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Understanding and gradients of abilities become apparent. terns, (c) school adjustment, (d) crea-
Gradients in abilities, sensitivity, in- tive self-expression, and (e) establish-
Encouraging the tensity, talent, and creativity within ing a user-friendly environment. In
the gifted range must be recognized each of these components for optimum
Exceptionally just as we acknowledge and program development, one other person can
Gifted for graduations of ability below the
norm.
effect a significant difference.
Bruce E. Kline
Elizabeth A. Meckstroth
In a few progressive school districts,
recognition of these variations is de-
fined in policy and programming for
highly gifted students above the 140-
W ithin this exceptional group
comprising less than .25% of
the population with a poten-
tial spread of over 50 IQ points, there is
a great range of characteristics, needs,
145 IQ range. There is a comparative and abilities. There is as much poten-
void of responsive awareness to the tial variation in comparing exception-
needs and abilities of people above the ally gifted and gifted children as in
Emotional and social diversity are as
third, and, even more acutely, fourth comparing an average child with a
clearly manifest in gifted persons as is standard deviation from the norm. child well below the norm.
intellectual exceptionality. In this regard, Understandably, the typical response
we recognize three gradients within the to inquiries about special programming
gifted range: gifted, from 130-145 IQ; highly for youngsters with above 160 IQ is, Interpersonal Relationships
gifted, 140-160 IQ; and exceptionally gifted, "We don't have any." However, that
above 160 IQ. Parents of highly and statement is incongruent with our
exceptionally gifted persons have found it Extraordinary vulnerabilities are
useful to retain a family psychologist or
experience in Ohio. We are now in very often companions to exceptional
counselor to develop relationships in a clinical and support contact with fami- intellectual ability. As intellectual
preventive function. lies having a total of 18 children and levels increase, so does the person's
In this article, five facets of critical several adults in this exceptional range, risk of experiencing intellectual, social,
development are highlighted: (a) and have had previous contact with and emotional problems. This child is
interpersonal relationships; (b) several others. That is without pub-
acknowledgement of uniqueness; (c) school more susceptible to develop mental
adjustment; (d) creative self-expression;
licity seeking to locate this population. difficulties than any other ability group
and (e) user-friendly environment. In each above the norm (Terman, 1925; Terman
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area, several interventive strategies are and Oden, 1947; Tannenbaum, 1983;
suggested. Definition of Terms Hollingworth, 1942). This "at risk"
component of adjustment continues
throughout the person's life span.
Bruce E. Kline (Psy.D.) is a clinical psy-
chologist and Director of Psychology at
Millcreek Psychiatric Center for Children.
B asic to understanding and en-
couraging children in this ability
range is the standardization of
terminology. After sorting through
many labeling attempts including pro-
There is a corresponding increase in
potential for misunderstanding this
complex group. It is important to first
He is a member of the clinical faculties of acknowledge that we probably will not
Wright State University, Xavier University, foundly, severely, acutely, genius, even fully understand the extent of the
and the University of Cincinnati. He is terminally, and our favorite, ultra exceptionally gifted person's percep-
director of a private practice focused bright, we have designated the term tions. They tend to experience the
primarily on meeting emotional and educa- "exceptionally gifted" for the group world holistically in all of its connec-
tional needs of gifted, talented and creative scoring above 160 on individually ad- tiveness. Andy, age six, often responds
persons. ministered IQ tests. To classify persons to counseling feedback with, "Well, not
Elizabeth A. Meckstroth (M.S.) is an as- in the 145-160 IQ range, we endorse the exactly." This indicates an experience
sociate in the practice of Dr. Kline and a term used by many school districts,
school consultant. She is co-author of of life that is more serious and personal
Guiding the Gifted Child: A Practical
"highly gifted", with the term "gifted" than most other gifted children. Per-
Source for Parents and Teachers, and thus reserved for those with measured sonal meaning in an activity thus
President of the Atlantic Association of IQ's between 130-145. When additional becomes the defining force for the
Gifted Children and Adults. exceptional abilities or talents are rec- exceptionally gifted. Essentially, they
ognized, a five to ten point deviation internalize a great deal of their ex-
below the standard is granted. perience and sometimes have difficulty
distinguishing between what is im-
our clinical work confirm that mean- reflected in an overflowing sense of Intense sensitivity and mental re-
ingful, intimate, interpersonal rela- confidence and enthusiasm. Reports sponsiveness of exceptionally gifted
