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A. Introduction....................................................................................................................... 2
B. Definition.......................................................................................................................... 2
B.1 Victims................................................................................................................ 3
B.2 Circumstances..................................................................................................... 3
B.3 Signs.................................................................................................................... 3
B.3.1 Physical................................................................................................... 3
B.3.2 Behavioral............................................................................................... 4
B.3.3 Emotional/Relational..............................................................................4
B.3.4 Spiritual.................................................................................................. 5
B.4 Consequences to abused children........................................................................5
C. Facts and Figures: Child Sexual Abuse in the Philippine Context....................................6
C.1 Situation of Filipino Children.............................................................................6
C.2 Child Abuse Statistics in the Philippines.............................................................7
C.3 UP-PGH Child Protection Unit...........................................................................8
C.4. Types of Abuse................................................................................................... 8
C.5 Referrals.............................................................................................................. 9
C.6 Perpetrator Information..................................................................................... 10
D. Church Teachings............................................................................................................ 11
E. Pastoral Implications....................................................................................................... 13
E.1 Common Issues Connected to Child Sexual Abuse...........................................13
E.2 FAQs (Frequently Asked Questions).................................................................15
E.3 Dealing with Perpetrators/Abusers....................................................................17
E.3.1 Silence: A Feature.................................................................................17
E.3.2 Explaining or Understanding the Abuse................................................18
E.3.3 Possibility for Change...........................................................................18
E.3.4 Mercy and Forgiveness.........................................................................18
E.3.5 Abused – the Most Important Person....................................................19
E.3.6 Innocent Person Accused of Abuse.......................................................19
E.4 Government Initiatives...................................................................................... 19
Addenda
F. Protecting Children From Sexual Abuse..........................................................................20
F.1 What Parents Need to Consider.........................................................................20
F.2 Basic Prevention Concepts to Teach Children...................................................21
G. Responding to Child Sexual Abuse.................................................................................21
G.1 What to Say....................................................................................................... 21
G.2 What to Do........................................................................................................ 22
G.2.1 Report................................................................................................... 22
G.2.2 After hearing a disclosure….................................................................23
G.2.3 Meeting the needs of others involved...................................................23
G.2.4 Local Agencies concerned with Child Sexual Abuse...........................24
Sources................................................................................................................................. 26
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A. INTRODUCTION
This report provides general information regarding the reality of the issue at hand.
Hopefully, it would be an eye-opener for future pastors of the Church who are expected
to care for the ‘little ones’ who are most dear to our Lord. Likewise, it is an invitation for
all engaged in caring or educating children to adopt a certain sensitivity with regard to
this issue thereby contributing to the work of stopping and preventing such an immoral
act that equally threatens the foundation of our society – the family.
The issue shall be defined as well as the presentation of pertinent details to better
understand the facts. Recent statistical reports, particularly in the local scene, regarding
this phenomenon shall be considered in order to establish the growing awareness of child
sexual abuse in the country. Thence, a brief presentation of Church Teachings adapting V.
Genovesi’s treatment of sexuality shall be made which will serve as guiding principles in
drawing out concrete responses to the pastoral implications of the issue dealt upon.
Likewise, an article from Sarah Harte would be used to provide some basic consideration
in understanding and dealing with the perpetrator, serving as well, as a simple critique on
our attitude towards abusers in general.
This report in no way whatsoever claim to be a comprehensive presentation of the
entire process of caring for sexually abused children. But it humbly offers the ‘basics’ for
would-be pastors in recognizing, dealing and caring for sexually abused children among
the flock entrusted to them.
