BECOMING A BETTER WIFE AND AN AWARD WINNING

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BY PAPA ZION'S BREED

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WIVES! WIVES! WIVES!!!
After wedding you've entered a new season in your life. You are not a wife because your status
changed and you're not a wife because you've been officially attached to a man you love. You're a
wife because you've been approved to sit in the office of wife in order to exhibit the dignity of
womanhood.

Listen, only a woman who is ignorant of the demands, requirements and standards of sitting in
the office of a wife that always have problem in marriage. If all women are fully trained to sit in
the office of a wife there would be no divorce.

You need to know that your understanding and approach to the office of a wife determines the
tranquility in your home, future of your children and prosperity of your husband. This is what
you must know.

To sit in the office of a wife you must learn and practice ​SUBMISSION
Submission​ is a system of acknowledging the kingship position of your wife which means
you're a queen. Once you can't submit it is either you're a slave or a mere house help while your
husband is a taskmaster. Pitiably, some women even respect their pastors more than their
husbands. Many women respect positions and status at work but always violate position and
status at home. Dishonour to your husband is a communication of insult to God.

There must be a shift...

The most beautiful thing about a married woman is ​submission.​ If your husband's secretary
submits to him more than you then you're not diligently sitting in the office of a wife. When a
woman keep violating the law of submission in her home she would keep blaming her in-laws
for the woes in her home. Every time you keep arguing about ​submission​ in your home, you're
indirectly saying God is incorrect for enacting the law of submission. Submission is inferiority
complex but an act obedience to God. Submission is not shameful but success driven key to a
wise woman.

Your submission is a weapon. Submission humbles a man. Submission wins your in-laws to you.
Submission keeps slay queens away from your husband. Submission will make your friends
respect your husband more than you. No man, I mean no man can send away a submissive wife.
What is ​submission?​ Submission is choosing to humble yourself in order to protect the
kingship position of your husband.

If you don't have problem with ​submission​ you can never have problem with your in-laws.
Simple!

If you don't have problem with ​submission​ you can never have problem with the destiny of
your children. Simple!
Submission is praying for your husband until he becomes right. Submission is protecting the
kingship of your husband. Submission is aligning with God's wisdom for having a good training
camp ( home ) for raising battleaxes. Submission is celebrating the king in your husband while
prayerfully evacuating the fool in him.

Submission is not a sign of weakness but a great strength.

Submission means you're covering the shame of a man whose nakedness you're seeing always
(husband). Praying to cover the shame of a man who is always seeing your nakedness ( husband
). Each time you abuse the law of submission you're only exposing nakedness through the man
seeing your nakedness.

Your husband may not be correct but let your submission be complete and allow God grade and
upgrade you.

LAW OF MOTHERHOOD​​.
_Deep exposition!!!!!!!_
_Better wife series...._

MOTHERHOOD​ is a fundamental requirement for being an award winning wife. Motherhood

comprises
1. SACRIFICE
2. DISCIPLINARY ATTITUDE
3. LOVE.
Any woman that's barren of these factors would be a poor mother. Your motherly responsibility
is not limited to your children it captures your husband too. It is deception to think pampering
your children makes you a loving mother.

When God finds a good and anointed mother He rejoices. The devil knows an anointed mother
is a shield to the children. A sacrificial mother is redeemer of her children's future.

Motherhood is a responsibility every award winning wife must bear. Don't mistaken discipline
for witchcraft. If you don't enforce discipline as a mother your children may come back to
discipline you. Every attempt to make your children feel loved instead of being scolded is a
postponed disgrace to you as the mother. Don't tolerate laziness, poor performance, indiscipline,
late coming, absenteeism, carnality. Don't hide your ​scars​ from your children. Let them know
uneasy is the road to success and greatness.

MY MOM AND I
One day I went to my mom's shop several years ago it was in the evening, I told her to please
give me 2000 Naira to buy a textbook, it was an ADVANCED STATISTICAL book then she said
she didn't have money but I kept persuading her after a moment she said she has only made
sales of 2000 Naira since morning, she wouldn't give the only 2000 naira on her. I didn't stop
begging her after so much pleading she gave me the money but I noticed she was moved and saw
that her eyes turned red at that moment. I was so touched that evening..... That's sacrifice. I told
myself that nobody would give to my mother more than me in my lifetime. As God lifts me, we
must grow together. Recently I told someone that if my mom told me to empty my account and
give her the money, I won't think twice before I empty the money.

