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THE RELATIONSHIP bullying PARENTING AND

BEHAVIOR IN Adolescents
Ariyanti Saleh1, Hapsah2Wiwik Krisnawati3,
1Dean in Bachelor of Nursing Study Program, Faculty of Nursing, Hasanuddin
University
2Lecturer in Bachelor of Nursing Study Program, Faculty of Nursing, Hasanuddin

University
3Nursing Science Study Program Students, Faculty of Nursing, Hasanuddin

University
E-mail: ariyanti.saleh@gmail.com1ztr.wiwialfath@gmail.com3

ABSTRACT
background: Bullying behavior is a phenomenon roomates its cases continue grow
up rapidly in every year, even bullying Often take place in shools and it do by the
students. Parenting have an important role in adolescent involvement in bullying.
Objective: This study aims to Determine the relationship between parenting and
bullying behavior in adolescents at school, Method: The research design was
quantitative with a cross sectional approach with a sample of 261 students selected
with stratified random sampling and systematic random sampling. Data was
collected using a questionnaire.The instrument that used isParenting Style and
Dimensions Questionnaire (PSDQ) and Adolescents Peer Relations Instrument
(APRI), The datas were analysed by parametric statistical difference with Chi Square
test technique. Results: The results of the study indicated resources that parenting is
Significantly related to bullying behavior in adolescents at school (p = 0.0001).
Conclusions & Suggestions:Authoritarian parenting is related with bullying
behavior as bullies. Permissive parenting is related with bullying behavior as the
victim. Expected to Increase knowledge by various parties to parents so that they can
apply effective parenting to adolescents to Prevent and deal with bullying behavior in
adolescents at school.
Keywords: Parenting, Bullying Behavior

