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Professional Psychology: Research and Practice Copyright 2001 by the American Psychological Association, Inc.

2001, Vol. 32, No. 6, 618-625 0735-7028/01/S5.00 DOI: 10.1037//0735-7028.32.6.618

Anger as a Vehicle in the Treatment of Women Who Are Sexual Abuse


Survivors: Reattributing Responsibility and Accessing Personal Power
Patricia Van Velsor and Deborah L. Cox
Southwest Missouri State University

Some clinicians view client anger as a problematic symptom to be reduced, whereas others view it as an
opportunity for therapeutic development. The present authors describe how client anger, a fitting
emotional response to abuse, can work as a vehicle to help sexual abuse survivors reattribute responsi-
bility and develop personal efficacy. The role of anger in the healing process of the sexual abuse survivor
is explored through 2 case studies. It is suggested that by reframing anger as a vehicle for recovery rather
than a symptom, therapists can learn to effectively incorporate anger work (which involves successfully
negotiating any dynamics that cause therapist discomfort) into the treatment of survivors.

Can anger, typically described as a negative emotion, be used as respond differently from females to childhood sexual abuse
a therapeutic tool for treating sexual trauma survivors? Experts (Heath, Bean, & Feinauer, 1996).
have suggested that women who have survived childhood sexual We can expect survivors to reclaim outrage in a number of ways
abuse benefit from making sense of abuse events by placing as therapists encourage women's expression of anger at individual
appropriate responsibility on their perpetrators (e.g., Hoagwood, perpetrators and social establishments and traditions that tacitly
1990; Morgan & Cummings, 1999). Experts have also proposed support them. Anger at the therapist emerges as a possible channel
that survivors need to develop a feeling of personal efficacy in the through which women begin to experience and express anger, and
recovery process (e.g., Apolinsky & Wilcoxon, 1991; Backos & the likelihood for such dynamics raises the potential for in-session
Pagon, 1999). Although some writers have emphasized the signif- interactions that are uncomfortable for both parties. Although this
icance of anger in facilitating these changes (e.g., Blume, 1990; kind of open anger expression may be unfamiliar territory for the
Morgan & Cummings, 1999), the vital role of anger as instrumen- therapist, we suggest that the potential benefits of such make it
tal in the healing process for female survivors has been largely useful for the clinician to become prepared to receive survivors'
overlooked. anger in therapy. When the client experiences the healthy unleash-
The intent of this article is to explore women's anger in the ing of repressed anger toward her perpetrator(s), or others in her
process of recovery from childhood sexual abuse, reframing anger social surround, she claims a boundary, or a piece of personal
as constructive, rather than symptomatic. We broadly refer to entitlement to certain rights involving safety and protection, per-
survivors as those who self-identify as such, and we define child- sonal integrity, emotional reality, and the outward expression
hood sexual abuse as "a sexual act imposed on a child who lacks thereof, and reinstitutes feelings of personal efficacy and power.
[the] emotional, maturational, and cognitive development" (Sgroi,
Blick, & Porter, 1982, p. 9) to give informed consent. We view Attributional Analyses of Sexual Abuse Events
anger simply as an emotion and focus on the role of anger as it Studies suggest that sexual abuse survivors often take personal
relates to reattribution of responsibility and the development of responsibility for the abuse (e.g., Courtois, 1999; Mannarino &
personal efficacy. We provide two case examples to elucidate our Cohen, 1996; Morrow, 1991) and that this self-blame relates to
ideas as well as treatment suggestions for therapists working with poorer adjustment (Hoagwood, 1990); interpersonal problems
sexual abuse survivors. Our suggestions to therapists, however, are (Hazzard, 1993); and psychological symptomatology (Feinauer &
less about technique and more about attitudes toward anger and Stuart, 1996; Hazzard, 1993; Mannarino & Cohen, 1996), includ-
anger work. Although we agree with Courtois (2000) that the ing depression and self-destructive behaviors (Morrow, 1991; Pe-
sexual abuse of males "must be recognized and not minimized" (p. ters & Range, 1996).
