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This document summarizes the story of a woman, referred to as Ariana, who was sexually abused as a child. At age 10, Ariana's stepfather began abusing her, which continued for two years until her mother learned of the abuse and reported it to the police. Though the abuse had long-lasting effects on Ariana, including feelings of shame and low self-worth, she was able to overcome these challenges and live a successful life, graduating high school with high honors and creating a good life for herself. The story aims to show how survivors of abuse can find strength despite their trauma.
This document summarizes the story of a woman, referred to as Ariana, who was sexually abused as a child. At age 10, Ariana's stepfather began abusing her, which continued for two years until her mother learned of the abuse and reported it to the police. Though the abuse had long-lasting effects on Ariana, including feelings of shame and low self-worth, she was able to overcome these challenges and live a successful life, graduating high school with high honors and creating a good life for herself. The story aims to show how survivors of abuse can find strength despite their trauma.
This document summarizes the story of a woman, referred to as Ariana, who was sexually abused as a child. At age 10, Ariana's stepfather began abusing her, which continued for two years until her mother learned of the abuse and reported it to the police. Though the abuse had long-lasting effects on Ariana, including feelings of shame and low self-worth, she was able to overcome these challenges and live a successful life, graduating high school with high honors and creating a good life for herself. The story aims to show how survivors of abuse can find strength despite their trauma.
written by the beautiful Angelina Jolie. It means that no survivor should ever feel embarrassed for what happened to them. They should embrace the support and love from caring others. Women
The Story of a Survivor need to know that it wasn’t their fault.
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For as long as the earth has This is my mother’s story. June 9th, about sexual abuse victims and their been spinning and our world has 1976 was the day our world was truly offenders. 90% of child abuse welcomed humans, sexual violence and gifted with a walking angel. Even as a survivor’s know their abuser. This could mean a parent, family member, abuse has been an ongoing occurrence. baby girl, her big brown eyes and family friend, etc. The survivor in my From behind closed doors, with a cratering dimple on the right side could story also falls into the 90%. “trusted” adult or friend, to even make even the sulkiest individual grin. walking down the street and being Ariana started out with a fairly average shouted at with sexual slurs- this childhood. Pushing her little siblings on heartbreaking issue is happening all the swings, making “mud pies” for The image to the left shows 45 year old Tarana Burke-the woman who began around us. As you sit in a classroom or dinner, slurping a pink lemonade on her the “MeToo” Movement. The Me Too campaign was born in 1997 when Burke walk through the grocery store or enjoy wooden front porch. She was living the sat across from and heard the story of a 13-year-old girl who had been sexually abused. This movement is defined as a platform for survivors of sexual violence your subway ride to work, you should ideal life as a young child; that is until and assault to come together and express their thoughts, voices, and feelings acknowledge that almost 20% of all the her childhood came crumbling down about their similar circumstances. women you see have been a victim of when she was only 10 years old. The sexual violence. This is absolutely average 10 year old girl would typically Ariana never felt safe. At the age of 12, Strong. That is the first word that comes As for today, my mother describes that devastating, tragic, and unacceptable. be worrying about what outfits to dress perfectionism, a personality that is her mother picked her up from school, to mind when I think about her. the memories still remain; however, Throughout my life I have watched up her dolls in or even wiggling her last highly passive and often walked all confessed she had just learned what had Although it would have been entirely they do not rise up too much emotion in these stories on the news, read loose tooth and placing it under her over, as well as countless other post been happening to Ari, and took her understandable if she had fallen apart, her anymore. Ariana does admit that scenarios in magazines, listened to pillow in hopes to find a dollar bill in entailments. Even with all these straight to the police department to file turned to addiction/substance abuse, hid when I - her only daughter - turned 10 people’s unfortunate circumstances in exchange. Instead, my mother’s world qualities originating from the abuse, she the report. My mother expressed to me in the shadows, or veered away from years old, she did have a bit of a relapse speeches; however, I never knew that a was turned upside down by the very has fulfilled her greatest potential as how numb she had felt- but overall, any conversation involving this topic, just because of the age connection to surviving victim of sexual abuse was person whom should be protecting her well as create an amazing life for ashamed. She knew that the entire she didn’t. Even though Ariana had when she was a child and the abuse actually in my family. The closeness at all costs- her stepfather. Being such a herself. My mother graduated from high family found out what happened and such terrible things happen to her for started, but she remained strong and got made this story the most unforgettable, young child, Ariana had no way to school with a 3.8 GPA, worked her way she didn’t know what they would think two entire years of her precious through it. When asked about her heartbreaking, and angering case I had protect herself. The abuse went on for up and became a manager of two outlet about her. Due to my mom’s oversized childhood life and by someone who she thoughts on the “Me Too” Movement, come to know. Slipped words from an the next two years of her life; the stores by the age of 24, earned a heart and kind nature, she forgave her thought she could absolutely trust, she my mom says that she is beyond apologetic family member had sprung incidents happening obliviously to all Master’s degree from The University of offender after he served his time in remains one of the most courageous, grateful and proud that women are not this news upon me. Even though he those around her, including her mother Utah, bought a beautiful house by prison for the terrible things he had beautiful, caring, and resilient people tolerating this devastation anymore. and siblings. Her environment was herself, currently obtains a solid and begged me not to mention anything, done. Throughout everything: the this world has come to know. Many The environment is shifting and eager constantly unstable and she always felt long term job, and remains an amazing this knowledge was far too much terror, threats, abuse, and permanent people believe that after the sexual for change. In some ways, writing this as though her life was built upon mother. My mom states, “Being a mom weight on the shoulders of a fragile trauma, my mother pardoned his abuse has stopped, so has the damage. profile about my mother was difficult, quicksand. Whether the abuse would has been the most important job to me. 12 year old. I confronted the victim. appalling actions. Many people asked In my mom’s case she knows very well yet it made me realize even more so occur, her parents would have a violent I strived to raise my kids safe and This was when one of the strongest, her, “How can you just forgive your that those thoughts are not true. Due to how much I love her, how proud I am, fight due to their marriage troubles, or provide them with many opportunities. bravest, and most amazing woman I offender?” She describes that she truly the childhood abuse, Ariana has been and truly how strong of a person she her stepfather expressed his anger and Being a child I couldn’t protect myself, had ever known had described to me had to do it for herself. She couldn’t exposed to PTSD, ongoing anxiety, a was and is. I hope that one day I can be bipolar tendencies when he had drinken so, the greatest gift that could happen is when her entire life changed in an bear to hold on to all the anger and sense of distrustfulness, issues with the at least half of the mother and person a substantial amount, that my daughter has the tools to protect instance and how her innocent hatred- she is too kind of a person. male body, hypersensitivity, she is. Ariana is an inspiration to all herself”. childhood quickly came to an end. those around her.