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Miley
YOUR
Like You’ve
Never
Seen Her
WAY
Kisses,
THE
#GOALS
Touches
& Positions ISSUE
Secrets From Beauty,
To Satisfy Fashion & Fitness
Your Body— Influencers
?
Get It, Girl!
“My
Last Gum
Will
Love Got
ell If Stuck
w to T in His
Ho Junk!”
Hilarious
Tales of
Sex Gone
Wrong
Cosmo Exposé
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( 2 ) ; J A S O N L L O Y D - E V A N S ( 3 ) ; S . A L E M D A R / G E T T Y I M A G E S ; J A S O N L L O Y D - E V A N S ; S E A N Z A N N I / G E T T Y I M A G E S ; J A S O N L L O Y D - E V A N S ; I V A N L A T T U A D A / I M A X T R E E ( 2 ) ; J A S O N L L O Y D E V A N S . T O P : M I L L Y , S H O P B O P. C O M .
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S E P T E M B E R 2 017
THE
#GOAL S
IS SUE
COVER
S TORIES
29 “My Gum
Got Stuck in
His Junk!”
Hilarious tales of
sex gone wrong
96 How to Tell If
Love Will Last
113 Hot Hair
and Makeup
Trends
133
P H O T O G R A P H E D B Y E L L E N V O N U N W E R T H . P R O P S T Y L I S T: E VA N J O U R D E N . P R O D U C T I O N : V I E W F I N D E R S . H O T E L : T H O M P S O N N A S H V I L L E .
Miley Like
You’ve
Never Seen
TOP, JEANS, Jonathan Her
Simkhai. INITIAL 160 Sex…Your Way
NECKLACE, EAR CUFFS,
Kisses, touches
Miley’s own.
NECKLACE, Shay. & positions to
EARRINGS, Selim satisfy your body—
Mouzannar get it, girl!
186 Cosmo Exposé
Why women are
hit with more
student debt
than men are
FE ATURE S
142 6 Ways to Step
Up Your Style
148 Powerfully Pretty
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160 A: Top, jeans, Jonathan Simkhai.
Initial necklace, ear cuffs, Miley’s
own. Necklace, Shay. Earrings, ring,
T H AT T H E M O D E L S A C T U A L LY E N G A G E I N T H E C O N D U C T D I S C U S S E D I N T H E S T O R I E S T H E Y I L L U S T R AT E . S E E PA G E 1 9 9 F O R S H O P P I N G I N F O R M AT I O N .
D E W E Y N I C K S . T H E M O D E L S P H O T O G R A P H E D I N C O S M O P O L I TA N A R E U S E D F O R I L L U S T R AT I V E P U R P O S E S O N LY; C O S M O P O L I TA N D O E S N O T S U G G E S T
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in ever y issue Jeremy Scott. Necklace, earrings,
bracelet, ring (right hand), Selim
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EDITOR-IN-CHIEF, MICHELE here (hint: #PizzaGoals).
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PAO
The underdog who
EVERYWHERE
by Celeste Ng fearlessly took on
An act of arson two Silicon Valley
forces the resi- boys’ clubs pens an
dents of a subur- inspiring memoir.
ban haven to
realize that their Pao made headlines
IMPOSSIBLE VIEWS existence is when she sued her
OF THE WORLD nowhere near powerful venture-
by Lucy Ives as idyllic as it capital firm for dis-
Diehard Da Vinci seems. crimination, then
Code fans will find
resigned from her next
a new heroine in
job—CEO of bro-
Stella, the code-
cracking art curator
centric website Red-
at the center of this dit—due to ongoing
clever mystery. gendered attacks. In
her new book, Reset,
she gets real about
fighting the system.
WHAT WAS YOUR LOWEST
POINT, AND HOW DID YOU
GET THROUGH IT? “Work-
ing at my firm after fil-
ing the lawsuit was the
hardest experience. I
was cut out of the loop
on e-mails, hallway
conversations, invest-
FRIEND REQUEST ments, and hiring deci-
by Laura sions. People even
Marshall moved when I sat by
Just try to keep the them at meetings. To
chills away when
Louise gets a Face-
cope, I had to focus on
book request from a getting through the
“friend” who’s been next 30 minutes,
dead for 25 years. instead of the six hours
left in the day.”
HOW DID YOU GET THE
THE BEST KIND OF NERVE TO GO UP AGAINST A
PEOPLE GIANT IN YOUR INDUSTRY?
by Zoe Whittall “I never doubted my
A prep-school sex decision to speak out,
scandal sparks a despite the firm’s bil-
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“I’ve learned that it’s
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COSMO
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are just trying to get
some. But then you
realize, ‘Oh, shit.
GUY
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entirely different
JAY ELLIS experience.’”
SWEET MUSIC
“I wouldn’t change
HE HAS EVERYONE BUZZING AS anything about how
THE SLACK-ADAISICAL BUT I lost my virginity. I
mean, who wouldn’t
CHARMING BOYFRIEND OF ISSA
want to have lasted
RAE ON HBO’S INSECURE (AIRING
longer? But at the
SUNDAYS AT 10:30 P.M.). time, she was the
BY R AC H E L M O S E LY
right girl for me, and
I was the right dude
for her. I was in high
school at a friend’s
party, and they had
a room full of gui-
tars. I’m so tall,
I knocked over one
guitar, and it had a
domino effect.”
DON’T ASK,
DON’T TELL
“If I’ve been cheated
on, I don’t want to
know. Unless it’s
constant and
everyone’s like, ‘Yo,
your girl was at my
house last night!’—
that I can’t do. But if
it was one time
when we were apart
for several months,
I don’t want to
know. I’m not strong
enough to handle
it and stay in
the relationship.”
GIMME SOME
KIMMY
PHOTOGR APHED BY TEDDY NGUYEN.
“I love Unbreakable
Kimmy Schmidt.
That show is so
damn funny to me.
I’ll get on my couch
with a blanket to
watch it. I think I’m
a Kimmy. I’m less
naive, but I’m pretty
optimistic.”
26
CONFESSIONS Cosmo
readers reveal
their most
embarrassing,
ridiculous,
what-was-I-
thinking
moments.
“One night, my
friend and I
went to a party
where we didn’t
know anyone.
Eventually, I
found a guy I
was interested
in, and I could
tell he felt the
same. We
started kissing,
and someone
shouted at him,
‘You have a girl-
friend!’ I
stopped right
away and left. I
wasn’t trying to
be a cheater!
Outside, we saw
a girl crying
and realized
she was the girl-
friend. I feel so
bad about the
whole thing
that I’ve kept it
a secret!”
—ISABELLA R., 19, STUDENT,
MIAMI, FL
G E T T Y I M A G E S ( 4 ) . C O N F E S S I O N S M AY H AV E B E E N E D I T E D F O R L E N G T H , C O N T E N T, O R C L A R I T Y.
inside, it was also a had to hold
mixed sauna. So I the phone up to
took this moment
where I was like, ‘I’m
his ear while
just going to have to he talked to
own this. Pretend her. Needless
like you meant to
do it.’ I walked in
to say, it killed
and just sat there. the mood.”
—JENN C., 21
And the funniest
thing is that every-
one walked out of
the steam room.
I had the place to
myself. Didn’t do
it again though! I
think you just have
to own those awful
moments.”
—BEN ROBSON,
ANIMAL KINGDOM
DOUCHE-O-METER
Then his train back home
UM, NO wasn’t for a while, so I had to
avoid his sexual advances.”
CHECK,
PLEASE —NICOLE K., 24
SO
OFFENSIVE
“I was working as a social-
EPIC FAIL media manager but nannied
on the side for extra cash.
LITERALLY
DERANGED
Anyway, I went on a date
with a guy, and when we
were talking about my job,
he goes, ‘Wait, so you, like,
babysit?’ And I said, ‘Well,
I nanny for extra money.’
He replied, ‘I told my room-
mate I thought you were
stupid because you are 25
and you babysit.’ We sat
in awkward silence the rest
of the time.”
—SOPHIE L., 25
much I put down, he says, ‘Aren’t you going to give her more? I know her.’ and he shouted, ‘Well, at
I’d given her 20 percent—calm down.” —DANIELLE N., 24 least I’m prepared!’ Ew.”
—BETSY H., 30
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Why BETHANY
IS NO
I’m on
LONGER
IN A FEED
FRENZY.
a Digital
Diet
One of social media’s biggest stars
ponders something radical: documenting
a little less and living life a little more.
BY BETHANY MOTA
we ’ ve all been there : out with post it online. And if I did take pic- thereof), you’re actually taking your-
friends at an amazing restaurant, and tures but they weren’t great, I’d be so self out of the moment—and it is
everyone is Snapping and Instagram- bummed about it because I felt like it bound to lead to disappointment. It’s
ming and no one’s looking up from didn’t fit this certain standard for me too easy to get wrapped up in what
their phones. Don’t get me wrong, to post. There would be this lingering our lives look like to other people…
I don’t think it’s a bad thing to docu- feeling, like Oh, I didn’t get the shot, the people who aren’t even with you
ment the things you do. After all, I even if I’d had the best time ever! at that awesome restaurant. And it’s
started my YouTube channel at The truth is, I was never fully pres- the ones there who really matter.
13 as a way to express myself, and at ent. I wasn’t building bonds with peo- I’m not saying I’ll be going dark
the age of 21, I’m still at it on every ple, and I wasn’t happy. I had to ask on social media anytime soon. Again,
social-media platform. So, yeah, I myself who “the shot” was for anyway. I love it, and I understand its impor-
love sharing my life. But at a cer- Was I taking it to impress somebody? tance for my career. But every day,
tain point—maybe it was at one of Or did I really just want to capture the it’s important for my emotional well-
those hangouts where everyone was moment because it meant something being that I fit in at least five min-
checked out on their phones—I real- to me? When I would post something, utes where I close my eyes and allow
ized I was giving it too much power. I found myself worrying about what myself to be at one with my thoughts.