551), we focus solely on female survivors because males may Calof (1995) described the process by which a child in an
abusive family learns to distort reality and attributions of respon-
sibility as parents create a climate and a rule-meaning system in
PATRICIA VAN VELSOR received her PhD in counseling from the University which the child must meet the needs of adults. If the child ac-
of Toledo in 1995. She is an associate professor in the Department of knowledges that she is being mistreated in such a profound way,
Counseling at Southwest Missouri State University. the emotional (and often physical) costs are greater than the child
DEBORAH L. Cox received her PhD in counseling psychology from Texas
can handle because they implicate adults. Therefore, the child
Woman's University in 1996. She is an assistant professor in the Depart-
ment of Counseling at Southwest Missouri State University. begins to adapt by developing a tendency to numb herself and
CORRESPONDENCE CONCERNING THIS ARTICLE should be addressed to Patricia dissociate in order to shut down emotional and sensory experi-
Van Velsor, Department of Counseling, Southwest Missouri State Univer- ences in the immediate environment. This dissociation process sets
sity, 901 South National Avenue, Springfield, Missouri 65804-0095. Elec- the stage for adaptive (at the time) distortions of reality and
tronic mail may be sent to pvv034f@smsu.edu. misappropriations of responsibility.
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Internalized societal attitudes also contribute to the misdirection nalizing anger as well as the physical, social, and psychic tolls of
of responsibility for sexual abuse. The propensity to blame moth- either extreme, as anger is absorbed and/or expelled inappropri-
ers and mother figures for abuse by male perpetrators has been ately. Extreme guilt or self-deprecating behavior may arise from
observed in sexual abuse survivors (Croghan & Miell, 1995) as chronic internalization of anger, whereas abuse of others with less
well as professionals, including clinicians (Kalichman, Craig, & perceived power may result from externalization. Further, survi-
Follingstad, 1988, 1990), child protection workers, police officers, vors may divert anger through suppression, in which their bodies
nurses^ and others (Kelley, 1990). Herman (1981) maintained that undergo the prolonged effects of heightened arousal, or segmen-
some survivors direct feelings of anger and betrayal toward their tation, in which they disavow anger overtly, while allowing it to be
nonoffending mothers and, in turn, regard all women, including expressed unconsciously in their relationships. Any of these anger
themselves, with disdain. diversions, used singly or in combination, presents problems for
According to Dalenberg (2000), therapists often confront cli- the client, as her opportunities for reattribution, empowerment, and
ents' self-blame by encouraging other blame, with potential dele- relationship mutuality are derailed (Cox et al., 1999; Sperberg &
terious effects. We suggest that empowerment for survivors is less Stabb, 1998).
an issue of blame and more an issue of direct access to genuine Although some experts have highlighted the importance of
response, that is, anger; hence, it is important that survivors and anger expression in facilitating survivor recovery (e.g., Apolinsky
their therapists attend to the process of uncovering and expressing & Wilcoxon, 1991; Backos & Pagon, 1999; Faller, 1995; Morgan
anger as an integral part of the recovery experience. & Cummings, 1999; Simonds, 1994), empirical researchers have
left room for uncertainty regarding their assumptions about anger
Anger as a Mediating Factor in Sexual Abuse Recovery (e.g., Carey, Kempton, & Gemmill, 1996) or have categorized
anger either with psychological symptomatology (Neumann,
According to emotional dysregulation theory (Friedrich, 1996), Houskamp, Pollock, & Briere, 1996) or low self-esteem (Sapping -
the child raised in the incestuous family atmosphere, where her ton, Pharr, Tunstall, & Rickert, 1997). One exception is a study
feelings are systematically distorted, fails to learn how to differ- conducted by Scott and Day (1996), who contended that "the
entiate and respond to these feelings. Because rage is the most healing process for [survivors of childhood incest trauma] must
appropriate emotional response to being sexually traumatized include learning to recognize and validate their right to possess and
(Courtois, 1988; Faller, 1995), the child is continually bombarded express anger, as well as mastering the skills to direct anger toward
with feelings of complete fury with no understanding of or safe the appropriate individuals" (p. 209). These researchers examined
receptacle for processing them. As adults, survivors often fail to anger experience and symptom formation in adult victims of
use their anger as an information channel identifying "danger" and childhood sexual abuse. The researchers found support for their
often prolong situations that are unhealthy for them. According to hypothesis that survivors of childhood incest who appropriately
Simonds (1994), survivors attempt to cope with their anger express their anger report significantly fewer symptoms than those
through the extremes of suppression and numbing to uncontrolla- who suppress their angry feelings. Specifically, inwardly directed
ble outbursts, leaving them more disempowered as they struggle to anger was significantly and positively correlated with a host of
contain and manage these feelings. According to clinical observa- survivor symptoms including fear and anxiety, vulnerability and
tions, the consequences of repressed anger include " 'acting out' isolation, detachment, powerlessness, and intrusive thoughts.