tionships are essential to the sense of from Johns Hopkins and Duke Uni- people is manifest in everything they
life satisfaction for the exceptionally versity, where exceptionally gifted experience (Whitmore, 1980). Nearly
gifted. A 1984 study of values conduc- youngsters have an opportunity to everything matters, and it matters that
ted with our clientele confirmed that a associate with intellectual peers during it matters. When Steven was asked
close, intimate relationship is more special summer instruction, confirm how he got a bruise on his arm, he spent
highly valued by the gifted than being the nurturing effect of this experience. five minutes describing everything
"popular." Witty (1951) found this to be Interpersonal satisfaction and con- that was going on in the room at the
even more characteristic of the excep- gruity are associated significant bene- moment he bumped into the door. Why
tionally gifted. In that context, as IQ fits. Extraordinarily gifted children couldn't he just say, "I bumped into a
advances above 130, there is a corre- typically choose friends with those door?" Because of his enriched experi-
sponding decrease in the probability of who are a similar mental age (O'Shea, ence of the event, he was unable to sort
accepted leadership potential which is 1960). out what would be appreciated by
further reduced for those beyond 160 those receiving his description. He
After our role in networking for two might even have assumed self inflicted
IQ (Gallagher, 1975; Hollingworth, five-year-olds with IQ's over 180, one
1942). responsibility (Silverman, 1983) for
parent observed, "Until Sara's rela- both the event and the exceptional
tionship with Mark, there was no re- reaction.
I
solation for the exceptionally gifted
is intensified when they become lationship that meant much to her.
aware that other people do not
perceive or even experience the world
as they do. Stephanie Tolan offers the
microscope analogy. She explains that
Sara had tried to reason with her other
playmates, but upon awareness of their
comparative disadvantage, their usual
response was to get physical." Sara
W hat is passed over as trivial
by others may be cause for
severe emotional response.
Parents describe: "He's always been so
exceptionally gifted children will feel then chose to withdraw. Such children old, old, old. I just wish he weren't so
more tolerance for others if they under- may deprive themselves of learning sensitive. She understands the other
stand that compared with the way appropriate social skills. Locating a children, but they don't understand
most people see the world, they see it "compeer" is a valuable resource for her. He's eight years old and it's as if he
as if looking through the microscope. life satisfaction and stress reduction. has the weight of the world on his
They see and feel much that other Opportunity to be with a group of shoulders." This sensitivity renders
people cannot even imagine exists. intellectual and age peers compounds the child vulnerable with little protec-
Critics often suggest that exceptionally the beneficial effects. tion; everything gets through.
gifted people are out of touch with To assuage the sense of isolation, we These children are empathetic to
reality. When we talked with one gifted need to convey understanding. There is feeling others' pain. Shirley, who gets
coordinator about our interest in this a world full of responses communicat- A's in math, reported, "A lot of kids are
population she responded, "Can you ing that they are not as smart as they getting F's in math. I hate math!" They
really talk with them?" In therapy, may think. Others will rationalize with interpret their environment personally
Rachel, age 13, confided that her great- them; persuade them to accept a dif- feeling that what happened to someone
est problem was, "I have to lie." If she ferent reality, and otherwise discount else happened to them. What someone
levels of sensitivity can become a parenting is to emphasize adult sat- such a group was presented by group
burden. To alleviate this overload, isfactions in both effort and accom- members at the 1985 Ohio Association
parents and other caring adults need to plishment and to openly disclose for Gifted Children Conference. One
teach their children that most other disappointments in mistakes. The parent expressed that an exceptionally
people will not see or feel what they do. exceptionally gifted can respond to an gifted child requires an abundance of
invitation for cooperative consultation "Power, Attention, and Time." They
Part of the cynicism exceptionally from a parent and will learn appropri- need more PATs! For parents, this role
gifted children feel stems from viewing ate adaptive response patterns in the can become awesome and exhausting,
themselves as thinking adults who see
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process. This population needs to learn but the burden does not need to be
the weaknesses of adults. A resistance flexibility in adversity. borne by parents alone. Parents can
to learn from adults may then ensue creatively broaden their resources
with a resulting need to maintain ornell's studies (1981) report
autonomy. These children are thus in
the dilemma of resenting treatment
like a child and their necessary de-
pendency on adults. They often defend
C that parents of a gifted child
tend to overinvest in that child.
