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2011 Revised Edition
Manila, Philippines
THE YFC
CHAPTER ASSEMBLY MANUAL
2011 Revised Edition
The manual contains thirty-six (36) inspiring and nourishing topics that
can serve as a guide in choosing the appropriate topics for the assembly.
a. MISSIONARY
b. MODEL OF EXCELLENCE
the yfc identity c. CHAMPION OF THE POOR
YFC CHAPTER ASSEMBLY d. PATRIOT
2011 Revised Edition
e. 100% FREE
f. SINGLE MINDED FOR GOD
The inspiring topics in this manual are written based on the YFC Identity
(also called the YFC ID). g. SOURCE OF UNITY IN THE FAMILY
Our YFC Identity is our oneness and commonness as brothers and sisters
in YFC. A. Missionary
Our uniqueness emanates from God - as individuals and as one body - This is our distinct desire to deepen the living of our Christian
anchored on His image and likeness. faith for the love and service for others.
- It is an expression of our great appreciation to the work of
Being sons and daughters of God is our true and ultimate identity. evangelization, formation and mission of our community, taking it
To bring the young to Christ is our supreme goal. in as our duty, our call and our privilege.
Our true and ultimate identity is that we are sons and daughters of God. B. Model of Excellence
Our identity is the result of our innate and core values that we in - This is our yearning for personal holiness in our walk with Christ.
YFC want to live by. The 7 ID’s is the fullness of who and what we are as a - Our focus is to develop and hone our own talents and skills for
Youth for Christ. greater use and purpose for God’s glory and mission.
D. Patriot
- This is our desire to cradle our love for God in active love for our THE WHAT:
country.
The CHAPTER ASSEMBLY is a gathering of all YFC chapter members, club
- Our goal is to strengthen the value of excellence, dedication, and
or organization members, that occurs regularly once a month.
total commitment by making a difference in the lives of others
and contribute greatly in making this world a better place for the
This manual contains 36 inspiring and nourishing topics. There are 12 talks
future.
per year that we can use for the next three years.
E. 100% Free
Note: Should you decide to use the Chapter Assembly as your collective
- This is rooted in our desire to protect life for the continuance of household for your members, please refer to the YFC Household Manual
God’s work. instead.
- To instill the Christian lifestyle in the young emphasizing on the THE PURPOSE:
sacredness of life and to defend the culture of life vs. the culture
of death. This manual is designed to further affirm the value of fun, friendship,
freedom and faith. It serves as a venue for nourishment and fellowship
F. Single Minded for God among YFC’s as they grow into the path of a good and happy Christian life.
- This is our goal in forming men and women who will whole-
heartedly minister and serve God by building the Church of the THE VENUE:
Future.
The venue of the chapter assembly depends on your chosen topic for the
- Our desire to uphold and appreciate the importance of loving and assembly. The usual venues are clubhouses, ANCOP sites, or classrooms.
following the teachings of Jesus in becoming His true “followers” As leaders in your respective areas, you are free to choose and discern the
and “disciples” by understanding our call and vocation, according ideal and appropriate venue for your activity.
to the plan and purpose of God in our lives.
THE PEOPLE:
G. Source of Unity in the Family
All YFC members and YFC Couple Coordinators of your chapter are invited
- This is our deep aspiration to uphold unity of God’s plan for the
to attend in this regular assembly.
family and for His domestic church.
- Our goal is to grow in the different facets, stages and states of
life, thus instilling the value of unconditional love and commitment
to everyone surrounding us in these times- our family, our friends,
our community, etc.
manual instructions
YFC CHAPTER ASSEMBLY step by step topic guide
2011 Revised Edition CHAPTER ASSEMBLY MANUAL
2011 Revised Edition
Once you have an idea of the needs of your members, check the This is a clear description of the ideal people
Speaker/ Sharers
table of contents. Each chapter assembly is categorized into each who can best discuss and share about the
Profile
of the 7 YFC ID’s, with at least 4 to 5 different topics for you to specific topic.
choose from. These guide questions serve as a chance for
(See TABLE OF CONTENTS) Guide Questions the members to talk about what they have
learned from the topic to their group.
4. Get Ready
Through the reflection song, we allow YFC’s
Once you have made your choice, go to the page of your selected Reflection Song/s not only to listen and talk amongst them but
YFC ID and topic and you will see a step-by-step instruction on also to God.
how to go about the assembly.
(See STEP-BY-STEP TOPIC GUIDE) These verses are suggested readings and
Other Verses supporting verses to further stress points
5. Go! about the topic being discussed.
Now that you’re well-guided, get your act together and move into
conquering more souls for God!
table of contents
CHAPTER ASSEMBLY MANUAL
2011 Revised Edition
Manual Description 3
The YFC Identity 4
The 7 ID’s 5
General Overview 6
Manual Instructions 7
Step by Step Topic Guide 8
Missionary
Model of Excellence
7. Banquet of Love 49
8. United in Christ 53
9. A Piece of Heaven 56
10. Stairway to Heaven 64
11. Down to Earth 66
12. Encounter to Remember 70
13. Simon Peter Says 74
100% Free
22. Foundation 1: True Colors 121
23. Foundation 2: Boy Meets Girl 128
24. Is Vanity Fair? 135
25. Circle of Friends 141
Single Minded for God
topic 1
ON HANDS AND KNEES
objectives
dynamics
1. Worship
2. ACTIVITY PROPER: Giving to Get
3. Prepare the following materials:
• Cloth (banner size) or large sheets of paper for each group
• Water based paint (Red, Blue, White, and Yellow)
• Newspapers, cloth rags and tissue paper
a. Give a short introduction about the activity and give them
instructions
b. Ask them to divide themselves into their households.
c. The cloth will be distributed to all groups.
d. Other materials will be given as an exchange for something.
• Paint = 2 pairs of socks/foot wears for each color
• Newspapers = 1 wallet and 1 watch
• Cloth rags/tissue paper = 2 mobile phones
(Note: You can have your own set of materials depending on the available resources.)
e. The group will make a design of their flag using ONLY their
hands. Tell them that no paintbrushes will be provided and
that they will not be allowed to use one.
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f. Tell them that they should draw or paint images that best
represent their household and the individuals within the
household.
g. Encourage them to be creative. on hands and knees
h. The newspapers will be used on the floor to prevent any TOPIC 1 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY
spillage and the cloth rags/ tissue paper to wipe any stray expanded outline
paint.
“Because of our love for you we were ready to share with you not only the Good News
i. At the end of the activity, ask each household to come forward from God but even our own lives...” ( Thessalonians 2:8)
to present the banner to the whole assembly. Tell them to
choose a spokesperson to explain how they came up with
their work.
I. Introduction
4. Talk Proper
Jesus was great enough to command the storms to stop. He had
5. Reflection Song
authority to drive out demons and to part the sea. Thousands of people
6. At the end of the prayer, you can sing “Follow You” to conclude would leave behind their livelihood and treasures to follow where He is
the whole activity. and do what He did. However, it was in His humble service that people
were inspired to follow Him. Even when He was glorified as the King of
all kings, He would go down to their level, on His hands and knees, and
anchor verse humbly serve His apostles. He even washed their feet.
“Because of our love for you we were ready to share with you not only
the Good News from God but even our own lives...” ( Thessalonians 2:8) II. Comfort Zones
We have heard that Christ is more than willing to go all the way for
us, to go out of His comfort zone. Unfortunately, for us, there is a great
struggle to do the same.
As the name suggests, our comfort zones are the areas where we live,
the friends we go out with, the things we do. There are times when these
hinder us from loving more people. Our comfort zones are usually based
on the lifestyle that we are comfortable with:
B. Where we go played different roles.2 Sometimes, we just have to seek ways of serving
more people. In this community, we are given many opportunities to
We want to go to places where it is convenient for us. We want to serve. There are more than enough for all of us to do.
be seen in the places where we would look cool. There are moments
when the way of getting there is also an issue for some of us. C. Serve Joyfully
C. What we do We can become joyful despite the dirt in our hands and knees. We
made the most of what we have. Here in YFC, this is fun in itself. Christ
We want to do the things that we love or sometimes, things that never complained, thus, we do not complain. We give our all even if
will make us more popular. Because of this, we do not want to do the we are not acknowledged or affirmed as God loves a cheerful giver.3
dirty work or the simple assignments. We gave up a lot of things yet we joyfully did what we need to do.
As we love God and the people He has blessed us with, we need IV. Conclusion
to go out of these comfort zones and go down on our hands and
knees. As Youth for Christ members, we are called to be servants. We are
blessed to know that God loves us no matter what. Knowing God and
III. On Hands and Knees knowing His love is what makes people happy, peaceful and alive.
Earlier, we all went down to our hands and knees to make our We were born to make this known to everyone who doesn’t. The only
household banners. We even gave up some of the things that are dear way that we can make that known is by loving everyone whom God has
and personal to us to make the banner. There are three attitudes that we entrusted to us unconditionally – no ifs, no buts, whenever, wherever and
need to take to help us do this in our everyday lives. however.
B. Take Initiative
5. Conclusion
The goal of this activity is for the members to learn on how to a. Family - has experienced division in his/her family but is still
speak God’s love to others, through words and actions. hopeful in God’s promise; family is ok but not part of the
community - actively influences them to join cfc; initiates
a. Group the members by pairs. family bonding, conversations with family members, or going
to mass as a family
b. Assign them to a specific place around the venue.
b. School - doing well in school - example of good time
- Village/ANCOP site – guard; tricycle driver; vendor in
management; seeks to establish YFC in his/her school - or is
the sari-sari store
active in the YFC there; invites friends to YFC
- School/campus – guard at the gate; janitor; teacher;
librarian c. Purity - 100% Free advocate; or had vices but has decided
to stop; influences others to do the same; not swayed to go
c. Give them 30 minutes to accomplish the task. back into old lifestyle
d. Choose at least two pairs to share their experience.
3. Talk Proper
4. Sharer
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The King’s champion will not sacrifice his values and principles
to achieve his goals. He achieves success because he is faithful. We,
also do the same to our God. We do things that will only show our
faithfulness to Him. We place in heart and in mind that everything we
king’s champion do may continue to please our God. May it always be an expression of
TOPIC 2 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY our love and loyalty to Him.
expanded outline 3. A Real King’s Champion EXTOLS
Dying not in its literal meaning but dying in simple things that reflection song
are asked from us by God. E.g. being willing to give up short term
pleasures like watching movies, playing video games, so we can give I Give My All
priority to our studies. It is saying no to our friends when invited to
gimmicks, parties, etc., when we know we have urgent school work to For the Sake of the Call
attend to. It is also being willing to give up our love interest if we know
it will interfere with our studies. guide questions
7. A Real King’s Champion is WILLING TO GO EXTRA MILE 1. Are you a King’s Champion?
2. What areas in your life do you still need to improve so that you
Willing to go the extra mile means unselfishly giving with no
can truly be a servant of God?
complaints, and demands or expectations of anything in return.
Lord Jesus, teach me to be generous;
teach me to serve You as You deserve,
to give and not to count the cost,
to fight and not to heed the wounds,
to toil and not to seek for rest,
to labor and not to seek reward,
except that of knowing that I do Your will.
Amen.
IV. Conclusion
topic 3
HEART OF A WINNER heart of a winner
TOPIC 3 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY
expanded outline
objectives
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3. “I can handle it all” mask 3. Be proud of who you are. Don’t aspire to become someone
you are not.
Most of us are faced with situations where we need help from
our brothers and sisters. Many times, we don’t bother to ask for 4. Face your problems and be humble enough to ask for help
assistance because of pride or shyness. Sometimes, we expect too when you need it.
much of ourselves. 5. Do not pretend that you can do everything on your own.
B. A loser does not have passion for life. 6. Be yourself and get rid of your masks.
Everything is a burden. We see every situation as a problem. Just
going through the day requires so much effort. There is more to life B. Courage-Acknowledging and overcoming areas of weakness.
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“ Saul told David, ‘you cannot fight with this Philistine for you are
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C. A loser accepts defeat easily. still young, whereas this man has been a warrior from his youth.’ But
David said, ‘When I was tending my father’s sheep, whenever a lion or
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This is when we give up and have no conviction to fight. Frustrations bear came to snatch a lamb from the flock, I would run after it, kill it
and disappointments in our service make us sigh and leave things as and rescue the victim from its mouth. If it would attack me, I would hold
they are without even trying to find a possible solution. it by its beard and slay it.” 1 Samuel 17:33-35
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III. Having a Winner’s Heart “… David went ahead of his troops and was successful each time
because Yahweh was with him.” 1 Samuel 18:14
We are created in the image and likeness of God. Despite the feeling of
being a loser, we must bear in mind that God sees a winner in each one of We cannot control every situation, but we can take hold of our
us. We can be a winner because of God’s love and God’s grace. That is why attitudes in dealing with it.
we must believe and claim the victory that God has set for us.
1. Surround yourself with things that nourish and encourage you
How to have a winner’s heart: in faith.
(The Story of David and Goliath) 1 Samuel 17:32-47 2. Victory is contagious. Be around winners.
3. Cultivate a happy environment. Decide to be happy and own
A. Conviction – Dealing with the basic issues. the happiness.
“38Saul fitted his armor on David, put a bronze helmet on his head, C. Commitment – Going for victory.
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clothed him with a coat of mail. David secured his sword over the
armor but could not walk because it was his first time. So he said to 46
“ Yahweh will deliver you this day into my hands and I will strike
Saul, ‘I cannot move with all these trappings on me because I am no you down and cut off your head. I will give the corpses of the Philistine
accustomed to wearing them.’ David got rid of all this armor” 1 Samuel army today to the birds of the sky and the wild beasts of the earth and
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all the earth shall know that there is a God of Israel. All the people
gathered here shall know that Yahweh saves not by the sword or spear;
1. You are a son / daughter of the Lord; therefore Satan has no the battle belongs to Yahweh, and He will deliver you into our hands.”
power over you.
