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First, let’s start with what makes us want to be con dent. Some might want to be
con dent because they might want to be happier. You may want to feel prettier and
more attractive, you may want to stop being that shy girl or guy, and you want to be
desirable to yourself and others. Most of the time it’s easier to get out there and nd
a partner when you master the ways to be con dent. You might be looking for an
energy that you’ve seen in other people that you haven’t been able to see in yourself,
or “life” has happened to you in the past and it has brought your con dence levels
down. You want to know how to be con dent again. Mastering your con dence does
take time, work, and energy. I can guarantee that if you are willing to put in the work
of getting the ultimate con dence, you will be one step closer to nding
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ideal partner or just feeling better about yourself every day!
Dating these days can feel like you’ve been entered into the Miss Universe pageant.
You were never trained to be a pageant girl and you’re still trying to gure out how,
right? I mean men and women these days are spending fortunes on looking their
best when it comes to eating right, exercising, and even plastic surgery! What we
tend to do as humans is compare ourselves to others but in order to be con dent,
we cannot compare ourselves to others. By comparing ourselves to others we are
not only ghting an uphill battle of trying to be someone who we are not, but we are
also giving our attention and/or energy to something that will not serve us and will
not teach us con dence. So, avoid comparing yourself to others by saying some
common things like “I wish I was that skinny”, “I wish I had his car”, “When I have that
amount of money, I will have the relationship of my dreams”, “I wish I had her hair”, “I
wish I had her smile” etc. These are just a few examples of some self-deprecating
comments we feed to our ego that don’t teach us anything about developing self-
worth. Instead, we are training our energy to exude less con dence. The women
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that have mastered con dence do not compare themselves to anyone else, because
they are completely comfortable in their own skin and have a signi cant amount of
self-love.
By understanding that every look is unique and every look is special, you always have
something di erent to o er than the person standing next to you. Energy and
con dence are what make you attractive. Letting go of limiting beliefs and practicing
self-love while understanding you are enough will make you the most attractive
woman or a man walking into that bar, date (https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ rst-
date-conversation-starters/) or party! In order to stop this habit, you must identify
the moments that you are feeding your ego with self-deprecating comments and
shut it up! This will help you become con dent and you will start mastering the ways
on how to become con dent.
How Do You Become More Confident?
Another way to be con dent is through your body language. When you’re on a date
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relationship, you want to make sure you are engaging in conversation with your body
language. Your feet and legs are pointed in your partner’s direction, you’re making
eye contact, and you are also slightly leaned in to show that you are interested and
engaged in the conversation. By doing this you are not separating yourself, which is
something that shy people have a tendency to do. The downside of being shy and
trying to gure out how you can be con dent is that it can have an e ect on your
date and they might think that you’re not interested. So, it’s important that you
practice body language in order to embrace and highlight your con dence. Here are
a couple pointers to get you started so you’re one step closer to truly being
con dent.
When it comes to dating apps and social media (which is a big topic when it comes to
self-con dence), so many women and men love the Instagram models, editing their
photos before posting, and taking numerous sel es only to hashtag #happy or
#blessed. Ok, let me get one thing straight if you want to master a healthy
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woman/) a good quality man, do not post numerous sel es and half-naked photos of
yourself. You might think this is showing con dence, but it’s actually the complete
opposite. A man that is attracted to your half-naked photos or scandalous sel es is
only interested in one thing. That may be attention or a one night stand. If you’re
looking for a relationship and a high valued man, then post photos of you with
friends, traveling, laughing, family, candid photos where it’s not always revolving
around ways that you can be the next Instagram model or take the best sel e with
your snapchat lters.
This also goes for men. Men, if you are looking for a true relationship and have had a
pattern of going after these Instagram model post and best sel e only pages, then
it’s time to grow up and become con dent! Instead, look for a beautiful girl that may
have photos of her traveling, friends, or being social. This goes for social media and
for dating apps. Do not swipe right for someone who is chugging a beer or a girl
that’s in a club full of champagne bottles around her. This is not a man or woman
that is ultimately looking for a true relationship
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what I call someone in search of a Modern Relationship
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looking for someone, let’s start thinking about your social media and dating app
posts. Guys, con dence is not about posting shirtless photos showing o your abs in
the bathroom mirror, and ladies, posting lingerie photos on a bed is not either. So, if
you have this start erasing and get to improve what you want to attract.
Having patience with yourself is key to this process. If you want to get better
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remember to not give up and to keep reminding yourself of these daily practices
when working on ways to start becoming more con dent.
Remember, if you love to gossip you need to cut it out! This is not something your
man or woman is interested in. We hate to hear negative things about others or even
about the relationship constantly. Speaking negatively about others or being critical
of others shows a lack of con dence from the person that is being critical or
negative. Stop while you’re ahead!
Mastering your body language is basically the blueprint of con dence. Practicing
your eye contact, posture, smile, and conversations with someone is so important
when you want to form a connection. Remember to walk with con dence and to give
yourself compliments while doing so. Also, giving someone else compliments and
knowing how to receive compliments is a great step towards con dence. People love
this and compliments are always great conversation starters!
Nobody is perfect and we all came from di erent walks of life. Practicing these self-
con dence tips daily will not only help you with your self-esteem but will also help
you with attracting the right partner. Just remember to have patience with yourself
and to use these activities as much as possible. Forgive yourself when you make a
mistake and move on!
Remember, so many con dent and successful people learned how con dence works
because they had so many people telling them they weren’t good enough, they were
ugly, dorky or they just were not enough. So, they used that re within them to be
the most successful person they could be.
A lot of us aren’t raised in an environment where we have parents teaching us what
con dence is about, so we have to go through trial and error till we truly master it.
So, it starts today!
You are enough. I can guarantee you this. It starts with you and all you need is to be
your best self and commit to showing up for yourself every single day.
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16 Comments
Romeina Fox
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Great article
Anna Volpe
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This is great
Apollonia Ponti
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Apollonia Ponti
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Thank you!
Monica
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Thank you so much for this. These tips are amazing and I can't wait to share with my
tribe! xoxo
Apollonia Ponti
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Thanks so much!
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Apollonia Ponti
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Travis,
Thank you for your comment. I am happy you enjoyed the article.
-Apollonia
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Haq
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Thank you so much for guide and information about con dent which is very essential
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Haq
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Thanks
Really enjoyed and I will try all these tips
Apollonia Ponti
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Hi Haq,
Glad you enjoyed this blog about how to become con dent. :)
Best,
Apollonia
Calvin
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Hi Apollonia - you advise at tip #1 not to compare oneself to others. In dating though,
men pursue and women choose, meaning that men must compete with each other to
be chosen as a partner by a woman. Basic observation has shown me that other guys
are more attractive to women than me, as evidenced by the fact that no woman has
ever chosen me as a partner over any other guy in the many years I've tried (100%
unsuccessfully) to get a date. If it were actually possible for me to be attractive to a
woman, surely by now I would have had one date? I'm at the point of giving up
altogether because I'm tired of trying.
Apollonia Ponti
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Hi Calvin, thank you for taking the time to read How to Become Con dent.
There is hope, so don't give up! Women are attracted to energy and the energy
that a man is giving o . How they really feel about themselves and if she feels
like she can be emotionally safe with him. I would really recommend booking a
private coaching session so I can see what's going on and help you get those
dates! https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/
There is absolutely hope!
Best,
Apollonia
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