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Am I in an Abusive Relationship?
It can be hard to tell whether you’re in an abusive relationship, especially if the abuse isn’t
physical. A reason why abuse can be confusing is that abusers often shift the blame, or
deny or minimise the abuse — these tactics are, in fact, part of the abuse. Moreover, an
abuser may not be actively violent all the time, and there can be “good” moments in the
relationship, which makes an abusive relationship even more confusing.
Here are some questions you can ask to assess if you’re in an abusive relationship:
Do you feel fear, or like you’re walking on eggshells when you’re with your partner?
YES
Does your partner control you? YES
Is there a power imbalance in your relationship? YES
If you’ve answered yes to any of the above questions, this could be a red flag.
Below are further signs that you may be in an abusive relationship. Do note that the list
below is not exhaustive.
Physical abuse
slapping
choking
causing you fear by looks, actions, or gestures
forbidding you from falling asleep
preventing you from calling for help
Psychology
putting you down
shaming and humiliating you
criticising you constantly
undermining your self-worth
blaming you for the abuse
playing the victim
denying or minimising the abuse
guiltripping
threatening to harm themselves if you don’t comply with their demands
Social Isolation
preventing you from leaving home or contacting friends or family
undermining your relationship with friends and family
monitoring your movements
constantly texting or calling to find out where you are and whom you’re with
Financial Abuse