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“Anyone can be angry, but to be angry with the right person, to the right degree,
at the right time, for the right purpose and in the right way, that is the challenge”
[Aristotle]
“There is only one corner of the Universe that you can be certain of improving;
and that is your own self “ [Aldous Huxley]
The first quote above deals with managing our emotions and understanding
others, whilst the second suggests that we can have an impact only on our own
actions & intelligence. Putting the two together gives us the thought that we can
manage our own emotional intelligence.
Emotional Intelligence (Ei) is about knowing how you and others feel and what to
do about it. Knowing what feels good and bad and how to get from bad to good.
Possessing emotional awareness, sensitivity and the management skills that will
help us to maximise our long-term survival and happiness.
Peter Salovey and John D Mayer were the first people to coin the phrase
‘emotional intelligence’ back in 1990. Daniel Goleman wrote the first book on the
subject in 1995. Goleman suggested that Ei consisted of 5 competencies :
Self Awareness
Self Regulation
Motivation
Empathy, and
Relationship Handling
Other people have developed the theory further and devised their own
competencies, however their findings mirror those of Goleman. His competencies
are further explained below :
Self-Awareness – See ourselves with our own eyes, be aware of goals, beliefs,
values, drivers and rules.
Recognising your own feelings as they occur is a crucial building block of Ei. The
ability to monitor feelings, from moment to moment, is necessary for
psychological insight and self-understanding. Being aware of your emotions
makes you more confident when making important personal decisions.
Handout 1
• Others still have “Quiet Rooms” where people can ‘shake-off’ anger,
recharge their batteries or spend a couple of quiet, reflective minutes on
their own.
• In one school the number of 5 ‘A’ grade passes rose from 8% to 34% after
the introduction of Ei, backing up the principle that developing Ei can
unlock potential.
• Schools are coming round to the way of thinking that it is more important
to learn how to manage anxiety than to know how to spell it !
UK research shows that people who develop their Ei have lower stress levels,
enjoy better health, higher levels of morale and performance and better quality of
life.
Some Ei tips:
Further Reading :