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What is the Ego?

The ego is basically your identity, or who you think you are.

Your ego is usually constructed of a name, a personality, and a

story. Within this personal story is a collection of memories, beliefs,
impressions and sensations about who “you are,” where “you came
from,” what “you’re good and bad at,” what “you’ve experienced,”
and on, and on, and on, ad infinitum.

The Ego and Duality

The ego is a veil between what you think you are and what you actually
are. You live under the illusion of the mind, totally unaware that you are
directed by a great big load of stories! — Isira Sananda

Your ego was created, and is currently maintained, by the belief

that you are “separate” from others and life itself. In other words,
your ego believes that you are firmly HERE, and other people are
firmly THERE. You have a body, life, and personality that is
distinctly different from others. Therefore, according to the ego, you
are not like other people. You are different. Or that’s what your
thoughts tell you anyway.

As a result of being taught (or conditioned) to believe that you are a

separate individual, you experience fear and suffering. Instead of
simply experiencing life in its purity and wholeness, you filter life
through your mind. You are taught to live life in duality. Duality is
essentially the state of separation — it is the opposite of
reality. It is the product of the mind. In duality, we essentially “split”
or divide life.

Examples of duality include filtering life through the lenses of

“right/wrong,” “good/bad,” “pretty/ugly,” “holy/sinful,” “love/hate” etc.
As a product of living in duality, we create untold amounts of
suffering for ourselves because we are no longer open to life.
Instead, our lives become centered around judgment,
condemnation, and fear. As a result, we alienate and destroy others
who we perceive of as being “bad,” “wrong,” and “sinful” to protect
our ideas of what is “right” and “holy.”

The more deeply we are entrenched in duality, the more we

experience problems such as hatred, anger, depression, paranoia,
anxiety, and perversion. Not only do we sever ourselves from
others, but we are cut off from ourselves as well. Anything within us
that we perceive as being “evil/bad/wrong/sinful” we suppress,
repress and deny the existence of. As a result of this repressed
energy, our Shadow Selvesgrow more and more twisted,
destructive and depraved. Finally, this intense suffering is
expressed in our relationships and the world at large.

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Our physical world is an expression of our collective internal

torment. Our lives are an expression of our inner emptiness.
Simply looking at the violence, murder, poverty, greed, bigotry,
mental illness and environmental degradation shows us how
profoundly lost we are as a race. We are lost because we have lost
touch with the truth of who we are.

The Folly of Demonizing the Ego

In light of this discovery, it is very easy to start believing that the

ego is bad. In fact, some spiritual teachers teach that the ego needs
to be “destroyed.” But here’s the thing: this is just another trick of
the mind! I’ve heard so many people in the spiritual community
condemn the ego and speak of it with such great resentment.
However, the belief that our egos are “evil” or need to be
“killed/destroyed” is just a reflection of the mind stuck in duality!

The ego isn’t “good” or “bad,” it simply IS. We need to realize that
the ego is simply a tool. The ego exists as a biological survival
mechanism. The ego also exists as a vehicle for our spiritual
growth; for us to become conscious of our own strength, love, and
oneness. The ego is a doorway through which we can return to our
True Nature.

Why the Ego Isn’t You

You may have heard before the expression: “the ego is an illusion.”
What does this mean?

The ego is an illusion, and therefore isn’t really “you,” because it is

always changing. In other words, how can anything within you
that is subject to birth, change, and decay really be you?

Let’s try an experiment. Write down on a notepad or word

document who “you” think you are. You can always stop reading
and return back to reading this article after you’ve finished.

Take a break. Really. Do the experiment now.

Now that you’ve done the experiment, read over your words. Likely,
you would have written something along the lines of, “I am Jane
Doe. I’m a wife, mother, and friend. I’m a fighter, a dreamer, and a
spiritual seeker. I am 38 years old, have three children and am a
skilled artist.”

See this description of you? This is your main personal story; the
backdrop of your life, of what you think you are.

The ego is an illusion because it is simply that: a story — a story

created in the mind.

