Tips and Guidelines that a Lady is in Love with a Guy

By Ronald V. Gomeseria, Ph.D. – 20 February 2020 | DOI 10.17605/OSF.IO/8VTJQ

This research study has been developed to

emphasize the relevance of the relationship
between an individual’s behavior as part of
the socio-human interaction in society.
However, this integrates the methodological
approach on the conducted interviews that
seems effective in knowing the feelings of
individual concern between the lady and
the gentleman intimacy, the guy that is
good to be true and the reaction of a
married man that falls in love with the lady.
Although the series conducted interviews
becomes annoying most especially for the
lady that contributes something personal in
the sense of intimate questions being
asked. In the end, they are accommodating
and cooperative in making this article paper
a reliable and future use by anyone.

Goal and Methodological Approach

The question that always paramount in the author’s mind is about how we can say or assure that a
lady we like has sympathy for a gentleman or how you can say that a lady is in love with a guy?
On several occasions, the author has done so many ways initiative of quantitative and qualitative
researches in support of the research question in hand to justify the mutual feeling between the two.
The author knows the repercussions in conducting such funny and foolish questions, however, the
objective is just to make sure consistently and to know others' thoughts based on whatever
experiences they have either from their bachelor’s period or in their current situation as married life.
All the interviewed conducted to them informally which means the author has, directly and indirectly,
asked the number of peoples around him. Although the research question is something personal, the
question, however, is intended and has no malice in the first place but to elaborate the way it does
and explicit the strenuous experiences and burden on individual's understanding, which have been
enumerated and identifies their sentiments below about the feelings on how she has an affection.

Scenically View about Intimacy of a Lady to a Gentleman

Whenever the above happening to anyone, or whether you’ve met someone new lady along the way,
and you can feel something different which might see all the hearts in every time you are around with
her or every time you are passing by. The thing is, the interaction with her might seems like
something else that can be referred to as a fairytale book or just an illusion otherwise.
However, at the back of the guys thought, the mind is whispering that could be happening and you
may say, that’s a perfect lady to love! But could it be perfect? We all know that life is not perfect and
can be mistakes along the way and the question is, can there be such a perfect relationship?
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Moreover, these collective thoughts from the different sources as conducted may not be the same
attitudes as the lady you are looking at with another lady’s thought depending on how you can meet
and the acquaintance that has been served between the lady and the guy.
But maybe, one of those traits can say it YES or NOT depending on how you can handle and
approach to the situation whereas the author has figured and summarized all the findings that have
been gathered from different sources as maybe or can these be their tips in courting a lady and/or
guidelines before wrapping up for a decision in having a new love affair you like.
And here we go for some signs that the lady you like has sympathy to a guy, which might too good to
be true somehow but even though, the occurrence of the risks somewhat strenuous and bellow are
the scenically tips bounded between the lady and a guy intimacy as follows:

 Whenever a guy meet a lady in the first meeting, you can notice her shyness and can’t even
look at your eyes straight as well her mannerism is unusual than the normal way she was,

 She initiates to know the guy more silently without asking him personally,
 Whenever you talk to the lady, she showed something unusual than normal silently,
 The lady has something special thoughts and kindness the way she treats the guy,
 She initiates to discuss something longer whenever the guy has nothing to say,
 A continual exchange of ideas or threaded messages out of this world only to discuss,
 A conversation about the topic that is irrelevant on what you think as usual talk,
 The looks and behavior has changed on different occasions every time she meets a guy,
 The lady can sacrifice what others might say or her parents for the sake and right of the guy,
however, rendered sacrifices emotionally means love and nobody can break on it.

Scenically View about a Guy who is Good to be True for a Lady

In contrast with the enumerated tips above, the guy can keep complimenting and trying to win the
lady’s heart at all cost no matter what might happen. Sometimes the guy will make a move quickly
towards a major commitment, which the lady doesn’t know all about his intention but this could
impress something for love. And getting to know them personally will give more impact that is likely
too good to be true somehow. However, most of the guys today have been magnetized with the
gadget because of information and it seems that they don’t even leave unattended but focusing unto
it in reality, only to wait for the messages and call from the lady he likes too if ever this will manifest.
Usually, when the guy knows that the lady is aware of it, then he will become more arrogant or being
confident as he is. Another thing, the guy will never attempt to know exactly what the lady’s name is,
instead he might call her that suits her attitude and mannerisms.

The Reaction for a Married Man who is in-Love with a Lady

On the other hand, with all the investigations and interviewed along the way, the author has found
something fishy most specifically if ever a guy is courting a lady he likes within their organization as
an officemate or somewhere down the road. But most of the problems that have been encountered
especially in the Middle East, most of the gentlemen are already married and they are only working
abroad because of their family needs. However, even the lady has something for that guy, she would
rather say, “I am not paying attention to a married man either!”
That is absolutely correct, although an intriguing issue, however, that’s the correct move from a lady
to sustain and maintain the legacy of her counterpart after all – in securing the family safe from
embarrassment. The point there, the lady is putting something away from the temptation that might
happen soon or later once the guy has continuously done that kind of courtship and might she fall
otherwise at the end. Perhaps, and ultimately, following Gods’ Commandment will give everyone an
accurate legacy. In the author’s article, “How to Treat your Wife with all your Heart?” (January
23, 2020) published in the Author’s Blogger Site that has been tackled all the guidance on how you
will treat your wife faithfully, which is an excerpt quote from the Bible and that is good to be true.

