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– Kathy Pike
My client was standing in the round pen with Kairos. He gazed intently at
her. In that moment I felt a direct stream of energy moving from him to her,
centering in her heart. This strong, clear, and pure stream of energy
continued from her heart straight into mine. Immediately I felt my heart
expand and tears came to my eyes. The tears were not of sadness or fear.
The tears were of recognition. In that moment an unspoken word passed
from Kairos, to my client and then to me. The unspoken word felt like a
complete book of knowledge, a sense of expansion and depth much greater
than anything I have ever experienced with any other horse. In that
moment time stood still, there were no questions to be asked and no
answers to be explored. That empty moment simultaneously contained all
the wisdom of the universe.
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In my humble opinion I believe we can achieve deeper levels of experience
by ‘being.’ It is our doing nature that puts us into our heads, fills us with
agendas and removes us from feeling from the heart. When we choose to
‘be,’ we choose to breathe, feel, observe and accept the moment as it is
and as we connect with another. There is no time for judgment or analysis.
When is the last time you sat in the company of another being (horse or
human) without an agenda? What did you experience when you shared this
moment in time, breathing together, sensing the wind in your hair and the
sun on your skin? Are you more focused on making the experienced
happen, or are you willing to let the experience unfold naturally, accepting
another and feeling in your heart the expansion and depth of the moment?
Must you always be doing, or are you willing to simply bond through being?
About Percherons
Why are horses such wonderful therapeutic partners and guides to human
authenticity?
The experience of living with human beings has given domesticated horses
even more sophisticated skills. I’ve seen even the gentlest of geldings
become noticeable agitated when his handler wears a mask of confidence
and well being to hide anxiety. It’s as if the person appears out of focus to
the equine awareness system. The body language of someone “putting on a
happy face” is incongruent with the rise in blood pressure, muscle tension
and emotional intensity transmitted unconsciously by an individual who is
actually afraid, frustrated or angry. Mainstream trainers explain this
phenomenon by saying “the horse can smell your fear”,but it’s more subtle
and complicated than that. A secure, well-cared for animal will often relax
the moment his owner simply acknowledges a hidden feeling—even if it’s
still there. Let me say it again: the emotion doesn’t have to change in order
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for the horse to show at least some improvement. The handler just has to
make it conscious and the animal that was agitated seconds before will
sigh, lick his lips or show some other visible sign of release.
The observation that horses mirror the “feeling behind the facade” is one
of the key principles of equine facilitated psychotherapy. Most people don’t
believe it until they see it (experience it)…
Cajun, the wildly spotted appaloosa featured in the chapter titled, ‘Come
Together’, of my most recent book, Hope from the Heart of Horses, tore his
digital tendon in his rear right leg in July. His owner cared for him after the
surgery but unfortunately he injury became infected. He came to my ranch
September 4th. We became the “last chance ranch.” If he could not heal
here he would be put down.
Reticent to put any weight on his injured leg he stood on three legs. It had
been two months of this posture. He was tired, had lost weight, and was
showing signs of atrophy in both his leg and his neck. For two months the
human conversation around him was filled with thoughts such as: shall we
put him down, he is not getting any better, he doesn’t want to live, I don’t
know what to do, what will become of him.
A week before I had purchased a CHI machine for horses after seeing great
success with another horse at the ranch that had bronchitis. We (Jessie
Baker a woman who is helping me at the ranch and went to vet school) had
our work cut out for us. We immediately put him on a three times a day
therapy schedule. He received CHI treatments, massage and stretching,
Bach Flower remedies, and was supplemented with herbs and additional
food to get his health back. Soon he began to love his treatment times and
we would often find him waiting at the gate for us. We saw a little
improvement with his condition the first three days.
Jessie and I were very clear that Cajun would only receive hope and positive
thoughts of love and healing from us, regardless of what we saw. Jessie, a
past US ski team member understands the power of the mind to influence
the body.
We both sensed that he had been holding his leg for so long that he had
lost his ability to believe he could put weight on it without pain. After each
treatment we added a 10-minute walk to force him to move his foot. In the
next three days he radically improved. However, I was still not convinced
he was all that happy.
Cajun is a big, beautiful horse who takes great pride in his physical
strength. In addition to that he has served humans for much of his 25
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years. Emotionally we could see that he was not sure what he had to live
for.
A Level Three program was scheduled at the ranch and we decided that
even with a limp he would be a teaching horse. Cajun entered the round
pen sessions and demonstrated his ability as a master teacher. His
emotional health improved 100% after the program. He saw and
experienced how he could continue to serve and that his presence was
wanted and needed on the ranch.
Cajun has been here for 2.5 weeks. Today I watched him canter with the
other horses out to the big pasture. His canter was not beautiful and
graceful, but it was there. Now his spirit is stronger and more alive. He still
has a long way to go. I suspect about six months of pasture would be the
best thing for him. I hope his owner will see his need for this.
Ironically enough, the same vet who suggested I put down Corazon when he
colicked suggested Cajun be put down. The vet’s surgery and drugs took
both Corazon and Cajun so far. In both cases it was the human touch and
caring that got the horses through.
When I stand next to Cajun he looks me directly in the eye and puts his
muzzle against me. I know in my heart he gets what we have done for him
and he is grateful to have received the love and attention here at the
ranch, especially after all of his years of helping others.
It is easier to give up on a horse than to care for it. We gave Cajun all we
had in the way that we could. It was the right thing for all of us to do. He
has been honored and loved here and he knows it. Horses (and all animals)
present us many opportunities to open our hearts. Helping them in their
healing process is as much a gift for us as it is for them.
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are all artists. It means we see, feel, hear, and experience the world in our
own way. We create our life every moment. When we are free of self-
judgment and limiting beliefs we have the capacity to share those
interpretations through creative expression allowing the true authentic self
to emerge.
I found that putting the workshop together was a creative process in itself.
Each individual who had originally committed to support, teach or help with
the program dropped out. However, shortly after, several new people
arrived. It was the best team I have experienced thus far.
Two great reminders continue to arise for me as I venture deeper into living
a life based on creative flow. When my ego tries to control the
circumstances of my life I have to remember to step back and ask myself,
“What wants to happen?” This simple step invites me to pause and see
what is emerging instead of forcing things to go my way.
Is it possible to truly live life like a horse, being only present in the moment
not thinking about the past or looking to the future? Come talk to a horse
and find out for yourself!
Mel and Lynn you were wonderful! And, many thanks go out to Kate dela
Grange who offered the shamanic component. What a delight to co-
facilitate with my teacher from ten years ago!
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To see some of this wonderful art, visit
http://www.coachingwithhorses.com/LifeisaCreativeProcess.htm
Transitions. What New Territory Are You Experiencing in Your Life? – Kathy
Pike
Corazon has been with me for just 1.5 years. It is hard to believe how much
has changed in such a short time. The last month I have noticed a
significant difference in his demeanor. He still responds with a bit of fright
to large dark objects he has not seen before and prefers not to walk next to
trailers – a slab of ice sliding off the roof may give his body a jolt. However,
he has settled into his new life and continues to shed his hyper protective
instinctive reactions.
His trust in me has grown – he sees me as a safe companion. The other day
I brought him into the indoor arena where a therapeutic riding session was
in progress at the other end. Side walkers and helpers were running around
laughing and calling the little boy’s name that sat on top of a very calm
little pony. They were armed with primary colored tubes called “noodles”
that are usually used in a swimming pool. They played hide and seek to
stimulate his mental activity and focus.
Corazon and I worked at the opposite end of the arena where we focused
on his groundwork, moving in circles, stop, walk, and canter, joining up and
backing. The louder the gang at the other end became, the more energy
Corazon had in his body. His head began to move up and down, a sign that I
have learned to interpret that he is feeling mentally challenged; wants to
understand but needs time to digest. I decided to stop and let him take in
everything. Corazon was about six feet away from me. He looked at the
group and then he looked at me. I could see it in his eyes; he wanted to
jump into my lap! I am his safe zone.
