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How To Become A
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
How To Become A Threesome Pickup Artist…………………………………. 2
Disclaimer.................................................................................................3
Legal Stuff & Bad Gal’s Notice…..............................................................3
TABLE OF CONTENTS ...............................................................................4
The Threesome Pickup Artist ................................................................ 7
Help Me Help More People Enjoy A Threesome .....................................9
Chapter 1 ............................................................................................ 10
Welcome To The Secret Society .......................................................... 10
What is a Secret Society? ...................................................................... 11
The Oath of Silence ................................................................................ 12
Suzy TJ Mackey ...................................................................................... 12
The Game ............................................................................................... 16
From AFC to PUA .................................................................................... 19
Differences and Similarities .................................................................. 22
The Biggest Difference Is:..................................................................... 24
The Weird Concept of the Women PUA ................................................ 25
Blowing Away a Century Old Myth! ...................................................... 26
Who Qualifies as a Player? .................................................................... 27
Are You Ready To Be A Player? ............................................................. 28
Chapter 2 ............................................................................................ 29
Turning Monogamous Couples Into Threesome Pickup Artists ........... 29
The PUA's Slang ..................................................................................... 30
But Having a Threesome is Very Difficult!!! ......................................... 34
The Threesome Pickup Artist's Odds .................................................... 35
The Element of Surprise ........................................................................ 37
Successful People Make Their Own Luck ............................................. 38
Why do 85% of people always choose 3? ............................................ 39
10 Reasons Why… ................................................................................. 40
Chapter 3 ............................................................................................ 55
The M.I.S.S. Strategy .......................................................................... 55
Never MISS a Threesome Opportunity! ................................................ 56
M .I.S.S. Step #1: Meet ......................................................................... 56
From Meeting to Greeting ..................................................................... 62
Sarging and Winging ............................................................................. 62
The Wingman Technique ....................................................................... 63
Her Defences Are Down......................................................................... 63
Attraction Is Not Required .................................................................... 64
The Jodie Foster Approach .................................................................... 64
Rapport Building .................................................................................... 65
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Mirroring................................................................................................. 66
Pacing ..................................................................................................... 67
Calibration .............................................................................................. 68
NEXT ....................................................................................................... 70
Where can I meet women for a Threesome? ....................................... 70
M.I.S.S. Step #2: Isolate ....................................................................... 75
Meeting Place:........................................................................................ 76
Build Comfort/Trust Place..................................................................... 76
Sex Place ................................................................................................ 77
Here’s How Karl & Suzy Do It: .............................................................. 77
M.I.S.S. Step #3: Seduce....................................................................... 80
Sexual Syllogisms .................................................................................. 81
The Biggest Secret ................................................................................. 83
The Threshold Theory ............................................................................ 85
Helping Her Reach Her Sexual Threshold ............................................ 87
A Night at the Improv! .......................................................................... 88
Following the Path of Least Resistance ............................................... 88
Undress for Success ............................................................................... 89
How Do Karl & Suzy Do It? ................................................................... 90
Vital Transition Points ........................................................................... 91
Starting the Festivities .......................................................................... 92
Massage Scenario Two .......................................................................... 94
Welding Torches and Gas Ovens........................................................... 94
How to Become a Pro at Erotic Massage .............................................. 95
Pussy Control! ........................................................................................ 97
What Else Can I Do To Make Her Horny? ............................................. 99
Spoil Her Rotten! ................................................................................... 99
Introduction to Tribadism ................................................................... 100
M.I.S.S Step #4: Support .................................................................... 101
Women Are Not Sex Objects ............................................................... 103
Chapter 4 .......................................................................................... 105
On The Road with Suzy Bauer........................................................... 105
Been Inside My Intimate Boudoir Lately? .......................................... 106
1st Road Stop: The Double Whammy ................................................. 107
2nd Road Stop: A GREAT Place to Meet ............................................. 111
Sexually Liberated Women ................................................................. 111
3rd Road Stop: The 4-Letter Word ..................................................... 111
4th Road Stop: Anonymous Advice..................................................... 114
For Threesome Seduction.................................................................... 114
Threesome Chemistry .......................................................................... 115
5th Road Stop: The “Imaginary Fantasy" .......................................... 115
6th Road Stop: The Assistant .............................................................. 116
7th Road Stop: Masturbate ................................................................. 118
8TH Road Stop: The Audition .............................................................. 118
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9th Road Stop: I'm Only Kidding ........................................................ 118
10th Road Stop: There’s No Logic ...................................................... 119
11th Road Stop: The Bi State of Mind ................................................ 120
12th Road Stop: Who Should You Focus On? .................................... 121
We Love Complicity! ............................................................................ 121
The Bi Babe Training Camp ................................................................. 122
The Sensory Strategy .......................................................................... 122
Ancient Threesome Wisdom................................................................ 123
A Threesome is FUN FUN FUN ............................................................. 123
13th Road Stop Let a Lesbian ............................................................. 124
14th Road Stop: It’s NO Big Deal! ...................................................... 125
15th Road Stop: Dress Sexy For Her .................................................. 127
Peacocking for Men ............................................................................. 129
Sexual Overdrive.................................................................................. 130
Chapter 5 .......................................................................................... 132
LIVE Threesome Pickup Training ...................................................... 132
3 Years of Promises ............................................................................. 133
Disclaimer and Terms of Agreement: ................................................. 137
Theory, Reality and the Next Best Thing............................................ 138
Bibliography ..................................................................................... 139
18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping ........................................................ 141
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First of all, I'd like to thank you for purchasing my Step by Step Threesome II
The Threesome Pickup Artist Guide! This digital Ebook is not your typical "beginners
manual"… inside my first book. Step by Step Threesome, I explained the very basics about how
to persuade your wife or girlfriend to have a threesome, how to deal with jealousy, how to seduce
women for a threesome — in other words "the basics".
(Click link to purchase Step by Step Threesome)
http://www.stepbystepthreesome.com/ng2.htm?source=insideTPUA,
This Ebook takes it one step further… This is an advanced version of Step by Step Threesome
and it’s geared MAINLY toward couples that are willing to take their sex life to a whole new
level! (Yes, singles can also benefit from the content!)
If you have not experienced a threesome YET, or you are not involved in the lifestyle already,
this book might be a little too advanced for you.
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I suggest you read Step by Step Threesome prior to engaging in the advanced content of this
manual. Step by Step Threesome is the most elaborate and complete threesome guide on the
market. It covers every aspect of a threesome, and it should be part of your sexual education
library.
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For many years and we've met wonderful people in it. Something we've learned along the way is
that threesomes are one of the favorite activities from most swingers. One of the biggest
challenges for most swingers that pursue threesomes is that in most swingers' parties, clubs
and sites, couples are searching for couples. Single women are a very small minority.
Threesome sex ranks very high not only on swingers preferences but also on most male (and
many female) fantasies. This manual exposes the techniques for swingers' and non-swingers alike
to seduce single women for threesome sex. Because I know that you know many other people
who like you would like to enjoy threesome sex more often. I would like to offer you to help me
spread the word!
- Do you know other couples that would like to enjoy threesomes more often?
- Is your profile listed in a swingers or adult dating site?
- Do you participate on forums or have a blog, website, ezine or mailing list?
If you answered YES to any of the questions above, may I suggest to you to become a
"Word Spreading Partner" and I will reward you with 40% commission for every ebook that is
sold through your recommendations. Find out how you can make a generous commission (40%)
just by helping other people enjoy threesome sex more often.
They will love you and I will love you! :-) Click on the link below to find out more how you can
partner with me helping other people expand their sexual horizons.
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/affiliates.html
- Pablo Picasso
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Chapter 1
Welcome To The Secret Society
- Dan Brown
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Historically, secret societies are often the subject of suspicion and speculation from non-
members, and as such have aroused nervousness from outsiders since the time of the ancient
Greeks, when meetings were held "sub rosa" (Latin, "under the rose") to signify the secrecy and
silence of the Hellenistic Hippocrates Oath. Some secret organizations exploit secrecy as a means
to further their agendas. This is exactly the case of the Pickup Artist... If you actually browse the
internet to penetrate into the seduction community, you will notice that almost everybody has a
“nickname” which in time becomes their Alter Ego. Of course, the last thing they want… is that a
girl they’ve just met “Googles” their name and discovers what they’ve been up to!
