remove
number one reason is that they believe churches do not offer
barriers to participation. This involves meeting
the needs of long-term members who still
anything worth the required investment of time and effort.
function as if they were in a churched society. As popular theologian Leonard Sweet says, people may be
At the same time, a growing congregation finds “high on God,” but they are “low on church”
creative and unique ways to touch the lives of (SoulTsunami, 47).
unchurched people. Remember, inviting Here are some other reasons that prevent people from
newcomers and getting them coming to church:
to be members is not the goal; rather, the goal
• A negative experience as a child in their parents’
is discipleship.
We in this church can’t be all things to all church
people, but we can be a doorway to a new life • Spiritual needs being met elsewhere
for some people. • Time consumed by work
• Fear of the moral judgments of church
(from 1.7 million to 2.4 million, and the number of foreign-born Hispanics
grew 34.1 percent, from 8 to 10.7 million). This wave of immigration is
changing the landscape in many communities throughout the nation. Our
youngest two generations, the Postmoderns (born 1964–1981) and the
Millennials, are creating a multi-ethnic culture that benefits from the
richness of diversity. Churches that reflect this new multi-ethnic mix will be
best posed to reach our youngest generations.
While many congregations think the key to attracting and keeping new Postmoderns
members is starting new worship services, even more important is creating
long to be
faith communities that link worship to discipleship. Of course, a new faith
community does not require a new congregation; instead, it arises from part of a
common interests, issues or home neighborhoods among members of the community
congregation and grows through their relationships with others. These faith of faith.
communities intentionally focus their resources on meeting the needs of
specific groups in our society and grow in their own spirituality through
this service.
Experience-Based Worship
Another key to the whole puzzle of being a church that can take
advantage of these emerging trends is to move beyond the debate between
traditional and contemporary worship. Rather than looking at which style
is the best, leaders of worship are finding that each worship experience has
its own flavor. Even though the 9 A.M. and the 11 A.M. services use the same
order of worship, each has its own feel or mood by virtue of the fact that
two different groups of people show up.
Generations
Compiled by Craig Kennet Miller from “No. 19. Resident Population, by Hispanic Origin Status, 1980 to
1994, and Projections, 1995 to 2050,” U.S. Bureau of the Census, Current Population Reports, pages
25–1095 and pages 25–1104 and Population Listing 21, The American Almanac, 1995–1996: Statistical
Abstract of the United States, page 19.
Hispanic/Latino: People of Hispanic origin may be of any race.
White is non-Hispanic white.
Black is non-Hispanic black.
I
mplementing the media campaign portion of this kit
further extends your inviting and welcoming ministries.
Through television, radio, newspaper, outdoor billboards
and the other advertising used in Igniting Ministry, we are able
to invite into our churches people with whom we have never
spoken before. We are able to “talk” to an entire group of
people we might never have had the chance to meet otherwise.
purchased from our Product Store. To obtain billboard artwork, contact the
Igniting Ministry office, 877-281-6535. Below you will find a listing of the
advertising available on our Web site.
• Television commercials to be aired on broadcast and local cable
stations (these are the same as the commercials that will air on
national cable stations)
• Radio advertising
• Newspaper ads (both display advertising and classifieds)
• Outdoor billboards
• Direct mail
• Door hangers
• Web graphics
• Electronic worship graphics
• Bulletin inserts
• Worship graphics
Congregations participating in the campaign can benefit from free
media services through Igniting Ministry by contacting
IMMediaServices@umcom.org or by using the toll free number
877-281-6535.
Instructions and details for implementing your local campaign follow.
Also refer to appendix B5 for suggestions for explaining the campaign to
your congregation.
Note: The themes (also called “brand”) are both trademarked. If you use them in the life of
®
your church, please include the small, superscripted (raised slightly) at the end of the
last line.
Our Ministry and the Media 4.4
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P
eople who come into contact with our advertising
will experience a cohesiveness in the look, feel and
message—from viewing, reading or
listening to advertisements to the experience of
being welcomed at a place of worship or in a
small group setting.
To implement your local efforts, both
advertising (professionally produced
commercials, camera-ready print materials, etc.)
and “in-church” resources (high-quality
projectable and print images) will make the
People who come into
connection to your church and community. contact with our
advertising
will experience a
Details on all the resources available to you, and the steps suggested cohesiveness in the
for your efforts, follow. In particular, guidelines for making “media buys” look, feel and
(selecting media and contracting for advertising) appear in appendix D1, message—from
and instructions for customization appear in appendix D2. A basic viewing, reading or
glossary of media terminology can be found in appendix D5. listening to
advertisements to the
experience of being
welcomed at a
place of worship or in
a small group setting.
Church Use
• Worship bulletin covers. Bulletin covers have the feel and messages
of the campaign. Bulletin covers are an excellent way to create the
image of your local campaign within the congregation and reinforce
the messages with guests and members alike.
• Worship graphics. A variety of graphics can be used in a worship
setting. Graphic backgrounds and campaign messages are included
in the selection. (Additionally, each Expression Package contains 24
worship graphics supporting six weeks of scripture ideas
(recommended with the package theme).
• Worship liturgies. Ideas and resources for worship leaders, including
calls to worship, invocations, responsive reading and more can be
found in appendix B8. Other worship resources are available in the
media
Living our Promise Trainer’s Toolbox and the Expression warehouse
Package series. Media WareHouse
undreds of
• Customization of advertising. For professionally customized
advertising (TV commercials, cinema slides and billboard ads)
H professional
graphics are available
contact Igniting Ministry’s Media Services Toll-Free at 877-281- FREE at
6535, or email IMMediaServices@umcom.org MediaWarehouse.org.
Come, search by media
type, need, keyword, or
Step 1. Work Through Part One of This Handbook format. All are
Don’t place advertising unless and until you have completed the first customizable and ready
part of this handbook and gotten training well underway in your church, to use.
or your efforts will be ineffective. Igniting Ministry works as a
comprehensive effort: inviting and advertising will help bring people to the
church, while welcoming ensures people feel included when they get there.
Obviously, the rest of the church life must also be strong, from discipleship
to worship to missions. Even if your church does not place ads, your
congregation can participate by raising welcoming, inviting and
discipleship skills.
You don’t need to define the audience any further to place your
advertising at the local level. However, if your congregation needs more
information about its surrounding community to implement worship or
other significant programmatic changes, information is available through
two sources: the Office of Research of the General Board of Global
Ministries (GBGM) and Percept Group, Inc.
GBGM can produce charts and demographic trends for any ZIP code in
the country. The GBGM office also keeps membership and financial data
online from 1974 to the present for the approximately 36,000 U.S. United
Methodist Churches. Custom reports that include charts and graphs for the
past 10 years are available for all existing United Methodist Churches. See
appendix E2 (page 6E.3) for more details, and access this information
by contacting
Office of Research
General Board of Global Ministries
475 Riverside Drive
New York, NY 10115
Telephone: (212) 870-3600
Website: http://gbgm-umc.org/research/
E-mail: research@gbgm-umc.org
Expressions
Based on research with “seekers” in the age range of 25-54, many
themes emerged for the United Methodist advertising messages. Each
offered a slightly different approach to the core message of “Open hearts.
Open minds. Open doors,” so we grouped them into Expressions (groups
of similarly themed advertising messages).
During each time when United Methodist Communications runs the
TV spots on national cable networks, one message takes the lead and
provides a theme for churches to use locally. By reinforcing the theme
locally, we enhance the likelihood that seekers will remember the message,
so we encourage churches to follow that pattern.
We also encourage each church throughout the year to use an
Expression that best reflects the qualities of the people of that church and
the ministries available through that congregation. Having a constant and
“Classifieds”
Those seeking spiritual well-being tend to look in all sorts of
places, including the classified section of their local newspapers. The
“Classifieds” ads are designed to be spiritual speed bumps, carefully
positioned in the newspaper to make seekers reconsider their quest.
This expression can be inexpensive: as low as the cost of a
classified ad. The ads should run in the specific section of the classifieds
denoted at the top of each execution (see the artwork), or larger versions
may run in other areas of the newspaper to uniquely deliver the same
unexpected promise for the church.
You can also print these out and place them in your community as
unusual signs. Be sure to learn and follow your local community laws
regarding posting signs.
