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Interpersonal
SS Communication
Prof. Rahul K Shukla
E: rahul.shukla@xlri.ac.in
Your Thinking
Your Thinking
Controls You
Your
Your Emotions
Communication
Highest- Explicitly
Level 1 Order Reflective.
Consistently Fair
Thinking
Higher- Selectively
Reflective.
Level 2 Order Inconsistently
Thinking Fair
Unreflective.
Lower- Frequently relies
on gut intuition.
Level 3 Order Largely Self
Thinking serving/Self-
deceived
Fair-minded CT
• Emotional like empathy, love, happiness and even guilt can have
positive effect on out reasoning by influencing us to communicate
effectively.
• People with high self awareness are able to speak accurately and
openly.
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A few other…
Blue is Sensing
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Blue is Feelers
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Blue is perceivers
How to be self-aware?
Self-Awareness Forces Me to Know My
Personality
• You often feel like others don’t get the point and it makes you
impatient and frustrated.
• You’re surprised when others are sensitive to your comments or jokes
and you think they’re overreacting.
• You think being liked at work is overrated.
• You weigh in early with your assertions and defend them with rigor.
• You hold others to the same high expectations you hold for yourself.
• You find others are to blame for most of the issues on your team.
• You find it annoying when others expect you to know how they feel.
Understanding Your Personality DNA
• People-pleasing tendencies
• Procrastination
• Aversion to candor and straightforwardness
• Oversensitivity
• Fear of rocking the boat
• Propensity for following the crowd
• Lack of assertiveness
• Need for constant affirmation
Self-Improvement
• Bluntness/Insensitivity
• Impatience
• Autocratic manner/Condescending
• Lack of affirmative input
• Propensity for giving ultimatums
• Overly confrontational
• Misguided competitiveness
• Poor listening skills
• Compulsion for quick completion
• Frustrated with risk-averse personalities
• Sarcasm
Areas of Improvement
• Easily bored
• Impulsiveness
• Lack of follow-through
• Empty promises and shallow commitments
• Disorganization
• Flattery
• Aversion to confronting conflict
• Inappropriate speech/Obnoxious behavior
• Dominating conversations
• Overzealous appetite for attention and recognition
• Persuasive manipulation to achieve objectives
• Lack of discipline and self-restraint
• Taking credit for the work of others
Self-Improvement
When the Manager, Rita ask, Roma how she felt about
the issue they had been discussing the board room, Roma
never expressed an opinion. Later, Roma would complain
or express disagreement about the same issues to another
staff members.
What is a problem?
What about this?