Brotherhood

When you define brotherhood, you need to stick or observe to its relationship and purpose or how

it is oriented. Joining different kind of fraternity or brotherhood is not necessary and unimportant for me.

I totally disagree their principle saying bold brotherhood while paddling or having a choice how to be hurt

because a true brotherhood doesn’t need to hurt intentionally to say that they undergo hardship before

they come up a strong relationship. A true brotherhood is caring and accountable. It gives comfort when

you are weak, share a good advice and always lay a helping hand for you. A true friend or family are not

to be looked for or not inside an organization because a family is the one who seeks your company and

stay while you are in your ups and downs. We all know that we need to be in a group to fulfill our being,

making us a whole human being. We expect experience the real essence of a family being in a particular

organization. We forgot how real the love of family into a remake family.

It is very harmful to join fraternity and it has been proved already based on the news trend last

year and until now because of hazing. You will find it deathly abusive either physical and mentally so

why should join? Can you risk your future without criticizing the outcome of your actions? There are lots

of people who are not contented and have lack of self-confidence. Some of them uses a frat

organization to avenge people who took advantage on them or bitterly who hurt them. Some of them

are just influenced and recommended by a friend. And some are rebellion who acts against their parents

and in a very serious peer pressure and uses the organization as asset to gain power and friends. Merely

the situation they are gathered together through physical abuse represent the quality of the relationship

they have. They rescue their individuals in a such a way it become biased because they are putting some

blood in their hands and fight back without the “resbak” of the enemy. In other word, they are putting

the criminality virtue into the minds of their family. Bad idea!

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 Entering a sorority is a discourage and bad influence to other people. It will make them confused

and think if it is good, setting aside the negative part of the organization and washed their minds with

the idea you impart like “lot of people joined fraternity and they are so proud of it.” How can a man love

seeker influenced the innocent young mind to be in a real danger? Instead, focus your recent

task and solve your problems. Sometimes we are lazy and look for a way to forget it. We doubt the

charisma we have, our intelligence in different ways, we gather them into a chamber they can’t be seen

and stay in our comfort zones.

You may encounter loneliness at times you need some friend or family to lean on but it will

definitely make the situation more complicated when you enter the organization. When you feel like the

world is under you, you just need to talk to yourself and ask God for guidance. Be in a group of people

that suffer situation like your or greater than yours. And lastly don’t hesitate to approach your real

family and friend. In that way you already find the reality of brotherhood and family. A problem cannot

be solved with another problem. So, stop sticking to a group who want to see you hurting. There are still

people out there who share kindness and friendship without asking anything, willing to have you.

Remember that a sacrifice is a bait to capture the victory.

Vision: A globally competitive university for science, technology and environmental conservation
Mission: development of a highly competitive human resource, cutting-edge scientific knowledge and innovative technologies for sustainable
communities and environment