B. DEFINITION:
An Old Problem
Child abuse is a phenomenon that happened not only in our present era, it is a
reality as old as mankind itself. The narrower form of abuse is called child sexual abuse
which has captured our attention in recent times, especially those cases which occurred in
institutions under the control of priests and religious, and provoked a flood of moral
outrage.1
There is no universal definition of child sexual abuse. However, a central
characteristic of any abuse is the dominant position of an adult that allows him or her to
force or coerce a child into sexual activity. Dr. Kearney considers even “any… sexual
act between an infant or young child and a significantly older child” as child sexual
1
Harte, Sarah, Child Abuse Reflecting on a problem as old as the hills, Spirituality 10/7 January-February
2004 No. 34, p48.
3
abuse.2 The specific legal definition varies from jurisdiction to jurisdiction, but five- (5)
years difference is a common yardstick in so far as the older one uses the child as an
object for sexual satisfaction regardless of the acts performed.3
Child sexual abuse may include fondling a child's genitals, masturbation in front
of a child or by rubbing against a child, oral-genital contact, digital penetration, and
vaginal and anal intercourse, exposure of the perpetrator’s or child’s genitalia including
photography and videotaping, requiring the child to view or participate in adult sexual
activity.
Child sexual abuse is not solely restricted to physical contact; such abuse could
include non-contact abuse such as exposure, voyeurism, and child pornography. Abuse
by peers also occurs.4 Sexualized play that features adult sexual activities even between
children who are nearly of the same age is a warning sign that one or both children
involved has been abused and thus should be taken seriously.
2
Kearney, Dr. R.Timothy, Caring for Sexually Abused Children: A Handbook for Families and Churches,
Downers Grove, 2001, p16.
3
“Sexual Abuse,” Crisis Counseling with Children and Adolescents
4
American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. 2004.
5
AACA Psychiatry. 2004.
4
6
Making Children Aware of Their Own Behavior:
Actively listen to the child first and you will find that children believe that they played a part in the
interaction and that they made some choices and had some power.
Children will also show their power by attempting to manipulate the counselor. Implicit behavior is the
expectation that their acts will have an effect on adults. Children need to learn that their acts will have
different effects on different adults.
5
7
AACA Psychiatry. 2004.
6
49% of the total population of infants and 26% of the total population of children
with ages ranging from 1 - 6 years old suffer from iron-deficiency anemia
There is one (1) hospital for every 113,040 people. There is only 1 doctor for
every 24, 417 people; 1 nurse for every 22,309; 1 dentist for every 578,124; and,
1 midwife for every 722,654 people (Philippine Yearbook of Statistics).
More than half of the over 42,000 barangays in the country do not have provisions
for a pre-school. Only 19% of children aged 4 to 6 years old are able to go to
public and private pre-schools.
More than 1/3 of the more than 42,000 barangays in the country could not offer
the required six years of elementary education.
Sixty percent of the children drop out of school when they reach the second grade
(PDI, 18 May 1997).
Sixty-one towns in the country do not have a high school.
It is estimated that there are about five million child laborers in the country
(UNICEF 1995). Two-thirds of them are found in the rural areas.
There are 1.5 million street children. DSWD estimates that this number increases
annually by 6,365.
8
The following information is courtesy of Child Protection in the Philippines: Philippine Resource
Network., 2000.
7
Of the 1.5 million street children, 60,000 are prostituted (ECPAT 1996). The
DSWD claims that the annual average increase of prostituted children is 3,266.
The Philippines is the fourth country with the most number of prostituted children
(Intersect, December 1995).
Research studies conducted in schools show that for every 3 Filipino children, one
child experiences abuse (Manila Bulletin, 11 February 1996). During the first
semester of 1999 alone, there were 2,393 children who fell prey to rape, attempted
rape, incest, acts of lasciviousness and prostitution (DSWD 1st semester, CY
1999).
The statistics are growing each day. These clearly depict the immense hardship
which Filipino children are subjected to. Unfortunately, the family that is supposedly the
primary source of the children's sense of trust and security is itself beleaguered. In most
instances, it can no longer adequately provide even the children's most basic needs like
food, education, housing, and an atmosphere of love, affection and nurturance. Its
capacity to protect the children and enhance their development and participation rights is
likewise affected.
Of 32 million children9
17, 929 are abused10
60,000 are prostituted11
1.5 million are living on the streets12
5 million are child laborers13
9
UNICEF, "State of the World's Children 2001", (1 February 2001).
