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Author’s Note
This work, part of a larger research project entitled “Are There Cultural Preferences for
Redemptive Stories?”, was funded by the Center for Cross-Cultural Research (CCCR) at
Western Washington University. We wish to express gratitude to our CCCR colleagues for their
valuable feedback and conversation on this work. We also thank Anna Ciao, Annie Fast, Annie
Riggs, Antonya Gonzalez, and Shaun Sowell, who provided feedback on an earlier draft of this
article.
of Psychology, Western Washington University, 516 High Street, MS 9172, Bellingham, WA,
In the past several years, a public conversation in the United States about interpersonal violence
has flourished, sustained by the work of advocates who are themselves survivors. This surge in
American culture that impose silence on survivors (e.g., the “just world” belief). However, the
redemptive story line. In a redemptive story, negative experiences are followed by something
positive (e.g., personal growth, lessons learned, strength gained). In this paper, we draw from
theory and the sparse relevant literature across multiple disciplines to conceptualize when and for
whom the redemptive storying of trauma (or, redemptive master narrative) is available,
storying are its psychological health benefits; potential to empower self and others; promotion of
meaning-making, mission, and communal solidarity; and the larger social/political changes that
can emerge from giving voice to silenced experiences. Proposed challenges to redemptive
storying include layers of societal oppression and marginalization that shape the redemption
communities that enable abuse; and the reality of historical trauma and other forms of
intergenerational trauma, which complicate the linear, individualistic story of redemption. With
this theory-driven framework, we wish to promote compassion for survivors, along with
differences; development; social systems; survivors; trauma disclosure; trauma risk and
resiliency
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Giving Voice to Silence: Empowerment and Disempowerment in the Developmental Shift from
In the past several years, a public conversation in the United States about interpersonal
violence has flourished, sustained by the work of advocates who themselves have experienced
harassment or abuse. Although this is not the first instance of such a public conversation,1 the
telling of stories of interpersonal violence has now coalesced into a political movement that
promises to sustain momentum for systemic change. As collective political movements, Time’s
UpTM (a movement against sexual violence in the workplace founded in the wake of allegations
against Harvey Weinstein) and the more diffuse #MeToo movement (created by civil rights
activist Tarana Burke in 2006 and further popularized in 2017) are extraordinary for shifting
public focus away from individual perpetrators. One perpetrator can be dismissed as a “bad
apple,” but a chorus of survivor voices worldwide has drawn attention to a whole social system
of inequality that enables interpersonal violence. For instance, prominent women in the
entertainment industry have identified as survivors of sexual violence and have used their
privileged platforms to collectively advocate for women in more vulnerable positions, such as
undocumented immigrants and low-wage workers (Time’s UpTM “Dear Sisters” Letter, 2018).
For some women who have shared stories of interpersonal violence to a public audience,
giving voice to silence can be seen as part of a developmental progression from trauma “victim”
to “survivor” and/or “advocate”. In this paper, we will argue that this shift represents both
perpetuate gender-based inequality (see Rogers & Way, 2018). A dominant ideology is a set of
beliefs and assumptions that benefit those with power and privilege in society. These beliefs and
assumptions are woven so seamlessly into the cultural fabric that the threads are invisible. A
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common assumption in American culture is that we live in a safe and “just world” where good
things happen to good people and bad things happen to bad people (Furnham, 2003). The reality
intentionally within a relationship, threatens common assumptions of a safe, just world. In the
wake of an act of violence, a “just world” emphasis shifts the collective conversation from
perpetrator actions and accountability to the question of what victim characteristics might have
justified the attack. Likewise, deeply rooted American cultural values around individualism,
stoicism, personal “grit,” and “pulling yourself up by your bootstraps” can convey that
victimization and emotional vulnerability are personal weaknesses, which should be overcome
When interpersonal violence victimization and the need to heal are stigmatized within
mainstream American culture, the act of publicly identifying as a survivor can be stigmatizing in
and of itself. The disbelief commonly attached to disclosures of interpersonal violence make
these events even more unspeakable (Ullman, 2010). For individuals who experience systemic
oppression and marginalization on the basis of race, class, national origin, and gender and sexual
identity, among other facets of identity, to tell a story of trauma can carry additional risk to safety
(Calton, Cattaneo, & Gebhard, 2016; Hakimi, Bryant-Davis, Ullman, & Gobin, 2018; Preisser,
1999; Wilson & Butler, 2014). Among the concrete consequences for the “unspeakability” of
trauma, rates of both formal and informal reporting of sexual assault and intimate partner
violence are low, and rates of perpetrator convictions are even lower (McCart, Smith, & Sawyer,
2010). As such, the recent surge in individuals sharing stories of trauma to a public audience and
self-identifying as survivors has created space for a “narrative of resistance” (Fivush, 2010, p.
