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I have a little autograph book that has been one of my greatest treasures since I left
Cadet College Petaro in 1969. It contains autographs of most of my teachers and some
close friends at Petaro. This small book is a treasure-house of the sentiments
expressed, and reflective of the character of our teachers and my colleagues.
Whenever I flip through its pages, it reminds me of so many things that I have been
taught as a child. It is those values that were ingrained in me during my formative
years which indeed bring out the best in me. I am indeed thankful to my teachers and
my mentors for all I gained from them – for their words of wisdom and for their well
wishes and blessings.
“Remember
space has
been
conquered
today and
those who
have
accomplished
the task are
men like
you.”
“You are a
good boy
and I hope
you will
continue to
be good
throughout
your life.”
“Do not be
from the
people who
deceive God
by prostrating
before him
and counting
beads for the
Prophet.”
“Character is a
commodity
that is very
much in short
supply at
present in
Pakistan. Look
after your own
character
foremost.”
May Allah rest Shaikh Sahib in peace in Jannatul Firdaus, and grant him the prayers to
rebuild the character of this nation.
There is one last point I would like to mention about Shaikh Sahib. One of his
daughters got married to Capt. Zaheerul Islam Abbasi who was the Adjutant of the
College from 1966-1969 in our days. Captain Sb rose up to become a Major General in
the Army and was eventually court-martialed in an accusation to overthrow the Benazir
government in 1995. He served 7 years in jail and now lives a retired life in Chaklala,
Rawalpindi. He is a great guy, and if you haven’t met him, you would want to. He is a
great Pakistani and a great Muslim. While Abbasi Sahib was in Haripur Jail, his wife (the
daughter of Shaikh Sahib) held the fort, and got 2 of his children married and saw the
graduation of the other 2. She must be a lady of strong character like her father to be
able to manage in that massive crisis in her life and bring up her children.
“With malice
towards none;
with charity for
all; with
firmness to see
the right, as
God gives us to
see the right.”
Signed Saeed
Ahmed,
15th July, 1969
Ch. Saeed Ahmed’s own handwriting and signature
During those years, I remember Saeed Sahib with fond memories of a father-like
figure. He always depicted a sort of kindness and love that was beyond expression. And
when he wrote me this autograph, it struck me that indeed these words were a true
reflection of what Saeed Sahib stood for - although he probably had never expressed
himself in so many words to us before. Being against malice, and stressing on charity
and firmness truly forms the bedrock of success. And Saeed Sahib was successful in
that period relying on these very same qualities. He had an uncanny way of expressing
himself so quietly, and maintaining discipline within the house.
In recent years, I have had the opportunity of meeting Saeed Sahib a few times. And
each time, all I could see were the tears of love in his eyes. He still leads a simple life,
and keeps to himself and prays for us.
For those of you who are not aware, he is also the father of Nadeem Zaigham (kit no.
808/Latif) who was instrumental in starting Petariantalk. Saeed Sahib now lives in
Model Town, Lahore.
May Allah grant a long life to Saeed Sahib with health and prosperity!
“Ishqi hum
kotaah qadon
mein ko’ee bhi
Suqraat nahin
He was a class in himself, and one of the best of educationists in the country at that
time (in my opinion). And the principles he stood for are so well enumerated in the
autograph he wrote for me. Truly, how many are there amongst us who talk of
honesty, yet how many are there who will drink the poison to uphold honesty like
Socrates (or Suqraat) did? I suppose that is a dying species - if it isn’t extinct already.
Most of us are hypocrites. How loudly do we proclaim that we must bring in honesty,
yet we deceive ourselves.
May Allah rest Feroz Sahib's soul in peace in Jannatul Firdaus!
Prof. M. Akram Bhatti
Although I do not have an autograph of Bhatti Sabib, I cannot
resist writing a few words about him. Like Toor Sahib, his
command over Mathematics was incredible. And he was a good
learner himself.
During the summer of 1967, the Ministry of Education changed
the syllabus of FSc, and brought in tremendous changes in the
subject matter taught for Mathematics, Physics and Chemistry.
