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Introduction to Communication
1 August 2018
Communication surrounds our daily lives and it is necessary for us to survive and thrive in our
environments. Recently I have been involved in several communication events which I was able
I recently had to move out of the apartment that I had been living in for the past two
years. My roommates were three of my best friends who constantly came in and out of my room.
One day while I was packing, one of my roommates was describing her troubles with her
boyfriend to me. I was hearing her but not really listening to what she was saying. As I have
learned, there is a large difference between these two actions. Hearing is “the sensory process of
receiving and perceiving sounds” (Floyd 128), while listening is “the active process of making
meaning out of another person’s spoken message” (Floyd 128). She was talking to me but I was
not interpreting what she was saying because of what I was doing. Packing created noise for me.
Noise is “anything that distracts people from listening to what they wish to listen to” (Floyd
137). My roommate did not notice that I was not paying attention to her because I kept saying
president. She and I do not get along, and she has talked negatively about me behind my back
200). Instead of being helpful, she was negative and rude. Overall it was an unpleasant
encounter. She kept attacking me as a person and in summary said I was a joke to her. During
this encounter, I did not say a word to her, and eventually I had to walk away from her because
she was taking valuable time away from my life. My “withdrawing from a conversation” (Floyd
201) is known as stonewalling. This was my strategy to brush the conversation off and leave the
situation.
of my coworkers was discussing a recent Tinder date she had been on that had ended in an
awkward fashion. She was saying that she did not like the man but he liked her wanted a kiss
goodbye. My boss entered the room and my coworker quickly ended the conversation. She began
speaking about our latest project and my boss was able to chime in to discuss details with us. My
coworker and I are peers on the same level. We are both college females, and we consider
ourselves to be in an in-group together. In-groups are “groups of people with which a person
identifies” (Floyd 31). Subjects that we discuss together should not always be discussed with our
superiors, or in this case our boss. Our boss on the other hand is a middle aged male with whom
we cannot relate to easily. He is in our out-group, meaning we do not identify with him (Floyd
31). It is important to recognize these groups and to understand what is appropriate to talk about
After taking this course, I aim to improve my communications with others. I can begin by
becoming more aware of my actions, especially my listening skills. When my roommate was
discussing her love life, I should have been using empathic listening. We use this form of
listening “to experience what the speaker thinks or feels” (Floyd 134). I should have tried to be
more sympathetic and understanding towards her, especially because she is struggling. I strive to
be a better listener to those who need me. When I receive criticism, I will try to be more open
towards it. When the criticism is coming from a negative place, I may get defensive or see
myself as the victim (Floyd 200). I will try harder to overcome my issues and speak rationally to
the other person involved in the conversation. I will also be more aware of the in-groups and
out-groups that surround me, and be more respectful of their boundaries. Certain things should
not be said in certain instances and I will be more conscious from now on. Overall, I hope to be a