(lashing out at or abusing others, destroying), 'acting in' (abusing
the self), depression, eating disorders, chemical dependency, ul-
cers, sleep disturbances, anxiety, physical problems such as the Anger From a Sociopolitical Perspective
jaw joint disease called temporo-mandibular joint syndrome
(TMJ), and suicide" (Blume, 1990, p. 141). Empirical evidence Reattribution for sexual abuse survivors seems to take place by
also exists for negative consequences of suppressed or repressed means of the process of acknowledging the automatic boundary
emotion, as well as repressed thoughts about emotionally laden that is present between self and other when one becomes fully
experiences (Berry & Pennebaker, 1993; Petrie, Booth, & Penne- conscious of one's anger at that other (L. M. Brown, 1998; Cox et
baker, 1998; Richards & Gross, 1999; Richards & Gross, 2000). al., 1999; Jack, 1999). This kind of cognitive-emotional shift
These consequences include not only cognitive (memory) reduc- appears to foster empowerment on an individual level. Nonethe-
tions (Richards & Gross, 1999, 2000) but also immunological less, focusing solely on women's intrapsychic change in response
compromise (Petrie et al., 1998). to felt anger at individual abusers leaves unspoken the sociopoliti-
Although most literature on survivor anger patterns uses this cal changes that could be experienced by them.
traditional "anger-in" and "anger-out" model to conceptualize op- For example, wornen who become involved in social activism
tions for expression of oppositional feeling, both in relation to organized against toxic waste in their communities come to trust
perpetrators and to significant others in survivors' lives, writers in the validity of their instincts through the process of reclaiming
the area of women's emotional development have suggested that personal outrage at big business and government authorities (P.
using an "in" or "out" conceptualization may oversimplify wom- Brown & Ferguson, 1995). Activists' knowledge develops from
en's anger (e.g., Cox, Stabb, & Bruckner, 1999; Jack, 2000). naive original trust in larger institutions to discoveries that evoke
Rather than focus on anger as either unexpressed or expelled, we their anger and continues to evolve into the empowered ability to
borrow the framework of Cox et al., which draws distinctions act on these discoveries. In this way, emotion is central in the
between four types of anger diversions, or means of escaping full formation of social movements, and women derive powerful
conscious awareness of anger. This conceptualization acknowl- knowledge in their connection to intense affect, often taking place
edges the individual's potential for both internalizing and exter- inside important relationships with others.
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Important relationships with others often include relationships Over time, her dialogue and journaling began a qualitative shift.
with therapists, and it is inside these unique bonds that survivors As a marker of this shift, Allison, who had given up her cherished
often come to develop a sense of personal and separate identity for vocation of acting in local theaters so that Brad could develop his
the first time. Women in therapy with professionals who under- acting without her being present to "distract" him with her jeal-
stand gender and power often discover their "subjective knowing" ousy, decided to rejoin her friends at the theater and reclaim this
(P. Brown & Ferguson, 1995, p. 155) or inner voice-wisdom. This part of her life. This excerpt in her journal illustrates an emerging
can happen as survivors reclaim the-instrumentally angry aspects sense of anger in her relationship with Brad:
of their personhoods.
The following case examples illustrate two female survivors' I was wrong because I did trust you and you weren't honest. You
didn't want me at the ... [parties] because you were checking out the
emerging anger in the therapy process and depict the varied styles
. .. [women]. The night we broke up, as painful as that was, you still
with which women who are survivors of sexual trauma may
had to tell me about the ... [women] at the bar and then got mad at
express anger. It is important to note that the identities of these me when I didn't want to talk about other women.
clients have been carefully disguised to protect anonymity.