2. You are a YFC member. Live out the covenant.
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In our lives, we will meet many Zacchaeuses. These are the people,
who are popular, influential, and unreachable. These are the people
who don’t get to be seriously introduced to Christ. Everyone knows
who they are, but we just never thought they’d be interested. And, like
burden for the lost Zacchaeus, they’ve heard of Jesus. They somehow feel He might be
TOPIC 4 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY what’s missing in their lives, but everyone just seems to be in the way.
expanded outline What we need to realize is that Jesus wants to use us, if we allow
Him, to speak to this people, for them to hear Him in their hearts say,
“Quick! Come down! You’re invited too! I died for you, too! I love you
I. Introduction as much as any other. Today I will be a guest in your house!”
B. The Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-24)
It’s great that many of us are experiencing this feast that the Lord has
invited us to celebrate in our lives. We have danced, laughed and have met
(E.g. Rebellious people – hooked on vices; shopaholics; students
many great friends. We have experienced much of God’s unconditional
often in the discipline office)
love. He has always been there for us, even raising us up in times of
despair.
We will also meet many prodigal sons (and daughters). Like the
prodigal son found in the gospel, these are the people being judged.
But not all feel the same way. There are still people who feel that they
These are the people we find irresponsible and materialistic. In fact
are unlovable, who have not yet heard of God’s amazing love. As Youth for
many of them feel ashamed to attend activities that involve God, but
Christ, and as chosen people whom God has loved first, it is our duty to let
many of them want to return to Him but just can’t seem to do so.
God’s love be known to everyone.
These prodigal children need to realize the great mercy of God.
Sometimes the people that are closest to us are those people who
We need to let them know that God is just waiting for their first step
haven’t felt God’s unconditional love. Think of your family, your friends, or
home and, as in the gospel, we should run out for them and meet them
the people you encounter every day. Are they lost? Do they feel unloved?
with arms wide open. But that won’t happen if we aren’t sensitive to
recognize who they are and take time to talk to them, when they step
(Allow the participants to imagine their loved ones, and the people
into our activities or meet them in our areas.
around them. Lead them to realize that so much more people need God’s
love).
C. The Prodigal Son’s Brother (Luke 15: 25-28)
II. The Lost
Lastly, we will meet that we can refer to as the prodigal son’s
brother. Like the prodigal son’s brother, they’ve always been there,
For us to be able to share this love with other people, we need to
serving in church, or have been part of some parish organization or
know who these people are. Let us look at some of the characters in the
maybe even YFC. They’ve been good all their lives but are nonetheless
bible who were subjects of God’s unconditional love. May they allow us to
lost, out in the dark. They’re there as we laugh and dance at the “feast”
identify the people in our lives who need God’s love as well.
-- our camps, prayer meetings, conferences – but you can see it in
their eyes, they haven’t met the Jesus yet. They’re still hiding, still
A. Zacchaeus (Luke 19: 1-5)
afraid. If only they could hear the father plead, “There’s no need to fear.
You will always be safe with me.”
E.g. The valedictorian of the batch, the Student Council President,
the Team Captain of the varsity team, the party people, and the leaders
of gangs
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We can’t be there for the people who are lost every moment. But
in times of being away from them, we can continue to love them by
praying for them. After all, it will be God who will be there for them
every moment.
3. Talk Proper
4. Reflection Song II. The H.E.A.R.T. of a Missionary
5. Group Discussion The call to be the new generation of missionaries means we have to
have the HEART to carry out the mission. Sometimes this would mean a
speaker’s profile total change of our old self into a new heart for God. “If you are willing
to come after me, you must deny himself …” (Lk 9: 23) Denying ourselves
Any YFC Leader (Chapter Head & up) only means acknowledging God’s presence in our lives. Having the HEART
means that we must be:
anchor verse
H – Heedful
“If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself take up his We must be in tune with God and be sensitive to where He will
cross daily, and follow me.” (Luke 9:23) lead us. We must not be stubborn to His direction, even if it comes in
conflict with what we planned (Eph 5:17).
E- Enthusiastic
A – Available I – Imitate
There is no use if we are capable, but not available. It is better for Following Christ as a model. In every circumstance in our life, let
us to be available and just let God use us, for surely God equips those us ask ourselves, what would Jesus do?
who are called.
O – Obeying
R – Ready
Obeying God through our leaders and elders. God speaks in every
We are to be mission ready; sleep with our boots on. Ready to go person. Seek Him. He may speak directly in your heart, through people.
anytime! or through situation. Whenever we are called to do something, do it
without delay and without excuses.
T – Teachable
N – Noble
We must be flexible -- allowing ourselves to be led with the
guidance of the Holy Spirit. Being a person of high moral principles; a person of integrity. Let
us seek to be truthful inside and out.
III. Passion in Serving God
IV. The Pains and Gains of Being Sent
But at the true heart of the mission is our love for God and His people.
This would require a heart that has PASSION. Having that HEART and PASSION for serving the Lord, however, doesn’t
shield us from sufferings. In fact, being a missionary is not easy. “… Take up
P – Pray his cross daily… and follow me.” Luke 9:23 This call entails a lot of sacrifices
and sufferings just like what happened to Jesus Christ.
More than praying to God whenever we have trials, let us pray and
communicate with Him at every moment in our lives. A. Being sent is not a bed of roses. Jesus warns us.
(Matt. 10: 16-25)
A – Abide
1. Family – Sometimes your family will not understand the mission
Acting in accordance to God’s will. that you are doing. Ex. Parents not allowing their YFC children to
attend prayer meetings because they simply do not understand.
S – Serve
2. Friends- Many of our friends will say that serving God through
We are here to serve and not to be served. Being sensitive to YFC is boring and out of trend. But we have to defend our calling
the needs of others and building lasting relationships with them. E.g. and show to them that serving God is one of the greatest happiness
Family, friends and at school. (The speaker may cite some examples.) one can have.
S – Surrender 3. Clergy- Sometimes the priest in our parishes will not understand
our radical way of evangelization. We have to explain it to them for
Surrendering always to the will of the Father. Allowing the Spirit us to be able to work hand in hand in our evangelization.
to lead you to where you should serve. Offering your time, talent and
treasure to God. Our call is an everyday decision to follow Him, even in small ways,
even in small steps. We will be hurt and humiliated for His sake but the
Lord knows our sufferings and He will not leave it at that.
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What we do not know is that God is using our lives as an instrument topic 6
to change the lives of others. We may be sacrificing a lot but it may
be the reason why other people meet God. For example, our time CALLED TO SERVE
sacrificed for watching a movie, in exchange for having household or
one to ones, may actually result to a person believing in God’s love
for them. We feel the fulfillment of the mission when we see lives
transformed, relationships healed, and families united. We suffer and
experience hardships but in reality it only makes us lean on God more.
objectives
Thus, we have more opportunity to experience His love.
1. To understand the purpose of our calling to serve others.
At the same time, we should not grow disappointed when we feel 2. To realize the importance of this call and the members of our
as if there is no “progress” in our mission. Everything happens in God’s community.
perfect timing. What we should have is an eager heart to do His will
no matter how hard it is. 3. To understand and know the best way to respond to the call of
God by serving others.
V. Conclusion
dynamics
God’s call for YFC is to gather all the young that need God, to rebuild
the nation, and to be living manifestation of God’s love throughout the 1. Registration
world. This call is not only for the leaders in our community. Christ calls ALL
of us to go to ALL nations. He calls us to give all of our self to accomplish 2. Worship
the work. May our hearts be modeled to that of Jesus’ which is focused
3. Talk Proper
on the loving Father and His children. May we heed the call to be true
missionaries. 4. Group discussion
5. Closing Prayer
reflection songs
2. I Give My All A youth leader who has served in the community in the same service
for at least 8 months.
guide questions
anchor verse
1. How do you show your passion in serving God?
“But God in His grace chose me even before I was born, and called me
2. How can you be a true missionary in your family, friends, and in to serve Him.” (Galatians 1:15)
school?
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Yet there are still others who have not yet received and experienced
God’s love. God gives us the chance/opportunity to share that love to
called to serve others, for us to be His instruments.
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III. Called to Serve
expanded outline
“But God in His grace chose me even before I was born, and called me to serve Him.” S- Sharing One’s Time, Talent, and Treasure
(Galatians 1:15)
We share time by attending meetings. Our presence leaves an
impact to other people. Let us share our talents by participating when
we are needed. (Example: music ministry, writing, being a speaker, etc.)
I. Introduction: Let us share our treasure by giving what we can give like food, clothes,
books, especially with our less fortunate brothers and sisters.
Why are you here? During our youth camps, we were taught one
main thing- that God loves us and He is inviting us to have a personal E- Enjoying the Activity
relationship with Him. Ever since, we have sought to attend and discover
what this relationship was. Slowly, God has shown us, in one way or another, We should always participate, not allowing ourselves to be “kill
what it means to be loved by Him. We all know the response to this call is joys”. Show eagerness in all that you do. Make the most out of it.
to love Him back. Let us discover more about this call that He addressed
specifically to us and see what we can do about it. R- Reaching out
II. The Call and the Privilege
Being out of place is a decision. Whether you are just new in
A. Our Call a group or have been in it for a long time, you need to make one
another feel welcome. Let us make it a habit to introduce ourselves to
God called you first. Out of all the people in the world, He called the people that we do not know yet. Let us not be cliquish.
you first because He wants you to feel His love first. You are singled
out simply because you are special in God’s eyes. He is asking us to V- Volunteering
follow Him and influence others to do so as well.
Always offer to help others. Be sensitive to the needs of others.
B. Our Privilege Volunteer to be part of the community’s activities/events (example:
Serve in the youth camp, be a speaker or sharer, be part of their
The call may seem hard but God doesn’t want us to just follow committees etc.) Take the initiative.
Him. The call is also an invitation to enjoy the privileges of being God’s
children. As God’s children, we enjoy peace of mind and heart because E- Encouraging other people to join/attend
we learn of His promises for us. We experience love through our
families, brothers and sisters, our friends, our support environment When you share, enjoy, reach uut and volunteer, you would really
that guides us. Through this community, He has made sure that we are inspire others to want to be where you are. In this way, we could
always surrounded by His love. encourage others to join our community. Let us be God’s instruments
of love. Let us be His missionaries.
(Note to the speaker: Cite privileges of being part of this community—attending the ILC,
parties, a venue to discover/showcase/enhance your talents, being part of nation building.)
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IV. Conclusion
Galatians 1:15: But God in His grace chose me even before I was born,
and called me to serve Him.
guide questions
1. Share how you feel knowing that you are called and privileged to
be part of the YFC community.
2. How will you respond to this call of God for you to serve in YFC?
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BANQUET OF LOVE
objectives
dynamics
speaker’s profile
II. The Basic Description of the Holy Eucharist IV. The Feast
The Savior kept alive His sacrifice on the cross throughout the ages God is inviting us to a grand banquet of love, providence and
until He comes again and entrusted to the church the Eucharist as a: faithfulness. The Lord is inviting us to eat with Him is this big celebration
that we now call the Holy Sacrifice. Our response to the invitation depends
A. Commemoration of Christ’s sacrifices on how we behave during the celebration of the Eucharist:
The Eucharist allows us to remember how Christ died for us and
how His resurrection saved us from our sins. A. Dining with God
We are dining with God if we go to Mass and actively participate
B. A Sacrament of Love in it. We are in tune with the Lord and understand our purpose of
The Eucharist is a sacrament that allows us to see and realize that attending it.
love was the only reason why He sacrificed Himself for us, and paid for
the punishment we were supposed to receive. B. Dining with God but in other table
We are seated on another table if we go to mass but are out of
C. A Pledge of Future Glory focus. In other words, we are physically present but mentally absent.
Because of this sacrament, it has been an everyday assurance for This happens when we have wrong intentions of going to mass or
us that God will welcome us in Heaven, because someone already even when we are consumed by a lot of things and not being able to
paid the price of our sins for us. concentrate and participate attentively.
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Receiving the Holy Communion and attending the Holy Eucharist objectives
is our way of accepting God’s ultimate love for us. It is accepting God’s
covenant to receive eternal life. It is important to remember that we are 1. To see and realize the importance of God’s work
dining with God when we are in the presence of the Holy Eucharist. It is an
invitation by God to partake with Him and dine with Him at the table. Let 2. To be involved in the relevant issues of the bigger community
us make sure that we are dining with Him in the same table and with all of
3. To learn how to relate with brothers and sisters/ other youths
our attention and all our participation.
outside community
reflection song
dynamics
Great is Our God/God is My Refuge/Strong Arms
1. Opening Worship
(Reflection song will be sung during the opening worship)
2. Talk Proper
guide questions 3. Reflection Song
4. Opening Prayer
1. What I did learn from today’s topic about the Holy Eucharist?
5. Discussion Group
2. Have you been dining with God? Do you experience His presence
when you come before God in the celebration of the Holy Mass? 6. Closing Prayer
3. How can you be more faithful and committed in celebrating the
Holy Eucharist regularly and seriously? speaker’s profile
1. The Speaker should be a Youth for Christ leader who has developed
or initiated close relationship with other youth groups/ community
outside YFC.
2. He/she must be able to enlighten YFCs of the bigger work and
mission we have in our bigger community.
anchor verse
“One Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and one Father of all, who
is over all, and through all and in all.” (Ephesians 4:5-6)
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THINGS TO PREPARE:
B. The Reasons for Worship 3. Glory - It is in this level when we come more deeply into
the Holy presence of God - where God speaks, and we listen
Worship simply begins with the honest desire to be in God’s with our hearts. This is when we receive prophecies, visions,
presence. realizations, and powerful messages (personal and communal)
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of God’s love and mercy. Healing may take place after ---
where the group may be filled with peace and oneness in God.
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Note: The band plays a slow song which the group sings with. Then, the WS leader
encourages everyone to worship in tongues. After which, time is then given for prophecy-
sharing.
STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN
To the Worship Leader:
Do not be too conscious of the words you will use. Just pray with humility and sincerity,
and speak from the fullness of your heart. Talk to the Lord as if He is in front of you,
because He truly is. What is important is God and His message, and what HE would want objectives
the community to hear, and NOT what you would want the group to hear. Avoid making
your prayer a “well-rehearsed speech.” 1. To know that holiness is God’s desire for each one of us
God has done a lot of things in our lives. That is why He is most 3. To aspire for holiness each and every single day
deserving of worship. The amazing fact is that as we thirst for God’s loving
presence, He, too, thirsts for ours. God wants His children to be near Him, dynamics
to be one with Him. We are His own, and He wants to bring us into His
presence in order for us to experience “one degree of glory to the next.” 1. Worship
This is the privilege we have --- experiencing joy and peace in worship.
2. Talk proper
Worship is God’s expression of His love to us. It is a gift, “a piece of heaven
here on earth” as we come before His presence in spirit and in truth. It is a 3. End the talk with a prayer. Use the song “Refiner’s Fire” as a
gift to be shared in unity with all the members of the Body of Christ. reflection song within the prayer.
4. Use the guide questions below for group discussion starters after
END OF WORSHIP the talk.
anchor verse
good they can, they see no need to do more than that. Going to mass,
saying standard prayers, giving alms during Mass are enough for
them. They do not feel that there is something more to be done. They
feel they have done enough.
stairway to heaven
TOPIC 10 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY Examples: Traditional Catholics who participate in the sacraments
but don’t take it to a personal level of really “living out the sacraments
expanded outline in their lives” – physically present but mentally absent during Mass.
“Be holy, because I am holy.” (1 Peter 1: 16)
C. I am not evil. I am good. I have passion. I don’t know about
you.
I. Introduction
These are the people who detest and avoid wrongdoing, who
As sons and daughters of God, our call is to a life of holiness. Just as commit themselves to whatever good they can do, yet lack equal
Jesus is holy, so we are likewise called to be holy. This means living a life concern for others. They fail to encourage and influence others to do
with a great passion for love and righteousness. Thus, it is an invitation to the same.
live a life in deep love for God and for our neighbor. Being holy may seem
like a great challenge. What we don’t realize is that being holy starts in They do not feel the need to correct what is not good, most
small actions of choosing God’s way. especially those that they see in other people. They want everyone
to be on the same path with them towards doing good, but have no
II. Four Kinds of Good People concern for the people who are still lost.
Seeking to be good is a step by step climb towards heaven. It is an D. Infecting others with goodness.
everyday challenge to step up with the hopes of becoming more like Jesus.
These are the people who avoid wrongdoing, have passion to do
In this world, there are four kinds of goodness, as well as four kinds of what is good, and influence others to do so. They feel that the work
good people. is not yet finished until others are also on the same path with them
towards Christ.
A. Do no evil and Do no good.
These are the people who don’t harm others, but do nothing that Jesus’ example: Although He always had complete joy in Himself;
would give glory to God. They also live their lives without recognizing He was not bent on possessing glory for Himself. Rather, He humbled
the need for God and the desire to live a purpose-driven life. Himself, taking the form of a servant, in order to lead others into glory
with Him. (Phil 2:7)
Examples: Atheists, Catholics who don’t go to mass because they
don’t see the blessing in doing so; teenagers who just go to school Which of these are you?
to simply study and fulfill what is necessary but don’t go beyond
this primary task; people who don’t have vices but also do not pray; Do we take a step closer to holiness as Jesus has shown us how?
Catholics by name but not by action. Are we closer to our goal of being holy like Christ?
There are people who refrain from evil and also devote themselves No matter what kind of person we are, all is not lost. We are all a work
to frequent good deeds, yet, while they do not neglect to do what in progress and there is still time to grow more in Jesus. Let us strive to:
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DOWN TO EARTH down to earth
TOPIC 11 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY
expanded outline
objectives “My child be humble in everything you do, and people will appreciate it more than gifts. The
greater you become, the more humble you should be; then the Lord
will be pleased with you.” (Sirach 3: 17-19)
1. To clearly define what humility is and how it is shown
2. To appreciate that humility allows us to know God more
3. To start practicing humility in every aspect of our life I. Introduction
dynamics Jesus Christ has always been a true example of humility. He is God but
He became man to show this. His humility can also be witnessed by how
1. Registration He cared for His disciples. He continues to reach out to all of us, whoever,
wherever we are. He constantly shows us the way to humility because this
2. Worship is His desire for all of us to have.
3. Talk Proper
4. Reflection Song II. How is humility shown?
(Note for the Speaker: Share personal experiences for every point)
5. Group Discussion
“My child be humble in everything you do…” (Sir 3.17) Humility can be
speaker’s profile seen in different forms:
1. A youth leader who was humbled by God through serving his/ her A. Recognition of one’s sinfulness before God
brothers and sisters in Youth for Christ.
2. A youth leader who was humbled by experiencing God’s unfailing
We often commit sin because we choose to live by our own
love in his/ her life. choices and not of God’s. But we should not dwell on being guilty of
our sins. Instead, we are called to humble ourselves before the Lord
and to repent before Him. The Lord is good. He is a merciful God. He is
anchor verse just waiting for us to come to Him. It is humility to accept our mistake
that God is well pleased.
“My child be humble in everything you do, and people will appreciate it
more than gifts. The greater you become, the more humble you should be; “The other one, however, rebuked him, saying, “Don’t you fear God?
then the Lord will be pleased with you.” (Sirach 3: 17-19) You received the same sentence he did. Ours, however, is only right,
because we are getting what we deserve for what we did; but he has
done no wrong.” (Luke 23: 40-41)
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B. Obedience to God “The humble will see their God at work and be glad. Let all who seek
God’s help live in joy.” Psalm 69:32
God gave us the freedom to choose, the freedom to decide. But
there are times that it’s hard for us to make a choice. And in these C. Honor
times, we must not depend on our wisdom in making our decisions.
We should seek to know what God wants. God knows what’s BEST for God honors the humble in a special way. He lifts up those who
us. Humility can be shown by remembering this and in seeking God’s come before Him. He exalts them and He brings them from glory to
will in every decision we make. glory.
“Humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and in his good
“He went a little farther on, threw himself face downward on the time he will honor you.” 1 Peter 5:6
ground, and prayed, “My father, if it is possible, take this cup of suffering
from me! Yet not what I want, but what you want.” (Matthew 26:39) These are merely narrations of the different gifts the Lord could
give us. The Lord wants all of us to receive these rewards. There is,
C. Submission to God indeed, greater joy when we choose to act in humility, but the decision
is still up to us.
God created us in His image. We belong to Him. Humility comes
when we recognize that HE is God and we are NOT – when we realize IV. Conclusion
that we need Him. We are nothing without Him. Submitting to God is
surrendering our whole lives to Him. We are called to humility. We are called to follow Jesus. Being humble
brings us closer to Him and allows us to give glory to His name. Through
“Jesus cried out in a loud voice. “Father! In your hands I place my humility, we make God happy and we make Him smile.
spirit” He said this and died.” Luke 23:46
reflection song
III. Blessings Promised to the Humble
1. Here I am to Worship
“… and people will appreciate it more than gifts.” (Sirach 3: 17) Humility
is pleasing to the Lord. And with this, God blesses us even more. 2. I Can Only Imagine
God rewards the humble of heart. When we are too proud to 1. Share an instance in your life when you became so proud of yourself
acknowledge our being human, there will be times that we will lose that you failed to recognize God as the source of everything you
our way. But the Lord is gracious to the humble. God promises to give have.
us wisdom to know what is right through the Holy Spirit.
2. What specific steps will you do to show the Lord that you’re really
“He leads the humble in what is right, teaching them His way.” (Psalm surrendering everything to Him?
25:9)
B. Good Tidings
Humility opens our eyes to see how God works in our lives and
how He blesses us in so many ways.
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objectives d. For the problems and concerns they write, “ we’re lifting
to you our concerns…” before the statement
1. To define what prayer really is, its parts, the manner in which we 6. They will be in a reflective mood again and one by one, they will
should pray, and its importance recite in prayer what they have written.
2. To realize that it is through prayer that we can establish a personal 7. The household head will close the prayer.
relationship with Christ
8. The participants will answer the guide questions.
3. To begin practicing our commitment in our daily common prayer
time
speaker’s profile
dynamics
The speaker should be an active YFC leader, who is constantly striving
1. Start the assembly with an opening worship. to be faithful to his/her prayer time.
More than reciting the standard prayer, more than asking for the
things that you need, the most important thing is that you listen. God
I. Introduction speaks directly to your heart and it is in there that you will understand
instantly what He wants you to do. You can use the ACTS (A for
Prayer is a medium to communicate with God. It is our utmost Adoration, C for contrition, T for thanksgiving, and S for supplication)
expression of humility and openness to God. Prayer and scripture are the as a guide in your prayer.
two most effective tools for our growth as Christian men and women. It is
our primary means of communicating with God. As we communicate with IV. Conclusion
Him, our relationship and love for Him deepens.
Prayer is essential in our everyday life. When you pray, think of your
II. Two Basic Components of Prayer heart as a room that only God can see. In the silence of your heart, you
should focus on God and fervently listen to His messages. Let us see to it
a. Thanksgiving and Praise - It is a time when we thank God for all that every day, we have an encounter to remember with our loving Father.
the blessings we received. It is also a time to give our praises to our
Maker. guide question
b. Petition and Asking for Forgiveness – It is when we lift up our
1. How did you feel when you were thanking God for your blessings
concerns and ask for God’s mercy.
and surrendering to Him your concerns in life?
III. How to Begin your Prayer Time 2. What were the times in your life that made you call to God in
prayer?
Amidst our busy schedules, let us devote some time for prayer and
study the scriptures.
The Lord can speak to you in many forms when you pray. He can
show you a verse or speak to your heart. This is why it is important
that you have your journal on which you can write down the things
that God has told you through your prayer. Your Bible also serves as
your personal reminder of His love for you. Keep it with you and open
it whenever you pray.
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SIMON PETER SAYS simon peter says
TOPIC 13 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY
expanded outline
objectives
1. To learn about the life of Peter and how He followed God I. Introduction
2. To bring out the “Peter” in us more, as we serve and live our lives Speaker reads through 1 Peter 1: 1-14 as His/her resource reading in
handling this topic completely.
dynamics
When God chooses people to carry out His mission, He doesn’t choose
1. Opening Worship the richest, or the wisest of men. Rather, God sees the heart and chooses
persons who are available to have the heart for Him. God did the same
2. Game: Simon Peter Says when Jesus chose Simon Peter.
In this game, the facilitator gives out several commands - if the
command is started with the phrase “Simon Peter says”, the Who among you here knows who SIMON PETER is? Let me tell you
participants should obey. But if the command does not start with who He is. Some people put a halo over him and call him St. Peter. From
the phrase, they should not obey it. Those who incorrectly follow history books, his Aramaic name is CEPHAS. But Jesus gave him the name
a command will be given coresponding consequences. the game PETER, meaning “THE ROCK”.
will run for 10-15 minutes.
II. The Man Named Peter
3. Talk proper
Peter was a pretty tough character in His younger days. His father,
4. Group Discussion Jonah, was a fisherman who lived in Galilee on the shores of the sea. Peter
5. Large Group Sharing had a couple of buddies, James and John; they ran a fishing business that
gave them a pretty fair living.
6. Closing Prayer
Peter has four (4) basic attributes or qualities:
Maybe you are wondering why we are talking about the life of a man guide questions
who lived and died 2000 years ago.
1. How can I become like Peter today?
We are called to be like PETER of today. There is something in the
life of this man that is in all of us. Like Him, we, too, are called to be MAN 2. How can I develop and apply the characters and qualities of Peter
AND WOMAN OF ACTION, OF COMMITMENT AND OF LOYALTY, and OF in my personal life?
COURAGE AND OF CONVICTION.
We should work hard to achieve all our goals and dreams in life.
Do good in our studies, serve in our community amidst difficulty and
love God amidst all our problems.
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CARE CHAMP
objectives
1. To learn what it means to be true champions of the poor
2. To instill the importance of living life with love, humility, joy, and
compassion for others, especially for those who are in need
3. To make caring for the poor a habit and a mission in their everyday
lives
dynamics
1. Registration
2. Worship
3. Talk Proper
4. Discussion Group
5. Wrap up by speaker
6. Closing worship
(Note to the speaker: At the end of the talk, the speaker should rally everyone. He
should exhort them to be heroes for the country and to be champions for the poor.)
speaker’s profile
anchor verse
“Amen, I say to you, whatever you did for one of these least brothers of
mine, you did for Me.” (Matthew 25:40)
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Jesus came here for the poor. A CARE Champ believes that he
shares in the mission of Jesus of championing the poor. He should be
care champ willing to give time, treasure and talent for them.
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III. People We Champion
talk outline
“Amen, I say to you, whatever you did for one of these least brothers of mine, a. Hungry and Thirsty
you did for Me.” (Matthew 25:40)
“For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave
me drink...” – Matthew 25:35
I. Introduction We should be conscious of those who have nothing to eat, like the
children on the streets, orphanages. and feeding homes.
As CFC-Youth for Christ, we are called to serve God. Aside from the
renewal of families, Jesus’ mission is to minister the poor. He did, after all, b. Stranger
come to this world and lived among them.
“... a stranger and you welcomed me...”- Matthew 25:35
As Jesus’ partners in mission, we have been called to champion the
poor for Him. One way of serving Him is to serve the poor. We have been We should have compassion for those who are in the home for the
blessed with a community that is geared toward building the church of the aged, girl’s homes and boy’s homes.
poor. This task is the most concrete way of sharing God’s love with others.
c. ILL
The youth of today, with their passion and energy, have so much
to offer to the world. But sadly, their talents and resources have been “... ill and you cared for me” – Matthew 25:36
channeled in an unconstructive manner. Thus, it is our ministry’s desire to
build up Care Champs for this world. We should give joy to those suffering from serious illnesses such
as cancer, AIDS, leprosy and those that are physically challenged.