For the first time, they included Calculus and Differential
Equations. Our teachers were sent on special training courses
that summer so that they could teach us the subject properly.
I suppose had it not been for Bhatti Sahib, we would have
flunked in Calculus and Differential Equations. He was able to pick up the subject very
quickly and taught us in a very professional manner.
Bhatti Sahib became the House Master of Liaquat House after Feroz Yusuf Khan Sahib.
Most of us remember Bhatti Sahib for the simple two-worded four-letter words that he
used to utter. He had a knack of controlling the boys through language rather than with
the use of his hands. And he was effective.
Bhatti Sahib now leads a semi-retired life in Lahore, not far from where Toor Sahib
lives. May Allah grant him a long life with good health.
Nazar to maa’il-
e rangeeni-e
bahar na kar :
Jigar.”
Signed M.S.
Toor
12th July, 1969
Toor Sahib has not been keeping good health over the past few years. He suffers from
heart disease and is restricted in his travel. However, he still teaches Mathematics and
is considered to be one of the best in Lahore even today. May Allah grant Toor Sahib a
long life with health!
“Yahan kotahi
zauq-e amal
hay khud
giriftari,
Jahan bazoo
simat-tay hain
waheen sayyad
hota hai.”
Signed Mukhtar
Siddiqui
11th July, 1969
Mukhtar Sahib was always very humble and soft spoken. And it was purely through his
intellectual discourses that he was able to attract many of his students towards himself.
Even to this day, his students are mesmerized whenever they talk about him.
Mukhtar Sahib now lives in Karachi and is very frail. Ever since his fall and fracture of
his hip bone, his movement is very restricted. But he always welcomes his students.
May Allah ease his pain, and give him health and happiness!
“WORK IS
WORSHIP
Work to
Create
Universal
Brotherhood.
Wish you good
luck in your
Future Life.”
Signed John
Mumtaz
Mr. John Mumtaz’s own handwriting and signature 21st July, 1969
“For Kazi
Zulkader with
heaps of love
A man would do
nothing if he
waited until he
could do it so
well that no one
would find fault
with what he
has done –
Cardinal
Newman”
“Smile is the
key which
opens the lock
of the love.”
“Sincerity of
purpose will
always help
you in the
attainment of
your goal in
life.”
“Whatever
you do &
where ever
you are may
God Bless you
with success”
Signed
A.W.Siddiqi,
Lt.Cdr.
8th July, 1969
“bagh-e aalam
main yahi apni
dua hai har subh,
Indeed, it is our prayers that through our efforts may Allah grant our college and our
nation growth and productivity which will make us into the best. And may Allah keep on
honouring Abid by taking him to even greater heights in this world and the Hereafter!
My parents’ Autographs
Teachers are supposed to be the reflection of one’s parents. Or rather, they are indeed
sitting in the position of our parents as per our tradition. Therefore, I thought it
appropriate to end this article with the autographs of my own parents (may Allah grant
them the choicest place in Jannatul Firdaus). I am sure you will all appreciate these
sentiments, and they would probably be not far from those of your own parents.
It is so often that we take parents for granted. Yet parents are truly the greatest gift of
Allah to us. Unassumingly, they are always there for us whenever we want them. And
they will suffer for you without ever making you feel it. They will sacrifice everything
for you without demanding anything from you. They will share in your happiness and
sorrows without revealing their own.
My dear father died in February 1982 (over 25 years ago), and my dear mother died in
June 1993 (over 14 years ago). I cannot express to you how much I miss them at
times.
Whenever I turn to the pages of their autographs, I virtually burst out with emotions.
At first my eyes become wet - and when I read my mother's autograph, I truly weep. I
cannot control myself. I recall every juncture in my life and their contributions towards
my growth and my life - and what they truly mean to me. My autobiography scans
itself before my inner eye as I ponder over their words.
As I read the 2 autographs again and again, I realize that there is a distinctive
difference in my response to my father's and my mother's autographs. Let me explain
what goes through my mind since I am sure that this would be so relevant to each one
you as well.