The most famous of Pickup Artists is known as “Mystery”. (Now that he is “taken”, he has
revealed his own identity (Erik von Markovik). Others include: Chet, Bad Boy, David M.,
Toecutter, etc. In my case, “Suzy Bauer” is also my pen name/seduction name and certainly has
become my “Alter Ego”. I prefer to keep my real identity secret because of the relatively high
profile of my hubby. I share with you this information because you’re becoming “One of Us” and
as your first “assignment”, you MUST adhere to our code of conduct and refrain from exposing
our secrets and our identities to the outside world. ;-)
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“I will not divulge, all I learn and do should be kept secret. While I continue
to keep this Oath inviolate, I may be permitted to enjoy the lifestyle and the
practice of the art, respected and envied by most men, in all times. But should
I trespass and violate this Oath, may the reverse be my lot.”
Suzy TJ Mackey
Do you remember Frank T.J. Mackey? (Mr. "Respect the Cock" in the film Magnolia?
This character was played by Tom Cruise.
http://www.suzybauer.com/recommends/magnolia/
If you don’t, click on the link below to see a short clip:
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Did you know that this character was not 100% fiction? Actually, Tom Cruise based this
character in a guy called Ross Jeffries who owns www.seduction.com. I became aware that
Pickup Artists existed when I saw the film Magnolia in the year of its release, 1999. BUT u ntil
2003, I was completely unaware that there was a “secret society” of ‘Pickup Artists’!!! After I
launched my www.stepbystepthreesome.com site, I started receiving e-mails from people asking
me questions about how my teachings compared to the teachings of people I’d never met or even
heard before... people like David DeAngelo or Derek Vitalo.
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After purchasing many of these products and reading all their sales letters, I started to notice a
pattern… most of them promise how to improve your seduction skills BUT they also
“subconsciously” promote that they will help you get multiple women!!!
Some of them mention it literally while others show you pictures of the “Pickup Artist” with 2 or
more women. Here are some examples:
http://www.youaresoinmyway.com/thanks.html
http://www.playboyskool.com/
http://www.chetsdatingsystem.com/index.aspx
http://www.pickup101.com/surefireattractionsecrets/index.html?bg=1
Ross Jeffries portrays himself with 2 women on his side http://www.seduction.com/ and even
“T.J. Mackey” in the above video ends up with two women in his bed!!! Sorry to say, but
threesome pickup and one-on-one pickup are two entirely different animals. YES, these guys
can be very effective picking up women one-on-one, but not all their advice is suited for
threesome pickup!** I don’t want to talk bad about fellow members of the PUA secret society,
BUT one thing you need to keep in mind is that most members are MALE, not FEMALE… this
is critical for you to know because it is WOMEN, not MEN, that make threesomes!!!
Please have a look at the picture below and tell me what’s wrong with it?
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Let me tell you what’s wrong: The girls are fighting for the guy!
Sorry to blow your dreams so early in this manual, but unless you are Robbie Williams or
Matthew McConaughey the probabilities of two bisexual women seducing you and fucking your
brains out are the same probabilities as George Bush admitting publicly that the war on Iraq was a
BIG mistake!!!
I consider myself a well-informed person on the subject of seduction and my hubby is also very
good at it, which is WHY I can say with 100% certainty that enjoying the pleasure of having sex
with multiple women at once is not difficult AS LONG AS YOUR FOCUS IS NOT IN
PLEASING THE MAN BUT PLEASING THE 2nd WOMAN! In this manual I’ll teach you
EXACTLY how to make threesomes happen as often as you want using the “Change of Focus”
strategy and how you can become an accomplished threesome Pickup Artist!
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The Game
Back to the Secret Society…A few years ago Neil Strauss published a book called:
The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists.
http://www.suzybauer.com/recommends/game/
Although The Game is subtitled "Penetrating the Society of Pickup Artists", Neil Strauss does far
more than infiltrate a subculture and report on its doings.
http://www.suzybauer.com/recommends/game/
He actually becomes a “PUA”, as Pickup Artists call each other online. In fact, he becomes one
of the most well-known and successful PUAs, moves in with other PUAs, and lectures “AFCs”
(average frustrated chumps) on how to pick up women.
Neil Strauss
http://neilstrauss.com/
In the seduction community, Strauss is known by the pseudonym "Style". Neil has been
proclaimed as "the Most Powerful of the Jedi" — in other words, “The Ultimate Pickup Artist”.
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I have not yet had the pleasure of meeting him personally, but we have corresponded by e-mail a
few times and I know one day we will indeed meet and, who knows?, possibly work on a project
together. Now, I’m telling you a lot about him because I would like him to help you understand as
much as possible about how one-on-one pickup works. Remember, one-on-one pickup and
threesome pickup are 2 different animals, BUT it will help A LOT if you are at least
knowledgeable about one-on-one pickup. If you are reading this manual as a couple, the
information that you are about to hear in the following videos will be very helpful both of you.
Try to learn as much as possible about it!
Video # 1
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo2.html
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Video # 2
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo3.html
Video # 3
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo4.html
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Video # 4
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo5.html
Part # 1
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo6.html
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Part # 2
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo7.html
Part # 3
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo8.html
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Part # 4
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo9.html
Part # 5
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo10.html
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Tiffany Taylor is another FEMALE seduction guru (and YES that’s also her pen name/seduction
name not her real name). On her site, guygetsgirl.com, she says the following (I encourage you
to hear it) the following: “Women tell me that I’ve “betrayed my own sex” because I’ve revealed
the way to into literally any women’s heart (and panties).”
Click on this link to visit her site http://www.suzybauer.com/recommends/guygetsgirl
I must say her manual is really good (and really amusing), and INDEED she reveals a lot of
insights that will make most women weak in their knees. It’s no wonder she has created a “female
mutiny”. In my case, I don’t do that AT ALL! Remember I told you that one- on-one pickup and
threesome pickup were a very different animal? YES, there are similarities! But, then again, there
are A LOT of differences! In this book I will not be teaching you how to coax a woman into
having a threesome. On the contrary, I will teach you how to make her open for any sexual
experience by simply using her own instincts as the ultimate sexual leverage. That’s why I don’t
feel bad about teaching men and women how to do this! My seduction method is a sort of Sexual
Aikido*.
In order for you to understand how to do this, first you need to understand the differences and
similarities between picking up one girl for regular one-on-one interaction and picking up one or
two girls for threesome sex. To start with…‘normal’ pickup activity will focus on either having a
one-night-stand with the "target" (desired girl) or, over time, developing a relationship with her.
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During a threesome pickup, however, your expectations are only to have sex with the
‘target’(s); rarely (if ever) would you like to build a lasting emotional relationship with her
(them) That's why picking up one woman for one-on-one sex is BY FAR more complicated than
picking up a woman for threesome sex! Believe it or not!!! In ‘normal’ pickup situations there are
only two variations: the guy picks up the girl, or the other way around. During a threesome
pickup, there's up to 6 variations:
Variation #1:
The couple seducing a woman or a guy!
Variation #2
A single woman seducing a couple:
Having a threesome has more to do with boldness than with anything else! In my experience,
bisexual women are the TRUE threesome PUA's, that's why learning from "yours truly"
represents a great advantage for you! Experienced bisexual women are skilled at doing this;
however. Take into consideration that they will first seduce the female and then will proceed to
bed both. Tip: If you’d like to get a bisexual woman to seduce you as a couple, the best thing you
can do is to use your cutie as bait! If you're open-minded enough, let them experiment on their
own and then they’ll invite you to join the fun!
Variation #3:
A single guy seducing a couple:
This variation happens less frequently because 9 out of 10 times, men are very respectful of
flirting with attached women! However, if the male in the couple presents an open invitation, the
single guy may take the lead!
Variation #4:
Two girls seducing a guy:
This threesome possibility is every guy's dream! Does it actually happen? I'm sure it does.
Do I know anyone that has enjoyed this heavenly rape? YES, my hubby was actually 'gang-
banged' by six girls! But sorry to break your heart, honey: no matter how attractive you are or
how good you are with women, this is the least likely threesome possibility :-(
UNLESS, of course, your wife/girlfriend arranges it for you! (As I did for my hubby, lol!)
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Variation #5:
Two guys seducing a woman:
This is an interesting (and easier than you think) possibility; in fact, this manual includes a few
videos\ where you can see how this is done!
