Secret Phrases to Attract and

Addict Any Guy You Want!

Hi there! Below you will find your 20 phrases (yes, that’s

20​ phrases, and not 10 like I initially promised ;).

I’m sure you’ll find them extremely useful.

I decided to divide this report into two parts:

Part 1​ includes phrases for single women to use on men

they just met to make them​ instantly​ attracted to them.

Part 2 ​includes phrases for women who are already in a

relationship and want their man to become ​fixated​ on
them and only them.

So without further ado, let’s start:

 Part 1
Let’s face it, none of us walks into a bar knowing that we’ll
be leaving with the mate of our dreams. If that special
person happens to be waiting for us inside, nursing a
scotch as the music plays around them, we know before
we even approach them that the odds are high we’ll blow
this chance right out of the gate.

That’s what makes the dating game so terrifying. It’s not

the idea that we’ll never find a person we would want to
spend the rest of our lives with, because we all know that
the right person is going to come along eventually. It’s
the fact that, when that opportunity is in front of us, we
will only have one chance to get it right.

That’s why I’ve written this special report: to boost your

chances far higher than they’ve ever been before. To
make sure that, when the time comes and your ideal man
is standing in front of you, you’ll know exactly what to
say to make him long to see you again – and again, and
again.

You can use these sentences to break the ice in a way

that won’t just surprise him, but will make him intrigued
to find out more. Before you know it, you’ll be several
 dates in and starting to think this might be a love affair
for the ages.

So don’t sit around in that crowded bar, waiting for him

to notice you. Don’t catch sight of your Romeo on the
street and watch as he disappears into the distance. Take
this bull by the horns, get over there and use one of these
lines and I guarantee you’ll be going home with his
phone number.

1.​ ​“Do you mind if I sit here?”

This line works no matter where you are, assuming that

there’s seating, and is the perfect opening for a shy
woman who doesn’t feel comfortable playing her hand in
her very first sentence. Wait until there’s an open seat
right next to him and walk over. Flash him your warmest
and brightest smile as you ask it so that you’ve given
him the subconscious impression you’re approachable
and friendly. If he says no, go ahead and walk away –
he’ll have a good reason and you’ve just saved yourself
potential embarrassment, because nothing about this line
implies you were trying to chat him up. If he says yes,
simply sit down and flash him another smile. If he’s
interested, he’s bound to start up some small talk, maybe
right away or after a pause. If you get the impression that
 he would like to but he’s a little gun shy, you can get the
conversation going yourself. Just like that, with six
simple words, you’ve created a situation where the two
of you are sitting “together”, even though you’ve never
spoken in your lives, and chatting is a natural next step.

2.​ “​ Sorry to bother you, but I really need some help

and I was wondering if you might be willing”

Ah, the knight in shining armor. He’s hidden away inside

every man alive, just waiting for his opportunity to come
roaring out of the shadows and sweep a woman off her
feet. Every guy longs for this opportunity – it’s hard
wired into his very DNA. If you approach a guy at the
office, on the street, in a club or in fact absolutely
anywhere, this line is guaranteed to make him stand to
instant attention. It’s a perfect conversation starter
simply because he won’t be able to resist it, and also
because you’re speaking to that primal part of him that
wants to take care of the people he cares about. If you
need to engineer a situation that requires help, go ahead
– he’ll never know. Or, at least, by the time you tell him
how cunning you are and the two of you have a good
laugh about it, it’ll be far too late to ruin your chances.
Hide your car keys and tell him you’ve locked yourself
out, pretend you’re lost and need help finding your
 destination, ask him how to work a new machine at the
gym – you may need to conjure something up quickly,
so it can help to have a couple of ideas prepared in
advance, because you never know when that ideal man is
going to come across your radar.