92) against gender-based violence. In this narrative of resistance, individuals who experience
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trauma may put a name to their experience, receive recognition and validation from others, and
use their shared, public survivor identity as a rhetorical force for political advocacy. Origins of
this politicization of a survivor identity can be found in the survivor “speak-outs” of the 1970’s
feminist movement, contributing to a “unifying feminist agenda to stop violence against women”
cultural preferences for stories about the personal impact of trauma. In mainstream American
cultural forums (e.g., TV shows, movies, news), stories of traumatic events are often told with a
“redemptive” story line, in which a negative event is followed by something positive (e.g.,
personal growth, lessons learned, strength gained; McAdams, 2006). Individuals who tell stories
of becoming stronger as a result of adversity are celebrated. In support of this observation, recent
empirical evidence documents that trauma stories with redemptive endings are more preferable
than ones with negative endings, and that the storytellers of redemptive (versus negative) trauma
stories are perceived as having more positive, socially desirable traits (McLean, Delker, Dunlop,
Salton, & Syed, 2019). The prevalence and insistence of this kind of narrative has caused
scholars to term it an American Master Narrative (Hammack, 2008; McAdams, 2006). Master
narratives provide important information about cultural values and expectations, offering a
model for how individuals should story their own experiences. Therefore, they can guide how
survivors tell their stories. But they can be constraining if one’s story does not fit the expected
narrative arc (McLean & Syed, 2015). Indeed, there is a lack of attention to when and for whom
the redemptive storying traumatic experiences is advantageous, and for whom it might be
times politicized, the role of survivor is not always distinct from the role of advocate. Many
individuals who self-identify as survivors by telling their stories to the public become de facto
advocates, in that their stories can galvanize social change and empower others who have
experienced interpersonal violence to tell their own stories. Either a progression from “victim” to
redemptive. In this paper, we integrate empirical evidence across several domains of scholarship,
consider the role of redemption in storying trauma. We note that we each bring a unique, but
studies the psychological impact of violence perpetrated within close relationships, with a focus
on the role of social contexts (family, community, society) in trauma and its lifespan
advocate for survivors of sexual violence, with a specialty in advocacy for LGBTQIA+ youth,
and for the promotion of accessible mental health resources for all identities. One of us (KCM)
is a developmental psychologist who studies the cultural and social context of narrative identity
of our approach. We have also been pleasantly surprised at the degree of common language and
The interdisciplinary nature of this theory paper provides both an opportunity and a
the redemptive master narrative after interpersonal violence. In doing so, we acknowledge that
interpersonal trauma stigmatizes and silences survivors in different ways based on their social
positions. Our argument draws from scholarly literatures that tend to underrepresent the
traumatic experiences of women of color and people with other marginalized identities.
However, we have aimed to foreground a culturally diverse range of survivor voices in our
process of theory development. To this end, we use direct quotes from survivors throughout this
article, to allow them to share their experiences in their own words. Additionally, although
redemption has been termed an American master narrative, we do not yet know the extent of its
Regarding our focus on interpersonal violence, rather than violence or trauma broadly
defined: globally, women and girls are substantially more likely than men and boys to experience
violence perpetrated within relationships (United Nations, 2018; World Health Organization
[WHO], 2016). The stories represented in this paper reflect that gender imbalance and its roots in
masculine power and privilege (Salter, 2012). However, we acknowledge the distinct challenges
scholarship (Langenderfer-Magruder, Whitfield, Walls, Kattari, & Ramos 2016). Finally, we use
and cite both visual (e.g., visibility) and auditory (e.g., hear) metaphors to convey experiences of
storying trauma. Even the semantic meaning of the verb advocate is “to call (to one’s aid)”
(Oxford Dictionary, n.d.). Visual and auditory metaphors provide powerful tools for conveying
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the struggle of individuals and collective political movements to be acknowledged, and at the
When and For Whom is the Victim-to-Advocate Redemptive Master Narrative Available,
celebrated in American culture. A central focus of the field of narrative psychology has been
on understanding how the stories we tell inform (and contribute to) psychological health and
well-being (see Adler et al., 2016 for a review). Narrative psychology rests not on what actually
happened, but on the subjective reconstruction of past events (e.g., Bruner, 1990). In a
redemptive story, negative events in the past lead to positivity in the present through growth,
emancipation, recovery, and the like (McAdams, 2006). Indeed, those who tell redemptive
stories of their past adversity are psychologically healthier compared to those who tell stories
that end with negative emotions or outcomes (McAdams, Diamond, de St. Aubin, & Mansfield,
1997; McAdams, Reynolds, Lewis, Patten, & Bowman, 2001). People who tell redemptive
stories are also more likely to be meeting adaptive psychosocial tasks such as identity
development in adolescence and emerging adulthood (McLean & Pratt, 2006), and generativity
in mid-life (McAdams & Guo, 2015). Further, a redemptive story structure and the presence of
themes of agency and autonomy are distinct from the overall tone of the story (Adler, 2012;
McAdams Reynolds, Lewis, Patten, & Bowman, 2001). This suggests that there is something
particularly important about redeeming adversity, about actively constructing a story of growth.
