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CONTENTS
Page
Foreword v
Preface ix
Introduction xi
Chapter 1
What Is Ancestor Worship? 1
Chapter 2
History Of Chinese Ancestor Worship 7
Chapter 3
Ancestor Worship In Other Cultures 13
Chapter 4
Ancestor Worship Through Technology 17
Chapter 5
Practices Of Chinese Ancestor Worship 19
a. Funeral Practices
b. All Souls Day (Qing Ming) Practices
c. Wedding Practices
d. Festival Practices
e. Other General Practices
Chapter 6
The Catholic Church And Ancestor Worship 29
Chapter 7
The Protestant Church And Ancestor Worship 33
Chapter 8
Is Filial Piety The Same As Ancestor Worship? 35
Chapter 9
The Christian Answer To Ancestor Worship 41
Chapter 10
The Christian Substitute To Ancestor Worship 47
Chapter 11
A Quick Comparison Between Ancestor
Worship And The Bible (Word Of God) 55
Chapter 12
Frequently Asked Questions 69
Chapter 13
Interview With Brother KS Lai,
A Former Staunch Practitioner
Of Ancestor Worship 85
FOREWORD
FOREWORD
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EXPOSING CHINESE ANCESTOR WORSHIP
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FOREWORD
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PREFACE
PREFACE
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INTRODUCTION
MY BACKGROUND
I am a Chinese by birth and also a born-again Christian.
For many years, I had a difficult time understanding the
depth and weight that ancestor worship had over the lives of
the dear Chinese people. Being English-educated by the
early schooling system laid down by the colonial British did
not offer me any clues to the understanding of such a
INTRODUCTION
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Note: Some of the descriptions and pictorials depicted here may be a little bit too
unacceptable for your reading. My objective is to expose these practices as what they
really are. However, if you find that you are not comfortable with some of the
descriptions or pictures, then please do not continue reading the material.
INTRODUCTION
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WHAT IS
ANCESTOR WORSHIP?
WHAT IS IT?
their needs, when they depart for the other world, are
provided for.
Death is also commonly associated with bad luck. So
non-Christians will protect themselves from misfortune and
bad luck by wearing charms, carrying holy paper, drinking
blessed water, or having temple priests to chant over them.
For this reason, ancestor worship has been infiltrated with
all these rituals and procedures instituted to ward off bad
luck and evil influences.
Revelations 1:18
I am the First and the Last, and the Living One, and I
became dead, and behold, I am alive forever and ever,
Amen. And I have the keys of hell and of death. (MKJV)
Hebrews 2:14-15
Since then the children have partaken of flesh and
blood, He also Himself likewise partook of the same; that
through death He might destroy him who had the power
of death (that is, the Devil),
and deliver those who through fear of death were all
their lifetime subject to bondage. (MKJV)
INFLUENCE OF ASTROLOGY
Chinese astrology has also influenced the practice of
ancestor worship. In astrology the heavenly bodies like the
sun, moon and stars have influence over the destiny of every
person. In the context of ancestor worship, astrology will
determine the date and time that the dead should be buried,
the number of days that the deceased should be kept before
going to the burial ground, the time that the funeral
procession should begin and the time the ancestors should
be worshiped during certain festivities. The Almighty God
prohibits His people from consulting Chinese astrology. It is
an abomination in God's eyes.
Deuteronomy 18:9-13
When you come into the land that the LORD your God
is giving you, don't follow the disgusting practices of the
nations that are there.
HISTORY OF
CHINESE ANCESTOR WORSHIP
SCHOLARS TAUGHT
THE THREE PARTS OF THE SOUL
ANCESTOR WORSHIP
IN OTHER CULTURES
ANCESTOR WORSHIP
THROUGH TECHNOLOGY
PRACTICES OF
CHINESE ANCESTOR WORSHIP
a. FUNERAL PRACTICES
In some Chinese communities, the seven weeks after the
death of a relative is crucial to the spiritual journey to the
next life. Normally, a priest would be paid a huge fee to
chant meditations to smoothen the passage to the nether
world and to pray for peace for the departed soul.
