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4. Give yourself
When people experience a setback at work— 10. Get help when you need it
whether it’s a bad sales quarter, being Seeking help is a sight of strength not weakness.
overlooked for a promotion, or an interpersonal
conflict with a colleague—it’s common to Teen Personality Disorder
respond in one of two ways. Either we become Those with Teen Personality Disorder
defensive and blame others, or we berate have a rigid, unhealthy way of thinking,
ourselves. Unfortunately, neither response is behaving, and relating to people and
especially helpful. Shirking responsibility by situations, including themselves. These
getting defensive may alleviate the sting of teen’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors
failure, but it comes at the expense of learning. are eccentric from social expectations
Self-flagellation, on the other hand, may feel and appropriateness and because of that,
warranted in the moment, but it can lead to an often cause friction and limitations in
inaccurately gloomy assessment of one’s relationships as well as responsibilities.
potential, which undermines personal Because the teens aren’t necessarily
development. aware that their thoughts and behaviors
are askew, they may not be aware and/or
5. Learn on how to deal with stress believe that they have a Personality
The first step in managing stress is recognizing it Disorder.
in your life. Everyone feels stress in a different
way. Also identify the situations that cause you What it looks like
stress. These are called stressors. Your stressors There are several different types of Personality
could be family, work, relationships, money, or Disorders, which include specific symptoms, but
health problems. Once you understand where there are some common symptoms that are
your stress is coming from, you can come up present amidst all Personality Disorders. These
with ways to deal with your stressors. symptoms include, but are not limited to:
Extreme and frequent mood swings
6. Quite your mind Difficulty in relationships
Meditating. It’s one of those things that we all Unpredictable behavior
know we’d be better off doing, but most of us A need for immediate gratification
struggle with it immensely. It’s difficult. It’s
Inability to control impulses
hard to find the time. And it often doesn’t seem
Substance Abuse issues
like it’s working. For many years, I’ve tried to
One person may meet the criteria for several
make meditation a regular habit. But rarely can I
different types of personality disorder, while a
do it consistently. It’s almost always the first
wide range of people may fit the criteria for the
thing to go when I’m crunched for time or
same disorder, despite having very different
feeling stressed. Of course, those are the times
personalities.
that meditation is best!
Read threats and danger – which others Be irritable and aggressive and get into
don’t see – into everyday situations fights easily
Be very easily bored and you may find it
Schizoid Personality Disorder difficult to hold down a job for long
You are likely to: Believe that only the strongest survive
Be uninterested in forming close and that you must do whatever it takes
relationships with other people including to lead a successful life, because if you
your family don’t grab opportunities, others will
Feel that relationships interfere with Have a criminal record
your freedom and tend to cause Have had a diagnosis of conduct
problems disorder before the age of 15
Prefer to be alone with your own
thoughts Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
Choose to live your life without You are likely to:
interference from others Feel that you don’t have a strong sense
Get little pleasure from life of who you really are, and others may
Have little interest in sex or intimacy describe you as very changeable
Be emotionally cold towards others Suffer from mood swings, switching
from one intense emotion to another
Schizotypal Personality Disorder very quickly, often with angry outbursts
You are likely to: Have brief psychotic episodes, hearing
Find making close relationships voices or seeing things that others don’t
extremely difficult Do things on impulse, which you later
Think and express yourself in ways that regret
others find ‘odd’, using unusual words Have episodes of harming yourself, and
or phrases think about taking your own life
Behave in ways that others find Be irritable and aggressive and get into
eccentric fights easily
Believe that you can read minds or that Have a history of stormy or broken
you have special powers such as a ‘sixth relationships
sense’ Tend to cling on to very damaging
Feel anxious and tense with others who relationships, because you are terrified
do not share these beliefs of being alone
Feel very anxious and paranoid in social The term ‘borderline’ is difficult to
situations make sense of, and some people prefer
the term ‘emotionally unstable
Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD) personality disorder’ or ‘emotional
Act impulsively and recklessly, often instability disorder’, which is sometimes
without considering the consequences used in place of ‘borderline personality
for yourself or for other people disorder’. (Also see information about
Behave dangerously and sometimes borderline personality disorder.)
illegally
Behave in ways that are unpleasant for Histrionic Personality Disorder
others You are likely to:
Do things – even though they may hurt Feel very uncomfortable if you are not
people – to get what you want, putting the center of attention
your needs above theirs Feel much more at ease as the ‘life and
Feel no sense of guilt if you have soul of the party’
mistreated others Feel that you have to entertain people
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Flirt or behave provocatively to ensure Agree to things you feel are wrong or
that you remain the center of attention you dislike avoiding being alone or
Get a reputation for being dramatic and losing someone's support
overemotional Be afraid of being left to fend for
Feel dependent on the approval of others yourself
Be easily influenced by others Have low self-confidence
See other people as being much more
Narcissistic Personality Disorder capable than you are
You are likely to: Be seen by others as much too
Believe that there are special reasons submissive and passive
that make you different, better or more
deserving than others Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder
Have fragile self-esteem, so that you (OCPD)
rely on others to recognize your worth You are likely to:
and your needs Need to keep everything in order and
Feel upset if others ignore you and don’t under control
give you what you feel you deserve Set unrealistically high standards for
Resent other people’s successes yourself and others
Put your own needs above other Think yours is the best way of making
people’s, and demand they do too things happen
Be seen as selfish and ‘above yourself’ Worry when you or others might make
Take advantage of other people mistakes
Expect catastrophes if things aren’t
Avoidant/Anxious Personality Disorder perfect
You are likely to: Be reluctant to spend money on yourself
Avoid work or social activities that or others
mean you must be with others Tend to hang on to items with no
Expect disapproval and criticism and be obvious value
very sensitive to it OCPD is separate from obsessive
Worry constantly about being ‘found compulsive disorder (OCD), which
out’ and rejected describes a form of behavior rather than
Worry about being ridiculed or shamed a type of personality. (See information
by others about obsessive-compulsive disorder.)
Avoid relationships, friendships and It’s also important to note that it’s common for
intimacy because you fear rejection Personality Disorders to exist as Co-Occurring
Feel lonely and isolated, and inferior to Disorders, along with Disorders such as
others Depression, Anxiety, and Substance Abuse.
Be reluctant to try new activities in case
you embarrass yourself Treatment
Because Personality Disorders are primarily
connected to teen’s thoughts and behaviors,
Dependent Personality Disorder treatment is designed to address both of these
You are likely to: things.
Feel needy, weak and unable to make Therapists first people to become aware of their
decisions or function properly without thoughts and behaviors, creating an awareness
help or support from which changes can be made. Then, they
Allow others to assume responsibility help the teens to understand the effects that their
for many areas of your life behaviors have, both in their own lives, and in
the lives of others. Therapists can then also
begin working with the teens to change those
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