What I love about Corazon is that he knows how to think. Last winter much
of his training was focused on teaching him to slow down his body and
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mind instead of reacting. However, as the handler or rider one must be able
to see and feel him beginning to be nervous and then determine when it is
best to simply ignore his concerns and move on, or work with him to help
him through it.
Together we stood and watched the others. Soon he began to lick and chew
and his head relaxed.
How incredibly odd our world must be for him. What is normal for him is to
live in the elements of nature and experience the serenity of a gentle
sunrise, a thunderstorm overhead, or maybe snow falling in the blowing
wind. To watch humans waving bright colored objects, jump up and down,
make strange sounds, and to tune into the energy of a smaller being with
mental challenges must be an enormous amount to digest.
If I were sent to live in Beijing I don’t know how I might survive. At first I
might feel disoriented. It would take time. Eventually I would learn to
understand the foreign people, traditions, and language. A transition of
this nature would be stimulating and exhausting. It would take some time
before I could relax and trust. In all of the life transitions I have
experienced it is usually 1.5 -2 years before my whole being is completely
relaxed.
When I came back to working with horses, after being thrown and dragged,
I had a lot of inner work to do around fear. My horse Moon helped me work
through my fears while riding. I practice the Mind Body Method (a coaching
process I developed) to slow down my automatic responses and stay
present in my body. Moon helped me integrate new positive ways to be
with my fear instead of the old trauma loops and breakdowns based in
dissociation.
When Corazon, my wild horse, came into my life the exploration of fear
became dramatically exaggerated. It seems even standing next to him my
stomach would start to flip-flop and I would get queasy. His energy was
huge. When he first arrived I made the mistake of taking off his halter and
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putting him into the round pen. It took a month before I could catch him.
Each time I got close to him, he would burst into a frenzy of activity and
race around and around. While he ran around releasing his fear, my body
would experience amplified fear. It seemed the two of us were experiencing
spontaneous combustion.
I got to know Corazon and observed how he responds to all sorts of things.
I learned how to work with him when he is triggered into fear. The time we
spent together during his colic last summer also dramatically changed our
relationship. He grew to trust me and at the same time my trust in him
deepened.
Now spontaneous fear does not run amuck in my internal landscape while I
am with Corazon. When he reacts I stand calm and centered and completely
ignore him not giving his concerns any extra attention. The emotional
resonance between us has decreased as my leadership has increased. He
notices my non-reaction and immediately becomes calmer.
I have experienced another layer of growth around fear. Seven years ago
when the towers in New York were bombed I witnessed many of my
coaching clients going into fear. Many of them scared for their physical
safety, others for their financial safety. The more I watched TV and read
the papers the more I felt the same way—fear crept in. Seven years later I
am witnessing the same thing as our economy is adjusting and many
people are living in a great state of fear.
However, I am a different person today than seven years ago. Today I have
the inner strength to recognize when my thoughts are based in fear. When
others start to complain or worry about the economy I stay in my center
and know that I will be cared for, that there is nothing to fear. As some
freeze, unable to continue on their path of growth or invest in their future, I
become all the more invested. This is the time to grow internally and to
support people who are suffering in fear.
When fear arises you have three choices: flight, fight or freeze. Managing
fear requires developing your own responses to your nature survival
mechanism, verses allowing reactions or learned responses. It requires that
you slow down and make conscious choices to eliminate the negative
thought patterns.
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Our current economical situation is a blessing. Everyone has the
opportunity to become more responsible, conscious and empowered. Big
homes, lots of money, and high-level jobs do not create happiness.
Happiness is an inside job.
Do you look at your life right now and count your blessings or are you
waiting for something terrible to happen?
Have you put your dreams aside and your life on hold to simply focus on
surviving?
Are you more focused on what you most fear or what you most want to
create?
When you are with your horse are you looking for things to be careful of
and avoid, or do you walk anywhere knowing that you and your horse feel
safe and know how to respond?
You get to choose how you experience life. Ultimately everything you
create is dependent on your attitude and the power of your mind. Claim
your life, your happiness and your leadership; choose to feel safe, loved
and happy.
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balance and steps to the side. In anger, or frustration. Once she is fully
present and congruent in her body and mind, she creates momentum,
alignment and a stronger intention. She then takes action to set the
boundary. Boundaries of this nature are set with firm, compassionate, body
centered communications that exude power, will and respect. The horse
responds to the request with cooperation, the message is clear and direct.
1. Boundaries are not walls but standards for right behavior and action for
you and those around you to honor. Everyone has different requirements
for boundaries.
2. You set a boundary when a person or horse comes toward you. A person
or a horse sets a boundary when you approach them. Your horse will tell
you every time you approach her where her boundary is, you job is to watch
and listen for the signs.
3. Where you feel others trespass your boundaries, you are usually
trespassing the same boundary with others.
4. Boundaries honor our spirit and sense of self and the correct application
of boundary setting will often increase respect and trust in relationships
and renew your personal energy.
5. Highly sensitive people and horses can heal and then naturally flourish
and grow when their boundaries are defined, acknowledged and respected.
See next month’s article on how boundary work has help some of the
horses in the herd here in Basalt.
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Maybe you’ve had a rough start to the day. You’ve had an argument with
your spouse. You are going to lose your job and finances are bad. You can’t
find a solution to a never-ending problem. So, you seek refuge in what you
love; you put on your happy face and head to the barn to be with your
horse.
Your horse, usually easy to catch, seems a bit more stand-offish, impatient
with the grooming, and worst case, difficult to manage once you are in the
saddle. A pleasant day of riding might turn into a tug of war or, if you are
really unlucky, an unexpected buck out of your saddle. Your experience
amplifies into frustration and anger, or tears and guilt.
I work with numerous riders who struggle with releasing fears and anxiety
with their horses to create a deeper sense of harmony. Regardless of your
level of riding, your ability to manage your personal energy and become
emotionally agile will profoundly shift your experience with your horse. You
need the right tools and skills for good horsemanship, and one of them is
self-awareness.
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After you locate where you are in your physical body (stomach, throat,
chest, head), notice the quality of sensations in that area.
• What emotion sits in that area of your body?
• Are you experiencing anger, frustration, fear or sadness?
• What is the message in the emotion you are experiencing?
Label the emotion. If it’s “fear,” what might you need to do to move to
safety? Are you experiencing frustration? Frustration is a sign of pushing
against the river. It arises from doing the same thing over and over while
trying to get a different result. Take a moment, step back, breathe, ask for
help or try a new approach. If you are experiencing anger, you may need to
look at establishing some new boundaries with others or your horse.
Check in with your body and your emotional state of being before you go
out to the barn. Do it again as you enter the barn. Do not try to get ‘rid’ of
the emotion you might be experiencing. Instead, listen to it, be with it and
get the message behind it.
When a horse drops his head he is relaxed. Horses relax when each herd
member is in his or her body and relaxed in the environment. Your
partnership with your horse requires great mental confidence. It also
requires great emotional awareness. Don’t be blind to the effects your
energy and emotions have on your horse. Become conscious of your
thoughts and feelings, use your emotions as information and guide yourself
into a fully congruent and present state of being with your horse. From that
place you will create the connection and the partnership that you desire,
with your horse, and with yourself.
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An Echo Beyond the Mirror – Sandra Wallin
The idea that horses can detect and reflect the human condition has been
the source of much discussion in the field of equine facilitated
learning/therapy. As a therapist and teacher, I follow my horses’ lead while
observing how they illuminate the inner story of the people we work with.