Variation #6:
And, yes, the most challenging of them all:
One guy seducing two women!
While having a buddy as a “wing”, you honestly don’t care if he gets laid or not; the seduction
gets to a point that you will need to split or neither of you will get laid!
During a threesome seduction, however, your “wing” will remain by your side throughout the
experience and together you will work to make sure the threesome itself actually happens. This is
once again WHY it is easier to pick up a woman for threesome sex than to pick up a woman for
one-on-one sex. Ever heard the cliché “Two heads think better than one.”? YES, it’s possible
that a single guy can seduce two women, but it’s BY FAR more complicated. If you
really want to enjoy threesome sex as often as my husband and I do, then I have to tell
you again that BOTH of you have to be involved in the recruiting process.
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BONUS Tip for the first time couple: PLEASE drop the couple front as soon as possible!
There’s a world of difference between having each other’s implicit support and clinging together
like frightened nocturnal mammals! Relax, and open your relationship to outside influences, and
let each other shine as individuals. As tempting as it is to circle the wagons, try not to relate to
everyone and everything as a unit. You’ll spare yourself years of therapy.
WOW!
Who would have though…?
WOMEN PUA’s???
YES!
Another BIG difference between one-on-one seduction and threesome seduction is that, in most
cases, WOMEN are involved (except in MMF pickups)!
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My husband Karl is also a Player and a very accomplished seducer! Together we make a dynamic
duo. We’ve been together for years and the relationship we have with each other is fantastic. We
understand that the bond we have is unique and is NEVER threatened. And the fact that we can
be “partners in crime” during our seductions gives us a total sense of freedom and openness.
In this Ebook, I’ll be sharing with you some great threesome pickup strategies and the reasons
why they work. HOWEVER! I also need to warn you in advance that I am writing this Ebook
under the assumption that you’ve already taken the decision to let go of all your conservative
beliefs and you’re ready to become a “Player”. I’m aware though that becoming a player is easier
for a guy than it will EVER be for a female. But as a woman, it’s also possible to be a player if
you simply let go of the century-old beliefs about how women ‘need to behave’ sexually! I
receive at least 10 e-mails per week from guys asking me how to convince their wives to have a
threesome. I always tell them that I have an entire chapter devoted to that subject inside my Step
by Step Threesome manual. In this Ebook, you’re not going to find anything related to that
subject, as I’m writing under the assumption that you (and your partner) are already beyond that
level. In this Ebook, I’m going to write ALL my ideas under the assumption that BOTH of you
want to start having threesomes regularly — in other words, you’re both ready to become
“players”!
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• A Player is as comfortable being naked with one person with whom she has been
intimate for a long time as she is in a room full of strangers (provided that the
strangers aren’t gawking, lecherous perverts).
• A Player is not promiscuous; then again, a Player is not overly worried about
being with multiple partners. Most Players understand the difference between the
reality and the fiction of STD’s.
• A Player understands that dishonesty and deception are far more painful than
openness.
• A Player feels free to experience, free to explore, free to love, free from guilt,
free from jealousy and deception, and finally: free with others and free within
herself.
In my eyes, a Player has few inhibitions. I may go so far as to say that a Player has no inhibitions.
- Henry B. Stendahl
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Mystery
IOD Indicator of Disinterest
http://suzybauer.com/recommends/mystery
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Mystery
target The girl you are trying to seduce/close.
http://suzybauer.com/recommends/mystery
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Great! Now that you’re familiar with the PUA slang, let’s move on…
Every day I receive AT LEAST one e-mail from someone asking me: “Are you for real? Or is
your website another of those internet scams??? I don't believe that arranging a threesome can be
that easy???” Honestly, I don't even bother answering those e-mails anymore because I think that
people believe whatever they want to believe! As they say: “Whether you think you can or you
can’t, you’re absolutely right”.
I’m not going to try to convince you of anything. I’ll present to you the “hard facts” and then you
can believe whatever you want to believe. I know of hundreds of people who use these techniques
to enjoy threesome sex regularly and they work for them (and us) like a charm. The true key for
threesome seduction is BOLDNESS! And if you follow my advice and act bold in your approach,
I can guarantee you’ll enjoy threesome sex whenever you feel like it! Yes, I can hear you
screaming: “BOLDNESS!!! I am the shy type!!!” No problem… another of the great advantages
of seducing women as a couple is that you do not need to be the extrovert go-getter…
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In this chapter I’ll tell you EXACTLY WHY arranging threesomes is relatively easy. The
moment you understand these principles, arranging threesomes will be second nature to you and
your partner even if you’re not the natural extrovert.
BONUS Tip: In case you feel you need to work on your confidence, here’s a program that’ll help
you build confidence through hypnosis. It is a great resource that I recommend to all my
customers: http://suzybauer.com/recommends/hymnodate
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Because 7 has the greatest number of combinations (six), it is the number that has the potential to
come up most often, which is why 7 is the magic number in craps and in many other areas in life.
Having a threesome also has its own “odds”: If you ask a woman to have a threesome with you,
she can answer YES or NO! Right? The “odds” will supposedly be 50% — 50% that you will
fulfil your fantasy with any given woman…
HOWEVER… Although the very idea of having a threesome is both deviant enough to be exotic
and acceptable enough to be within the limits most people draw for themselves, STILL 85% of
ALL women will say NO to a threesome advance if you don’t know how to play the threesome
pickup game properly. If you do not know how to play the threesome pickup game, your odds
of getting a woman to agree to a threesome are not 50/50 (50% chance she’ll say YES / 50%
chance she’ll say NO)— they are in fact 85/15! (85% chance she’ll say NO / 15% chance she’ll
say YES). That’s even worse odds than shooting “2” in Craps!!! That’s exactly WHY I wrote this
Ebook on the first place! Again having a threesome can be much easier than seducing a woman
for a one-night-stand on a one-on-one scenario, the problem is you need to know exactly WHAT
to say and HOW to bring it up!
My goal in this Ebook is to assist you in improving your odds of getting women to say YES to
your threesome advances! My promise to you is that after you understand the simple principles
described inside this manual, your odds will go from 85/15 to 15/85! This means that women will
say YES 85% of the time instead of only 15% of the time whenever you have started a threesome
advance on them! It will be like betting for the “7” and not for the “2” in Craps! This way, you
will be enjoying threesome sex as frequently as you wish!
Don't tell me what it is yet.... let me use my intuitive powers and let me guess what number you
picked! You picked the number…drum roll…3! Right? WOW! How did I know? Simple: 85% of
the people will always select 3! Why? I don't know, that's just the way it is... (Yes, perhaps you’re
one of those oddballs that picked 2 instead of 3, but the fact remains that 85% of the people will
still pick 3). Why is this relevant? Simple; I want you to analyze the following:
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How many numbers are there between 1 and 4? NO there's NOT 4 numbers... there's only 2
numbers: 2 and 3. If I would have said: “Pick a number FROM 1 to 4” then YES the odds of me
guessing the answer would have been 25%. (YET, still over 65% of the people would still pick
3!). But the fact is, I said: “Pick a number BETWEEN 1 and 4”, not “Pick a number FROM 1
to 4”. Correct? In other words, I intentionally improved my odds of “guessing” the number you
picked, by simply phrasing the question differently. Do you follow?
The interesting thing with this approach is that most likely YOU didn’t realize what I was
doing… I went from a 25% chance of guessing to a 50% chance without you realizing it. Besides,
because I know that statistically most people will choose 3 instead of 2, I improved my chances
of guessing the number even further! So, what’s the point? The point is… that if you know how
to manoeuvre your threesome pickup, you can easily improve your odds to have a threesome
from 15% to 85% — that simple! Now, let me ask you a question: Would you play the lottery
more often if you knew FOR SURE that your chances of winning would be 85%?
I rest my case…
In a regular (one-on-one) seduction scenario, if a single woman is approached by a guy, she will
rapidly figure out he’s hitting on her, and it will be up to his seduction skills if he will get his
nooky with her or not! In a threesome pickup, however, the seduction doesn’t happen like that.
The mechanics are TOTALLY different. In many cases (not to say in most) the “target” (the girl
you want to seduce for a threesome), will be unsuspecting of your intentions until late in the
seduction. That’s why the seducing couple can “fly under her radar”, surprise her, and take
advantage of the “heat of the moment” to finalize their seduction.