Let’s use some self-inquiry and apply these questions to your

statement:

 How can you be a name if it can easily be changed? You

could have very well been born into a different family that
named you something else.
  How can you be a body if it is constantly aging, changing,
disintegrating and can be replaced with other parts? Your red
blood cells live for four months, your white blood cells live for
more than a year, your skin cells live for 2-3 weeks … all cells
within you are constantly dying and being renewed. How can
you really be your body or looks?
 How can you be a personality when it is constantly
fluctuating and transforming? Think back to your personality 5
years ago, then 15 years ago. Did you have the exact same
personality that you do now?
 How can you be your emotions when they are constantly
coming and going, ebbing and flowing? Not only that but do
you really control your emotions? Where do they come from?
Do you really control them?
 How can you be your thoughts when they always changing?
Not only that but do you really control your thoughts? Where do
they come from? Do you really control them?
 How can you be your beliefs when what you believed 10-30
years ago isn’t what you believe today? Your beliefs are
influenced by your conditioning, upbringing, and society … how
can they be “you” or “yours”?
 How can you be your memories when they come, go and
even alter? Did you know that there is such a thing as “false
memory”? When remembering the past, the mind has a
tenuous and colored perception that is subject to change and
alteration. How can your memory be you?

As we can see, everything that we unquestionably believe we

are isn’t really us. So what really is us? What has been there all
along?

What is That Presence?

What has been there to witness everything that has happened in

your life? What never changes? What is the most fundamental core
of who we are?

Explore this question for a few moments and you’ll realize that it’s:
Consciousness.

Consciousness is the fabric of all things. In fact, even science has

shown that everything at its core is energy vibrating at different
levels. In our human experience, Presence, Consciousness or Spirit
manifests itself as the energy that composes every form.

It is hard to really put a word to this experience, as language is so

limited. The easiest way to experience this Presence that is you,
and always has been you, is through meditation. Meditation, or
quieting the mind, helps you to become simply aware of your
thoughts, and the space beneath those thoughts. That space is
You.

Another common way humankind since the dawn of time has used
to experience this Truth of Being is through psychedelic shamanic
plants and brews, such as Ayahuasca, Psilocybin Mushrooms, and
Peyote. Although it is helpful to take such herbs, it isn’t compulsory.
These plants are simply doorways into the Universal Experience or
Spirit that we are.

How to Untangle Yourself From the Web of Illusion

It can take a while to truly realize that you are not the Ego, and
sometimes much more to integrate this discovery on a deep level.
Discovering that everything you believed you were is false can be
hard to accept. In fact, don’t be surprised if you experience a lot of
resistance to this article. It’s normal.

The ego’s job is to protect itself and the belief that you are separate
from other people and life itself. Experiencing the state of no-ego,
or no-self, that is “enlightenment” can appear to be extremely
depressing or disturbing at first. How can having no “me” or “you”
really be something desirable? This is a common question.

The answer is that in order to understand, you must experience

Consciousness itself. Without experiencing the Truth that you are,
the spiritual search becomes purely intellectual and prone to
sabotaging fears. However, once you do experience even a
single moment of Consciousness, you will discover for
yourself that it is the most liberating, pure, peaceful,
compassionate, expansive and loving state possible. In fact,
Consciousness itself is the very embodiment of love, peace, and
freedom. You are this embodiment. You are the Truth that you have
been seeking for.

Untangling yourself from the web of illusion is a process that

requires patience, self-discipline, and dedication. This process isn’t
for trendy “spirit junkies,” it is for sincere spiritual seekers.

Here are some helpful spiritual practices that will help you
reconnect with the truth of who you are:

1. Read through the self-inquiry questions above

regularly. Ask yourself, “Is this (that I think is me) really me?”
Although emotions, thoughts, personality, and body are
experienced by you, they are not truly you because they are
subject to birth, death, and change.
2. Practice dynamic meditation to release any repressed
energy within you. Do this before traditional meditation to make
it easier.
3. Meditate each day. Try 15 minutes first, then move on to 30+
minutes. Remember: the purpose of meditation isn’t to “get”
anywhere or “achieve” anything. It is simply the practice of
sitting with whatever arises in you.
4. Regularly affirm to yourself, “I am
Consciousness” throughout the day. Feel that truth seep into
your bones and very core with each breath.
5. Explore the way your ego influences your life with
compassion. You can do that by reading our articles and taking
our free tests. I know you’ll find something that resonates!
6. Read into the experience of the Spiritual Awakening
Process to get further guidance. We created this book to
help support you on the spiritual path.
7. Practice mindfulness on a daily basis. Mindfulness is a vital
practice that will help to ground you in the present moment.
The spiritual path is one that requires courage, radical honesty and
the willingness to let go of all that you are not. What is the ego? The
ego is a teacher, one that you carry with you each day. When seen
in this light, the ego is the most powerful and persistent teacher we
have to wake us up to the Truth that has always been here, and will
always be here.