“Diversity”
By communicating the myriad beliefs and cultural diversity of the
church, “Diversity” showcases the acceptance and inclusiveness of The
United Methodist Church. This Expression invites anyone to attend,
wherever he or she is on the journey toward finding a spiritual home. It
goes beyond cultural and racial diversity and includes diversity of opinion
– an attractive quality of The United Methodist Church, according to
research with seekers.
“Good Works”
The “Good Works” Expression helps make the connection between The
United Methodist Church and its outreach efforts. It
calls the audience to think in new ways about how
their lives mean something to others. The popular
spot “The Gift” offers a metaphor for how our Good
Works, expressed as we share our gifts, touch the
lives of others.
The ads are based on a capacity for good works
inside every human being that, if properly tapped,
may become a true reward in a person’s life. The
expression asks a little more than the others, in
terms of giving back, and should be considered in
active communities, perhaps of young professionals
or those with a high incidence of families. The
expression meets a key motivator for attendance identified in research: a
church that is active in helping others in the community.
“Rain”
Perhaps the most reflective Expression in the campaign, “Rain” utilizes
simple occurrences in our lives as reasons to pause
and gain new perspectives: watching the rain,
looking at a cup blowing in the wind on a sidewalk,
sitting on a park bench. The United Methodist
Church comes across as having insight to questions
that seem to concern people the most.
The “Rain” expression represents society in
general and should prove effective in any
community. The best times and places to use this
expression may be when and where bad-weather
months skew longer or where social tension runs
high. Communities with a high incidence of single
parents would also be a good fit for this expression.
“Love Letters”
This expression is in the form of letters to and from our Creator. The
ads may be most effective with those who have lost loved ones, are divorced
or new to an area or are just trying to adjust their course in life.
“Breaking News”
This Expression arose from the aftermath of the attacks on September
11, 2001. The tragic events of that day led to a “Breaking News” expression
to bring a message of hope in the midst of shock, grief, and fear. These ads
help reach people struggling with personal and public crises, with messages
such as “Fear is not the only force at work in the world,” and “Be the Hope”
(created in 2005 in the wake of Katrina and other hurricanes). These
themes reinforce the image of our church as a place where people can find
comfort and support, without judgment.
“Journey”
Seekers often speak of their spiritual quest in the language of “journey”
so this Expression speaks directly to finding that path. Recognizing that
everyone has a different journey toward Christ, the messages of this
expression reflect very personal and individual experiences.
What else is important about our community that would influence our
choice of an Expression? (For example, is it a college town, an urban
environment, a rural community, etc.?)
Diversity:
Classifieds:
Good Works:
Rain:
Love Letters:
Breaking News:
Journey:
MediaWarehouse
MediaWarehouse is an online hub for all free things “Open hearts” from
Igniting Ministry. It offers an easy image-oriented navigation system to
download any advertising resource, including radio, newspaper, direct mail,
bulletin covers, logos, guidelines, reports . . . anything! You can view and
download materials by category or keyword. You can:
graphics, door hangers and direct mail may be less expensive options and
can be very effective. Costs can also be contained through the use of pro
bono services and donations. For example, perhaps a member of your
church owns a public relations agency or a newspaper and would be willing
to donate services or space.
In all cases use the worship liturgies (found in appendix B8), electronic
worship graphics and Web graphics if you have the capability, during the
flights of the national commercials (Lent, Back-to-School and Advent). This
will reinforce the campaign from the national all the way to the local level.
T
his is a foundational training to offer all church members to begin developing a
lifestyle of welcoming and hospitality. Because one sharing session format
cannot work in every setting with every group of people—especially when we’re
trying to affect attitudes and behaviors—the activities, information and dialogue
should be adapted to fit your group. Be aware of differences even among the various
groups in your church.
The training will be most effective if it is preceded and followed by much of the
same information being shared through other avenues: the church bulletin, the
newsletter, personal letters, face-to-face discussions and so forth. Remember: People
may need to hear information five to seven times or more before they understand it
or decide to act upon it.
As laid out here, the training is a process that makes welcoming, hospitality and
invitation personal, and it leads participants to a personal commitment.
You may want to divide the training into more than one session, but be sure
everyone has an opportunity to practice being welcoming and extending hospitality
and commits to a personal action plan. The “lifestyle” orientation will be strengthened
by members working through the discussions and worksheets.
Consider offering this training several times throughout the year and at least one
month before a special event, such as a special invitational Sunday. This will allow time
for members to process the information, practice and get excited about their expanded
ministry with the church. Learning about being welcoming and extending hospitality
is a necessary part of being invitational and connecting newcomers into the life of the
church.
Conduct a follow-up session for members who have participated in the training to
tell their stories and to discuss what has and hasn’t worked well, what else they would
like to do and what direction they would like the church to take.
If your welcoming training is being prompted by advertising your church has
already planned, it is important to share those ads and plans. Emphasize to members
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that they, not the advertising, are the most important ambassadors for bringing people
into a relationship with the church and for transformed lives. Advertising merely
prepares the ground.
Preparation
1. Pray for guidance.
2. Become completely familiar with the information in part one of this
handbook.
3. Because this material is intended merely as an outline, select information and
exercises from other chapters that you feel will work best with your members.
4. Choose a theme for your welcoming training.
5. Involve as many facilitators as possible. You want to demonstrate that this is
an intentional effort for the entire congregation and involves everyone. In
addition, you will need greeters and minglers before the session begins.
Room Setup
• Depending upon the number of people in the session, arrange chairs and
tables either classroom style (for a large group) or in a horseshoe
(for a small group).
• Hang “Welcome!” banners around the room (ones you either make
or purchase).
• Have “Welcome, we’re glad you’re here!” signs directing people to the room.
• Make the room as cheery as possible.
• Have music playing in the room as people enter.
• Model welcoming behavior by having at least one person at each door
welcoming guests and instructing them what to do, where to sit, etc. (Your
group will be asking the same questions that others will be asking when they
visit your church: “What’s going to happen to me here? Is there anyone here
like me?”)
• Use the Comfort Checklist (appendix C4) to evaluate the surroundings for this
training. You will want to make your members as comfortable as possible.
• Make sure you, the facilitators, connect with each person in the room. Model
everything you will be teaching.
• Consider using an icebreaker activity while waiting for everyone to arrive. A
common one is “personal bingo,” in which everyone has a prepared handout
with attributes listed in squares (“Has at least three indoor pets,” “Has hazel
eyes,” etc.). Participants go around the room seeking out people with those
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attributes and having them sign that square. The game’s goal is usually to get all
the squares signed; however, the real objective is to get people to interact.
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it feel like? What would it sound like? How comfortable would I be with
this?”
B. Why do I want to invite people into God’s house? (15 minutes)
Have members complete handout 1 (page 6A.10):
(5 minutes)
• How does this church help me grow in my faith?
• Why do I attend this particular church?
• How would I describe this church?
• Why do I think other people might like this church?
• How would I want my guests to be treated?
Invite members to share their thoughts with the group. (10 minutes)
Record them on newsprint. Tape the sheets next to the visions. Summarize
the points they make.
C. What Do I Have to Share? (20 minutes)
Have members complete handout 2 (page 6A.11):
(10 minutes)
• When I was a stranger and someone/something helped me feel
comfortable, what was it that helped?
• When I was a stranger and I was ignored, how did I feel?
What did I need?
• How can I help others—whether they are strangers, invited guests or
members—feel comfortable and welcome?
• What are the personal gifts I bring to a ministry of welcoming and
hospitality?
• What is God calling me to offer to strangers?
Invite a member to briefly share a personal story about being welcomed.
Invite another member to share a personal story about not being helped to
feel comfortable.
Summarize by referring to their visions, their experiences with the church
and their stories about how it felt to be welcomed and to be ignored.
Ask, “Do we want to be a church that ignores strangers? Or do we want
to be a church that has a lifestyle of welcoming strangers and offering them
hospitality?”
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• Option: Show the video “Tale of Two Churches” or “Real Church TV” (available
in the training resources Beyond 30 Seconds: Developing a Welcoming
Congregation and the Living Our Promise Trainer’s Toolbox) or choose a
different clip from one of the Igniting Ministry resources.
• Discuss how we see ourselves in the video – what could do to be better at
welcoming newcomers?
• Distribute the Friendliness Audit and Welcoming Conversations, handouts 3
and 4 (pages 6A.12–6A.14).
• Have individuals fill out the Friendliness Audit. Answers may be discussed or
kept private.
