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Brooklin M. Mays
Mrs. Kenly
British Literature
26 April 2019
Outline
I. Family Matters: Is Toxic Parenting linked to Teen Depression? How Many Children
are impacted by the legacy?
A. Introduction
B. Thesis Statement: Toxic parenting, in short, is the category in which all "poor"
parenting styles fall under. Toxic parenting can range from neglect to emotional
abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse, love withdrawal, and emotional unavailability.
The long terms effects of such parenting may be detrimental to the child's self-
esteem.
II. Background
1. [1] Positive parenting [2] Intuitive parenting [3] Conscious parenting [4]
B. Toxic parenting, in short, is the category in which all "poor" parenting styles fall
under.
C. Toxic parenting can range from neglect to emotional abuse, physical abuse, sexual
A. The long terms effects of such parenting may be detrimental to the child’s self-
esteem.
1. For instance, a child may rationalize “I am the reason for Mom/Dad treating
me this way”
2. “I must have earned this treatment because I am all the things they describe
me to be.”
3. Individuals fail to realize there are existential and long term effects of toxic
IV. Does bad parenting lead to depression, lack of ability to socialize, and connect with
others?
3. The number of children and teens hospitalized for suicidal thoughts or self-
1. Marc Fisher states that there are 6 different types of toxic parents. [1] the
alcoholics [2] the controllers [3] the sexual abusers [4] the physical abusers [5]
b) Movie Reference
A) Many disagree that the type of parenting that a child is exposed to has an effect on
how they behave, mature, the relationships they are involved in, how they treat
B) Teenagers get all the ink for being backbiting, cliquish and prone to bad decisions.
But in the harsh game of competitive parenting, the cliques are just as strong
among the parents. In the world of toxic parents, there's always someone the rest of
1. Experts believe that 90% of us are still suffering from the ravages of childhood
2. Since then, Boomer parents have brought us the era of zero tolerance, the
A. These parents, recalling only too well what they did as teens try to protect their
B. Some parents are demanding of their children but, this does not mean that they are
controlling.
1. Signs that you have a controlling parent are: over scrutinized your eating,
discouraged you from expressing anger, fear or sadness around them, violated your
C. Controlling-toxic parents are more worried about your successes and how it will be
1. Children will grow up and realize they did not live their life like how they
wanted to.
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a) When these children grow up and realize that they did not live life how
Marc; 2006).
A. "Many therapists agree that parent bashing is often a euphemism for mother
the basic assumption that mothers, as the family "gatekeepers," were somehow
responsible for how children turned out. If the kids had problems, Mother was
either too involved or not enough; if Dad was depressed, it was because Mom was
emasculating him. If fathers have been blamed for anything, it's that they haven't
been there. Even in cases of incest, the mother has often been held responsible--for
IX. Realizing you were/ are a victim of toxic parenting and how to move on
1. It has been recorded that 54% of Adult Children dump their sorrows on their
parents while other Adult Children assemble to flesh out forgotten images from
painful childhoods.
B. Parent Bashing
1. But there may be little talk of forgiveness, much about blame, and, sometimes,
anger? And if parent bashing is the prescription, what are the long-term effects
C. The Adult Child movement which was started in 2006 to help survivors of extreme
abuse.
incest, physical, mental violence. This group aims to help many people exorcize
childhood demons of shame and isolation. It also plans to help them understand
that what happened to them as children was not their fault and that as adults they
X. Survey
a) This proves that toxic parenting does affect the child and how they cope
B. "As you age do you see yourself having more or less contact with your parent(s)?
1. A survey participant that mentioned earlier in the survey that they do not have
a good relationship with their parents said that they will have less contact with
their parents because they expect a lot out of he/she and the goals they have for
he/she are not their personal goals. The participant also mentions that she
him/her to be more like their siblings and understand that they are their own
person.
XI. Conclusion