II. What is a Care Champ?
d. In prison
A. Someone who is an active member of Youth for Christ.
“... in prison and you visited me”- Matthew 25:36
A CARE Champ should attend activities of Youth for Christ regularly
so as to be nourished and reminded of the love of the Lord. This way, We should visit those that are in correctional facilities/juvenile
he will also know how to care and love others. homes, rehabilitation centers and mental institutions.
B. Someone who has a heart for the poor. IV. Being a CHAMPION of the Poor
Jesus has a special place in His heart for the poor. A CARE Champ C – Creating perfect and beautiful moments by sharing our
should be someone who can empathize and sympathize for them the time, talents and treasure.
same way that He did.
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The poor are special in the eyes of God. Though poverty was never
part of God’s beautiful plan for us, it is real. May this be a challenge for all
a Jesus experience of us to appreciate and be aware that there are people who are in need of
TOPIC 15 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY our time, talent and treasure.
activity dynamics Today, we had a chance to see the poor, the sick and the oppressed.
“The needy will never be lacking in the land; that is why I command you to open your We are God’s children; they are our brothers and sisters. It is but right that
hand to your poor and needy brothers in the land.”(Deuteronomy 15:10-11) we show them love just as how we receive it.
The Lord loves the poor. Let us continue to follow Jesus’ example. It
will be difficult, but through God’s grace, we shall continue to learn how
I. Activity to share ourselves to others. Let us live with the poor. Let us love the poor
just like Jesus loves them.
This is an experiential activity. The venue for this can be in a place like
hospices (hospital, infirmary, home for the aged, boy’s town, girl’s town, guide questions
and orphanage) or ANCOP sites in your area.
1. What did you feel after the activity?
These venues are some of the choices you can select from for the
activity for this assembly so that the YFC members attending will truly 2. What was your Jesus experience from this activity?
experience God in a very exciting way. This is about going out of their
3. What other things can you do to everyday experience Jesus in
comfort zones and being able to share their self to others by sharing their
your life?
time, treasure and talent.
1. Find proper venue and time for this activity. Talk to the contact
person prior to the visit and set an appointment with them to
present and explain the purpose of the activity.
2. Prior to the activity day, arrange a schedule, program and activity
to be done in the chosen venue like tutorials, teaching of songs,
story-telling, dance workshop, etc. whichever is applicable to the
place.
3. You may group them into households with 5-7 members.
4. Spend at least 2 – 3 hours (if time and venue permits). They will be
given time to share their talents with a certain family or they can
simply mingle with the people in the area.
5. After which, a group discussion will be done and the processing of
the activity will also be conducted.
6. Close the activity with a prayer, which may be done per group.
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STANDING IN THE GAP standing in the gap
TOPIC 16 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY
expanded outline
“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because He has chosen me to bring good news to the
objectives poor. He has sent me to proclaim liberty to the captives and recover of sight to the blind, to
set free the oppressed.” (Luke 4:18)
1. To realize that it is our duty to love and serve the poor
2. To further appreciate our work in ANCOP
3. To volunteer and influence others to be a part of ANCOP I. Introduction
dynamics (Read the Story of the Rich Man and Lazarus, Luke 16:19-31. The speaker
can either tell the story or ask one of the participants to tell the story.)
1. Worship
The story focuses on the importance of loving the poor. Like the rich
2. Talk proper man, it can cause us our eternity. Either we go to heaven or hell because we
3. Group Sharing have or have not answered the call of God of loving them. It is a sad reality
that more of us decide not to answer the call when there are more people
speaker’s profile who struggle to survive everyday – there is so much poverty around us.
Poverty that is due to the breakdown of relationships.
1. It is advisable that the speaker should be a cluster head or any
leader that is actively serving in ANCOP. II. The Rich and the Poor
2. An active YFC residing in an ANCOP Village can give the sharing. This relationship happens between the rich and the poor. The rich can
afford to live luxuriously, while right in their very own neighborhood is a
anchor verse swarm of poor people, only wishing to be able to eat a meal. The rich has
accepted that poverty is part of the global order.
“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because He has chosen me to bring
good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim liberty to the captives The poor has been considered an eyesore, a big problem to the
and recover of sight to the blind, to set free the oppressed.” (Luke 4:18) country and other nations as well. They are seen as dirt and as unclean.
They are also perceived as menace to the society doing crimes and drugs.
What our world needs is love. Love can BRIDGE this gap. We have to
be that person with love that stands in the gap.
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B. It will require a great sacrifice. 1. How do I see the poor right now?
We can’t paint a picture of hope overnight. It takes time. 2. How can I become a bridge between the rich and the poor?
• It is not easy to tell the poor that there is hope and life
can be better.
• It is not that easy to tell the rich to share and to give.
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KEEPERS OF PARADISE
objectives
dynamics
This talk should be done in a place where the activity can be applied.
(e.g. Tree planting in an ANCOP site, proper waste segregation in parks/
public markets, newspaper drive in their clusters, etc.)
1. Registration
2. Worship
3. Talk
4. Activity
5. Conclusion/ Wrap Up of the Speaker
6. Closing Prayer/ Worship
The Chapter Leaders can choose from any of the following activities:
A. Tree Planting
The group can buy seeds prior to activity and locate a place where
they can plant them. They should also promise to take care of the
seeds that they have planted even after the activity.
C. Waste Segregation
I. Introduction
In Youth for Christ, we learned about God’s love. A great manifestation
of this love is through the environment, the world we are living in, the
paradise He originally designed. He designed it to be perfect and beautiful.
But looking at the world today, it is hard to imagine that this is still
what we call Paradise. Environmental problems have caused us to doubt
the concept of Paradise. Let us recall the original plan of God about the
world we are living in.
A. Paradise Given
God’s very nature is love. He created paradise as a manifestation
of His love for us. He wanted to show us how much He loved us that
He created the world and gave it to us to live in.
B. Paradise Lost
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for us to take care of God’s prized possessions. We got confused on
the real purpose of the gift. We got greedy to the point that instead of
cultivating it we started abusing it.
ON GOD’S SIDE ALWAYS
(Note: The speaker should give examples of abusing the environment.)
Though we have abused the gift and in the end abused God’s objectives
kindness, God’s nature does not change. God’s love still remains the
same. What happened should not hinder us from fearing God. God is 1. To explain the importance of loyalty to God
still calling us, giving us another chance to gain back the lost paradise.
2. To further explain that our loyalty to God entails loyalty to the
C. Paradise Regained people He has entrusted us to take care
3. To mold each one to become more patriotic by imbibing the value
“But once more God will send us His spirit. The wasteland will of loyalty
become fertile and fields will produce rich crops.” (Isaiah 32:15)
There is still time to regain what we have lost. Let us give back to
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the environment what it has given to us. Let us learn to plant trees. Let
1. Worship
us not waste precious things like electricity, water, and paper. Let us
learn how to maximize and not abuse the things that we have received. 2. Talk proper
Let us not grow tactless into thinking that these things will never run
out because in time they will. 3. End the talk with a prayer
4. Reflection
[ACTIVITY PROPER]
5. Group Discussion
III. Conclusion
6. Closing Prayer
Our experience today is a reminder for us that there is still hope. Let
us seek to bring back what was lost. As YFC, it is one of our duties to take speaker’s profile
care of the gifts that God has given us. After all, it is also us that will merit
the effects of our carelessness or our prudence in the end. It is more than 1. Any leader could give this talk.
taking care of things. It is actually showing God how much we value the 2. It is encouraged to have 2 sharers, a brother and a sister. The focus
things He has given us. Just as we care for the things precious to us, let us of the sharing will be loyalty to God, leaders, group or principles.
also take care of the things precious to God.
anchor verse
“His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have
been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come
and share your master’s happiness!” (Mathew 25:23)
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B. To our Leaders.
As God’s children, we have been taught that God loves us. As YFC, we Since He entrusted us with His work, we are called to be loyal
are invited to return to that great love, and make our Father happy. We in what we believe in for us to follow and fulfill His purpose in our
were taught that it is not enough to just love God and our neighbor, but lives. We are bound to infect other people with a life embracing
to love our country. We are taught that being good citizens is one of our God, thus, we should be the first to stand up for these beliefs.
ways to respond to God’s love for us.
III. Our Acts of Loyalty:
In striving to be good citizens, one significant value we can start with
is Loyalty. Loyalty means faithfulness. A loyal person pledges allegiance A. To God
to another and promises to stand by its side for any purpose and principle.
A loyal person can be trusted, for one will fight for the other. • Living a life in accordance to His words.
• Praying and reading the Bible.
II. Our Subjects of Loyalty
• Hearing mass.
“No servant can serve two masters…” Luke 16:13
• Observing the Holy Sacraments.
We should know whom to give our loyalty. We need to be careful and • Doing everything for God’s glory.
seek guidance from God as we give it to people. Loyalty will be no longer
considered as loyalty if it is just given easily. B. To our Leaders
Our loyalty should be given to the following: • Paying respect and courtesy to them always.
• Obeying their directions and respecting them.
A. To God.
• Making sure that they know everything that is happening
First and foremost, we are called to be loyal to our God, within your group, especially if it concerns the welfare of
to serve Him with everything that we are. Everything that is each other.
happening to us is all from Him. He deserves our outmost love,
attention and loyalty.
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• Accepting their limitations especially when they have Let us guard ourselves and one another. Let us continue to be loyal to
directions that we don’t understand and those we don’t God and our responsibilities, as we continue to give justice in everything
want to do. that we do. In the end of all these things, we would be hearing the Lord’s
invitation of sharing eternal happiness with Him. (Matt. 25:23)
• Protecting and respecting them all the time.
• Always pray for them so that they may guide and set reflection song
examples to the group.
Song of a Servant
C. To our Group
• Helping them in their duties, their studies and praying for guide questions
their concerns.
1. Are you loyal to God? To your leaders? To your group in YFC? To
• Supporting them in their spiritual life. Our teachings to your principles?
others would be of no value if we cannot help our group
mates. 2. What steps do you need to work on to grow more in loyalty to
others?
• Avoid spreading loose talks and negative rumors. Talk
directly to the person concerned to clarify and settle
things.
• Protecting them from danger especially the sisters.
• Looking after the welfare of the group when it comes to
decision making.
D. To our Principles
• Living out our principles.
• Protecting and enriching it.
• Practicing it at all times.
• Living out our duties to God and others.
IV. Conclusion
HOMELAND 4. Processing
Note: The speaker should let the participants recognize that the scenarios that they
have portrayed are ordinary things happening in their everyday lives which they fail
to appreciate. Let them understand that being a patriot is an everyday decision that
objectives they need to make.
2. To realize that our love for country is our deep manifestation and 6. Group Discussion
response of our love for God
3. To know how we can concretely apply the value of patriotism in
our everyday lives
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We should not contribute to make our homeland miserable. 2. Support your duly elected government.
Protect the ecosystem within or outside of our territory for this is the 3. Obey the rules of local government, City or Barangay, like
basis for our survival. curfew and other ordinances.
1. Join Tree Planting. 5. Respect your country’s traditions and cultural symbols like
the national flag and the national anthem.
2. Practice garbage segregation.
III. Conclusion
3. Throw your garbage in the trash bins.
4. Don’t contribute to pollution. Don’t smoke. Loving the country through valuing the environment, our education,
and our citizenship is a deep manifestation of our love for God. He has
5. Conserve water. given us our country for our homeland as a sign of His love. As Youth for
Christ members, being patriots is our decision to respect, follow and fulfill
B. We must value Education
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the promise we have with our God and our country during our Covenant
Orientation. As His anointed stewards we should do everything to protect
and enrich this country. topic 20
guide questions THE PATRIOT
1. Explain what patriotism personally means to you.
2. Do you think there is hope for our country?
objectives
3. In what ways can you be a part of giving hope and love to our 1. To appreciate that the essence of patriotism is love for God
country? Give concrete examples.
2. To know how we can concretely and actively do something for
the nation
3. To develop a deeper love and concern for the poor and be
motivated to translate this love through actions
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The second general, on the other hand, had a deeper reason, which A true patriot is someone who is passionate for the country and
was love. Love enabled him to endure the difficulties that go with being for his countrymen. He is someone who takes his responsibility and
a general. accountability seriously. He holds nothing back, realizing that all he has is
given for a purpose. He does this not because he is obliged to do it. He
Morale: does it because he is pushed by a greater purpose; and that purpose is
LOVE.
In serving, we must have a deeper reason than “it is my responsibility”
or because I am obliged.” Because if it is our only reason, when things “…our love should not be just words and talk; it must be true love which
become too demanding, we get easily disheartened and tired. Our reason shows itself in action.” 1 John 3:18
for serving others and doing our responsibilities should be LOVE. Love
pushes us to endure. A true patriot loves God. And his love for God pushes him to translate
this love to the people around him, especially those who need it the most.
anchor verse
“My children, our love should not be just in words and talk; it must be
true love which shows itself in action.” (1 John 3:18)
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C. Vessel of hope
topic 21
CREATED TO CARE created to care
TOPIC 21 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY
expanded outline
objectives
“As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of
God’s varied grace.” (1 Peter 4:10)
1. To appreciate the meaning of accountability and stewardship
2. To realize the importance of YFC in transforming individuals into
becoming productive and fruitful citizen
I. Introduction
3. To practice accountability and stewardship through volunteering
in ANCOP The youth of today are full of potential. They can do a lot of great
things. It could be for themselves or for the people around them. But when
dynamics you look at the youth today, this is not what is happening. Most fail to see
what the Lord has given them and use it for a greater purpose.
