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Erica Gordon
in MOTIVATION
http://elitedaily.com/life/motivation/resilience-sexiest-quality-can-possess/706078/ 1/7
7/20/2017 7 Reasons Why Resilience Is The Sexiest Quality You Can Possess
in MOTIVATION
Aug 15, 2014 9:28am
Resilience is one's ability to bounce back from difficult times, and it's one of the most captivating character traits you
can possess.
Yes, some people have thicker skin than others, but I believe everyone is capable of being resilient if they are motivated
enough to progress in life rather than be dragged down when things take a bad turn.
Most of what we want in life is within our power to obtain. Here's why your resilience is so damn sexy:
In lieu of venting, you let it go. Instead of self-blaming, you solve problems. Rather than staring blankly at your
bedroom wall, you create something.
You ooze confidence, and your happy energy is what draws others to you. A positive attitude is incredibly sexy and it's a
character trait among the resilient.
You bounce back from that sadness in no time as you reinvent yourself, discover a new passion or start a new activity.
You are your sexiest self as you explore and open new doors to your well-being. You've got a fresh perspective on life
now and things are looking up.
The fact that you can roll with the punches makes you much more attractive than you would be if others always had to
baby you, knowing that you might crumble if faced with a setback.
There are many ways in which resilient people focus on the silver lining; it just requires a different way of thinking. If
you're let go from your job, stay focused on the anticipation that your next job will be significantly better.
If you have a falling out with your best friend, realize it's a blessing in disguise, as you now have an opportunity to
become closer with your sister.
New patterns become new routines, and before you know it you've accomplished amazing lifestyle changes that are
much healthier and tremendously more beneficial. Not only have you bounced back from difficult times, you've started
fresh.
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Erica Gordon
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Erica Majored in Psychology at UBC has worked in the dating industry for over 6 years. She is the author of the popular dating advice book,
"Aren't You Glad You Read This?" available on Amazon. See more of her articles on her advice column www. ...