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Nov.29,2018,2:41PM
When it comes to love, most people have an idea of what they're looking for in
a partner.
Good looks, ambition, and a good sense of humor are common qualities that
people seek out.
But there are other factors you're likely unaware of that play an important part
in who you're attracted to.
Past experiences, proximity, and biology all have a role in determining who
catches our attention and who doesn't.
When we fall for someone, it's tough to stop gushing about our new crush's good looks,
sense of humor, and those undeniable love sparks. But why is it that we're just naturally
attracted to some people and not others?
Sure, love is mysterious, but, in some ways, attraction is not. Science actually has an
explanation for why we are attracted to certain people and why we don't give others the
time of day.
INSIDER spoke to several experts to find out what it is that draws us towards certain
people in terms of our biological makeup. It's worth noting that much of the research
about attraction tends to focus on heterosexual relationships, but obviously that's not
the limit of attraction or love.
Have you ever noticed that it's not uncommon to see co-stars from your favorite series
or movie dating in real life? Rachel McAdams and Ryan Gosling, for instance, dated on
and off for three years off screen after starring together in "The Notebook." Or maybe
you remember thatJennifer Garner and Ben Affleck started dating the year after the
release of "Daredevil" back in 2003. Why does this seem to be a pattern?
This is backed up by 50 years worth of scientific research that has found that proximity
is one of the most powerful indicators of attraction. We simply are drawn to the people
we see frequently, which explains why celebrity co-stars end up getting together due to
how closely they work with one another on a regular basis.
People can be attracted to those who look healthy and
fertile.
Research suggests that people are also attracted to those who look healthy.Flickr/John Jones
Additionly, research suggests that people are also attracted to those who look
healthy. Face symmetry, face structure, and hip-shoulder ratios are all important when
it comes to attraction because these physical features indicate good health, according to
Live Science.
Our families, for example, can possibly impact the type of person we're attracted to.Universal
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Beyond physical features, Walley-Jean said our families, peers, and media all play a role
in helping us learn what to view as attractive.
For instance, some heterosexual people may seek out partners who share attributes that
remind them of their opposite-sex parent because that is what they've always known
growing up.
"Heterosexual women have been socialized to seek primarily 'older' men who tend to be
more financially established and can 'take care' of the woman and the subsequent
family," Walley-Jean told INSIDER.
These are just a couple of examples of how we can learn who or what is attractive. There
is no single way this learning occurs but everyone is influenced by it, Walley-Jean
explained.
Research has shown that people who are kind are seen as more attractive, Daniel Sher,
registered clinical psychologist, and professional consultant for the Between Us
Clinic said.
In a 2007 study, participants were asked to rate photos of strangers for attractiveness.
They were then asked to evaluate the same photos, but this time some of the photos had
personality descriptions.
Essentially, the study found that the photos with positive descriptions received the
highest ratings for attractiveness, suggesting that certain personality traits do play a
factor in judging attractiveness.
Who you are attracted to, in some ways, may be out of your control. trumzz/ iStock
One 2016 study found that men with high levels of testosterone, the primary male sex
hormone, may be more attracted to women with more "feminine" faces, which they
described as meaning big eyes, high eyebrows, and a smaller jaw.
But that's not the only way hormones play a role in attraction.
In a study of 238 college women published in the Journal of Personality and Social
Psychology in 2007, Steve Gangestad, professor of psychology at the University of New
Mexico, and his colleagues found that women are attracted to certain men depending on
where they are in their cycle.
In mid-cycle, women tended to prefer flings with "caddish" men and on average, fertile
women were more interested in short-term relationships with men who came across as
cocky.
Despite the fact that 80% of us believe in the idea that opposites attract, it might be the
case that we're, instead, attracted to those similar to us.
The procedure begins with participants completing a questionnaire about their attitudes
on a variety of topics, such as the use of nuclear weapons. Next, they take part in a
"person-perception" phase, where they evaluate a person based on their responses to the
same questionnaire.
Source: https://www.thisisinsider.com/why-are-we-attracted-to-certain-people-2018-
11#its-possible-that-opposites-dont-attract-6