Mirroring Principle
Last summer, as I prepared for a group of middle school students to arrive,
I thought about the mirroring principle and wondered if it might be modifi
ed and applied in a more multisensory approach. Just then, my young
horse, Chiron, called out to a passing friend, his whinny echoing around the
shelter. There it was – an echo beyond the mirror. If horses can talk to our
eyes with their body language, could they not also talk to our ears through
our thoughts? What follows is an exercise created out of these musings.
Please know that it continues to change and adapt with each group it
encounters – just like me.
Echoes of Wisdom
When the students arrived, instead of having them meet the herd in the
way they normally do, observing and making note of what they noticed and
felt while in the company of each horse, I asked them to pay close attention
to what they heard and to the thoughts that went on in their heads. The
responses were wonderful. One girl said she heard Chiron tell her that she
felt like a big smile. She thought this was delightful because she felt the
most happy when she was with the horses. A young man said he heard
Cayenne tell him that if he wanted her to trust him, he’d have to prove that
he was trustworthy. Another young lady heard Grace tell her that she was
strong and courageous.
Each message the students heard was like an echo of their own wisdom
bouncing back from the heart of each horse, sharing with them that which
they most needed to hear, most needed to know, and most needed to feel.
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For all of you who have known a calling to connect on levels that have long
been forgotten, for those who catch glimpses of a time when we all walked
and talked with God and all creation when you connect with animals and
nature, and for those who understand that our consciousness is all we can
be forever, the experience is here.
We are offering a new therapy that heals the therapist, the patient, and the
animals assisting in the healing.
When you touch the ALL (the animals term for God) it is all given; oneness,
connection and healing.
Here, the free-roaming herd shares the barn/house with Liz and Kevin. Born
to this paradise, the horses are loved and treated as family. Indeed, the
animals of Gateway 2 Ranch have co-authored Liz’s four award-winning
books. As a result, visitors come from around the world to seek the healing
connection with higher consciousness this land and animals facilitate. They
stay in wall tents and the Spirit Lodge in rustic yet very comfortable
surroundings, and share vegetarian and organic meals prepared by a
gourmet chef. In company with the animals and walking the land they
experience a long forgotten connection with all of creation, learn shamanic
rituals and reclaim their power as wise spiritual beings in the company of
spiritual equals.
In the pristine grassland, lakes, and forests of Gateway, the horses interact
at liberty, visiting and communicating with amazed participants, sharing
their healing gifts and teaching the subjects of truth and intuitive
connection. Playing and riding is all done at liberty or with halters,
bareback pads and treeless saddles. Horses (and all animals) resonate at a
higher vibration than humans and act as tuning forks raising vibration to
levels where we can connect with higher consciousness and the spiritual
realms. As a result of this many participants experience spontaneous
connection and healings. All return home forever changed on the path to
realizing their heart’s desires.
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This summer, at the EARTH Workshops we are offering a Certification
Course for practitioners who would like to take their horse therapy
programs to a new level. With the herd at liberty to interact with
participants we are finding that healing is exponential and miracles are
commonplace. The pre-requisite for the course is a certificate in energy
work (Healing Touch, Reiki, etc.) and apprenticeship is completed at a
regular EARTH Workshop with 20 hours of practicum at another EARTH
Workshop or similar situation.
We see the world differently. You humans talk of being superior – you have
beliefs that are not true. We see the truth of how things really are; all
animals do.
I will tell you ten things you believe that are false:
We are all one – human, plant, animal, rock – every single little quark is
united in the same cosmic soup. There are spaces but no boundaries.
Boundaries are only thoughts.
Life is not a struggle – at least not to the rest of us. You struggle; you
believe there is something that you must accomplish – there is nothing to
accomplish except the desired results of your desires.
You desires are frivolous – they mean nothing in the span of being. I am
referring to the larger span of multiple existence.
You see life from the perspective of your ego. It is so much larger. Because
you identify with a finite expression, you are blind and deaf to all that is
beyond your physical senses.
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Everything in creation you can experience; merge with the energy of a rock,
a tree, a cloud – With no boundaries you are all.
You have trouble being outside yourself because you are absorbed in self.
If you were to let go of your concerns for self for even a moment, the
boundaries being just a thought would disappear. Then you would
experience as we do.
You forget yourself in nature, in quiet – true quiet void of thoughts, and you
remember a truth you knew long ago that has drowned in the confusion of
your busy life.
In one instant you can change the world. If man were to change his mind,
one mind at a time, a chain reaction (like nuclear fission) would occur.
Human minds like ours are all joined – it is the belief in isolation that
creates the limits. Simply let them go, and a far greater world is yours, ours
and in the communion of spirit as it has always been.
That is the simple truth – you can affect your life with your thoughts, but
beyond that narrow perspective you hold, nothing changes. The truth
remains the same. There are two ends to the spectrum. Fear is at one end
and it is false; love is at the other and it is all that is true.
The truth is we are all God. It is only humans who have separated.
Perspective is the key here. From your perspective, you think that you are
the different ones, the superior species – the most like God. That is the
story as you have told it – it is your story. We all have a story that is our
own perspective. The difference is, animals are in agreement because they
have not left the garden. (the place where all walk and talk with God.)
Humans believe in a human myth. It is the story that supports separation.
Animals have a knowledge of good or God. People wanted to create a
perspective that would give them superiority or so they thought. ‘Let us
have evil, which is the opposite of what all other life understands.’ And
they have boxed themselves into a corner. They have created another
category, and being the designers of their world, have made themselves a
hell. The point is we all view the world from our own perspective; ‘our’
being singular or plural. Human/Humans. Horse/Horses. The difference is
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humans believe in opposites; we believe in sames. Every being sees the
world through their own eyes; every species through the eyes of the
species. Animals interconnect species to species, to man, and that is how
we can help you. We can share our vision; we can show you paradise again.
You are the only species who have lost the connection and therefore
wrongly believes that you are separate and therefore superior. Just like in a
flying change, the lead is the perspective. Change your lead mid-air and
change your direction. It is that simple, – as you believe, you will
experience life.
Written by the animals who, are not limited by the barriers of time and
space we humans fall prey to.
“The animals who communicate these messages are dogs, cats and horses.
Individuals who have unique and special attributes that are specifically
theirs, but unlike humans they continually commune with others of their
species and interconnect with all life on this planet and beyond. They travel
freely between realities and offer connection to ALL” – Liz
We (the animals) have much to teach about spiritual freedom. We have not
lost connection to the All (God) and the understanding of All there is. On
one level you remember that connection and the truth of our existence. We
are all there is, the be ALL and the end All. Life is All one experience. The
experience of us All. It is only when we limit our perspective to a finite
point in that existence that we have anything to fear. That finite point is
the ego; the individual physical plane existence experienced for but a brief
moment in time. If we choose to identify with that fragile experience then
there is much reason to fear.
Animals have not chosen to limit themselves as people do. Often our lives
are given no importance by humans. We, being no lesser parts of the All,
experience the same range and depth of emotion that it is, possible to
experience. We love, desire, feel happiness, sadness, pain and longing, –
often more so as we are often captives in a barren existence, prisoners of
human ambition. Had we wanted, there has been little incentive or
opportunity to develop a finite sense of self, and possibly that is why we
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are in our present situation. When one does not solely identify with this
existence it is easier to leave it.
Imagine as we do, living with the perspective of being inside and outside
yourself at the same time. We can experience all aspects of life on this
plane and beyond, the greater All existence. The moment you make that
connection everything is given. It is like a drop of water becoming the
ocean and the moment it touches, it is the ocean, a beam of light blending
with all light. Within and without there is nothing but to become All form
itself, Oneness, – All.
A small group gathered just moments prior to what was supposed to be our
private consultation as word had leaked out amongst the whole dressage
barn. My briefing included a small synopsis that “Madrid” was passionately
concerned with the dressage whip and no-one could get near him with the
whip without him freaking out and running backwards or spinning leaving
the scene absolutely out of control. It was believed that he had been
chased with the whip by his former guardians outside of this Continent.