1. The suggested venue for this assembly maybe an ANCOP site, a
Youth Center or an Orphanage that has been adopted by a chapter, Their hands are used for hurting people. Their minds are left unused
high school, or campus. for the good of others, often times, brainwashed with selfishness. Instead
of a generation full of vibrancy, productive hands, and creative minds, we
2. Activity: Pay it forward
have become a generation of youth lacking in potential, disheartened,
A. Group the chapter into pairs (YFC and ANCOP youth pair – and negative in thinking. We have a band of youth with idle hands and
if the venue is done in an ANCOP site, or YFC and another dangerous minds.
youth from the area).
II. Idle Hands and Dangerous Minds
B. Each person in the pair will teach his/her partner a skill
that the other doesn’t know. (E.g. teach a song or dance Idle hands and dangerous minds cause poverty to yourself and
step, etc.) poverty to your nation. The devil deceives us that having idle time may
C. After 15 minutes of teaching, each pair will present the seem harmless. The youth don’t know that the more they are idle, the
skill they learned to the group. more the devil is able to work in them. When we allow the poor to do
nothing, they are slowly led into a life of:
3. Talk Proper
A. Mediocrity
4. Divide the assembly into households.
5. Group Discussion. They settle for less. Poverty is heightened because they do not
seek to improve. They result to wasting their time doing crime, forming
anchor verse gangs, and doing drugs. We have youth that instead of striving to be
excellent, they settle for the average or less.
“As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards
of God’s varied grace.” (1 Peter 4:10)
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Their minds are conditioned to think that they are useless. They We reveal Christ to them. We make them busy in the Lord’s work
get easily discouraged with their failures and thus have no urgency to by involving them in the youth camps, ANCOP activities, put them into
succeed. They don’t have the desire to study, or to work. They have households, etc. We live our lives as an example of righteousness to
lost their ability to dream for themselves. them.
C. Sin IV. Conclusion
With the idle time that they have, they allow the devil to feed We are created for a purpose. We are not meant to stay idle and let
their minds with negative things. They try to commit suicide, abuse other people’s lives be the same. The Lord has given us time, talent, and
themselves, and seek to hurt others. Slowly, their thoughts are brought treasure not to hide but to share. The Lord has blessed us with gifts so
out into actions, actions into habit, and from habit into lifestyle. that we could reach out to our brothers and sisters, to love and to care.
Therefore, let us become blessings to others.
“We who are strong have an obligation to bear with the failings of
the weak, and not to please ourselves. Let each of us please his neighbor “As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards
for his good, to build him up.” Romans 15: 1-2 of God’s varied grace.” 1 Peter 4:10
We, too, can grow idle if we let other youth do the same. We, Let us be passionate and be active in bringing the poor out of that idle
too, can become victims of these things if we remain blind to what is state. Let us inspire them to dream.
happening to the world around us. It is our responsibility to use what
God has given us to help other people. guide questions
III. Productive Hands and Creative Minds 1. What did God give you that you think you can use to help others?
As YFC, we now have a chance to change all these things. God gave us 2. How can you lead others to lead a life of excellence, a life of a
the capability to uplift life and hopefully, uplift our nation. Let us not put winner and a life of righteousness?
it to waste.
topic 22
FOUNDATION 1: TRUE COLORS
(Overview: This talk is the first of a series in the first module of the 100% Free Advocacy. It is
a prerequisite to the succeeding sessions as it sets the tone and outlines the need for such a
program particularly among the youth today.)
objectives
dynamics
1. Registration
2. Worship
3. First Activity: My Self-Portrait
4. Talk Proper
5. Second Activity: Circle of Love
I. Introduction
We all have a perception of ourselves. There are things we like and
we don’t like about in ourselves. We measure ourselves against certain
standards - our own, of the significant people in our lives, the world’s, and
God’s.
Unfortunately, the desire to live up to the world’s standards has
caused a lot of the youth today to be in a constant seeking of love and
appreciation in the wrong places. No matter how they try to get what they
want, they mostly end up wanting more or even more confused about
their own desires. Clouded with worldly desires and fleeting happiness,
many youth have forgotten who they really are. They have forgotten that
they are God’s precious handiworks, who need not submit to standards of
the world.
Since God created us in His image and likeness, the only way to
realize our value, is to know our Creator, the Maker of all things.
We are far superior to any other creature in the world for we are
created with our intellect and will.
Being made in the image of God, our dignity is of and from God.
He created us to have power over the fish, the birds, and all animals
- domestic and wild. (Gen 1:26)
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B. Our True Worth that “thrill” factor but is still love because it produces/brings about
trust, joy, and respect for another person. In the gospel of John, it
We are not valuable because of the things we own or even the is used to express the relationship between Jesus and His disciples.
talents and skills we have.
Sadly, not all of us realize our worth. We have failed to see that in 2. Eros or the “Cloud-9 Feeling”
God’s eyes, every person is valuable and special, thus equally entitled This is the kind of love that is usually seen in romantic movies.
to our love and acceptance. It is mostly manifested through a state of being-on-top-of-the-
world, that feeling of being so high in love. Most often, this is the
However, this does not mean that we should condone or approve kind of love that has no solid foundation because it is based on
of everything that we find in our neighbor. We value other people fickle emotions, and changing circumstances.
because of how God originally created them.
3. Agape or “Christian Love”
God gave us our capabilities, strengths and talents to have
power and responsibility over and for His creations. We were given By contrast, agape moves beyond the selfish pleasure-seeking
the privilege to think, take charge, take care, and make use of all the characteristic of Eros. This kind of love manifests genuine concern
things that God has created. and care for the other. To love with an agape love is to go beyond
the feeling of being in love; it is choosing and deciding to love with
III. True Calling a commitment in spite of shortcomings and failures. It decides to
love through and through no matter what.
A. Our Call to Love
God is love, and He created us out of love. Hence, our dignity as 4. Love of God and Love of Neighbor
human beings leads us to find fulfillment through love. Every person is made to be loved. He experiences this love
when he is in communion with other people (who carry God’s
Made out of love, we too have the capacity to love, as well as image). No one has seen God. Yet if we love one another, God
invite others to love. dwells in us and His love is brought to perfection. (1 John 4:12)
B. What is love? In our human nature, God gives us the invitation to love with
The world has a thousand or more definitions of love (ex. Love is great measures. He loved us first even in our own weaknesses and
Blind, Love is a thousand mysteries etc.). frailties. Realizing and accepting this great privilege of how God
loves us unconditionally can allow an overflow of love in us. Such
Sadly, media today has created a whole new meaning of word that we would be able to move toward reaching fulfillment of
“Love”. Love in the movies, romantic novels, television series, and even loving Him in return and others as well.
reality TV shows have tarnished the real meaning and beauty of love.
Our love for God should translate to love for neighbor. “If
C. The Many Facets of Love anyone says, “My love is fixed on God,’ yet hates his brother, he is a
liar. One who has no love for the brother he has seen cannot love
There are three terms that Greek use for love from which we may the God he has not seen.” (1 John 4:20)
learn:
Thus it is man’s call to live in communion with others. We are
1. Philia or “Brotherly Love” called to live in communion with God, and with our neighbor.
This is the love that is evident in brother-sister relationships
and friendships. It’s the kind of love that doesn’t exactly have
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5. Celibacy or Marriage 4. The object of the activity is to express love for each other by
acknowledging the image of God in the other person. The
In Catholic tradition, communion with other people is participants will write something good or positive about each
characterized by the total gift of one’s self. This gift of self can take of their group mates as the papers are being passed around. A
two forms – celibacy or marriage. This also a kind of unconditional signal will be given for them to pass the paper to their right. They
love of giving ourselves to God or to another person in marriage take time to write something good about the person whose paper
by deciding to give a life-long commitment to love. they’re currently holding before passing it on to the next person
on the next signal.
IV. Conclusion
5. Allotted time for writing on the paper in each turn is 30 seconds
We are created in the image and likeness of a God who is perfect. We to a minute.
may not be perfect by worldly standards, but we carry God’s perfect image
6. The passing and writing will end once the participants receive his/
in us. God wants us to realize our worth that even at the point when we
her own paper.
feel most unloved; it is when He’ll love us the most, because we are His
priceless possessions. 7. Activity will end with a closing prayer. The prayer should focus on
being thankful to the gift of life and love God has blessed each
We must realize, believe, and take confidence in His love in order to and every person in the group.
free us from the bondage of the standards of this world. We must be free
in experiencing the unconditional love of God for us to share with those
who do not know God’s love yet. We are made essentially for this purpose:
to love.
The world today may hinder us from using our capacity to love not
only others, but maybe even ourselves. The challenge today is to continue
to know our Creator, seek to love Him every day, and to continue to decide
to love others with a commitment that goes beyond emotion, instinct, and
fleeting circumstances. Let us love in a way that is pleasing to God.
3. Talk Proper
topic 23 The talk proper can be done in a more creative manner – there
will be two speakers, preferably a male and female leader who are
FOUNDATION 2: BOY MEETS GIRL partners in service to explain how they are a brother and sister to
one another.
(Note: The talk “The Foundation: True Colors” is a prerequisite for this assembly)
4. Second Activity
5. Closing Prayer
objectives
dynamics
1. Worship
2. First Activity: Hands Up, Masks Down
a. Gather ather all the male participants in one group and all
the female participants in another group. Do this activity
separately in different session rooms, with a facilitator
for the male group and a facilitator for the female group.
b. Post the tally board for everyone in the group to see.
c. Ask the participants for a show of hands to signify their
choice per item. Tell the participants to answer each question
honestly, and that there are no correct or wrong answers.
d. Make a tally per choice and write the number on the tally
board.
e. When both groups are done, gather as one big group and
post both tally boards.
f. The speaker will compare the responses of the two groups,
and then will segue to the talk proper.
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The Differences of
Men Women
Male and Female
III. Misconceptions on Human Sexuality create something bigger for this world. They both have to realize that they
need the help of one another to fully allow them to live out God’s unique
The world has confused man and woman regarding their roles and purpose in them.
because of this, it has caused a misunderstanding on the meaning of being
a real man and woman. When men and women work together, it leads to the fulfillment of our
human sexuality. We began to realize earlier that we are made out of love
Ever since our first parents fell into sin, the world has taken control and we are to love. Then God further made us man and woman. This is
of our sexuality. The modern world has distorted the beautiful plan that what allows us to live out our basic call to love.
God has intended for every man and woman He created. It has threatened
the very core of a person’s identity. Since that day, man and woman have A part of this plan is for a man and a woman to fall in love with each
engaged themselves to an endless pursuit of impossibility where man other. The love that God planted in this design is meant for the greater
wants to be woman and woman wants to be a man. plan of allowing his creation to go forth and multiply (Jeremiah 29:6). So
great is the love that it can further create another person, when they enter
A. Homosexuality marriage. But before this happens, what is important first is that each
person should understand and fully live out what he or she is made of.
Some believe that they have been born as a person with a heart of That would further allow one to take part in fulfilling the greater plan of
what is opposite to his or her gender. Some quote them as saying that God.
they have a woman’s heart but trapped in a man’s body or vice versa.
God made woman in such a way that she is different from a man. What guide questions
only exists is human sexuality that is composed of being a man or a
woman, any other desire or attraction other than that is a distortion of 1. How can knowledge about the differences of male and female
our real sexuality. You are created as who you are today. There is no help you in your relationships with the opposite sex?
mistake on how God made you as a person.
2. What is your response to the expected roles of a man/woman?
B. Romantically In Love with the Same Sex
The sad reality is that more and more people fall into these lies
simply because our generation has given up and started accepting all
of these as the truth. What we should realize is that our attractions and
emotions must not define who we are as a person.
IV. Conclusion
1. Registration
Feel free to change the items. You can change some items that make
it harder to distinguish men and women (e.g. Expressing anger silently or 2. Worship
out loud; has a huge appetite, etc.)
3. Video Showing
Video Profile: It illustrates vanity.
(E.g. Devil wears Prada, Legally Blonde, Mean girls, and others)
4. Talk Proper
5. Vanity Challenge Fun Test (attached below)
6. Group Discussion
anchor verse
“Do you realize that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you,
whom you have from God and that you are not your own? For you have
been purchased at a price. Therefore, glorify God in your body.” (1Corinthians
6:19-20)
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We have to come to feed ourselves with things that are nothing but
temporary happiness and absolute emptiness. Let us try to please God
is vanity fair? by not neglecting the inner beauty that would anyway radiate and do
TOPIC 24 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY wonders for our outer beauty. What we should do is to:
expanded outline (Note: Hopefully, the speaker could cite some scenes from the movie
“Do you realize that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have to illustrate each point)
from God and that you are not your own? For you have been purchased at a price. Therefore,
glorify God in your body.” (1Corinthians 6:19-20) A. Take care of your Body
We mean here basic things like eating the right food, getting
enough sleep and rest, practicing personal hygiene and good grooming.
I. Introduction Many times, we tend to overlook these things and go at once for the
extras like frequent visits to the beauty parlor or undergoing expensive
Attitudes about the body and the way we look differ from person to procedures like nose lift, Botox injection, etc.
person. We could go from totally not caring for our physical well-being
and the way we look to being almost obsessed with it. We could either eat B. Have the Right Attitude
or do anything that gives us pleasure or we could go on a diet and count
Let us always remind ourselves everyday that we are God’s child.
every calorie intake. We could do away with cosmetic or spend thousands
We are special in God’s eyes; it’s as if we are His only one. We are
on making ourselves beautiful/ handsome. But what is the right attitude
perfect as we are because we are created by a perfect God.
to take?
C. Develop your own Conviction
II. Injustice of Vanity
Our personal conviction is our personal affirmation of the things
Unfortunately, a lot of things that we do nowadays are harmful to our that we believe in. It drives and keeps us focused on the goal that
bodies. Some of these are smoking, drinking, drug abuse, unhealthy eating, we want to achieve, that no matter what other people say, it is the
violence and pre-marital sex. They destroy the very beauty that God has conviction that we will always look back on to keep us going.
designed. We resort to these things now because of our discontentment
with what we have. We have come to a point where the approval of society D. Make yourself Attractive
has become very crucial to our life.
