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Communication
by Sandra J. Bailey, Ph.D., CFLE, Family and Human Development Specialist
GOOD FAMILY RELATIONS ARE BUILT ON STRONG Our posture sends nonverbal messages to the other
communication, helping create and keep strong family person. Sitting at the same level with a person is less
ties. This is true for how we talk with any family member. threatening. This is also true if you are at the same eye
Communication is how we send and receive messages level. Using these techniques, you have a better chance of
in ways that create understanding between individuals. It engaging in a meaningful conversation. It is important to
is what we say and how we say it. Most communication avoid crossing your arms because this can be interpreted
is nonverbal. Our body language, the expressions on our as someone who is angry or upset. For example, save
face, and tone of voice give the receiver more information nonverbal cues like crossed arms for when you are trying
than what is verbally said. to be firm when your teen breaks an important family rule.
Family Meetings
Family meetings are a chance for family members to
discuss family issues. Topics you might include are
schedules, events, and/or problems. Family meetings
can also be used to celebrate accomplishments! There
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are many ways to have a family meeting. Some are more style; however it is not as effective when information
formal than others. Make sure all family members can needs to get to everyone quickly.
attend. Let family members know the agenda of the Technology has changed how we communicate
meeting and include a spot for additional agenda items. with family members. We can send messages to others
Have ground rules. Ground rules might include regardless of where we are. While the communication
• no interrupting others patterns listed above may still apply, when texting or
• no yelling or swearing emailing individuals are unable to assess nonverbal
communication. This can cause misunderstanding, even
• no putting others down
if one is including emojis! Be mindful of how messages
• use “I” statements may be interpreted when using technology. Follow up in
• a willingness to listen to another’s point of view person whenever possible.
• end the meeting with a fun activity such as a board Families with good communication use a mix of
game, a family snack, or a walk together communication networks. That is because each type of
You might want to select a family member to facilitate network can be useful in a specific situation. What is
the meeting. Some families have one person who writes important is that all family members feel heard and valued.
down what was decided at the meeting as a reminder.
Acknowledgements
We would like to thank the following individuals who
reviewed an earlier draft of this guide.
- Sheila Friedrich, Chouteau County Extension Agent
- Tara Andrews, Custer County Extension Agent
- Katrin Finch, Cascade County Extension Agent
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