Madrid was led into the outside round pen where we introduced ourselves
to one another. I was confident that he was familiar with my methods of
“reaching out” together with the halter work in preparation for him to
release himself from pressure. For all barn staff had been trained to my
methods over the past 5 years. He appeared very calm and relaxed in an
environment he was used to. In order to assess the situation it was
important for me to break each step down into bite size chunks. This way I
would be able to come to an educated conclusion as to Madrid’s cause of
fear.
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The next step included taking the whip with me, stroking him on the
shoulder and praising him; through the release of walking away and a
soothing voice. During this particular training session I actually included
the use of food as reward. This decision was based on the deep rooted
cause and extended period of time the barn had been experiencing the
behavior pattern. The bucket of carrots was left on the outside of the round
pen so that Madrid would not associate me as the carrot dispenser. It’s a
safe way to ensure there would be no mugging. Each time I walked away
from him with the whip in hand I returned just moments later with a bucket
of carrots for him to choose from. He was allowed to dip his nose into the
bucket and choose a mouthful of carrots, but just one.
I was sure to introduce the experience of the whip touching him from each
side of his body and out of both eyes, thereby giving Madrid 2 separate
visual experiences. Within a short time-frame Madrid realized that he was
in full control of this whip and could direct it at all times by his stillness
alone.
As Madrid proved that he was able to process this portion of the lesson
completely without any signs of fear, flight or fight it was time to tack him
up to initiate a normal riding lesson. We repeated the exercise of approach
and retreat, praising each and every try Madrid made. If at any time he
thought he could not cope and needed to leave we saw this response
through tension in his body and would take the lesson slower. However, we
“raised the bar” to include a mounting block and height for him to view the
whip from above continuously reminding him that he would not be harmed,
but instead would be able to exchange his past experiences with positive
memories.
Part II:
Although I was taken aback by how much Madrid was able to absorb and be
proud of his courage and progress, this was to be just the beginning. My
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client was astounded and yet believed that maybe the arena was the cause
to all the problems and we should in fact take the lesson inside. It could be
quite possible that Madrid would be associating the whip with the indoor
arena and not the outside round pen. Quite a lot of information had been
gathered in the first ½ of the lesson for us to now move into a more
“pressured” situation.
I was informed that one of the most complicated tasks was in fact to ride
up to the side of the arena and reach for the whip. Please know that the
whip was only to be used as an aid in preparing Madrid for the finer queues
needed to attain Piaffe and not as a form of punishment. I suggested they
show me how they approach the side for me to witness the manner of the
approach and possible outcome. Madrid was ridden straight up to the ledge
where his rider reached for the whip and he stood calmly. “He is going to
make a liar out of me yet”, she said with a broad smile on her face, as
Madrid put no foot wrong. We repeated this approach several times, from
many different angles.
I suggested my rider stay very focused and clear with her requests, not
allowing for any pre-conceived ideas so that the messages and pictures she
had in her mind would represent the outcome she desired. We continued to
praise all of Madrid’s efforts through petting his neck, soothing words,
walking away from the ledge and the occasional mouthful of carrots to
reinforce our message. Within just moments Madrid began to aim for the
ledge to touch the whip on his own accord. He was totally aware that the
whip represented a good feeling and that something positive would follow
just shortly after. It was truly magical to observe.
There was just one incident, one spook, where I got to witness the fear in
Madrid’s eye. Our intention was for the rider to create small circles at the
trot, slowing down and coming to a stop for our handler to pass the whip
across to her. When we reached this point Madrid ran side-ways while
backing away from the whip, each step faster than the other. Madrid’s rider
just settled with his movements, allowing him the space to gather his
thoughts before she asked him once again to approach our grounds-person.
This time he was able to absorb any kind of fear and we were able to
reinforce our positive lessons. It’s at times like these we can take a step
backwards to go forwards. We repeated some of the positive lessons he
was able to perform to give him the confidence he needed to proceed.
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believed the whip was on hand as it had been in his past – to tell him off, to
show how bad he had been. It all became clear. I suggested to my client
that she introduce the whip earlier in her future lessons while he was still
in a relaxed state and before any signs of confusion. That way he would
learn that the whip was indeed an aid and not a form of punishment; he
would come to understand the proper use of the whip.
We continued with our lesson for just a few moments longer finishing on a
perfect note just under 1½ hours. Madrid readily accepted the positioning
our grounds-person took to begin to introduce him to the first movements
of Piaffe. She gently held his rein in her left hand guiding his nose and neck
carriage, while carrying the whip in the right hand gently tapping him on
his rear end. It was a picture to be seen. Horse and rider in harmony with
one another. In the whole time his person had known Madrid she had not
been able to pick up a whip without an adverse reaction, let alone get the
handler to come within 10 feet of Madrid. Now he was accepting both the
handler and the whip as he digested the information presented to him. I
have no doubt Madrid will make it to the next dressage level and look
forward to seeing him in the show ring upon my next trip!
I am very fortunate. When I look back over my life, for the most part, I have
always wanted to get out of bed, welcome the day, and witness what life
has in store for me. It’s the thought of those every day wonders about to
happen right in front of my eyes that keep me excited; seeing the miracles
nature has to offer, meeting the people and experiencing the multitude of
cultures all around the globe.
When working with your horse hold on to these types of feelings as best
you can as this is what we want our horses to feel when they see us. We
want them to greet us with joy and excitement asking, “What’s in store
today?”
For those horses who don’t want to be close and run a mile when they see
us approach we have a frustrating challenge on our hands. If we are to
solve the problem of “catching a horse that doesn’t want to be caught”, we
have to ask the tough questions and be prepared for the answers no matter
what they are. We have to ask what is the “real” reason they don’t want to
be with us, what is the underlying cause?
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Although the specific answers may be varied, in general that question can
be answered in one sentence; they don’t see value in our presence. But
what does this really mean to us? Our horses are trying to tell us something
and it’s our responsibility to listen and understand. So it is time to stop
trying to catch your horse and instead hear what your horse is saying. If
you can change what your horse doesn’t like then you will never have to
catch your horse again. Instead he will greet you with excitement and
curiosity.
Discomfort
Before you do anything at all, you need to consider your horse’s wellbeing.
As a living, breathing member of the planet that wellbeing includes
physical, mental and emotional needs. Your horse may be trying to tell you
how he feels physically. He will have begun to change his behavior under
saddle, expressed his feelings while being tacked-up and finally, with no
more options available to him, moved on to show you he no longer wants to
come to you as this means he will be subjected to discomfort yet again. So
to start off…
Once we take care of any physical pain we can then look at the possible
emotional trauma they may have faced in the past. Just like humans, the
loss of young, grieving missed friendships, location moves, inappropriate
management and handling, and a myriad of other experiences can easily
create trauma in a horse. These memories stay with them for life and it’s
our commitment that helps them through these troubling experiences.
Tip: Consult professional advice to help your horse through any type of
trauma or discomfort
The way you carry yourself gives your horse a great deal of information
about you and what is on your mind for the day. If there are time
pressures, concerns or fears they will know. Some horses pride themselves
on supporting their “guardian” during these situations, while others feel its
best to just not get involved and walk the other way.
Tip: Leave your baggage at the gate and don’t let it interfere with your
horse work.
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Your Horse’s Body Language
The horse’s language is predictable, discernable and effective. It’s a
language that can be learned and although, in their eyes we are predators,
we can bridge the gap between the two worlds.
Observe horses in their natural habitat and you will witness the intricacies
of their communication and interactions. Even the subtlest of gestures
speaks loudly to a horse. It’s important to remember that when you walk
out to the pasture. Are you yelling at them with your body language or are
you whispering to them. Are you talking to them or talking at them. All
types of communication can be valid and useful in the appropriate
circumstance. What is your body language saying and how is it impacting
those around you?
