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Life with a Russian billionaire: money and death threats

By Ahmen Khawaja
BBC Stories

7 April 2020

ALEXANDRA TOLSTOY & SERGEI PUGACHEV

Russian billionaire Sergei Pugachev met Alexandra Tolstoy when she was hired to teach him English

They would stay in his chateau in the south of France and had homes across the
world. It was an idyllic life, beyond anyone's imagination.

Countess Alexandra Tolstoy, an aristocratic English woman, had her own fairy tale come
true when she fell in love with the man of her dreams in 2008, an oligarch and one of
Russia's richest men, Sergei Pugachev.

Then, everything turned into a nightmare.

The story begins five years ago in London, where the two were living a life of enviable
luxury in their sprawling Chelsea home with their three young children.

"We have a PA, two drivers, two housekeepers, an English nanny, and a Russian nanny
as well as a French teacher for homework", counts Alexandra as she gives a tour of her
home.

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"We moved here just after I'd had my first baby. Then we bought the house next door."
 ALEXANDRA TOLSTOY

In happier times: Sergei Pugachev and Alexandra Tolstoy lived between London, Russia and Paris

Prior to that, Tolstoy had a privileged childhood; her father was a distant relative of the
author Leo Tolstoy and Alexandra had attended an elite boarding school before working
as a broker in the city.

But she soon left her job and started a travel business, exploring the former Soviet Union,
Turkmenistan and Kyrgyzstan, and marrying a Cossack horseman in the process.

Unfortunately, it didn't last.

A few years later, when Alexandra and her husband were struggling to make ends meet,
along came Sergei Pugachev, her knight in shining armour.

The couple had first met when Alexandra had been hired to teach him English.

'It was electric'

A framed photograph shows a glimpse of the man.

Sergei Pugachev is pictured on Tolstoy's left, with deep-set green eyes, a trimmed
moustache and beard.

Watch The Countess and the Russian Billionaire on Wednesday 8 April at 21:00 on
BBC Two

Viewers in the UK can catch up later on iPlayer

The couple look relaxed and tanned on a holiday, smiling easily and dressed in white
linen.

"When I met Sergei, it was electric. I fell so in love with him," Tolstoy says. "It was so
romantic, I've never felt such a connection with someone."
 The family had a globe-trotting lifestyle, with a base in Chelsea, London

A jet set life

Initially, Tolstoy says, life couldn't have been better.

Within a year of meeting she had given birth to a baby and the new family were living a
life of luxury between Moscow, London and Paris.

"He'd give me his credit card and I'd go shopping, I could do what I liked," she says. "I had
a private jet. I just had to pack my suitcase and go."

The couple split their time between an array of properties; including a £12m family home
in Battersea, a 200-acre estate in Hertfordshire, and a beach-front villa in the Caribbean,
worth $40m.

But though the good times rolled, back in Russia, the mood had changed.

President Vladimir Putin was turning against his former oligarch allies like Sergei
Pugachev.
 SERGEI PUGACHEV

Sergei Pugachev earned the nickname 'Putin's banker' and the two were said to be close

'Putin's banker'
Sergei Pugachev had amassed his vast $15bn fortune in post-communist Russia. He
owned a coal mine, shipyards, designer brands and even one of Russia's largest private
banks.

He says that he was close to the Russian President - they went on holiday together "all
the time" - and that after giving loans to the government he earned the nickname, "Putin's
banker".

But Pugachev says that Putin didn't approve of his relationship with Alexandra Tolstoy.

"Mr Putin was really surprised," Pugachev says. "[He said] 'Why? She's English. So
strange. There's 140m people in Russia, it's a crazy idea.'"
 SERGEI PUGACHEV

In 2003, President Vladimir Putin started a campaign to drive Yeltsin-era 'oligarchs' out of politics

'We can cut your son's finger off'

In 2006, Russia passed a law giving its agents the license to kill enemies of the state
abroad and it wasn't long before Russia's attention turned to Pugachev and his billions.

In 2008 Pugachev's bank had hit problems and had been bailed out by the Russian State
with a billion-dollar loan. But despite the bail-out, the bank went under just two years later.

Pugachev claims he had sold the bank years earlier, but Russia disagreed.

In court, Pugachev was found liable for the bank's losses and promptly fled Russia.

Pugachev says he was threatened by Russia's Deposit Insurance Agency (DIA), who
demanded repayment for the billion dollar bank loan.

"They invited me to a restaurant. They said, 'OK you have to pay $350m or we will kill you
or your family. If you want, we can cut your son's finger off and send it,'" Pugachev says.

The DIA denies this ever happened, but what's certain is that Pugachev refused to pay
back the money.