Funeral clothes
All the family members related to the deceased will put
on funeral clothes and the type of material will depend on
the genealogical nearness of the relationship between
the deceased and themselves. In the past, they would
wear sack clothes or dirty rags to make themselves look
Paper money
A large amount of paper money is commonly burned for
the departed to use because it is thought that the
deceased has just started his or her life in the new
world and would therefore, need lots of financial
assistance. Paper money is also scattered on the road
to buy the goodwill of malicious wandering spirits, that
they may not obstruct the path of the deceased on its
way to the grave.
Funeral wake
During the funeral wake, which can last from three to
seven days, sweets are served to relatives and guests to
symbolically remove the bitterness (sweet taste is better
than bitter taste) of the loss. Groundnuts and melon
seeds (signifying fertility) are served so that the living
might have more children to help to “replace” the loss.
Visitors at the wake are usually given a strand of red
thread or small red packets containing two coins to
ensure that they get rid of any bad luck.
After the funeral, the period of mourning may last for 100
days. Some families believe that there should be no
celebration such as birthdays, marriages and Chinese New
Year festivity during this period.
c. WEDDING PRACTICES
Inquiring ancestors through divination
Even in modern days, ancestor worship may be performed
to invoke the dead to give approval and endorsement to
upcoming family weddings or engagements. Sometimes
relatives inquire of the ancestors through divination to
ask for a good date and time for a wedding or the name of
the first child of a pregnant wife, to ensure a bright future
and success of the marriage and its family life. When the
newly wedded couple comes before the ancestral tablet,
they will offer food by placing it on the altar, pouring
Chinese wine on the floor as a wine offering and burn
joss-sticks to the ancestors.
Other traditions in marriage
In some towns of China, such as Chenjiayuan of Shanxi
province, located in the parched lands of the Loess
Plateau along the Yellow River, some grieving parents
whose bachelor sons had passed away, will ensure their
son’s contentment in the afterlife by searching for a dead
woman to be his bride. Once a corpse is obtained or
purchased, they will bury the pair together as a married
couple. This happens quite often when younger people
die. This custom is known as “minghun” or afterlife
marriage and is rooted in ancestor worship. The living
believe that they are tending to their needs. Traditional
Chinese beliefs hold that an unmarried life is incomplete,
which is why some parents worry that an unmarried dead
son may be an unhappy one.
d. FESTIVAL PRACTICES
On special Chinese festivals, the dead are not left out of
the celebration. Some families would display before their
ancestors roasted pork, whole cooked chicken, colored
Period of sacrifices
Sacrifices made to the ancestors normally occur on the
first, third and fifteenth of the first moon (Chinese New Year
season); the fifth of the fifth moon (Rice Dumpling Festival);
the fifteenth of the seventh moon (Hungry Ghost Festival);
the fifteenth of the eighth moon (Moon Cake Festival); the
ninth of the ninth moon (Nine Emperor God Festival); on the
last day of the year; on special occasions, such as
weddings etc. Each moon means a full lunar month. On
the Hungry Ghost Festival Day, a special celebration is
PURGATORY
between culture and faith” presented April 3, 2003 at Calvin College, Grand
Rapids, Michigan, by Young Ahn Kang, Sogang University, Seoul, Korea).
1Timothy 5:8
But if any do not take care of their relatives, especially
the members of their own family, they have denied the
faith and are worse than an unbeliever. (GNB)
Exodus 20:12
Honor your father and your mother, so that your days
may be long upon the land which Jehovah your God
gives you. (MKJV)
Deuteronomy 18:10-11
There shall not be found among you anyone who makes
his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, or that
uses divination, an observer of clouds, or a fortune-teller,
or a witch,
or a charmer, or a consulter with familiar spirits, or a
wizard, or one who calls to the dead. (MKJV)
2Kings 21:6
And he made his son pass through the fire, and observed
times and used fortune-tellers. And he dealt with
familiar spirits and wizards. He worked much
wickedness in the sight of Jehovah, to provoke Him to
anger. (MKJV)
2Corinthians 2:11
Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not
ignorant of his devices. (KJV)
Hosea 4:6
My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. (KJV)
Isaiah 5:13
Therefore my people are gone into captivity, because
they have no knowledge: and their honorable men are
famished, and their multitude dried up with thirst.
