Wrong Relationship,

telltale signs that you are in one.

To try is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the

greatest hazard of life is to risk nothing. The person who risks
nothing does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. He may avoid
suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn, feel, change,
grow, live, and love.

Leo Buscaglia

Olufemi Fasanya
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Preamble

I felt inspired to extract the inspiring words and quotations in my books

after working on my yet to be published book on quotes for singles. My
prayer is that this quotes will inspire you to take the right decisions in
relationship matters.

Shalom.
Introduction

 Love is a powerful emotional feeling. Singles that are caught up in

it are known to act in a way that is irrational.
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Sign: When the person that you are in relationship with is not born
again.

 It is easy to discountenance faith and beliefs when two people

are in love.

 Marrying an ungodly person or someone who is not as

committed to the Christian faith as you, can be likened to
buying a very expensive gadget without guarantees. You are
not protected against any risk or malfunctioning that may and
will most likely occur… Marriage is an expensive alliance.
Anonymous

 Are you single and searching? Be singled out for Christ, search
in Christ because anything searched outside of Christ will be
filled with crisis.’
Dotun and Bunmi Okanlawon
Sign: When he/she is not living according to God’s instructions.

 Marriage doesn’t change people, it only amplifies who they are.

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 To take a wife merely as an agreeable and rational companion will

commonly be found to be a great mistake.
Philip Domar

 If the person that you are dating is not faithful to God, you are
involved with a potentially unfaithful partner.
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Sign: When the motive of going into the relationship is wrong.

 When the motive for going into a relationship is wrong, you will
deliberately close your mind to the glaring flaws of your partner
and it is a sign of trouble in the future of that relationship.
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Sign: When you are not comfortable with the company he/she keeps.

 Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are.
English proverb

 The company your partner keeps is a reflection of who he/she

is.
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 Birds of a feather, flock together.

English proverb
Sign: When you will not consider other people’s opinion about the
relationship.

 You have heard the saying, ‘love is blind’, permit me to say

that love also make lovers deaf.

 Try to see reason with singles that are in love, and you will
likely hit a brick wall. It will seem like throwing a ball on the
wall, the ball bounces right back.

 A Nigerian proverb said, ‘A dog that is doomed to be lost

will ignore the whistle of its master.’ The same goes for
human beings. A person that is doomed to destruction will
not listen to godly counsel.

 You cannot watch your own back.

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Sign: When he/she is abusive.

 Many folks have a mistaken idea that pressure makes a man's

spirit. That is not true; it only reveals his/her spirit. Actually, what
we are under pressure is what we are.
Tim and Beverly Lahaye

 If the person you are dating has hit you in anger, call off the
relationship immediately! Don’t sympathize. Don’t rationalize.
Don’t play psychologist and look for ways to help. Say goodbye!
William Coleman
Sign: When he/she is not considerate in the use of words.

 Words can build or destroy a person’s self-esteem.

 I define words as processed thought vocalized.

 Anyone who compares you with other people will eventually batter
your self-esteem.
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Sign: If you have not discovered your purpose for living.

 There is no man on the surface of the earth that was not created to
fulfill a definite purpose.

 The reason that having a purpose becomes a determining factor in

who you get married to is because marriage does not bring
fulfillment, only God and the fulfillment of His purpose in your life
can bring that.

 If you have not yet discovered what you have been created for, do
not get involved in any intimate relationship with the opposite sex.
If you are already in a relationship, chances that you are in a
wrong one is over 90%.
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 If you are a young lady, for instance, and you are asking me how
to know a man I want to marry, I will say, look, ask the man, what is
your vision in life? This is because where ever you are going or
whatever your vision is, is where you are taking me. I may not
want to go there.
Isaac Digi
sign: When the relationship is based on emotional feeling at the neglect
of other factors.

 Permit me to say that great is the mystery of the emotion we call

love.

 Pre-marital sex creates a false sense of commitment between the

two partners, because it has a binding effect on those that are
involved in it.

 It has been discovered that in over 50% of the divorced cases, the
partners were sexually involved with one another before marriage.
 If you are dating someone and you are involved sexually, you
have laid a faulty foundation for your future with him/her. Stop
the sexual activity and do not be surprised if the relationship
comes to an end. The reason is because when you began
having sexual intercourse, the attention of your partner shifted
from you to your genitals.
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Sign: When the person you are dating is married.

 I still believe any woman who wants to walk down the aisle with
any man should take time to investigate thoroughly some facts
about him.
Kemi Dayo-Ayetan

 If your date is not faithful to the one he/she made a commitment to

in front of God and man, he/she will definitely not act differently
with you.

 Check out the records, most time the married lover never leaves
his/her spouse therefore leaving the other man/woman frustrated
and with time wasted.
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