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"Ordinary People"
vokradio | 17/05/2009
By : M. Azad Moradian
The purpose of the following article is to help graduate and undergraduate level students
in the fields of psychology, social sciences, and/or film be able to have a model of how to
look at a movie from the perspective of their fields of study and write a paper utilizing
their knowledge.
In the following papers movies are analyzed, interpreted, discussed, and ultimately
criticized a way that is very specifically related to academic understanding of
psychological subjects, which is a different way of looking at film than the traditional
way. We hope that you can find the following helpful and we will appreciate your
comments as well as any submissions that you might have that could be published in this
category
Abstract
The family chosen to be analyzed from two different family therapy theoretical
perspectives, as well as from the perspective of a potential family who might reach out to
bee seen by a therapist is the Jarrett's family based on the film Ordinary People.
The two models chosen are Structural Family Therapy Theory and Emotional Focused
Couple Therapy Theory. These theories were examined due to the family's observed
dynamic, interactions, communication methods, and need for intervention.
In this paper, each individual member of the family will be looked at from the theoretical
perspective of each model and put into context of a family dynamic and how each of their
relations affect one another.
Some ideas and intervention methods will be offered based on each theoretical model to
move the family towards a healthier and more enriching relationship.
Introduction:
Ordinary People
Director: Robert Redford
Writers: Judith Guest (Novel)
Alvin Sargent (Screenplay)
Main Actors: Donald Sutherland, Judd Hirsch, And Timothy Hutton
Main Actress: Mary Tyler Moore And Elizabeth McGovern
Release Date: 2 March 1981 (Sweden)
Genre: Drama
Awards: Won 4 Oscars. Another 14 wins & 8 nominations
A Paramount Picture (USA)
Ordinary People is one of the very few Hollywood movies that at best realistically and at
worst again realistically looks at a family struck by tragedy. It depicts what might happen
to an upper middle-class family when tragedy strikes unexpectedly, and order is turned
into chaos. Everyone must, however, continue to upkeep a mask of normalcy for society
and for each other. The film sheds light into a family, due to a tragedy, has turned into
separate individuals inhabiting the same house, who cannot communicate their grief
effectively. It realistically, without over dramatization, look into misplaced guilt at every
level. The family's inability to work together as a system through the tragedies lead them
down to a path where they each felt an individual breakdown and ultimately the family as
a dynamic.
Beth, Calvin, and their son Conrad are living in the aftermath of the death of the oldest
son Buck. Conrad is overcome by grief and misplaced guilt to the extent of an attempted
suicide and some time of hospitalization. He seeks out therapy because he needs to feel
more "in control". Beth had always favored Buck and does not connect with Conrad.
Calvin is trapped between the two trying to hold the family together but the pressure is
building and he is coming to realizations of his own.
Conrad is the Identified Patient (IP) of the Jarrett family. He is the youngest son of the
family. A High School student recently returned home from a four months hospital stay
after a serious suicide attempt. He exhibits signs of depression and PTSD. He has trouble
sleeping and/or has nightmares of trauma, which might have triggered his symptoms. He
blames himself for a boating accident, which killed his brother. He does not have an
appetite, has very little social contact with friends, cannot concentrate in class, is faltering
in swimming team, and does not display a good relationship with his parents.
We are introduced to Calvin, Conrad's father, as he is falling asleep in the theatre next to
his wife Beth who seems much more entertained by the play than he is. Calvin returns
home, goes right away to Conrad's room, and asks if he will see a therapist soon, showing
much concern for his well being than Beth.
Clearly, from our first meeting with Calvin, we realize that there is a disconnect within
the marriage, and a gender role in the Jarrett household that is not aligned with our idea
of a traditional family view as the mother being more of the care giver than the father.
We are introduced to Beth, Conrad's mother, who in the first interaction with her only son
shoves his breakfast in the disposer without any hesitation when he says he is not hungry.
Clearly, a communication barrier is present, as well as a very subtle passive-aggressive
hostility from Beth towards both Conrad and Calvin.
Our introduction to our key characters shows right away that there is conflict within this
family. That not only is this family in grief, but that each member is struggling to
communicate effectively, and there is an unhealthy power dynamic within this structure.