God made us all handsome and beautiful. Anything that will hide
We have come to feed ourselves with mere vanity. Vanity is a want of our true beauty should be avoided and anything that will enhance it
a substance, of something not absolutely relevant to life so as to satisfy (with proper stewardship of resources) will give glory to God. (e.g. Find
an individual’s desire for such. It is empty pleasure, pride, conceit and ways to keep ourselves clean, good-smelling and well presentable.)
unsubstantial enjoyment. Vanity removes the value that God has placed in
our bodies. It has brought us to the point where we hunger so much for E. Try not to compare yourself with others
the approval of others on how we look that we forget how perfectly God Comparison is neither our way of letting ourselves feel confident
has made us. We fail to remember that the standard that we ought to look nor inferior. God did not make us less or more than the others. He
at is not of the world but of God. We try to please other people so much made us equal and perfect in His eyes.
we forget that it is only God, who made us and that it is only Him that we
ought to please.
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God wants to make us better than who we are. His greatest desire A. Are you constantly comparing your appearance to other people?
is always the best for us. Let us do our part in developing what God B. Are other people’s opinions on how you look more important
has started. Always strive to be better in everything you do. than your own?
IV. Positive Perspective C. Are you uncomfortable when you go out and not have the
perfect hair or put on makeup?
The Holy Scripture is very clear on this. “Do you realize that your body
is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God and that D. Do you spend more than one hour getting ready to go out?
you are not your own? For you have been purchased at a price. Therefore, E. Does the way you look in the morning determine your mood for
glorify God in your body.” (1Corinthians 6:19-20) the day?
God made us in His own image and likeness and Jesus redeemed F. Has a bad hair/skin/body day kept you from going to school?
us when we fell to sin. That alone is reason for us to feel good about
ourselves. That should make us feel proud about who we are. And God G. Do you believe that maintaining your looks is essential to
being in us should also be a reason for us to take care of our body. Imagine maintain the friendships/relationships that you have?
Him being in us! As temples of God, our bodies therefore are made sacred.
We have to make sure that nothing, unnatural and against His will, can ruin H. Is gaining twenty pounds more frightening than failing an exam?
the body that He has given us. I. Do you always want to buy the new fashion today?
When we analyze our bodies and the way its parts function, we realize
how great God is to be able to create a body so perfectly designed that
every single cell of the different systems in our body work together for a
specific purpose. God has made our body beautifully. This body is a gift to
us. Not just a gift but a gift from our God. Because of this, we should feel
honored and happy to receive such gift and do our best to take care of it.
V. Conclusion
We ought to take care of our bodies because it is the temple of the
Holy Spirit and a gift of God. There are bad things we ought to avoid and
good practices we ought to do without going beyond the necessary. But
most of all let us care for the inner beauty because our soul is eternal while
our bodies will decay when we die.
When the time comes that we come face to face with God and give an
accounting of how we lived our life, we have to make sure that we present
our body and soul in the way He expects it to be, pure and unblemished in
His eyes. Beautiful – in and out, just like how He created it to be.
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Interpretation
answers
You are extremely comfortable in your own skin.
CIRCLE OF FRIENDS
1–2 You have confidence in yourself and don’t let
your appearance ruin your life.
You do worry about how other people think of
your appearance but it doesn’t consume your objectives
3–4
thoughts. Remind yourself daily that the “inside”
matters more than the “outside”. 1. To understand the true meaning of friendship
You are consumed by your physical appearance. 2. To develop openness in relationships and to value accountability
5–9 You need to get in touch with what qualities are in relationships
truly important in life.
dynamics
guide questions
1. Worship
1. How did you score in the vanity test? 2. Activity Proper
2. What do you need to do with regard to living life and keeping a 3. Divide them into two groups, all male and all female.
balance of attention for inner and outer beauty?
4. Ask the female group and the male group to form two circles each,
one inside the other. Instruct those in the inner circle to face those
in the outer circle.
5. The speaker will be asking personal questions to the participants.
They must share their answers only to the person in front of them
in one minute.
FAITH: Faith makes all things possible. Through faith, we hold on to the 1. How do you value your friendships?
truth that anything is possible, that God can make things happen; thus, we
do not give up on them. 2. Here in YFC, in your school, etc., how do you think you can sustain
and strengthen your friendships with them?
HOPE: Hope makes all things work. Through hope, we continue to see 3. How can you gain more friendships in YFC, in school, etc?
that there are greater things ahead for all of us. Thus, hope lets us seek for
any change that can happen.
LOVE: Love makes all things beautiful. Love makes everything worth it
and it is love that changes everything. It is only God’s love that can make
the change happen and last within the person.
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IN PURSUIT OF THE PURPOSE
objectives
dynamics
Note: For this assembly, choose a venue that is conducive for reflection and prayer.
1. Registration
2. Worship
3. Start the assembly with video clips / excerpts from the movie
CLICK.
(Note to YCOM: Read the talk outline first, then, choose movie clips or dialogues
that are relevant to the talk)
In the event of the unavailability of resource/s, prepare a comical skit instead based
on the Ship and Lighthouse story found in the talk outline.
(Note to the script-writer: READ OUTLINE FIRST)
4. Talk proper
5. A reflection song (I Give You My Heart by The Katinas).
6. The speaker should lead them to a minute or two of silence giving
them this point to ponder: “Living with purpose is the only way
to really live” for their reflection. Then guide questions will be
spoken after the reflection.
7. After which, the speaker may be assisted to hand out 2 small pieces
of paper to each member. He/she then leads them to writing
down their personal purpose on both pieces of paper. They (the
members) get to keep one copy of it, and the other they have to
give to someone whom they have chosen to be accountable for
them on this area and vice versa.
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“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you, before you were born I It doesn’t matter how long we have been in YFC. It is still possible that
set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.” (Jeremiah 1:5) we do not know why we were called here. The Bible says that even before
we were born God already knew us and has set us apart for a purpose.
(Jer.1:5) Over time, we may have learned how God loves us, but we need to
remember that this love was not given for us to keep – we need to grow
in His love. We need to share this love. We have to follow God’s purpose
for us. YFC has helped showing us how and still continues to show it to
us today.
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• Remember it’s not just you. It was never just about you. (We all • LIVE LIFE. SHARE LIFE. (We should share this fullness to others. We
have our brothers and sisters who will support us in everything should not be contented that we are the only ones who are happy
that we do.) and experiencing God’s goodness.)
• Recognize that we are not alone in this journey. Therefore,
we must always show love and respect to them in everything III. Going against the Tide
we do. Even simple yet significant as honoring other people’s
time (We should always be on time, and respect other people’s What slows us down in finding our purpose?
time).
Note: Narrate the story of the Ship and the Lighthouse
• Get to know our brothers and sisters more closely/personally
(By knowing things as simple as their favorite colors, simple There was once an oil tanker sailing back home from a long journey. It
joys, etc.) was a dark and stormy night. He was tired and lost but he didn’t want to
stop because he was genuinely looking forward to going home. Suddenly
C. The YFC Vision he saw a bright flashing light straight ahead in his path. If he keeps going,
he would surely hit the source of light. But he didn’t feel like moving so he
We are part of a big Christian community, who believes in the told the light, “Please move, I want to stay in my course.”
vision of “Families in the Holy Spirit Renewing the Face of the Earth.”
This is a vision that we should all come to share as part of that one big He kept moving forward and was getting closer to the light so the ship
family. said a little more loudly, “Move out of my way or I’ll hit you!” But the light
refused to budge.
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The ship got frustrated and said, “Look, I’ve been traveling for days now D. Pride
and I’m really tired. I need to get home soon. I have other ships waiting for
me. Don’t you know that I’m a special ship? Please move or else…” We sometimes think that our own abilities are enough and that
we no longer need God. We think that some people are not capable or
Still the light remained where he was. The ship kept moving against good enough to do the mission. We sometimes push for what we want
the waves, blowing his little horn amidst the crying wind, expecting the instead of praying for God’s plan for our lives. Humility and trust in
light to move away from his path. Suddenly he heard a loud, booming the Lord should be the posture of our hearts. We don’t own our lives;
voice coming from the light saying, “Take heed. Shift your course to your we are just mere stewards of it.
right. There you will find your way home. My light will show you the way.”
A wise man once said that “A man grows most tired when standing
Then the clouds shifted. The moon cast a shadow on a big white still.” When we refuse to do anything out of fear, laziness and apathy
structure standing majestic on a high hill. we get closer to sinking our ships. We should instead raise our sails
of faith, hope and love and move forward in the course that God has
And the voice continued, “Trust in me. This is THE LIGHTHOUSE.” prepared for us. We should put our hope and trust in God. He is our
Lighthouse.
What do you think happened next?
IV. Sailing On
Like the ship, we all take our own courses but sometimes, instead
of getting to our destinations faster, we get delayed because of our own How do we accomplish this purpose?
attitudes.
As we speed and continue on our journey, we see that God’s purpose
A. Laziness is indeed for our own good. Thus, it is important we:
We are sometimes too lazy to attend households, to keep our date A. WORK WITH THE LIGHTHOUSE. Know who we’re serving
with the Lord during our daily prayer time, and to move and share with.
God’s love to the people around us. We should instead take initiative.
We should give effort and make sacrifices in our endeavor to fulfill We work WITH God, not merely FOR God.
God’s purposes in our lives.
• God is our partner.
B. Passiveness
• He is never aloof, you are not alone.
There are times when we choose not to do anything about the bad
things that are happening in our world today because we are afraid to • He is that silent, strong structure (i.e. the Lighthouse)
fall out of favor with our friends and other people. We should try to be (amidst the heat, the currents, and the storm, waiting for
proactive. We should actively participate in bringing God to others, your safe arrival).
no matter what the cost. We are to give back what is due Him who • If you want your life to have an impact, focus it on God.
‘lent’ us this life.
B. TUNE-UP OUR ENGINES. Discover who we are.
C. Grumbling
We are who we are according to God’s purpose. And we need
We like complaining about the people around us and about the to check to make sure that we are all in tiptop shape and we get
things that go wrong or against what we want. When a leader corrects nourishment.
us, we protest instead of accepting our faults. We should strive to be
obedient and inspiring so that we can become an instrument of unity. • We were created in the image and likeness of God
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• You are Youth FOR Christ; we live in the culture of Youth for guide questions
Christ (attending assemblies, going to Mass, praying everyday)
1. What are the things that you are going through right now that is
C. STAY AFLOAT. Balance our lives. fulfilling God’s purpose for you as a YFC member?
With everything that is going on in our lives, we might lose track 2. How do you plan to sail smoothly in the way God wants you to go?
of all our cargoes – the different aspects of our lives. Indeed, God
wants us to devote time for Him, thud we need to remember that we
have to give what is due Him. Our life is not our own. And too much
of something is not always good.
• Family (Spend time with them, get to know them, don’t use YFC
as an excuse not to)
• Prayer and Service (Have a regular time with God, be active in
YFC)
• Personal life (Have time for reflection)
• Studies / work (Be Christ-centered and excellent in all that you
do)
You were made for God, not vice versa. And life is about letting God
use you for His purposes, not you using Him for your own purpose. It is
only in God that we discover our origin, our identity, our meaning, our
purpose, our significance, and our destiny. Every other path leads to a
dead end.
V. Conclusion
You were made by God and for God and until you understand that,
life will never make sense. God is not just the starting point of your life; he
is the source of it. To discover your purpose in life you must turn to God’s
Word, not the world’s wisdom.
Living on purpose is the only way to really live. Many are the plans in a
man’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails. (Proverbs 19:21)
And living a purpose-driven life includes others. For we are not only
responsible for ourselves but we are also responsible for others. Together,
we exist to fulfill God’s purpose for each one of us.
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speaker’s profile We are not mere audiences in the life of the Catholic Church.
Our responsibilities are not just to attend Sunday and Holy days of
1. The speaker may be any YFC leader who is active in his/her parish. obligation masses but to actively participate in the mission of Jesus
through the Catholic faith.
2. The sharers should at least be those who have served in the
activities of the parish. Let them share the joy of serving in the B. Priest or the clergies are the ones who “run the show.”
church and how that service has helped them as a parishioner or
in their Christian life. Although we look up to them as pastors, we too are anointed by
the Holy Spirit in our baptism. We have received the gifts of the Spirit
anchor verse that we can use in the work of evangelization, thus making us partners
in the mission of the church.
“But you will receive the power when the Holy Spirit comes to you, and
you will be my witnesses…even to the ends of the earth.” (Acts 1:8)
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The church is not just meant for old people. Witnessing does not The laity is the sleeping giant of the church. We, the laity, compose
look on a person’s age but on our desire to follow Jesus. Young as we the 99% of the church. We have been empowered by the Holy Spirit to be
are, God will definitely use us in many ways. (1 Timothy 4:12) used as witnesses not only where we are now but to where we will be in
the future. (Recall Acts 1:8) The church is the body of Christ. And since we
III. We are the Church are the bigger part of the church, it is up to us if we will accept the duty of
taking care of it.
We are not just spectators and financers in the church. We are the
church. The beauty, liveliness and excitement of the church depend on us, guide questions
its body. We have an active role in its life and mission.
1. How can you personally contribute to the church?
How can we actively participate in the church?
2. How can your chapter participate in building up the church? What
A. Know and appreciate the reasons behind the traditions. activities do you suggest you can be part of so that YFC in your
chapter can be actively participating in the church?
The sacraments in which we participate will be more meaningful
to us if we know the heart on why it is done. In effect, masses will 3. What activities can you suggest doing to involve your household
cease to be dull but will instead become nourishing. to the church?