My dear father was a man of letters, and a great lover of poetry and literature. Besides,
he was a great Muslim nationalist within a Sufi tradition. He had great admiration for
Allama Iqbal and his thought. He would go out of his way to help other people, and his
discourses were worth listening to. At the same time, he had a tremendous awe
inspiring personality. I would normally be speechless before him, and could never say
no to him.
“Piyaray betay
Zulkader ke liye.
Ba-deh oora jawanay
paak baazay,
Saroorash az sharabay
khanah saazay
Qawi baazoo-e-oo
maanind-e-Haydar,
Dil-e-oo az do-geti bay
niyazay (Iqbal)”
Signed Kazi Abdur Rasheed
8th April, 1967
When I went through an intellectual crisis in my own life during the 1970s after the fall
of Dhaka and the Ramadan War in Palestine (during my years at MIT), it was my father
alone who provided me the intellectual support and guidance in steering me towards
further civilizational studies and a fulfillment of my academic dreams. For a whole year,
he wrote me letters (there was no email then and telephones were out of reach) to
advise me on how to approach life and how to look towards the future. He was far far
away - thousands of miles away from me while I was in the USA. But his heart and
mind were burning for me. He was my true strength.
This autograph was written in 1967 when I was barely 15 years old and had just sat for
my Matric examination. At that time, the words he wrote had a deep impact on me;
and even more so over the ensuing years. As the years passed by, I would read his
words again and again, and a strange feeling would envelope me. Throughout my
intellectual and spiritual crisis of the 1970s when I was in the USA, I would be
reminded of his words often.
What had he written? As you will note, he wrote down the words which Allama Iqbal
had written for his own son. It is a prayer to Allah - a most apt and beautiful prayer
that a father can desire for his son. Let me summarize it for you.
In these verses, Allama Iqbal prays to Allah to grant his son pristine youth, peace and
tranquility within the strands of a family life, physical strength like that of Haider (Hz.
Ali), and a heart that would go out towards the service of all. (This is a very rough
translation of the Persian verse).
What more can a father ask his Lord for the sake of his son indeed? And I am sure that
every father would desire the same for his son. This prayer depicts the awe and love
that holds the rope between a father and a son.
And then I turn to next page - to read my mother's autograph. I read it - and I read it
again - and again and again. The words are so simple - and yet there could be no
deeper words. In those 6 words - her own words - she probably said a thousand times
more than what my father had written in the most eloquent intellectual form.
“piyaray betay
Zulkader.
Just ponder over it. "Allah ta`ala tumhen bara aadmi bana'e". She had expressed
everything she had for me. All her pains and all her love for me had translated
themselves into just that desire to see my success. And that was truly her success. I
put my head down on my arms and cried again, wishing that she would be with me to
see my success, and ignore my failures.
As I write this, her face appears before me. She was the loveliest of personalities that I
have ever come across. She was simple, always smiling and laughing, cheerful,
optimistic, and a pleasure to be with. She was so unassuming that you would wonder
at times as to what is it that she desired. And I knew it. She had sacrificed her entire
life just for me and my brothers and sisters. I could share so many things with her,
burst out at her with exasperation at someone else, ask her for anything - and yet she
was always there for me. And all she desired was my success. She fretted for me right
up to her grave. And Allah gave her the best for the Hereafter.
She died in a car accident coming from Madinah Munawwarah, and was buried in the
Jannatul Baqi in Madinah, just as her own mother was. If a human could be an angel, it
was her.
As I write this, tears flow down my cheeks. I truly miss her. And I will always miss her.
Well friends, I wanted to share this with you because I know that my mother and my
father are probably not unique. What my parents expressed for me is what your
parents would probably also desire for you, and what you will probably desire for your
own children. These could very well be the words of your parents for you. Parenthood is
indeed a blessing of Allah.
Is it a wonder then that the Prophet Muhammad (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam) has said
that Jannat is beneath the feet of your mother. And that amongst the most important
personality in your life is your mother - thrice over - and then your father.
May Allah grant our parents the best in this life (for those who are alive), and the best
place in Jannatul Firdaus for those who have passed away.
With Love,
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