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Conclusion
The good thing with the research implies what really matters between the interaction of the lady and
a guy who are in affection coincidentally somewhere down the road. Love and affection with the lady
and of with the guy can be described in so many ways, and the author might say, this is always in an
accompaniment that you can’t even expect in your life, which always comes accidentally. An affection
that is unexplainable why and it is just a gift from God whereas they accidentally meet unknowingly.
Moreover, the most difficult in today’s generation is having a distant love affair, which is a reliable
source on how an individual will fight and defend their love, trust, and faith they have had with each
other can be tested. And with all the tips and guidance as discussed above, that doesn’t mean 100%
accurate because individuals have their own criterion but that will be the basic to know things and
them psychologically. But the author will assure of this correctness and humbly said that so.

Recommendations
The structured of culture accustomed from our ancestors years and years ago and until now we are
exercising the way on how individual falls in love. The landscape of creation can’t be defined when
most of our feelings shine with love and as discussed above is an example of how we can control
ourselves towards ether a lady or to a gentleman. However, love and affection is a naturally given gift
by the almighty God to us, which must be appreciated and secured in the name of LOVE forever.
Whenever we fall in love, see to it that you are true to yourself and since LOVE comes from God, we
have to take care of it. God’s Commandments are the strength of our faith to our love one and to
God, which will define our strength and valuing the lives of love and faith.

Write-Up References and Additional Readings

Gomeseria, RV; (May 2019); “Moment of Love” Retrieved from;
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/333024108_Moment_of_Love
Gomeseria, RV; (May 2019); “Personal Storied of Commitment;” Retrieved from;
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/332983520_Personal_Storied_of_Commitment
Gomeseria, RV; (February 2019); “The Concept of Culture;” Retrieved from;
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/331032666_The_Concept_of_Culture
Gomeseria, RV; (January 2019); “The Challenge of Online eLearning as an Online eLearner in
Today's Environment;” Retrieved from;
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/330601276_The_Challenge_of_Online_eLearning_a
s_an_Online_eLearner_in_Today's_Environment

About the Author

With 27,760+ LinkedIn Followers Connections (08 January 2020)
Er. Ronald Valledor Gomeseria, Ph.D. ME/PME, PE, PEng, CEng, CBuildE, CEnv, APEC (IntPE), ACPE, ASEANEng
Professional Engineer (Philippines, Qatar, India, UK); Chartered Engineer (India, UK); Chartered Environmentalist (India);
Chartered Engineering Manager (USA); Chartered Health Care Manager (USA); Specialized Engineering Manager (UK);
Specialized Project Manager (UK); Master Project Manager (USA); Chartered Building Engineer (UK); ASEAN Engineer;
ASEAN Chartered Professional Engineer; APEC Engineer (IntPE); Mechanical Engineer (Phils); Plumbing Engineer / Master
Plumber (Phils); Master Electrician (Phils); Certified International Project Manager (USA)
Book & Article Author/Writer – CEAI ViewPoint Journal | Durresamin Journal | Top 1% Author of Academia and
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RCRANRM / CCA&DRM / PED Graduate Courses – UPOU CEP Courses Topnotch | SAfE Course (2020 – Ongoing)
Post Graduate Diploma in Environment and Natural Resources Management major in Upland Resources Management (DENRM-URM, 1.78 GWA)
Post Graduate Diploma in Environment and Natural Resources Management major in Coastal Resources Management (DENRM-CRM) - Ongoing
University of the Philippines, Los Banos, Laguna, Philippines
Master of Science in Construction Management (36 Credit Units / 2016-2018, 1.14 GWA / 4.0 US GPA, Topnotch)
Polytechnic University of the Philippines, Manila, Philippines
Master of Mechanical Engineering (48 Credit Units / 2010-2013, 3.78 US GPA, Magna Cum Laude)
Ph.D. in Building and Construction Engineering (65 Credit Units / 2016-2019, 4.0 US GPA, Summa Cum Laude)
Ph.D. in Environmental Engineering (Ongoing)
Atlantic International University, USA
Master of Arts in Teaching major in Refrigeration and Air Conditioning Technology | EARIST Manila, Philippines (1.12 GPA, 2002-2004)
Bachelor of Science in Mechanical Engineering | Bicol University, Legazpi City, Philippines

Keywords: Love, Culture, Structure, Intimacy, Lady, Gentleman, Affection, Distant Love Affair, Faith

Gomeseria, R. V. (2020, February 20). Tips and Guidelines that a Lady is in

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Love with a Guy. https://doi.org/10.17605/OSF.IO/8VTJQ | DOI 10.17605/OSF.IO/8VTJQ

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