As service for the church, we can form choir groups to sing during
masses or younger YFC members to serve as Knights of the Altar,
mature YFCs to be readers / lectors and teach Catechism to children.
As our service for the church, we can form choir groups to sing
during masses or younger YFC member to serve as Knights of the Altar,
mature YFCs to be readers/lectors and teach Cathecism to children.
We, lay people, are the ones who are in the real world. Thus we are
the ones who can reach out to all. We have the capacity to spread out
the Catholic faith through the way we speak and act.
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A HEART LIKE THIS a heart like this
TOPIC 28 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY
expanded outline
objectives
1. To realize our true worth of as sons and daughters of God “Man judges by appearance, but God looks on the heart.”(1 Samuel 16:7)
d. When the game master presents an item, each representative Jesus knew very well His true worth. He knew that He was the Prince,
will try to guess the right price. the Son of Man, destined to be King. Even though people regarded Him as
a carpenter’s son, a crazy man, a blasphemer and a criminal, He still knew
e. Whoever is closest to the right price gets the point. who He was. We, too, should be the same. We too should strive to look
4. Processing at our hearts and see who we really are.
5. Talk Proper We are…
6. Group Discussion A. Special because we are children of the King
7. Closing Prayer B. Privileged because He provides for everything we need
C. Made to be great because we are made in His image and likeness
anchor verse The heart is where our true worth lies. We are special, privileged
“Man judges by appearance, but God looks on the heart.”(1 Samuel 16:7) and made to be great. “Your heart will be where your treasure is.”
Mathew 6:21
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This is where we can use our integrity to guard our hearts, to keep our
III. Posture of the Heart true worth intact.
Here in YFC, we now realized and discovered what our real worth is. All Integrity is …
these will replace how the world defines us, a worth not based on money,
on labels, material things, positions, status in life, etc. Therefore, we should A. Being true to your self
always see to it that our heart, which is the true measure of our worth,
maintains a certain posture at all times. You are God’s child. You bear the name of your Father, who is the
King of all kings. Therefore, you should not be ashamed of who you
A. Joyful heart really are. When you try to do good things because of the Father, it
should not stop you when people think you’re weird or different.
Have joy because you know your worth. When you know this, you
are contented in everything you are. It doesn’t matter what you have B. Being true to others
or don’t have, for real happiness comes from within.
What you say, you do. Don’t pretend to be something else just
B. Prayerful heart to satisfy other people, or just to fit in. Fulfill your promises to the
people around you. Be honest at all times.
Be continuously dependent on God to remind us of our worthiness.
A prayerful heart allows us to be mindful of the things that can tarnish We need to be true at all times. This allows us to protect our
our real value. worth from being tarnished or stained by lies. It motivates us to
constantly seek the one who gives us worth and anchor ourselves
C. Grateful heart on Him. Having integrity brings us right back to Him and keeps us
fixed on God alone.
Be thankful in everything and anything that is happening to us.
No matter what happens in our lives, we should always see it as a V. Conclusion
blessing from God.
Never forget how much God saw us worthy enough for Jesus to die
“You, O Lord, know me, you see me, you have found that at heart I on the cross. He sees our sins and loves us despite of it. We have worth
am with you.” Jer. 12: 3 (The New American Bible) because He made us worthy. Let us always strive to protect this worthiness.
Let us all strive to live according to how He has designed us to be.
God sees our hearts. God knows who we really are. He sees our
value in spite of our doubts, fears, sins, and insecurities. Therefore, we guide questions
should always be confident in Him.
1. How do you see yourself right now?
IV. Guard your heart
2. Are you struggling to be true to yourself and others?
Even if you already know your worth, the evil one will always try to 3. How do you value and live out your worth as a son and daughter
deceive you. He will constantly shake the posture of our hearts. There will of God?
come a time that he will lead us to doubt our real worth. If we give in, this
might make us compromise ourselves and allow the world to define who
we are once again.
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dynamics
1. Registration
2. Worship
3. Activity Proper “GUESS THAT WORD”
a. Divide the group into two teams.
b. Each team will select 1 player from their team to be the
“GUESSER”, by placing a piece of paper in his/her forehead.
c. To guess the word, the GUESSER will ask questions answerable
ONLY by yes or no. These questions can lead the guesser into
knowing what the word is. (Ex. Is it a person? Or is it a place?)
d. The group will answer yes or no ONLY. No one may say
anything else.
e. He/ she will only have 1 min to guess the word through asking
questions. If he/she already knows the word, he/she can
immediately say the word out loud.
f. If the guess is correct they would get the point. This will also
be done alternately with both of the teams. The ones who
made the most number of points wins
4. Talk Proper
5. Sharing/Group Discussion
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I. Introduction C. EUCHARIST- This says that Jesus is really with His people in the
flesh, reminds the members of God’s family to give thanks to God.
In our youth camp, we were introduced to Jesus Christ and that He is Receiving the Eucharist is to tell in a public way that a person is
inviting us to know Him and have a personal relationship with Him. What a part of the family. (This sacrament is our call to live out and
we have to know is that in order to do this we need to grow in our faith. receive in our own free will and decision. As young believers, we
As we do, we gain an understanding of Him. What we don’t realize is that practice our faith by receiving the Eucharist every Sunday in the
one of the ways in which we could understand and follow Christ is through Holy Sacrifice of the Mass.)
the SACRAMENTS. Young as we are, we are called to love and do these
sacraments as our way of serving God. “Then taking bread and giving thanks, He breaks it and gives it
to them, saying: This is my body to be given for you. Do this as a
II. The Sacraments remembrance of Me.” (Luke 22:19-20)
The SACRAMENTS are visible signs of God’s grace in every important D. RECONCILIATION (also known as CONFESSION) - This is the
part of a person’s life: Birth, maturity, festive meals, wrong doing and sacrament of forgiveness and healing. This is a reminder that God
forgiveness, sickness and death, accepting leadership and the beginning is a loving and forgiving friend. He wants all of us to stop doing
of a new family. wrong and to seek forgiveness. (At our age, we are called to perform
this sacrament out of our own free will and are challenged to do
The purpose of the sacraments is to bless the people, to build up the this as regularly and as often. Sinful as we are we acknowledge our
body of Christ and finally to give worship to God. Because they are signs, sinfulness before God’s anointed ones in the Church. Through this
they also instruct. They not only lead us to faith in following Christ, but by we choose to be purified and live a holy and peaceful life before
words and objects, they also nourish, strengthen and express it. That is why God.
they are called sacraments of faith.
“Then He breathed on them and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit. If you
The Church recognizes 7 Sacraments and these are as follows: forgive men’s sins, they are forgiven; if you hold them bound, they
are held bound.” (John 20:22-23)
A. BAPTISM – This celebrates the beginning of life in the family of
God. (This sacrament is an initiative done for us by our parents a E. ANNOINTING OF THE SICK- This is also a sacrament of healing.
few months after our birth.) It celebrates the desire of the Church to care for her sick and old
members. (In our community, we acknowledge this gift by our
“Baptize them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the culture of praying over our sick brothers and sisters)
Holy Spirit.” (Matthew 28:1)
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“Is there anyone sick among you? He should ask for the priest of the IV. CONCLUSION
Church. They, in turn, are to pray over Him, anointing Him with oil
in the name of the Lord.” These Sacraments are gifts that give us the opportunity to give worship
to God. By doing all these, we become closely united to Jesus. We also
This prayer uttered in faith will reclaim the one who is ill and the become signs of God’s gift of eternal life. Thus, we are assured of a share
Lord will restore Him to health. (James 5:14-15) in God’s eternal life. Through the sacraments, we continue to follow and
respond to Christ in a most visible way leading us to the path of faith and
F. HOLY ORDERS- This is called a vocation sacrament, which show’s holiness.
God’s desire that His family be cared for by leaders- bishops,
priests, and deacons- who serve the needs of the members. (Young
as we are, as a vocation or path we can take, this sacrament can be guide questions
performed by our own free will and discernment as we grow older
to the life in the future that we want to have.) 1. Do we fully understand the purpose of the different sacraments
of faith?
G. MATRIMONY- It is also a vocation sacrament; this celebrates the 2. What role do the sacraments play in your life?
love shared by husband and wife. It shows that God wants married
people to be close to Him. 3. Have you been faithful in performing these sacraments? If yes,
how? If No, how can you strengthen your commitment in following
“Have you not read that at the beginning, the Creator made them Christ through the sacraments?
male and female and declared, “for this reason, a man shall leave
his father and mother and cling to his wife and the two shall become
one? Thus, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore, let no
man separate what God has joined together.” (Matthew 19:4-6)
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A SPECIAL MEAL a special meal
TOPIC 30 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY
expanded outline
objectives
1. To understand in a deeper level the Sacrament of the Holy Eucharist
2. To appreciate the value and true essence of it I. No Ordinary Meal
3. To learn and understand the different parts of it Who among you here likes to eat on special occasions? (E.g. fiestas,
Christmas Day, New Year’s Day, or even your birthday)
dynamics
Note: The venue should be in a Church or a Chapel. Many of us like to celebrate special occasions by having a special meal
on our table. Aside from the food, many other things make these meals
1. Registration special. We share this meal with family, while having delightful conversation
with friends, etc. These meals make ordinary occasions special for us.
2. Opening Prayer
3. Orientation But there is one meal that sets itself apart from all other meals. It is the
celebration of the Holy Eucharist. (Read Luke 22:14-20)
a. Preferably, the Chapter Couple Coordinator or the Youth Head
explains to the members that the activity is an instructional II. The Holy Eucharist
mass.
b. He gives a tour of the church or chapel explaining important The Holy Eucharist is a sacrament and a sacrifice in which Jesus
areas of the Church (e.g. Sacristi, Altar). Christ, His body and blood, His soul and divinity, is contained, offered and
received under the appearance of bread and wine. Eucharist is also called
4. Session Proper the Blessed Sacrament, because it is the sacrament that gives us Jesus
Himself.
a. The session is done through an instructional mass format.
b. As the mass is celebrated, each segment is explained further. The Eucharist symbolizes the following:
Note: The mass celebrant (priest) should be informed about the activity beforehand.
1. God’s continuous love for us.
5. Group Discussion 2. The saving deed that Jesus accomplished on the cross.
6. Closing Worship 3. Unity among Catholics.
speaker’s profile 4. God’s covenant of love and His command to us to love and
serve others.
The session should be given by a priest who can explain the purpose
and significance of the different parts of the mass. Preferably, he is the 5. The highest form of Christian Worship and the center of our
Parish Priest in the area. Christian life as the most important action of the Church.
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Much could be written about what takes place during the mass. For
our appreciation, here is a brief overview of the structure of the Eucharistic
Liturgy and some comments on the significance of each of the actions.
(NOTE to SPEAKER AND THE TEAM)
Presenting the Organization of the Mass can also be presented in a very creative way. While
significant actions or parts are being discussed, Music Ministry can support the presentation by
playing the appropriate song in that particular part of the mass. This is like walking them
through the entire celebration of the mass to prepare them for the main celebration after the
THE SIGNIFICANCE OF THE
PART OF THE MASS THE ACTIONS OF THE MASS
ACTIONS
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This is the order of the mass. Many of us may sometimes neglect to take
advantage of the opportunity to remember and receive Christ through the
Eucharist. Perhaps we are just too lazy to go to mass. Some claim they are
too busy. Others think going to mass is boring and not worth the effort.
Still others feel that their prayer at home or their service in community
is enough and is just as acceptable as the prayer in the Church.
III. Conclusion
We live the Eucharist by living the Lord’s life; caring for others as He
cares for us, understanding others as He understands us, loving others as
He loves us. Our faith is credible only if the Jesus that we receive at the
Eucharist shines out for all to see through our words and deeds.
guide questions
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FAMILY MATTERS
objectives
dynamics
1. Opening Worship
2. Ask the participants to talk about their family tree.
3. Talk Proper
4. Reflection Song
5. Group Discussion
6. Closing Prayer
speaker’s profile
A YFC leader (sister/ brother) whose parents are active CFC leaders/
members.
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The family is pressed for time. If you live until you’re 80 years III. Importance of the Family
old, you would spend only about 23 to 30 years of your life with your
families. Out of those 23 to 30 years of your life, take out the time you A society that flourishes depends on how a family is being built, after
spend: all the family is the basic unit of society. We should strive to have families
that teach and provide warm and loving environment. The future of this
• In school world may well depend on how a man and woman is being molded in
terms of:
• Sleeping
A. Character
• out with your friends
• It teaches us good behavior both inside and outside.
• On the phone
B. Morality
You see then, when you add it all up, you really don’t have much
time left to start on loving and honoring the family you’ve got. No • It teaches us the sense of right and wrong.
better time to start doing it BUT NOW. Also, physically being with your
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They asked the monkey, “What were the children doing right before the Don’t be a bad influence on your friends when they tell you about
accident?” The monkey made signs and gestures that they were fighting. their problems with their parents. Instead of helping them indulge in
Then they asked “What was the mother doing?” In signs and gestures again their anger or resentment, pray for them and be there for them as
the monkey answered that she was nagging. They asked again, “And what strength.
was the father doing?” The monkey gestured that he was drinking. Lastly
they asked, “So, what were you doing?” V. Conclusion
The monkey said he was driving. Realizing these things brings us to awareness that the family is really
part of God’s plan. He has designed and instituted the family so that it
To tell you the truth, if monkeys like us drive our families we are bound brings life, love, and order into the world that He has created for us.
for disaster. Many families are broken because troubled, imperfect, weak,
and often selfish people took it upon themselves to drive. The family is God’s gift to us. It is beautiful and relevant. And God has
a beautiful plan for our family. We, as one family, should begin to stand up
As we discussed earlier, with all the differences and individual struggles for what is right. Let us take on the challenge to be witnesses of God and
each family member has, all this makes the family so volatile, so easy to decide to be great as a family.
break.
guide questions
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realities?