(KJV)
share your faith and what you stand for in this issue of
ancestor worship. Assure them of your love and loyalty
towards the family and that in no way are you deserting them
in this time of emotional struggle of having lost a loved one.
This will help them to see that you do have love and respect
for them and that only on certain matters that are against the
Christian faith, you would have to differ. Continue to follow
up your words with action by assisting them in other
practical means. Once they begin to see that you are firm in
your faith, they will eventually accept your stand.
Genesis 5:1
This is the book of the generations of Adam. In the day
that God created man, he made him in the likeness of
God…(MKJV)
So, remembering your ancestors is a right thing to do. I
want to list some substitutes that you as the Christian in the
family should be able to perform, deeds that are both
culturally right and scripturally aligned. By constant practice
of these suggested alternatives, I
hope that the future generation of
Christians will not forget their
ancestral roots and at the same time
introduce a gradual transformation
of the Christian Chinese culture as
far as filial piety to ancestors is
concerned. The main point here is
to honor your ancestors and not
worship them.
Uplifting Jesus even when we
remember our ancestors
During the service, preach and teach from the Bible. The
purpose of the service is to minister to those who are
attending the meeting. It also shows to the bereaved
family that there is a support group available to help to
share the loss. Most importantly, the service should
always end with the hope that all those who believe in
Jesus Christ have a place in heaven prepared in advance
by our Lord and one day, when we go back to Him, we
will be reunited.
A QUICK COMPARISON
BETWEEN ANCESTOR
WORSHIP AND THE BIBLE
(WORD OF GOD)
FREQUENTLY ASKED
QUESTIONS
Answer:
In some Chinese communities, bowing is an expressive act
of worship or showing reverence towards somebody or
something. In others, bowing is just an act of respect (like in
a wedding, where the married couple bow before their
parents and their in-laws). In the case of pictures of
ancestors such as your grandparents, etc. the pivotal
question you should ask yourself would be, would your
bowing down be acknowledged as an act of respect by the
bystanders or would it be construed as an expression of
worship? If there is even a tiny hint of doubt that at least one
of them will consider it as an act of worship, then do not
bow. If every one of them are of the same mind that bowing
is just an act of respect (which is very unlikely), then by all
means bow.
Question:
Can Christian mourn by wearing sackcloth or a piece of sackcloth
material pinned to the existing clothing?
Answer:
Yes. It is all right for a Christian to wear sackcloth.
Nowadays, modern day Chinese wear a small rectangular
piece of sackcloth material pinned to the shirt or blouse.
King David called on his people to wear sackcloth to mourn
the death of Abner.
2Samuel 3:31
David ordered Joab and all the men under him, “Rip
your cloaks into rags! Wear mourning clothes! Lead
Abner's funeral procession with loud lament!” King
David followed the coffin. (MSG)
In some families, professional mourners are employed to
mourn on behalf of the family. The professional mourners do
not have any sympathetic relations with the family or the
deceased and they do it for the wages. This is false wailing
and it is not a good custom to follow. Mourning must be
sincere and genuine. There should be no forcing or any
pretension. Anything else is hypocrisy.
Question:
What would be a good family activity when members gather together
during or after the funeral proceedings?
Answer:
Do not be involved in the non-Christian practice of praying
for a smooth journey for the departed or praying for peace
for the soul of the departed. The Bible teaches that the spirit
departs from the body when a person passes away and no
amount of prayers by the living can alter the course already
taken by the deceased.
Do not get involved in folding the paper money or in any
of the rituals initiated by the monk/priest for the family
Question:
How can I show respect at the funeral of my relative who has passed
away without offending the non-Christians and stumbling the
Christians present?
Answer:
There are many ways of showing respect to the deceased.