An exceptionally gifted child in the
family needs a great deal of stimulation
through a network of other adults.
Auxiliary care givers such as inter-
ested neighbors, relatives, friends and
church members can be accessed to
contribute to a broader base of stimu-
themselves against the world and feel and demands attention. Exceptional lation, care, trust, and mentoring for
that they are the only ones capable of dedication is required. Parenting ex- exceptional children.
doing so (Roeper, 1984). At least one ceptionally gifted children can be an
parent is very likely gifted, capable, intense and awesome experience as the
and accessible. Therefore, parents are following comments illustrate: "The
the most probable source of essential biggest concern I had when I learned Acknowledging Unique Patterns
trust, acceptance, and understanding her IQ score was suddenly the respon-
of their child. sibility of parenting was made more Adult Expectations
Ambivalence in Separation serious, a weight. If she had scored in Pressures for parents to conform to
the gifted range, I would have known other parents' roles and rules permeate
Exceptionally gifted children live in there were resources available. When I
a world where they are never quite relationships with their own unique
talk about my child, other people think children. Frequently a child's problems
sure if it is acceptable to be gifted or I'm bragging and cut me off. I thought
not. This is because of mixed messages emanate from the discrepancy between
he would slow down, but he's just their performance and the expectations
often sent by parents (Powell and grown by leaps and bounds. . . .now, I
Haden, 1984). Ambivalence thus be- of significant adults. Many parents
realize we need help." Jason's school and teachers believe that their role is to
comes part of the basis for a potentially counselor reported that his teacher told
enmeshed relationship with one or both control, shape, and manage the lives of
her, "If he's so gifted, it's his own their children. Especially in the cases
parents. Another component of this parents' fault, not because of his
common theme is the child's suscepti- of exceptionally gifted children, adults
ability." Many popular parenting see so much more potential and often
bility to seizure for the vicarious principles simply do not apply to these
accomplishment of a parent's ego. respond with increased measures of
children. The result is a sense of control and management to gratify
Parents, coaches, teachers of the gifted, ostracism: "Otherpeople think I let him
and others should be cautioned not to their perception of what the child
get away with murder, but I can't see should be. With the exceptionally
impose their needs in exploiting these making him miserable just to make
children. The exceptionally gifted child gifted, this is especially destructive.
other people happy." These youngsters have a tremendous
is a particularly vulnerable target for
this sort of abuse (Miller, 1981). If this Professionals can document and positive potential; but it is also coun-
pattern is practiced, resulting symbi- advocate that parents are not being ter-balanced by a great potential for
osis creates resentment and may re- pushy; but are probably concerned personal sadness, depression, sensitiv-
strict a child's identity and autonomy. with getting obstacles out of the way ity, and awareness of inequity. When
It is during adolescence that excep- so that their child can run at his own adults assume control, these children
confirm that they have a normal boy and by the child who is frustrated relative to those results need to be
who will grow up to be a normal man. when actual fine motor skills do not shared. It is a misconception that
The masculine role stereotype becomes comply with ambitious ideals. Excep- knowledge of one's abilities results in
especially difficult for exceptionally tionally gifted children's tendencies to- becoming snobbish. That is possible;
gifted boys to maintain. Since they are ward analytical skepticism embrace but more often, it is not knowing that
extraordinarily sensitive, these young their own self-concept. Uneven devel- creates damage. When interpreting IQ
men often need counseling for self opment, inappropriate expectations, scores, professionals and parents must
acceptance. They also need specific and critical acuity often culminate in a also remember that similar IQ scores
skills in relating to others without low self-concept and greater risk for do not necessarily indicate similarity
internal resentment. damaging their psycho-social well be- on additional variables with any other
ing. (Hollingworth, 1942, Terman & person.
