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Listen to yourself, Bob.

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You follow her to work. You eavesdrop
on her calls. You open her mail.

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When you started doing these things,
the relationship was over.

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Thank you for your call.

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Roz, we have time for one more.

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Yes. On line four,
we have Russell from Kirkland.

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Hello, Russell, this is Dr. Frasier Crane.
I'm listening.

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'I've been feeling sort of,
you know, depressed lately.

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'My life's not going anywhere.
It's not that bad.

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'It's just, same old apartment,
same old job. Sometimes...'

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We're at the end of our hour.

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I'll cut to the chase
by using myself as an example.

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Six months ago, I was living in Boston.
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My wife had left me, which was
very painful.

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Then she came back to me,
which was excruciating.

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On top of that,
my practice had grown stagnant

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and my social life consisted
of hanging around a bar every night.

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I was clinging to a life
that wasn't working.

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I knew I had to do something, anything.

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So I ended the marriage and moved
back here to my hometown of Seattle.

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Go, Seahawks!

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I took action, Russell, and you can too.

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Move, change, do something.
If it's a mistake, do something else.

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Will you do that, Russell?

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Will you?

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Russell? I think we lost him.
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No, we cut to the news
30 seconds ago.

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Oh, for crying out loud!

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I bare my soul to Seattle.

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They're listening to
Chopper Dave's Rush Hour Roundup!

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The rest of the show was pretty good.
It was a good show, wasn't it?

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Your brother called.

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We call that "avoidance". Don't change
the subject. Tell me what you think.

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Did I ever tell you
what this button does?

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I am not a piece of Lalique.

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I can handle criticism.
How was I today?

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You dropped two commercials,
left a total of 28 seconds of dead air,

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scrambled the call letters,
spilt yogurt on the control board,

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and you kept referring to Jerry,
with the identity crisis, as "Jeff".

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You say my brother called?

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So I said to the gardener,
"Yoshi, I do not want a Zen garden.

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"If I want to rake gravel
every ten minutes for inner harmony,

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"I'll move to Yokohama."

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This offends him, so he starts
pulling up Maris' prized camellias.

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I couldn't stand for that.

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I marched inside and locked the door
until he cooled down.

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Would you have handled it differently?

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Sorry, Niles.
I didn't realize you'd stopped talking.

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You haven't heard a word!

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You're a shrink. You know how it is

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when people go on
about their mundane lives.

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Touch�. And on that subject,
I heard your show today.

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- And?
- You know my view of pop psychiatry.

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And everything. When was the last
time you had an unexpressed thought?

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I'm having one now.

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- You guys ready?
- Two cafe latt� supremos.

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No, thank you.

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So, Frasier,
how are you doing on your own?

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I'm fine. I love my new life.

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I love the solitude.
I miss Frederick, of course.

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He's playing goalie on the pee-wee
soccer team. Chip off the old block.

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- You hated sports.
- So does he!

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The fresh air's good for him.

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Well, this has been fun.

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- There's a problem we should discuss.
- Is it Dad?

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One of his old police buddies called.

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He went to see him
and found him on the bathroom floor.

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- Oh, my God!
- He's fine.

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- Is it his hip again?
- I don't think he can live alone now.

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What can we do?

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This won't be anyone's
favorite solution,

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but I took the liberty of checking out
a few convalescent homes for him.

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A home? He's still a young man.

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You can't take care of him.
You're getting your new life together.

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We were never <i>simpatico</i>.

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Of course, I can't take care of him.

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Oh, yes, of course. Why?

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- Dad doesn't get along with Maris.
- Who does?

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I thought you liked my Maris.

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I do. I like her from a distance.

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You know, the way you like the sun.
Maris is like the sun,

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except without the warmth.

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Well, then, we're agreed
about what to do with Dad.

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"Golden Acres.
We care so you don't have to."

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- It says that?
- It might as well.

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OK, I'll make up the spare bedroom.

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- You're a good son, Frasier.
- Oh, God, I am, aren't I?

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Two cafe supremos. Anything to eat?

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No, I seem to have lost my appetite.

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I'll have a large piece of cheesecake.

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- Hi!
- We finally made it.

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Dad, welcome to your new home.

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Gee, you look great.

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Don't BS me.
I do not look great.

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I spent Monday on the bathroom floor.

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You can still see
the tile marks on my face.

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Gives you some idea
about the ride over here.

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Here we are.

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Rest assured. The refrigerator
is stocked with your favorite beer.

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We've got hot links and coleslaw
and I rented a Charles Bronson movie.

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Cut the speech.
We all know why I'm here.

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I can't be alone without falling
on my ass and you're stuck with me.

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No, no!

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We have a chance to get reacquainted.

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That implies we were acquainted
at one point.

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Why don't I take Dad's things
into his new bachelor quarters

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so you scoundrels
can plan some high jinks?

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That wife of his is driving him nutso.