Over the next few years, enemies of the Russian state continued to fall.
 AFP

Boris Nemtsov was one of Russia's leading economic reformers in the 1990s

High-profile enemies of the state

In 2012, wealthy Russian exile and whistleblower, Alexander Perepilichny, dropped dead
while out jogging near his mansion in Surrey.

In 2013, Boris Berezovsky, an opponent of President Putin, was found dead at his home
in Ascot.

In 2015, a leading Russian opposition politician, Boris Nemtsov, was shot dead in
Moscow.
 SERGEI PUGACHEV

Sergei Pugachev amassed a $15bn fortune in post-communist Russia

Going head to head

The Russian State was closing in on Sergei Pugachev and in 2015, used British courts to
pursue him and the missing $1bn.

Pugachev was found liable for the bank's losses - the bail-out money, it was said, had
been paid into a Swiss bank account and then been moved around until all one billion
dollars of it had simply vanished.

Pugachev's assets were frozen worldwide, and his passports seized.

Having by now fled to his chateau in France, Pugachev went head to head with the
Russian state and sued them for the loss of his business assets.

Alexandra Tolstoy alleges her relationship with billionaire Sergei Pugachev became strained when
he fled to France

'I would feel too claustrophobic and isolated'

With her partner in permanent hiding and their family being followed, Tolstoy began to feel
that things were unsafe for her and her children, and by 2016 her relationship with the
children's father was under unbearable pressure.

When Pugachev asked Tolstoy to move permanently to France with their three children to
live together there as a family, Tolstoy was reluctant, she just couldn't do it.

"Sergei had one of his explosions where he physically attacked me," she says. "He locked
the children in a room, separate from me and he locked my passport and the children's
passports in his safe."

"Something in me just snapped that weekend - I knew we weren't safe."

 Speaking to the BBC, Alexandra Tolstoy says she and her children have been financially cut off

Then, in the spring of 2016, she left the chateau abruptly with the children, and they never
returned.

From that moment on, she says, both she and the children have been financially cut off.

"Some people look at me and say, 'Your life is so easy, you have lucky children who are
so privileged,'" she says with tears in her eyes.

"They're not. The most privileged upbringing is to live in a safe, secure and happy family
that you know is together."

Tolstoy says that the Russian state seized the family home and put it on the market. She
says they offered her a deal to stay in the house for a year if she agreed "not to claim any
maintenance from Sergei and not claim my debt."

"I either signed the agreement or I left the house the next day," she says.

"My worst fear is that we have no money, and that we have nowhere to live. It's a
nightmare."
 BBC/REUTERS

Former Russian double agent Sergei Skripal and his daughter Yulia survived the attack

Relations between Britain and Russia worsen

By 2018, after the high-profile case of the poisoning of Sergei Skripal, a former Russian
double agent in the UK, there was renewed scrutiny of a string of deaths in the UK that
took place in the past two decades.

The Home Office was asked to review 14 cases, which were variously found to have been
heart attacks, suicides, accidents, and deaths by natural causes.

But some some allege that they amount to a pattern of state-sponsored murder on British
streets.

Relations between Britain and Russia reached a new low.

 ALEXANDRA TOLSTOY

Alexandra Tolstoy now lives in a cottage in Oxfordshire with her children

'I'm down to my last $70 million'

Today, Pugachev lives alone in his French chateau - a decision he says he was forced to
make by the Russian state - and says he is down to his last $70m.

"I love my children and I really hope in the near future my children will be happy to be with
their father and everything will be alright," he says.

While Alexandra Tolstoy spends as much time as possible at her cottage in Oxfordshire
with her children, who haven't seen their father since 2016.

"I'll tell them he needs to sort out the situation he's in, and 'maybe when you're older you
can go find him yourself,'" she says.

Tolstoy has revived her travel business, leading horseback expeditions across Kyrgyzstan
and makes regular trips to Russia.

"I love Russia so much," she says. "Weirdly, my relationship with the Russian government
is better than it is with Sergei."

She has also cast off the luxuries of her previous life.
 ALEXANDRA TOLSTOY

Alexandra Tolstoy now leads horseback expeditions across Kyrgyzstan

"Actually, I hate all those things now. They're associated with a life I didn't like," Tolstoy
says.

"I have a whole life ahead of me. I can go back to the things I love, and this is who I am."

"Sergei always thought I'd be so desperate to be with him and his money, that I would
follow him," Tolstoy says.

"Actually, I've come through it. I had the strength to do it."

Watch 'The Countess and the Russian Billionaire' on 8 April at 21:00, on BBC Two
or catch up later on BBC iPlayer.

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