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Interpersonal skills are also sometimes referred to as: social skills, people skills, soft skills,
communication skills or life skills. Although these terms can include interpersonal skills they tend
to be broader and therefore may also refer other types of skills.
Encourage others to engage in communication and use appropriate questioning to develop your
understanding. Our page: Verbal Communication, introduces the subject, you may also be
interested in Effective Speech for tips on how to use your voice to full effect
and Questioning which can help you encourage communication in others and clarify what they have
said.
Clarify
Show an interest in the people you talk to. Ask questions and seek clarification on any points
Understand Stress
Learn to recognise, manage and reduce stress in yourself and others. Although stress is not always
bad, it can have a detrimental effect on your interpersonal communication. Learning how to
recognise and manage stress, in yourself and others, is an important personal skill.
Learn to be Assertive
You should aim to be neither passive nor aggressive. Being assertive is about expressing your
feelings and beliefs in a way that others can understand and respect. Assertiveness is fundamental
to successful negotiation.
Negotiate
Learn how to effectively negotiate with others paving the way to mutual respect, trust and lasting
interpersonal relations.See our pages:
Working in Group
Because of these stereotypes, when we communicate with people we can carry with us certain
preconceptions of what they are thinking or how they are likely to behave, we may have ideas about
the outcome of the conversation.
These preconceptions affect how we speak to others, the words we use and the tone of voice. We
naturally communicate in a way that we think is most appropriate for the person we are talking
to. Unfortunately our preconceptions of others are often incorrect. This can mean that our
communication is inappropriate and therefore more likely to be misunderstood. As the goal to all
communication has to be understanding it can be said that we have failed to communicate. By
communicating in this way, being influenced by preconceived ideas, we feedback further stereotypes
to the person we are speaking to, thus exasperating the problem.
Start all interpersonal communication with an open mind; listen to what is being said rather than
hearing what you expect to hear. You are then less likely to be misunderstood or say things that you
regret later.