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So The Big Question Is: How Do You Get

Yourself A Beautiful, Awesome, Loyal
Girlfriend – YOUR “Perfect 10”?
Hey guys, Christian here.

Like a lot of guys, I used to think that if I wanted a great girl in my life, I
needed certain things like...
- a nice car
- good looks
- chiseled abs
... and so on.

It made me really anxious and nervous to go talk to girls, because I didn't

have any of those things for the first 24 years of my life.

So I bought into the lie, and worked to get them. And by 24, I was running
a business, had a lot of money, and a pretty chiseled body.

But women still didn't like me.

I could usually get a girl out on one date, but that was about it.

There were a series of embarrassing dates with this one girl, and she broke
my heart so badly that I decided I needed to "get this fixed."

So I studied the "pickup artist" stuff after that, but it always felt fake and
weird to me. So by the age of 26, I felt like my beliefs about "what women
want" had been beaten to a bloody pulp.

Women said they wanted one thing...

PUAs and dating coaches said something else...

all I knew was that I was struggling to get girls to like me enough to be my

Until I discovered something called 'literotica'.

It's basically the female version of, er... naked photos and videos. You
know. The "P" word.

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Turns out that as many women buy literotica books every year as there are
men who subscribe to adult websites.

* Hundreds of millions *

It's the #1 product category on Amazon's ebook story.

Just about EVERY woman who CAN get their hands on it does. When I
learned this, I knew that it must hold a key to female psychology that I'd
never understood before.

So what did I learn from literotica?

Well, there's basically an "obsession story" that is in every book. Every

time a woman falls in love with a man, it basically follows the same story

And this patten was in EVERY BOOK.

I did some research into evolutionary biology and learned that women are
basically "programmed" to fall for this story. It fulfills biological needs that
go much deeper than her "social" programming.

That's why these books are so popular... they tap directly into a woman's
primitive "reptile brain" and deliver big doses of the good stuff that makes
her brain go "mmmmm".

In fact, when women say they want money, looks and abs... well, frankly,
they're lying to themselves.

And to you.

Don't blame them. Those are the things that society tells them are
attractive. Society wants to sell you gym memberships, Rolex watches, and

But as someone who had all of those things... and still couldn't land a great
girl... trust me - those things don't actually fulfill a woman's deepest needs.

To learn more about what I discovered, how this "obsession story" really
works, and just how deep the rabbit hole goes, download & watch
everything here…

Simon Heong – http://www.InsiderDatingNews.com


Here’s How You Make Her “Fall” For

You (It’s The Opposite Of What Most
Guys Are Doing)
The dating scene is crazy. I've learned a lot from six years of dating some
of the most beautiful girls from all walks of life, ethnicity & age, from which
it gave me an entirely unique & fresh perception about them.

Click here to watch it…

Many of the women I've dated have had guys offer them the world. Private
flights to caribbean islands... hot tub parties at the Trump Tower... and I
just can't compete on that level.

So I figured out how to attract a woman on a much deeper level - an

evolutionary level. And now whenever I see one of these jokers try to bribe
a girl into going out with him, all I think is "what a chump."

See, if you want a girlfriend - especially a hot, desirable girl who all the
guys are chasing - you can't play by the same rules that every other guy is
playing by.

You've got to activate a part of her desire that gets her obsessed with you.

So I developed a step-by-step system for doing just that... from the moment
I meet her, all the way until she's my girlfriend.

In just a second, I'm going to tell you exactly how to end the first date.

This is usually an awkward moment for a lot of guys.

Do you hug her? Kiss her on the lips? Try to get her back to your place?

Well, MOST guys either get nervous and fumble this... or go straight for the
kiss on the lips.

And this is IMPORTANT: she's expecting you to do either of those things.

But remember - if you want to get her obsessing over you, you've got to be
different. You've got to make her wonder about you.

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Because if she's wondering about you... and spending her time thinking
about you... then she's *not* thinking about another guy. YOU are the one
who's taking up mental space in her head.

It's a funny little way to "hack" her evolutionary programming.

Think of it this way: if there are two guys she's dating - Joe and Tom - and
she knows Joe likes her, but isn't certain if Tom likes her... she'll naturally
spend more time thinking about Tom.

She'll think "Gosh, every other guy on planet earth just falls for me so
easily... but not Tom. What did I do wrong? Why didn't I win him over?"

So even if you're competing against the "bigger better deal" - a guy with
more money, better looks, etc. - it's actually pretty easy to be the guy who
she can't help but think about... and obsess over... and fall for.

I've got a step-by-step system that ANY guy can use to do this. Here's how
to use it to end the first date:

As you're putting her in the taxi, or dropping her off at her house, lean in
for the kiss... *but go straight for her cheek.*

Don't even try for the lips.