So how should you approach your horse? Well, horses naturally walk in arcs
and angles. Therefore, it would be more appropriate to approach your
horse with a slight curve, creating a half moon in front of your horse. By
remaining in front of your horse’s shoulders at all times you are ensuring
that you don’t inadvertently drive them away.
You can learn more about “the language of Equus” and how to talk to your
horse in my DVD series “Reach Out to Natural Horsemanship”.
Tip: Learn your horse’s language. You can’t talk to your horse if you don’t
know what you are saying.
Your Agenda
Not only do horses read our body language, they also know our agendas.
For us this means we need to pay particular attention to our thoughts. It’s
a great idea to have a goal in mind, but it’s also foolish to fall in love with
it! Stay in the moment as you communicate with your equine partner and
don’t be afraid to change your mind if your original plan doesn’t seem to fit
the moment.
Tip: Visualize a plan and be flexible. Don’t be afraid to change the goal if it
doesn’t fit the moment.
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times you visit your horse. Are there occasions when you need to let off
steam, tack up and enjoy the country side, visit your friends or improve
your riding skills? Does each visit involve only your needs and happiness or
do you include how your horse feels on this particular day? If each time you
visit, you don’t see his needs he will begin to walk away regardless of what
you need.
We have all occasionally woken up on the wrong side of the bed. Maybe
your horse is having a bad day too. He could have been scolded by another
horse, missed breakfast or lunch, dislike cold weather, merely be tired from
a bad night’s sleep or feel a little sore.
If you are not in a position to board your horse at home, remember to ask
those who take care of him. They may know more.
Tip: Keep the channels of communication open. Give your horse a voice in
your plans.
Motivation
Motivation is the key for your horse to want to come to you…you are
partners after all. What motivates your horse? Nearly every one likes to
assume and I hear common answers like “food” or “rest”, but it’s not until
we let our horse tell us that we will know for sure.
During the Reach Out to Horses Certification program all students get
together on the last day to discover just this. We wait until later in the
program to ensure we have some background knowledge on individual
horses as this exercise can become somewhat precarious otherwise. I
suggest you only venture down this road if you have the right equipment
and always make safety your first priority. You can also adapt the exercise
to suit your needs.
Prior to starting the exercise it is fun to write down what you think
motivates your horse! Then clip the long-line onto the halter with about 20-
25 feet in the line so your horse has plenty of room to explore.
Without hinting or guiding your horse allow them to show you what
intrigues them. This will give you a chance to explore his true motivation.
It’s important to stay safe throughout the exercise and remain at a 45
degree angle without stepping into the kick zone. Although some horses
have picked up a jog its best to keep the exercise calm and slow.
Each time we conduct this exercise students come back surprised with the
results. Some horses explore every stall and opening, others visit all the
horses on the property. Individuals have pranced, displaying their
manhood, while others partook of the joy of grazing.
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Once you discover your horse’s preferences you are in a position to praise
accordingly. By building that motivation into your personal program you
give your horse a voice too!
Tip: Discover what motivates your horse and incorporate it into the time
with him.
Hopefully you can now see why there is no such thing as: “I can’t catch my
horse”. Investing the time to listen to and understand your horse will reap
rewards far beyond being able to catch him in the pasture. Plus the more
time you spend with your horse, the more time you’ll have spent with your
horse, strengthening your bond and creating a great partnership. And after
all, isn’t that the reason you got him in the first place?
Biting is one of those problems that all horse lovers come across at one
time or another. It can be a very frustrating challenge to tackle, not to
mention a dangerous one. A biting horse can be a real concern for not only
the owner but the barn staff, grooms, other boarders, pretty much anyone
who comes in contact with him. Hermano was one of those horses. He was
majestic, powerful, determined, masculine… and a biter.
I met him on a trip to the East Coast where I went to help with a number of
my client’s equine problems. “Hermano” was known to attack people and
kick innocent individuals not paying attention to him while on his aisle. He
certainly didn’t disappoint during our first meeting. His calm demeanor
suddenly turned ferocious with his ears pinned back, and my swift,
instinctive move away saved me from losing a chunk of my shoulder. It was
very clear that for the safety of everyone in the barn, this was not
acceptable behavior.
I asked about Hermano’s biting history and it appeared that most of the
behavior occurred either in or close to Hermano’s stall, when he would
lunge at passersby, or while on the cross-ties in the barn aisle. As I was
listening, Hermano reached toward me with his neck, persistently smelling
my clothing and seeking what appeared to be snacks. Without hesitation I
announced: “Someone is hand-feeding him treats and this needs to stop as
he can’t handle the disappointment if he doesn’t get a treat. He sees
humans as treat dispensers and when they don’t deliver he gets very
upset.”
“It’s not just me”, my client announced in her defense. “It would be
difficult to stop everyone from treating him here in the barn”. I turned to
Julie, the barn manager, and asked whether it would be possible to enforce
this request and she immediately supported the idea. When training a bad
habit or behavior out of a horse, consistency from everyone, and at all
times, is crucial and Julie understood that.
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The next step was to see Hermano in action. He was led out of his stall and
placed on the cross ties in the barn aisle. Although not an advocate of this
particular means of tying, it was the norm at this barn and a wanted to
reenact the situation as closely to the real thing as possible. Again,
Hermano didn’t disappoint. Up came his adrenaline as he grew by several
inches in height. While posturing his neck he began to bite at my client as
she touched his sides imitating grooming and tacking up. Warning all those
around him Hermano raised and danced on his hind feet while swishing his
tail in disgust. I could feel the energy bubble he built around himself
keeping everyone at bay and instantly demanding respect. He had defined
his domain.
Now came the hard part; figuring out the cause of this behavior, not only to
establish the depth and degree of his aggression, but also to create a clear
plan of action for everyone to follow.
First, I wondered how much of this was Hermano’s true nature? Was he
affected by his blood-line, herd hierarchy, previous history, self-defense or
was this behavior purely based on inappropriate manners? Many
conclusions had been drawn by those who knew him, but I knew that
listening to Hermano himself would give us the answers and direction we
needed to rectify the current situation.
Biting, kicking and being unruly wasn’t his natural way. This was his true
nature for he was at liberty and as such we were automatically presented
with a situation based on equal terms. No whips, or paraphernalia, just me
and him. I had my character read and he knew who I was, creating a base
on which to work together.
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Next, several staff members joined me in the round pen as we lavished
Hermano with attention. Rubbing our hands all over his body we massaged
him while exploring sensitive areas, hot spots or pleasure zones. When
entering his vulnerable areas (around his rib cage, throat, underneath his
belly etc) we reassured Hermano to take our actions on face value and
acknowledged his ability to stand still and quiet. We approached him from
all angles, all speeds, and included multiple people to induce possible
anger or aggression. This didn’t seem to trigger anything. So I could then
rule out human interaction and crowding as the cause to his behavior.
Saddle-up
The next step; the saddle. My client mentioned that this may exasperate
the biting, for up until now I had not been able to trigger any of his biting
behavior. The English saddle was brought to the center of the round pen
where a number of us stayed to tack up Hermano. It was the first time he
experienced this many people around him and yet he remained focused and
respectful. As we purposefully took our time, included slight intentional
“mishaps” and tacked him up multiple times, there was not one single bite.
The saddle itself had been fitted perfectly and checked regularly to ensure
its correct fitting. Tacking up & saddle fitting was not the cause.
I suggested we take Hermano to another part of the barn and not his
“home”, an area that he was not necessarily accustomed to and yet would
provide us with similar insights. Hermano was taken to a stall used for
tacking up with the identical lay-out of his barn aisle. Within this stall he
was prepared, once again, for grooming and tacking-up. Somewhat
distracted, he was intrigued by the smells of the resident stallions and yet
remained calm throughout. Accepting all that we brought to the lesson,
Hermano showed no signs of claustrophobia or distress.