10
DSWD and PNP statistics, 1999
11
ECPAT, 1996
12
DSWD, 1998
13
UNICEF, 1995
8
14
Includes abandoned children, child laborers, child trafficking and victims of armed conflict
15
Includes victims of pedophilia, pornography, and prostitution
16
Includes rape and acts of lasciviousness
9
C.5 Referrals
REFERRAL SOURCE
Studies on who commits child sexual abuse vary in their findings, but the most
common finding is that the majority of sexual offenders are family members or are
otherwise known to the child. Sexual abuse by strangers is not nearly as common as
sexual abuse by family members. Research further shows that men perpetrate most
instances of sexual abuse, but there are cases in which women are the offenders. Despite
a common myth, homosexual men are not more likely to sexually abuse children than
heterosexual men are. 17
17
AACA Psychiatry, 2004.
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D. CHURCH TEACHINGS18
According to the Romanian Catholic Diocese of Canton, one of the gravest ills of
today's society continues to be the suffering of the innocent. The human family, with the
various communities comprising it, has the duty to engage itself to alleviate the pain
caused by any such horrifying event, to repair any damage caused where crimes are
committed against such feeble and tender beings, to make sure that they will never
reoccur, while also protecting the reputation of the individuals who may be subject to
inaccurate or even false allegations.
As part of the human society, while being also "sacrament-sign" (Cf. Lumen
Gentium §1) of Salvation, Holy Mother Church has engaged herself deeply in this
process.
Sexual abuse of children is akin to rape cases and and/or incest. In effect, the
teachings of the Church regarding these two immoral acts may also apply to child sexual
abuse. But due to its nature, circumstances, scope and frequency, the growing awareness
of child sexual abuse alarmingly begs for attention and particular response.
Materials on child sexual abuse from official church teachings are, by and large,
connected with the scandals of the clergy that rocked the Roman Catholic Church at the
turn of the millennium. Mostly are normative in nature dealing with ecclesiastical and
civil processes as well as the disciplinary methods for erring priests. The moral principles
operative were not and cannot be easily deduced from such documents. There is,
however, an enlightening discussion in the book of Vincent Genovesi that presents a
paradigm on “The Misuse of Sexuality.” 19 The concept of vulnerability is used which is
apt description for the violation that happens to both the victim and perpetrator of child
sexual abuse.
phycial release, for showing off, or for any of a host of other human emotions and
expressions that are often attached to sexuality.”22 Child Sexual Abuse, though not
explicitly discussed by Genovesi, may fall under Sexual Assault alongside adultery,
prostitution, pornography and rape which he discussed at length in his book.23
The Catechism of the Catholic Church 24 2356 indirectly treats child sexual
abuse as it defines the moral evil of rape: “Rape is the forcible violation of the sexual
intimacy of another person. It does injury to justice and charity. Rape deeply wounds the
respect, freedom and physical and moral integrity to which every person has a right. It
cause grave damage that can mark thee victim for life. It is always an intrinsically evil
act. Graver still is the rape of children by parents (incest) or those responsible for the
education of the children entrusted to them.”
Following the concept of Lebacqz, Genovesi considers “the act of rape… as
primarily meant to dominate, subjugate, and humiliate its victim.”25 Applying these
children even magnifies the gravity of the act.
As in the usual case of child sexual abuse, rape involves the use of threat of
physical violence, it is necessary to insist that all sexual activity arising from any form of
coercion – emotional, intellectual, or physical – is morally wrong. It assaults the
personal dignity of everyone involved and betrays both our humanity and our
Christianity.26
Scriptures
An argument from the scriptures against child sexual abuse using the passage of
Luke 17:1-2 is not lacking from the materials that the researcher had collected. There are
similar admonishments in the Holy Scriptures about inducing others to sin; especially, the
innocent ones. Although, the researcher has his own reservation 27 regarding the
interpretation of the mentioned passage, nonetheless, it provides a warning to perpetrators
from the Jesus Christ himself.
The passage reads: “Things that cause sin will inevitably occur, but woe to the
person through whom they occur. It would be better for him if a millstone were put
around his neck and he be thrown into the sea than for him to cause one of these little
ones to sin.”