• Practice the welcoming conversations for the scenarios found on handouts 5
and 6. Give half of the group the first role-play (handout 5), and the other half
the second role-play (handout 6) to ensure “privacy” of the guest’s information
and motivations. It is up to the “members” to decide what information they
want and need; this exercise allows them to practice asking and listening to
guests. If there is time, switch partners after 20 minutes. One partner must have
handout 5. The other must have handout 6. Continue practicing.
Explain, “Sunday morning worship is only one of the activities in this church. No
matter where we are or what event we are involved in, as ministers of welcoming and
hospitality, we can exhibit this lifestyle in all situations.” (Use any examples of public
events sponsored by the church and other times church functions may bring
newcomers).
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“How will we encourage newcomers to return? The church will follow up with
visitors, but we still need you to continue your welcoming and hospitality.
“Studies show that up to half of the people who join a church leave after six
months. New members who stay beyond that time average more than seven new
church friends during those first six months. Those who leave average fewer than
two. The reason most often given for leaving (in this study) was, ‘I did not feel part
of the group.’
“Is our goal merely to bring bodies to the church to share the work? If that’s
true, newcomers will sense they are being used, not served, and they will leave. It’s
up to us to continue to care and extend hospitality, and help them into meaningful
relationships with ourselves or with others to whom they can relate. This is how we
will all grow in our faith journey.”
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Handout 1
“Do I Want to Be Welcoming?”
Why do I want to invite people into God’s house?
Write the answers to the following questions.
1) How does this church help me grow in my faith?
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Handout 2
“Do I Want to Be Welcoming?”
What do I have to share?
Write the answers to the following questions.
1) When I was a stranger and someone/something helped me feel comfortable, what was it
that helped?
2) When I was a stranger and I was ignored, how did I feel? What did I need?
3) How can I help others—whether they are strangers, invited guests or members—
feel comfortable and welcome?
4) What are the personal gifts I bring to a ministry of welcoming and hospitality?
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Handout 3
Friendliness Audit
Sometimes we aren’t even aware of how we view people, either positively or
negatively. As a personal assessment of how welcoming you and your church already
are, put an O by the descriptions that best convey the people you would like to attend
your church, and put an X by the people you don’t think would receive a warm wel-
come at your church.
Adapted from Making Your Church More Inviting: A Step-by-Step Guide for In-Church Training by Roy M. Oswald.
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Handout 4
Welcoming Conversations
B
eing a newcomer is similar to going to someone else’s family reunion. Everybody knows each
other, has histories and experiences in common, but we’re left standing on the edge—unless
someone approaches us to hear our stories and include us in the family.
To help someone new feel comfortable is to serve them. How you do this is not as important
as why, but the following are suggested techniques. You supply the “why,” and be assured that it
will be evident in the warmth of your smile and your tone.
Through an authentic welcome and hospitality, you can create a safe space for guests.
Be attuned to “story listening” rather than rushing into “story telling.” There can be plenty of time
to promote the church later if, first of all, the guest feels valued and respected for who they are,
where they are.
Enact the “circle of ten” rule. Anyone, member or guest, who comes within ten feet of you will
be greeted.
Also, consider adopting a “rule of three,” which says you will not talk to other “members” for
the first three minutes after the service. It takes guests about three minutes to exit the church after
worship, and you need to make sure someone has made contact with them before they leave.
Smile, offer your hand for a handshake. Some people are not comfortable with hugging, so
restrain yourself with newcomers. A light touch on the forearm may be a welcome gesture at the
end of the meeting.
Assure: I’m so glad to meet you! (Even if the person is a member, don’t be
embarrassed. If you don’t know the person, chances are they don’t know you
either and would like to get acquainted.)
Show interest: Do you live close by? (As appropriate) What do you do for a living?
Serve: I’m so glad you came today. Is there any way I can help you?
Did you receive a guest card?
(Continued on next page.)
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Connect: I’d like you to meet someone. Hello, Jackie, this is —————.
(Share one thing you learned about the person).
(Jackie responds with a similar process of greeting, assurance, interest.)
When I first attended this church, I found that I liked the —————
(class/group/program).
If you think that would also be interesting to you, I’d like for you to come.
(Introduce the person to someone who is currently attending that activity.)
Is there something specific you’d like to find in this church?
Closure: Good-bye. Come back again anytime. I’ve enjoyed meeting you.
I still have some other friends I’d like for you to meet. Here’s my church card.
Call me if you have any questions or just need to talk.
(A “church card” is like a business card, designed with the church name,
logo, address and phone number with a place for members to fill in their
own names and phone numbers, too.)
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Handout 5
Welcoming Role-Play:
“I’m A Guest, and I Don’t Know
What’s Going to Happen Here!”
W
ith partners, one or two people role-play the guest(s), and another person role-plays the
welcoming member. Adapt the characters for your situation. Practice as many of the role-
plays as time allows—and until the member feels comfortable being welcoming. These
can take place before, during or after the church service. Set it up with your partner.
Guest(s): Decide upon a character. Before the role-play begins, don’t tell the member
anything about you other than gender and approximate age. It is up to the member to help you feel
welcome and comfortable. Share information with the member as you would feel necessary. Really
play the part! Give feedback to the member after the conversation. Did you begin to feel welcomed,
valued and respected?
Member: Use the Welcoming Conversations on page 6A.14 as a guideline. You may find it
necessary to discover information other than gender and age. Help your guest feel comfortable,
respected and valued for who she/he is, where he/she is in life.
Guest Characters
1) Male. Age 25. Single. Loves computers. Used to attend a United Methodist church with
his parents but quit when he was in high school. Is coming back because he’s feeling
depressed—feeling that something is missing in his life.
2) Frantic mother. Age 30. Has three children under the age of 6. She’s brought them into
the coffee hour and they’re trying to eat all the cookies on the plates. Mother has come to
church because she’s near her wit’s end. Her husband wants a divorce and she’s doing the
best she can to manage.
3) Homeless man. Indeterminate age. Has been on the street for several days without a bath
or clean clothes. Came to church looking for hope.
4) Couple. Early 20s. Newly married. They just moved to town. They’re looking for a
church like the one they left in their hometown.
5) Two women. Early 40s. They’re going to be in town for an extended period of time but
only temporarily. They’re musicians and often have gigs on the weekends, either in or
out of town. They’re looking for a place where they can enrich their spiritual journeys.
6) College student. Age 18. Is in an alcohol recovery program and looking for an alternative
to typical college life of partying.
7) Retired farmer. Male. In his 60s. Used to attend church but quit 15 years ago over a
dispute with the pastor. Now that his wife has died and his kids have moved away, he’s
searching for meaning.
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Handout 6
Welcoming Role-Play:
“I’m A Guest, and I Don’t Know
What’s Going to Happen Here!”
W
ith partners, one or two people role-play the guest(s), and another person role-plays the
welcoming member. Adapt the characters for your situation. Practice as many of the role-
plays as time allows—and until the member feels comfortable being welcoming. These
can take place before, during or after the church service. Set it up with your partner.
Guest(s): Decide upon a character. Before the role-play begins, don’t tell the member
anything about you other than gender and approximate age. It is up to the member to help you feel
welcome and comfortable. Share information with the member as you would feel necessary. Really
play the part! Give feedback to the member after the conversation. Did you begin to feel welcomed,
valued and respected?
Member: Use the Welcoming Conversations on page 6A.14 as a guideline. You may find it
necessary to discover information other than gender and age. Help your guest feel comfortable,
respected and valued for who she/he is, where he/she is in life.
Guest Characters
1) Girl and boy. Ages 10 and 12. Brother and sister. Dad has dropped them off at church.
They’re new in town and sometimes went to Sunday school where they lived previously
but have never been here before.
2) Asian woman. Age 20. An immigrant. She speaks English but not very fluently. She
works as a maid at a local motel but hopes to save enough money to go to college. She
attended church in Korea, her native land, but this is only the second time she’s attended
a church in the United States.
3) Male and female. Ages 32 and 35. They each have a career, they have money, a nice car, a
nice home, and a baby. This is the first time they’ve come here. They’re shopping for a
church that will meet their needs. They’ve tried out several churches already.
4) Punk-rocker male. Age 17. Pink hair, tattoos, work boots and numerous pierced body
parts. A Christian. Into spirituality. Spends a lot of time on the streets but still lives with
his parents. Saw the ad about The United Methodist Church on television and thought
he and a friend would check it out. Is he impressed so far?
5) Woman. In her 70s. Doesn’t seem friendly. Very wealthy. Wants companionship but
doesn’t know how to get it. Uses her money to get things her way. This is the second time
she’s visited this church.