Conclusion
With many possible causes tested and debunked, I suggested my client
build the following procedures into her training program to:
• Discontinue hand feeding
• Turn-out prior to my client’s arrival to eliminate any excess energy levels
• The use of the “Dually” pressure halter for schooling purposes
• Mutual respect & understanding of Hermano’s space
Hermano had clearly learned to protect his stall and barn aisle and, in my
opinion, it all stemmed from the hand-feeding associating this activity to
his stall and surrounding area. Unchecked, it then escalated to the point
where he had now become dangerous in that particular scenario leading to
protecting his surrounding area.
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was not, as many had feared, a dangerous horse who could not be trusted
in any situation with a concern he might take his aggression to unknown
heights. Instead, we were dealing with a conditioned response. One that
could be reconditioned with the help and cooperation of the same people
who has unintentionally created the problem in the first place.
Excalibur began his life on the Spanish Mustang Registry’s 4,500 acre
Ranch in Oshoto, WY. The SMR work to preserve the little horse who
evolved from those that came over the ocean with the Conquistadors. They
became the cow pony, the Indian pony, the Spanish Mustang – they are
known for their personal strength and endurance. This is where all the
bloodlines are and where it all began http://www.cayuseranch.com.
At the SMR horses enjoy one of the best existences left for wild horses and
it was here that Excalibur spent the first 6 months of his life being raised
naturally by his family. Once weaned, Excalibur moved to Red Feather
Lakes in Colorado to spend the next 9 months growing up. This is a crucial
time in any young horse’s life. They must spend time around other horses
to learn their language, social skills, understand respect/boundaries and
just to play like horses do.
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Excalibur grew into a fine young colt in the first 15 months of his life. And
it’s here that I met this majestic little fellow.
During my trip I spent many hours on the plains just observing different
family groups, but its one particular family that drew me closer, and of
course it was the family of Excalibur.
Here was the rare chance for me to be part of Excalibur’s life before I knew
him, to understand his origins. I quickly spotted Excalibur’s father. His
name was Canyon Rim Charley and he led one of the largest family groups
on the ranch. To my surprise I felt a degree of pride swell up inside me. I
sat down at yet another sunset to watch several different bands
congregate close to a watering hole.
Eventually, close to five other bands began to close in on this area. With
about ½ mile distance between me and the herd, Charley knew I was no
threat to his family and seemed very comfortable with my presence. I
watched what I perceived to be a young inexperienced stallion drive two
bachelor boys over a great distance. It was obvious that he felt very
uncomfortable with their presence; it seemed to unnerve him or even
challenge him somewhat.
Once this young stallion felt confident that he had made his intentions clear
to the bachelors he returned rather uptight to his 2 mares and foals. With
adrenaline still pumping, he watched his 2 offspring play with Excalibur’s
sister. Moments later he decided that the games needed to end. He
lowered his head and began to “snake” and rather abruptly ordered his 2
youngsters to return to their mothers while running Excalibur’s sister back
home.
All this time Charley had stood motionless just watching this interaction.
But now, without hesitation he moved purposefully forward, with piercing
eyes he held his gauze at the young stud, shoulders squarely pointed
forward. He walked right up to him, stopping just short of the Stud’s face.
The energy was clear, the message was clear:
“Don’t talk to my daughter that way”.
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As Excalibur’s sister happily returned home, her mother took care of her.
Together they walked to the other more peaceful side of the waterhole.
They shared a drink and some mother-daughter quality time, maybe they
were even exchanging words, who knows?
Dancing Fever, as Excalibur’s mother is known to everyone, is the lead
mare. She too leads through her wisdom and matches her partner well. It is
moments like these that will remain with me for the rest of my life. For now
I understand why X has been blessed with the character he has.
Most of us are cross over trainers. If we have been with horses for any
length of time we have used correction based training. Yes, we would give
a pet, a good girl or good boy, a secondary reinforcer, but we still would
correct unwanted behaviors through various means.
“When I was young, I did the best I could. When I knew better, I did
better”. Maya Angelou
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the time to see if the horse understands what we are asking or is physically
or mentally capable of implementing our goal.
Clicker training has taught me to chunk things down step by step for the
horses so they can understand them, own them and return them to me.
Horses can be such great teachers of Universal truths. Patience. Clarity.
Compassion. Love. Joy.
I have learned the best route for creating dream like relationships with our
horses is to take the slow boat to China. Teaching the horse step by baby
step, keeping them successful and not making them wrong, creates huge
shifts in the unfolding of their individual personalities. This means
managing their environments so they can be successful. Horses, children,
people cannot learn if there are too many distractions around, fear, pain or
the underlining threat of pain. In the beginning we create the best learning
environment we can for our horses, later we add distractions to proof the
behaviors.
If I can let the horse have a voice through the free shaping process they
own the behavior stronger. It is theirs. They have discovered it. I never tire
of seeing a horse learn and explore, watching the twinkle in their eye come
about when they understand.
We turned Nippers loose in the arena and we stayed on the deck outside
the arena. Our goal was to have him willingly, happily and with trust let
Marcia put on and off his halter. But we did not start with our goal.
We held out the target for Nippers to touch and waited. He was zooming
around the arena. Any time he came in our direction we clicked and offered
him a treat. We could see he was registering the click but he would not
stop to take his treat. When the restraints are taken off the horse it is so
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interesting what they express and show us. Nippers was telling us quite
clearly he did not trust humans and wanted nothing to do with them.
After awhile his running stopped and Marcia kept offering the target and
clicking him when he came close but still he would not take his treats. This
is where a teacher comes in handy. We’ll just stay consistent. “Patience is
Knowledge in Disguise”. Marcia was wonderful in trusting the process.
After some time Nippers was targeting and taking his treats consistently so
we could now up the criteria a little bit. He would tell us if it was too much.
We put the halter behind the target. Click and Treat. He accepted it! Marcia
did this a number of times and then I had her remove the target and have
him touch the halter only. His eyes started to twinkle.
We went through the process of building trust, letting Nippers tell us when
he was ready for the next step. He was free to go at any time, but he
stayed with us. We gave him all the time he needed to work through his
distrust and fears to find the answer for himself. We all had tears as we
watched him struggle with his fears, and then accept and start to trust
humans again.
Sure, we could have forced the halter on him. That would be having the
goal take control instead of letting the horse guide us in what he really
needed. And by letting him have a voice, having the freedom to stay or go,
we also started to change his inner view of the world. The connection, the
bonding, the trust that was developing between him and Marcia was
priceless.
I had the privilege of seeing Marcia and Major last month. Major totally
adores her now and she him. To watch them work with lateral flexions
happily together was a joy. And he has generalized his trust of her and her
daughter to others. He is a Major Star!
This one story of one horse has been duplicated over and over again each
in a unique way. The power of equine clicker training is huge. From trust
and confidence building to creating a balanced horse that is heaven to ride.
Once tasted there is no going back to correction based training.
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This story is an actual adoption at Turtlerock Rescue in Fitzwilliam, NH.
Turtlerock Rescue is an equine sanctuary and the first in the area to offer a
‘Lifetime Care Program’ for equines with special needs. Turtlerock operates
on donations from private individuals, grants and through support from
volunteers.
One day I woke up and began to see the world was a little darker than it
should be. Everything was a little blurry. I thought maybe I was getting a
cold. But day after day I could see less and less. I began to bump into
things and I would get scared if I didn’t see you and you touched me.
My family called in the veterinarian to see what was wrong. They gave me
all different kinds of medicine but it didn’t work. I tried to not let them
notice I was getting worse. I wanted my boy to know I would still carry him
safely on my back so I learned to walk with confidence so no one would
know I was now a blind horse.
