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This is the true story about an amazing man that came into my life, not long after my first novel was published in 2007. I gave this story its title because it is so strange. We both agreed that we must have known one another in a previous life. I leave it to you as to how you feel after reading it.
This is the true story about an amazing man that came into my life, not long after my first novel was published in 2007. I gave this story its title because it is so strange. We both agreed that we must have known one another in a previous life. I leave it to you as to how you feel after reading it.
This is the true story about an amazing man that came into my life, not long after my first novel was published in 2007. I gave this story its title because it is so strange. We both agreed that we must have known one another in a previous life. I leave it to you as to how you feel after reading it.
I thought I might write and tell you something I think
is truly strange. It all started after my first novel was published in 2007. Not long afterwards, I happened to be online at a dating website I frequented. Flipping through the pictures, I saw the face of a man who caught my eye. I couldn’t believe it. I actually laughed when I saw it. The face was the spitting image of the character Daniel in my first novel. I immediately sent a message to this man and included a direct quote from the novel, describing Daniel. I told him if I had only known he was out there, I would have asked him if I could’ve used his picture in the appreciation section, so the readers would get an idea as to the physical appearance of the Daniel character. I really had no expectations he would respond. BUT......He did write back to me. Also, he was very kind, indicating he was flattered and if I wrote any more stories where a character looked like him, to let him know and he would send me several photographs to choose from. In many of my novels and at least one short story, there is a character who resembles him. I include a photograph at the front of these for the readers to see. Of course, being the writer, these characters physically are my personal opinion as to what I perceive to be an incredibly handsome man. I guess you could say he is my imaginary lover. Others may think differently because as the old saying goes ‘beauty is in the eye of the beholder’. Over the years, this man has been not much more than a set of photographs. I knew very little about him or his history. To me, he was an incredibly good-looking man and I just took for granted he was alive, well and having a wonderful life. We would periodically touch bases with emails of hello or holiday greetings. That was really the extent of it until my Dan passed away. Julian and I became even closer afterwards. About late August this year, I wrote him an email, telling him how much I had appreciated the use of his pictures over the years and included a collection of the pictures I had used in virtually all my novels and a short story. I also wanted him to see the picture I want to use on the front cover of the next book I would like to get in print Two Portraits in Oil. He had read the novel and actually had started calling me Boo. Boo is the me character in the novel. That made me smile and happy inside. He wrote back to me and made a joking comment he was everywhere. He liked the picture very much for the front cover. He then told me he was looking forward to retirement next year. That was very surprising to me because in all the pictures, even the recent ones, he looked like he was no older than forty. Another surprise and somewhat of a shock is he included a photograph of a self-portrait he had just finished, painting in watercolor. If you know it or not, watercolor is one of the most difficult paint mediums to use. It is totally unforgiving, unlike oils. Oils, you can scrape off with a palette knife and do it again. Also, there are two things which are extremely difficult to paint. The ocean and portraits. When I saw the picture of the painting, I was astounded. It is an incredible portrait. I had no idea he was such a talented artist. So, I immediately wrote back, applauding him for his artistic abilities but questioned how in the world he was going to retire at such a young age. He wrote back with a huge surprise, telling me that he was fifty- nine. (You can judge from his photographs. Yes. They are fairly recent.) He indicated he taught art at one of the universities in Philly. Also, he was working on twenty-five canvases, oil paintings, to be in an exhibition in the spring. He had included photographs of five of the paintings. When I scrolled down and saw the pictures of the oil paintings, I started to laugh. I thought he was pulling my leg. I thought he’d gone to a museum, taken pictures and had sent me photographs of five Renoirs. But then I realized these really were his paintings. The subject matter in all five is ballerinas. I found out later how large these canvases were because the ballerinas are life-size. Again, I was astounded at his talent. The detail work. The reflection in the glass windows. The reflection on the polished floors. To say, I was blown away would be a huge understatement. I immediately wrote back and told him how impressed I was with his paintings. Degas, Monet and Renoir were alive and living in him. I told him I was so sorry over the many years I had known of him, I knew absolutely nothing about him. He then wrote back and told me some of his history. It was extremely sad. He had met his partner Jake when he was twenty-eight. They were together for twenty-two years. When he was fifty in November 2007, they were crossing a street. His partner saw it coming and quickly pushed Julian to the curb, saving him. The oncoming car hit his partner. He died in his arms. The driver had been texting and not paying attention. After that happened, he had basically been keeping to himself. I saw a photograph of his partner and the man was extremely handsome.
