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Overview
Terminology
Dealing with Grief & Loss Personal Awareness
Grief Theories
Grief Reactions
Theory, Personal Awareness, What Helps
Grief Reactions, & What Helps
“Grief”
Loss? Stages?
What’s the first thing you think Sadness? Tasks?
Separation? Symptoms?
of when I say the word “grief”? Anguish? Adaptive?
Change? Normal?
Ache? Complicated?
Hurt? Pathological?
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Kubler--Ross
Kubler J. William Worden
The five stages of grief: Healing is necessary in the physiological realm
to bring the body back into physical health, a
1. Denial: “This can’t be happening to me.”
period of time is likewise needed after a loss to
2. Anger: “Why is this happening? Who is to
return to a similar state of emotional well-
well-
blame?”
being.
3. Bargaining: “Make this not happen, and in
return I will ____.” The four tasks of mourning are an essential art
4. Depression: “I’m too sad to do anything.” of the healing process.
5. Acceptance: “I’m at peace with what No specific order, but still must each be
happened.” worked through during the time of grieving.
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4. Emotionally relocate the good job anyway, or I don’t miss him,” or “I’m
loss and move forward just as healthy as I ever was.”
in life Minimizing the loss. “It’s not that big of a deal.”
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- Antonio Porchia
Behavioral
Spiritual
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Grief WORK
Grief therapy: goal is not about forgetting but
remembering with less pain. “Grief heals when it is received by
Developing adaptive coping mechanisms. a caring other.”
Finding meaning.
AA and Al-
Al-Anon, NA and Nar Nar--Anon = grief work - Wendy Lustbader
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Resources
J. William Worden, Grief Counseling & Grief Therapy,
Therapy, 2008.
Grief and Loss in
Lynne A. DeSpelder & Albert. L. Strickland, The Last Dance:
Encountering Death and Dying,
Dying, 1998. Addiction and Recovery
Judith Viorst, Losses,, 2002.
Viorst, Necessary Losses
Holmes--Rahe Social Readjustment Rating Scale. Journal of
Holmes Matt Statman, LLMSW, CADC
Psychosomatic Research, (1967). Vol. 11, pp. 213-
213-218.
Lynn, J. and Harrold,
Harrold, J. (1999). Handbook for Mortals:
Guidance for People Facing Serious Illness, p.41. Dawn Farm May
Al-
Al-Anon Dist. 5, http://www.hvcn.org/info/afg5/griefloss.htm
HelpGuide.org, http://71.6.131.182/mental/grief_loss.htm Education 2011
Dennis C. Daley & G. Alan Marlatt,
Marlatt, Overcoming your
Alcohol or Drug Problem,
Problem, 2006.
Wolfet,, A. (2009). The Handbook for Companioning the
Wolfet Series
Mourner. Companion Press: Colorado.
Drugs.. NASW, 2010.
Abbot, A., Alcohol, Tobacco, and Other Drugs
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Spiritual Losses …
Recovery offers the
opportunity to make meaning
of past experiences and to use
them to help others
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o Family/friend may experience loss of Grief feels lonely for family and friends
the role they had assumed while their and circumstances may be especially
loved one was using substances, challenging - but help, support and
and/or loss of their sense of purpose understanding is available, and
and healing
in “taking care of” people/things. is possible
o Recovery may not bring everything
the family member/friend thought it
would – and there may be a sense of
loss from this
o Expectations
RECOVERY…
“Grief is a natural part of life; but for an
Grief recovery is hard work addict it provides an extra set of
challenges to get through… If you're an
for family and friends too – addict on the road to recovery, be
but it is worth the effort! prepared to experience emotions in a
new way – the good and bad; and be
sure to have a plan in place to fight off
the cravings while you're in that
vulnerable state.” –Michael Bloch
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Recovery is a Process
“The best therapy for grief is
not an Event
Grief recovery is not a linear
time and community.” -Michael process - it is experienced in
S. Logan cycles. Grief may be compared
to climbing a spiral staircase,
where it may look and feel like
you’re going in circles, yet
you’re making progress
o Environment is key
o A person must feel safe and supported. “Tasks” of grief recovery
o It is important not to “open up” issues when in recovery from
until/unless adequate support is available.
o Residential treatment provides a safe, addiction …
supportive environment
o A person in treatment may need additional
support e.g. from a grief group or grief
counseling
o Recovering people can receive very helpful
support from the recovery community –
meetings, sponsors, supports –sometimes
professional help is also needed
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Social support
Help from community … o A safe placed to be open about feelings
and experiences, without shame
o Step work helps people express grief,
gain perspective and acceptance,
forgive and move on with their lives
o Provides opportunities to give back to
others and make meaning
o Peer grief support groups can be
helpful
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Spiritual support
o Participation in faith community
activities/rituals
o Faith
Faith--based support groups or prayer
groups
o Prayer, mindfulness, meditation
o One’s chosen spiritual practices and
rituals
Rituals …
Grief rituals and ceremonies acknowledge the Tributes …
pain of loss while offering social support and a
reaffirmation of life … o Creating a tribute, legacy
or memorial to honor and
remember a loved one
can provide comfort
o People often find comfort
in donating to a related
cause and/or becoming
involved in volunteer or
service work, or other
ways of helping others
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