She would have forgotten the sacrifice today but I can't forget forever. Motherhood is sacrifice. It
is a painful responsibility that would bring gain when you have no capacity to work.

If a mother could endure pains for the sake of her children she would live the rest of her days
making gains. Motherhood is to keep believing in the future of your children and programme
them for their future.

If a woman truly believes in the future of her children she would endure the pains and trials of
today. Divorce is a proof that someone is running away from the temporary pains of motherhood
that produce a great children.

To be a an award winning wife you must be a planner. If you're not assisting with your husband
to become a landlord then you're not planner. Some women still take the children to a lesser
school in order to save money to buy jewelries and dresses, why are you stealing from your
children's future? If you need to lie to your husband to get money for your self interest you're
just a poor planner.

Your joy is not that your husband is earning huge salary but are you a good planner. Be a
planner. If you can't plan with your husband, you're a leakage to him. ​A man always trust
his wife when she is a good planner.​ The day you stop planning with your husband, he
begins to lose his confidence in you.

Be a planner. You're not a good planner that's why you keep comparing yourself with the wives
of husband's friends. A planner is a manager. If you can't manage what you have at home and
with you then you need to be a planner.

SPIRITUALITY​ is another important factor you must understand as a wife and mother. Can
your children learn basic scriptural principles from you? Can your husband trust your
relationship with God? Don't push your children to the children and teenager's church while
you're playing secular and carnal songs on your phone for them at home? Can your children
learn the fear of God from you? Can you mentor them in prayer? The best foundation builder for
the children is the mother not Sunday school teacher.

Don't be the kind of mother that takes the children to the spiritualists or herbalists? When a
mother wants to lay a terrible foundation for the children she would begin to insult her husband
in the presence of the children? I still don't understand why a mother will fill her phone with
secular songs? If Mary mother of Jesus was playing Tiwa Savage's songs on her phone, how
would the destiny of Jesus look like? A spiritual mother is a preserver of the destiny of her
children?

Each time you're fighting and arguing with your husband you're only teaching your children
rascality​. Don't blame your children that has started playing sexual and immoral play with
their contemporaries because they learnt it from you. Teach then fear of God, obedience and
chastity.

Single ladies, prepare for marriage not wedding. Preparation remains the key.

What some people can't endure in their home today most of our parents endured more
excruciating and painful issues than that. It is not exposure but deceitfulness of education and
exaggerated of the theory of feminism. Selah!

On the wedding day you would prepare jollof rice for people but are you a jollof rice yourself?

My advice is...... Be courteous and have good manners. Even if you would borrow courtesy and
good manners to present yourself well.. Please do. Selah!

My diagnosis....
Many people complain of rejection while they don't know that their rejection is traceable to lack
of courtesy, poor manners and pride. It is easy to gain acceptance if you're courteous, humble
and well mannered. Personally, I won't even relate with a lady that lack good manners, courtesy
and humility, I don't care how curvy and good looking you're, once you lack courtesy, good
manners and humility I will send you out and you can never gain my attention. Don't you know
your certificate is insufficient without humility and courtesy. If I relate with you and observe you
lack courtesy and humility I only pity the man that would give you wedding ring as a bride. As a
brother, if you lack courtesy and humility you would the headache of your wife. Go to where they
sell good manners, humility and courtesy, and buy o! Pride is why you would think you're an
imported rice while you're actually local rice from Ebonyi state. Change o!

Your attitude to correction is the prophecy of your future. The anger you exhibit after being
corrected is a terrible foundation for your future.

Once offense can stop you from learning from a mentor or your parents then offense has
hijacked your future. Kill the spirit of offense.

PRAYER POINTS
God help me to be a sacrificial mother indeed in Jesus name.

Anointing to be an award winning wife rest on me in Jesus name.

Father teach me submission in Jesus name

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