At this point, Allison experienced both uncompromising rage
The Case of Allison for herself and all women and the sadness that accompanies the
knowledge of her separateness from Brad and others. The follow-
"Allison," a 32-year-old Caucasian sales representative, came to
ing excerpt in Allison's journal shows her gradual development of
therapy to begin working through issues related to childhood
anger at the larger social context that supports and maintains
sexual abuse experienced at the hands of her maternal uncle, sexual oppression of women:
"Jerry." She reported symptoms of posttraumatic stress disorder
(PTSD), including suicidal ideation and periods of sudden, intense In America, we have our own version of genital cutting, breast
anxiety brought on by exposure to situations in which she or other implants. We slice them open, insert an empty rubber bag, and then
women were being sexually objectified. She disclosed an intense fill it with saline solution. So, we have millions of women going
fear of being alone as well as a history of relationship problems. It through life with water balloons shoved into their breasts. We live in
was decided that Allison would attend sessions every other week a patriarchal world and it's not spiritually healthy for women. God
bless us all. I hope we can learn to love our bodies just the way they
to accommodate her financial concerns and to respect her stated
are without augmentation. I certainly hope I can learn to love mine.
desire to manage the emotional intensity of the therapeutic process,
which led to an 18-month course of treatment. Allison also fluctuated between clear, direct expressions of
Allison's presenting distress also involved her own relationship anger toward its target and more indirect, passive expressions.
with "Brad," her partner of 1 year. Brad actively participated in a After approximately 12 months in therapy, she missed three con-
pornography addiction, as had her Uncle Jerry, the perpetrator of secutive therapy appointments without calling to cancel or explain
her childhood abuse, often pressuring Allison into watching por- until the day after the missed appointments. When queried about
nographic movies with him and acting out the scenes from the this, she struggled to explain her behavior, offering reassurance
movies in their own relationship. The most distressing aspect about that she was "not mad about anything." Weeks later, she alluded to
Brad's sexuality, for Allison, was his constant comparison of her some vague feelings with regard to her therapist in the following
physical attributes to those of other women with whom the couple journal excerpt:
came into contact. For the first 6 to 9 months of therapy, Allison
found herself experiencing extreme visceral sensations (e.g., short- See, I know that you [therapist] will not like Tim [her new live-in
ness of breath, dizziness), feelings of panic, and tearfulness in boyfriend]. You will probably be thinking that this is way too soon
response to Brad's allusions to pornography and other women. In and I haven't had time to get over Brad and I'm just going to repeat
terms of Cox et al.'s (1999) model of anger diversion, Allison the same old thing with another guy. .. . But I love him and he treats
me so much better than Brad ever did.
seemed to be both suppressing and internalizing her anger at Brad.
As she diverted her anger, she tended to experience insecurity, Allison and her therapist discussed this excerpt, and she tentatively
panic, dissatisfaction with her body, and physiological symptoms explored both her fear that her therapist wouldn't approve of the
instead of clear anger with an urge to act in her own behalf or voice new relationship and her anger that the therapist avoided giving
grievances with her partner. During this time, the therapist re- open endorsement of Allison's choices. This exchange seemed to
flected Allison's feelings and encouraged her to recognize her own open the door to continued and more direct dialogue about Alli-
dignity and worth as she noticed her outrage at Brad. son's anger at her therapist. For example, Allison expressed anger
During the initial months of therapy, Allison spent a great deal that her therapist tried to "get her off the phone" when she paged.
of time grieving about her potential for losing Brad, either to She accurately sensed her therapist's desire to make these
another woman or in response to her own expressed anger. She between-sessions conversations short, helping Allison focus on
appeared more sensitized to her fear of loss and her physical ways to bring her current feelings and concerns to the next meet-
imperfections than her rights and dignities as Brad's partner. This ing.
first excerpt from her therapy journal sheds light on her attempts to For Allison, anger awareness unfolded through in-session verbal
disavow her anger in an effort to spare her relationship: exploration and therapist encouragement, coupled with out-of-
I feel so afraid. He (Brad) says he's been having a lot of fun at session journaling and letter writing. Gradually, her anger became
his ... [parties] and he's not sure if he wants to be lovers.... I thought more clearly articulated and directed not only at her perpetrator but
maybe if we started having fun again, things might work out. I don't also at social systems that may tacitly foster the abuse of women.
understand why he broke up with me now. Demonstrable therapeutic outcomes included Allison's return to
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the theater, a reduction in her suicidal thoughts, and a marked her efforts to grow and change. Most of the time, group members
decrease in her PTSD symptoms. recoiled from Keisha when she appeared angriest. Their with-
drawal from her fueled further isolation, resentment, and external-
The Case of Keisha ized anger on Keisha's part.