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Anyhow, I’m showing you this picture because I want to illustrate a point: Please notice the
wedding date: 02/02/02! (February 2nd 2002). Nice date to marry your sweetheart despite the
inconvenience that February falls in the middle of the COLD European winter. The weather
forecast for that day was: "wet snow to fall over the city of Amsterdam”. (Trust me: in a country
where we see only about 40 days of sunshine a year, meteorologists are very accurate predicting
rain or snow!) The Dutch royal family was not going to “gamble” and risk the wedding day of the
crown prince to be ruined because of "wet snow"! Having the Royal Air force at their disposal,
they ordered the day before the wedding a few aircraft to spray a chemical that makes clouds
release their water and eventually make them disappear.
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To make a long story short, there was a lot of rain the day before the wedding but on the wedding
day itself… the sky was as blue as it could be! No clouds and incredible sunshine!
The odds of having “wet snow” that day were 90% YES, 10% NO. (YES, I’m aware ONLY the
Royal Family can pull these types of stunts. But that’s beside the point.) My point is: If you
know your outcome and you’ve got the tools… YOU can make your own luck and change
whatever odds immediately. Again, if you ask a woman to participate in a threesome with you
and your partner, the likely odds are between 75% and 85% that she will say: NO WAY, JOSE!,
and 15% to 25% that she might consider it under the right circumstances. This is the equivalent of
the “Pick a number FROM 1 to 4” example. The odds will be 25%! However if you ask the
same woman to have a threesome with you and your wife using the techniques you’ll learn in this
Ebook, your odds will increase up to 85% guaranteed!
Think of it: In the example above, by simply using the simple the word “BETWEEN” instead of
“FROM”. We increased the odds from 25% to 50%! If you know what to say to easily enroll any
woman into your fantasy, your “odds” will improve dramatically! PLUS, if you use the “Element
of Surprise”, your odds will improve again even more! Remember, 85% of the people always
choose 3, like I mentioned before. So, YES, in this Ebook I’ll teach you EXACTLY how to raise
your chances to have a threesome with ANY woman, from 15% to 85%.
Promising, isn’t it?
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10 Reasons Why…
Below are THE 10 reasons why I think 85% of people will always choose 3 instead of 2. In other
words; these are my 10 reasons why 85% of women WILL participate in a threesome with
you and your wife if the threesome is proposed in the proper way. I’ll give you my 10 reasons
the same way David Letterman introduces his “10 Reasons” section on his show, starting from
reason 10 all the way to reason 1!
Primitive Times:
While both sexes are striving for the same goal, they employ entirely different strategies. Therein
lies the clue. Let’s look at how it was in primitive times... The male strategy was to attempt to
inseminate every female in sight. His physical investment was small: a little bit of sperm, a
precious few minutes in the act itself, and off went the man to his new pursuit of the next
available female. The male indiscriminately and promiscuously mated and procreated hundreds of
infants without any biological punishment. However, the female strategy was a lot different.
Because the physical burden and the dangers of pregnancy and birth, the few infants a female
reproduces in her lifetime came at a risk to her own survival. She couldn’t afford indiscriminate
mating with everyone who would have her. A female had to minimize her pregnancies by being
selective. As you can see, our genetic codes already restrict us from being the same sexually.
Luckily, things have changed dramatically since the arrival of birth control, but those ancient
survival instincts still creep around deep within the human psyche, influencing the way men and
woman interact.
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Modern Times:
In the modern world, when a man meets a desirable woman, he still feels this ancient biological
need to spread his genes into future generations. His genetic code instructs him that he needs a
female in order for him to establish their genetic perpetuity; therefore, a man accepts to commit to
her so she can provide for the off-spring from his genes. For a woman, things are a bit different.
Regardless of with whom she mates, all her pregnancies ensure her genes will survive into the
future. If given the choice, men will choose exclusivity rather than permanency, because they
genetically know that if the woman doesn’t stay with him his genes will not survive into the
future! The woman on, the other hand, is aware that she’ll require a lot of help to raise the child,
so if given the choice, women will choose permanency rather than exclusivity. What does this
mean? Simple: our genetic code is set in such a way that we women will gladly share our man
as long as we feel secure he'll be there afterwards!
Often, liberated women are defined by their status: how far up the ladder they have climbed; how
much money they make; how much power they have — assuming that the higher you climb, the
more you make and the more power you have, the freer you are. I can certainly understand the
desire and passion for freedom and liberation that women feel. Everybody wants to be free. And
throughout world history we've seen incredible struggles for freedom from slavery, freedom from
aggression, freedom from abuse, freedom from discrimination, freedom from tyranny. All of
those struggles are understandable and legitimate.
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More and more women in the Western world are breaking up with the past and taking "their idea
of freedom" to new levels. Recently, my hubby was reading Forbes magazine and he cut this
article for me:
http://www.forbes.com/
Sexual Equality May Bring Better Sex 04.19.06, 12:00 AM ET WEDNESDAY, April 19 (Health
Day News) -- Equality between men and women may boost sex lives, U.S. researchers report. A
team at the University of Chicago surveyed about 27,500 people, ages 40 to 80, in 29 countries.
http://www.forbes.com/forbeslife/health/feeds/hscout/2006/04/19/hscout532203.html
The study found that couples who live in Western countries and who have gender equality
were most likely to report being satisfied with their sex lives. In contrast, people in countries
where men have a dominant status over women -- such as East Asia and the Middle East –
reported less satisfaction with the physical and emotional quality of their sex lives.
Sexual satisfaction was highest in four countries -- Austria, the United States, Spain, and Canada
-- and lowest in Japan and Taiwan. Countries such as Turkey, Egypt and Algeria ranked in the
middle. The findings from the "Global Study of Sexual Attitudes and Behaviours" appear in the
April issue of the journal Archives of Sexual Behaviour.
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"Male-cantered cultures where sexual behaviour is more oriented toward procreation tend to
discount the importance of sexual pleasure for women," lead author Edward Laumann, the
George Herbert Meade Distinguished Service Professor in Sociology at the University of
Chicago, said in a prepared statement. But in relationships based on equality, couples are
more likely to have sexual habits that meet both partners' needs, he noted. The study findings
include:
In Western nations, two-thirds of men and women reported satisfaction with their sexual
relationships and 80 percent said they were satisfied with their ability to have sex. About half of
men and one third of women said sex was extremely or very important in their lives. In East
Asian countries, about one quarter of men and women said they were satisfied with their sex
lives, while two-thirds of the men and half of the women reported satisfaction with their ability to
have sex. Twenty-eight percent of men and 12 percent of women said sex was important to them.
In the Middle East, 50 percent of men and 38 percent of women said they had satisfying sex lives
and about 70 percent said they were satisfied with their ability to have sex. Sixty percent of men
and 37 percent of women said sex was important to them.
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo11.html
During a recent interview, Hugh Heffner credited the magazine he started in college with freeing
women from the moral and obedient image which has restricted them for generations. In his
opinion, Playboy has done a lot of good for women.
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Heffner said: "Twenty years ago, Playboy was perceived as a chauvinist publication. Today the
rabbit symbol has been embraced by women as a form of their own sexual empowerment.
That has been one of the great blessings for me, because I have always felt that the sexual
revolution was not just for guys." "The major beneficiaries were women, because historically it
was women who had to live this unreal life in which they were expected to be the keepers of the
moral traditions." “The guy could pretty much do what he wanted to do, and women couldn't.
And it came with the whole notion of good girls and bad girls and original sin. That entire
religious heritage is very hurtful. So I think sexual liberation goes hand in hand with female
emancipation".
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Mind you... the Female Chauvinist Pig is not a lesbian. But she couldn't have existed before
lesbian chic magically reconfigured the Western world conception of lesbian from the "butch
dyke" with crew cut to Sharon Stone with ice pick, and made it okay — Sexy!
Racy! — For women to ogle strippers or porn stars or Carmen Electra on the cover of Maxim.
The Female Chauvinist Pig doesn't want men to disappear — far from it. She wants to sleep with
them and, more, importantly be like them!