I found myself feeling like I had to specific people would think—like the I also do my best to minimize the
share everything I did. And I mean person I was crushing on or my digi- time I have my phone out when I’m
everything: from my morning cap- tal audience. It was a bad mind-set, with friends or family, because it
puccino to my favorite red sneakers to because to think that way is essentially starts to consume me and then I stop
the latest inspo quote I came across. to live your life for others. So lately, I’ve using all my senses to fully experi-
I even started to feel guilty if I just been trying something radical: docu- ence what’s happening. And if I do
went to the movies for fun, like What menting a little less and living life a lit- feel compelled to share what I’m
could I be doing on social media? tle more. The first time I went to a cool doing at that very minute, I’ll post,
Sometimes, I went places for the sole coffee shop and the beach and didn’t put the phone away, and check back
reason of showing other people on document the whole thing, I was like, later…after I’ve had a good time
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“STEAL
THE SHOW” HAIR
24H HOLD
ULTRA FINE MIST.
WORK IT
Get All
the Likes SNAG ONE (OR SEVERAL!) OF THESE
ACCESSORIES TO MAKE ANY OUTFIT THAT
MUCH MORE EYE-CATCHING.
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+ Kylie, $135,
bloomingdales.com
er.
2. BOOTIES, Circus
e xi
by Sam Edelman,
like soccer socks but look way s
$80, circusbysam
edelman.com
3. BAG, ASOS, $40,
asos.com
4. CROSS-BODY BAG,
Furla, $378, furla
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Topshop, $75,
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Christian Roth,
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Erickson USA, $48, a
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ct.
2. SHOES, Bill Blass,
$198, billblass.com
3. HANDBAG, Kate
Romantic
Spade New York,
$498, katespade
.com
Overtones
4. BOOTIES, Kenneth
Cole, $129,
lordandtaylor.com
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STYLE TOP, Elizabeth
and James, $295,
nordstrom.com
TOP,
Prabal
Gurung.
BRIEFS,
Hanes
BAG, Lulus,
$37, lulus
.com
DRESS, Banana
Republic, $128,
bananarepublic
.com
FRIDAY
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DRINKS
Ditch basic black and
radiate in baby blue and
millennial pink that let you
skip the filter and go
straight to Share.
SKIRT, Scotch
& Soda,
$98, scotch- RING,
soda.com Pandora
Jewelry,
#WeekendGoals
$115,
estore-us
.pandora
.net
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STYLE T-SHIRT, Alexa
Chung, $100,
alexachung.com
SATURDAY
HANG
Take evening accessories
out for a spin during daylight
hours. Dangling earrings
make jeans and a tee
look way more
adult.
T-SHIRT,
Rebecca
Minkoff.
JEANS,
Mother.
EARRINGS,
Ashley
Williams
A N I TA S A L E R N O FO R R J B E N N E T T R E P R E S E N T S . A L L OT H E R S: C O U R T E SY B R A N D S .
FA S H I O N S T I L L S ( O L D N A V Y, M I S S M E J E A N ) : S T U A R T T Y S O N / S T U D I O D . S T Y L I S T:
JEANS, Miss SWEATSHIRT, Old
Me, $99, Navy, $30,
missme.com oldnavy.com
EARRINGS, Officina
Bernardi, $265,
call 212-273-
0797 for info
SNEAKERS,
Lidl, $25,
Lidl stores
HANDBAG, Vera
Bradley, $198,
verabradley.com
FOR ALL
INVISIBLE
STYLE
TOP,
Banana
Republic.
BRIEFS, Fifi
Chachnil
HANDBAG, Who
What Wear, $30,
target.com
BRUNCH gap.com
Pajama-striped shirting
and drawstring pants let
you roll out of bed already
dressed. Just don’t
forget to brush!
SHOES,
Gunmetal,
$80, dsw WATCH, Citizen Watch,
.com $275, citizenwatch.com
JACKET, T.J.
Maxx, $20,
tjmaxx.tjx
.com
CROP TOP,
Boohoo.com,
$24, boohoo
.com
UNDER
Forever 21,
$9, forever
21.com
$50
Cultivate a look that’s anything PURSE, Like
Dreams, $41,
but garden variety in rose- likedreamsusa
embroidered denim pieces— .com
so fresh!
MINISKIRT,
PrettyLittle
CROSS-BODY Thing, $35,
BAG, Boohoo prettylittle
.com, $30, thing.com
boohoo.com
MAIN HOLDING: @THRIF T SANDTHRE ADS. DRE S S: ST UAR T
JEANS, P R O T IP
Lulus,
$39, lulus “WITH MULES,
.com GO FOR A
T I G H T E R F I T.
IT KEEPS FEET
FROM SLID -
I N G O U T.”
MINIDRESS, MULES, Mix
Forever 21, $25, No. 6, $30,
BRANDS.
Aeyung Kim,
forever21.com dsw.com fashion editor
@Aeyung
Tonight
looks chic in an ivory
palette. A peek of
bandeau keeps things
interesting.
SHOP 1
THE
LOOK
H O L D I N G S : G E T T Y I M A G E S ( 3 ) . PA N T S : S T U A R T T Y S O N / S T U D I O D ; S T Y L I S T: A N I TA
1. TOP, H&M
Conscious, $50,
#HairGoals
CRAVING A NEW CUT? IT’S SEPTEMBER.…OF COURSE YOU ARE. SATISFY THE URGE—NO REGRETS!—
WITH THESE STYLES, PICKED BY SOME OF THE BEST STYLISTS IN THE HAIR BIZ.
BY ERIN STOVALL 57
BEAUTY
JESSICA BIEL
L’Oréal Professionnel
ambassador and
co-owner of Ramirez
Tran Salon in L.A.
JESSICA, ZOË: GET T Y IMAGES (2). PORTRAITS: COURTESY SUBJECTS. BE AUT Y STILLS: COURTESY BRANDS.
(shorter in the any other cut, says
middle, longer at Nikki.
the sides) that
graze your brows NAIL THIS LOOK
feel relaxed and Always prep
super modern,” with a smoothing
says Anh. heat protectant
(Nikki likes this one
NAIL THIS LOOK from Amika). Then
When it comes to
prepping with PIXIE blow-dry with a
comb attachment
product, too much Nikki Nelms, (it’ll help smooth
can make fringe fall L’ORÉAL @NikkiNelms, your strands, so
flat. L’Oréal PROFESSIONNEL celebrity
Tecni.Art Dual you don’t have to
Professionnel’s
Stylers Liss &
hairstylist do as many passes
gel-cream combo Pump-Up, $28, with your flat iron),
pulls double duty to us.loreal and go in afterward
add volume and professionnel.com
with an ultrathin
preempt frizz. straightener
When you blow-dry, (travel-size ones
use the concentra- are clutch) to tame
tor nozzle to dry any strays.
bangs to the left,
and then to the right
to tame cowlicks
ZOË KRAVITZ
LILY COLLINS
make every woman
iron until the
stand out, he says.
bottom layer is
NAIL THIS LOOK done. Continue
For glasslike shine, on to the top layers,
work a heat then hit roots
protectant spiked with lifting spray
with coconut oil for extra body.
L I LY, K H L O É , C H R I S S Y: G E T T Y I M A G E S ( 3 ) . P O R T R A I T S : C O U R T E S Y S U B J E C T S . B E A U T Y S T I L L S : C O U R T E S Y B R A N D S .
(like Mizani’s)
through towel-dried
strands. For max MIZANI
smoothness, Thermasmooth
blow-dry with a Sleek Guard
Smoothing Cream,
paddle brush and $18, ulta.com
go over face-
framing pieces with
a flat iron.
L’ORÉAL PARIS
Advanced
Hairstyle Boost It
High Lift Creation
CHRISSY TEIGEN
Spray, $5,
SHAGGY lorealparisusa.com
CROP
Jen Atkin,
@JenAtkinHair,
celebrity hairstylist and
founder of Ouai Haircare WHY JEN LOVES IT “It offers lots of sexy movement,”
says Jen, and “it’s a great way to transition out of a shorter cut.”
NAIL THIS LOOK Texture is key, so flip your head over and
rough-dry strands with your fingers and a blow-dryer until they’re
80 percent dry. Then rub a dime-size amount of pomade
between your palms (it makes it more flexible) and work it through
OUAI Matte Pomade, hair for piece-y, bedhead vibes. Let it air-dry the rest of
$24, theouai.com the way and you’re good to go.
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BEAUTY
TRIANGULAR
CURLS
Larry Sims,
@LarryJarahSims,
Schwarzkopf
celebrity hairstylist WHY SARAH LOVES IT
This cut is so
versatile (meaning
you can style it a
hundred ways)—
and subtle layers
give hair natural
movement too.
NAIL THIS LOOK
Spray a lightweight
GABRIELLE UNION
oil from your
mid-lengths to
ends to prevent
frizz (skip the
roots—long hair is
easily weighed
down). Then twist
WHY LARRY LOVES IT
hair into two loose
It’s the easiest way
topknots to
to embrace your
create a slightly
natural texture.
beachy texture.
“Plus, it has an ’80s
Once dry, undo
quality to it with big,
the buns, and use a
voluminous curls
one-inch wand to
that fall around your
touch up any
GABRIELLE, LEA: GET T Y IMAGES (2). PORTRAITS: COURTESY SUBJECTS. BEAUT Y STILLS: COURTESY BRANDS.
face,” says Larry.
unruly patches.
NAIL THIS LOOK
The more moistur-
ized your curls are,
the more definition
you’ll have. Smooth
a leave-in condi-
tioner all over to SCHWARZKOPF Gliss
hydrate (use a Hair Repair Oil
wide-tooth comb to Nutritive
distribute it from Weightless Oil,
$5.50, target.com
root to tip), then dry
with a diffuser from
the ends up to the
root. (Optional:
Pull the top half into
a bun to accentuate
the cut’s shape.)
