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Nearly 20 years ago, Kitzinger (1987) argued that the shift in psychological
research in the 1970s and 1980s toward a liberal-humanistic view of lesbians and
gay men as ‘just like’ heterosexuals (rather than intrinsically deviant and patho-
logical) was not, in fact, as positive and progressive as it might have seemed.
Rather, she noted that this conceptualization actually reinforced the dominant
social order by presenting same-sex sexuality as a matter of private lifestyle,
thereby neutralizing its political challenge to heterosexuality. This was, of course,
an insidiously effective way of maintaining the social institution of heterosexual-
ity, given that outright condemnation of homosexuals had gradually become less
socially acceptable.
An analogous critique can and should be made regarding the ‘positive’ and
‘accepting’ portrayals of female same-sex sexuality that have increasingly pro-
liferated in American entertainment media. Over the past 5–10 years, there has
been an upsurge of openly lesbian (and less often, bisexual) characters and rela-
tionships on American films and television shows (recent films include The
Hours, Chasing Amy, But I’m a Cheerleader; Gigli, Lost and Delirious,
Everything Relative; television shows include Ellen, ER, Buffy the Vampire
Slayer, NYPD Blue, All My Children, Friends, JAG, Melrose Place, Popular,
Once and Again, Nip/Tuck, K Street, Coupling, Queer as Folk). More interest-
ingly, however, there have also been numerous depictions of presumably hetero-
sexual women hinting at or experimenting with same-sex sexuality, a phenome-
non that has been called ‘heteroflexibility’ (Essig, 2000) (films include Kissing
Jessica Stein; 8 Women, Laurel Canyon; Heavenly Creatures, television shows
include Ally McBeal, Friends, Will & Grace, Party of Five, Sex and the City – see
also the recent Madonna/Britney Spears and Madonna/Christina Aguilera kisses
on the 2003 MTV Video Music Awards: ‘Madonna smooches with Britney and
Christina’ [MTV, 2003]).
On the one hand, feminist psychologists might hopefully surmise that these mass
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Observing sex between otherwise heterosexual women has long been a staple of
male fantasy, but only recently has this fantasy graduated from the shelves of
pornographic video stores to mainstream movies and television shows. This puts
feminist psychologists in a quandary: on one hand, images of female–female
sexuality between attractive, ‘heterosexual-looking’ participants (perhaps better
called ‘femme–femme’ sexuality) may have a powerful positive influence on
young women by countering stereotypes of lesbians as unattractive, masculine,
and hostile. On the other hand, these images typically take pains to clarify that the
participants are not, in fact, lesbians (exemplified by Ally McBeal, in which two
of the three ‘lesbian kisses’ featured during the show’s run were undertaken by
the participants to ‘trick’ heterosexual male onlookers, and the third was purely
experimental), in order not to spoil the ‘interloper fantasy’ of the heterosexual
male viewer. Thus, such images implicitly convey that the most desirable and
acceptable form of female–female sexuality is that which pleases and plays to the
heterosexual male gaze, titillating male viewers while reassuring them that the
participants remain sexually available in the conventional heterosexual market-
place.
One salient example is the young female pop duo, Tatu, who decline to openly
categorize themselves as lesbians or bisexuals but openly display and discuss
their long-standing sexual and romantic relationship with one another in inter-
views, posters, videos, and publicity photos. Notably, much of the marketing of
Tatu exploits the heady combination of youth and female–female sexuality, for
example by posing them embracing one another while wearing young girls’
underwear and undershirts: in fact, their manager has openly admitted to the BBC
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that Tatu represent an ‘underage sex project’ marketed toward men who enjoy
‘underage entertainment’ (BBC, 2003). Thus, any potential for Tatu to provide a
positive model of open and exuberant same-sex sexuality for young lesbian
and/or bisexual women is counteracted by the commodification of youthful
same-sex sexuality to appeal to the fantasies of adolescent boys and potentially
predatory adult men.
Finally, the ‘fantasy’ nature of contemporary depictions of heterosexual
experimentation with same-sex sexuality is further underscored by the fact that
these ‘experiments’ are almost always portrayed as occurring between white,
middle-class women, unencumbered by the realities of race or class oppression.
This reinforces a safe sense of sexual ‘Utopia’ in which sexual feelings and
behaviors have no political dimension. When women of color are involved (as in
the Asian character ‘Ling’ on Ally McBeal, discussed below), such characters
typically possess considerable class privilege, thereby creating safely exotic com-
modities for white male viewers that neatly avoid questions about the inherent
power differentials linked to race, class, and gender.