6) Male. Late 20s. Rancher. Doesn’t see the point of church. Is only coming today to make
his fiancée happy. In his family of origin, his father never went to church but his mother
did when she could. He supposes that’s the way it’s going to be with him, too.
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Preparation
1. Pray for guidance.
2. Consider how members of the congregation will learn about being inviting
and what they will need to become ministers of invitation and ultimately to
develop a culture of invitation.
Ask yourself,
• Who are the “audiences” in the congregation?
• What will motivate each of the audiences?
• How do they prefer to learn?
Members will need to know:
What? (We want members to invite others to participate in our church.)
Why? (The ultimate purpose is to introduce people to a relationship with
Jesus Christ and the community of faith. Much of the population has no
religious affiliation, and many are looking for some spiritual connection
and community.)
How? (Through prayer and some form of personal invitation.)
When? (Initially, to be determined. After practice, always.)
Where? (Let God guide you.)
Design the training to fit your local church. If you have teachers in your
congregation, have them identify the various learning methods of differently
aged students.
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Room Setup
• Depending upon the number of people in the session, arrange chairs and tables
either classroom style (for a large group) or in a horseshoe (for a small group).
• Hang “Welcome!” banners around the room (ones you either make or
purchase).
• Have “Welcome, we’re glad you’re here!” signs directing people to the room.
• Make the room as cheery as possible.
• Have music playing in the room as people enter.
• Model welcoming behavior by having at least one person at each door
welcoming every guest and instructing them what to do, where to sit, etc. (Your
class is going to be asking the same questions that strangers will be asking when
they visit your church: “What’s going to happen to me here? Is there anyone
here like me?”)
• Use the Comfort Checklist (appendix C4) to evaluate the surroundings for this
training. You will want to make your members as comfortable as possible.
• Make sure you, the facilitators, connect with each person in the room. Model
everything you will be teaching.
• Consider using an icebreaker activity while waiting for everyone to arrive.
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Mission-minded?
• What do you like about this church?
• Name one thing you feel you’ve gained by attending this church.
• Why do you think most people find it so difficult to invite people to
church?
2. Have the group share its thoughts about . . .
• What are people looking for? Our church probably hasn’t been doing a
very good job of thinking about what others need. If we are like many,
many churches, we’ve been thinking more about what we want people
to hear and what we have to give than what they need.
• What is the commitment our church has to inviting and discipling?
3. Provide them with the definitions of evangelism suggested on page 2.3.
Ask them which one they like best. Invite them to use it for a week as
their “motto.”
4. Explain the FRAN plan (from page 2.4), or the adaptation the church will be
using. Suggest what a prayer for another person and one for themselves
would sound like as they look for opportunities to be inviting. Ask them to
write down the name of at least one person they plan to invite.
5. Describe the many ways they can invite others (personal, printed, etc.). Refer
to the Tools to Personally Invite Guests (appendix B7). Ask which one they
would feel most comfortable using for the first time.
6. Practice! Role-playing will help members gain confidence. Help the group
build on the ideas they shared about why they like the church, what they’re
excited about and what they would say to a friend.
The important elements in an invitation include
• Recognizing the other person’s situation
• Expressing your feelings
• Identifying what they will gain from it
• Offering to drive to the service together. If the invitation is for worship,
invite them for a meal afterward.
Here are some sample scenarios. Use these, make up your own or use
situations that are real to the individuals in the group. For practicing with
people in crisis situations, help the group express compassion and empathy.
• Personal Crisis. Jack, I know you are going through a lot of personal
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hell right now. Whenever I’ve had some type of personal crisis, I have
usually gotten something out of my participation in my church. One of
these Sundays, come with me to worship. You are warmly welcomed.
I’d be happy to pick you up.
• Parenting. LaTosha, what great children you have. It’s so scary raising
kids. I feel like I need all the help I can get. Fortunately, our church is
doing some great things with kids. Why don’t you bring them to our
“Kids Only” meeting on Sunday nights?
• Singles. Joe, what are you doing Saturday night? My church has a very
active singles group and we are all going to the comedy club. Would you
like to come? I’ll pick you up and you can go with me.
• Grief. Helen, I know how much you miss Charles. You don’t have to go
through this alone. As a matter of fact, our church has a grief recovery
program led by our pastor. Would you like more information? They
meet each Thursday.
• Youth. Jason, we’re having a Christian rock concert at my church.
I’d really like you to go with me. I have some friends I’d like
you to meet.
7. Ask people to identify one thing they learned during the session.
8. As an option to conclude the session, consider showing a TV spot from
www.MediaWarehouse.org or a training video that focuses on inviting. Two
good choices from Beyond 30 Seconds: Developing a Welcoming Congregation
and the Living Our Promise Trainer’s Toolbox are “The Perfect Moment” and
“Out of the Box Ideas” – both focus on inviting out in the community.
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enerally, people make up their minds about the church during the first 10
G minutes of contact. First impressions are lasting ones. Long before the pastor
preaches, people most often will have decided if they plan to return.
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Sometimes the men she dates are abusive. She isn’t about to let them touch her
kids, though. She wishes things were different, but she doesn’t know how to
change them. A person has to fend for herself, she believes.
2. Share the following list and discuss how a welcoming/inviting ministry could
meet some of these needs.
Newcomers may be
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and Team
The Welcoming Coordinator
Primary tasks: 1) To address the needs and concerns of newcomers so they are
nurtured and given the opportunity and encouragement to grow in their spiritual
lives, and 2) to develop and maintain a welcoming environment within the local
church.
Objectives: 1) A welcoming team will be established with any or all of the following:
greeters, ushers, council on ministries chairperson, lay leader, nursery worker,
trustee(s) and custodian; members of committees on evangelism, membership
care, outreach, shepherding, United Methodist Men, United Methodist Women,
and United Methodist Youth; this includes representatives of each age group:
senior, adult, young adult and youth. 2) An environment will be provided where
newcomers can
• have enhanced worship experiences
• feel a sense of belonging in the body of Christ
• easily find their way around the church
• be instructed on what it is to be a United Methodist
• be assimilated into the life of the church
Training: The welcoming coordinator is not a job mandated by The Book of Discipline
of The United Methodist Church. Therefore, there are no detailed district workshops
for this ministry. However, in addition to the training offered in this handbook,
United Methodist Communications offers many training options. Check appendix
6A of this handbook to explore those opportunities.
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Getting Started
Once the church has a welcoming coordinator and/or chairperson and team
assembled, gather to reflect for a moment on the following questions. Your responses
will help you think about the people of your community (including your
congregation) and how your congregation’s ministry of welcoming might serve them
best. You may want to discuss these questions with others in your congregation,
community and other denominations.
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During this year, we will take the following steps toward making our vision a
reality:
After you have established a plan based on your responses, evaluate your
progress monthly: “What is working well? Where are the gaps? What could we do
better?”
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L
istening groups serve to air people’s thoughts about a particular subject.
Participants voice opinions and, more important, hear what others have to say.
To conduct a listening group, identify people who can act as facilitators for con-
versations pertaining to opening the doors of the church to new people. These leaders
must have the trust of those participating in the listening groups, be able to ask ques-
tions, listen to the answers, restate and clarify the responses if necessary and record the
responses. Although you may consider using a tape recorder, this could be intimidat-
ing to some members of the group.
Groups of no more than 10 people are recommended. The listening sessions could
take up to 90 minutes. Set a time limit, and do not exceed it.
As you think about forming the groups, consider the personal dynamics that
might inhibit everyone from participating, and plan accordingly. A listening group
should help stimulate conversation, and people will give opinions and expand upon
them as members of the group talk.
Have the facilitators start by explaining why this type of research is being con-
ducted. (Every church’s motivation may be different.)
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2. Why do you think other people in the neighborhood, who don’t go to any
church, don’t come here? (Circle all that apply.)
a. They don’t know we’re here.
b. They don’t like going to church.
c. They’re not United Methodists.
d. No one has invited them.
e. They don’t have time.
f. Other (please specify).
In what ways can we help them feel welcome?
How do you think we could get more people to attend this church?
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3. Why do you think it’s difficult for people to invite friends and other
acquaintances to church?
I am ❑ female ❑ male
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M
ost people in the pews don’t know much about The United Methodist Church
beyond their own congregation, so communicating how your church fits with
the national advertising campaign will be important. To say that the
denomination will be placing ads on national TV may create some questions and
confusion. You may choose to explain it to adults like this.