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PRELIMINARY can reduce the level of attendance and
achievement at school(Grinshteyn &
Adolescence (Adolescence) is Yang, 2017; Oliveira et al., 2017),
the transition from children to The results of the same
adulthood when the change in the research also by Horner et al. (2015)
physical, emotional, and mental. Teen and Sartana & Afriyeni (2017)that
age limit according to the World bullying / cyberbulling can cause a
Health Organization (WHO) is 12 to 24 person's emotions such as anger,
years. Teens are not children who do sadness, shame, fear, loss of
not know anything, but they are also confidence in others, and can not
not adults who can distinguish concentrate on learning. While the
between good and bad. Emotional long-term effects by comparing the
changes that occur in adolescence is behavior of perpetrators and victims
marked by a high emotional tension, of bullying is bullying / cyberbullying
especially in the early teens can lead have the competence or social skills,
teens to experience anxiety, distress moral and emotional low so hard to
and emotional discomfort. This will blend in with the surroundings,
cause issues, such as education, drug ostracized by society and insensitivity
use, aggressive behavior and to justice(Bondü, Rothmund, &
delinquency(Susanto, 2018), Gollwitzer, 2016; Gómez-ortiz,
One of aggressive behavior that Romera-Felix & Ortega-ruiz, 2017;
often occurs in teens is bullying. Joseph & Haslinda, 2018; Zych et al.,
Bullying is a phenomenon that case 2018),
continuously increased every year, Joseph & Haslinda
even bullying often occurs in schools (2018)mention that one of the factors
and by adults. Data from the United of external causes of bullying are
Nations Children's Fund (UNICEF) parenting parents. Parents who apply
said that by 2018 some 150 million authoritarian upbringing
13-15 year-old junior high school characterized by excessive control, the
students around the world to practice of rude old people like to use
experience violent school corporal punishment as a form of
environment(Sidik, 2018), Smith discipline, lack of affection and
(2016) said that in the period from communication and humor that bad
mid-teens especially after puberty is in adolescents increases the risk of
the peak for teenagers to do with involvement in bullying behavior and
bullying behavior. the inability of young people in
Results of research conducted socializing with environment so that it
by Erika, Earth, and Artist (2017)that becomes a victim of bullying(Gómez-
more than 90% of students doing the ortiz et al., 2015; Samper-García et
bullying behavior in schools where al., 2015; Govender & Young, 2018;
physical bullying is bullying that most Martínez et al., 2019),
people do, then verbal bullying, Research conducted by Gomez-
psychosocial and cyberbullying. The Ortiz et al. (2019) that authoritarian
same study also conducted parents significantly influence
byShaheen et al. (2017) that physical adolescent involvement in bullying /
bullying was the most frequent form cyberbullying either as victims or
of bullying or commonly performed by perpetrators. Charalampous et al.
teenagers in school. (2018)also said in his research that
Bullying behavior has a serious authoritarian and permissive
negative impact and lifetime for both parenting parents can increase the
perpetrators and victims who feel risk of juvenile involvement with
physically and psychologically. bullying / cyberbullying in early
Bullying is done teenagers in school
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adolescence. so thatZurcher et al. parenting and Adolescents Peer
(2018) said that parents' parenting Relationship Instrument (APRI) to
during early adolescence is very determine the bullying behavior.
important because it can influence the The Parenting Styles and
attitudes and behavior of adolescents Dimensions Questionnaire (PSDQ)
to involvement in bullying / made by Robinson et al. (2001), This
cyberbullying. instrument has been translated and
From the description above used by previous
illustrates that bullying behaviors researchers(Princess, 2018), Has been
occur among students and to tested for validity and reliability with
increase, especially in the early teens the validity (r 0.567 to 0.866) and the
after puberty. Bullying behavior can value of reliability (Cronbach's Alpha
be caused by parents' parenting. The .757) so that the questionnaire is
survey also found that according to a feasible for use in research.
report from BK teacher that bullying Adolescent Peer Relations
behavior is common among students. Instrument Instrument (APRI), was
Therefore, researchers wanted to developed by Parada in 2000. This
know the relationship between instrument into a reliable and valid
parenting parents with bullying scale for the measurement of bullying
behavior at school in adolescence. behavior in adolescents that have
been translated by Daughter in 2018,
METHOD Has been tested for validity and
Place and method reliability with the validity (r .475 to
This research was conducted at .851) and the value of reliability
SMPN 12 Makassar in April 2019. The (Cronbach's Alpha .749).
research method used in this study is Data analysis
a quantitative non-experimental with The data were processed using
cross sectional approach. Cross Excel and SPSS for Windows. To
sectional study design is a type of determine the relationship between
study that emphasizes the parenting parents with bullying used
measurement time, where the univariate and bivariate analysis
dependent and independent variables using Chi Square.
assessed only once and is not
accompanied by follow-up(Nursalam, RESULTS
2017), Parenting Parents
Population and Sample table 1
The population in this study Frequency Distribution Parenting Parents
were students of class VII and VIII Category Parenting amount (%)
amounts to 763 students. A sample of
authoritative 140 53.6
261 students drawn using stratified
random sampling technique sampling 28.4
Authoritarian 74
where the sample selection is done by
classifying the population into sub- permissive 47 18
sub-population and then sample
selected by systematic random Total 261 100
sampling.
Method of collecting data Table 1 shows the type of
The data collection conducted parenting parents to students. Type
by researchers using questionnaires. authoritative parenting is the most
The questionnaire used is Parenting accepted by students. More than half
Style and Dimensions Questionnaire as many as 140 students (53.6%)
(PSDQ) to identify patterns of received authoritative parenting.
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Bullying behavior Total 261 100
table 2
Frequency Distribution Bullying Behavior
Categories Bullying (%) Table 2 shows the behavior of
amount
Behavior student bullying. Students are much
performer 45 17.2 more involved in bullying as a
perpetrator and a victim. More than
Victim 46 17.6 half are 139 students (53.3%) were
Perpetrators and
involved in bullying as a perpetrator
139 53.3
Victims and a victim.
Not Perpetrators and 11.9
31
Victims
Bivariate analysis
table 3
Cross distribution Parenting With Bullying Behavior
Bullying behavior
Not
Perpetrato
Perpetrato Total The p-value
Parenting performer Victim rs &
rs &
Victims
Victims
n % n % n % N % n %
authoritati
2 1.4 10 7.1 97 69.3 31 22.1 140 100
ve
Authoritar 58. 0.0001
43 3 4.1 28 37.8 0 0 74 100
ian 1
permissive 1 2.1 32 68.1 14 29.8 0 0 47 100
α = 0.05