There are, however, some exceptions. After Madonna kissed both Britney
Spears and Christina Aguilera during a musical number during the MTV 2003
Video Music Awards, both Spears and Aguilera spoke glowingly about the
experience to the media. Spears said (quoted in Warn, 2003b) that the kiss would
‘last her for a while’, and that ‘This is something I’ve dreamt about since I was a
little girl. I cannot believe this just like freakin’ happened. I am on a major high
right now. I feel very cool.’ Of course, she backtracked slightly in the days
after the event, pointing out that ‘I didn’t know it was going to be that long and
everything’ and that she probably wouldn’t kiss a woman again, unless it were
Madonna. In this formulation, Spears is able to discount (and politically neutral-
ize) her enjoyment of the kiss by attributing it to the specific and circumscribed
allure of Madonna (as Spears said, ‘I mean, come on . . . If you can kiss any girl
in the world, that has to be her’) rather than a generalized openness to same-sex
contact. It also bears noting that the event specifically courted the male gaze by
explicitly casting Madonna in a male-identified role, dressing her to represent the
older, black-clad ‘groom’ with a frilly, young, ‘virginal’ bride on each arm.
Thus, the potential of these kisses to challenge rigid, dichotomous models of
sexuality was altogether lost on a viewing public that is all-too-accustomed to the
economically motivated packaging and marketing of sexual controversy. In one
teen-oriented chatroom devoted to discussing the MTV kisses (http://www.
yoink.org/cgi-bin/mt/mt-comments.cgi?entry_id=4336), perhaps the second most
common comment (behind male and female exhortations of how exciting and
titillating they were) was how phoney they were:
Easy there, boys. Don’t you realize when your chain is being jerked? Madonna
. . . is just trying to be as outrageous as possible to stay in the headlines. Britney
is desperate to become more ‘adult’. Is Britney a lesbian? Not a chance . . . Is
Madonna? No. She is an aging, pre-menopausal British housewife.
I got nothing against REAL passion-driven kissing between any two humans.
It’s just that these are not real people, they are products. Britney © Madonna ®
Christina™.
tion and identity are fundamentally personal choices about love, desire, and ful-
fillment that have little or no social context. Thus, whereas Rich (1980) called
attention over 20 years ago to the pervasive but often invisible sociopolitical
forces rendering heterosexuality a cultural imperative for women rather than a
natural ‘state of being’, such open acknowledgement of the status of hetero-
sexuality as a hegemonic social institution is altogether missing from media
portrayals of heteroflexibility.
This is no surprise: just as many heterosexual women took offense over 20
years ago at Rich’s contention that the ‘naturalness’ of their desire for men might
reflect false consciousness, contemporary women are similarly inclined to reject
the notion that they have been unwittingly tricked into considering themselves
straight. Thus, just as some women come away from encounters with hetero-
flexibility claiming that it proves that they ‘can’t help’ their heterosexuality,
others maintain that they could, in fact, happily pursue same-sex relationships if
they wanted to, but they simply decided otherwise (of course, this perspective
nicely sidesteps the fact that such ‘decisions’ could never be freely undertaken for
working-class women, who might critically depend on heterosexual relationshps
for economic survival). Notably, an increasing number of female celebrities have
described their own sexual histories and possibilities in these terms. As reviewed
by Warn (2003a), American celebrities such as Drew Barrymore, Angelina Jolie,
Lisa Marie Presley, and Alanis Morrisette have openly discussed attractions to –
and sometimes prior relationships with – women, although all of them claim that
they doubt they will pursue such experiences in the future. Again, the political
context of such decisions (for example, the risk that same-sex sexuality might
pose to their careers) is not explicitly mentioned, and instead these decisions are
entirely idiosyncratic and personal.
The mainstream ‘romantic comedy’, Kissing Jessica Stein, provides another
example of the depoliticization of heteroflexibility. In this film, heterosexual
Jessica answers a personals ad placed by bi-curious Helen and they end up in a
full-fledged sexual and romantic relationship that both women clearly enjoy.
However, the sexual spark eventually fades on Jessica’s part, as she discovers
that her feelings for Helen are more affectional than erotic. She returns to dating
men, while Helen continues to date women. Each of these outcomes is portrayed
as a fundamentally personal decision with no sociopolitical context or implica-
tions. Notably, this apoliticism appears to have been one of the main selling
points of the film. Reviewers tended to emphasize the ‘fresh spin’ that the film
took on the romantic comedy genre, and took for granted its depiction of a world
in which choosing men versus women is entirely idiosyncratic (rottentomatoes.
com, 2003). As one reviewer noted, ‘Kissing Jessica Stein is refreshing precisely
because it has no sexual politics. Its overriding message is that there’s no explain-
ing sexual attraction, and there’s no way (or need) to justify who turns us on and
why at certain points in our lives’ (Zacharek, 2002). Again, such an observation
might ideally spark serious questioning of the social and political ends served by
categorical models of sexuality, but this does not appear to have taken place.
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CONCLUSION
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