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Seven Steps to
Greater
Personal Freedom
VANCE PACKARD
MERICANS are a
free people, per-
haps the freest in
the world—but
some are more free
than others. How about your-
self? Are you free enough to live
the way you wish? Or do you
often feel hemmed in, manipu-
lated, frustrated? Do you have
to spend an unreasonably large
part of your life doing things
you don’t want to do?
If so, you are not alone. Most
of us feel a crowding in on our
lives, as we dwell in ever larger
communities and work for ever
larger organizations. In the
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course of researching five books
J wrote on the pressures that
threaten personal freedom to-
day, I found that we are increas-
ingly pressed toconform in order
to climb business pyramids and
achieve social status; that we
are increasingly subjected to at-
tempts to manipulate our opin-
ions and pry into our personal
lives. Many readers have asked
me: What can we do to preserve
freedom in our society?
We as individuals can be truly
free only as we are sufficiently
independent, powerful and influ-
ential in our own right to be-
come persons to reckon with.GETTING MORE OUT OF LIFE
This is also the path to individ-
ual satisfaction in life. for free-
dom, with responsibility, is the
only sound basis for personal
happiness.
What then can each of us do to
strengthen personal freedom?
Here are seven lines of action
which you might consider:
1. Save Money. Too many of
us think of savings as security
for old age. A more important
function is to strengthen our in-
dependenceright now. Yet Ihave
seen a statement that the aver-
age family is living three months
from bankruptcy, and our con-
sumer installment indebtedness
has risen 1400 percent since
World War II. Obviously, a man
who cannot afford to be out of
work for a few months cannot
afford to quit a job that leaves
him feeling stifled or guilty.
This stifling, guilty feeling
afflicted the sales manager of a
printing business. He was well-
paid. But he suffered from agon-
izing headaches because he got
most of his orders from purchas-
ing agents who expected kick-
backs, which his firm provided
in disguised form, and this trou-
bled him deeply. His wife, who
managed his income, urged him
to quit. He protested, “But what
can I do?” She told him that she
had enough saved in government
bonds and a bank account to
give them a year to make a fresh
Start. let i ‘
They moved to the Northwest,
and he settled in a job as his own
boss, selling household equip-
ment. When I met him he was
exuberant. “You know, “he said,
“thanks to my wife’s thrift, I
haven't had a headache in ten
years.” |
By contrast, an advertising
executive once told me that he
and his family could not live on
his $25,000 salary. He contended
that his employers expected him
to maintain a certain style of
life. The truth is that any fam-
ily above the poverty line can
build up its savings—and inde-
pendence-if it is frugal and
relatively nonmaterialistic in
on it considers to be the good
life.
I knew a financially pinched
family in which the husband
smoked two packs of cigarettes
a day, his wile and teen-age son
a pack each. One night when the
husband was groaning about
his money troubles, | mentioned
that a lot of his income seemed
to be going up in smoke. At
$1.40 a day, the habit was cost-
ing them $511 a year, or roughly -
what the average U. S. family
saves in a year. Put in a bank
annually to gather interest, this
sum would in fifteen years
amount to over $10,000, more
than their mortgage, which had
twelve years to go! The family
stopped smoking. .
2. Build Your Education and
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Skills. Personal freedom can be
expanded by education and skills
because they open up a wider
range of professional opportunt-
ties. Knowledge is a tangible
asset, quite often the most im-
portant tool in our work. The
more marketable knowledge you
possess the freer you are, for it
can’t be taken away from you —
it’s a tool you carry around in
your head. .
This competence cannot, in
fact, be taken away from us ex-
cept by obsolescence. In today’s
world many of us can feel com-
petent, and free, only as we keep
abreast of new developments in
our field. We are going to hear a
great deal, in coming years,
about the importance of con-
tinuing education. For example,
a friend of mine who is a success-
ful electrical engineer goes to
college several nights every
week. He keeps himself up-to-
date in his fast-changing field
by repeating 10 percent of his
college courses every year!
3. Keep Your Honor Clean. To
maintain freedom, we should re-
duce personal frailties, for these
make us vulnerable. It is still
true that an upright man is more
likely to dare to speak the truth.
In today’s world, our dubious
or foolish acts of the past are
more likely to haunt us than they
would have in yesteryears. With
the growth of vast record-keep-
ing organizations, electronic
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memory banks and far-flung in-
vestigative bodies in both gov-
ernment and business, there is
less chance that past foolishness
or indiscretion will be over-
looked. .
Recently a young man in Con-
necticut was being questioned
by police late at night after an
accident. He was offended by the
routine questions and, instead -
of responding matter-of-factly,
he taunted the police to arrest
him or let him go. Rather reluc-
tantly they put him in jail. The
lad didn’t realize it, but the fact
that he has served time in jail
will have to be recorded if he ap-
plies for a job with the govern-
ment or with many business
firms. This can limit his chances
of getting a job, and thus his
freedom, too.
4. Keep Your Private Life Pri-
vate. Privacy is at the heart of
our concept of freedom. It is the
first thing to disappear when
freedom disappéars. And pri-
vacy is in danger today.
What can we do about it? We
can at least preserve the privacy
that remains to us, instead of, as
so many do, giving it away. Em-
erson said, “The private life of
each person should be a more
illustrious monarchy than any
kingdom.” The genuine individ-
ualist needs a private life as well
as a public one — in order to be
himself. Young people need pri-
vacy to dream and plan and to