Part of the original text issued for Worldwide Ecclesiastical Distribution on
November, 1996 in Texas, U.S.A by The M+G+R Foundation are as follows:
Little ones mean children as well as innocent adults. In the case of children the
seriousness of the sin is compounded because they are humans under development. The
factors affecting such development will color their entire lives... Abortion, which is
without question a most serious transgression against a loving God, only kills the body of
a little one but not his soul. However, inducing a little one to sin through any
22
Ibid.
23
Specifically on the fourth chapter of Genovesi’s book, A Context for the Meaning and Morality of
Sexuality.
24
Catechism of the Catholic Church
25
Genovesi, pp. 131.
26
Ibidem.
27
Little ones… refer to the little Christian Community.
13
manifestation of child sexual abuse may result in the death of his body and his soul.
More so than with any other moral sin.
E. Pastoral Implications
Religious leaders, both lay and clergy, who make it known that they are aware of
the nature and extent of child abuse are more readily approached by victims, other family
members, and, at times, even the perpetrators of child abuse.28
Focus: what families need as their reaction to child sexual abuse unfolds, and how
the pastoral staff and others in their church can respond in a way that lives out the biblical
mandate to “bear one another’s burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
Issue 1: Isolation
Parents must keep up the usual way of treating their children, while adding
whatever special attention is needed to help the abused child. Friends and those who seek
to minister to these children and their families should do the same.
Abused children should in the normal activities of the community and treated as
they would have been treated if the abuse were still a secret. If the children manifest
unacceptable behavior among peers, caring adults must target the elimination of such
behavior.
The resources available in Christ may be of special values in these situations. The
power of the Holy Spirit working in a child or family through the prayer of fellow
believers must not be underestimated.
Ephesians 3:20-21 reminds us of: “him who is able to do immeasurably more than
all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.”
Confession and Eucharist have a powerful psychological cleansing and restoration
effect on people as well as a spiritual import.
The Church needs to reach out to them and enfold them back into the community.
Let the families know that they are welcome.
28
A Center for the Prevention of Sexual and Domestic Violence. Seattle Washington, 1992.
29
Kearney, Dr. R.Timothy, Caring for Sexually Abused Children: A Handbook for Families and Churches,
Downers Grove, Illinois: InterVarsity Press, 2001.
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Issue 3: Loyalties
It is generally preferable for either the victim or the alleged abuser to attend a
different church, at least while the investigation is conducted.
When conflicting loyalties arise, parties supporting both sides must be reminded
that they are not the ones conducting the investigation and that it is not their place to
judge or condemn wither side of the conflict.
Issue 4: Symptoms
Be sensitive to the symptoms shown by the child and talk with him or her
privately. If sexual abuse is suspected, then, seek for professional help.
these truths as a foundation can have a profound impact on abuse victims and their
families.
Focus: Six of the most common questions in the light of biblical data and the
psychological realities faced by those asking the questions. Biblical authors show us real
people in Scriptures who question, struggle and cry out to God. One of the ways we show
respect to people as we seek to help them is to value both their questions and the quality
of our interaction with them. It is better to simply lend a listening ear and leave a door
open for future conversations.
Speculations as to the sin of the victim or family members will not lead to a
quicker or longer-lasting cure.
A counselor can help a family understand that the abuse was not set up by God to
punish for past sins. The false idea of God as a vengeful deity who was just waiting for
the chance to hit them with abuse needs to be dispelled to that they can turn to him for
support as they walk through this difficult time.
Awareness of the danger of child sexual abuse and the steps needed to increase
safety and assist children and families need to be integrated into the life of the Church.
I hope that the information and suggestions given here will help many people, as
they deal with the trauma of child sexual abuse, to see a future beyond their immediate
pain. Healing does come. No matter how difficult the circumstances, there is hope.
The following materials are lifted from an article by Sarah Harte that provides a
complete picture of the reality and consequences of child abuse by understanding and
considering the perpetrator, as well as a critique on our own moral standards in dealing
with abusers as such.
30
The Seventh Chapter of the Book entitled: How Does God Bring Healing? Provides Methods and
Manners of Healing for Child Sexual Abuse. (Kearney)
31
Sarah Harte, p48.
18
32
Ibid., p49.
33
Ibid., p50.
34
Ibid.
19
confusion to the child who may feel responsible for the break up of the home. This is just
an example of an issue which a pastor or caring adult must address. We also need to
examine the role of the courts in these cases likewise.
