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Shaiya Tucker
Having never been to a Pride sponsored event I was full of trepidation, yet extremely
liberated as I would be stepping outside the boundaries of my comfort zone. As I eagerly awaited
the start of the show many questions ran through my mind. Will I feel accepted? Will I offend
sexuality? Does my sexuality even matter? Unsure, whether or not my questions held any
June 1, 2019 at 7pm sharp marked the day that I stepped out of my comfort zone and
attended a showing hosted by Tucson Pride. The event took place at The Screening Room
located in downtown Tucson, kicking off the first day of festivities within my community.
his support. Before we could even open the door we were instantly welcomed with an elaborate
greeting by some of the Drag Queens and Kings, which were set to perform. The warm welcome
that we received set the tone and surely helped to alleviate some of the anxiety that I had felt
leading up to the show. I had never seen a Drag Queen/King in person and was appreciably
intrigued by their hair, makeup, fashion and mystique. In that moment I truly felt out of place as
I was surrounded by so many glamorous individuals. Standing there feeling underdressed, I soon
began to understand why my Fiancé had put so much effort into his outfit and spent what felt like
hours getting ready. Fortunately, my insecurities quickly dissipated and we headed inside as the
show was ready to commence. The audience was filled with men, women, and families with their
children. Before taking this course I may have thought the children sitting amongst the audience
was inappropriate but with my new found knowledge of youth, their independence along with
their level of maturity I truly appreciated the diversity and inclusion that filled the room. As
everyone began to settle in their seats, the host of the evening came out and introduced herself
and I couldn’t help but to smile from ear to ear. My nerves had disappeared and it just felt good
to be a part of such a time in history where individuals are able to perform and be themselves or
The theme of the show was “A Night at the Movies” and for me it surely was. As the
Queens and Kings performed hit songs from their favorite movies I was instantly entertained.
However, this was not the only reason why their performances captured my attention. I was
captivated by the meaning of the songs and the performers performed with such conviction. As
one of the Drag Queens performed the projector behind her read “Shame on you for shaming
others”. These words were empowering and made all of my fears of being judged for being
different fade away. I learned that night that the LGBTQ group is not an exclusive community
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but an inclusive community, by welcoming anyone and everyone despite ones sexual preference
or gender. I felt safe and free of judgment. As a woman of color I have always felt as though I
was the minority from both a racial and gender standpoint. However, in the presence of such a
wonderful community it was nice to feel that anyone who felt like a minority was now a part of
the majority. This was a feeling I had never experienced and it was addictive. During the show I
laughed, cried and simultaneously did both but it was a time that I will always remember and
never forget.
My overall ideology of Drag Queens and Kings unreservedly changed as I was only used
to seeing these talented performers on the television screen. I did not realize the amount of
courage that it takes to get on stage in front an audience and perform. My initial perception
before having seen the show was that Drag Queens and Kings were an extreme over
exaggeration of femininity and masculinity. However, as the night went on I realized that this
idea could not have been further from the truth. My eyes were pierced opened, when a young
teenager born a male but in the process of transitioning to female let the audience in by sharing
her story. She explained that this was her first performance and she was afraid that she would be
judged because that is what she had experienced all of her life. She thanked the audience for
allowing her to live her truth and to be free from ridicule and shame. I quickly realized that this
aspect of her life was not just to put on a show or a hobby, but her living her truth. Her courage
In all honesty I was not expecting to be so deeply touched by the performances and gain
such profound insight into the lives and experiences of those within the LGBTQ community. It
was joyous to hear LGBTQA. A- Standing for advocate or ally which I now consider myself. I
can now say with the upmost confidence that I am in full support of the LGBTQ community. I
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learned not only a tremendous amount of information during the show but we continued to
become more educated well into the intermission, serving as the perfect time to reflect on the
performances. During this time the President of Tucson Pride made her way to the stage to share
information with the audience discussing the history of Tucson Pride and its contributions. I was
absolutely blown away to hear the strides that the organization had made not only for the
LGBTQ community, but for individuals needing help making ends meet and helping those that
are homeless find stable housing. Once again, a demonstration of the true inclusiveness that the
At the conclusion of the show my Fiancé and I sat down for a debriefing on the night’s
events. We discussed what a great time we had, and how impressive we found the performers,
their willingness to show us that they have a vulnerable side in spite of the confidence that they
projected. We were both motivated to do anything we could do to advocate and support the
LGBTQ community and fellow organizations. My fiancé suggested that we attend other Pride
events during the month to show our support. However, I suggested that we recognize how
fortunate we are to walk down the streets, free of judgement and harassment in regards to our
sexuality. In that moment I realized that we could be a voice for those who were muted. It only
takes one individual to start a trend but it takes a village to start a movement. I knew that I
wanted to be a part of the movement that continues to fight for social justice and equality
amongst all. I want to live in a city, state and world that encompasses that everyone is unique and
that is what makes our world such a great place. I believe that Self-expression and individuality
should be commended and not concealed. As one inspirational Two-Spirit individual once said
you never know who’s looking at you and your presence might change somebody’s social
behavior towards someone else. I can be that someone that changes someone’s social behavior
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even it means simply preventing someone from making a derogatory remark or gesture. I was
glad to have attended the show as I became more educated on the adversity, struggles and social
injustice that people within the LGBTQ community continue to face. However, it was powerful
to hear the amount of progress that has been made and the barricades that have been bulldozed. I
truly believe that now is time to take a stance and put my words into action.
Looking back now my feelings of anxiety and worry were valid. This was not because I
was made to feel that way but because it is a normal response when introduced to something new
or unfamiliar. Attending an event hosted by Tucson Pride meant that I was entering unchartered
waters and I am glad that I did. My questions were answered, none of which I had a negative
response for. Will I feel accepted? From the moment I walked through the door I was welcomed
with open arms. Will I offend the LGBTQ community with my presence? Absolutely not, from
the beginning it was made clear that all were welcome to attend and was a safe zone free of
judgement. Will I be asked questions pertaining to my sexuality? I wasn’t, but there were people
asked in the audience and quite honestly there were people of all backgrounds and no one
seemed to care which way or the other. Does my sexuality even matter? I don’t believe so, I
think I could’ve said I was Asexual and no one would have batted an eye. These points are not
even an exhaustive list of reasons as to why I want to show my support for the LGBTQ
community. I will always and continue to stand by any organization, group or community that
promotes inclusion, equality and the determination to seek change against discriminatory social
policies. History is continuing to be made and I am glad that I can be a part of such an impactful
movement that makes it okay to be who you are and live comfortably within your own skin.