I told him since he was such an amazing artist he
should come down, spend some time and paint the ocean here. I wanted to see if Winslow Homer was living in him, too. GRIN! After he has his showing and retires, he should come for a visit. We would raise a glass in remembering and walk on the beach. He could for his partner and I for both of mine. Just as Steffan and I did last December. He wrote back he was extremely appreciative of the invitation and would love to come for a visit. He then sent me photos of two more paintings he had done.
This one looked like a Van Gogh. I couldn’t believe
it. This one wouldn’t be in the showing in the spring. Neither would the next one. This one is gold metal leaf with oils. Now, I must tell you I had no idea of his physicalness. Yes, he had a handsome face but that’s all I really knew. Then he told me. He was six foot three and 238 pounds. Of course, I almost fell over. He has ALL the physical characteristics and qualities of the characters in my books. He truly is the characters in my novels come alive, walking out of the pages of my books. What can I say? YeeeHaw! I knew we were going to be great friends. But it didn’t stop there. I had slowly fallen in love with him. What can I say? He was everything I wrote about in my novels and I had fallen in love with the Julian character over a dozen times. It seems I was not alone. He wrote back to me, saying I was stuck with him. I loved him and I was happy. In November, he went into the hospital for a kidney infection. All seemed well. But the doctors found he had cancer growths on both kidneys. They were not malignant and it would not be a problem to remove the 3 on one and the 2 on the other. He went in for the operation in mid- December. I told Julian I would come up there to Philly to help take care of him when he got out of the hospital. Julian said he had family and his roommate, so not a problem and not to worry. He told me his roommate would keep me posted and luckily, he had dodged the bullet. His roommate notified me and said the operation was a success. BUT.....Julian went into a coma from the anesthesia. He was on life support. The doctors said this was a very rare happening. He also was not breathing on his own but had full brain function. I was crazy. I told his roommate to tell Julian his Boo loved him and would be here when he came out of his sleep. As the days went by, there was no improvement and Julian’s kidneys began to fail. His family got his living will and read his wishes. Early Christmas day, they removed him from life support and in fifteen minutes, he was gone. His roommate let me know around 1 o’clock in the afternoon, my time here in Mexico. My wonderful, caring and loving Julian was gone. Christmas will NEVER be the same for me again. I was up till almost midnight last night saving all of Julian’s emails. All the way back to 2012, not long after we first started communicating with one another. I’m afraid if his email account gets deleted, his emails will disappear. I now have all his words he wrote to me and all his pictures. Losing Phillip in May 1996 after 19 years together was not easy. But then I met Dan in 1998. Losing him in May 2014 after 16 years together was extremely crushing. And now, losing Julian yesterday on Christmas day has totally devastated me. Knowing Jake was there to welcome him allows me to smile through my tears. I know he will introduce him to Phillip and Dan and also my friend, Tris. They’ll all be there to say hello with hugs all around when I get there one day.