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Here's another site you might enjoy. Drunk Club Cuties click below
http://www.drunkclubcuties.com/index_n_01.html
I have a bit of a German/ Dutch accent instead of a Spanish accent, but I want you to imagine me
whispering in your ear: "Open Your Eyes”, “Open Your Eyes"... We're living in a very interesting
world... A world where women are flocking to get breast implants, a world where girls don't want
to be ‘cute’ — they want to be ‘hot’ (and we both know ‘hot’ means "fuckable"), a world
where ‘hot’ has replaced beautiful as the ultimate compliment!. And where 35+ women are
enrolling in cardio-striptease classes, learning how to provocatively pole dance, and playfully
allowing their pre-teen daughters to wear thongs and T-shirts emblazoned with the Playboy
bunny. A world where it is not strange anymore to go to a club and see girls spend as much time
(if not more) dancing provocatively with each other as they do with men.
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A world where it's not strange that clubs hold "sexy positions" contests, in which co-eds fuelled
by liquor participate on am display of girl-on-girl simulated sex. A world where girls make
out with each other in front of a group of boys after having been “dared”. A world where
university students on spring break and at other party-hearty locations shout "whoo!" as they
riotously flash their tits and ass and even their pussy to improve their chances of appearing on the
" Girls Gone Wild videos. (Click the link below to see Girls Gone Wild)
http://www.suzybauer.com/recommends/girlsgonewild
We are living in a world where ‘Reality TV’, Howard Stern, and Justin Timberlake singing
"I'll have you naked by the end of the song" are part of the day to day culture.
(Click the link below to see the lyrics of the song)
http://www.completealbumlyrics.com/lyric/75257/Justin Timberlake - Rock Your Body.html
SEX is everywhere! No matter where you look: The Internet, Television, Magazines, Advertising.
Even Olympic athletes, with their gorgeously powerful bodies, have to be "hot", posing in
Playboy with their rears pointed provocatively at the camera. Even top-ranked female tennis stars
have to be "hot", showing up for play with a hint of cleavage and a skin-tight ensemble.
Allposters.com
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www.wallpaper-library.com
Again: "Open Your Eyes…
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http://www.stuff.co.nz
Allposters.com
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Recently I was having a conversation with the 18-year-old daughter of a friend of ours. She was
telling me: "I really don't get why my mum is so afraid of allowing my boyfriend to spend the
night??? What’s really funny to me though is that she happily allows me to stay over with my
female friends. She has no idea I love to experiment with girls, too…”
On August 2nd 2004, Jane Ridley, a known journalist working for a UK-based newspaper, wrote
an article called "The BI Generation" where she expresses that nearly a third of Britain's female
revelers consider themselves bisexual and almost half have had some sort of sexual experience
with another woman, ranging from kissing to fondling and full sex. You might be wondering:
Why are women suddenly interested in sexual exploration with other women? In reality, this
natural curiosity by heterosexually-identified women isn't new... What's new is the increase in
public awareness and public acceptance of female bisexuality that have begun to transform the
way in which society determines what is acceptable in regards to sex. Just look around! We are
bombarded by images of women kissing, holding hands, and luxuriating in other intimate
encounters in magazines, movies, and advertising. Elle, Marie Claire and Cosmopolitan recently
have featured articles referring to female bisexuality!
Q: What do Angelina Jolie, Drew Barrymore, Madonna, & Denise Richards have in common
(besides the fact that they are all celebrities)?
A: They’re all Bisexual Straight Women
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You'll agree, this term sounds contradictory right? Not really. A Bisexual Straight Woman is a
woman who frequently makes direct or thinly-veiled comments about being attracted to women,
occasionally kisses or sleeps with women, but rarely or never actually dates women. She
considers herself as primarily heterosexual, and though she is attracted to women, it's purely on a
sexual level; she has no interest in a romantic relationship with another woman beyond sex.
Click the link. http://www.clublez.com/movies/celebrity_images/celebrity_images.htm
What does this mean to you? For women, it means a whole new world on sexual possibilities has
opened for them. As Woody Allen says, “Being bisexual doubles your chances for a date on a
Friday night.”
Reason 3: Curiosity
Women are curious, period! After years of being bisexual myself, I know as A MATTER
OF FACT that most women, if given the opportunity, will gladly experiment sexually with
another woman. A woman will gladly caress and kiss another woman a lot faster than a guy will
caress and kiss another guy. For us women the bisexual threshold is BY FAR thinner than for
men, so if you know when and where to play the “curiosity card”, you will be very effective
seducing women for threesome sex. Please have a look at an advertising I recently found on
craigslist.org:
I’m a 34 year old, professional, independent woman, looking to experience a first time bi curious
encounter. Must have an instant connection...not looking to play games. I’m attractive,
take pride in my appearance and health, non smoker, will trade pictures at discretion. No
single men, please, not interested. I’m attracted to pretty, girly girl types with a good
head on their shoulders. Willing to consider couples, if the connection is right.
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But the fact that you can find more and more of these advertisings in websites as mainstream as
www.craigslist.org tells me that there is a HUGE interest for many women to experiment
sexually. More and more women are feeling confident that their willingness to contemplate, and
possibly explore, their sexual feelings will only add to their future well-being and peace of mind.
They’re becoming aware that safe sexual "experimentation" provides a wonderful opportunity to
learn about themselves, their likes and dislikes, passions, and goals. It’s not strange anymore that
the first sexual experience of a teenage girl might be with one of her female friends at age 15 or
16. If she likes it, she will continue to enjoy it. If she doesn’t, she won’t. The point is,
CURIOSITY is an undeniable fact of life and is a strong element inside the tissue of the human
psyche.
Look at one book that is quite popular these days and that YOU
MUST READ! Click the link below to find out more about this book!
http://suzybauer.com/recommends/chicks
I love the Jen Sincero's remark: "You can't swing a dead cat at a bridal shower without hitting a
straight chick who's slept with another woman, who's thought about it, or who's ready to make the
move as soon as someone breaks out the booze."
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When human beings get horny, they get an “uncontrollable urge” to have sex! This is actually the
base of the “conservation of the species” and it is very strongly embedded inside a part of our
brain that is called the “reptilian brain”, as I explained previously!
This uncontrollable urge takes over your senses and you will not be able to abstain yourself from
having sex! When you reach that point of “horniness”, NO “logical” thought will allow you to
stop from having sex. (Later you’ll learn how to drive any men or any woman to that point of
“horniness”, without them realizing that you’re bringing them there!)
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Most people fail in having threesomes BECAUSE they try to appeal LOGICALLY to women.
Trust me that will NEVER work! Hardly any woman will accept that proposal: it’s too risky for
her. HOWEVER…MOST women WILL “let go of their inhibitions” the moment that they feel
comfortable and at ease!
When you as a couple start a threesome pickup, your “target” will have her barriers down, as the
last thing going through her mind at that particular moment is that you are hitting on her!!! With
the two of you, she will be more open to discuss topics she wouldn’t normally discuss as openly
in a one-on-one situation. During a regular date, she’s aware that talking about certain topics
might be compromising for her, so she’ll be more careful and reserved. However, if the two of
you are there. She will feel more open to discuss her sexuality and her fantasies. That’s why when
you use the techniques in this Ebook, you’ll be able to positively surprise your ”target” and make
her eager to enjoy threesome sex with you!
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Chapter 3
-Margaret Thatcher
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M = Meet
I = Isolate
S = Seduce
S = Support
These 4 steps are exactly the steps you need to follow to score a threesome with ALMOST any
woman. Let me explain to you what happens EXACTLY in each and every one of these steps, so
you’ll be able to be successful replicate my pickup formula…
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The goal in the MEETING phase of a threesome pickup is to find a suitable candidate to have
a threesome with. This person is going to become your “target”.
REMEMBER: When looking for a “target”, your focus MUST be having a threesome, NOT
a establishing a relationship!
Contrary to one-on-one pickups, for threesome pickups you’ll not focus too much on personality.
In my experience looks and chemistry come first and personality, second. Sure, if the girl has a
nice personality, that’s a bonus, but I’ll bet you that most people prefer to have a threesome with
Jessica Simpson than with Bette Middler. (Although I find Bette Middler so charismatic, that I’ll
happily have a 3-way with her or even a one-on-one anytime! But you get my point, right?) I
already told you about the "Female Chauvinist Pig”. Now it’s time for me to tell you about the
"Male Chauvinist Pig"… I know that when men see women for the first time, the first thing that
crosses their mind is: I'll fuck her. (or) I wouldn’t fuck her! (I’m convinced that any straight
guy who denies this fact is lying…yet that’s only my belief. What do you think?) I agree that this
is really shallow, but let's face it...that's just the way most men think! Of course, they will never
admit it, but whether it is consciously or subconsciously true, that’s the first thing that will cross
most guys’ minds, period!