2. How can you be an instrument of peace, love, and unity in your
AMAZING LOVE
family?
3. How do you intend to be God’s instruments in fulfilling our vision
of “Families in the Holy Spirit renewing the face of the earth?”
objectives
1. To instill the importance of being a source of unity in the family
through love
2. To provide an opportunity to show concrete love for self, family
and the community
3. To develop the value of goodness channeled through one’s own
self, family and the community
dynamics
1. Registration
2. Opening Worship
3. Activity “Do You Love Your Neighbor?”
a. The group forms a big circle seated.
b. Someone plays the “it” and stands in the center of the circle
and goes around asking “Do you love your neighbor?”
c. If the person asked says yes, everyone moves out of their
chairs and find another seat.
d. If the person answers no, he states his reason, “because I love
persons who...”(e.g. who wear green shirt) They fill in the blank
with anything pertaining to one or more players.
e. Persons pertained should move out of their seats, shuffle and
find new ones.
4. Session Proper
5. Reflection
6. Group Discussion
7. Closing Worship
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I. Introduction
To love and to be loved is one of the greatest gifts that God has given
us. God is love and He is the only source of love that we need. Jesus was
the best expression of His love for us.
As Youth for Christ, we must also express this love. But for us to do this,
we must first acknowledge His love for us. This is manifested by allowing
ourselves to use this gift in our lives as an individual, as a part of a family
and of a community.
II. How do we love?
The best example of loving is Jesus. He loved unconditionally. He
forgave even if He was hurt. He went out of His way to tell the people of
His Father’s love for them. He was gentle to the afflicted and He mourned
with the sinners. He ate and lived with the people who were rejected. He
loved everyone equally, just like His Father did.
This is our challenge as Youth for Christ.
We can start loving thru the people closest to us:
A. Our family
• Obeying them for they know what is best for you (e.g. • Giving comfort to fellow members of the household
not engaging in early relationships, waiting for the
• Listening and Learning from experiences of others
right time to court and be courted)
• Honoring them all the time (e.g. Anniversaries or 2. The YFC Household is a venue to express and experience the
Birthdays) love of God
2. Brothers and Sisters (“is not ill-mannered, selfish or irritable…”); • Caring for one another
(“does not brood over injury”…)
• Sharing in times of need
• Respecting them
• Being brothers’ keepers (accountability as a household)
• Helping them in their certain needs (homework or
exam preparations) Expressing love brings out the good in us. We also bring out the
goodness in others. Together, we build a culture of goodness.
• Being a “brother’s keeper”
• Giving simple things can even make siblings closer III. Conclusion
• Ensuring quality time is spent regularly The only way to live is to love. The only way to love is to live like Christ!
We may be imperfect but His perfect love will be shown in us if we just
B. Studies decide each day to follow and imitate Him.
1. It is our priority among the many service that we have as YFC (At this time, the speaker asks the participants to read 1 Cor 13:4-
(“Rejoices with the truth and is not self – seeking…”) 7 replacing the word love with their names, their parent’s names, their
siblings’ names, their fellow members of the household)
• Excelling academically
• Ensuring balance between co-curricular and extra- reflection song
curricular activities
You are My King / Amazing Love
• Respecting authorities in the school like administrators,
faculty and staff (even the school janitors and guards Note: After the reflection song, the speaker leads everyone into prayer. It is suggested that
should be called Sir or Ma’am) the prayer should be about thanking God for the gift of love, asking Him to guide us in
expressing this love and to challenge everyone.
2. Our parents worked hard to send us to good and reputable
schools (“Does not rejoice over wrongdoing…”) guide questions
• We dishonor our parents if we cheat in our studies What are the three loving actions that God is asking you to do in the
C. Community (YFC Household) (“love never gives up; its faith, following areas:
hope, and patience never fail”….)
1. In your family
1. The YFC Household is where Christian environment can be 2. In school
built, nourished, sustained and empowered.
3. In your YFC Household
• Regularly attending households
• Sharing experiences
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BUDDY WATCH buddy watch
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objectives
3. Introduce the main activity: “EMMAUS WALK” and will give EMMAUS WALK is taken from the Bible where in two strangers were
instructions on how it should be done. talking to each other while walking without realizing that Jesus is walking
with them.
4. Activity Proper should be at least 30 minutes.
5. Processing of the activity by the facilitator. Voluntary sharing of (Note: Write the whole story of the Emmaus Walk.)
their EMMAUS WALK experience to the big group.
This is the chance for you and your “Buddy” to have a heart to heart
talk and have an in depth knowledge about each other.
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R – Respect. You are accountable to your Buddy. Whatever you
have talked about should be kept between you REACHING OUT
and your buddy.
T – Trust. Since the Lord has given you your buddy, you
must learn to trust him/her with all your heart.
objectives
N – Nurture. Commit yourselves to take care of the friendship
1. To appreciate Christian relationships and to experience the joy and
that God has given you.
excitement that comes with it
E - Enjoy. Have fun and enjoy the moment being with a 2. To imitate Jesus’ example in expressing affection, verbally and
new found friend. physically, to our brothers and sisters
Some wrong values on how people relate with one another are
already being dictated by media. i.e. unstable relationships of celebrities
reaching out and what we see in television become our basis on how we deal with
TOPIC 34 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY our own personal relationships; contraceptives are being openly
advertised indirectly promoting irresponsible sexual intercourse.
expanded outline
“Do nothing out of selfishness; rather humbly regard others as more important than These things influence our own personal life and how we deal with
yourselves, each looking out not for his own interest but everyone for those of others.” our relationships.
(Philippians 2:3-4)
II. Aspects of our personal life and relationships that are being
affected.
I. Introduction A. Feelings
The Lord intends for His people to have a relationship with each other Feelings are too often allowed to determine how people relate to
that is caring, giving, having much respect and love. This was evident one another. Behaviour of people nowadays are based more on how
during the early Christian communities. “real” their feelings are rather than it being right or wrong, thus easily
giving in to the temptation of being angry, moody and other negative
“The community of believers was of one heart and mind. And no one emotions.
claimed that any of his possessions was his own, but they had everything in
common. With great power, the apostles bore witness to the resurrection of On the other hand, some relationships these days lack expressions
the Lord Jesus, and great favour was accorded them all. There was no needy of affection and personal support.
person among them, for those who owned property or houses would sell
them, bring the proceeds of the sale, and put them at the feet of the apostles B. Commitment
and they were distributed according to need.” (Acts 4: 32-35)
In an age of uncertainty, people fear commitment and prefer
Unfortunately, with the rapid change in society, worldly values have keeping their options open, and thus are prone to throwing and
now caused relationships to suffer, thus weakening the bonds that tie a destroying relationships as often as they like. (i.e., afraid of being open
person to his family and community. We have to go back and remember to the household; flirting and having romantic relationships without
what the Lord desires for us. commitments; couples that live together without the sanctity of
marriage.)
A. Distorted relationships
(The speaker should cite more examples if possible.)
The relationship of people towards one another these days, are
being dictated by the world.
C. Self-esteem
B. Technology
Society values people according to the world’s standards such as
The development of technology, truly, has made life a bit easier for physical beauty, intelligence and material success. These give people,
everyone, but it has also been a source of strain for some relationships who don’t measure up with the “standards”, a poor sense of self-worth
that have forgotten what it means to be personally there for one and low self esteem and thus are fearful of relating to others who they
another. believe are “higher” than they are.
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Jesus washed the feet of his apostles showing us that the best way
to love is to serve. (John 13:1-20) This is why our leaders serve us.
In 1 Corinthians 13: 1-3, the Lord tells us, that above all else is love.
IV. Conclusion
As the Lord intended for our relationships, we as Youth for Christ should
be conscious of not allowing worldly values to ruin our relationships with
one another. We should be confident in the Lord and follow the Jesus’
example of loving one another. Our relationships should build us up and
make us grow more in love with Christ.
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IN THE MIDST OF THE STORM in the midst of the storm
TOPIC 35 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY
expanded outline
“By faith Noah, when warned about things not yet seen, in holy fear built an ark to
objectives save his family. By his faith he condemned the world and became heirs of righteousness that
comes by faith.” (Hebrew 11:17)
1. To realize the crucial role of YFC members as instruments of unity
in the family.
2. To understand the importance of living in a family that is united
with love, respect, and confidence with one another. I. Introduction
dynamics Since God created Adam and Eve and placed them in the Garden of
Eden, the family has been the basic unit of society – a father, a mother and
1. Registration children are God’s plan for a family. Because of the importance God has
placed in the family, it is constantly under attack by the devil. This is why
2. Worship we have family problems, age gaps, disagreements or broken families.
3. Teaching of Songs As YFC, our role is to keep our family united in God, especially during
4. Talk Proper times that our families are tested. Noah kept his family safe and united by
building an ark in preparation for a great storm. Let us learn how we can
5. Closing Prayer be “Noah’s” of our own family by striving to build an ark of love, faith, and
hope in the midst of the storms in our lives.
speaker’s profile
II. The Storm That Ruins
1. The Speaker may be any YFC Leader (chapter level and up) who
has experienced a storm in the family and has been instrument to Our families today are subject to a lot of things. Although we do not
keep his family united in the midst of it. realize it, our families are slowly being brought to the midst of a great
storm.
2. The sharer can be a member or a household member, who may
be experiencing storms but sees to it that he/she is putting faith, (Note: speaker should share own experiences within the family)
hope, and love in his/her family.
A. The Storm of Disagreements
anchor verse
We’re used to having petty arguments, with our parents, with
“By faith Noah, when warned about things not yet seen, in holy fear our siblings. These may seem all petty at first but even these petty
built an ark to save his family. By his faith he condemned the world and fights may all roll into one big argument of pain and hurt. It could
became heirs of righteousness that comes by faith.” (Hebrew 11:17) cause siblings to grow apart from another, and cause children to have
hidden resentment against their parents.
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B. The Storm or Sickness and Financial Trials As YFC we need to respect and honor our parents for keeping goals for
the family to grow in a loving relationship with one another. At the same
These things we can never avoid and some may not be our own time, we are called to set spiritual goals within the family as well.
fault. Although this is so, it could cause the family to be disheartened,
failing to see God in each other. This can also be a source of arguments C. An Ark of Unity – Gen 2:24
as to who is to be blamed for all these things.
Things may be getting hard and trials can cause us to walk out
C. The Storm of Our Own lives on our own families. What we should always remember is our families
are gifts from God. There may be a lot of things to turn to but our
We may not realize it but most of the time we are focused on our families will always be there for us. Though imperfect, though slightly
lives. We are focused on our studies, our friends, our own problems dysfunctional, it is given to us by God and we should do all things to
that sometimes we fail to interact with our family members. Some of keep it united.
us may have been branded as a “dormer” by our own parents, always
out of the house and only comes back when it’s time to sleep. There We should:
are times that we don’t share problems with our families. As a result,
we grow distant to one another. • Accept whatever happens, the good and the bad and
keep on loving still.
III. The Ark that Saves
• Accept that you have your own responsibilities within the
Even though we feel that our families can be drowned in the midst of family.
these storms, God gives us the grace and the ability to save our own family
from sinking. Just like how He instructed Noah, He is also instructing us to IV. Conclusion
make an ark that will save our family.
God has told us that another disaster awaits this world, our family may
A. An Ark of Faith – Heb 11:6-7 not be spared from this, and you need to be prepared like Noah prepared
for the flood. We must always invest on love and unity in our families so
Faith is confidence and trust based upon evidence that is seen, that when storm comes, we are strong and we are intact.
heard and experienced in the family. (Heb 11:6-7) Our families are
subjected to a lot of crisis and most of the time; it is when our faith is As YFC, we need to realize that no matter what, our families will always
tested. We have tendencies to respond to these trials with rebellion, be God’s gift to us. We always need to be an instrument of love, joy, peace
depression, anger, and bitterness. and unity in our homes. If we do this, God is pleased, because, if there is
love, joy, peace and unity in our families, God is there.
God is asking us to build an ark of faith and influence our whole
family to place our trust in God and His promise. With faith and Christ‘s guide questions
presence in the home, our Biblical response to crisis should include
family prayer time, perhaps fasting always and attendance at worship 1. What are the storms in your family right now?
to give praise to God.
2. How can you be a true instrument of unity in your family? What
B. An Ark of Common goals – Gen 6:13-14 kind of ark does your family need?
Although we have our own lives to live, we should remember that 3. What kind of goals do you feel need to be set for your family?
we are in living in the midst of our families. It is our goal to live in
harmony with the rest of them. Our parents maybe setting goals– for
the children’s education, to own one’s own home, an exciting vacation,
a common time spend for Sunday mass, etc.
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FAMILY STRENGTHS family strengths
TOPIC 36 OF THE CHAPTER ASSEMBLY
expanded outline
“For this is the message you have heard from the beginning, we should love one
objectives another.” (1 John 3:11)
1. Opening Worship In the same way, All families have strengths. In this activity, we will all
discover our own Family Strength. As we identify our strengths as a family,
2. Talk we will be able to recognize the important areas we also want to grown in
terms of building strength for our families.
3. Activity Proper
4. Group Sharing (by Household) II. Activity Dynamics
5. Prayer for Family 1. Distribute the “Discovering our Family Strengths Chart”. Ask
6. Closing Worship the participants to individually fill up the chart as honestly and as
sincerely as possible.
anchor verse 2. Next, explain the Goal Setting Worksheet. Ask the participants
to also fill up the worksheet by choosing activities that continue to
“For this is the message you have heard from the beginning, we should build at least one of their areas of strength. In addition, choose one
love one another.” (1 John 3:11) or two areas that they feel needs improvement. List the activities
you will do and when.
3. Group them according to household, to discuss and share their
realizations and discoveries about their families.
4. After everyone has shared, they will end their group discussion
with a Family Prayer. Each member of the group will be asked to
pray for his/her family. The facilitator will close the prayer after
everyone has prayed for their own respective families.
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