Looking at the Jarrett family from a Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFCT)
Theory:
Emotional Focused Couple Therapy Theory is a theory that can best describe the
experiences that the Jarrett family is going through. These include, but are not limited to,
lack of communication or affective communication, disagreements over what is a priority
to each member for example whether to go on vacation or stay to take care of their son's
psychological needs.
In the film, a particular scene which clearly captures a family in conflict and seemingly in
different worlds is a memorable scene where Calvin tells his wife Beth that he was very
disturbed that she wanted him to change the shoes and shirt he wore to their son Buck's
funeral. To Beth appearances and people's opinion is everything, even when her favorite
son has died. To Calvin what he wore is arbitrary and irrelevant but he had complied at
the time without questioning and was unable to contain his pain about that.
The family never sought natural support from their friends and family when they faced
crises or tragedies. More often than not, this was due to Beth's insecure feelings. Beth
feels as though she must create an illusion of contentment to the outside world, even if it
is at the risk of neglecting her family's needs. A very interesting scene when this is
evident is when Beth finds out from a friend that Conrad has quit the swim team. She
becomes very angry and Conrad insists that she is only angry because she found out from
someone else.
Conrad is clearly frustrated with his mother's behaviors, but he is not able to
communicate in an appropriate way so he either lashes out or isolates himself.
"Things are left unsaid and emotions become sour". The family cannot differentiate
between thought and feeling, between what they feel and what they think. "What is
bothering you? "Everything!!" "Did we say that"..."we mean nothing at all" the response
always ends with silence or misunderstanding of each other's feelings.
Emotional Focused Couple Therapy Theory is able to focus on a positive drive to change
the family's relationship. Emotional Focused Couple Therapy theory is able to clarify
how the way the family is responding to each other is not healthy. Family needs to
restructure their patterns of communications. The emotional connection needs to change,
although it will be hard for Beth, who is not tolerant to any kinds of change.
More than likely, Calvin will be expressing his feelings about Beth's relationship with
their deceased son and her lack of connection with Conrad.
In the movie, we find out the different individual emotions, angers, feelings, which act or
react within the family relationships. Each individual has patterns and habits, which may
have a role on the family dynamic. Beth needs help gaining cognition about the ways she
is failing to communicate with her son or how she can be more constructive.
Beth needs more compliments and positive responses to what her son is doing from the
outside.
Conrad should be able to in a safe environment and within appropriate boundaries
express his anger and resentment towards his mother. He was able to do this with his
psychiatrist.
It seems that the family needs to be restructure in a positive ways. They need a new
experience of an emotionally meaningful level and to learn the way to get more attached
to the concept of the family and to each other. A great deal of their struggles revolves
around the tragedies they have faced and not coped with appropriately, and so family has
many negative connotations. For Conrad the family means grief and isolation, for Beth it
might mean chaos and being out of control, and for Calvin it might mean responsibility
and failure. These meanings might have to be replaced by more positive feeling, such as;
"home", "comfort", "support", and "love."
As the Dr. Susan Johnson says " Emotion is the music of the attachment dance; changing
the music rapidly reorganizes the partners' interactional dance" (Johnson, 1998).
The two theories that seems most appropriate for the family in "ordinary people" is
Family Structural Family Therapy Theory (SFT) and Emotionally Focused Couple
Therapy Theory (EFCT). Other approaches such as Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy could
have also worked but might have underestimated the emotional need of the family to
reconnect.
SFT emphasizes the structure of the family and places less focus on the individual. Since
the system of the Jarrett family seems to be flawed and leading to pathology in each
individual, it is best to focus on the restructuring of that flawed system. The members of
the Jarrett family are disconnected and SFT focuses on the family as a whole, which
could help them tremendously. SFT would work on the dysfunctional structures already
at work in the Jarrett family.
EFCT could help greatly with the communication barriers and the emotional disconnects
that were the aftermath of unresolved issues and tragedies.
If I were to work with the Jarrett family in "Ordinary People", I would personally prefer
to use the combination of the methods in EFCT, SFT and cognitive behavioral therapy
model. I find that in family such as the Jarrett family, who are portrayed by the film as
having a good financial and social foundation, who are educated people, that method of
focusing on the positive, and on the emotions that live within them might be the best idea.
I would certainly recommend that Conrad and Beth both receive intensive individual
therapy.