Allposters.com
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PUA’s have taken this concept a step further… they have a little bit more elaborate
ranking system, not only: I'll fuck her. (or) I wouldn’t fuck her! They use a scale from
1 to 10. 1 being really ugly and 10 being super hot!
For example:
I would not fuck her: 0 to 4.9
I'll fuck her: 5 to 8
I'll fuck her right here right now!: Anything above 8
Note 1: Because I consider Mrs Albricht so ugly and so hideous I did not want her picture inside
this ebook. BUT if you want to see her despite my warnings you can click the link below
http://www.tonyrogers.com/humor/images/madeleine_albright_1.jpg
(Please click the link at your own risk)
And my 11s would be: (Click on the pictures to watch really nice videos of these HB's)
1) Angelina Jolie
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo1
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2) Melissa Theuriau
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo13.html
3) Evangeline Lilly
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo12.html
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4) Charlize Theron
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo18.html
5) Aishiwira Rai
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo16.html
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6) Eva Pigford
http://www.threesomepickupartist.com/tpuavideo14.html
Note 2: Showing you these videos is irrelevant to the content of this ebook, but as pick up artists
do (discuss babes), I wanted to share my view on who I consider SHB's (Super Hot Babes).
How about you... who's your 0 and who's your 11? I hope looking at these gorgeous women did
not distract you too much though :-)
I consider myself an 8!
And I have had sex with women ranging from 5 to 10! (Everybody
would like to have a threesome with a 10, but honestly, you'll be better
off concentrating for starters on a 5, 6 or 7, even if you consider
yourself a 9 or a 10!) As your confidence progresses, you'll be able to
seduce 8's, 9's, and of course 10's!
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A question I get regularly is: Do I need to be a 10 (male or female) to pick up women for
threesome sex? My answer is: ABSOLUTELY NOT! Your success or failure will be determined
by your charm, boldness AND strategy — NOT by your looks! I've seen couples where he
looks like an overfed bulldog and she looks like the "Butch dyke" version of Rosanne, picking up
7's, 8’s, and even 9's! Sure, looks help… but charm, boldness and humour will always beat
looks! Again, to answer your question: Do you need to be a 10 to have a threesome? My answer
is simple: NO!
That simple! After you’ve spotted your target, what you need to do is make contact with her.
Here’s where most people mess up…Trust me, when you’re doing a threesome pickup,
approaching women is BY FAR easier than on a one-to-one pickup, and you’re about to find out
why…
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The wingman can also be a more skilled seducer, a man from whom you can learn a great deal by
“flying” at his side. Your wingman is an invaluable assistant in recruiting candidates for both
one-on-one sex and threesome sex. Whenever we are “sarging” for threesome candidates,
sometimes I play the role of “wing woman” for Karl and sometimes he plays the role of
“wingman” for me.
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For threesome pickups, attraction on her side is not the main issue, simply because in most pickup
situations the target will be at meeting time unaware that she’s been “hit on”; that’s why it’s
easier to strike a conversation with her. This is CRITICAL to keep in mind because as she does
not feel she’s been hit on, she WILL NOT — and mind my words — WILL NOT reject you!!!
99% of the time she will be open to talk to both of you!!! What are the odds of that happening on
a one-on-one pickup?
Threesome pickups are very similar... remember, in the eyes of your target, YOU’RE NOT
hitting on her, unlike one-on-one pickups: it is very unlikely she will reject you because you’re
simply asking a question or making a comment!!! That’s why for threesome pickups, pickup lines
are absolutely useless. What you need to do is use what I call the “Jodie Foster Approach”.
Before you approach her, simply “tune in” for a few seconds, find out where she is mentally at
that particular moment, and then ask her a question… Let me set a simple scenario for you:
Imagine that you suddenly spot a cute babe that rates 7 or 8 on your “fuckable scale”. Suddenly
she becomes your target and both of you decide to make a move on her. Before “doing your
move” on her, what you do is get comfortably close to her and “tune in” into whatever she is
doing.
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For example, you’re in the mall and you see that she is trying a pair of sunglasses… your next
move is to either ask a question or to make a comment… You can say: “Those look good on you,
but I think this other one would look even better.”…then hand them to her. These are very
innocent comments that can very easily break the ice, and you can make up casual conversation
very easily by simply making HER the focus of your attention. Another approach will be to ask
her opinion if something looks good on you or your wife/husband/boyfriend/significant other.
When women feel unthreatened, they are VERY OPEN. That’s why it will be highly unlikely
they will reject your approach and WILL gladly have a conversation with you!!! I will be giving
you more approach examples throughout this manual, but if you would like to further build
confidence in approaching woman, I will highly recommend a book called: The Art of
Approaching by PUA Thunder cat.
(Click the link below to see the Art of Approaching)
http://suzybauer.com/recommends/aoa
After you made the initial approach, your next step will be to build rapport with her.
Rapport Building
Rapport: Relation of trust between people. A feeling of sympathetic understanding [syn:
compatibility]. In accord, harmony. Having a mutual, especially a private, understanding.
What is Rapport?
Rapport is the presence of agreement or alignment. This can exist intra-personally or
interpersonally, and can easily lead to impressive outcomes. To make it easy to understand,
rapport is like dancing. If you are dancing Salsa and she is dancing Waltz, you will be out of
rapport. On the other hand, if both of you dance either Salsa or Waltz, you WILL be in rapport.
Rapport is simply being on the same wave length as the other person. Some years ago the BBC
(British Broadcasting Company) made a documentary on this topic.
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What they did was place some hidden cameras inside a singles bar in order to study the “mating
rituals” of human beings. What they found out was quite interesting; they saw that whenever
there was an affinity between two people, they will both stand or sit in the same position, they
will have a sip of their drink at similar times, they will both smile at similar times, etc. In other
words, they will be in rapport. However, when there was no affinity with the other person, they
will not do similar things whatsoever. Again, this will simply mean that they were out of rapport.
None of us is born with powerful rapport building skills: these are learned, and you can master
them easily. Karl and I learn our rapport building skills from Anthony Robbins. We’ve had the
good fortune of seeing him perform onstage rapport building demonstrations on many occasions.
(Find out more about Tony’s LIVE events at http://www.tonyrobbins.com/)
Coming back to the ranked 8 babe we met in the shopping mall who was trying on sunglasses...
we’ve now “tuned in” and tried to find out where she was mentally at that particular moment.
Then we decided to approach her with a question or comment… NOW comes a bit of a harder
step: Keep the conversation flowing!
Mirroring
The first and most simple rapport building technique is called Mirroring. Remember the dancing
example I mentioned before? People like people who are like themselves. So, the first thing to do
to establish immediate rapport is to “mirror” her.
Master rapport builders understand this simple principle. When you “mirror” subtly whatever the
other person is doing, her subconscious mind will perceive that YOU are on the same wave
length as she and she will be more open to whatever you have to say. What you’re trying to build
is “chemistry” — in other words, that she feels that you’re “NICE” and is worth having a
conversation with you. Mind you; mirroring is not “copying” or “imitating” or, worse,
“mimicking”. Coming back to the single’s bar example: When she smiled, he smiled; when she
sipped her drink, he sipped also, etc. Remember? That’s exactly what mirroring is.
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This technique is called mirroring because basically what you are doing is getting your body in a
similar way as her body: smiling when she smiles, frowning when she frowns, etc. She needs to
see herself mirrored in you. This will tell her subconscious mind that both of you are on the same
frequency.
Pacing
Pacing is a critical practice to build rapport with a person. Pacing is a practice humans have
engaged in for many thousands of years subconsciously and was developed to an art form by a
famous medical hypnotist, Milton Erickson.
Milton Erickson
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milton_H._Erickson
Defined by author Jerry Richardson, pacing means: “Meeting the other person where he or she is,
reflecting what he or she knows or assumes to be true, or matching some part of his or her
ongoing experience.”
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Did you know that nonverbal communication is 70% to 80% of all communication?