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Yes, we Crane boys
sure know how to marry.

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Let me get you a beer, Dad.

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What do you think
of what I've done with the place?

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Every item was carefully selected.
This lamp by Corbu, chair by Eames.

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This couch is a replica of the one
Coco Chanel had in her Paris atelier.

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- Nothing matches.
- It's a style of decorating. It's eclectic.

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If you've got
really fine pieces of furniture,

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it doesn't matter if they match.
They will go together.

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It's your money.

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Hey, that's the Space Needle there.

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Thanks for pointing that out. Being born
and raised here, I never woulda known.

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- Delivery for Martin Crane.
- In here.

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Excuse me! Wait a minute!

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- Where do you want it?
- Where's the TV?

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- In that credenza.
- Point it at that.

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- What about this chair?
- I'll move it.

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Careful! That's a Wassily!

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Dad, I'm sure this piece is dear to you,

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but I don't think
it goes with anything here.

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I know. It's eclectic.

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Niles, will you help me out here?
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I need an extension cord
to plug in the vibrating part.

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Yes, that will be the crowning touch.

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Now you're settled in, I've got to run.

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I'm late for my
dysfunctional family seminar.

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Dad, have you mentioned Eddie yet?

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- Eddie?
- Ta-ta.

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- No, not Eddie!
- He's my best friend. Get me my beer.

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He's weird. He gives me the creeps.
All he does is stare at me.

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It's your imagination.

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No, I'm sorry. I'm putting my foot down.
Eddie is not moving in here.

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Niles, sorry I'm late.

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As I was leaving, Dad decided to cook
lunch by the glow of a small kitchen fire.

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This last week with Dad,
it's been a living hell.

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Either my territory's being violated
or I worry about what he's up to.

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I'm a nervous wreck. I must calm down.
Double espresso, please.

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You don't still have the brochures
from those... those rest homes, do you?

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Of course I do. Don't forget,
Maris is five years older than I am.

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You really think that's necessary?

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Yes. I don't have my life any more.

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I gave up my tickets to the theater,
to the symphony...

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What about the opera?

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- Here.
- Thank you.

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You don't suppose there's a chance
that you and Maris could...?

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Maris and I were discussing this. We
should share the responsibility more.

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- You mean you'd take him in?
- Dear God, no!
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We'll help you pay
for a home care worker.

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Someone to cook, clean and
help Dad with his physical therapy.

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These angels exist?

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I know an agency.
I'll ask them to send a few people over.

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Niles, I can't thank you enough.
I feel this urge to hug you.

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Remember what Mom always said.
"A handshake is as good as a hug."

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Wise woman.

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I have never been more impressed
with a human being in my life.

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- What was wrong with that one?
- She was casing the joint.

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Casing the joint! She spent
two years with Mother Teresa.

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If I were Mother Teresa,
I'd check my jewelry box.

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This is the last one.
Try to keep an open mind.

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Hello.
Caught with me hand in the biscuit tin!

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- I'm Daphne. Daphne Moon.
- Frasier Crane. Please come in.

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My father, Martin Crane.
Dad, this is Daphne Moon.

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Nice to meet you.
Oh, and who might this be?

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That is Eddie.

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- I call him Eddie Spaghetti.
- He likes pasta?

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No, he has worms.

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- Have a seat, Miss Moon.
- Daphne. Thank you.

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Will you look at that?
What a comfy chair. I always say,

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"Start with a good piece, and
replace the rest when you can afford it."

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Perhaps you should start
by telling us about yourself.

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- I'm from Manchester, England.
- Really? Did you hear that, Dad?

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I'm three feet away.
There's nothing wrong with my hearing.

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I've only been in the US
for a few months,

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but I have an extensive background
in home care and physical therapy,

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as you can see from my r�sum�.

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You were a policeman, weren't you?

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- Yeah. How'd you know?
- I must confess I'm a bit psychic.

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It's nothing big.
Just little things I sense about people.

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It's not like I could pick the lottery.

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If I could, I wouldn't be talking
to the likes of you two now, would I?

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Yes.
Perhaps I should describe your duties.

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Wait. I'm getting something on you.
You're a florist.

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- No, I'm a psychiatrist.
- Well, it comes and goes.

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Usually it's strongest
during my time of the month.
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I guess I let a little secret out there.

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It's safe with us.

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We've learned all we need to know
about you. And a dash extra.

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You're a dog, aren't you?

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Well, we'll be calling you, Miss Moon.

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- You got the job.
- Wonderful!

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Aren't you forgetting something?
Shouldn't we talk about this in private?

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Of course. I completely understand.
I'll just pop into the loo.

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- You do have one, don't you?
- Yes.

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Oh, I love America.

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- Dad!
- You wanted me to pick one.

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- She's a kook. I don't like her.
- She'll only be here when you're not.

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Then what's my problem?
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Daphne!

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- You've been retained.
- Oh, wonderful! I had a premonition.