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Table 3 shows that parenting many adolescents involved in
was significantly related to bullying bullying, either as perpetrators, as
behavior in adolescents in school (p = victims and as perpetrators and
0.0001). Respondents who earn more victims.
authoritarian parenting involved in The results showed the data
bullying as a perpetrator, while that adolescents who engage in
respondents who earn more bullying behaviors more of a role as
permissive parenting involved in perpetrators and victims. Results of
bullying as victims. Teenagers who get analysis that adolescents may act as
authoritative parenting parents more bullies and become victims of
involved and not involved in bullying bullying. Teens consider that bullying
as a perpetrator and a victim rather is the way they socialize with friends.
than teens who received authoritarian Initially reason actors do with a view
and permissive parenting. to a joke, but the victim assumes no
joke, embarrass and hurt so that
DISCUSSION victims respond with the same thing
Bullying behavior maybe even more than they receive so
Bullying is aggressive behavior that the victim is also the perpetrator.
committed by juveniles as a form of Research conducted by Erika et
incompetence in socialization with al., (2017)saying that most of
their peers, be repeated and because adolescents involved in bullying as a
of the imbalance of power. Lot perpetrator and a victim. Results of
happening bullying behavior among analysis of researchers that bullying
adolescents and performed by is a cycle that is difficult to overcome
students at the school. In SMP Negeri if there is no awareness about the
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dangers and consequences of bullying male students. In line with research
whether it be physical, psychological conducted byPrawitasari, Widianti,
and social. This reinforces the notion and Fitria (2017)that verbal bullying
KPAI that cases of bullying in schools is more common in female students.
is difficult to handle because the Female students to do more verbal
perpetrators could become victims bullying by making a joke about a
and vice versa victims can become student. Make a joke about a student
perpetrators. who conducted the perpetrator could
The results also showed that have been just a joke, but not all
teens engage in bullying behavior in young people have the power to accept
schools as a principal. The perpetrator ridicule.Soul (2008) said that many of
or bully is someone who has the the teenagers who have sensitive and
desire and actively involved in delicate feelings and is unable to
bullying behavior. The perpetrator accept the teasing from peers.
usually has more power or force to bullyingThe most commonly
suppress the victim, lack of empathy experienced verbal receive if the victim
and regard their aggressive action is a was teased by other students.
way to socialize with their peers. As Researchers assume that verbal
said byHertinjung & Karyani (2015) bullying victim received with ridicule
and Smith (2016) that the offender may cause the victim suffered
lacks attention and empathy for psychological disturbances such as
others, tend to regulate and control embarrassment, anxiety, and distress.
the environment, and less able to As expressed bySartana & Afriyeni
control the emotions. (2017), Bullying on victims can lead to
Teens who are victims of psychological problems such as anger,
bullying are also obtained in this shame, sadness, fear, anxiety, can not
study. Victims are the target actors in concentrate and do not go to school.
bullying behavior. Usually the victim Other types of bullying such as
is less popular, lack of friends, and physical and social well occur among
weak and unable to defend students in the school. Physical
themselves, if it becomes the target of bullying most often committed by the
bullying. perpetrator is hitting a student.
There are various types of Results of analysis of researchers that
bullying committed by juveniles at physical bullying committed by the
school such as physical bullying, perpetrator as an attempt to show the
verbal bullying and social bullying. strength and power of the perpetrator
The results showed that the most to the victim weaker. While physical
frequent type of bullying and is most bullying the most widely accepted by
common among young people in the victim is driven by students.
schools is verbal bullying, either as Victims feel that he is weak so that
perpetrators or as victims. Verbal victims feel that the bullying he
bullying is bullying that is directly as received indeed she deserved, felt that
insulting, calling with nicknames. she did not have the strength to
This is consistent with past studies defend themselves. By sex, physical
that say that verbal bullying is bullying is mostly done by female
bullying the most common and most students than male
often performed by students(Atik & students.(Hertinjung & Karyani, 2015;
Guneri, 2013; Hermalinda et al., Smith, 2016),
2017), bullying Social occur among
By sex, verbal bullying is most students is most often done by the
common among female students perpetrators is to make other students
either as perpetrators or victims than ignore a student. While social bullying