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Narrative patterns associated with well-being (i.e., redemptive narratives) are also
culturally valued themes. A master narrative is a culturally valued and expected template for
storying experiences (McLean & Syed, 2015). McAdams (2006) has argued that the redemptive
story is American and rooted in historical events and texts (e.g., Protestant work ethic, slave
narratives), as well as contemporary influences such as The Oprah Winfrey Show (see also
Collins, 1991, for a related discussion on the power of images in enforcing particular narratives).
McLean and Syed (2015) argue that this emphasis on redemption and agency in the United States
creates a strong scaffold for how to story trauma, but a scaffold that comes with repercussions if
the template is not followed. That is, if one does not experience growth and resolution in the
wake of a traumatic experience, that story will be hard to tell and will be harder to be heard,
because it does not fit with cultural narrative expectations. So the availability, or cultural
privileging, of the narrative does not mean that it is always adopted or employed in the wake of
trauma, which we address in the next section. Put another way, these redemptive expectations
facilitate storying one’s past for those who align with them, and create an obstacle, perhaps a
burden, for those who do not. We unpack these two issues of alignment and constraint below.
politically empowering for self and others. During acts of coercion and violence, an
individual’s agency, choice, and control are taken from them. Part of the power of narrative
reconstruction is to regain a sense of personal agency and control that was violated by the
violence. Furthermore, in a cultural climate that tends to silence survivors from speaking out
about interpersonal violence, even naming one’s experiences can represent a form of resistance,
or “taking action against the forces of silence” (Fivush, 2010; Hernandez-Wolfe, 2011, p. 240).
The empowerment of taking action in this way can be healing. Reflecting on many years of
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research with survivors of interpersonal violence, scholars have noted that “many of the women
said that this was the first time they told many of the details of their stories, and that the telling
itself was healing” (Pasupathi, Fivush, & Hernandez-Martinez, 2016, p. 53). In an interview-
based study with majority White, female adults who experienced intimate partner violence (IPV)
in past relationships, one participant explained: “For many years, I struggled to regain my power
and my voice. The biggest hurdle (and most rewarding triumph) was when I ‘came out’ as a
survivor…I no longer have to hold my secrets and let them distill into shame” (Flasch, Murray,
& Crowe, 2017, p. 3386). Without needing to keep painful experiences a “secret” hidden from
others, people who have experienced interpersonal violence may feel greater self-acceptance and
re-alignment “of their public and private selves” (Phillips & Daniluk, 2004, p. 179).
additional layers of silencing in the public disclosure process. For non-binary individuals who
have experienced interpersonal violence, both their survivor identity and their gender identity
may be invisible, secret, shameful (due to societal stigma), or even outright disbelieved (Bean,
2019). In an interview with bitch magazine, Sonia, a non-binary survivor who identifies being a
As someone who has always been verbal and struggled so much with silence and being
silenced in her journey to become who they are, I write to affirm my own existence. I
write to tell my own story instead of letting other people impose narratives onto me, onto
my body. I write to bridge the space between myself and people who can take things from
what I write and use them as tools for their own survival. (Bean, 2019)
In Sonia’s words, telling her own story is both personally empowering and an act of survival, in
that it affirms Sonia’s existence and experiences in a society wiling to reject both. Sonia also
frames writing as an act of connection, one that provides a humanizing lifeline for readers who
“survivor identity” (Flasch et al., 2017, p. 3379) may be a route to self- and other-empowering
to challenge injustices” that give rise to and maintain the perpetration of interpersonal violence
(Curtin, Kende, & Kende, 2016, p. 266). To self-identify as an advocate suggests that advocacy
work has been incorporated into one’s identity, possibly entailing a professional or leadership
role within a movement that brings healing or a sense of meaning. In her landmark work Trauma
and Recovery, Judith Herman (1992) expands on this phenomenon of survivors advocating for
social change:
The word “redeem” comes from Latin roots meaning “to buy back.” Here, Herman evokes the
redemptive master narrative with the argument that social and political advocacy by survivors
represents a “gift” to other survivors (and future generations), a gift “bought back” after being
relinquished to past tragedy. The determined sense of a “survivor mission” (Herman, 1992, p.