In therapy, the psychologist's reaction to the thrown tissue box
"Keisha," a 22-year-old biracial (African American and Cauca- served as a turning point; her acknowledgement and acceptance of
sian) mother of two was referred for therapy through a state Keisha's open and forceful expression of anger helped to ease
contract with Children's Protective Services (CPS). Keisha had Keisha's fears about that anger and also helped her subsequently to
been referred because of "an attitude problem" by the facilitator of take responsibility for her emotional expressions. This precipitated
a parenting group that Keisha had been attending because of a a form of anger work in which art activities and poetry served to
mandate by CPS. On further inquiry, Keisha was described as facilitate her anger awareness related to family and the abuse.
"loud and boisterous" in the group and "verbally aggressive" Markers of change in Keisha's case included her gradually
toward other group members. The facilitator reported that she had increased ability to listen to her peers in the therapy group. Keisha
received complaints from other group members (all White) about seemed to relax and become more attentive as evidenced by the
Keisha's behavior. In addition, Keisha had "stormed off when the reports of her group facilitator. She even reported a growing
facilitator had attempted to discuss this behavior with her after a friendship with two of her peers in group.
recent group session.
During the first session with the psychologist, a White woman,
Keisha appeared reluctant to talk about herself and told the ther- Implications for Practice
apist that she did not want to be there. This prompted a discussion
between the two about Keisha's anger at CPS and the parenting The cases of Allison and Keisha illustrate how anger may serve
group facilitator for referring her for counseling. At some point as a vehicle for assigning appropriate responsibility to the perpe-
during this conversation, Keisha picked up a box of tissues and trator while accessing personal power. In the brief therapy of
hurled it forcefully against the cinder-block wall of the psycholo- Keisha, the psychologist demonstrated how therapist attitudes can
gist's office, making a sharp "whack." The psychologist remained facilitate discussion of client anger; the therapist's nonverbal com-
calm and reflected the apparent anger that provoked this move, to munication to Keisha that she was comfortable with Keisha's
which Keisha began to respond verbally. When invited to throw anger facilitated further client disclosure about family and anger.
the tissue box again, Keisha declined and sat in silence for most of In the longer term treatment of Allison, this client further exhibited
the remaining minutes of the session. She agreed to meet again the a growing awareness of the sociopolitical ramifications of her own
following week. personal story. Allison had to grieve the loss of a socialized belief
Over the course of Keisha's 6 weeks of therapy, she disclosed in the myth that women should try to please men physically and
abuse experiences as a young teenager at the hands of an 18-year- that such behavior connects women and men emotionally and
old male cousin and also by a neighbor in his thirties. When Keisha sexually. In doing this, Allison discovered that she felt angry about
communicated interest in the play therapy sessions of her children, women's socialized pressure to have bodies that resemble those of
the therapist suggested that she explore her own feelings about plastic dolls and connected this broader injustice to her individual
being abused through various art and craft activities. In this way, perpetrators' behaviors.
Keisha was able to combine her tendency to verbalize about In the cases presented here, the clients were symptomatic, but
factual material with her tendency toward more nonverbal emo- neither one met full diagnostic criteria for PTSD, which appears to
tional expression. The therapist asked Keisha to describe her works be associated with childhood sexual abuse (Andrews, Brewin,
and try to name the feelings she had in response to them. Keisha Rose, & Kirk, 2000). However, clients with PTSD often have
also wrote poetry about her feelings that included direct ("I'm so regulatory deficits, and uncontrolled anger in these clients can
mad at my mom for letting that happen") and indirect ("I would activate destructive aggression (Novaco & Chemtob, 1998). Ac-
like to take a knife and chop [Derek] into little pieces. I would start cording to Yehuda (1999), research is currently emerging that
by chopping off his you-know-what.") expressions of anger. supports the prevalence of aggression in PTSD, and, in such cases,
Where Keisha voiced a desire to physically punish her abusers, she the use of psychopharmacology may be indicated, particularly if
was queried as to her separation of fantasy and appropriate overt the client is aggressive and explosive.
