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1. ‘Increase’ and ‘growth’: ؕت ٰ … الرِّ ٰبوا َوي ُۡر ِبى الصand gives increase for charities. (Sūrat al-
ِ َّدَق
Baqarah, 2:276).
2. ‘Establish’, according to al-Fayruzabadi.
3. ‘Protecting’, ‘caring’, ‘educating’ and ‘providing’, according to Ibn Manẓur.
4. ‘Discipline’ and ‘correction’, according to Ibrahim Muṣṭafa
Why Parenting?
If you have kids then it doesn’t make you a parent. Being a parent it requires some other
abilities too.
The Prophet Muhammad SAW said,
“When a man dies, his action discontinues from him except three things, namely, perpetual
sadaqah (charity), or the knowledge by which benefit is acquired, or a pious child who prays
for him.” [Sunan Abi Dawud]
In another Hadith, Prophet Muhammad SAW said, "Whoever is given daughters and spends
on them and treats them well - surely God will reward him in paradise."
َ
الرج
َّ عيَّتِهِ َو
ِ َن َر ٌ سئُو
ْ لع ْ م َ َاع وَهُو ٍ اس َر
ِ َّ ير الذِي عَلى الن
َ َّ ُ م ِ َ عيَّتِهِ فَاأل ِ َن َر ْ لع ٌ سئُو ْ م َ مْ ُ اع َوكُلُّك ٍ م َر ْ ُ أال َ كُلُّك
ِي َمسْ ُئولَ ٌة َع ْن ُه ْم ِ علَى أَهْ ِل َب ْي ِت ِه َوه َُو َمسْ ُئو ٌل َع ْن ُه ْم َو ْال َمرْ أَةُ َراعِ َي ٌة َعلَى َب ْي
َ ت َبعْ لِ َها َو َولَ ِد ِه َوه َ
Beware! Every one of you is a shepherd and every one is answerable with regard to his
flock. The Caliph is a shepherd over the people and shall be questioned about his subjects
(as to how he conducted their affairs). A man is a guardian over the members of his family
and shall be questioned about them (as to how he looked after their physical and moral
well-being). A woman is a guardian over the household of her husband and his children and
shall be questioned about them (as to how she managed the household and brought up the
children)
Islam considers children one of the greatest gifts and blessings humanity is endowed with
and the prophets and messengers, from time immemorial, asked Allah for righteous
offspring.
Aʾishah raḍi’Allah ʿanha narrated,
‘Indeed, your children are Allah’s gift for you’ (al-Hakim).
Goals of Tarbiyyah:
Activity:
Think of 3 important attributes of a good parent.
1. ______________________________
2. ______________________________
3. ______________________________
Children do not listen with their ears. They listen with their eyes.
- Yawar Baig
Suppose your children are given the following list. How are they likely to respond? Reflect
on each statement critically and write yes or no which you think as their response. Be
honest. You have to look at yourself through your children’s eyes.
Summary
Lack of emotional loneliness is challenging for both children & adults. Parental disconnect
will create emptiness in the children which results in a negative manner in one or the other
and it might create a pattern for them when they will become adults.
Things your need know about your child:
1. Who are you child’s favorite people and friends?
2. What has made them your child’s favorite?
3. What are the top 3 worries of your child?
4. What are the top 3 wishes of your child?
5. What are the five major interests of your child?
6. What does your child like about himself?
7. What does your child doesn’t like about himself?
8. What are your child’s academic anxieties/fears?
9. What are the three phrases that your child does not want to hear?
10. What does your child like about you?
How to work on your Emotions:
Stop Expectations from Others
Be Vigilant about your Emotional State
Evaluate Your Desires Critically
Identify Your Emotional Triggers*
Use Positive Self-Talk
Find Birds of a Feather
Forgive Others
Emotional Triggers