Nama : Thalita Dewi Rahmaniar

NIM : 1101190269
Kelas : TT-43-05
Topic : Why We Need To Love Ourself
Outline : Self love is the answer for becoming successful
It gives you room to heal
You become more comfortable with the bad day
Thesis Statement : By accepting yourself it can make you successful, healthy,and
comfortable with the bad day.
Self-Loved Saved My Life
Love yourself first! Loving yourself is seeing yourself as a whole focusing more on
what you know you’re capable or rather than how other people see you. How much you love
yourself is how peacefully and gracefully you live out your life. By accepting yourself it can
make you successful, healthy, and comfortable with the bad day. Finding who you are and
your identity can come with many challenges in life but it starts with loving yourself first.
There are times when I feel that "I can't" even when I haven't tried to step forward.
All of this happened because I didn't believe in myself. Compare myself with other people,
then feel weak and choose to remain silent on the spot. Here's a saying that goes, "Success
does not bring happiness; happiness brings success. " I have found this to be exactly true. I
have found that success does not bring self-love, but that self-love definitely brings success. I
started from simple things. I learned to love myself as I am. I realize that everyone has their
own uniqueness, nothing should be compared. Always trying to be someone else just because
I want to be accepted in a social environment only leads me to relationships that are not
sincere. When I can't come to terms with who I am , I will wobble in my identity and struggle
with my sense of self. This is where I find myself surrounded with people who don't value
and support who I am, and who brings me down. By believing and loving myself, people will
see me in a different and sincere way, this will lead me to true success and happiness. When I
have an innate sense of unconditional self-love and acceptance, I have a firm foundation from
which healthy living and career success all come in an effortless, safe and amazing way.
There will be times when I start to speculate with negative thoughts. It makes me
depressed and thinks about things I shouldn't. I feel anxious because I'm not sure to myself,
did I make a mistake? Did I do a good thing? All of these things will interfere with the health
of the body and mind. That's so torturous! Therefore I started to control myself and be honest
with myself. Say no to anything or anyone that will drain me or make me perceive the world
negatively. I learn to forgive myself and think that no one is perfect. Loving ourself makes
me more open and aware of the healing process. I come to terms with the fact that in life I
will get hurt, but that doesn't mean the pain has to last forever. I acknowledge and accept my
bad emotions and then let them go so that I can move forward and fully enjoy living life in
the present.
 I've been through a time when life was like unfair. This life continues to bring
boomerang for me. I will be a very depressed person when faced with a problem. Then I
began to understand that the feeling came from myself. I am too overthinking with many
things that are very difficult for me. Little by little I began to learn that every day isn't going
to be the best day. However, instead of wallowing in self-pity, I accept whatever mental and
physical state I'm in. Seems like light even in the bad days because I know that even in the
down moments there is an opportunity to learn and grow.
Slowly but surely I who once hated myself was now replaced by me who really loved
myself. Now I was able to walk upright without worry. I live my day believing that "I am the
best version of my life". Loving myself leads me to a day full of happiness and success. I was
able to control myself to live well towards a healthy life. I was able to put myself as
comfortable as possible whatever my circumstances. Think positive that I believe in myself
and be able to get through all difficulties well. When I felt that my life's motivation was
diminishing, I returned to the mirror and looked at my reflection while saying "You are the
best".