A rethinking of our attitudes to prisons in general and to the sex abuser in
particular is important. Such people are reviled in our society. Perhaps they serve the
necessary role of scapegoat for our own moral superiority; a truth very clearly stated by
our pagan forbears: “We cannot claim to be compassionate unless we share the shame of
those who are most reviled.”
Republic Act No. 7610 provides for stronger deterrence and special protection
against child abuse, exploitation and discrimination. The Philippines is a signatory to the
Convention on the Rights of the Child. 38 The convention categories the rights of the child
35
Ibid., p51.
36
Ibid.
37
Nereo C. Lujan, PDI Visayas Bureau, Philippine Daily Inquirer, 2 March 1996.
38
Convention on the Rights of the Child - Adopted and opened for signature, ratification and
accession by General Assembly resolution 44/25 of 20 November 1989 entry into force 2
September 1990, in accordance with article 49.
Article 19
1. States Parties shall take all appropriate legislative, administrative, social and educational measures to
protect the child from all forms of physical or mental violence, injury or abuse, neglect or negligent
treatment, maltreatment or exploitation, including sexual abuse, while in the care of parent(s), legal
guardian(s) or any other person who has the care of the child.
2. Such protective measures should, as appropriate, include effective procedures for the establishment of
social programmes to provide necessary support for the child and for those who have the care of the child,
as well as for other forms of prevention and for identification, reporting, referral, investigation, treatment
and follow-up of instances of child maltreatment described heretofore, and, as appropriate, for judicial
involvement.
Article 34
20
… Addenda
States Parties undertake to protect the child from all forms of sexual exploitation and sexual abuse. For
these purposes, States Parties shall in particular take all appropriate national, bilateral and multilateral
measures to prevent:
(a) The inducement or coercion of a child to engage in any unlawful sexual activity;
(b) The exploitative use of children in prostitution or other unlawful sexual practices;
(c) The exploitative use of children in pornographic performances and materials.
39
American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. 2004.
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4. Develop strong communication skills with your children. Encourage them to ask
questions and talk about their experiences. Explain the importance of reporting
abuse to you or another trusted adult.
5. Teach your children that sexual advances from adults are wrong and against the
law. Give them the confidence to assert themselves against any adult who
attempts to abuse them.
6. Make an effort to know children's friends and their families.
7. Instruct your child to never get into a car with anyone without your permission.
8. Teach your children that their bodies are their own. That it is OK to say they do
not want a hug or that certain kinds of contact make them uncomfortable.
9. It is important to remember that physical force is often not necessary to engage a
child in sexual activity. Children are trusting and dependent and will often do
what is asked of them to gain approval and love.
When a child tells an adult that he or she has been sexually abused, the adult may feel
uncomfortable and may not know what to say or do. The following guidelines should be
used when responding to children who say they have been sexually abused:
G.1 What to Say: If a child even hints in a vague way that sexual abuse has occurred,
encourage him or her to talk freely. Don't make judgmental comments.
40
Committee for Children – Seattle
22
Show that you understand and take seriously what the child is saying. Child and
adolescent psychiatrists have found that children who are listened to and
understood do much better than those who are not. The response to the disclosure
of sexual abuse is critical to the child's ability to resolve and heal the trauma of
sexual abuse.
Assure the child that they did the right thing in telling. A child who is close to the
abuser may feel guilty about revealing the secret. The child may feel frightened if
the abuser has threatened to harm the child or other family members as
punishment for telling the secret.
Tell the child that he or she is not to blame for the sexual abuse. Most children in
attempting to make sense out of the abuse will believe that somehow they caused
it or may even view it as a form of punishment for imagined or real wrongdoings.
Finally, offer the child protection, and promise that you will promptly take steps
to see that the abuse stops. Being careful not to make promises that cannot be
kept, the hearer will seek to identify fears and reassures when possible, working
to keep the child safe.41
G.2 What to Do
G.2.1 Report any suspicion of child abuse. If the abuse is within the family, report it to
the local Child Protection Agency. If the abuse is outside of the family, report it to the
police or district attorney's office. Individuals reporting in good faith are immune from
prosecution. The agency receiving the report will conduct an evaluation and will take
action to protect the child.