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is most often received by the victim is punishment and coercion, restricting
ignored by students. It is the same as the freedom of children and expect
the results of research conducted children to obey rules and orders
byPrawitasari et al. (2017)that social them without negotiating and asking.
or psychological bullying is most so thatGovender & Young (2018) in
common is to ignore or isolate. his research said that the
Excommunicate is social bullying can authoritarian parenting parents are
cause a person has no friends. mostly found on bullying.
Results of analysis of researchers that The results showed that the
social bullying is done by actors in an treatment of parents are included in
effort to gain popularity among peers. the most authoritarian parenting was
Victims of social bullying usually do berating and criticizing the child to be
not have a close friend or behave in better. This can cause a teenager to
unconventional peers so neglected by engage in bullying behavior, which
their peers. By sex, social bullying is mimics juvenile treatment of the
mostly done by women students than elderly at home so do the bullying
men, in line with the words ofSmith behavior to peers. The use of physical
(2016) that women are much more coercion and verbal and rough
involved in relational bullying or social practice of parents on authoritarian
bullying. parenting byMartínez et al. (2019)
Parenting parents relationship with cause children are often exposed to
bullying behavior violence to believe that violence is a
Pattern foster parent is one of good choice to interact with others.
the causes of the bullying behavior in The pattern of authoritarian
adolescents. Results showed parenting teens can establish a more
statistically using Chi-square test aggressive personality in the
found no significant relationship environment and socialize with peers.
between parenting with bullying Teens become less of a concern for
behavior. Parenting parents will shape others, tend to be set up and
the attitudes and behavior of controlled environment, is not
adolescent personality that affect concerned with the applicable rules,
young people in environmental and are less able to control the emotions
socialize with peers. This is similar to that are more aggressive and engaged
the research conducted in bullying behavior(Hertinjung &
by(Charalampous et al., 2018; Karyani, 2015),
Ramadia & Daughter, 2019) that Based on the results of the
parenting parents is significantly study showed that the adolescents
associated with adolescent behavior involved in bullying as victims obtain
and involvement in bullying. more permissive parenting.
Adolescents involved in bullying Charalampous et al. (2018)in his
as a perpetrator has gained more research said that victims of bullying
authoritarian upbringing. are generally more associated with
Authoritarian parenting parents are permissive parenting parents. By
characterized by the use of physical permissive parentsCerezo et al. (2015)
punishment in the discipline, and Zurcher et al. (2018) do not allow
exposure to violence from parents, their children to socialize with other
verbal hostility, would form teenager people (overprotection) so that
aggressive behavior towards their children are more dependent on their
peers. Authoritarian parenting parents and they can not defend
byBaumrind (2013) Has a high control themselves when being bullied.
but less responding to the needs of Victims of bullying can also be
children where the discipline by using caused by the individual character

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which, according to Soul (2008) positive socialization, have high self-
victims felt weak, felt that bullying he esteem, are able to develop their
received deserved to be accepted, to potential so as to socialize with their
feel ugly, stupid, or is not popular. peers and do not engage in bullying
Hertinjung & Karyani, (2015)in his behavior.
research said that the victim is more
quiet, shy, often solitary, difficult to
adapt to the environment so as to CONCLUSIONS AND SUGGESTIONS
have a little friend. The individual It can be concluded that
characters can be formed on the parents' parenting was significantly
pattern of permissive parenting where related to bullying behavior in
parents do not let their children adolescents in school. Authoritarian
develop social skills for relating to parenting parents dealing with
others(Baumrind, 2013) bullying behavior of students as
The results showed that the actors, while permissive parenting
treatment of parents are included in parents related to student bullying
the most permissive parenting is the behavior as a victim. Expected to be a
parents threatened to punish but not source of information and knowledge
actually doing it. This is according for the various parties so that parents
toSurbakti (2009)cause adolescents can implement effective parenting of
will develop the personality and adolescents to prevent and deal with
emotional chaos. Teens act as they bullying behavior in adolescents in
pleased, have a low level of school.
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