“There are 36,000 United Methodist churches in the United States. There is no
one person who makes decisions for those 36,000 churches. Nor is there one person
who speaks for the Church. Instead, The United Methodist Church uses what we
call ‘general agencies’ within the church that make sure things get done for the
benefit of all of us. For example, the agency that sends out missionaries is the
General Board of Global Ministries. It’s located in New York. The agency that wants
to help us, the local churches, tell our story is United Methodist Communications,
located in Nashville, Tennessee. The agency that produces resources for evangelism,
worship, stewardship and Christian education is the General Board of Discipleship.
In addition, there is another body of which we are all members. It’s called the
—————Annual Conference. It performs administrative duties, such as
receiving and sending money to and from the local churches, making plans for
camps and other ministries and providing help for all the churches in the annual
conference—which we couldn’t necessarily do by ourselves.
“One of the ways the conference and the general church want to help us is by
providing advertising that will tell people who we are as United Methodists. So, two
or three times a year, they place ads on national cable television stations. We
estimate that 65 million people see those ads each flight. Research has shown that
the ads make people curious about The United Methodist Church.
“But we know that advertising at the national level alone is not going to bring
lots of people to this church. And it’s not going to make disciples. That’s why the
communications agency of the church and our annual conference is offering us an
opportunity to partner with them, to reach out in the name of Christ to our
brothers and sisters who are not members of this church. We have an extensive
opportunity, unlike we’ve had before, to participate in getting our message of the
gospel out into our community, our state and the United States. Isn’t that glorious?
We want you to be part of the effort.
“We will be putting special ads [tell your congreagtions plans here]. These are
some of the ways we are going to be raising awareness of our church and
encouraging people to give us a try.
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“And, more than anything, we need you to help this church be all that it can be—
all that God would like for it to be—by welcoming newcomers into this space and
into our hearts. For the next several weeks, we are going to look at strategies we can
use to invite people here, and at how this church can welcome newcomers and
encourage them into a Christian life.”
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onsider the first 10 minutes of contact someone has with the church—and the
welcoming and hospitality ministries that can take place from the street to the
parking lot . . . from the parking lot to the door . . . from the door to the
sanctuary (or other places) . . . from wherever he or she is in the church to wherever
he or she needs to go . . . from that place to the door . . . from the door to the parking
lot . . . from the parking lot to the street.
Directing Traffic
• “Travel From the Parking Lot to the Coffeepot and Back” could be the title of
an entire committee. Considering how many decisions someone will need to
make just to get to our church, it will be helpful if we keep the rest of the
journey as easy as possible.
• Employ signs at every juncture to assist people in finding parking and
identifying pickup curbs, restrooms, child care, classrooms and fellowship hall.
Consider having youth make the signs that express welcome or directions to
special classes.
• Let the youth have bulletin boards where they can post items that show they
are a part of the life of the church.
• Greeters in the form of “traffic directors” can be stationed in the parking lot
and in high-traffic halls (or in confusing corridors) to assist guests.
• Large churches may want to consider making small, simple floor plans
available with the order of worship.
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Greeters
Position enthusiastic greeters at the front door and ask them to remain for a few
minutes after the service has begun for any latecomers who need to be greeted.
Experienced greeters are able to recognize visitors by their body language and
unfamiliar faces, and are prepared to respond to their needs and questions. Each
greeter is trained to offer simple directions about seating, the order of worship and
Bibles or hymnals used in the service. This personal touch and anticipation of needs
is powerful.
Having greeters of all ages who are dedicated to serving visitors will deliver the
message that our church is truly a welcoming place. The greeter’s responsibility does
not end with shuffling people off to the pews. Greeters can make sure no one is alone
any more than they want to be, which may include sitting with them during the
service. Greeters make every guest in God’s house feel welcome and appreciated.
The greeter provides newcomers a visitor’s card and any literature about the
church (brochure, a current newsletter and flyers about upcoming events). Many
churches have a visitor’s packet. This gives visitors something to do while they wait for
the service to begin and may spark an interest in an activity.
Ushers
People with warm personalities and the gift of hospitality belong in this ministry.
The usher is the host to each visitor. Besides greeting newcomers and handing them
the order of worship or other information, helping them find a seat to their liking can
also be helpful, especially if there is a large crowd. An excellent strategy is for the usher
to position the guest(s) near another couple or single in their age range and introduce
them.
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Fellowship Time
Use greeters for this time also. Make sure that the people pouring coffee and
arranging refreshments know they are ministers of welcome.
With guests in the house, the fellowship time is a good time for members to enact
the “rule of three” already explained. In addition to talking with friends, be sure to
invite into a conversation strangers and other people standing alone.
A brief reception with light refreshments following the worship service provides an
informal time of fellowship for the pastor and others to get acquainted with first-time
attendees. This also sends a message that the church appreciates the effort the
newcomer made to come to the service.
Personalized Notes
Members can send personalized notes thanking people for visiting and letting
them know that the congregation enjoyed their visit and would enjoy having them
return.
Letters written by the pastor or the welcoming ministry team can express thanks
for sharing our spiritual journey and outlining other programs in which the guest may
be interested.
Mailings
Place guests’ names on your mailing list, but not for appeals for money. Send them
information on services and programs.
Remind members frequently that welcoming is a priority for this church. The
number one reason people join churches is that they feel a sense of belonging. They
feel important, wanted, loved. Don’t assume someone else will greet the guests. You
may be the only one who noticed them. When several people greet the guests, a caring
lifestyle shows.
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Personal invitations are one of the most effective tools for reaching and
influencing others. Choose a variety of complementary methods, such as face-to-face
contact and business cards.
On all the pieces, be sure to include the church location and worship times, any
identifying phrase you use for your church or one from the “Open hearts” collaterals,
the name of the pastor and lay leader and a phone number, e-mail address and Web
site.
(To use other media to reinforce personal invitations through advertising, see
Part II of this handbook.)
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Calls to Worship/Greetings
For use at the beginning of the worship service
1. The love and peace of Jesus Christ be with you.
And also with you.
Once we were strangers with no hope and without God in the world.
Here Christ gathers us to share as the household of God.
Thanks be to God.
(based on Ephesians 2)
2. God, the Holy One, gathers us, saying:
“I have given you as a covenant to the people,
a light to the nations,
to open the eyes that are blind,
to bring out the prisoners from the dungeon,
from the prison those who sit in darkness.”
In the name of the God who gathers us,
let us welcome each other.
In the name of the God who illuminates and feeds us,
let us give ourselves to the Word proclaimed and shared.
In the name of the God who sends us,
let us rest in God that we may go in the power of the Spirit.
3. In the name of the Father, who loves us, we open our hearts.
In the name of Jesus Christ, who gathers us, we open our minds.
In the name of the Holy Spirit, who stirs our imaginations, we open our
doors to the God who dwells among us.
(A hymn or song of praise and gathering would be appropriate following this call to worship.)
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See also the following texts that may be adapted as greetings or used as calls to
worship: Psalm 118:19, Psalm 139:3–23, Jeremiah 29:13 and Ezekiel 37:13.
Using a concordance or an electronic Bible search tool, create your own greetings
and calls to worship, searching words like: open, search(ing), alone or lonely, belong,
longing, desire, etc.
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Opening Prayers
For use before or after an opening hymn or song. For additional opening prayers
see The United Methodist Book of Worship.
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Voice 1: I know your works; you are neither cold nor hot. I wish that you were
either cold or hot. So, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor
hot, I am about to spit you out of my mouth. Revelation 3:15–16
Voice 2: I was hungry and you gave me no food, I was thirsty and you gave
me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not welcome me,
naked and you did not give me clothing, sick and in prison and you
did not visit me. Matthew 25:42–43
All say or sing the ancient Greek prayer of the church or its English version:
Kyrie, eleison. Lord, have mercy.
Christe, eleison. Christ, have mercy.
Kyrie, eleison. Lord, have mercy.
This is a time of mystery and openness to the Spirit; a time of yearning to be
more alive to God and others than we are. Singing opens our spirits to the
transforming grace of Christ. Kyrie means “Lord” in Greek and eleison is
interpreted as “have mercy.” There are several wonderful and simple ways to
sing this prayer in the hymnal (UMH) and in The Faith We Sing (TFWS).
UMH 483 (sing several times)
UMH 484 (sing several times)
TFWS 2275 (to the familiar Dvořák melody)
Following the Kyrie, all pray:
Lord, help us to live what you desire in and through us.