3.​ “​ Excuse me, I was wondering where you got your

shirt from/where you got such a deep sun tan/how
you knew which wine to order/what phone that is
you’re using/what that amazing cologne is you have
on”

Don’t be afraid to flatter a man by letting him know you’ve

noticed something about him. Again, this one works well
for shyer women who have a hard time approaching a
guy directly. Instead of expressing your romantic interest
right off the bat, you can compliment his style or actions
by asking him about them. Everyone likes to think that
other people are interested in them, so approaching him
this way will disarm him right away. He’ll feel
compelled to at least answer your question, giving you
the chance to follow it up with more and lead the
conversation, let him take the lead or even, if you’re
feeling brave, suggest that the two of you sit down for a
drink to get to know each other better. The key here is
that you’ve started your relationship by being interested
 in him. It doesn’t matter exactly what about him that you
choose to ask about, so you’ll need to improvise just a
little. It does matter that you are genuinely interested in
hearing the answer.

4.​ “​ I think my phone has stopped working. Think you

could call it for me to see if it picks up?”

This is a cheeky one that should be followed up with a wry

grin the second he realizes what you’re up to. It’s a spin
on the old favorite of a guy asking a gal for her number
by basically tricking him into giving it to you. At first,
you’re once again pandering to his need to be the knight
in shining armor. Depending on the guy, this might last
just a second or it could keep him going right until the
second his number flashes up on your screen. (If it does,
follow up with, “Guess you’d better give me your name,
too, so I know what to put in my contact book”, just to
make sure he’s now in on the joke.) The second he
realizes, flash him a cheeky grin and watch as he laughs
in return. You’ve broken the ice, you’ve let him know
that you’re interested and, most importantly of all,
you’ve told him that you’re not only a strong and
confident woman, you’re one with a helluva sense of
 humor. The conversation ought to start flowing pretty
easily for there.

5.​ “​ Never seen the quarterback play this well/I think

this might be the band’s best gig yet, don’t
you?/What do you reckon our chances are for the
rest of the season?”

Another one where improvisation is the key, you can use it

at any event where the two of you seem likely to have a
shared interest. If you see the man of your dreams at a
sports game, music gig, play or anywhere else that is an
activity the two of you have chosen to indulge your time
and money in in order to enjoy, then the chances are that
the two of you are compatible on at least this level. Use
it as an opportunity to find out exactly how deep that
connection might go. It’s another easy opener because it
doesn’t require you to make your feelings known right
away. On the other hand, you’re showing him how
knowledgeable you are on what might just be one of his
favorite topics – and what could be a better start to a
beautiful friendship than that? One quick note before we
move on, though: under no circumstances should you
start going to games and gigs you have no interest in,
just because you might meet a man there. If you don’t
 have a real opinion to share on that topic, he’s going to
know you’re trolling for booty right away.

6.​ “​ Do you believe in love at first sight? Or should I

walk past you again?”

There’s nothing wrong with a cheesy chat-up line if it really

does make a guy laugh. Just like offering to buy him a
drink, it shows him you’re confident and fun and that
you’re not afraid to laugh at yourself – there’s nothing
sexier than a hot girl who doesn’t take herself too
seriously. If this one doesn’t tickle your fancy, that’s ok
– any line that makes you laugh will probably have the
same effect on him. Once you’ve delivered it and shared
a giggle together, the ice is completely shattered and
you’ve left the door open for him to initiate a
conversation that could lead somewhere wonderful. You
can also help to lead that conversation if he’s a little
awkward or shy – as long as he’s showing signs of
interest, you have a green light to keep going.
Confidence is a supremely attractive thing in a woman,
so rest assured that, if he has any interest at all in
meeting a woman tonight and he likes what he’s seeing,
the cheesiest chat-up line in the world is still going to
work.
7.​ ​“Maybe one day, when I know you a lot better, I’ll
tell you about some of the things I’ve done in my life
that would make your eyes go wide”

The man you have in your sights really can’t argue with
your logic here: if you’ve got secrets that you would
only tell to someone you felt completely comfortable
with, it would be wrong to try to persuade you
otherwise. He might try, because intrigue is a powerful
motivator, but you can refuse with a laugh and a
come-hither grin. This sentence throws up an air of
mystery about the hidden depths he has yet to uncover –
it tells him that he doesn’t yet know nearly everything
about you there is to know. And as I’m sure you’ve
guessed by now, that’s going to make him ravenous to
find out more. Slip this one into a conversation about
your past, when the timing seems right. It works during
that very first conversation or later, when you’re getting
to know each other on a first date.