behavior. In each case, Keisha reported understanding the distinc- Although examinations of aggression and PTSD have tended to
tion between the two and assured the therapist that she had no focus on combat veterans (e.g., Beckham & Moore, 2000; Chem-
intention of harming her perpetrators, even though the aggressive tob, Hamada, Roitblat, & Muraoka, 1994; Chemtob, Novaco,
fantasies persisted. All of these developments took place during Hamada, Gross, & Smith, 1997) and, to a somewhat lesser degree,
the 6-week intervention. victims of violent crime (e.g., Brewin, Andrews, & Rose, 2000;
In terms of Cox et al.'s (1999) model of anger diversion, Keisha Feeny, Zoellner, & Foa, 2000), it is prudent for therapists to
entered therapy diverting her anger through externalization, pri- recognize the connection between childhood sexual abuse and
marily in the form of physical punishment of her children. She also PTSD in the diagnosis of survivors. Beckham and Moore (2000)
had learned to externalize with people who otherwise might have suggested the inclusion of anger and violence measures in assess-
been her friends, as manifested in her behavior in the parenting ment of veterans with PTSD; the therapist treating the childhood
group. In other words, rather than talking directly about her anger sexual abuse survivor must decide if such evaluation is warranted
with group members or others, she disrupted the group process, for individual clients. In cases in which interpersonal violence is a
sometimes insulting those whose support would have helped her in salient feature associated with a PTSD diagnosis, the therapist will
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want to fortify the client with anger control strategies such as those tudes related to anger and its expression. The informed therapist
outlined by Yehuda (1999). views anger as a positive force that helps women to reattribute
The case of Allison demonstrated the use of anger as a vehicle responsibility for past abuse as well as to define parameters of
in the treatment of a White woman from a middle-class back- acceptable treatment in current relationships. In the therapeutic
ground. In treating women of color, it may be helpful to consider process with survivors, the psychologist needs to (a) reframe anger
a few pertinent issues. People whose cultural backgrounds are as an adaptive emotion useful in defining one's own rights and
more collective, or tend to emphasize group harmony over indi- needs, (b) discuss the covert norms for anger expression by
vidual goal seeking, may experience more distress if asked to focus women, and (c) help survivors harness anger for constructive
on anger, as it tends to be an emotion that highlights them as action, rather than diverting it (Cox et al., 1999). This serves to
unique or separate (Gabrielidis, Stephan, Ybarra, Pearson, & Vil- counteract a widespread fundamental misunderstanding of anger
lareal, 1997; Stephan, Stephan, & de Vargas, 1996; Triandis, as destructive and a larger cultural imperative that disallows the
1994). Although within-group differences abound, Native Ameri- expression of anger, particularly for women (Miller & Surrey,
cans, Asian Americans, and Latin Americans are all considered to 1997).
be more oriented toward the collective, or the goals of the group or As the survivor in the recovery process becomes increasingly
family, than are European Americans (Whites). Individuals from sensitive to previously unacknowledged anger and knowledgeable
these groups often prefer conflict resolution styles that highlight of family of origin variables relating to anger expression, she also
accommodation to others. Thus, in working with Asian American learns to identify her angry feelings as a signal that something
women, for example, caution should be exercised in encouraging needs to be amended in her relational world and to act on her anger
the overt expression of oppositional feeling. These women may be instrumentally. Moreover, survivors may come to attach different
more likely to benefit from techniques that indirectly empower meanings to their anger as they learn to reclaim personal and
them and accentuate concern for others' well-being, without draw- emotional space (Jack, 1999). These different meanings depend on
ing overt attention to their more self-focused emotion. a variety of factors including culture, socioeconomic and relation-
Therapists working with African American women, on the other ship status, and a host of other contextual and interpersonal vari-
hand, should not assume that their clients will have difficulty ables. For instance, a single woman may readily see her anger in
claiming and expressing anger or outrage, because Black women terms of its survival value, whereas a married woman may need to
may have more social sanction to express anger openly than White navigate her new-found emotional awareness around her partner's
women, particularly White women of higher socioeconomic status suggestions that she revert to status quo behaviors. At this point in
(Coll, Cook-Nobles, & Surrey, 1997). The case of Keisha shows the therapeutic process, psychologists can suggest ways for clients
the effects of anger acceptance by the therapist on the development to practice assertive expression in contexts such as trusted friend-
of a client's trust and self-exploration. Further, although Keisha's ships and work relationships. These should involve "I" statements
peers were the ones demonstrating'distaste for her volatility, White and some form of postencounter self-evaluation, such as
therapists working with Black women are very likely to experience journaling.