These are only some of the suggestions:
- Buy flowers and place it near the coffin.
Question:
Can I assist to clean the body of the deceased and to dress it up before it
is placed inside a coffin?
Answer:
Yes, you may, provided that your intention of cleaning and
dressing up the body is to make the body presentable when
viewed by guests or visitors. As Christians, we understand
that the real person is no longer in the body. The spirit of the
person, which is the real being, has departed and what
remains is only the physical body that will eventually decay
and return to the dust of the ground when it is decomposed.
Genesis 2:7
God formed Man out of dirt from the ground and blew
into his nostrils the breath of life. The Man came alive-
a living soul! (MSG)
Question:
Can I offer money (also known as white gold) that is collected for the
expenses of the funeral?
Answer:
Money is normally collected in a collection box assisted by
helpers at a funeral. The money is used to pay for the
expenses spent for the funeral proceedings. A large
proportion of that amount of money actually goes towards
the fee in engaging the services of the priests who chant at
the funeral. As a general rule, I am not too pleased that my
money should go towards them. But if most of the money
goes to other expenses that have nothing to do with
chanting or worshiping, such as buying food for the visitors,
buying of the burial plot, purchasing the coffin, then it is all
right. If it is necessary to give money to the remaining family
members to help them through their immediate financial
problems, then it will be better to give money to them
directly, face to face, and without the requirement of
recording your name and amount in the collection book,
which is done either during or after the funeral.
Question:
In a funeral on the way to the graveyard, can I ride along in the hearse
vehicle carrying the coffin?
Answer:
Yes, you can. There is no superstition involved in the
transportation of the body to the graveyard. However, do not
participate in the throwing of paper money or other offerings
out in the street during the ride. The underlying belief for
this is to pacify the evil spirits whom they may encounter
along the way. Do not believe in such a ritual and do not take
part in this practice.
Question:
Can a Christian participate in the feast that is celebrated on the 49th
day after the funeral?
Answer:
No. This feast is an evil celebration with the participation
of demons and evil spirits. It is believed that food must
be offered to them up to 49 days so that no trouble will
take place.
1Corinthians 10:20-21
But I say that the things which the nations sacrifice,
they sacrifice to demons and not to God. And I do not
desire that you should have fellowship with demons.
You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of
demons; you cannot be partakers of the Lord's table and
of a table of demons. (MKJV)
Question:
My family wants me to mourn for 100 days for the dead. What should
I do?
Answer:
In some families, it is customary to mourn for the dead for a
period of time. Some may mourn for 100 days and some up
Question:
What should I do when I have to go to the graveyard on Qing Ming Day?
Answer:
If you have to go to the graveyard on Qing Ming Day, then
offer your services to the family that are not related to
Question:
Should I ignite firecrackers on Qing Ming Day or other celebrations?
Answer:
This depends on the purpose of lighting the firecrackers. On
Qing Ming Day, non-Christian Chinese light firecrackers to
Question:
Should I buy food such as pork, chicken and buns and place them before
the pictures of my ancestors or before the memorial stone in the
graveyard?
Answer:
No, as a Christian, you should never offer any food offerings
to the deceased. (See Deuteronomy 26:14). The spirit of the
dead is no longer at the picture or the graveyard. This act of
offering food to the dead is an expression of appeasing the
dead and looking after their needs. We need to understand
that the dead can never taste nor appreciate your offerings.
Actually, this act seems more of satisfying one's conscience
that you have done your duty as a living descendant.
Question:
Should I get rid of my ancestral tablet now that I am a Christian?
Answer:
Yes, you should and you must. The family ancestral tablet
has always been the spiritual contact point between the
living and the dead and it has always been associated with
worship. (Note: the Chinese term for the ancestral tablet is
Question:
Can I join in with the family to talk to the dead by asking the medium
or priest to speak on behalf of the deceased?