Then pull away, look her dead in the eyes, and with a wry little smile on
your face, say...

"I had a great time with you tonight. We might just have to do this again
some time."

And leave it at that. Don't say "I hope I see you again" or try to get her to
commit to another date.

What I found - because it's what every woman told me - is that by doing
this, it leaves her guessing:

"Does he like me?"

When a guy gets nervous and fumbles the kiss... or when he goes straight
for the kiss on the lips... she knows what's up. No more mystery. She

"Ok, he likes me. I could have him if I wanted him. The power is mine."

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But when YOU are the one to go for the kiss on the cheek, and you wryly
tell her that "maybe" you'll have to hang out again, it leaves an unanswered
question in her mind.

So she's thinking about you for the rest of the night... and the next day.

Believe it or not, this uncertainty actually FEELS really good for her. The
emotional ups and downs release an addictive chemicals in her brain
(dopamine) that she associates with you.

(think of your last crush on a girl. you weren't certain if she liked you or
not... but every time you heard from her and got a "hint" that she might feel
the same way about you, you got a rush of positive emotions. addictive,

And the more she's thinking about YOU - the more that you take up space
in her mind - the more addicted and obsessed she becomes.

It's been by doing stuff like this that I've been able to date the 10's that
every guy wants.

And if you start doing stuff like this, you'll be the one who's in control of
the entire dating process.

Because you're using principles of psychology that evolution has wired her
to be attracted to. It doesn't matter who your competition is - if other guys
aren't doing this stuff, you'll win, plain and simple.

This stuff is fascinating, and it's incredible how easy it is to get a great
girlfriend when you know these secrets and how to control the process.

Click to watch here…

Simon Heong – http://www.InsiderDatingNews.com


Women Don’t Want To BE The

You might be able to "trick" a girl into sleeping with you at the bar, but let's
face it: if you want a girlfriend, there's going to be a point where you have
to open up to her and be real.

In fact, it starts on the first date. If you want to make a girl obsess over
you, you've got to get her to "invest" in you.

You want her to think to herself: "I want to be a part of this guy's future."

So the *worst* thing you can talk about is how boring your job or your life

When I was in my early twenties, I was running a software startup and

making decent money, but I didn't enjoy my work. So when I'd go out on
dates, I'd express my frustration and talk about how bored I was.

Even though I had a sexy black sports car and was pretty well built, I
couldn't get past first dates. I was hoping that my body and my money
would "do the work" for me, but when it comes to getting a girlfriend to
actually fall for you, that stuff just doesn't matter.

Then I went through a brief "pickup artist" phase where I went out a lot, and
picked up lots of girls. I got the idea that my dates would like me if they
knew that other women liked me, so I would subtly brag about how other
women wanted me.

It shouldn't surprise you to learn that I didn't get very good results doing

As I learned, women don't like "ladies men," they like "men who like

A "ladies man" tries to prove to women that he's good with women.

A "man who likes ladies" just loves spending time with women, and
focuses on making them feel special and unique when he's around them.

So trying to prove to a girl that you're a "ladies man" shows her that you
are just insecure and, well... trying to prove something.

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Huge turn off.

It wasn't until I discovered the female "obsession story" that I figured out
what really gets women excited about a guy:

*** his vision ***

For a woman to say "I want to be a part of this guy's future" she has to buy
into his vision for the future.

Imagine Steve Jobs on a date. Sharing his vision for the future of
technology. Even if he was broke (and he damn near was at several points
in his life) it'd still be captivating to a woman.

The sort of thing she'd want to be a part of. The sort of thing she'd want to
help him turn into reality.

So what's your vision? And importantly - WHY do you do it?

It doesn't matter if you're not doing it now. What matters is that you've got
a vision... and a mission... and that *those* are driving you.

Not your need to just have a girlfriend to save you from boredom.

One of my favorite quotes about manhood is that "women want to be part

of the adventure, they don't want to BE the adventure".

So when you're out on a date with a girl, talking about the future...
remember, it's YOUR future to get excited about. It's *your* mission that
you're living. Speak with passion and enthusiasm about your future, and
she won't be able to resist envisioning herself in it.

If you want to know exactly how to do this, and learn what you need to do
to get a girl to be your girlfriend, then you'll want to watch this…

Simon Heong – http://www.InsiderDatingNews.com


How To Get Her To Want To See You

There are certain human tendencies that are so natural... yet so self-

For example, when you're dating a girl you really like, it's easy to fall into
the "let's solidify things" trap.

Here's how it works:

You start to like a girl, so you want to spend more time with her.

As your feelings grow for her, so too does your attachment to that future
with her.