Finish with a spritz
of lightweight ALTERNA HAIRCARE
oil for extra shine. Caviar Anti-Aging
Omega+ Anti-Frizz
LEA MICHELE
LONG LAYERS
Sarah Potempa, @SarahPotempa,
celebrity hairstylist
and creator of the Beachwaver
62 _ COSMOPOLITAN _ SEPTEMBER 2017
BEAUTY
Cleanse
“I tell every person I see to
#SkinGoals
use a gentle cleanser,” says
Darden. “Too-harsh, sulfate-
heavy formulas often make
skin dry—which can lead
to dullness.” Simple Skin-
Our trusted influencers agree: Finding the right care’s version skips strong
routine—and committing to it—is the single most effective way surfactants for a combo of
to get a gorgeous complexion. hydrating plant extracts and
BY L AUREN BAL SAMO micelles (cleansing bubbles
that attract dirt and oil with-
out stripping skin).
1. SIMPLE SKINCARE Water Boost
Micellar Gel Wash, $8, drugstores
YOUR GOAL
A SEXY Treat
Darden recommends using
GLOW her nightly retinol serum to
even tone and boost glow.
Three times a week, sub
in Dr. Dennis Gross’s peel
pads to dissolve dead skin
cells, which allows light to
bounce off your face evenly.
2. RESURFACE BY SHANI DARDEN
L.A.’s most Retinol Reform, $95,
sought-after facialist, shanidarden.com
Shani Darden, @ShaniDarden, 3. DR. DENNIS GROSS Alpha Beta
Universal Daily Peel, $88 for 30
(she’s behind Jessica Alba’s packettes, drdennisgross.com
and Rosie Huntington-
Whitely’s red-carpet
radiance), spills the secrets Moisturize
to luminosity. When it comes to hydra-
tion, it’s all about hyalu-
ronic acid, says Darden.
HA (try it in Garnier’s gel
cream) acts like a sponge—
soaking up to 1,000 times
its weight in moisture and
binding it to the skin.
4. GARNIER SKINACTIVE Moisture MAIN HOLDINGS PHOTOGRAPHED BY RUBÉN VEGA. BEAUT Y COMPOSITIONS:
Bomb the Antioxidant Super JEFFRE Y WE STBROOK /STUDIO D. PORTR AITS: COURTE SY SUB JECTS.
2.
Use steam to soften
skin and open pores.
Before you squeeze, take a
hot shower, stand
Treat over a sinkful of hot water,
Retinol isn’t just a glow get- or apply a hot compress.
ter. It’s also one of the most 3.
effective ways to treat acne. Forgo fingers for a
“It regulates skin-cell turn- comedone extractor.
over to reduce blackheads, Center one of the holes on
whiteheads, and cysts,” the metal instrument
(below) over your breakout
says Dr. Lee. We love Dif-
and press down.
ferin’s gel, which contains “The even pressure will
a specific retinoid called push the clog out
adapalene that is easily without traumatizing the
skin,” says Dr. Lee.
tolerated by the skin. In
addition to retinol, using a 4.
sulfur mask (like Algenist’s) Set a timer!
once a week can help draw “If you can’t get your
YOUR GOAL out excess oil from pores to pimple out in 30 seconds
ZERO
or less—hands off,” says
prevent clogs. Dr. Lee. Forcing it can
2. DIFFERIN GEL, $30, drugstores cause scarring or infection.
BREAK- Cleanse
3. ALGENIST Perfect Clarifying Pore
Corrector Mask, $55, algenist.com 5.
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BEAUTY
WHAT
YOUR GOAL ABOUT
SMOOTH Cleanse
Opt for an exfoliating
Treat
“If you want smoother skin,
BOTOX?
Dr. Lancer—who
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Subtle color.
Not-so-subtle lips.
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BEAUTY
#ManiGoals
Detailed nails are back—and actually DIY-able this time.
BY PAIGE STABLE S
PAINT
LIKE
STRIPE RIGHT A PRO
TIBI
Julie Kandalec,
celeb nail artist
(Emma Roberts
is a reg) and
ONE AND DONE creative director
of NYC’s trendy
Proof that less is more: salon Paintbox,
A vibrant pop on your pointer fingers shares her
is all it takes to nail this look. artsy hacks.
JINSOON Nail Lacquer in Charme,
$18, jinsoon.com Don’t Skimp on Prep
Smooth ridges with
a buffer, remove oils
with a swipe of pure
TRACY REESE
acetone (non-ace-
tone-based remover
contains moisturiz-
ers that cut paint’s
H O L D I N G S : C O U R T E S Y B R A N D S . ( D I O R V E R N I S ) C A R I S S A L A N C A S T E R . P O R T R A I T: C O U R T E S Y S U B J E C T,
life span), then apply
a base coat.
Steady Your Hands
Instead of resting
your nails on a
DARE TO PAIR table—which places
your hand down-
Double-down on the cool factor ward (shake city!)—
by painting pinkies silver and position the hand
everything else black. Craving more? palms up (tips
ULLA JOHNSON
ONLY
Copper bristles:
tough on tangles but
flexible enough to
avoid breakage.
GOODY Clean Radiance
$10!
Paddle Brush, $7,
walmart.com
Budget-friendly buys
for a kick-ass fall
#TBT TIPS
BY ERIN STOVALL Paint on this shim-
mery shade and
party like it’s 1999.
ESSIE Nail Polish in
Dressed to the Nine-
GLOW CRAZY ties, $9, essie.com
This highlighter will
keep skin lit well past
Labor Day.
MILANI Strobelight
Instant Glow Powder
in Afterglow, $10,
milanicosmetics.com
FRIDAY NIGHT
MAGIC ERASER LASHES
The fastest fix for a Cool wand. Full
cat eye gone rogue: lashes. Can’t lose.
makeup-melting CATRICE Rock
swabs. Couture Extreme
MILK MAKEUP Charcoal HEAVY METAL Volume Mascara,
Cotton Swabs, $7, $8, ulta.com
A next-gen matte
milkmakeup.com lippie with an
insanely sexy finish.
MAYBELLINE NEW YORK
Color Sensational
Matte Metallics in
Copper Rose, $7,
drugstores
J E F F R E Y W E S T B R O O K / S T U D I O D . C O U R T E S Y B R A N D S : M I L K M A K E U P, G O O D Y .
NICE PACKAGE
A pretty pouch
that’s worthy of
your beauty babies.
GOOD HEARTED
Show your skin some
SONIA KASHUK Soft love with this gentle
Cosmetic Case in cleansing sponge.
Painterly Floral,
$8, target.com ONE LOVE ORGANICS Rose
Clay Heart Cleansing
Sponge, $10, onelove
organics.com
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BEAUTY
GO CHROME...
At home! Using this kit, paint
nails black, then buff on the
holographic powder. A swipe
of the transforming polish
and top coat ensure you’ll
nail the look sans salon.
SALLY HANSEN
Salon Trend
Chrome Kit in
Holographic,
$20, Ulta
MAGIC BULLETS
Lip art may be the new nail
art, but few of us can do
a geode like @Beyou.Byjoh
M A I N I M A G E : G E T T Y I M A G E S . B E A U T Y S T I L L S : J E F F R E Y W E S T B R O O K / S T U D I O D ; ( O LY M P I A’ S W O N D E R L A N D ) C O U R T E S Y B R A N D ; ( N A I L I N S E T ) A L L I E H O L L O W AY.
(look her up!). Enter these
tricolor lipsticks that create
perfect ombré in a swipe.
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GOLD. Legendary Triple Tone
Lipstick, $24 each, Sephora
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Leave it to Charlotte
SEXY THIS
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easiest-ever contour duo:
Squeezable tubes release
color (dark for hollows,
light for cheekbones) onto
a cushion-tipped applica-
tor. Buff, blend, and ban The latest and greatest beauty finds
streaks for good. BY L AU RE N B A L S A M O
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Hollywood
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and Hollywood
Beauty Light
Wand, $38 each,
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NOVEL IDEA
You’ve likely seen one of your fave
’grammers posing with an Olympia
LIQUID LUXURY Le-Tan clutch (they look like retro
Spray this where you’d tie its inspo, novels!). Get in on the action with her
the Twilly—Hermès’ iconic silk ribbon HERMÈS Twilly latest “book” for Lancôme: a
d’Hermès, page-turning palette of trending lid,
for your neck or wrist—and head out $100 for
with your girls. The tuberose- 50 ml, Sephora lip, and cheek hues.
sandalwood mix is like the best GNO: LANCÔME Olympia’s Wonderland La
sexy, spicy, and surprising. Palette D’Olympia, $80, Bloomingdale’s
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2 Protects
3 and even Moisturizes
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HOT OR NOT? Too soon to tell—but $22, scientific evidence
things look promising. “There are several cbdforlife.us that cryotherapy
studies under way evaluating the efficacy aids muscle recov-
of cannabis as a treatment for acne, ery, slimming, or
psoriasis, and eczema,” says NYC derm
wound healing, or
Neil Sadick, MD. “The skin has natural
has any effect on
CBD receptors, which easily accept its
anti-inflammatory effects.” (Check out wrinkles or acne,”
CBD for Life’s cream.) THC, the compound says plastic surgeon
that gets you high (it’s legally available in Marko Lens, MD.
eight states), is touted for its ability The FDA concurs.
to penetrate skin and provide topical pain There may be other
relief. (Try Whoopi & Maya’s body balm.) benefits, such as
WHOOPI & MAYA Rub
reducing inflam-
Medical Cannabis mation and boost-
Body Balm, $30 for 4 ing your mood,
oz., whoopiandmaya
.com for dispensaries but the cosmetic
advantages remain
unproven.
NEUTROGENA
Light Therapy
Acne Spot
Treatment, $20,
drugstores
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RELATIONSHIP.