8.​ ​“I can’t wait to show you off to my friends”

Pure and unadulterated flattery, this sentence runs deeper

than it might seem. He will instantly have a mental
image of himself as a prize with women cooing over
 him, inspecting him for all his many merits. You’ve just
told him that he’s not just a good prospect as a
boyfriend, but the kind of man a woman can parade in
front of the people whose opinions she respects most
with absolute pride. Now, every time you’re in the
company of your girlfriends, he’s going to remember
you said this and get a rush of ego boost that he will find
incredibly addictive.

9.​ “​ Oh I’m really not looking for anything serious

right now – I just want to enjoy life and experience
everything new and exciting that I can”

Despite the fact that pretty much any man you meet is
hoping to one day settle down, put on a tux and walk
down the aisle, maybe have his woman pop out a few
kids to play behind the white picket fence, you’ll have a
hard time convincing most of them that’s the case.
Because men are contradictory creatures, they
simultaneously want these things and fear them. This is
because they are terrified of being “caught” and pinned
down, and will naturally balk at any suggestion this is
about to happen. If you can slip this sentence into the
first conversation, you’ll set his mind at ease even
though it was you who got the conversation going in the
first place. You’ll also present yourself as someone
 intriguing and interesting, who he could potentially have
a whole lot of fun with. That, I assure you, is something
he’s going to want to hear more about.

10.​ “​ I’ve really enjoyed chatting with you, but I did

notice a couple of unusual things about you”

Leave this one till the end of the conversation, because

you’re going to need to make a speedy exit once you’ve
said it. This line works by creating a cliffhanger – posing
a question in his mind that he will be more than curious
to have answered. He’s bound to respond by asking you
what those unusual things are – at which point, you will
want to excuse yourself and say that you really must get
going but, if the two of you meet again, you’ll happily
elaborate. If you haven’t already exchanged numbers,
this is a great moment to suggest it. The question will
then eat away at him, boosting his attraction to you far
beyond a casual interest in going on a date. He’ll want to
know what’s so strange about him that you mentioned it
out loud, and the only way he’s going to find out is to
see you again. So now you’ve said it and offered to
exchange numbers, with a sense of hurry in your voice
because you really do have to get going, make sure that’s
exactly what you do. Don’t give him the chance to ask
you what you mean again – you want him to go home
tonight thinking about you.
 Part 2
Just a few, simple sentences added to your dating repertoire
and you can legitimately call yourself an expert on
communicating with the opposite sex. Even better than
that: you’ll have the secret weapons at your fingertips to
turn a fledgling romance into a deep and lasting love.

While I’m aware that your eyebrows probably raised

towards the ceiling as you read those first couple of
sentences, rest assured that what you are about to learn
has the backing of years of scientific research into the
male mind.

You don’t have to do that research for yourself – all you

really need are the results, and I’m here right now to
share them with you. The simple, everyday sentences
that are going to make the man of your dreams fall into a
desperate state of desire. The whispered phrases that will
make him yearn to be with you, now and for always.

Sounds too good to be true? I’m pleased to say that it’s not.
There really are a few simple sentences that will attract
his attention and make him fall in love with you. I’m
going to tell you what they are and why they work, so
that you can take them with you into the dating game
and prepare to use them to your advantage.
Ready to unlock your secret weapons? Here goes...

11.​ “I Want You”

​

Three simple little words – that’s all it takes. A man who

isn’t absolutely sure of himself always finds it difficult
to gauge exactly what you’re thinking – and there’s
really no such thing as a man who is completely sure of
himself. There will always be a nagging doubt that he’s
doing the right thing when he makes his move and that
doubt hangs around as your relationship progresses
towards the bedroom. When you whisper this phrase into
his ear at just the right time, you release all that pressure
from his mind. Now, instead of worrying how you might
react if he puts his hand just there or moves in to kiss
you, he will feel a rush of gratitude towards you for
putting him at his ease. He may not consciously realize
it, but he will begin to associate you with the ego boost
you just gave him. He’ll feel more comfortable with you,
and he’ll feel like a success. These are things that any
man finds important: if the romance is going to last, he
needs to feel like he’s the center of your attention and
that you find him utterly attractive. With three well
timed words, you’ve just done exactly that.
12.​ “I Love it When You Touch Me There”
​