You really want to kiss her. Sleep with her. Make her your girlfriend.

So much so, in fact, that you start to get nervous and insecure around her.
And you start to feel a little possessive.

You're texting her and she tells you about her plans to see a band play on
Friday night... and all you can think is "why didn't she invite me?"

You're on your second date with her and she tells you that she went out to
the bar last weekend. You immediately wonder if she gave her number out
to any other guys.

And you start looking for ways to "lock down" the future. You try to get her
to commit to plans... you subtly hint at the strength of your feelings for
her... maybe you even come out and ask her how she feels about you.

I probably don't need to tell you that NONE of this is attractive to a girl.

Yet it's weird, because when you like a girl, it feels very natural to do this

So what's the solution?

Well, it's simple, but paradoxical.

When you're with her, you focus on having as MUCH fun as you can while
you're together... and NOT trying to confirm anything or lock anything

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Think about it: if you have tons of fun the first time you hang out with
someone... wouldn't you want to see them again?

And if it just kept going like that - where you had a great time every time
you hung out - wouldn't it be easy to end up in a relationship with them?

But if they were a nervous wreck the whole time, and tried to PUSH you
into spending more time with them... the only way you'd do it would be out
of guilt.

And sorry to say it, but guilt doesn't get girlfriends.

So lesson number 1: live in the moment and focus on smiling, and putting
a smile on her face, when you're together.

Now let's take this one step further. Because not only do we want a girl to
have a ton of fun when she's hanging out with you, but we want her to
"invest" in a future with you so she starts thinking about you a lot... and
eventually obsessing over you.

I've got a saying for this:

"Live in the Moment, Flirt with the Future"

When you're with a girl, you're ALWAYS living in the moment. You have as
much fun with her as possible, and you trust that... if you do so... she'll be
as excited to spend more time with you as you are with her.

But you ARE going to "flirt with the future."

In other words, you're going to drop little hints of stuff that you're doing...
and stuff that she should do with you... but you're going to mention them
so casually that she won't know if you're even being serious about it.

For example, if you're talking about your favorite pizza place in the city...

"Wait, you haven't been to Artichoke Pizza? It is SO amazing. We're totally

going there next time we hang out. They actually take Artichoke dip, mix it
with cheese and bake it onto a deep dish pizza. Where have you been that
could possibly top that??"

Notice - a very subtle mention of "next time we hang out." But there was
no attempt to confirm it. In fact, you're so casual and confident that there

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will, in fact, be a "next time" that she'll feel even more attraction towards

Here's another example.

"So you've never tried clay pigeon shooting? It's so much fun, I'll have to
take you sometime. Have you ever tried to shoot a gun, period?"

Notice how casual you are when you say this. Very confident assumption
that you're going to take her to do something... then you move right on to
ask her a question.

"You like Dazed and Confused too? I thought I was the only one! Ok, we
totally need to do a movie marathon. What are some of your other favorite

Notice - you're FLIRTING with the future. Touch and go. A casual
suggestion to do a movie marathon... then right back into another question.

When it comes to turning a girl into your girlfriend, this is one of the most
powerful and attractive things you can do.


Well, it forces you to look for commonalities with the girl, and also talk
about things that you're into, so that's a great start.

Then, it subtly demonstrates that you're confident in the fact that - if you
want to - you can see her again. Trust me, women notice this.

And most importantly, it creates so many "future memories" of stuff that

the two of you are going to do together.

Her brain fills up with images of having an awesome time with you, doing
all sorts of fun stuff. She knows it's going to be fun because you always
live in the moment when you're with her. And because you're not needy or
trying to "overconfirm" your plans, she wonders if you even mean all of
this stuff... which makes her wonder if you even really like her...

... and at that point, the tables are turned, and SHE'S the one who's going to
try to lock YOU down.

By the time I get to a second date with a girl, we usually have a list, twenty
items long, of stuff that I'd casually suggested we do together. And as long
as I'm having fun with her and she's having fun with me, I know we're going
to keep spending time together.

Simon Heong – http://www.InsiderDatingNews.com


When you "live in the moment, flirt with the future" you are going to have
such a huge advantage over other guys, even if they've got money, looks
or a chiseled body. It's truly the quickest shortcut to her heart, and getting
her to think of you as a boyfriend.

For more of this, click here to download everything…

It hasn't been easy to figure this stuff out, but once I cracked the code,
dating become fun and getting a girlfriend became easy.

If you're a single guy who's struggling with girls the way I used to, then I
know your frustration and I can't wait to give you everything you need to
get this problem handled.

Just download everything here… and I’ll speak to you again on the other

Rock and roll,


Simon Heong – http://www.InsiderDatingNews.com