GALLA ARGUES WHY
SHOULDN’T
FORGET EVERYTHING
STRENGTHENS YOUR
CATEGORY
WRITER BRITTANY
ACTUALLY BE YOUR
BEST FRIEND.
YOUR PARTNER
YOU’VE HEARD.
Your BF,
Not Your
BFF
He’s
83
LOVE
WOULD YOU
KISS YOUR BEST
FRIEND
WITH THAT MUCH
TONGUE?
and plan drinks—they’ve been cheering Shoot an SOS text to your BF Revel in the resulting ego boost
you on for years. But, says Frieda as soon as you can, before you broad- with your besties—but there’s no need
Birnbaum, PhD, a research psychologist cast the whole play-by-play on your Insta to notify your guy and cause
who studies women and relationships, Story. “A core tenet of a good relation- unnecessary drama. “Most likely,
“money is a major issue, so tell ship is helping each other, so if you get you’re going to make your partner
your partner soon after, especially injured, you need to share that with jealous, which shouldn’t be the
if you share finances.” him,” advises Birnbaum. goal,” says Birnbaum.
ESTHER PEREL IS
A SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS
THERAPIST, THE BEST-
SELLING AUTHOR OF
MATING IN CAPTIVITY, AND
HOST OF THE AUDIO
SERIES WHERE SHOULD
WE BEGIN? WITH
ESTHER PEREL, ON AUDIBLE.
HER TED TALKS ON
DESIRE AND INFIDELITY
HAVE BEEN VIEWED MORE
THAN 17 MILLION TIMES.
FORGET
WORK. Going straight from a hectic workday
NIGHT!
sets. At your job, you’re thinking in a way
that prioritizes goals, productivity,
structure, and organization. On a date,
ROUGH DAY ON THE JOB, BUT YOU you’re prioritizing relatedness, play,
HAVE PLANS TO MEET SOMEONE NEW? imagination, and surprise.
TRANSITION TO A MORE ROMANTIC If you don’t take a moment to pause
HEADSPACE WITH THESE STEPS. and reset in between these two
situations, it can be easy to get stuck in
checklist mode, treating your date the
same as you do your to-do list.
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LOVE ite podcast as you drive
or reading a juicy book on
the train (instead of just
absentmindedly scrolling LOVE screen, waiting for phan-
You’ll show up with your through Instagram). Giving QUIZ tom alerts or messages
evaluation chart and ana- your brain a hit of amuse- to pop up. Instead, com-
lyze the person’s looks,
profession, college degree,
ment will help create some
downtime between the
Is Your pletely hide your cell in
your bag, where it’s truly
family background, etc., demanding scene you just
Job a Third out of sight and out of
and determine if they fulfill left and the romantic place Wheel? mind. You’ll be much more
your expectations. That’s where you’re heading. 1 present and attentive to
not going to be a good date the person you’re with.
During a first date,
for either of you. As tempt-
ing as it may be, you simply
LUXURIATE do you go to the
That makes for a better
night for both of you
can’t apply office efficiency IN THE PREP restroom more than
twice—mostly just
(and it’s also just good
to the ways of the heart. You may not realize it, date manners!).
so you can check
Instead, meeting some- but the rituals of getting your phone and
one should be a discovery—
of yourself, the person, and
dressed up or putting
on makeup (even if it’s
reply to e-mails? AVOID SHOP
the encounter. You want just feverishly swiping
Yes No
TALK
to arrive feeling curious, on some lipstick) for your 2 Even if a date is going well,
emotionally open, and in night ahead are crucial it can be natural for your
an experiential mode. This to bridging the stress-to- Would you follow thoughts to drift back to
way, you and your date will fun transition. Getting
up a story about his that bothersome comment
mom’s garden
have much better odds of date-ready is a nurtur- with complaints your boss made to you just
having a great time, and ing process for you, and that your boss as you were heading out
you’ll be able to tell if this is the mere act of putting makes you water the door...and make you
really someone with whom on heels or changing her office plants? want to talk about it—
you might have a future. your hairstyle puts you Yes No right now. Rather than fill
Here’s how you can make in a mood to seduce the flirty air with a dull
the mental switch. and attract. (French- 3 discussion of the reports
women, in particular, have you’re responsible for or
Is your convo
WASH AWAY understood the pleasure
and value of these expe-
sounding more job
interview than
the cranky customers you
wait on every day, make a
TENSION riences for generations.) “can I imagine him point of shifting the focus
Avoid heading straight Such physical switch-ups as my boyfriend”? onto your suitor instead.
from your desk to the bar. also send a subtle signal Yes No Ask him or her an interest-
If you can, make a stop to your mind that you’re ing question, like his most
at home first so you can about to enter into a new IF YOU ANSWERED YES embarrassing moment or
take a quick shower. It will phase of your day. TO TWO OR MORE, how she thinks her most
allow you a moment of self- you’ve got a romance- recent ex would describe
care, which can help you
relax and ease into a very
BURY THE crasher on your
hands. Be honest with
her (the response to this
question is always telling!).
different mentality. You’re DRAMA your date and
apologize up front that Listening to the
literally washing away the Tech tension is real. When your work woes are answers will force your
stress of the past several your phone is out and vis- going to have a heavy brain back into the pres-
hours so you can emerge ible—even if it’s just peek- presence—they’ll ent, resulting in a more
prefer that over your
feeling happier, refreshed, ing out of the top of your engaging, fertile conversa-
tuning them out.
and more open to having purse—you’re liable to be tion...and hopefully, more
a good time. distracted. The problem IF YOU ANSWERED NO than a few laughs. You’ll be
No way you can swing by you tried solving with your TO TWO OR MORE, able to relax, learn more
your house or apartment? coworker will keep replay- there’s clearly no room about who’s sitting across
At least do something ing in your head, causing for your 9-to-5 to butt from you (as opposed to
en route to the date that you to steal glances at the in here. Keep it up— just what you both do for a
and make sure your
hits the pause button and date gives you the living), and have a better
makes you feel good. Maybe same courtesy. You chance at making a strong,
it’s listening to your favor- deserve it! passionate connection. ■
him
any-
thing LOVE
ADVICE FROM
OUR GUY
GURU, LOGAN
Q/ M Y B F B RO K E
UP WITH ME ON MY
B I R T H DAY, A N D I
WA S C O M P L E T E LY
D E VA S TAT E D . NOW,
W E E K S L AT E R ,
H E ’ S B E G G I NG M E
HILL T O TA K E H I M
Q/ After how many a few dates with B AC K . S H O U L D I didn’t care that he
dates with a dude this guy, you’ve met GIVE HIM ONE was ruining your
do I need to tell him his friends, and M O R E C H A NC E ? special once-a-year
that I’m still seeing things seem to be moment (which you
other people? heading in a direc- A This might be the may now forever
A All the single guys I to DTR” or “Um, will tion that borders on most definitive associate with this
know who are dating you, like…be my serious, then it may answer I’ve given: breakup), and that
assume that if they girlfriend?” So until be a good time to No effing way. Any means he doesn’t
S I M O N B U R S TA L L / T R U N K A R C H I V E .
haven’t yet had “the one of you utters give him a heads-up. dude who chooses truly care enough
talk” with a girl, then some version of these Otherwise, abide by to dump you on your about you or your
they’re not exclusive. magic words, you’re this golden rule: b-day—rather than, happiness. My
Typically, this convo in the clear. Also, When would you at the very least, advice? Blow out the
will sound some- it might help to ask want the person doing so a few days burning candles of
thing like: “Want to yourself what feels you’re dating to tell before or after—is his hope, wish for a
make it official?” or right to you. If you’ve you? Give him the seriously cold. His much better man,
“I think we’re ready been on more than same courtesy. timing proves he and move on.
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THE
MALE BRAIN
EXPLAINED
all about
“Beer for sure,
’cause I can get
drunk off whiskey, “If you get rid of
tequila, vodka, either, you lose the
“OMFG. 110%
and wine. BJs are potential of getting
beer. Because I
one of a kind.” shower head while
could definitely
drinking a shower
not give up BJs. —STEFAN M., 21
beer. Which is the
Those were sent
dream.”
from heaven.”
Bl
—JACKSON B., 21
—GREG H., 25
ow
r
B ee Jo
bs
“Well, hmm…
one is a decently “Beer is about
tasting (at just me, and BJs
best) carbonated involve someone
alcoholic bever-
age. The other WOULD HE else. They’re nice,
but they include
is a BJ! Please
don’t ever ask RATHER… some baggage,
even if you don’t
that again.”
—JESSE B., 23 GIVE UP BEER realize it at first.”
—RICHARD H., 21
OR BJ’S?
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men WWMBD:
HELP ME, DUDE!
As writer Julian
Stern explains, guys
are the same amount
of clueless, so they
compare their thoughts.
“Hopefully, we’ll figure
it out, but if not, we’re
in it together.”
ON DATING-APP
PROFILES
At last, an explanation for
this pathetic ploy
His bio said he’s 6'3"…but in person
he needed a booster seat. Dating
app Hinge recently coined such
fibbing to make yourself seem more
attractive as kittenfishing—not to
be confused with catfishing
(assuming a whole new identity).
Here, digital-age intimacy and
relationships expert Robert Weiss
breaks down the reasons a man
might try to dupe you.
IF HE KIT TENFISHED YOU (1) He has
low self-esteem and hoped that
once you met him, you wouldn’t
notice the traits he tried to hide.
(2) He just wants to bone. He
WHO HE TAPS FOR LOVE ADVICE
figured you might choose to ignore When men need help in the hookup department,
his white lie and take him home. it’s a little like the blind leading the blind.…
(3) He thought that if you fell for him
online first, his stretch of the truth
wouldn’t matter after so much time.
IF HE CATFISHED YOU (1) He tried to
gain your trust so he could use or
manipulate you for his own needs.
(2) He wanted to cheat on his
current S.O. without getting caught.