There is a very interesting film with Woody Allen called Zellig where he plays a human
chameleon. In this film, he literally transforms to whomever he is with.
http://suzybauer.com/recommends/zellig
I am aware this film portrays a phenomenon that is completely unrelated to rapport building, but
still I think it is a good way to remember that in order for you to build instant rapport, you can
transform momentarily into the other person so her subconscious mind will instantly perceive that
there’s mutual affinity.
Calibration
Building instant rapport, as everything in life, requires practice. That’s why you need to calibrate
as much as possible how good you are doing… Calibration is continuously checking in with what
you are doing and saying, and who you are being, and asking yourself, "How's it going?", "What
is working and what needs to change?” Sometimes you'll feel rapport slipping away, regardless of
what you’re doing. At times like this, STOP whatever it is you’re doing and try something else.
Ask checking questions to determine where you are with this person, so you can get the
information you need to recalibrate.
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Using still the example of the babe with the sunglasses, we’ve been doing great helping her with
the sunglasses. Instant rapport is there, but we still need to build deeper rapport with her before
we can proceed to the next step in the pickup process… Suddenly we start noticing that we are
loosing rapport… she seems to be slipping away, so we quickly change our approach and ask
then: “What do you think of these glasses? Do they look o.k. on my wife/myself?” and then you
pick it up from there. The idea is to always keep on building further rapport with her. That’s why
Calibration is important Karl, my hubby, is a master rapport builder; he approaches girls and they
end up telling him their life stories and fall in love with him instantly.
I’ve watched him approach girls and within minutes they’ll open up completely to him. I’ve
learned most about rapport building from him because he’s truly a natural. He could really feel
people out and even get clues about their personality and background just from looking at them.
His skills are truly amazing! According to him, the biggest secret to becoming a master in the art
of building rapport is simply to pay attention! I agree with him 100%. People give you so many
non-verbal clues, that you’re doing yourself a disservice by ignoring them.
In other words, pace this person. Put yourself in their skin and try to understand where they are
coming from. Develop your intuition! Besides rapport building, another critical skill you need to
build is conversation skills.
Every once in a while I get e-mails from people telling me: “Suzy, your advice is great, but I am
not the ’outgoing type’; I’m the ’shy type’. What can I do to approach people without feeling
shy?” In my eyes, people are shy when they do not know exactly what to say or how to say it. As
you can imagine, I am not the “shy type”, so for me answering this question might be a bit
awkward. I’m aware there’s plenty of material out there on how to be a conversationalist.
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NEXT
Brian Tracy the world famous sales trainer/speaker, mentions that whenever a customer does not
want to buy from you, your job is to say “ NEXT !” and move on to the following prospect
instead of getting all frustrated because this customer was unwilling to buy. The same thing
applies to threesome pickups… (Click the link below to find more about Brian Tracy)
http://www.kqzyfj.com/click-2089416-10416552
There will always be by far more threesome candidates than time. If you find an attractive babe
who fits your “fuckable criteria”, she will then become your NEXT target. Remember, for
threesome pickups all you want is for the three of you to enjoy delicious threesome sex. Your
idea is not to build a relationship, so lighten up! Threesomes or moresomes are a party, and that’s
the way they should be approached. Don’t take it personally if people are not interested!
“NEXT!” should be in your mind in case this happens. After “tuning in”, you’ll decide to
approach her and build instant rapport with her. If there’s good rapport and you can keep the
conversation flowing naturally, the following step will be to “isolate” her (that will be our next
subject). But in case things don’t seem to go as planned…
It’s o.k.! Move on and just say “NEXT!”
Inside my Step by Step Threesome manual and in my “Where to Find Women for a Threesome”
report, I suggest several places where to meet “Female Chauvinist Pigs”. But to tell you the truth,
the moment you become a real Threesome P.U.A., you will not need to go to those places to pick
up women for threesome sex.
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Below is a list of places where you can meet beautiful unsuspecting but curious women for
outstanding erotic adventures!
Cultural events:
Events from the Spanish, Brazilian, German, Irish, Dutch communities, etc. Here, show that you
know a little about the community, and the country or their customs. They welcome foreigners,
and they want to show you their food and customs. Take advantage of it. These events are great
ways to meet women who just arrived to your country/city and are eager to make friends!
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Seminars:
Go early so you can walk around the presentation table outside the seminar room and have a
chance to talk to any girls. Keep your eyes open and remember the women you see. Stay late
asking questions, and at the end, if the location is a hotel, walk to the bar, and see if you
remember any faces from the seminar. Most of the time Karl and I go to a seminar, we always
end up with a girl in our room!
Museums:
Again, "keep your eyes open", and remember the women you see, since probably you’ll meet
them several times later in the other parts of the building.
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Works best if you have a kid too. Here you’ll find some divorced or single women who possibly
haven’t had sex in months or even years! Karl and I have a soft spot for single mums or, as Karl
calls them, "Milfies" (after M.I.L.F: Mum I Like to Fuck)
Laundromats:
Even if you have to drive half an hour with your dirty laundry, try these places: they are full of
great pickup opportunities. Women are bored to death waiting for their laundry and they will
appreciate a casual chitchat. Find a place close to the college campus. These places are full of
young girls with lots of spare time!
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College:
An abundance of women everywhere you look. Visit the cafeteria, coffee shops, vending areas or
any of the shops in the area. Borrow a book and walk around the library asking questions with a
smile and don't forget to check for lectures offered in campus. Remember to visit: coffee shops,
libraries, theatres, fast food places, bars, and businesses around college areas.
Beaches, pools:
This is one of my least favourite places to pick up girls. In my eyes, there's too much competition
and lots of girls are like me: we go to the beach to relax and we’re not really in the mood for
"being chatted up".
Supermarkets:
Same thing as in the mall. Always ask questions. I find it better to go at night. No housewives
with crying kids, and less hectic. Besides that’s the time where “singles” do their grocery
shopping! There are literally 100's of places to meet women for a threesome. Another option of
course, is clubs and bars. Since it's so obvious, I didn't include it in the list. Other places to
check: Poetry clubs, wine tasting events, carnivals, fairs, comedy clubs, movie rental places (take
plenty of time to browse), plays, etc. If you think about it, the possibilities are endless! I hope
my insights in the M (Meet) step of the M.I.S.S strategy are clear for you. Now it is time to
move further to the following step, I (Isolate). After you’ve spotted a candidate, made her your
target, approached her, and built initial rapport with her, the next step will be to isolate her.
-Lisa Kirk
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Keep in mind the following; you’ve now got certain rapport with her, she thinks you guys are
nice, and if all goes well, she will not object to further the conversation and getting to know you
better. Again, isolating a target is easier when you are doing a pickup as a couple than on one-to-
one. WHY? Because she still does not suspect your intentions, so she will easily agree to further
the conversation elsewhere.
The goal in the ISOLATION phase of a threesome pickup is to move your candidate from the
location of pickup to a location where you could build further rapport or, even better, to a location
where you can be intimate! Before I continue explaining about the I in my M.I.S.S Model, I want
to tell you that a MUST (and when I say MUST, I really mean it!) get your hands on a book
called The Venusian’s Arts Handbook !
(Click the link below to see Venusian’s Arts Handbook)
This Handbook was written by Erik von Markovik , this guy is known in the PUA’s secret
societies as " Mystery ".(Click the link below to see Mystery)
http://suzybauer.com/recommends/mystery
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According to most pickup artists, he’s the UR Guru (Guru of Guru’s), an absolute pickup legend.
I’ve never had the pleasure to meet him, but indeed his material is brilliant!
When my hubby read his Venusian’s Arts Handbook , he suddenly realized that we did
instinctively what professional PUA’s do too! Because threesome pickup and one-on-one pickup
are different, I will not build more on the Mystery Method itself; however, if you want to have a
better foundation on how to pick up women, please make sure to get the Venusian’s Arts
Handbook. (Click below to see Venusian’s Arts Handbook)
http://suzybauer.com/recommends/mystery
Meeting Place:
I have already explained enough about this in the previous section. The meeting place is basically
the place where you meet your target, and it can be anywhere. In this place your goal should be to
Build Rapport and work out a way to take the target to a new location where you can establish
deeper rapport and trust.