Along the same lines, it’s a rare guy who is completely

confident in his bedroom technique. At the back of his
mind, he is always wondering if you’ve had better in the
past and if he’s managing to please you at all. By
including this simple little piece of pillow talk in your
vocabulary, you give him the reassurance he needs.
There are few areas in life that are more important to a
man’s ego than his performance in the bedroom, so
making him feel as though he’s the world’s greatest
lover is going to have a huge and lasting impact on his
feelings towards you. Again, it will also make him feel
more relaxed and confident around you, which will
prove important to the longevity of your partnership. But
right now, in the heat of the moment, it’s that stroking of
his ego that really matters. By simply letting him know
that what he’s doing is working for you, you’ve done his
ego the kind of favor he will never, ever forget.

13.​ “You Shouldn’t Fall in Love With Me”

​

Looking to throw a spanner in the works? This one works

best early on in your dating days with a guy, and it can
have a very powerful effect indeed. Why? Because you
are telling this man that you are a challenge that can
 never be conquered. You have just told him that he will
never win you, no matter what he does, and that’s a
challenge he will not be able to help taking on. By his
very nature, this man you want to win is interested in the
idea of overcome and conquer. He wants to win you and
that chase is the most enticing part of a relationship for
him. You’ve shown that you’re interested by dating him
in the first place, but now you’re telling him that you
cannot possibly be won. He has enough of a base to
stand on that he can feel confident you’re attracted to
him, but now there’s a barrier between him and getting
what he wants. That’s going to make him want you even
more – it’s going to put him in conquer mode, and he
won’t stop chasing you until you give in.

14.​ “Could You Explain How This Works/What This Is

​

For Me?”

Guys like to be seen as experts – that’s a fact that none of us

would find surprising. When it comes to their career,
hobbies and interests, we don’t just want to be
recognized for having a go at things: we want you to see
us as the best. It’s an ego thing, once again. It doesn’t
matter if it’s deep sea diving or how to put together a
spreadsheet, he wants to be able to puff his chest and
prove that he knows everything there is to know about it.
 And if he can strut his stuff in front of you, knowing that
you’re an avid audience, then so much the better. Next
time he starts to talk about something that interests him
but that you know very little about, seize the
opportunity. Ask him about it – let him tell you more.
Rest assured that you will be appealing to the parts of
him that make him long to be the alpha male, even if he
never stands a chance of leading the pack. He’ll feel
special and important and he’ll associate that feeling
with you.

15.​ “I Don’t Mind if You Want to Spend the Evening

​

With Your Buddies”

If there’s one cliché that holds true in the dating game, it’s
that your man will start to get pouty if he thinks he’s
being banned from spending time with his group of
buddies. If he mentions that there’s a sports game
coming up, that a guys’ night out has been planned or
that his buddy from work has tickets to a gig, seize the
opportunity. Tell him straight out that you don’t mind if
he goes – that you aren’t the ball and chain that old
cliché is telling him you are. It won’t just free him up to
pursue the activities he’s wanting to do – which, in and
of itself, is something he’ll adore you for. It will also tell
him that you’re confident and strong enough not to feel
 threatened by the types of things that typically happen on
a guys’ evening. Strip club? No problem. Porn? No
worries. You trust him and know that it’s perfectly
natural for a man to spend time with his friends. He will
love you for understanding that.

16.​ “I Noticed What You Did For Me”

​

Ever noticed that guys say the three magic words a lot less
often than women do? When a man tells you he loves
you, it’s usually in response to you saying it first. But
that doesn’t mean he isn’t thinking it or doesn’t want
you to know it. Actually, he’s showing you how he feels
about you all day long, in a hundred different ways.
When he fixed the headlight on your car. When he made
you a snack while you watched a movie. When he found
your favorite magazine at the grocery store. A man
shows his love through his actions far more than his
words and a lot of women completely fail to notice it
when he does. If you acknowledge his efforts and let him
know that he’s appreciated, he will feel the gratification
that we all enjoy feeling when we make our loved ones
happy. He will also feel as though you really, truly
understand him – and a woman who understands her
man is an easy woman to fall in love with.
17.​ ​“I Love the Way Your Skin Feels Against My
Fingers”