(3) He presented himself however he
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YOU LOOKED
BIGGER IN
YOUR PROFILE
PIC.
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A DMIT TO SENDING A DICK PIC.
A N D O F T H E 5 3% O F WO M E N
W H O H AV E R E C E I V E D
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She built this exclusive, total-body, SNAP JUMP on the balls of your feet [B].
seven-minute workout just for Start from standing, • Jump feet in toward your
Cosmo. And it’s customizable for all feet slightly wider than hands, keeping feet shoulder
1
REVERSE LUNGE
+ KNEE LIFT
Start from standing,
feet slightly wider than
shoulder-width apart.
Take a big step backward with
left foot, bending both knees
approximately 90 degrees. Your
front knee should be over your
ankle and your back knee should
hover just off the floor [A].
A B
• Straighten to standing,
shifting your weight completely KAYLA SAYS
to right leg and bringing left When you’re feeling unmo-
knee up to your chest [B]. tivated, ask yourself
• Release left leg, bringing it
why. Have you eaten?
down and back into reverse
Are you tired? Do you
lunge. Alternate 12 reps per side,
need water? If you actually
for a total of 24 reps each.
break down the ‘why’—
and take care of it—you’ll
find yourself pushing
through more often.”
3
X MOUNTAIN toward left elbow [B], then
CLIMBER return to start. That’s 1 rep.
Start with both Alternate sides for 40 total.
hands on the floor
beneath your shoul- PRO TIP “Challenge yourself
ders, legs straight behind you, by gradually increasing speed.
resting on the balls of your feet. Keep good form—your moving
• Keeping right foot on the leg shouldn’t drag on the floor.”
floor, bring left knee into your
chest toward right elbow [A],
then return to starting position.
• Keeping your left foot on the
floor, bring right knee into chest
KAYLA SAYS
I want to change women’s focus from ‘I want to
look like this,’ to ‘I want to feel like this.’”
4
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Start flat on your back,
knees bent, right
foot on floor. Rest your A
left ankle below right knee.
• Place your hands behind your
ears and slowly lift your head
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Twist torso to the right so that
right elbow touches the floor [A].
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It’s no news flash that some grub can make you feel… extend your buzz.
GI system running (too ugh (hate you, post-brunch carb crash). But Mehmet CHERRY JUICE
much at once will Oz, MD, America’s beloved TV doc—and btw, heart Sip a shot with dinner.
worsen bloat). Add 5 surgeon—believes that the flip side is also true: The The fruit’s natural
grams per week (about right eats can be secret weapons for curing all kinds of melatonin (which
one slice of sprouted- regulates sleep) will kick
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grain bread) until you hit
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without the side effects.” Check out his healing snack
prescriptions for common woes.
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YES, THOSE ARE
CALORIES PER PINT.
DID THE
#1 STI JUST GET
DEADLIER?
We unpack troubling new stats about a
dangerous—but preventable—disease.
BY K RIS SY B R A DY
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are being diagnosed because,
ARE primarily through skin-to-skin
under the Affordable Care Act, contact, you can lower your risk
testing became more accessible. by always using condoms.
The earlier it’s caught, the
better: Cervical cancer is Consider the Vaccine
seldom deadly if precancerous The HPV vaccine protects
cells are ID’d during a Pap against the virus strains that
smear and treated. In fact,
PERCENT
cause 90 percent of cervical URINE
screenings and vaccinations,
which can prevent 93 percent of LESS LIKELY
cancers, says Tina Raine-
Bennett, MD, an ob-gyn at TROUBLE
all cases, have made the disease Kaiser Permanente in Oakland, If your leggings get a little,
relatively rare in America (about THAN California. Yet almost 40 uh, moist during your
workout—and it’s not just
13,000 full-blown cases each STRAIGHT OR percent of women under age 26
sweat—you may have
year versus 250,000 breast- are going without it (most
cancer diagnoses). BI WOMEN insurers don’t cover the shots
stress urinary incontinence
(SUI). Even if you’ve never
So: sigh of relief. But you still TO GET for women older than 26). Some pushed a human out of
can’t let your guard all the way understandably fear side your vagina, frequently
down. Black women remain at REGULAR effects. But experts say the straining to poop or even
sucking in your stomach
higher risk, which researchers PAP SMEARS, most commonly reported ones
can lead to leakage, says
attribute to poorer access are soreness or swelling at the
to health care. And all sexually POSSIBLY injection site. Of the 90 million
Evelyn Hecht, president
of EMH Physical Therapy,
active women should stay BECAUSE HPV vaccines administered in in New York City. So can
vigilant, since cervical cancer is the U.S. in the last decade, only loads of exercise. In one
virtually always caused by DOCS INSIST 0.003 percent have resulted in study, up to 80 percent of
human papillomavirus (HPV)— ON PAPS more adverse reactions. athletes who’ve never
given birth had SUI while
the most common STI in the
U.S. (An estimated 79 million BEFORE Get Tested playing high-impact
sports. Luckily, you can
Americans are currently PRESCRIBING More than 50 percent of new retrain your body to hold it
infected.) Here, your action cases strike women who’ve in. In addition to kegels
plan for staying safe. BIRTH never or rarely been tested. But (squeezing your down-
CONTROL— since cervical cancer grows there muscles), Hecht
Use Condoms slowly, regular Pap smears can recommends squats,
Of the 150 or so different WHICH catch it early, when the lesions
bridges (lie on your back
with knees bent and feet
strains of HPV, around 15 are LESBIANS can be easily removed. Women flat, raise and lower your
linked to cervical cancer, says should get a Pap every three
Mario Pineda, MD, a gynecologic MAY NOT years in their 20s and every
hips), and hip adductors
(place a soft, medium-size
oncologist at Northwestern NEED. three to five years after age 30 ball between your knees
Memorial Hospital in Chicago. SOURCE: RICE (along with an HPV test, and squeeze knees
UNIVERSITY, 2017
One report found that 20 percent another swab screening that together). At least 2 sets of
10 reps of each exercise
of women and 25 percent of men aids in early detection), unless
three times a week should
ages 18 to 59 are currently your doc says otherwise, keep your Spandex dry.
infected with high-risk types. according to Dr. Pineda. ■ —HELEN ZOOK
P U B L I S H I N G ) . C O P Y R I G H T © 2 0 1 7. P H O T O G R A P H S B Y C H R I S T I N E H E W I T T .
E XC E R P T E D F R O M E V E RY B O DY YO G A , BY J E S S A M Y N S TA N L E Y ( WO R K M A N
physical flexibility.”
Here, she breaks
down her fave poses
for fostering strength,
peace, and confidence.
BY A N D RE A S TA N LE Y
“THIS POSE
HELPS CREATE
A MIND-SET OF
‘I AM FREE AND
Dancer Pose
STRONG AND
POWERFUL,’”
SAYS JESSAMYN.
GET IN POSITION
up and back, clasping your left foot “As you root through your • Bring the sole of your right foot
with your left hand and lifting thigh. standing foot, you may feel like to your left ankle, mid-shin, or
you’re wobbling—and that’s upper thigh. Actively press your
• Keep squaring your hips forward good, because you’re accepting right foot and left leg into
and lifting your left thigh, flexing that wobbling is a part of each other to maintain balance.
your foot into your hand. Sweep life. That’s mental flexibility.”
your right arm forward and up. • Place palms together in front
of your heart, with eyes closed
• Push your standing thigh back, or gazing forward. Take a
and soften your chest forward. Stay few breaths, then switch sides.
for a few breaths, then switch sides.
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Wheel Pose
BODY
“This move engages every
part of your body. It could
take days, months, or even
years to perfect. Go slowly,
and don’t obsess over it.” Monkey Pose
GET IN POSITION “Our hips trap our fears, so
• Lie on your back, feet on when you open them up, it
ground, knees pointing up. gives your body the opportunity
Place palms flat on the to release emotions. As your
ground next to your head, hips and hamstrings slowly
thumbs next to ears, relax (this may take some
and wrists facing back. time!), it’s really beautiful.”
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don. This look can be worn as a subtle
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of hazy imprecision. Then? I leave it
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Miley says
nobody makes her
laugh harder than
her dad does.
And the first person
she calls when
she’s on the verge
of a breakdown?
“My mama.”
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The weirdest thing in my childhood home: Eff/marry/kill—The Voice coaches:
as my coach because:
What I do to de-stress:
My pre-show pump-up ritual:
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BRA, BRIEFS,
Alessandra Rich.
HEART NECKLACE, Shay.
EARRINGS, Selim
Mouzannar. BRACELET
(top), Alison Lou.
BRACELET (bottom),
Louis Vuitton. RINGS,
Daniela Villegas
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Located on 500 acres
of land, the Cyrus
farmhouse is special
to the family. Dad
Billy Ray had
it blessed. Here,
Miley runs around
with her sister
Noah’s dog, Leo—
back home in L.A.,
she has seven
pups of her own.
DRESS, Topshop
Bride. NECKLACE,
EARRINGS, BRACELET,
RINGS, Selim
Mouzannar. HAIR:
Teddy Charles at The
Wall Group. PROP
STYLIST: Evan
Jourden. PRODUCTION:
Viewfinders. HOTEL:
Thompson Nashville.
See page 199 for
shopping
information.
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P R E V I O U S S P R E A D , C L O C K W I S E F R O M T O P L E F T: G E T T Y I M A G E S ( 6 ) . C O U R T E S Y O F B R A N D .
T H I S S P R E A D , C L O C K W I S E T O P R I G H T: C O U R T E S Y M I L E Y C Y R U S / I N S TA G R A M . G E T T Y I M A G E S ( 4 ) .
NOAH
WITH SISTER
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MIX BIZ
WITH
PLEASURE
Rebel against
corporate culture by
pairing a boss-lady
blazer with moto-
cross-style bottoms.
BLAZER, PANTS, BOOTS,
EARRINGS, Altuzarra.