I was retired that day. My boy was getting better and better at riding and
with my eyesight gone, I could not take him to the professional shows,
blind horses were not allowed in those shows. My family decided they
would find me a good home where I could retire. They tried to be very
careful where I would go. A man bought me and said I would be going to a
little child to ride with. My family was happy they had found me a safe
home even though I heard them crying that they had to let me leave. I was
sad I was leaving but I was sure that I would be happy.
One day a trailer came and it picked me up. My family was crying, they
were upset and I became upset too. Something was wrong but I didn’t know
what it was. I tried to make them proud and I did my best not to stumble as
I walked on the trailer.
The trailer smelled bad and the floor was dirty and my feet slipped. I
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became afraid. My family had been tricked, I was not going to a new home
like my family and I had been promised. The man lied and had sold me to a
place that killed horses for food. I was afraid, I could not see, I could not
get out of the trailer. What would I do? Why would he do something like
this to me?
What I did not know was that my family went onto their computer and sent
out a message to everyone they could think of to ask for help saving me.
Finally there was someone that sent them a message back. “We will help
rescue her”. These two people would buy me back from the horse killers
and would make sure I would be safe forever. But they had to beat the
truck to the slaughterhouse first.
A man I never met before was now racing his truck and trailer through 3
states to get to me before I was hurt. I did not know he was coming until I
heard the truck stop. I heard two men talking and then I heard the door
open. I was sure this was the end, I was so afraid. But this man was kind;
he was gentle with me and let me take my time getting off the trailer. Then
he led me onto a new trailer. This one was filled with hay, and it was clean.
I knew that this person had come to take me somewhere that was safe. The
truck started and I began my trip to my new home and my new life.
My new home was noisy. There were lots of horses at this place. I also met
the lady that helped save me. The man and woman introduced me to a
horse they called Jessie. Jessie would be my eyes for me, she would teach
me the shape of the paddock and would lead me to my food when it was
time to eat. Jessie told me the people were named Mary and Ken and they
had saved Jessie from terrible people too.
Jessie told me what had happened while I was on the trailer. That is was my
family that tried to save me and Mary and Ken had come to my rescue. That
I was safe now and no one would ever try to hurt me again.
Jessie told me that not all the horses that came to Mary and Ken were
rescued from being hurt. Some horses were surrendered to Mary and Ken
because people could not afford to keep their horses anymore and did not
want anything bad to happen to them so they came to live here. They
called this place Turtlerock Rescue.
I learned a lot about the horses that lived at the rescue with us. There were
old horses that were retired because they could not be ridden anymore.
There were wild horses, called mustangs that Mary and Ken had rescued;
Jessie was a rescued mustangs. There were horses from racetracks and
something called donkeys. I’ve never seen one but they yell a lot and
they’re very loud. We even had a baby horse with us for a little while until
he was adopted.
One day Jessie got adopted to a very nice lady. I was sad to lose Jessie but
she was happy to go to her very own home. I became very good at going
around the paddock alone. Jessie was a very good teacher. A short time
after Jessie left for her new home, we got a new blind horse at the rescue.
His name is Sonny and it was my job to teach him how to be a horse
without your eyes to guide you. Then a few months later there was another
blind horse that came named Pepper. All of us are Appys. Appys are prone
to eye infections and a disease called Moon Blindness more than other
breeds. We all lost our sight to Moon Blindness.
Now came the move to our new land. Mary and Ken bought us lots and lots
of land for all the horses to be able to live on. Not only did we get our very
own paddock, we got a new friend named George.
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George was really frightened when he lost his eyesight and I did my best to
help him learn what he needed to know. George and I became best friends.
We were always together.
Then we met Wendy. She volunteers at Turtlerock and really liked George.
We got used to visiting with Wendy. She would brush us and make sure we
looked pretty for anyone that might want to adopt us. Then Wendy brought
her friend to meet me. Her name is Michelle. Michelle would come over
every weekend and brush me and give me attention.
Then, one day Wendy and Michelle fit a bridle very carefully on my head so
it was nice and comfortable like my boy used to do when we would go
riding. Then Michelle got up on my back! I was being ridden again and the
best part was that I was teaching Michelle how to ride. I was the first horse
she had ever ridden. I was so proud that day; it was like winning a blue
ribbon.
As time went on Wendy would take George out and we’d all go for trail
rides together.
Wendy and Michelle decided to talk to Mary and Ken one day. They said it
was time for George and I to be available for adoption. We had proven
ourselves as safe horses and we could be ridden. Everyone knew that I
loved children and I would be happiest being ridden by a child.
Our pictures went up on the Turtlerock website. I had people come and
meet me and they were all nice but no one was just right for me. But every
weekend my friends Michelle and Wendy came to brush us and ride us and
talk to people that came to Turtlerock to find out about the horses that
lived there.
One day, Mary took me out of the paddock and brought me up to the big
barn. She asked me to stand still in the aisle while she spoke with people.
I was in the aisle when I heard little voices all around me. Then I felt
someone hug my leg. I was surprised, but I realized it was a little child.
Then I felt someone brushing me, no, two people brushing me, no, three! I
couldn’t count how many children there were. They were wonderful. They
brushed me and hugged and kissed me. Then I got to take them all out for
rides. They laughed and played with me and I had such a wonderful time
with them.
Then I went back to my paddock, happy with the wonderful day I had. I
hoped they would come back and visit me again; we had all had such fun
together.
Later that week, Ken came and took me out of my paddock. I thought we
were going for a walk but Mary and Ken talked to me and brushed me and
then took me out to the trailer. Mary patted me and said ‘good bye’. I did
as Ken asked and walked onto the trailer. It smelled of fresh shavings and
hay. I waited to hear who was coming for the ride with me but the truck
started and I was traveling alone. It was a long ride like the first trip I had
with but I didn’t mind.
Then the truck and trailer turned and we stopped. I heard the door and
ramp open for me to come out. I listened to Ken and walked out of the
trailer. Then I heard voices, I knew who it was calling my name! I heard
footsteps coming toward me and then they all hugged me and patted me. I
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was with the children who came to visit me last week. They wanted me to
live with them. I have my own home again!
Ken and I said good-bye to each other. He patted me and said good-bye. I
did my best to thank him for all the wonderful things he and Mary did for
me. They saved my life, they gave me love, they kept me safe and happy
and they found me a home.
We’ve all heard the terms horse whisperer and animal communicator. Some
people think it’s a bunch of hooey. Judge for yourself...
ANGELIA’S EXPERIENCE
When she asked me about Dixie’s back leg, I acted dumb and said I don’t
know anything (even though I did). She said the leg bothers Dixie and that
Dixie is having problems with the lead-changing and sliding exercises. I
hadn’t mentioned any problems or given her any questions to send her in
that direction. At this point, I’m thinking I’m glad I called this woman.
Another thing she said was that Dixie was starting to get overwhelmed and
confused with all the different stuff we were learning. Dixie said her brain
was fried. I am sure this was the case, because mine was, too! She also said
Dixie didn’t like barrel racing and asked not to do again. That really got me
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thinking. I was in Canada for reining training and had not mentioned the
barrel racing episode over two years ago.
Dixie wanted me to acknowledge when she did well. She also liked it when I
talked to her. I didn’t have anything to lose, so the next day, when we did a
new lesson and she did well, I stopped and verbally acknowledged her. Ever
since then, anyone who had seen us before and then after noticed Dixie and
I have become different.
Everyone else who had a session with the communicator was also amazed.
They sat there with open jaws and shaking heads.
The communicator had never met us or our horses, but she was right on
with ALL of us. One of the other program participants had two horses who
said they wanted to be sold. They didn’t like her. It was funny because she
didn’t like them either. Another horse, a stallion, was having problems with
energy. Neither the owner nor her vet could figure out what was going on.