Help us to hear and see and touch you in the need of those around us.
Thank you for your forgiveness and fresh starts. Amen.
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The Peace
Passing the peace of God is an act of blessing and giving the peace of Christ to one
another, as distinct from greeting one another. Congregations can learn to practice
blessing and declaring the gift of God to one another, not only in the ritual context but
in daily living. Invite the people to give people what they most need at the heart. It is
an ancient and biblical practice (Luke 10:5, Luke 24:36, John 14:27) among Christians.
If it is new for people, consider introducing it with the story of Jesus stilling the storm
in Mark 4:35–41 and his saying to the storm, “Peace, be still.”)
Welcome
Greeting one another in informal ways during the gathering of the people or at
some point during the early part of the service is a simple way to reach out to all who
have come and to be sure that those who are newly present are greeted. It is different
from sharing the peace of God, though it is an expression of the love and care of God.
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Affirmation of Faith
These affirmations in The United Methodist Hymnal are strongly linked to the
strategic statement for Igniting Ministry.
“Worship Resources for Igniting Ministry” copyright © 2001 General Board of Discipleship.
All rights reserved. United Methodist congregations may reproduce for worship and educational purposes
any item from this collection provided that the following notice is printed with the reproduction: From “Worship
Resources for Igniting Ministry.” Copyright © 2001 General Board of Discipleship. Reprinted by permission.
Other worship resources from Igniting Ministry appear in the Living Our Promise Trainer’s Toolbox (Session
6) and in the Expression Package series. Check www.IgnitingMinistry.org for more information.
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Welcoming
WHAT IS WELCOMING?
WHAT IS WELCOMING?
Welcoming is intentionally preparing to receive others where they are and helping them feel accepted through
authentic caring and kindness that anticipates their needs. Welcoming is not the task of a committee or individual,
but rather a lifestyle shared by each member of a congregation. Welcoming is not a technique to find more choir
members, to increase your church’s budget or to grow your church. Welcoming others is just part of who we are as
Christians, a gift we offer to others with no strings attached.
UNCHURCHED
Igniting Ministry defines the unchurched as a person who has not attended a church activity, other than
a wedding or funeral, in the past six months; may not be seeking spiritual fulfillment anywhere outside
the church.
SEEKER
Igniting Ministry defines a seeker as a person who is not currently involved in a congregation; is actively
seeking spiritual fulfillment and is open to a message of hope.
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Welcoming
WELCOMING DEFINITIONS AND TIPS
First impressions are lasting ones. People make up their minds about your church within the first
10 minutes of contact. Long before the preacher preaches, people most often will have decided
if they plan to return. These ideas and definitions may help your church make a life-changing
impression on those who are new to your congregation.
VISITORS
Igniting Ministry defines visitors as people who attend a worship service or event at a church but are not
likely to be regularly connected to the congregation (they live out of town, have another church home, etc.).
Remember, welcoming is not about growing your church; visitors deserve special attention even if you never
see them again.
GUESTS
Igniting Ministry defines guests as people who attend worship or another event, perhaps at the personal
invitation of someone from the church, who may reasonably be expected to return and get involved in the
congregation. Those treated as “honored guests” are likely to return.
NEWCOMERS
Igniting Ministry defines newcomers as people who are relatively new to a congregation—not yet members; no
longer first-time guests; interested in connecting with the church and its members. Newcomers are trying to
find a way into the life and ministries of your church, so it’s important to remove barriers and serve their needs.
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Welcoming
C1: WELCOMING CONGREGATION AWARD
All appendix references relate to The Igniting Ministry Planning Kit
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Those churches certified as welcoming communities will receive an honorary plaque and a special designation
in the Find-a-Church database, which newcomers can access through www.UnitedMethodist.org
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Welcoming
WELCOMING CERTIFICATION AWARD
Year 2 Addendum Sheet
Points—Total points should equal at least 200 (including your Year 1 worksheet) and reflect at
least one of the following activities. Attach extra sheet for answers if needed.
Incorporate The Following Activities Into Your Plan: Points Documentation Ideas:
Circle point
value earned
1. Expand Web site to include “Open Hearts” graphics 20 Include Web site address
4. One local media flight in conjunction with National schedule 100 Attach tear sheets, samples,
(e.g., newspaper/radio/TV/direct mail/doorhangers/cinema) photos, etc.
5. Apply for a matching grant from Igniting Ministry 50 Attach copy of application
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:
What welcoming/evangelism/outreach goals motivated you last year?
What were your attendance levels (first-time attendance/total attendance) at year’s end?
Compare this to previous year.
If decreased, why? (What has been happening in your congregation that affects your results?)
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Welcoming
WELCOMING CERTIFICATION AWARD
Year 3 Addendum Sheet
Points: 300 points required for re-certification; at least 100 points from each (Year 1, Year 2,
Year 3). Attach extra sheet for answers if needed.
Incorporate The Following Activities Into Your Plan: Points Documentation Ideas:
Circle point
value earned
1. Highlight national campaign times with welcoming/ 50 Provide sample. Explain how you are
inviting activities during Lent/Back to School/Advent training your people (50 points per flight)
2. Local advertising during the above three flights 100 Provide sample. (50 points per flight)
3. Use Igniting Ministry resources for refresher training 50 Training plan, schedule, promotional
materials, participant list
4. Attend Igniting Ministry training (or host for other churches) 100 Promotion, date, location, participant
list, name of trainer, photos
5. Use seeker-friendly language and description on your Web site 25 Provide URL and all printed materials
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:
Tell us what goals motivated you last year.
Do you have an attendance goal? A visitor packet goal?
How did you achieve them?
What were your attendance levels (first-time attendance/total attendance) at year’s end?
Compare this to previous year.
If increased, why? (Put your team’s best thinking together as to why.).
If decreased, why? (What has been happening in your congregation that affects your results?)
What other positive observations have taken place that revitalized participation?
What impact do you believe your welcoming efforts have on attendance and participation? What are the trends?
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Welcoming
WELCOMING CERTIFICATION AWARD
Year 4 Addendum Sheet
Points: 400 points required for recertification; at least 100 points from each (Year 1, Year 2, Year 3,
Year 4). Attach extra sheet for answers if needed.
Incorporate The Following Activities Into Your Plan: Points Documentation Ideas:
Circle point
value earned
1. Mentor another church to become a welcoming congregation 150 List of activities, contacts,
photos of event
4. Strive to be a “Model Welcoming Congregation” 75 Show how you used all five Igniting
Ministry components
5. Have someone from your church become an IM trainer 150 See Conference communicator/
IM Training Manager
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:
Tell us what goals motivated you last year.
How did you achieve them?
What new goals do you have for next year?
Provide year-end attendance figures that support your welcoming effort, along with performance measurements
(increased attendance/membership/participation).
What advice would you give to other churches who are considering certification?
What worked?
What didn’t work?
Would you be willing to let us share your story?
Tell us about your experience on becoming a four-year certified church. You will receive an “Open hearts” banner
and welcome mat for your efforts!
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ook for mystery guests who would represent at least two different age groups
and cultural backgrounds. For the most value, have one of your friends from
another church find the mystery guests and make all the arrangements. That
way, no one in your church knows who they are.
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When completed, please return to (churches, stamp name and address below):
Was the sound level too soft, just right or too loud?
What was your overall impression of the church?
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Your experience from individual members
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III. Who are our target audiences in the congregation? (People who have
similar needs, such as high school students, active members over 55,
parents, etc.)
IV. What messages will have the most effect on each audience?
(What “need” or “value” do they have around which we can form our
messages? In other words, how would you convince them of the importance
of participating in any activity?)
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❑ Is every church sign in good repair? Are the messages clear and timely?
Can someone in a passing car read outside signs from all angles?
❑ Do we have adequate signage to move people into and through the
church easily?
❑ Are the grounds and interior of the building in good repair (no weeds,
peeling paint)?
❑ Do we have “visitor” or “guest” parking spots?
❑ Is the parking lot space adequate and easy to navigate? (Reserve 10 percent of
your parking spaces for your guests.) Consider having an “umbrella brigade”
to help everyone, members and guests, into the church on rainy days.
❑ Are the entrances clearly marked and well lighted?
❑ Is the front door to our church unlocked? This may seem like a strange
question, but some churches actually keep the main door locked because
“everyone here knows we come in the side door.” Of course, guests don’t know
that.
