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brother, and to realize that looking after someone else had many
different meanings, including an implicit reproach to me for not
knowing how to look after her.
I could go on asking questions in this way; they are, after all,
merely the ones each analyst puts to himself when confronted
with clinical material of this kind, so as to identify the factor that
will determine the choice whether to refrain from interpretation or
to interpret; and if he decides to interpret, to identify the point of
urgency dictated by the level of anxiety, in order to give an
interpretation consistent with what is actually taking place,
having regard to the context of the session and the situation of the
psychoanalytic process at that particular time.
on had often fallen asleep when left alone. Olivia was presumably
repeating with me, as the representative of her mother in the
transference, the situation of abandonment already experienced in
early infancy; however, instead of expressing it in words, she was
reproducing it non-verbally, acting it out in her body. Olivia was
‘repeating’ with me the defensive sleep of her infancy instead of
‘remembering’ (cf. Freud, ‘Remembering, repeating and working-
through’ [1914g]).
This symptom of falling asleep could be regarded in general
terms as the reproduction of a situation representing an infantile
‘psychical trauma’ that had been insufficiently worked through; on
the specific level, however, we were able to observe that the
phantasy content of each instance of falling asleep changed and
became transformed as Olivia progressed. At first, she had thought
that this reaction had nothing to do with what was happening in
the relationship with me, but she gradually became aware of the
connection between her falling asleep and the proximity of our
separation, of the infantile content of this experience, and of the
associated phantasies and affects.
Her falling asleep could have been interpreted in different ways—
for instance, as a transitory regression—in which case I could
have decided to allow her to live through this regression in my
presence for as long as was necessary for her to emerge from it.
However, I preferred a different type of interpretation, showing
Olivia’s falling asleep to be the result of unconscious active and
aggressive defences directed both against the perception of the
separation from me and against the perception of my presence. It
is, after all, often the imminence of a separation or loss that
causes us to perceive and appreciate the presence of a loved
person. By falling asleep on the day before parting from me, Olivia
therefore succeeded in disavowing the importance of the relational
link with me, denying both the imminent separation and the
perception of my presence. Olivia’s falling asleep was also a means
not only of eliminating the object perceived but also of de-
activating the function of the sense organs whereby she could
perceive, see, hear and come into contact with the object, as Segal
(1988) has shown.
From a different point of view, Olivia’s falling asleep was a form
of defence with which we were already familiar: introjection of an
idealized and persecuting object in a split-off part of her ego, with
which Olivia partially identified. This introjection gave her the
omnipotent feeling of possessing me within her and of controlling
me narcissistically, so as to disavow all separation. At the same
time, however, this defence reinforced the split between the
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