The communicator suggested checking his blood levels. The owner finally
did, two months later. She emailed us all and guess what...they found the
issue and were able to fix it.
JENNY’S EXPERIENCE
First, she asked a general question about how each was feeling. Mind you,
she never once saw these horses move, nor did she touch them physically.
With each horse, she asked about any aches and pains. My horse Taz
wanted me to know that I move my leg too much when riding and he isn’t
sure what I am asking. Funny... my left hip frequently gives me issues and
when riding dressage, my left leg swings way more than it should. This
seems to cue Taz to canter even when I am not intending to ask. Hmmm?
When asked if he liked going barefoot (which he had been for about a
year), he said he is still not quite used to it, but with more time, he may be
able to cope. He also said he liked the “saddle I can hold above my head”
(bareback pad and/or dressage saddle). A review of my heavier trail saddle
found a place way up inside the gullet that pinched the sides of this
withers. Another Hmmm...
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My other horse, Cappuccino, has been challenging for years. During
dressage lessons, he would buck or trip. He wanted to know why I never
“let him run” out on the trail. I mentioned those issues. He communicated
that riding in a circle is so boring that his mind cannot stay “on task” so he
loses focus and stumbles. He assured me that out on the open trail, he
would know where his feet are!
The Sixth Sense: We all have it -- humans, horses, all animals. Every
species is born with it and there’s no difference between an animal’s sixth
sense and human “intuition.” The difference is animals are much more
trusting of their sixth sense than most humans are.
Equine intuition is particularly potent. Horses are dialed into their sixth
sense because, as herd animals, their very survival depends upon it. Known
for their uncanny ability to ignite psychic awareness in humans, horses
have a powerful way of reminding us to follow our hearts and trust our
intuition.
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Perhaps it is because of the incredible sacrifices that horses have given to
the human race that we are so curious to get to know them. Or perhaps it is
because they have so humbly allowed us to use them for our own
advancement that they continue to invoke in us a sense of awe and
wonder. We continue to be drawn to them as they continue to allow us into
their mystical, natural world. They give us their unconditional love, their
loyalty and their ever-present wildness. We are forever drawn to their
essence and on some level, we yearn for their inherent connection to all
things divine.
I believe horses are here to help us listen with our hearts; to be reminded
of the power of love; to live our lives with the same grace, simplicity and
beauty that have helped The Equine Spirit survive for centuries.
I have countless conversations with the horses while I paint their portraits.
I am always inspired by the joyful, wise and sometimes humorous things
they have to say.
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Twenty-two year old Quarter horse, Lexi, had been having trouble
breathing for some time. She could inhale properly, but not get all the air
out, leaving her racked by heaving and coughing. Having tried every
conventional remedy, the vet said there was nothing more he could do and
recommended putting her down because she was clearly in great
discomfort.
Although a date for her euthanization was set two weeks out, her owner
was not willing to give up without having tried every possible therapy. She
had heard of my work with horses and, as a last resort, called me. I did five
sessions with Lexi over eight days. Not only did Lexi’s breathing improve
dramatically, she became more energetic and playful.
On the date originally set for euthanizing Lexi, the vet came back and re-
examined her. Listening with his stethoscope, he said that what he was
hearing was completely different than before. “Tell the bronchial whisperer
to keep doing what she’s doing. I’ll see you next spring.”
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Animals are so emotionally and spiritually open they respond very well to
Spiritual Healing. Renowned British animal healer Margrit Coates, author of
Healing for Horses and Hands-on Healing for Pets, is one of several
members of the NFSH using Spiritual Healing on horses, with great success.
Veterinarians in the U.K. will frequently refer their animal patients to
healers, whereas in the United States, only 1% of veterinarians include any
form of holistic therapy in their practice.
Not all fixes are as dramatic or fast as Lexi’s. Jenny, a five-year old
miniature horse, had a chronic cough since she came to live with her human
companion, Susan, in June 2005. The cough got significantly worse in the
winter months so Jenny was given a daily antihistamine and, when the
cough was very bad, a five-day course of steroids. Susan contacted me in
January 2007 in the hopes that, with energy therapy, Jenny could go longer
between her bad bouts and, therefore, avoid the steroids.
I started by giving Jenny 30-minute sessions for four days in a row, and
then tapered down to weekly sessions. Jenny clearly enjoyed her sessions,
usually dozing off after about 10 minutes and willingly following me into
her stall when I arrived to treat her. Jenny’s coughing decreased
dramatically after the first week of treatment; within a few months, what
used to be a daily occurrence became only occasional. Twelve months later,
Jenny had no cough at all.
A guiding principle of the NFSH is that each one of us has the ability to
develop our healing gifts and NFSH courses are designed to help foster
those abilities. In truth, a Spiritual Healing practitioner does not heal a
client, be it horse or human. Just as new skin grows over a cut and broken
bones mend, animal and human bodies have the ability to heal themselves.
However, due to the stress of modern life and the ingestion of toxins, our
bodies often need assistance from an outside source. That is where
Spiritual Healing comes in. The practitioner acts as a conduit for healing
energy to flow to a client and facilitate their return to physical, emotional,
mental and spiritual balance. Energy channels in the patient are opened to
allow the body to deal properly and naturally with both stress and the
build-up of toxins.
It is also not necessary to know the exact cause of a condition for healing
to work. I did not know what was causing Lexi’s breathing problem, but the
fact that it cleared so quickly indicated an energetic imbalance. Every horse
owner knows that horses are very sensitive animals that can experience
emotions just as humans do. Emotional issues are often at the root cause of
illness, and energy balancing can help to clear those stuck emotions,
thereby facilitating a return to health. Behavioral issues can also be
alleviated after healing sessions, as the stress causing the behavioral
issues is relieved.
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Not all animals are as fortunate as Lexi and Jenny. Often the calls I get are
for animals in the last stages of life, and in those cases where a patient is
not able to make a return to physical health, Spiritual Healing has been
found to bring pain relief and comfort. When 6-year old Morgan, Arthur,
was diagnosed with acute renal failure, and did not respond to treatments
at the veterinary hospital, his owner brought him home for whatever time
he had left, and called me.
When I first met Arthur his distress was obvious; his entire body was
shivering and I feared we’d lose him that day. He was very receptive to
Spiritual Healing, occasionally turning his head to look at me with what
appeared to be an expression of gratitude. I worked with him for 90
minutes, the longest session I’ve ever given, because he seemed to need it
so desperately. By the time I finished the first session, he had stopped
shivering and seemed much calmer. During all of his sessions, Arthur gave
the classic horse relaxation signs: softening his mouth, licking and
chewing, sighing, falling asleep, dropping his hips and relaxing his legs.
I came to see Arthur every day for four days. In that time, his energy and
appetite increased a bit, and his bowel movements improved from diarrhea
to cow pies to almost normal, but he was putting out little urine and tests
revealed his kidneys had virtually shut down and his vital signs were
alarming. The heart-wrenching decision was made to euthanize Arthur the
next day.
I stayed and gave Arthur a session, after which he walked around and
started eating, indicating that the healing session helped him feel
somewhat better. I returned the next day and gave him healing before and
during the euthanization process, which seemed to comfort Arthur, his
owner, and his mother, Sonora.
But often, the “last resort” does bring a turnaround. One year after I first
met Lexi, she is still breathing with ease and is feisty and playful. I still
treat her monthly to maintain the excellent progress made. Having gotten
her reprieve, she seems to be now living life to the fullest.
Nancy O’Donohue is a Healer Member of, and trainer for, NFSH – Healing in
America who treats humans, pets and horses in southwestern Michigan.
Under the pen name Molly Larkin, she is the co-author of the international
best seller, The Wind Is My Mother. You can visit her website at
www.LakeshoreHealing.com
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