A
n underlying self-sabotaging Oden, 1959) A Psycho-educational Consultant for
pattern persists for many girls. the Family
Covert constraints keeping Through informal or professional
them compliant and lovable are often counseling the exceptionally gifted Professional assessment might also
interpreted as threats of being "too child can access a realistic ideal self- become the basis for establishing an
smart for your own good". Many ex- concept (Powell, 1982). In this context, ongoing relationship with a competent
ceptionally bright women limit them- ignorance of abilities is anathema to mental health professional who can
selves through perceived sex roles and confidence building. One kindergar- provide objective interpretations for
consequently have difficulty balancing tener was asked to withdraw from the family in a preventive mode. This
accomplishments with acceptance school because she was too immature. built-in relationship can be particu-
(Fox, Tobin & Brody, 1981). Exception- Evidence cited to substantiate this larly useful in a crisis situation where
ally gifted girls tend to discount them- claim was her usual gaze out of the the essential trusting relationship has
selves as deceivers who are not as window. After the mother consulted been pre-established. The involved
competent as they appear: "I got an A+ with a psychologist in an attempt to psychologist or other professional can
in chemistry only because the teacher escape her daughter's incessant har- also be especially valuable in consulta-
likes me." rassment for stimulation and attention, tion with school personnel about ad-
testing revealed that the child had an justment in the school milieu.
Uniqueness IQ of 163! In another case, a high school
Any discrepancy from the norm ex-
aggerates adjustment problems. Even
within gifted programs, qualities of
exceptionally gifted children are not
graduate came for counseling to help
find focus in her life direction. Her
school experience had been frustrating,
tedious and discouraging. Examination
P arents, teachers and counselors
need to be cautious not to define
a child by relative weaknesses.
An extreme deviation from the norm
creates a contrast with otherwise
often acknowledged, accepted, valued, of early school records revealed that normal abilities which appear incon-
or actualized. Expecting an exception- she had scored 155-165 IQ on a Binet gruent and deficient by comparison.
ally gifted child to maintain the mental when in the second grade! Her excep- Because of these apparent contrasts,
pace of the 130 range is blatantly tional potential was never revealed to adults are prone to focus on the relative
inappropriate. her or her family. This young woman problems of exceptionally gifted chil-
Inherent in exceptional giftedness is continued to wonder why she felt so dren rather than recognition of their
tion with peers, mutual sharing fre- 1. Giving the child full flexibility
tional positive approval. David Wil- within firm outer limits.
lings (1982) found that these people are quently generalizes to a sense of
the least happy adults. As adults, they inclusion and competence. 2. Experiencing natural and logical
seek stability on their accomplish- Career Guidance prenegotiated consequences.
ments and even may marry as an One exceptionally gifted parent re- 3. Avoidance of punishment.
achievement. flects, "My problem is that I've always 4. Knowledge of behavior manage-
had too many opportunities." This ment applied in a consistent, kind
nature and nurture. New York, New York: The The reasons /or gifted women's failure to career goals which were moderate in
MacMillan Company. realize their full potential are both external
Hollingworth, L.S. (1942). Children above 380 IQ and internal. The external causes center
status and prestige, compared to the
Stanford-Binet. Yonkers-on-Hudson, New around sexism, discrimination and lack of high-status, high prestige careers
York: World Book. resources. Internal causes may be fear of chosen by the boys (1981). Another
Lewis, G. (1984). Alternatives to acceleration for the
highly gifted child. Roeper Review, 6(3), success, the "Imposter" phenomenon, the study showed evidence that adolescent
133-136. "Cinderella Complex" or simply a tendency gifted girls show lower career aspira-
Marland, S. (1972). Education of the gifted and to ad/ust too easily and congenially to tions compared to gifted boys (Kerr,
talented. U.S. Commission of Education, 92nd society's lower expectations for women. 1982), although these aspirations can
Congress, 2nd Session; Washington, D.C: Parts of this article are excerpted from
USCPO. Smart Girls, Gifted Women by Barbara
be raised by specific guidance tech-
Miller, A. (1981). Prisonersof childhood. New York, Kerr, Ohio Psychological Press, Columbus, niques. Kerr's (1985) small sample
New York: Basic Books. survey of a group of 22 gifted women
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Powell, P.M. (1982). Seduction of ideas. Roeper learning program showed a clear pat-
Review, 3(4), 3-4. tern of declining career aspirations
Powell, P.M. and Haden, T. (1984). The intellectual
and psychosocial nature of extreme giftedness. Barbara A. Kerr (Ph.D.) is a psychologist
beginning in adolescence. The career
Roeper Review, 6(3), 131-133. and Assistant Professor of Counselor Edu- goals claimed by gifted females in fifth
Renzulli, J.S. (1979, May ). What makes giftedness: A cation at the University of Iowa, Iowa City, grade, eighth grade, twelfth grade, and
re-examination of thedefinition of the gifted and college senior years were, on the aver-
talented. Ventura, California: Ventura County IA.
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W hy do girls of extraordinary
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fail to become women of ac-
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