HANDBAG, Sara Battaglia
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UNDERSTATED
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UP
YOUR
STYLE
SHIFT YOUR
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Show off your figure
in sweater weather
with a cropped
knit top and loose,
high-waisted trousers
with tapered ankles.
CROP SWEATER, PANTS, BOOTS,
HANDBAG, EARRINGS, Fendi
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ADD SOME
LEATHER
Found: leather that
doesn’t send you into
a sweat. Outsmart
unseasonably warm
days with a fitted
bodice over light-
weight pieces.
TOP, BLOUSE, SKIRT, 3.1
Phillip Lim. BOOTS, Roger
Vivier. BAG, Miu Miu
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PUNCH UP
MONO-
CHROME
Embrace girliness
in a head-to-toe
wash of color
that’s less sweet,
more shocking.
VEST, DRESS, PANTS,
Emporio Armani.
SUNGLASSES, BAG,
Miu Miu
SPARKLE
BEFORE
NOON
Go full glamazon
in an animal print
’70s silhouette
and glittering gold
booties.
DRESS, HANDBAG, Michael
Kors. BOOTS, Olgana
Paris. EARRINGS, Eddie
Borgo. SUNGLASSES,
Jacques Marie Mage
HAIR: Nicolas Eldin using
Kérastase Paris
L’Incroyable Crème.
MAKEUP: Christian
McCulloch at Streeters
using Chanel Ombre
Première. MANICURE: Casey
Herman for Dior Vernis
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WOKE
WINE
Riots not diets, fries
before guys.…Whatever
your motto, a shiny
berry hue helps get the
message across.
(The lips at Jonathan
Simkhai’s fall
fashion show, which
inspired the look here,
represented a woman’s
power over a man!)
Try BareMinerals
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T-SHIRT, Baja East. HAT,
LittleDoe. EARRINGS, Diane
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ATT EN T ION TO YOU R LOOKS AT
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MAJOR
MAUVE-
MENT
Nineties nasty
women (think riot grrrls!)
were the muses
for the purplish brown
lips backstage at
Mara Hoffman. Channel
their rebellious
vibes by painting on
CoverGirl Melting
Pout Liquid Lipstick in
Gelebrity, $8, a
lipstick-gloss hybrid.
T-SHIRT, Prabal
Gurung. EARRINGS, Closer
by WWake x Tome
8
mighty
makeup
moments
1886
California Perfume
Company (now Avon)
is founded. Its female
employees earn an
independent income
decades before they
can vote. FIRE
STARTER
19 0 6
Tracey Norman
appears on a Clairol page 199 for shopping
dye box, becoming the information.
first transgender
African-American
woman in a major
cosmetics campaign.
2 0 07
Women gather
worldwide for the
Women’s March. Pink
joins red as a symbolic
shade of girl power.
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SLUG
WICKED
CONFIDENT
The midnight mouth at the
Adeam show was all about
celebrating a woman’s
individuality—and it
basically screams, “Don’t
eff with me…or my rights.”
Rock a liquid lipstick
(like Maybelline New York
Color Sensational The
Loaded Bolds in Pitch
Black, $7.50) for intense
color and long wear.
T-SHIRT, Zadig & Voltaire. MESH
TOP, Creatures of Comfort.
SUNGLASSES, Gentle Monster.
EARRINGS, Eddie Borgo
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RED
RALLY
Making herstory
means being loud
and proud. This
diffused look (bold in
the center, slightly
worn around the
edges) signals that
you won’t be shutting
up anytime soon.
TANK, Alice + Olivia by
Stacey Bendet. SCARF,
American Eagle
Outfitters. EARRINGS,
Jennifer Fisher
easy
lip t rick
Apply a matte cherry
red lipstick onto the center
of your pout (try Rouge Dior
Lipstick 999 Matte,
$35), then use your finger
to blur the edges.
PRESENTED BY DIOR
HOW YOU,
not how-to
The diverse fans
Unicorn installations prove there’s no one Instagram-ready in the
where fans scribbled notes form of beauty.
silver confetti walkway.
were among the festival’s
fun moments.
NO LABELS
necessary “[THE CREATORS]
MADE IT FEEL LIKE WE
WERE BEST FRIENDS.”
“SO FUN —KIRA
GETTING TO
PLAY MUSIC
AND DANCE
AT THE
FESTIVAL!”
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Sales
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That’s a legit passion
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THE
SEXUAL
ASSAULT
IT’S NOT GOING TO BE AN ALARMING ACT
PLEASANT, BUT PICTURE THIS: CALLED STEALTHING
You’re hooking up with a IS NOW BEING
guy and the sex feels good…
almost too good. You look
RECOGNIZED AS THE
down to discover that he’s SERIOUS VIOLATION IT
pumping away unprotected, IS. STAY SAFE WITH
after having secretly pulled THIS MUST-KNOW INFO.
off his condom. BY STACE Y COLINO
What you’re envisioning
is called stealthing, an
abhorrent practice that’s
been getting increased
attention after an article in ing STIs and unintended or breaking one mid- When she realized he had
the Columbia Journal of pregnancies. “It’s an deed. Of those, some had ejaculated inside her, she
Gender and Law described invisible form of violence done it at least 63 times was furious.
it as a form of sexual assault. that’s been going on for a total, the max number So was Audrey, 39, from
Stealthing transforms while,” says Brodsky. they could choose in the Santa Fe, New Mexico,
consensual sex into Now, it finally has a name. survey, says lead author who had sex with a guy she
nonconsensual sex by Kelly Cue Davis, PhD. met on a dating app last
disregarding the terms— SHOCKING When it happened year. “I was very clear that
condom use—both part- DISCOVERIES to Marie, 25, of Boston, it was important to me to
ners agreed to, explains While there are no con- she was with a guy who’d have protected sex,” she
article author Alexandra crete stats on stealthing’s pursued her for months. recalls. They did it once
Brodsky, a civil-rights prevalence, a 2014 survey “There was lots of in and using a condom, with a
attorney. It happens of 313 single, straight men out [penetration] during a repeat performance in the
most often in hookup or between the ages of 21 and long night of sex,” she says. morning. In the a.m. ses-
casual sex situations and 30 found that nearly 10 “While he was behind me, sion, though, “there was a
can leave victims feeling percent admitted to engag- he paused so he could last moment when it felt a little
duped, disrespected, angry, ing in “condom sabotage,” longer, and that’s when he different and I realized he
and ashamed—and fear- surreptitiously removing ripped off the condom.” had taken the condom off,”
HOW TO PROTECT
YOURSELF
Before you get into bed
with any new partner, come
Reconsidering prepared with your own
the Female condoms, male or female
Condom (see “Reconsidering the
Female Condom,” at left),
Old versions were and have a candid convo
poorly designed and
about expectations. If a guy
hard to find—hence,
a lack of enthusiasm
whines about wrapping
(and use) among it up and you don’t know
women, says Harry (or trust) him well, think
Fisch, MD, a clinical about avoiding intercourse.
professor of urology “If it’s an orgasm you’re
and reproductive after, there are plenty of
medicine at the Weill other ways to get it,” says
Cornell Medical Pepper Schwartz, PhD, a
College and chief professor of sociology at the
corporate officer at University of Washington
the Female Health
at Seattle and coauthor
Company, makers of
the FC2 female
of 50 Great Myths of
condom. Newer, Human Sexuality.
improved lady If you do opt for pen-
sheaths adhere to the etration, keep in mind that
walls of the vagina, it’s easier to see if a condom
are 95 percent is in place when you’re fac-
effective at ing each other (i.e., in mis-
THIS ILLICIT DEED IS protecting against sionary or girl-on-top).
A TWISTED TURN-ON pregnancy and STIs,
FOR SOME MEN. Whenever you switch it up,
and are available at use your hand to guide him
many health clinics
back inside you and feel
or through an Rx
from a doctor. (The
for the condom, suggests
she says. “I was really upset. communities in which— FC2 is the only one ob-gyn Lauren Naliboff, a
He couldn’t believe that I brace yourself—guys that’s currently FDA- fellow of the American Col-
thought it was a big deal.” encourage others to stealth. approved and lege of Obstetricians and
Some justify their actions available in the U.S.; Gynecologists. If you think
WHY MEN DO IT as a man’s right to “spread others are in clinical you’ve been stealthed, go to
Unsurprisingly, stealth- his seed.” As one stealther trials.) Bonus: a pharmacy for Plan B and
ing may be more likely to wrote, “You can’t have one Female condoms can to your doctor or a clinic to
R O B E R T W H I T M A N / T H E L I C E N S I N G P R O J E C T. C O M .
occur when there’s alcohol and not the other. If she be inserted up to two get tested for STIs.
hours before sex, and Finally, make your voice
involved and a guy makes wants the guy’s penis, then
they don’t need to be
a bad drunken decision she also has to take the guy’s heard. In May, lawmakers
removed immediately
(think: Seth Rogen’s charac- load.” Others use stealthing afterward.
in California and Wiscon-
ter’s actions in Knocked Up). as a power play to reclaim sin introduced bills seeking
But booze isn’t always a control in a world where to legally define stealthing
factor. The practice is more women are increasingly say- as rape or sexual assault,
common among men who ing, “no condom, no sex,” both criminal offenses. To
already have hostile atti- explains psychologist Perry help get similar legislation
tudes toward women, says Halkitis, PhD, dean and in your state, call or write
Davis. The proof is in online professor at the School of your representatives. ■
Sex Q&A
No-BS responses to questions you can only ask Cosmo
Q Why can
I not stop
talking—I
mean, it’s
QDo I have serious
to tell my E -M A IL YOUR SE X
QU E ST IONS TO SE XQ A NDA
TMI—
doc my @ C O S M O P O L I TA N . C O M .
after sex?
sexual A Blame it on evolution:
JAMA Internal Medicine right after you’re done. sign that he’s less inter-
revealed that while nearly
80 percent of docs said they
using my Clean your toy after each
use with mild soap and
ested in taking things to a
deeper level. Then again,
didn’t think patients would
want to disclose their sex-
vibrator? warm water or an antibac-
terial toy cleaner, and let it
some men aren’t super-
quick to discuss their feel-
ual orientation, only 10 per- A Yes. Just like a penis, a dry completely. That way, ings....Others might just
cent of people said they vibe can push any bacte- you’re less likely to bring be catching their breath
would refuse to give it. ria on your skin (or the toy about that burning feeling. after insanely good sex.