207) is exemplified by advocate, Aly Raisman, an Olympian gymnast who was sexually abused
by USA team doctor Larry Nassar: “If I can help one person, then that’s totally what it’s all
about. This is just the beginning. I’m just getting started, and I’m not going to stop until I get
what I want, which is change” (Kim, 2017). The first gymnast to publicly accuse Nassar of
sexual abuse, advocate and lawyer Rachael Denhollander, conveys the potential for public story-
telling and survivorship to lead to social change: “I think there needs to be a lot more focus on
why this happened and how it can happen […] I can speak out about my personal story, but my
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personal story doesn’t change anything unless it changes the societal dynamics. As long as the
culture is conducive to abuse, there will be abusers” (Hong & Truscheit, 2017).
Although the notion of survivors becoming advocates as a way to serve others, challenge
injustice, and make meaning out of traumatic events is intuitive, there is surprisingly little
empirical research on this topic, including work on the conditions and processes by which this
torture, witnessing loved ones suffer due to political persecution, displacement, and living under
continual threat of violence (Hernández-Wolfe, 2011). Part of what helped motivate their human
rights activism was a spiritually-inflected “searching for meaning,” along with “indignation”
toward “pervasive impunity, silence, invisibility and denial” around political violence and
injustice in their country (Hernández-Wolfe, 2011, pp. 240-241). Activists reported that they
collectively experienced an “altruism born of suffering” that helped them to “hea[l] from and
(altruism, healing, transcendence) from bad (violence, suffering) echoes the redemptive master
narrative and Herman’s call to “transcend” suffering through social action (1992, p. 207).
important role of community engagement in healing. For instance, a peer-to-peer initiative based
on the promotora model in Latin America trained immigrant Latina women survivors of IPV and
collective trauma to serve as leaders in community efforts to prevent and respond to IPV
(Schultz, Cattaneo, Sabina, Brunner, Jackson, & Serrata, 2016). Research on the initiative, Casa
de Esperanza’s Fuerza Unida Amigos (Strength United), found that women who trained as
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community leaders in antiviolence work and included their trauma stories in the work felt that
this helped to foster self-empowerment and healing (Schultz et al., 2016). In another interview-
based study, with African American antirape advocates, participants emphasized that “rape must
be perceived as a community issue” (White, 2001, p. 20). Echoing the idea that collective action
can be a source of community empowerment and healing, advocates argued that people who
have experienced rape “should be encouraged to break their silence and regain their sense of
agency through antirape collective action” and that “activism should be encouraged as a healing
modality just as individual and group therapy are encouraged” (p. 20). Overall, the sources cited
in this section convey the intertwined nature of public stories of redemption, healing (of self and
others), social action, and political agendas to stop interpersonal violence. Of course, these
empirical studies focus on survivors who became advocates, and as such, cannot shed light on
the predictors or pathways of why some survivors choose to become advocates and some do not
(and on how healing differs based on this choice). To our knowledge, such a comparative study
does not yet exist; we return to the importance of future research in this area in the Conclusion.
Having now detailed the potential advantages of redemption in trauma stories, we turn to
There are a variety of ways in which the redemptive arc from victimization to advocacy
may not be a viable structure for storying trauma. At base, however, some individuals may
simply not feel that they have grown, learned from, or resolved their particular experience. If so,
the pull for redemptive stories may be further isolating or invalidating. This individual-level
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consideration deserves attention, but we turn to detailing some of the specific ways in which
redemption in the form of public advocacy may be constraining at more systemic levels.
Systemic racism can constrain public advocacy by women of color and indigenous
women. To publicly identify as a person who has experienced interpersonal violence and to
advocate on behalf of others on a national stage entails particular challenges for populations
whose experiences of violence intersect with racial oppression at individual, institutional, and
systemic levels (Crenshaw, 1991). With its focus on the individual victim, psychology as a
discipline can overlook the historical context of trauma disclosure and advocacy in the United
States that privileges white women’s stories and places constraints on the redemptive storying of
women of color and indigenous women. Although this point has deep scholarly roots (e.g., see
Collins, 1991; Crenshaw, 1991; Davis, 1983), it has been highlighted with renewed relevance in
the era of #MeToo and #MMIWG (Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls;
Savarese, 2017; Urban Indian Health Institute, 2018; Yeung, 2018). For instance, historian
Moreover, to the extent that a redemptive trauma story requires an uplifting, positive resolution,
advocates may be constrained from fully expressing the feelings of raw anger attached to trauma
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and injustice (Ashley, 2014). Constraints on anger can stem from cultural norms around what
emotion expressions are acceptable. Women and people of color (especially women of color)
may have concerns about expressing anger because of the discomfort and fragility of majority
group members (Bryant-Davis & Ocampo, 2005; DiAngelo, 2018). While a redemptive story of
trauma may empower the storyteller in some ways, this empowerment may occur at the expense
of silencing emotional experiences that the most privileged bystanders are unwilling to tolerate.