Answer:
No. This is an abomination to God. This activity is called
necromancy or divination. This operation of inquiring of the
dead is commonly practiced in funerals and in temples. They
consult the dead for the purpose of enquiring about the
future. In other situations, necromancy employs trances,
dreams and visions, common forms through which the dead
communicate their wishes. This is a demonic practice and
even though the voice of the priest/medium may seem to
sound like the deceased, it is actually an evil spirit (the Bible
calls it a familiar spirit), which impersonates the personality
of the deceased to deceive the living. It is a demonic
deception and demons can do that because they know the
past history of the deceased. Oftentimes, out of ignorance,
the family only wants to communicate with the deceased to
find out if he is happy, well fed and well housed in Hades.
Deuteronomy 18:10-12
There shall not be found among you any one that
maketh his son or his daughter to pass through the fire,
or that useth divination, or an observer of times, or an
enchanter, or a witch,
Or a charmer, or a consulter with familiar spirits, or a
wizard, or a necromancer.
For all that do these things are an abomination unto the
LORD: and because of these abominations the LORD
thy God doth drive them out from before thee. (KJV)
Question:
How can a Christian show his/her filial piety to his/her parents?
Answer:
A Christian shows filial piety while his parents are still alive!
Malachi 1:6
A son honoureth his father, and a servant his master: if
then I be a father, where is mine honour? and if I be a
master, where is my fear? saith the LORD of hosts unto
you. (KJV)
Jesus Christ said in:
Matthew 15:4
For God commanded, saying, Honour thy father and
mother: and, He that curseth father or mother, let him
die the death. (KJV)
Proverbs 6:20
My son, keep your father's commandments, and do not
forsake the law of your mother. (MKJV)
Exodus 21:15,17
And he that strikes his father or his mother shall surely
be put to death.
And he that curses his father or his mother shall surely
be put to death. (MKJV)
Proverbs 30:17
The eye that mocks at his father and despises to obey his
mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the
young eagles shall eat it. (MKJV)
the important thing is not the richness of the food, but the
pleasure and happiness shared during fellowship with the
parents. Jesus set for us a good example. While on the cross,
He entrusted His earthly mother to the care of His disciple,
John (John 19:26-27). In the Old Testament, we find Joseph
taking care of his father for 17 years when he was the Prime
Minister of Egypt. When his father died, he personally
brought his remains back to Canaan for burial. Joseph served
his father with respect when he lived, and buried him with
respect when he died.
When our parents are still alive, we must exhort them gently.
They are not sinless! Do not rebuke them openly before
others. If a believer has unbelieving parents, he must
encourage them gently and lead them to the Lord. Helping
one's parents to know Jesus as their personal Savior is one
of the best filial piety deeds.
When our parents are still alive, be thankful for them. The
saddest thing is that when we want to express our
thankfulness to our parents, they may not be alive to receive
it. Do it now when they are still with us. Bring them out for
lunch or dinner. We do not have to wait until Father's Day or
Mother's Day to do so. There was one grandmother that
used to say, “Don't buy flowers and visit me when I'm dead,
do it when I'm alive so I can enjoy it.”
When our parents are no longer alive, be like Joseph in
Genesis chapter 50; honor them by giving our loved ones an
honorable funeral. We do not need to overspend, but we
need to give our loved ones a decent burial. We can also
remember the anniversary of their death by publishing a
word of remembrance of the person in the newspapers.
INTERVIEW
WITH BROTHER KS LAI
A FORMER STAUNCH PRACTITIONER
OF ANCESTOR WORSHIP
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Author: Were there any changes in your life after you had
given up on ancestor worship?
Lai: Praise God, now my life has been free from fear,
anxiety and bondages that were in me when I was an
ancestor worshiper. I do not have to remember all
the birthdays of the gods and ancestors and my faith
in Jesus helps me to overcome all the fear of
retribution that I thought would come upon me if I
gave up on them. All the superstitious beliefs are
gone and all my idols and ancestral tablets had
been removed. I realized that I was deceived in the
past and that now there is only one true and living
God in my life. I can live my life truthfully and
joyfully in the Lord Jesus Christ and He gives me all
the strength that I need daily.
INTERVIEW