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suffering. Still, there are plenty of ways you can be supportive in painful
circumstances. When you don’t know what to say or do to help people who
are hurting, try the following:
2. Hug them.
Hugs are a wonderful way to show you care. Another plus with giving
someone a hug is that you don’t have to worry about saying the wrong
thing. When people hugged me, I felt like it was okay to not say anything
when I didn’t feel like talking. The hug said it all.
4. Bring a meal.
Grieving people don’t always feel like keeping up a conversation. When
people are hurting, they may not want to talk when someone stops by with
a meal. Sometimes it's best to leave a yummy, homemade meal at the door.
Doing this will meet people's physical needs and make them feel loved,
while giving them any needed personal space.
True story (testimony): “One day I didn’t know if I could make it another
moment. I had almost completely lost my will to live. The phone rang. It
was one of the moms from my daughter’s soccer team. This woman’s phone
call got me through that overwhelming moment and helped me to keep
going.”
10. Don’t tell them that they need to move on; help
them to move forward.
Don’t expect a full recovery. Major hurts such as the death of a loved one,
abandonment, illness, divorce, being the victim of sexual abuse or other
serious crimes, and extreme poverty are not things people get over. This
world hurts, very badly a lot of the time. If your child were a prisoner of
war, would you miss him or her less after five years than you did after one
month? Of course not. The pain would be even greater after five years
because it would be that much longer since you had been with each other.
People can heal from major life traumas, but a scar is likely to remain.
We can take courage because sin and death won’t have the final word. God
sent his Son to do for us what we could not do for ourselves: live the
perfect life on our behalf and be the perfect atoning sacrifice for our sins.
Through faith in Christ alone for our salvation, we will triumph over all the
tragedies of this world and live forever with God in glory:
But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right
to become children of God (John 1:12).