Scholars and advocates have also described the added complexities and constraints on
advocacy for cultural minority women in the case of within-group violence, when the perpetrator
and victim share a marginalized cultural identity (Gómez, 2018; Simmons, 2002). In this case,
the perpetrator of interpersonal violence may experience oppression within the broader society,
which complicates victims’ efforts to hold the perpetrator accountable and to speak publicly.
Jewel Allison, an activist who has written publicly of why she delayed disclosing being sexually
As I debated whether to come forward, I struggled with where my allegiances should lie
—with the women who were sexually victimized or with black America, which had been
systemically victimized […]3 (Allison, 2015)
While systemic racism complicates efforts for a public accounting of intraracial violence on a
national stage, the extensive history of advocacy and organizing by communities of color and
American Indian/Alaska Native communities must be acknowledged (Deer, 2015; Hill, 2008;
many survivor-advocates. For many individuals, interpersonal violence occurs in the context of
other forms of societal oppression and stressors arising from poverty, sexism, racism,
homophobia, transphobia, language barriers, acculturation, fear of deportation, and so on. These
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personal and political contexts shape the types of traumatic events that people experience, how
they experience these events, and available avenues of healing and resilience. There is much to
unpack here, but to start, the redemptive notion of traumatic events being over or transcended
may not fit for some groups, in that each day may require transcendence of adversity or
confrontation of new threats. In an interview-based study with transgender people of color who
have experienced traumatic life events, one participant stated: “Some days, just getting out of
bed is a revolutionary act to deal with the world. And I make sure I get out of bed (Marla, age
45)” (Singh & McKleroy, 2011, p. 38, italics in original). Several participants in this study
described how their healing from interpersonal violence was intertwined with their ability to
access resources (e.g., hormonal treatment, higher-paying jobs) and to connect with a community
There aren’t words in Vietnamese for transsexual—and my trans POC [people of color]
community knows that. So, I feel like I represent a certain cultural perspective that is
important. Activism is also part of my resilience to the bad shit I have been through—
being able to give my voice. Now, I speak up—do something greater for a greater cause. I
want the world to be an easier and better place to live for my community and myself.
(Richard, age 32). (Singh & McKleroy, 2011, p. 39)
empowered public advocacy on behalf of others, such as giving voice to silence, altruism, and a
sense of a “survivor mission,” to use Herman’s phrase. Richard’s perspective also shows how
personal healing (resilience, redemption) from the wounds of interpersonal violence can exist
termed such systemic oppression “psychosocial trauma,” or “a social system based on social
processes that are linear, individualistic, and teleological (toward personal redemption) may also
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not be a good cultural fit for all groups. For instance, experiences of historical trauma and other
narrative. Historical trauma among American Indian/Alaska Native communities and other
wounding across generations, including the lifespan, which emanates from massive group
trauma” (Brave Heart, Chase, Elkins, & Altschul, 2011, p. 283). Instead of a purely personal,
individualistic understanding of trauma, “historical trauma theory frames lifespan trauma in the
collective, historical context, which empowers Indigenous survivors of both communal and
individual trauma by reducing the sense of stigma and isolation” (Brave Heart et al., 2011, p.
283). In a recent article, a group of American Indian/Alaska Native women researchers and
clinicians address the complexities of serving and writing about collective indigenous traumatic
Researching and writing about AI/AN historical legacy can be overwhelmingly painful,
as well as cathartic and healing. Commitment to this work can keep us immersed in the
pain and traumatic past, but for a greater good––to help the Oyate (the People) to heal…
In our loyalty to our ancestors, we unconsciously remain loyal to their suffering through
internalization of generational trauma, enacted as the need to suffer as a memorial;
vitality is a betrayal to ancestors who suffered so much (Brave Heart, 1998). However,
part of the healing process is to let go of this guilt for being joyful. We recognize as
Takini [a Lakota word meaning ‘to come back to life or to be reborn’] that we are
wakiksuyapi (memorial people; Brave Heart, 2000), and still healing as we are helping
others to heal. (Brave Heart et al., 2016, p. 32)
In the redemptive master narrative, trauma and its aftermath have been resolved—they are in the
past, transcended. Brave Heart and colleagues provide a moving counterpoint, a notion of time as
“non-linear, circular, and simultaneous” (2016, p. 30). In this way, the altruism and self-sacrifice
of continued suffering can be a form of “memorial” to ancestors who have suffered (2016, p. 32).
