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success.
It is a Cook Book
INTRODUCTION
The search for meaning in human existence and the why and how of human
behaviour continues for all of us when interacting with people. Very often
therapy give people a useful method for discovering the fragmented parts of
This book can be used as a guide and reference for those interested in
enriching their lives and their interpersonal relations and realize, most
Who is not familiar with Shiv Khera’s ever-inspiring and motivating quote?
helping them realize their true potential and has taken his dynamic message
Shiv Khera comes from a family of businessmen that used to own coal
mines, his grand father lost the business and Shiv left India to start life over.
He landed in the USA and did various things from washing cars to selling
life insurance. His struggling life took a winning direction when he attended
Vincent changed his life forever and he moved forward on his success path.
has helped people on the path of personal growth and achievement. Over
workshops internationally and around one million people have heard him as
a Keynote Speaker.
known as the Blueprint for Success (BPS). This program motivates people
to identify their true potential and achieve success both in their personal and
professional spheres of life. He has developed several such programs that
not only in the country but worldwide. His international best seller, “You Can
Win”, was his first book, which came out in 1998 and sold over a million
copies worldwide in 8 languages. His second book “Living with Honor” hit
the stands in August 2003, which again pleased million book lovers across
the world. Then within a period of six months in February 2004, his third
book “Freedom Is Not Free” was on the stands. Though this book plunged
Club International has honored him with a "Lifetime Achievement Award" for
Shiv Khera always strived to help India and its people as well. Inspired by
called “Country First Foundation” in order to serve his country. The vision of
this trust is “Respect and Dignity for every Indian" and the mission is “to
forums. His objective is to boost the morale of the common Indian and to
eradicate social injustice through education. Every true Indian should come
forward to join his Country First Movement and contribute to the nation’s
development.
It wants to make you to create an Action Plan for the rest of your life.
Action Plan
The whole book is divided into 8 chapters. I will describe that briefly as
1. Importance of Attitude
2. Success
3. Motivation
4. Self Esteem
5. Interpersonal skills
7. Goal setting
“If there was one thing that you would like to see change, that would make
15% of the time a person gets a promotion at work due to WHAT THEY.
When a hammer hits glass it shatters, when it hits steel it forges it.”
~Russian saying.
“Life is a grindstone – either it can polish you up, or it could grind you down
Horse racing.
Is the winning horse 10 times faster than the horse that comes 2nd?
Probably NOT!
Winners Vs Losers
The authors show how T.A. along with experiments derived from gestalt
They believe that all have the potential to be a winner — an alive, aware,
real person. Gestalt Means “an organized whole”. Earlier analysts like Dr
are fragmented. The aim of gestalt therapy is to help people become whole
used.
EGO STATES
tests reality.
a. Complementary Transactions
b. Crossed Transactions
c. Ulterior Transactions
a. The lines of communication are open and responses are positive and
predictable.
As a tool TA can be used to ‘discover’ one’s real self, to realize how one
relates to others and be aware of the course one’s life is taking. One
reviews one’s inner discord and can choose options open to one. It serves
desirable changes.
child’s primary hunger for physical touch and love emerges as a need for
position’. Listening - lending your ear - is one of the best strokes one can
feelings and needs are thwarted. These negative strokes give the message
CHANGE is not always easy. However people can LEARN new ways of
transacting.
the Adult must gain knowledge of the child & parent ego states. This is part
of his/her self awareness. When your adult ego state is turned on and tuned
in, it can help you set the course of your life much more intelligently.
manipulation reflect the child ego state. This develops into three discernible
parts:-
a. This is that part of the child ego state that is the very young, expressive
c. That part of the child ego that modifies the natural child’s inclinations.
Conflicts:
When a person’s Adult and Child states come into conflict, the individual
FEW COMMENTS
Shiv Khera did not write any new concepts for achieving success.
He wrote only all the prevalent ideas by many other authors in new,
This is for the people who have never read any success book or
But Shiv khera have taken all the essential substance from many
CONCLUSION