Q How do
I get my
guy to go
down on
me more
often?
A One new study found
that while oral sex on a
woman is one of the most
common predictors of
orgasm (love you, clitoral
stimulation), it’s also one of
the least practiced sexual
acts among couples. The
encouraging news: “A guy is
more apt to try something if
it’s fun and he knows you’re
going to get pleasure from
it,” says sex therapist Dawn
Michael, PhD. So make
foreplay a hot game. When
it’s your turn, you get to
have whatever you ask done
to you, and on his turn, he
gets the same. When he’s
downtown, be sure to show
him how much you like it
through your moans. He’ll
be so turned on by turning
you on, he might just take
up residency there.
—JULIE VADNAL
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Goals
CHEESY, SAUCY,
F O O D S T Y L I S T: M A G G I E R U G G I E R O F O R H E L L O A R T I S T S .
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DISH ON THEIR
FAVE PIES AND GIVE
YUMMY POINTERS.
BY JE S SICA GO ODMAN
“A combo of
sweet, savory,
and spicy
flavors—yum!”
1 c. crushed tomatoes
4 oz. mozzarella
cheese, coarsely
grated
2 oz. thinly sliced
pepperoni
“Roasted
broccoli is best ¼ c. sliced pickled
jalapeños
served on top
Honey, to taste
of grilled pizza
dough!” Spread tomatoes
on dough, and
1 c. small broccoli top with cheese,
florets
pepperoni, and
Sea salt and black jalapeños.
pepper, to taste
Place on a
2 T olive oil
greased baking
¼ c. Pomi strained sheet, and bake at
tomatoes 500 degrees until
4 oz. fresh crispy. Drizzle with
mozzarella, sliced honey.
Toss broccoli, salt,
and pepper in 1 T
olive oil, and broil
until golden brown.
Brush top of pizza
dough with ½ T olive
Nail That #CheesePull
Sweep remaining
oil, and place on a
oil over top, then
Getting a perfect shot isn’t easy,
grill at high heat,
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minutes. and broccoli. Cover,
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YOUR TO-
DOUGH LIST
Buy fresh dough at
your local pizza shop or
Trader Joe’s. Roll it
into a 14-inch flat circle
that’s ¼-inch
thick. Then follow the
recipes below.
“Its chocolate
and marsh-
mallows
“Perfect remind us of Brush the dough
bites of salty a campfire with melted butter,
clams and treat!” and sprinkle with
1 oz. stone-ground dark and white
crunchy crust!” yellow cornmeal, chocolate. Top with
¾ c. grated Pecorino for sprinkling marshmallows.
Romano cheese 2 T butter, melted Increase oven
1 T dried oregano 6 oz. dark chocolate, heat to 450
18 littleneck clams, chopped degrees. Bake until
shucked marshmallows
2½ oz. white Dust a baking
2 cloves garlic, chocolate, chopped sheet with are golden brown,
finely chopped cornmeal, and 3 to 4 minutes.
15 marshmallows,
4 T olive oil halved place dough on top. Add sliced
Parsley and 1 c. sliced Bake at 400 strawberries
crushed red strawberries degrees for 6 to 8 before serving.
pepper, to taste minutes. (Use a
Sprinkle cheese, sharp knife to pop
oregano, clams, any air bubbles as
garlic, and 2 T olive it cooks.)
oil on dough. Place
on a greased baking
sheet, and bake at
500 degrees for 10
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SOME OF
THE MANY
FEMALE FACES
OF FINANCIAL
STRAIN
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by
JENNIFER
WO L F F
CAUGHT
Por t r a i t s b y
J ON NO
IN A
R AT T M A N
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TRAP
188
189
“Getting my
living expenses
covered is a
continuing
struggle for
me. I couldn’t
afford a
textbook
freshman
year and
would have
failed the
course
if a friend
hadn’t loaned
me hers. I
opted out
of having a
meal plan last
semester to
save money.”
Kara
Freise, 19
State University
of New York at Fredonia
Student Debt:
$
20,120
In high school, Kara
lived in a homeless
shelter. She left for
college without a dollar
to her name. Last
summer, the double
major in music therapy
and psychology slept
on friends’ couches so
her entire Pizza Hut
paycheck could go to
school bills. She
expects to owe around
$40,000 by the time
she graduates.
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“I feel a lot of
shame. I lose
a lot of sleep.
I’m working
up to 50
hours a
week on top
of school, Tiara
doing home- Burtin, 22
work on my
phone. I feel University
like I’m of Missouri at St. Louis
stuck in a
system that Student Debt:
$ 2 4 6 1 0
Compared with typical fees at a private university, the price of public-school tuition
sounds like a sweet bargain—until you factor in housing, food, books, transporta-
tion, and other real-life expenses. The average full-time, four-year, in-state student’s
college bill for the 2016-2017 school year was a no-joke $24,610.
SOURCE: THE COLLEGE BOARD
local public universities with loan money, money. But the truth is murkier, accord-
the schools themselves “are replacing lost ing to the University System of Georgia’s
revenue in part by accepting more out-of- Lives latest data. Nearly 60 percent of HOPE
state and international students, who tend in Limbo scholars at UGA lose their funding, with
to be better-off and pay higher tuition rates,” only 19 percent of those earning it back.
Owing money doesn’t
says Kantrowitz. To entice these kids, col- “An interesting thing about these scholar-
just cause financial
leges dangle a dwindling number of scholar- ships is that they wouldn’t work unless a
angst—it puts futures
ships and grants in their direction and make substantial number of students lost them,”
on hold, causing...
expensive campus upgrades. says William Doyle, PhD, associate profes-
Walk around UMass at Amherst—which sor of public policy and higher education at
in 2015 accepted more out-of-state than %
Vanderbilt University. “They are designed
in-state students for the first time in its his- 21 to get people in the door. The positive is,
%
tory—and you’ll see a new multimillion- 28 more people go to college. The negative is,
dollar “football performance center,” a a decent number of them lose funding.”
%
structure that’s meaningless to struggling 43 (UGA says it focuses on students’ academic
students like Erika but that helps attract bet- success, not their finances. “We don’t look
ter players and alumni money. Adding to the 54 % specifically at how you can retain HOPE,”
frustration: The football team can’t manage says Rahul Shrivastav, PhD, the school’s
to fill its stadium. vice president for instruction.)
55 % It’s not just state aid that dries up. Col-
leges insist they don’t front-load their own
A PUBLIC PROBLEM scholarships. “But look at the data that shows
% students get more financial aid in their first
Shrinking state budgets are only part of the
62 year than they do in later years,” says Sara
issue, as Morgan Atteberry, now 22, learned Goldrick-Rab, PhD, author of Paying the
when she arrived in 2014 at the University Price: College Costs, Financial Aid, and the
of Georgia on a state-administered HOPE Betrayal of the American Dream. “Some
scholarship. “Being a UGA Bulldog had *21 percent of colleges are behaving badly.”
borrowers to postpone
been my dream since I was little,” she says. getting married. The fallout lands squarely on the shoul-
So had becoming a pharmacist. To that end, ders of poor, inexperienced teenagers. Once
she says, her adviser suggested an over- *28 percent to delay enrolled, they’re rarely advised on how to
starting a family. keep their aid, which can be yanked for frus-
whelming course load, including chemistry
and pre-calculus. *43 percent to move trating or confusing reasons (one bad grade,
“In retrospect, my classes should’ve been back in with the slightest change in family income). And
spread out,” says Morgan. With endless work, their parents after while federal law mandates student loan
she failed pre-calc and lost HOPE (which graduation. counseling, colleges often deliver it via a 20-
covered about 80 percent of her tuition *54 percent to or 30-minute e-course. The result: 37 per-
and requires a 3.0 GPA). In order to stay take a job outside their cent of students underestimate how much
in school, she abandoned her yearned-for field of study. they really owe, according to an Iowa State
career and switched to special education, tak- *55 percent to University study; 13 percent don’t know they
ing out some $12,000 in loans. Cruelly, the hold off on buying have loans at all. What’s worse, often stu-
swap may leave her in debt longer: The aver- a home. dents aren’t alerted that they’re about to lose
age special-ed teacher makes $58,000, while their aid until it’s too late. This is a critical
*62 percent to defer
pharmacists can pull in $122,000. saving problem, since as little as $1,000 in revoked
In cases like Morgan’s, the rules seem for retirement. funding puts them at higher risk for drop-
clear-cut—keep up your GPA and keep your SOURCE: AMERICAN STUDENT ASSISTANCE
ping out, per the Education Advisory Board.
2015 SURVEY
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“I spent
seven months
living out
of my car
in 2016.
I joined a
gym around
the corner
from school
so I could
shower and
change. I was
working
as a teacher’s
aide. No one
knew what
I was going
through.”
Tanisha
Saunders, 27
Student Debt:
$
19,744
(plus $3,700
in credit-card debt)
“Clearly, the goal is not to actually help chusetts. “The irony is that the smartest kid She wants a degree
more than anything,
students,” says Goldrick-Rab. “The goal is to might be the kid who reasonably says, ‘I can’t
but after several
say you helped them. This is not the system go. I can’t go into debt. I can’t take that risk.” attempts to graduate—
we would build if we wanted ordinary peo- she sometimes worked
ple to get through college.” three jobs while
Left to their own devices and eager to THE AID QUAGMIRE attending school full-
graduate, students borrow more and time—what Tanisha
more (Morgan’s estimated eventual total: Questionable school practices aside, even has instead is
$30,000). But those who drop out are in the the most careful budgeters can get lost in the overwhelming debt.