Simultaneously, the authors’ commitment to work that serves American Indian/Alaska Native
notion of “victims” and “advocates” being distinct roles, the authors acknowledge that healers
may themselves be continuing to heal. This perspective has been echoed within the trauma and
resilience literature (see Zerubavel & Wright, 2012 on the “wounded healer”).
or unwelcome under some conditions. At the most basic level, a person still may be involved in
an unsafe relationship in which the need for survival is paramount. Healing, agency, and
empowered political action may not yet be available responses. When extended family networks
or whole kinship communities (as in the case of remote, isolated tribal villages in Alaska) are
survivor and efforts to change the community conditions that enable abuse may threaten
belonging and survival (Deer, 2015; Kasturirangan, Krishnan, & Riger, 2004). Additionally,
public advocacy on behalf of people who have experienced interpersonal violence may place
some groups in a vulnerable position where their ability to meet basic needs for food and shelter
is threatened by their advocacy. For instance, an adult may need to support children using
Further, agencies that are created to protect and support survivors can continue to cause
harm for some individuals. People of color, indigenous people, people who are undocumented,
and LGBTQIA+ people who have experienced interpersonal violence may reasonably have less
faith in the institutions that are supposed to protect and serve them in the wake of abuse, such as
the healthcare and criminal justice systems (Deer, 2015; Mogul, Ritchie, & Whitlock, 2011;
Richie, 2012). When these survivors disclose experiences of interpersonal violence, an affirming
response cannot be guaranteed, and an invalidating response can cause further harm. Survivors
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with societally marginalized identities may also feel less welcome in spaces that are created by
and for survivors. In the bitch magazine interview with genderqueer and non-binary survivors,
Without supportive healing spaces available to people with marginalized gender identities,
survivors risk subjecting themselves to further harassment by agencies that are supposed to help
them heal. For these individuals reporting abuse or seeking help from victim-advocates can mean
further trauma and continuing cycles of disempowerment without a place to turn for support.
Adult survivors of childhood trauma within the family are less visible and politically
organized as advocates.
has afforded many survivors of interpersonal violence in adulthood a platform from which to tell
their stories and to politically organize. However, survivors of childhood trauma, especially
abuse within the family, have been less visible in these public conversations. Indeed, the victim-
to-advocate redemptive master narrative is arguably least available to this group. Here, we
propose some reasons why, in hopes of stimulating future research in this understudied area. Part
of the reason that survivors of trauma in childhood and adolescence have been less visible in
public conversations about interpersonal violence is, of course, the developmental status of
children. For a variety of reasons, we would never expect children to be in a position to identify
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as survivors, let alone become advocates. Children and adolescents are likely to trust, depend
upon, and be attached to their perpetrators; if a caregiver is also a source of harm, neither the
child victim nor family bystanders to the abuse may be in a position to acknowledge the abuse
and take empowered action (Delker, Smith, Rosenthal, Bernstein, & Freyd, 2018).
