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Recent Posts There are literary formulas for achieving all these things in the mind of
the reader.
How Narcissists Get So Good at
Manipulation So, con artists, narcissists, and psychopaths aren't the only great
Why doesn't the victim leave the manipulators out there. But they all manipulate by manipulating your
abuser? emotions.
Not smart. Then YOU will have something to be ashamed of. OperationDoubles.com
But I'm sorry, but there's no way duck out of it. Many people think to do so
by cheating: they just squelch their feelings.
Not.
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That isn't the same thing as putting your intellect in control of your
conduct.
What's more, these people don't really alter their feelings at all. They just
delude themselves into thinking that they have controlled their feelings by
repressing them. Repressed feelings aren't controlled. They are just
pushed down to the level of the subconscious. And they still motivate your
conduct from there.
The only difference is that now you are unaware of their influence on your
conduct. So, you can't temper that influence with reason and good
judgement.
So, there is no way to avoid this heart‐rending inner battle of emotion and
intellect. The psychological warfare of the narcissist has forced it on you.
You are just going to have to win it.
Hamlet does. He never denies his emotions, but he also never cedes
control of his conduct to his emotions. Painful as they are, his emotions
are good for him. They keep him from the cowardice and treason of
allowing the murder of his father by doing nothing about it. BUT, he never
lets those emotions call the shots. His intellect steadfastly chooses to bide
his time, waiting for an opportunity to do justice, putting the black hat on
Claudius and the white hat on himself for the whole world to see. And
when that opportunity arrives (at the end), Hamlet acts without hesitation
as the legal Seat of Justice in the land.
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4 Comments:
I just happened upon this blog and wanted to say 'hello'. I recently
realised that my mother likely has quite severe NPD and I am now dealing
with the fall‐out at the age of 31. It's a pretty despairing experience, but
so much makes sense to me now... I have been dealing with various eating
disorders (mostly anorexia) from an early age and I'm beginning to see the
role my mum played in its development,
Thanks,
Zubeldia
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At 1:44 PM, Stef said...
Interesting post for me, since my NPD father *is* a novelist! (Or was‐‐
hasn't published anything in a long time.) I don't talk to him anymore and
it's been so, so freeing.
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This website and blog share my observations and understanding of malignant narcissism. Being a writer, I feel that I should use my ability to describe and explain things in a way that is
clear and meaningful to the average person. So, here you find many examples of narcissistic behaviors and learn why your normal behavior yields anti results from people with
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), why they are predators compelled to abuse and slander vulnerable prey, and why they react so backwardly to things. My aim is to contribute
what I can to the formal understanding of NPD and to help those victimized by a narcissist understand what is going on. I am no expert. These are just the observations and reasoning
of one who has had long experience with narcissists and knows others with such experience. So, I can't give you counseling or personal advice. I have no credentials. This publication
isn't intended as professional advice of any sort.
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