discomfort in receiving the anger of Black women (Cannon & Other therapeutic techniques involve releasing anger through
Heyward, 1992), that is, listening empathically and sharing the experiential exercises (Simonds, 1994), art (Backos & Pagon,
anger experience versus deflecting or encouraging suppression. 1999), or journaling; symbolically confronting the perpetrator
Overall, it is important that therapists endeavor, through consul- (Apolinsky & Wilcoxon, 1991); and learning to recognize other
tation or further training, to develop cultural sensitivities as they instances that are abusive (Blume, 1990). Although none of these
relate to anger work. techniques have been formally tested, clinical wisdom continues to
Because therapists report that graduate training regarding anger support their use.
is inadequate (Pope & Tabachnick, 1993), it is critical that the Just as suppression or internalization of anger may have detri-
psychologist explore his or her own upbringing and assumptions mental consequences for the survivor, some researchers suggest
about anger and its expression, especially as they relate to women, that the direct experience of anger in the absence of self-regulatory
before initiating anger work with survivors. We suggest that ther- mechanisms can prove harmful (Novaco & Chemtob, 1998). Sur-
apists do genogram work aimed at uncovering family of origin vivors may cope with overwhelming affect through self-injury
rules related to anger expression and role-playing episodes in (Connors, 1996); destructive aggression, as in the case of PTSD
which they must work with an angry client. Especially relevant in clients (Novaco & Chemtob, 1998); dissociation; sexual acting
role-playing are those scenarios in which the "client's" anger is out; or other self-destructive behaviors, such as suicide or exces-
directed at the therapist, because this creates the opportunity to sive substance abuse (Briere, 1996). In encouraging anger expres-
prepare for future countertransference by "practicing" with an sion, it is the therapist's responsibility to monitor client affect to
"angry client" in a supportive environment. These exercises can be keep the client from becoming overwhelmed and initiating these
conducted with colleagues or in workshops designed for such inwardly or outwardly destructive avoidance responses. Therapists
work. Psychologists working as supervisors to therapist trainees treating clients whose presenting symptomatology includes such
can be helpful to their supervisees by promoting an atmosphere of responses should approach anger work with heightened caution. If
nonjudgmental acceptance and by modeling self-disclosure of sit- the client has problems with aggression, she will need to
uations that elicit supervisors' own angry responses (Abernethy, strengthen self-regulation, which involves being helped by the
1995). therapist to identify emotion, differentiate types and degrees of
Because a therapist's discomfort with anger expression may emotion, and record self-observations (Novaco & Chemtob, 1998).
reinforce a survivor's conditioning to suppress anger at parents and The processing of abuse memories requires a safe therapeutic
other perpetrators, it is crucial that therapists possess basic atti- surround to help the survivor experiment with various levels of
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anger and to feel comfortable with such affects (Briere, 1992). 1998). In other words, women may be able to develop empathy for
When the therapist determines that the client is so flooded with themselves (Arauzo, Watson, & Hulgus, 1994) and others through
affect that her internal protective systems are overwhelmed (Bri- deliberate attention to their own anger, its history, and its current
ere, 1996), he or she will need to help the survivor develop skills phenomenology.
to limit the intensity of affective states (Enns et al., 1998). This can Finally, because much practical clinical wisdom continues to
be done through the use of anger containment exercises, including regard anger as a tool for survivors' self-healing, it follows that
deep breathing and visualization (Simonds, 1994). One useful more clinicians should begin to examine anger as central, not
image in this kind of visualization is that of a balloon filled with peripheral, to the treatment process and to consider even its man-
air, the neck of which may be opened and closed deliberately to ifestation as directed at the therapist to be a marker of growth and
allow air to escape or prevent it from doing so (M. Watson, change. This approach may require less in the way of technique
personal communication, September, 9, 1992). and more in the way of a shift—from thinking about anger as a
Perhaps the most difficult task in facilitating the anger work of symptom to considering it as a vehicle for recovery.
the sexual abuse survivor surfaces when a woman begins to
experience and express her anger at her therapist. The client may
do so by criticism or rejection of the therapist, by missed appoint-
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