Yet children and adolescents who are chronically victimized within the family become
adults, and still public survivorship and story-telling by adult survivors with this history is rare –
that is, a redemptive master narrative for this particular type of trauma is less available for those
who have experienced it. Why might this be? Once a child who has been chronically abused
reaches young adulthood and/or no longer depends on the family of origin, the shame, suffering,
and negative sense of self resulting from years of abuse may disempower the survivor from
speaking out. From a place of disempowerment, the redemptive story that adversity is
transcended would feel false. Likewise, coping with the persistent pain connected to their abuse
may consume a survivor’s energy day to day, leaving little left over for political action and
service to others. Adults who experienced abuse as children may also be unable to recall the
events in order to narratively construct a story at a later time (Fivush & Edwards, 2004) or they
may struggle to recognize the extent to which they have been harmed and exploited, even into
adulthood (Freyd & Birrell, 2013). Sustained public advocacy by adults who were abused as
children may also be discouraged at interpersonal and societal levels. Family are the source of
our earliest and most trusting relationships, making stories of familial trauma, in many ways, the
advocates, there are remarkable exceptions. Public figures who have become advocates in
childhood or shortly afterward include the Pakistani human rights advocate Malala Yousafzai,
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teen survivors of the mass shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, FL,
and survivors of high-profile kidnappings and violence who have told their stories through
published memoirs (see Elizabeth Smart’s Where There’s Hope: Healing, Moving Forward, and
Never Giving Up, Jaycee Dugard’s A Stolen Life: A Memoir, Amanda Berry’s Hope: A Memoir
of Survival in Cleveland, and Michelle Knight’s Life After Darkness: Finding Healing and
Happiness after the Cleveland Kidnappings). Arguably, the extremity of horror that these young
women experienced as girls in captivity would be stories unpalatable to the American public,
without the promise of hope, transcendence, or healing in the titles. It should also be noted that
the public stories shared by the young survivors in this section are stories of violence perpetrated
by strangers, not stories of ongoing violence within the family of origin. Perhaps the grinding,
everyday despair of family violence is less marketable. Or perhaps survivor stories of stranger
kidnapping and captivity are perversely comforting to consumers, who can be assured that the
violence, there are a small number of public figures in the U.S. who have identified as survivors
of childhood trauma. Oprah Winfrey has been one of the earliest, most influential public figures
in the U.S. to disclose a history of intrafamilial child sexual abuse on a prominent stage. Dating
back to the mid-1980s, Winfrey created a public platform for child abuse survivors to share their
experience and its impact. For nearly three decades, Winfrey has continued to feature stories that
2011). For instance, in 2010, she invited 200 adult male audience members to The Oprah
Winfrey Show stage to disclose that they were sexually abused as children. This episode
highlighted men’s specific struggles and resilience despite societal stigma against male-identified
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survivors of interpersonal violence. Recently, in Oprah Winfrey Presents: After Neverland,
Winfrey invited two adult male survivors of child sexual abuse, Wade Robson and James
Safechuck, before a live audience of survivors. Robson and Safechuck were the subjects of the
childhood sexual abuse by Michael Jackson. In her on-stage interviews with Robson and
Safechuck, Winfrey masterfully connected their act of public story-telling about personal abuse
to the potential for a collective cultural awakening to the pervasiveness of child abuse. In
[…T]he story is bigger […] than any one person […] It’s about this […] insidious
pattern that’s happening in our culture, that we refuse to look at […]. The reason the idea
of [a major public figure] committing sexual abuse against children challenges so many
people is because in every family, you have to face that some things are not the way they
appear to be. What people need to accept in their own families is that people can do good
things—they can be loving and helpful—and also be an abuser and a person who does
bad things. Both can be true. (Opperman & Winfrey, 2019)
Here Winfrey names perhaps the largest barrier to adult survivors of childhood trauma making
public disclosures and becoming advocates: collective societal disbelief that cherished adults
who are supposed to love and protect children in their care could instead harm them. By
connecting these men’s public stories with a larger societal problem that demands systemic
change, Winfrey helped to side-step some of the voyeurism (and political inaction) attached to
Both echoing and problematizing some of the redemptive themes described in this paper,
Winfrey allowed Robson and Safechuck the space to express a nuanced story about their
experiences. They shared a sense of appreciation for this moment of mutual connection with a
worldwide audience of survivors, and the hard truth that their healing is not finished. Robson
stated to the After Neverland audience: “As so many of you know, being a survivor is so
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isolating. At least it is for a really long time. So to be in this space with you guys, the brothers
and sisters in trauma and in triumph — that we’re standing, you know, and we’re here, I’m just
so grateful” (Harris, 2019, March 4). Safechuck concluded: “It’s going to be a lifelong journey
for me. When this ends and the attention is no longer on the film [Leaving Neverland], I’ve still
got to go on and deal with this. This will be for the rest of my life, you know? […] And I still
have a lot of work to do.” (Opperman & Winfrey, 2019). Redemption from interpersonal
violence promises a conclusion to the story, but perhaps a more accurate term is recovery: it
captures an inconclusive, “lifelong” journey. And it requests a collective bearing witness to the
trauma and ongoing suffering of survivors, a commitment not to close the book.
Conclusion
Violence perpetrated within relationships violates the victim’s trust and undermines
privileged societal expectations of a safe and “just world” (Furnham, 2003). This makes trauma
and its aftermath “hard to speak and hard to hear” for both victims and bystanders (Dalenberg,
2000, p. 57), presenting a special challenge for survivors and advocates who themselves have
experienced trauma. Their presence invites the public to attend to both a personal story of
trauma, and to the reality that trauma persists and must be addressed by means of collective
struggle. Although a redemptive arc from trauma “victim” to “survivor” and/or “advocate” can
offer a comforting sense of closure and empowerment, we have argued for increased attention to
those for whom the redemptive arc is constraining or unavailable for use.