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Quelle surprise.

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I'll move my things in tomorrow.

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There must be some misunderstanding.
This isn't a live-in position.

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The lady at the agency...

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She was wrong. This is
a part-time position. It won't work out.

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- Let's talk about this.
- There's nothing to discuss.

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You should talk about this.
I'll just pop back in here

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and enjoy your African erotic art.

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- I think it would be best if you leave.
- Oh, all right.

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We'll contact you. If not by telephone,
then through the toaster.

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- I'm not having her living here.
- Why not?

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- There's no room for her!
- What about your study?

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That's where I read,
where I do my most profound thinking.

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Use the can like the rest of the world.

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You'll adjust.

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I've done enough adjusting.
I'm in a new city, I've got a new job.

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I'm separated from my little boy.

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And now my father
and his dog are living with me.

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The whole idea
of getting somebody in here

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was to help ease my burden,
not to add to it.

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- Eddie, we're a burden.
- You're twisting my words.

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I meant burden
in its most positive sense.

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As in "Gee, what a lovely burden"?

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- Something like that.
- It's not only you who got screwed.

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Two years ago, some punk
robbing a store put a bullet in my hip.

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I traded in my golf clubs
for one of these.

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I had plans, too. This may be a shock,
but one of them wasn't living with you.

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- I'm just trying to be the good son.
- Don't worry.

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- After I'm gone, you can live guilt-free.
- You think this is about guilt?

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- Isn't it?
- Of course it is! But I took you in.

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I wanted to do it
because you're my father!

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And how do you repay me?

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With a snide comment about this
or a smart little putdown about that.

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I've done my best to make a home
here for you.

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Just once would it have killed
you to say one lousy "thank you"?

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Come on, Eddie,
it's past your dinner time.

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I'm going out.

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They have got to move the bathroom
closer to the studio!

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We'll be back after these messages.
Can't I put that on tape?

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What's eating you?

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Sorry. It's this thing with my father
and this person he wants to hire.

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I thought I'd started my life
with a clean slate.

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I had a picture of what it was going
to be like and then... I don't know.

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Ever heard of Lupe Velez?

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- Who?
- Lupe Velez. A movie star in the '30s.

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Her career hit the skids so she decided
to make one final stab at immortality.

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She figured she'd at least be
remembered for the way she died.

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All Lupe wanted
was to be remembered.

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So she plans this lavish suicide.

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Flowers, candles, silk sheet,
white satin gown, full hair and make-up.

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She takes the overdose of pills,
lays on the bed

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and imagines how beautiful
she'll look on tomorrow's front page.

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Unfortunately, the pills don't set well
with the enchilada combo plate

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she sadly chose as her last meal.

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She trips in the bathroom,

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goes head-first into the toilet.
That's how they found her.

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Is there a reason
you're telling me this story?

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Yes. Even if things may not happen like
we planned, they can work out anyway.

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Remind me of how it worked for Lupe,
last seen with her head in the toilet.

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All she wanted was to be remembered.
Will you ever forget that story?
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We're back. Roz, who's our next caller?

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We have Martin on line one.
He's having a problem with his son.

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Hello, Martin. This is Dr. Frasier Crane.
I'm listening.

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'I'm a first-time caller.'

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Welcome to the show.
How can I help you?

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'I moved in with my son,
and it ain't working.

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'There's a lot of tension between us.'

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I can imagine.
Why do you think that's so?

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'I guess I didn't see he had
a whole new life planned for himself.

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'I kind of got in the way.'

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These things are a two-way street.

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Perhaps your son wasn't sensitive
in seeing how your life was changing.

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'You've got that right! I've been telling
him that ever since I got there!'
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I'm sure he appreciated your candor.

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'Sometimes
I oughta keep my trap shut.'

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That's good advice for us all.

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Anything else?

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'I'm worried my son doesn't know that
I appreciate what he's done for me.'

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Why don't you tell him?

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'You know how it is
with fathers and sons.

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'They have trouble saying that stuff.'

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Well, if it helps, I suspect
your son already knows how you feel.

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- Is that all?
- 'Yeah. Thank you, Dr. Crane.'

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- My pleasure, Martin.
- 'You hear that? I said thank you!'

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Yes, I heard.

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Dr. Crane? Claire on line four is having
a problem getting over a relationship.
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Hello, Claire. I'm listening.

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'I'm, er...

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'Well, I'm a mess!

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'Eight months ago my boyfriend and I
broke up. I just can't get over it.

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'The pain isn't going away. It's like
I'm in mourning or something.'

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Claire, you are in mourning.

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But you're not mourning
the loss of your boyfriend.

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You're mourning the loss of what
you thought your life was going to be.

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Let it go. Things don't always
work out how you plan.

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That's not necessarily bad.

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Things have a way
of working out anyway.

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Have you ever heard of Lupe Velez?

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Good night, Seattle, we love you!