❑ Do we have directional signs throughout the inside of the building?
❑ Is there an information table? This makes people more comfortable asking
questions; they know you anticipate them by providing a place to get
information.
❑ Are the bulletin board displays timely and interesting?
❑ Do we have greeters stationed at all entrances to our building? Greeting is not
a social pastime. The few moments our greeters spend with a guest could be
the turning point for strangers.
❑ Is our sanctuary (our living room) aesthetically pleasing with comfortable
seating?
❑ Do we have trees, plants and greenery as decorations, giving the impression of
life?
❑ Does the lighting create an atmosphere of celebration or is the lighting dull
and dreary?
❑ Is the temperature comfortable? Too hot . . . too cold . . . or just right?
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Because we are so accustomed to our own environment, some of these fix-it things
may seem like trivial matters, but when a guest enters God’s house, if these things are
lacking they will be noticed. After four weeks, we tend to overlook things like leaky
faucets, squeaky doors, burned-out bulbs and dirty carpets, but our guests will notice
right away.
We say we care . . . but our building may say we don’t care. We say we are up to date
. . . but our building may say we are out of date. We say we are friendly . . . but our
building may be cold and uninviting. Use this checklist to create a plan to make the
building a haven for members and guests.
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Is our church welcoming to people who have difficulty getting around, including
elderly people and people with physical challenges?
Is it welcoming to families with children and youth and to the children and youth
themselves?
What are the kinds of things that can be done immediately to make the worship
space and the culture more welcoming?
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Church Newsletter
❑ Is the newsletter readable? Is the print clear?
❑ Are there ways the design could be improved to be more reader-friendly?
❑ Does the newsletter have a clear purpose?
❑ Do the articles reflect the life of the church in interesting, compelling ways?
❑ Are the church name, address, phone numbers, Web address and times of
services included?
❑ What improvements are needed?
*More information on print materials can be found in How Shall They Hear? A Handbook for
Religion Communicators, published by the Religion Communicators Council.
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Radio Commercials
Do not spend too much time worrying about rank or ratings of the radio station.
(Radio ratings are called “Arbitron.”) A station may have a great listener or viewer
audience for you, yet not rank high. This means it should be moderately priced and
can be a hidden gem. Even a station ranked 10th (meaning it’s the 10th most popular
station in the area) could reach 100,000 people a week.
There are some broad generalities that can help you begin to sort stations.
However, remember the audience for our message is 25–54 years old. Mention that to
the stations you call or visit. Using these guidelines should narrow your search to three
or four choices.
• Rock formats tend to attract men in the 18- to 34-year-old category.
• Dance/energy or current hits stations will draw women aged 25 to 34.
• Mix/adult contemporary/lite rock formats will reach adults in their 30s and
40s. The gender of the audience will depend on the degree of softness in the
station’s sound. The softer the sound, the more female the audience.
• Oldies and Country formats will have equal distribution of male and female
audience members in their 40s and early 50s.
• News and talk formats
attract a 45-plus age group. Media Buying Basics
ealing with TV stations, cable systems and radio stations is
• Heavy politics and sports
will skew male; other talk,
D much the same. If you choose to handle the negotiation and
buying yourself, be sure to
female.
• select stations and programs on the basis of what your target
You can either buy your radio audience will be listening to or watching
advertising time yourself or have • ask for ratings and qualitative data relative to the audience of
IM Media Services do it for you. If individual shows and cable networks to be used in evaluating
you want to do it yourself, read on. your selection
If not, know that a media buyer • ask to work with an experienced account executive
won’t cost you extra directly. The • concentrate schedules between 6 P.M. on Wednesday night and
rates charted by stations include a midnight on Saturday night (when the decision to attend
15 percent commission for the church is more likely to be made)
buyer provided that buyer is a • require affidavits of performance that provide the exact days
recognized buying entity. and times your spot(s) air (this affidavit should be provided
before payment is made to the station).
If you are negotiating your own media placement, request
information from all possible stations and cherry pick your
schedules. Use a variety of stations and programs to maximize
exposure of your message.
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on the page. Tip: Instead of placing a weekly, one-line ad in the religion section, use
these ads on specila occasions to create an opportunity for invitation.
In addition to city- or town-wide general circulation newspapers, your Igniting
Ministry team should also consider specialized media that may reach subgroups
within the target audience. These could include ethnic or cultural newspapers and
magazines and community newspapers in neighborhoods with a high proportion of
single parents, working families or young professionals.
For all ads, visit www.MediaWarehouse.org.
Note: United Methodist Communications does not customize print ads. Please consult appendix D2
for more information on customization of all media.
Direct Mail
Direct mail is an efficient medium for reaching narrowly focused audiences with
specific messages. It is not effective for reaching broad audiences, as the cost is high
per impression and the response rate for most direct mail advertising is well under 5
percent. It is highly ineffective when used alone, without other media to support it. If
your church wants to consider using direct mail advertising, it needs to identify
specific audiences it believes would be interested in attending The United Methodist
Church, and the specific executions that would lead the targeted subgroup(s) to take
action on the invitation.
• Direct mail lists can be purchased from list companies and are sometimes
made available for a fee or no cost by membership organizations. Never use a
membership list without discussing it with that organization’s local leadership,
even if you have purchased the list from a list-management firm.
• If sending a small quantity, send direct mail pieces first class so they will arrive
in a timely manner.
• Direct mail cards support most of the TV messages. View all direct mail
options at www.MediaWarehouse.org.
• You will need to arrange to have the artwork printed (see Media Specifications,
appendix D4).
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information available. To be effective, the text and the image must communicate the
message in the few seconds it takes to drive by in a car. It can be used to create visibility
and provide directions to your church.
Outdoor advertising is purchased from companies that either own or represent the
owners of signboards. Costs vary depending on location and the number of cars
passing the site. The advertising material must fit the dimensions of the available
signboard. The outdoor advertising company will erect the material (either within the
fee structure or as an added cost) and remove it at the end of the contract period.
Contract periods generally run for a minimum of one month.
• Sample signboards are presented on MediaWarehouse. To view or download all
ads free from the ftp site, visit MediaWarehouse.org. Call United Methodist
Communications’ Igniting Ministry offices at (877) 281-6535 for more
information.
• Outdoor advertising should be used in strategic, high-traffic areas that are
nearby the church. Always drive by the locations with sales representatives of
the outdoor company to pick out the best board(s). View the board(s) in heavy
traffic conditions, at varying speeds and at night.
Door Hangers
Door hangers have been prepared for door-to-door canvassing during periods
when flights of advertising are running. They can be used either when nobody is home
or as something to leave behind after a visit.
• Door hangers are available in most of the expressions.
• They can and should be customized with the name and address of your United
Methodist church.
• Camera-ready art can be downloaded from www.MediaWarehouse.org and also
appears in the Expression Package series.
• Check local laws governing placing door hangers. Most allow this type of
advertising.
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Television Customization
1. United Methodist Communications is the only agency authorized to perform
any customization of the ‘Open hearts” television commercials.
2. Any local church, district or conference can request television customization.
3. The charge for each master (broadcast quality) tape is approximately $30
plus shipping. Call (877)281-6535 to receive exact cost quotes.
4. Both an audio (voiceover) and visual tag will be recorded at the end of each
commercial. Tags must be edited to fit a 3-5 second time frame. Generally, a
church name and Web address will be all you can include in that time.
5. To place a customization order, please call the Igniting Ministry office.
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Page 1 of 2
This is a “master” two-page form. Please photocopy prior to filling in
information so that the form can be used more than once.
This form is for TV only. Radio customization must be done by radio stations. Print,
newspaper and outdoor customization is done by the respective media operators. Use this form to
1. order professional TV-commercial tapes for use by broadcast and cable operators,
2. customize Igniting Ministry TV ads.
Use an additional page 2 of this form for different customizations and/or stations. Fill out
the first page portion only once.
Do not use this form to order VHS church-viewing copies. Use the order form in the Igniting
Ministry promotional catalog for that purpose.
Please fill out completely and fax to UMCom’s Igniting Ministry campaign offices
at (615) 742-5777.
If you need further information, call the Igniting Ministry campaign offices toll-free at
(877) 281-6535.
Church Billing Address Shipping Address of TV Operator/Station
Name of local church: Name of station:
City: City:
State/ZIP: State/ZIP:
Phone: Phone:
Fax: Fax:
E-mail:
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Radio Customization
1. Radio commercials can be found on MediaWarehouse. The audio files are for
both in-church previewing and also airing by radio stations.