You can modify this sentence if you want to, just as long as
you pay attention to its construction. Read it carefully
and tell me how it makes you feel. Does it light up your
senses and get your imagination working? Imagine what
it would do if your lover whispered it to you. Any
sentence that conjures up your man’s senses is going to
have an immediate and profound effect on him. You can
use it to appeal to any of his senses: this example works
on his sense of touch, but you could talk about how good
he smells, how much you love running your eyes down
his body, the sound of his breathing in your ear or the
way his lips taste when he kisses you. The key is to bring
in his senses, which in turn will stimulate those senses.
This also works like a dream when the two of you are
apart. If you really want to stir up his libido and make
him think about you all day long, slip a few sensual
sentences into your conversations. A woman who can do
this is a woman he will want to spend time with – now,
and well into the future.

18.​ “I Feel Safe When I’m With You”

​
Let’s dive all the way back down into your man’s primal
needs and desires to explain this particular gem. He’s a
guy, so even though you’re an independent woman who
doesn’t need to be looked after, he has that deeply rooted
desire to watch over you. He wants to look after you
because it’s what his hormones are telling him to do on
an unconscious level. He wants to know that he makes
you feel secure, because that in turn tells him that he’s
doing his job as a man correctly. I can’t stress how
important this is, either: a man who feels emasculated is
a man who really can’t be comfortable and happy. Even
if he doesn’t realize it, deep down he always knows that
something is very wrong. So put aside your doubts with
this one, if you have them, and go ahead and reassure
him that he’s the safety in your life. It won’t make you
seem needy or desperate, I promise. But what it will do
is make him feel like a man – and a man who wants you
to be his woman.

19.​ “I Love Your...”

​

I can’t complete this sentence for you – that would rather

defeat its point. What I can do is tell you to spend a little
time thinking about your lover and what it is that makes
him truly special to you. What is it that makes your toes
curl or your heart miss a beat when you think about him?
 What was it that you first noticed about him, or what
have you grown to appreciate over time? Despite what
popular culture would have you believe, women are
certainly not the only ones who love an honest
compliment. Always start off with “I” to personalize the
moment and make sure that he knows it’s coming from
your heart to his. Then simply make sure that the
compliment is genuine. If you can also tap into elements
of his looks, personality or achievements that are
particularly meaningful to him, so much the better. He
will bask in the knowledge that the woman he’s dating
has not only noticed these things about him, but actively
appreciates them.

20.​ “​ I Liked it When You...”

Again, I can’t complete this sentence for you, but this time
it’s because it depends on the context. When and where
you choose to utilize this magic phrase will decide how
you should end it. Essentially, what I am suggesting you
do is watch out for little affectionate actions and
moments that are unique to how he treats you. Maybe
your guy likes to run his hand through your hair as he
kisses you, maybe he holds your hand in front of his
family members. Whatever it is, make sure you let him
know that it melts your heart. The effect it will have is to
 validate his behavior – to let him know that it’s been
noticed by you and approved. Especially in the early
days of dating, he has no real way to confirm whether
you like the things he does for you, so this is a great way
to intensify the bond between you with a simple
sentence. It’s a reward for his thoughtfulness, which in
turn makes him excited to see how else he can please
you. Never forget: a man wants to please his woman and
make her happy, so he will always be thrilled to hear that
his efforts are working.

A single sentence, that’s all it takes. Each of the secret

phrases I’ve given you in this guide have massive
potential to awaken parts of your man that even he may
not have known existed, let alone have ever tapped in to.

Most of these secret sentences can also be used regularly.

Reinforce the emotions and sensations that you want him
to experience when he’s with you or when he thinks
about you – train him to see you as the perfect girlfriend
in a way that couldn’t be easier to achieve.

When you use the art of language to strengthen and deepen

your relationship, you’ll find out fast that your man can
barely resist you. After all, you’re exactly what he’s
always wanted in a partner.
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