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WITH GUILT
AND SHAME
GUILT
• a negative AFFECTIVE STATE usually experienced
as a result of having done something (by action
or omission) that is perceived to be wrong, and
that is focused on the condemnation of oneself
• Bothered conscience
GUILT
Researches support the notion that guilt can
play a positive role in the development of
VIRTUOUS CHARACTER.
Guilt can elicit reflection on a wrongful action,
perspective-taking with the one injured, and
empathy that results in concern for them for
their own sake
SHAME
• an emotion (negative evaluation of self)
that is closely related to guilt,
• defined as "a painful emotion caused by
consciousness of guilt, shortcoming, or
impropriety.
Both S H A M E and G U I LT can
have intensive implications for our
perceptions of self and our behavior
toward other people, particularly in
situations of conflict.
Guilt can take many forms:
• Remorse for actions done
previously
• Shame directed toward other
people
• Fear of rejection by others
• Self -condemnation
Some of the experiences of guilt arise from breaking of
a moral obligation and therefore fall within the realm of
ETHICS.
However, there are many other experiences of guilt
which are not in the moral sphere at all for they are
not connected with the responsible violation of any
true moral obligation but arise because of other
PSYCHOLOGICAL OR SOCIAL REASONS.
TYPES OF GUILT
A. SHAME
1. Hesitancy to assert oneself
2. A feeling of shame for a
particular inner feeling
3. Shame for what others might be
thinking
TYPES OF GUILT
B.FEAR
1. A fear of Rejection by
parents and family
2. Fear of rejection by society
TYPES OF GUILT
C . FAU LT
1. A feeling of guilt for a mistake
2. A sense of self-rejection
3. A sense of being uncomfortable with “one’s shadow”
4. A sense of remorse for having betrayed a personal moral
rule
5. A sense of remorse for violating a human relationship
6. A sense of guilt for a failure in one’s responsibility to
others
7. A sense of remorse for having betrayed one’s own self
8. A sense of guilt for being involved in the fault of a group
9. A sense of remorse for having ignored God in one’s life
The presentation of all these guilt feelings raises
some thought-provoking questions:
• How do we deal with all of these feelings of guilt?
• Are guilt feelings good or bad?
• On what basis do we judge guilt feelings as good
or bad?
• How do we decide whether we are
experiencing TRUE guilt or FALSE guilt?
T RU E a n d FA L S E G
U I LT
WHAT DO WE DO WITH OUR FEELINGS
OF GUILT?
T RU E a n d FA L S E G
U I LT
Principles to distinguish FALSE guilt from
TRUE guilt:
1. For there to be true guilt, there must exist a
VALID OBLIGATION that applies to you.
Obligation arising
from a valid moral
source. (natural law,
divine law etc.)
T RU E a n d FA L S E G
U I LT
3. Examine the origins of your guilt – Is the reason that you feel
guilt rational and reasonable? Inappropriate or irrational guilt
involves feeling guilty in relation to something that in reality you
had little or nothing to do with.
HOW TO COPE WITH FEELINGS OF
GUILT
5. Clarify new values for yourself and take realistic action in the present
instead of dwelling on the past. Think about positive action you can
take in your life now to feel better. What can you do to improve things
going forward?
HOW TO COPE WITH FEELINGS OF
GUILT
9. AVOID SHAME
Shame is about SELF-BLAME and is directly
linked to low self-esteem. Shame most
often comes from the negative messages
we may receive as children from our family