In thinking toward how these ideas might inform future research, we offer some
complications on the developmental themes raised in this article. First, we have proceeded with
advocate. However, there are many potential developmental pathways from the experience of
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trauma. For example, some might go from traumatic experience to victim, some from experience
to victim to healing, some from experience to victim to survivor, some from experience to victim
to advocate to healing. And these individual trajectories may occur in tension with systemic or
collective trauma. Future longitudinal research can explore the multiple trajectories that
individuals may experience. Importantly, this research must include not only survivors who have
become advocates, but also those who have not. Beyond the question of how actual trajectories
overlap with culturally valued trajectories, there is the as-yet unanswered empirical question of
how distinct the roles of publicly-identified “survivor” and “advocate” really are. Our review of
the sparse available literature for this paper has revealed to us just how conflated the roles of
survivor and advocate are in the case of public storying of trauma, our area of emphasis.
developmental trajectories, and what the mechanisms are for travelling down these pathways.
For example, developmental pre-cursors of trauma-specific advocacy might include trauma type
movement along these trajectories might include therapy, coping patterns, compassion,
disclosure), social relationships, and the ability and willingness to recognize a political
dimension to one’s trauma. For survivors with marginalized identities, the violence they
experience is both systemic and interpersonal. Intersections of where violence occurs at systemic
and interpersonal levels can inform innovative paths of political organizing which can aid not
only an individual survivor, but also attempts to dismantle larger systems of oppression (Collins,
2017). Thus, there are likely individual, interpersonal and cultural pre-cursors and mechanisms
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for navigating these healing pathways, and they may overlap. For example, certain cultural
contexts may facilitate or constrain personal recognition of the political nature of one’s trauma.
Third, terms like pathway and trajectory suggest “growth” or something getting “better,”
a potential moral value judgment that we do not wish to impose on survivors. We conceive of
developmental trajectories here as movement through time, across the lifespan. Trauma will
change a person over time, but it can be in various dimensions, from growth to fragmentation,
for example. In contrast to the prescriptive feel-good valence of the redemptive arc in American
popular culture, we argue that “positive” emotions, despite their social desirability, are not the
apotheosis of growth. Importantly, the role of anger and indignation in trauma-related advocacy
(and survival) have yet to be explored fully by psychology as a discipline. In a powerful piece
describing her responses to racism, “The Uses of Anger,” Audre Lorde wrote:
Anger is a source of empowerment we must not fear to tap for energy […] I have tried to
learn my anger’s usefulness to me, as well as its limitations […] Black women are
expected to use our anger only in the service of other people’s salvation, other people’s
learning. But that time is over. My anger has meant pain to me but it has also meant
survival, and before I give it up I’m going to be sure that there is something at least as
powerful to replace it on the road to clarity. (Lorde, 1997, pp. 283-284)
We end on a note of both caution and celebration: cautious indignation that it should not
have to be the burden of survivors to advocate, while recognizing the profound courage and
compassion of those who commit to this role. In the words of Emily Waters, a survivor of sex
perpetrated by Catholic clergy, along with increased media attention to the sexual abuse of
children within the Catholic Church (Cheit, Shavit, & Reiss-Davis, 2010).
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At a very basic level these ideas are consistent with McAdams’ (McAdams & Guo,
2015) findings that those who have more redemptive life stories are also more generative. He
argues that being generative is hard work, and stories of redemption can sustain that hard work.
2018). Gómez writes: “(Intra)cultural pressure includes pressure from other minorities not to
disclose [within-group] trauma for fear that it would reflect negatively on the minority group and
even lead to societal trauma, such as unfair treatment in the judicial system. Therefore,
societal trauma. Unfortunately, it is a strategy that privileges the perceived needs of the
perpetrator(s) and/or minority group over the needs of the victims of cultural betrayal trauma”
Congressional reinstatement of the Violence Against Women Act in 2013, see Deer (2015), in the
section “Speaking truth: Native women fight back,” from The Beginning and the End of Rape:
Confronting Sexual Violence in Native Communities. In this landmark work, Deer also describes
AI/AN women’s stories of surviving sexual violence as an essential “part of rape reform […]”
(2015). She continues: “Indeed, there are accounts of the power of a single woman’s story to
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effect change [in tribal responses to rape] within her tribal government. Reclaiming and
understanding these stories are critical in developing a meaningful legal structure that is
responsive to the real experiences of contemporary indigenous women. The stories of survivors
are stories of despair and pain but also of strength and survival” (Deer, 2015).
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