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We had only just begun our relationship. He was my
inspiration, my muse, my love. He was coming down next year to see me so we could have time to really get to know one another. And now, I will spend this coming summer alone. But I will have memories. I close my eyes and I am at the airport in Zihuatanejo. His plane has landed from Philly and I wait anxiously outside immigration. Then, finally, the doors open and the people start filing out. There he is. Tall and handsome with a huge smile on his face. He calls out when he sees me. “Boo!” A huge smile fills my face and my heart leaps with joy and I run up to him, hugging him tightly. I know I am loved. We are going to have a wonderful time. We are going to paint the ocean.....and I will now finally, see if Winslow Homer really does live inside him, along with Renoir, Monet, Van Gogh and Degas. I love you, Julian Green. I love you forever. My heart is broken and all the king’s horses and all the king’s men will never put it together again. I know...I’ll never...love this way again. Boo
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Before I get to the crux of this story, it is necessary
for there to be some background information given to fully understand the significance here. The house I live in here on the southwest coast of Mexico is made of reinforced concrete. The roof is a poured reinforced concrete slab. To prevent cracks or fissures from forming, it is necessary to pour the entire slab at one time. Unfortunately, the builder didn’t do this. He poured it in sections. I didn’t realize this until the rainy season here of 2016. The rainy season here usually lasts from mid-June till late October. The rest of the year there is virtually no rain at all. Any showers during other parts of the year are extremely infrequent and rare. This is important to remember towards the end of this story. The first crack in the ceiling of the dining room area showed up last year during the rainy season of 2016. The crack was nearly 10 feet long. Water dripped in, pouring down into the area between the dining room table and the kitchen. The repair to this crack on the roof was done in early 2017. When the rainy season began in 2017, another crack some 12 feet long showed up in the ceiling about 10 feet south of the first crack of 2016. Water dripped in all over the southern end of the dining room table. After cleaning up the mess, the dining room table was shifted several feet to the north and remained there until Thanksgiving in November since the rainy season was over. Repairs to this crack would be made in January 2018.
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Anyone who has read any of my novels realizes the
personality and physical characteristics of my friend Julian appear in virtually all of them as one of the main characters. My most recent novel was completed in the summer of 2017 and is called Two Portraits in Oil. The front cover of the novel is designed with a framed portrait of Julian since he has the likeness of one of the main characters.
I sent Julian an advanced copy for him to read and
give his approval. The book is also dedicated to him in appreciation for letting me use his pictures in so many of my novels and stories. His response let me know he totally liked the novel and appreciated the dedication. He very much liked the picture on the front cover. Believe it or not, he began to call me Boo. This is the pet name the Julian character in the book calls the me character in the book. The way I made this picture was to photograph one of my old picture frames, put it into the computer and print it out. Taking that 8.5 x 11 page, I cut out the center section of the picture of the frame. I then took the picture Julian had sent me, now in my computer and printed it out. I placed the 8.5 x 11 page, containing the picture of the frame on top of the 8.5 x 11 page of the picture of Julian. I taped the two pages together and took a photograph of the combined pages, creating a single image. I transferred this picture to the computer and is the one you see here. I do most of my writing at the dining room table. Why? Because the internet service at the dining room table is better than any other place in the house. The taped- together pages of the framed picture of Julian was there as well. The picture sat on the south end of the table. On November 29th, I got an email message from Julian. ‘I have a kidney infection and haven’t been up to writing...I’ll be out of the hospital on Friday...looks like I dodged a bullet. Nothing and no one could come between us. I’ll keep you informed. Hugs and kisses. J~’ He wrote another very shortly thereafter. ‘Silly man...you are my Boo...I’m really sick...I’m in the Hospital with a severe Kidney infection. More to follow. Hugs?’ On December the 5th, he wrote another message. ‘HAVE FUN ON YOUR TRAVELS. Love you, Boo. J~’ Yes. My friend Steffan from Canada was going to be in Puerto Vallarta, starting in early December until the 23rd. He and his partner have a timeshare there. He asked if I might come up and be with him during his visit. I accepted. Steffan lost his partner to cancer in February 2016. I didn’t want him to be alone, knowing memories of him and Alan would be on his mind. I arrived there on December the 4th. On December 10th, I got a very disturbing email from Julian. ‘I don’t know how to tell you this.....I have cancer. I guess that was the best way, after all the ways I’ve tried to put together a softer way to tell you. The bad news is that is in both kidneys. I’ll need one kidney removed, and a transplant for the other. I have a rare blood type.. so this is going to be a bumpy ride. We make plans, and GOD laughs. Don’t stress, Boo, I have this. I’ll keep you informed. Hugs and kisses? J~’ Needless to say, I was extremely upset. I was glad Steffan was there. On December 15th, I got another email from Julian. ‘I may have dodged a bullet, I’m told. I have 5 tumors 3 ON one and 2 ON the other. They are encapsulated and have not spread. Minus any complications during surgery, they are likely to get all the cancer and I’ll be ok. Whew. Yeah, I’m a lucky SOB!!!! I’ll be getting surgery tomorrow morning ( Saturday December 16th @ 6AM) You will be informed top priority. Worry not, mi amor. J~’ Little did I realize. These were going to be the last words I would ever hear from Julian. An email came in from Julian’s roommate on December 17th. ‘I have good news and bad...Let’s start with the good...they got all the cancer, and his kidneys are working perfectly. And now the bad news...you better sit down if you’re not...Julian hasn’t woken from the anesthesia, he’s in a coma...we’re told it happens in a small percentage of surgical patients.’ He did want me to know one thing. Since Julian’s partner, Jake died in 2007, ‘You are the first man who has gotten through that armor he constructed around himself.’ I told his roommate to please tell Julian I loved him very much more than words could say, even though he was in a coma. I was glad Steffan was there to comfort me. The next day there came very bad news. ‘Thornton, I avoided telling that he is not breathing on his own...I wanted you to picture him as he was sleeping. It’s not quite that pretty. I’ll say what you wrote in his ear...I know he can hear...so I’m very protective of what’s said around him...’ On the 19th, his roommate wrote. ‘Thornton...I just read your email to our Julian...I know he heard me.’ On the 20th, I received another email from his roommate. ‘I wish I could help you to feel less broken...you seem like such a wonderful man. Julian has full brain activity, but he’s not breathing on his own. I will continue to keep you informed.’ I left Puerto Vallarta by bus and returned home on the afternoon of the 22nd. I was told the night before there had been a totally unexpected, freak and unusual rainstorm. When I walked into the dining room, I saw the whole south end of the dining room table was wet, including the 8.5 x 11 picture of Julian. The water had caused the inks to mix and run. The image left was devastating and broke my heart. I just knew it was.....a message. A message from Julian to me.
To me, the picture was like the statue of the Weeping
Madonna that has been known to cry tears of blood. This picture of Julian was crying tears of blood. He was letting me know all was not well and he was not going to live. It was like an omen, a sign, a message. On Christmas Day, I got the email around one in the afternoon. ‘His wishes were not to receive any life saving devices...that especially means the breathing machines...Thornton, the machines were turned off...and he lasted about 15 minutes...Julian died at midnight...he has left this world that we know.’ Christmas will never be the same for me ever again. So, think what you may. Many will scoff and say this is hockey puck but I will always believe the unexpected rainfall was meant to occur so the water would drip down and alter the picture on my dining room table as a sign, a message. A message from Julian, letting me know I will always be his Boo, he still loves me and he is so sorry all the plans we were making would never come to pass. I will always love Julian and he will always be in my heart. Nothing will ever alter that. I am so glad he died, knowing he was loved and he was in love. I would have hated for such a caring, kind and loving man to die without knowing love again. And one day, he and Jake, as well as my Phillip, my Dan and my friend Tris, will all come to get me when it is my time to go. It will definitely be a new and happy homecoming.
I love you, Julian Green.
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NOTE: All emails are direct copies from the internet.
Spelling and punctuation were not changed. Also, I originally wrote this on December 26, 2017, the day after Julian died. It has been edited since then to correct spelling and grammar.