Parents should consult with their pediatrician or family physician, who may refer
them to a physician who specializes in evaluating and treating sexual abuse. The
examining doctor will evaluate the child's condition and treat any physical problem
related to the abuse, gather evidence to help protect the child, and reassure the child that
he or she is all right.
Children who have been sexually abused should have an evaluation by a child and
adolescent psychiatrist or other qualified mental health professional to find out how the
sexual abuse has affected them, and to determine whether ongoing professional help is
necessary for the child to deal with the trauma of the abuse. The child and adolescent
psychiatrist can also provide support to other family members who may be upset by the
abuse.
While most allegations of sexual abuse made by children are true, some false
accusations may arise in custody disputes and in other situations. Occasionally, the court
will ask a child and adolescent psychiatrist to help determine whether the child is telling
the truth, or whether it will hurt the child to speak in court about the abuse.
When a child is asked as to testify, special considerations--such as videotaping, frequent
breaks, exclusion of spectators, and the option not to look at the accused--make the
experience much less stressful.
Adults, because of their maturity and knowledge, are always the ones to blame
when they abuse children. The abused children should never be blamed.
41
The researcher inserted this statement to emphasize the need not to make false promises on the victim.
23
When a child tells someone about sexual abuse, a supportive, caring response is the first
step in getting help for the child and reestablishing their trust in adults.
1. With whom will the child be going home? (Determine how great the risk that
the child will be abused again or retaliated against for telling) If you don’t feel it is safe
for the child to go home with the parent or adult guardian who brought him or her, you
need to call the police or a social service agency.
2. Who else knows about the alleged abuse? (1. To determine who is available to
the child as a support system to help cope with what has happened and with the changes
that having told will bring. 2. To know if a parent or guardian is already aware)
If the child identified other children who are aware of the abuse or are victims
themselves, it may be necessary to reach out to them as well.
3. Is there a history of irrational or unsafe behavior on the part of the parent or
guardian or others who have access to the child? (its important to know if those adult
involved have histories that indicate substance abuse, mental illness or previous erratic
behavior.)
What does the child think will happen next now he or she has told about what occurred?
(we seek to understand the child’s fears and concerns, as well as hoping to get an insight
into the working of the family system to which the child will be returning.) Reminders of
the truth of God can give them a foundation to stand on as they deal with the aftermath of
having disclosed child sexual abuse).
4. How and by whom should the parent or guardian be informed of what the child
said?
In the case where the person whom the child confides is a friend or family
member, most often that person will be the one to talk to the parent.
In an institutional setting like a church, school or social agency, the written
protocol for management of abuse-related issues should spell out how to handle this. A
supervisor or another trained person should help in the process of formulating the
message of the hearer in telling the story.
G.2.3 Meeting the needs of others involved (including those who are aware of the issue)
1. Other children do not need to know the details of what may have been alleged.
If there are some children who appear to be disturbed of the situation, comfort them and
assist them formulate a response to help them to deal with their fears. At the same time,
be keenly aware of the possibility that they might have the same traumatic experience
which could have been triggered by the issue of another child.
24
Tugon-AdeMu 896-1017
WCC 924-9315
Virlanie Foundation 896-2289
CPTCSA 927-7847/414-4761
Sources:
Harte, Sarah, “Child Abuse Reflecting on a problem as old as the hills,” Spirituality 10/7
January-February 2004 No. 34.
Kearney, Dr. R.Timothy, Caring for Sexually Abused Children: A Handbook for Families
and Churches, Downers Grove, Illinois: InterVarsity Press, 2001.
Ornum, William Van and John B. Mordock, Crisis Counseling with Children and
Adolescents: A Guide for Non-Professional Counselors,” New Expanded Edition, New
York: The Crossroad Publishing Company, 1994.
Internet Sources:
Child Sexual Abuse. American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 2004
Facts and Figures. Child Protection in the Philippines: Philippine Resource Network.,
2000.
Recommended Materials:
Marie M. Fortune. Forgiveness: The Last Step. An unpublished paper.