Unable to afford rent,
worst position of all. Without a degree, they’ll financial-aid labyrinth, says Goldrick-Rab.
she’s now staying with
be less likely to find a job or to pay back their “This is an enormously complicated system
relatives, commuting
loans—and defaulting can ruin their credit, that a PhD might have trouble navigating.” two hours to and from
hobbling them financially for years to come. It starts with a fat acceptance letter— campus each day.
“Look at these kids, the problems they one of life’s great thrills—that often
face, the debt they graduate with,” says Max includes a difficult-to-decipher financial-
Page, PhD, a UMass at Amherst architecture aid letter, which may not even distinguish
professor and founding member of the between free money and what needs to be
Public Higher Education Network of Massa- paid back with interest. “These letters can
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Student
Loan
SOS
The best way to deal
with debt: Accrue less.
Or if you’re already in
deep (no judgment),
learn to work the repay-
ment system. Here’s
how to stay solvent.
If You Need
Money...
Apply for an under-
the-radar scholarship.
Websites like AAUW
.org and Scholarships
.com act as databases
for private aid, includ
ing scholarships just
for women, says Sara
GoldrickRab, PhD.
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that 19 of 30 state universities claiming to Worst off are women. The downside of
use the Shopping Sheet actually weren’t. their hard-won educational equality—they
Then there’s the Free Application for now comprise 56 percent of undergraduates
Federal Student Aid, or FAFSA, a form in the U.S.—is an unequal share of the debt
“In the students must submit each year to secure burden. Women take on more and bigger
school’s government loans, which are typically low- loans than men, according to a new report
eyes, my interest. Administered by the USDE, its by the American Association of University
parents can algorithms can overestimate how much Women. And because college-educated
help pay a family can contribute toward a child’s women in full-time jobs earn about 25 per-
education. And FAFSA verification, a vet- cent less than their male peers do, it takes
for college. ting process that happens after aid letters them longer to pay the money back.
They can’t— have been sent out, may squeeze students’ Real solutions will require reform of just
their money aid further. In an awful twist, “economi- about every part of the financial-aid system.
goes to rent cally disadvantaged students are about 20 Progress has been glacial but hopeful. This
and food. percent more likely to be selected for verifi- year, Senator Elizabeth Warren and Con-
The only cation,” says Lindsay Page, PhD, who coau- gressman Joe Courtney reintroduced a bill
way I can thored a study on FAFSA. that would allow people with federal loans to
afford my Celeste Villalobos, 20, is well-acquainted refinance at current interest rates, lowering
with FAFSA’s shortcomings. Right before their monthly payments. And in July, Mary-
private loan her freshman year at the University of land restricted scholarship displacement, the
is to start California at Riverside, Celeste got notice sketchy practice of schools stripping finan-
paying it that her family was on the hook for $6,191— cial aid from motivated students who seek
off while the amount the government calculated supplemental scholarships elsewhere.
I’m still in they could afford, based on their income. Some universities are also stepping up.
school.” This was news to her parents, a supermar- UGA has instituted smaller class sizes for
ket-warehouse worker and a home health- certain courses, including—too late for
Celeste care aide who already had a son in college. Morgan Atteberry—pre-calc. (Failure rates
Villalobos, 20 Despite Celeste’s filling out her FAFSA dropped from 33 to 14 percent over one
correctly, the government erred in calcu- year.) Nearby Georgia State University gives
University of California at
lating the family’s expenses, according to students who lose HOPE scholarships and
Riverside
Maira Hernandez, at the time Celeste’s agree to academic interventions $1,000 to
counselor at Bright Prospect, a nonprofit help them try to reclaim funding.
Student Debt:
dedicated to helping low-income kids go Also fighting are everyday women: Flor-
$
16,694 to college. “These kinds of mistakes are
happening more and more to public school
ida International University student Alexis
Calatayud, 23, who lost $12,000 in scholar-
students,” says Hernandez. Celeste says ships after her freshman year, has worked
An aspiring social her FAFSA misinterpretation doubled the with her school to create a warning system
worker, Celeste amount of the high-interest private loan for students on the cusp of losing aid.
believes her federal- she had to take out to cover her parents’ In March, Erika Civitarese testified
aid application was bill. (This is on top of more than $10,000 in before the Massachusetts Legislature in sup-
misinterpreted,
federal loans she’s on the hook for.) Now a port of free public college education—an idea
forcing her to take out
a high-interest private junior, she’s working the register at McDon- that’s being introduced in some form in cit-
loan. In addition to ald’s—and estimates that that $6,191 will ies and states around the country, including
class, she works cost her $13,000 by the time she pays it off. San Francisco, Tennessee, New York, and
up to 16 hours at Rhode Island. “We hear a lot that ‘college is
McDonald’s on the an investment,’” she told the committee. “So
weekends to pay off WHY WOMEN RACK UP MORE why aren’t we investing…[in] these institu-
her debt and avoid tions that we want [students] to thrive in?”
more loans. Slated to graduate this month, Erika will
Working long hours—at McDonald’s or else-
where—isn’t the answer, says Alan Byrd, soon be back at home, waitressing at a local
dean of enrollment services at the University café. She wants to work at a record label or as
of Missouri at St. Louis. “This whole vision of a DJ—goals that would require moving to
working your way through college is almost a city, “where I’d have to pay rent and car
unrealistic at this point. We have students insurance and utilities...and my loans,” she
with two jobs who can’t make their monthly says. With her dreams on hold, she feels
payments. Even with a full-ride, they can’t stuck: “I did not go to college to end up liv-
buy toiletries or eat on the weekends.” ing with my mom and serving coffee.” ■
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Coming off a steaming-hot summer, it’s time to cool down and focus. A stack of planets
BY AUROR A TOWER in realistic Virgo will invite you to de-clutter as fall approaches. The Sun moves
@AUROR A ASTRO into diplomatic Libra on the 22nd, nudging you to problem-solve like a boss all month.
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your control, but slam-dunk month looking up. Since verge of a transi- wild ride recently, Cupid’s arrow: overflowing this
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VIRGO
0 8.23 – 0 9.22
Stellar gifts: You are ultra
organized and totally patient.
Friends rely on you to keep
their worlds in order.
Blind spots: Your
Danielle Brooks is perfectionism can sometimes be
as warm and loyal a curse! Try to stay selfaware and
as any Virgo. tuned into others’ perceptions.
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1989 Fashion faves: Classic and cool,
your style mixes sharp blazers
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Indulgence: Decadent spa days
and farout wellness treatments.
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Seduction style: Your high IQ
You’ve been As busy summer All your friends You’ve been on
and brainy banter draw
crushing your comes to an end, want to hang right a roll at work,
professional you are in need of now, and you’ll and all your fascinating sweeties into your
game, but all some serious chill feel energized hard efforts life, and you know how to keep
work and no play time. Put some when flitting from are about to them wanting more. For you, love
can make you a effort into making party to party. pay off. Lock is a marathon—not a sprint.
snooze, so chan your home a cozy But leave room in down a big
oasis. Then get your schedule for project on the Your month: The Sun, passionate
nel your silly side.
The 12th will be a ready for a big some sexy time, 2nd, when Mars Venus, confident Mars, and
huge day for love
when your ruler
career push on
the 6th, when the
especially around
the 9th, when the
makes a perfect
aspect to
VIRGO your ruler Mercury are all in your
sign right now, and they’re helping
Venus makes an Full Moon falls Sun and sturdy Uranus. By the
end of the month,
GUY you kick ass and take names!
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0 8 . 2 9.93 month, when a surprising dude
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spot a hottie in a
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hostess gift is:
a. Whatever’s
bar, your eyes
WHAT FIRST
unopened in your fridge.
immediately go to: b. Poo-pourri.
a. Your phone.
c. An engraved
b. His package. soap dish that looks
During a
DO YOU
3
lull in a dinner party
On day conversation, you’re most
one of a new job, you likely to bring up:
make sure to:
MAKE?
a. The overall trend in
a. Avoid asking colleagues rainfall over the past 10 years.
personal questions. You’re not b. Another guest’s failed
here to make friends. attempt at concealing a hickey.
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b. Add every single coworker on Sex jokes always break the ice.
Snapchat, HBIC and receptionist included. c. The last Shonda Rhimes
c. Prep a (funny but profesh) show you saw, before encouraging
30-second explainer to rattle off each a roundtable discussion on its
time you introduce yourself. feminist undertones.
Your typical
first-date move:
a. Show up 15 minutes late
and ask the guy for change to put
in the parking meter.
b. Request a comprehensive
relationship history with the first round of
drinks. It’s like ripping off a Band-Aid.
c. Come prepared with Kate
Hudson’s best rom-com one-liners
YOUR GLASS so you can turn on the charm
ISN’T THE
ONLY THING at any point.
THAT’S
FROSTY.…
THE BREAKDOWN
Mostly A’s Mostly B’s Mostly C’s
ICE QUEEN OVERSHARER PUBLIC PERFECTIONIST
Your chilly vibe may be coming off as You don’t believe in boundaries and You dazzle new crowds to the point
where it seems you’ve been studying.
C OUR T E SY OF T HE C W.
the personality equivalent of a dead-fish assume that others don’t either. Such
handshake. No need to lose your ’tude boldness is refreshing, but avoid digging It’s smart to have backup, but go
entirely, but dial up the enthusiasm with too deep at first sight. Disclose whatever easy on the convo prep. Sure, going
new-to-you peeps or risk scaring them you want, but slow down when it comes off-script might feel awkward at first,
off. Once you’re better acquainted, they’ll to broaching others’ personal business. but showing your true self will win
come to appreciate your DGAF outlook. There’s still such a thing as privacy! over new friends in no time.
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