2. Any 30-second commercials are not customizable. However, if you choose a 60-
second commercial to air, you can customize it with a voiceover, which the
radio station will record with one of their deejays or other on-air talent. At
the end of the 60-second commercials, you’ll hear several seconds of
background music (called a “bed”), over which your ending message (called a
“tag”) will play. The following are two effective tags:
• For a church advertising on its own: “The people of the (name of)
United Methodist Church. (Address of church.) Worship times at
(times) on (days).”
• For a group of churches advertising together: “The people of the United
Methodist churches of (contributing region or geographic area). Join us
for worship this Sunday. To learn more, visit www.unitedmethodist.org.”
Newspaper Customization
Outdoor Customization
1. Contact Igniting Ministry Media Services for customization of billboards.
2. Check www.MediaWarehouse.org for guidelines for production and
placement of billboards and other outdoor media.
3. Sign companies can also prepare customized billboards. Igniting Ministry
must approve artwork and customization.
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Your Igniting Ministry team may decide that your church would benefit from
publicity about our media campaign. Following are a series of news releases provided
as examples for you to adapt to meet your particular needs.
The style of a news release can be modified to reflect the graphic style of other
communications from the church. However, as a minimum, the format must include
the following:
• Identification of the document as a news release
• A contact name for media to call with questions or information requests,
including phone numbers and e-mail if available
• A dateline: the city and state from which the release is being issued and the
date it is being issued
• A release time or “For Immediate Release” statement
• At least 11/2 line spacing (to provide room to edit)
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(City, State, Month Year) -- (Name of) United Methodist Church today announced
that it is participating in a national campaign to attract additional members through cable
television, radio, newspaper, magazine and outdoor advertising and public relations
initiatives. The campaign, called Igniting Ministry, will launch in spring 2001, and is aimed
at “men and women who are not current members of any church, but who are looking for
a sense of spiritual well-being and involvement in a caring community,” said (Firstname
Lastname), campaign chair for (Name of) United Methodist Church.
Research conducted by The United Methodist Church indicates that over half of
adults aged 25–54 are not members of any church, but more than half of these people
indicate that they are "religious" or interested in bringing spiritual belief and activity into
their lives. “Our research shows that many people in this category would like to participate
in a church activity, to determine whether regular membership would bring something
valuable to them, but they are concerned that they will not fit in, or that their unfamiliarity
with the practices of a specific church will make them feel uncomfortable,” (Mr./Ms.
Lastname) said.
According to (Mr./Ms. Lastname), the United Methodist campaign will specifically
reach out to people who are looking for a more spiritual and connected life with
advertising and other messages that will appear in unexpected places and that talk about
everyday occurrences. The campaign will also position The United Methodist Church as
one with a diverse membership, with no formal or required religious practice, which
focuses its adherents on doing good works with others in the community to reach a
greater level of satisfaction with themselves and their lives and to open themselves to
religious spirituality.
“We do not seek to recruit members from other denominations or faiths,” (Mr./Ms.
Lastname) said. “We are reaching out to men and women who feel unfulfilled, and who
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may find participating in our church a way to meet the need everyone has for being more
satisfied in more aspects of their lives.”
(Mr./Ms. Lastname) said that The United Methodist Church has budgeted to spend
over $20 million in the next few years to fund national advertising for the campaign. A
budget for local advertising and marketing activities is being developed and the church
is seeking grants as well as conducting fundraising among its members to fund the
campaign here. More information about the church can be found online at
www.unitedmethodist.org.
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(Name of) United Methodist Church Launches Campaign to Attract New Members
(City, State, Month, Year) -- (Name of) United Methodist Church today announced it is
launching a major campaign to attract as new members men and women who are not
presently associated with any church or religious organization. The campaign will include
advertising and events that are designed to communicate that The United Methodist
Church is open to people of diverse backgrounds and experiences who are looking to
bring spiritual values into their lives. The theme of the campaign is “Our hearts, our minds
and our doors are always open,” and all of the advertising notes that the campaign is
brought to the community by “the people of The United Methodist Church.”
The local campaign will begin this (day of week) with the appearance of (cable
television) (radio) (newspaper) advertising focusing on (the diversity of The United
Methodist Church) (the commitment of United Methodist church members to good works)
(the small daily occurrences of life that remind people of the value of spirituality and
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community). The advertising campaign will run for (four)(two) weeks, and will appear at
least three times during the year. (Name of) United Methodist Church said it has raised
approximately ($00,000) to fund the local campaign, which in addition to the advertising
will include events at the church and sponsorship of community activities such as (event
name). “We want people not just to know about our church, but to have the opportunity
to experience it in a natural, comfortable way,” said (Firstname Lastname), campaign
chairperson. “Many people not presently members of a church are concerned that they
will not fit in, or that they will be embarrassed because they do not know the practice or
the liturgy. Our campaign is based on the belief is that if we welcome our visitors into our
church as we would welcome them into our homes, we can overcome those inhibitions
and, we hope, build lasting and meaningful shared relationships.”
(Name of) United Methodist Church is located at (address). More information about
the church can be found online at www.unitedmethodist.org.
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Dear (Name):
(Name of) United Methodist Church recently announced its participation in a national
campaign to attract new members to The United Methodist Church, one of this nation’s
largest Protestant denominations. A copy of the news release is attached to this letter.
The campaign is directed to the “unchurched,” men and women in the age range of
25–54 who are not currently members of a church or other religious group but who may
feel that their lives would be enhanced if they could participate in something with spiritual
values and a sense of caring community. We believe The United Methodist Church offers
them that opportunity and have prepared ourselves to welcome new members.
The campaign is designed to address such important issues in our community and
among adults as enjoying and valuing diversity, linking everyday occurrences to
community and higher values, and the spiritual benefits of becoming involved in good
works.
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The campaign consists of television, radio, newspaper, magazine and outdoor advertising
as well as editorial initiatives and events at the church. At its last General Conference, a
budget of more than $20 million for the national campaign was approved, and the United
Methodist churches in this area have budgeted an expenditure of ($00,000) to
complement and expand on the campaign’s reach.
We believe that the campaign will not only help build (Name of) United Methodist
Church’s membership in this community, but provide values to the community as a whole
whether or not people choose to become affiliated with us. (Firstname Lastname), our
campaign chairperson, would welcome the opportunity to discuss the Igniting Ministry
campaign and its values with you, and can be available (identify dates and times).
I will contact you in the next few days to determine your interest and, I hope, to schedule
an interview. Should you need additional information about (Name of) United Methodist
Church or the national campaign, please feel free to contact me directly. Information can
also be obtained online at www.unitedmethodist.org.
(Name)
Communications Director
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combination rate. A special rate for advertisers using both morning and evening
editions of a newspaper or more than one vehicle in a group of publications. Also
known as continuity discount.
controlled circulation. The circulation of a publication that is sent free and
addressed to specific individuals.
cost per point (CPP). The cost per rating point delivered by a particular medium or
media schedule.
cost per thousand (CPT). The cost per 1,000 individuals (or homes) delivered by a
medium or media schedule.
county size. Designation of a county into one of four categories as defined by
A. C. Nielson based on population.
coverage. The percentage of people (or homes) covered by a medium.
day parts. Times of broadcast for television and radio.
daytime. The daytime hours of TV programming, usually 9 A.M.–3 P.M. EST/PST and
9 A.M.–4 P.M. Central/Mountain.
demographics. Information about a particular population’s characteristics, such as
geographical, age and gender distribution; birth and death rates; and
socioeconomic status.
designated market area (DMA). An unduplicated television area to which a county
is assigned on the basis of highest share of viewing.
drive time. The morning and afternoon hours of radio broadcasting. Morning drive
time is 6–10 A.M.; afternoon drive time is 3–7 P.M.
duplications. The number of individuals (or homes) exposed to more than one
advertising message through a media schedule.
efficiency. The relationship of media cost to audience delivery.
exposure. The audience’s physical contact (visual and/or audio) with an advertising
medium or message.
fixed position. 1) Broadcast media: a commercial unit purchased with non-
preemption guarantees. 2) Print media: a position guaranteed to the advertiser in
specific uses.
flat rate. The non-discountable rate charged by a newspaper for advertising.
flighting. Broadcast schedule in a heavy advertising effort for a period of time,
followed by a hiatus, then coming back with another schedule at the same, higher
or lower level. A flight is the period when the advertising is being broadcast.
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