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Sex Place
This is the place where you are going to seduce her and enjoy delicious threesome sex. This place
can be your hotel room, your apartment, or wherever you live. I recommend that before going
sarging, you get this place arranged and ready in advance. Keep in mind that this is where the
action is going to take place, so be prepared. Always have available extra towels, a few erotic
prompts such as massage oil, Tantra books, palmistry books, sex toys, and even a few sets of sexy
lingerie — whatever you think will help you during the seduction. I will elaborate a bit more on
this a bit later, but for now what’s important is that you put into perspective what will happen
throughout the pickup, so let me recap all what we have learned and put it all into perspective for
you. While you read, try to recognize each and every single step that I’ve shared with you along
the way…
I quickly answered: “No thanks, I’m just looking” and she said: “O.k. Just let me know if you
need something.” Then she turned around and left. She was definitely threesome material!
After a few minutes, I went back to her and asked if she could give me a hand with a couple of
items… she happily agreed and we started talking. Because the shop was quite busy, she seemed
a bit stressed. That was for me the “perfect excuse” to build rapport… “You seem a bit stressed”,
I said, and she replied in a bit of a fed-up tone: “Yes, today has been very hectic!” “Tell you
what… let me rub your wrists with a bit of my Ayurvedic relaxation oil.” I said. “It works like a
charm for me whenever I’m stressed.”
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I opened my handbag and produced a small bottle of Chamomile aromatherapy oil. I poured a
few drops on each of her hands and rubbed it on her wrists and palms. Then, I put my hands close
to her face and said: “Smell!” She took a deep breath, closed her eyes and said: “Mmm… that’s
really nice. Thanks!” “Anytime”, I answered. “With these drops, you’ll soon feel less stressed!”
“WOW! Great. That’s really kind of you.” I smiled. “I’d love to learn more about aromatherapy, I
think it’s very interesting.” she said. “Well, if you want, we can have tea later and I’ll gladly tell
you more about it.” I replied. “At what time are you off?” I asked. “I’ll be off in one hour” she
answered. “Perfect. Go back to work now and I’ll see you here in one hour. I’ll find out where my
husband is and you can join us for a cup of tea.”
One hour later, Karl and I picked her up and she joined us for a cup of tea. We had a really nice
chat about all sorts of things and, of course, about aromatherapy and massages. We agreed to
meet again a few days later, and I promised her to teach her more about Ayurveda and other
relaxation methods. Three days after, I picked her up from the mall. We came home and Karl and
I seduced her, and we had a delicious threesome! Now, let’s analyze together the “flow” of
events:
I met Bianca inside my favourite store. At this point you’ll need to find the “perfect excuse” to
approach her. In this case she approached me and asked if she may be of help. I used the”
relaxation oil” as my “perfect excuse” to interact with her and very rapidly get her to allow me to
touch her. A very important thing to remember is: Never hit on your ‘target’ at the meeting
place! This will automatically reduce your odds to having a threesome with her. Under no
circumstances should she suspect what your intentions are at this point!!!
In the example above I did the “recruiting” myself. For an FFM (Female, Female, Male)
threesome, women will ALWAYS be better. In fact, in several of the videos you’ll see later on,
the initial “recruiting” is done by the woman.
BONUS Tip: If you recruit a woman for your threesome sexcapades on your own and bring this
woman home for you and your hubby to enjoy, your guy will be eternally thankful! This is a great
way to get your guy to do whatever you want for you afterwards.
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Karl and I picked Bianca up one hour later and we went to a very cozy café in the same shopping
street. This was a critical move. Very seldom you can build trust on the first location! There are
too many distractions… you want to move your candidate as quickly as possible to a place where
she can focus on the two of you, but that is not threatening for her.
It’s possible to go from the ‘meeting location’ to the ‘sex location’; however, there’s a bigger
possibility she’ll take a “rain check” and pass. That’s why I always suggest a “neutral” place for
your 2nd move unless you’re really experienced in picking up women! Remember: How do you
eat an elephant? One bite at a time!
The moment she feels comfortable with you guys, the natural step is to "hang out", and so it
absolutely won’t be a problem for her to come back to your place with you!
Again…NEVER, EVER start your seduction on the first or second location! If you do this I can
almost guarantee you that your threesome will NEVER take place. She MUST not suspect your
intentions before hand because she’ll get scared and automatically back-off!
Your goal in the ISOLATE step is first to move her from the place you’ve met to a place where
she can focus on the two of you. Then and only then will you move to the place you’re going to
have sex. It’s only there where you’ll start your seduction — NOT BEFORE!
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Time Frame
The fastest Karl and I have ever had a threesome from the moment we met her to the moment we
were all undressing was 30 minutes! Now, this is the exception, not the rule. This can very easily
be accomplished in one day (about three to four hours) or it can take a few days. The average
time is about seven to ten hours of interaction. This can be on the same day or it can be split into
various days, of course. Great! So far we have covered the M and the I on the M.I.S.S acronym.
Our next step will be the first S — Seduce!
The goal in the seduction phase of a threesome pickup is to encourage your candidate to
cross her sexual threshold. If you understand this concept, you’ll be extremely effective getting
women to do things you never thought they would do!
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In the next few pages, you'll learn a secret that will open the doors to hundreds of erotic
opportunities. A secret that is a common thread in every single publication that has to do
with sexual seduction, from Casanova to David DeAngelo .
Sexual Syllogisms
Allow me to sidetrack a bit with a bit of theory to explain this concept better... Have you ever
heard of Aristotle and Socrates, the great Greek thinkers & philosophers? I'm sure you have...
Well, let me tell you how these two geniuses used logic to come up with their profound concepts.
They used syllogisms to come up with their brilliant conclusions.
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Each of the premises has one term in common with the conclusion: in the case of the major
premise, this is the major term, or predicate of the conclusion; in the case of the minor premise it
is the minor term, the subject of the conclusion.
For example:
"Being mortal" is the major term and "Socrates" the minor term; the connection between them is
made by the middle term, in this case "being a man". Here the major premises are general and the
minor particular, but this needn't be the case.
For example:
Here, the major term is "die", the minor term is "all men", and the middle term is "being mortal".
O.K., enough theory. The syllogism you must understand is the following:
That simple! This is an absolutely logical conclusion, and a major discovery I made some years
ago. I make reference to this theoretical example because most people do not believe me when I
say that having a threesome is easy!!!
I've seen this exact scenario many times in swingers clubs... I've seen men and women starting up
as voyeurs and after a while… feeling the uncontrollable urge to join in! I discovered this
phenomenon one day when I was living in my one-room studio in Amsterdam, and since then,
this theory has been the basis of the success my husband and I have had seducing women for
threesome sex.
Here's what happened: I was around 23 years old, and I was living with a very conservative
roommate in a small one-bedroom studio.
One night, after a party in the city, a very bisexual friend of mine asked me if she could spend the
night in our place because she felt she was in no condition to bike back to her place. Neither my
roommate nor I objected, and the three of us went back to our studio.
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That night was really warm and, as in most small studios in Amsterdam, we had no air
conditioning. So, as soon as we arrived, the three of us took all our clothes off except our bras and
panties…We pulled out a bottle of rose wine from our mini-fridge and kept on the conversation
going. As usual, the conversation was about "guys" until suddenly my friend said: "All guys are
jerks! I think I prefer women.”
She then approached me and hugged me. I smiled and my roommate just sat there uncomfortably.
Suddenly, she started kissing me and I reciprocated, but I quickly realized that my roommate was
getting more and more uncomfortable. So we stopped kissing and went back to talking…
obviously, the subject rapidly changed.
My friend asked my roommate: “Have you ever been with a girl?” And she quickly replied: "NO,
of course not!” with a slight face of disgust. I knew she was rather conservative as we’d had this
conversation before, but by intuition I knew she was most likely to experiment if given the
opportunity. Suddenly, my friend said: "Let's do something! Let’s give Sabrina (my roommate’s
name) a massage." Sabrina was a bit hesitant, but she allowed herself to be massaged by the two
of us. I knew exactly what my friend had in mind, but I felt a bit uncomfortable and unsure how
Sabrina would react.
Anyway, we started massaging her, and Sabrina seemed to be enjoying herself. She really loved
having her back and her arms massaged. After a little while, I excused myself and went to the
bathroom, and on my way back, I got really surprised when I saw my friend and Sabrina kissing
passionately! BUT, that was not the biggest surprise...
The biggest surprise for me was that Sabrina was the one on top!!! “What happened?” I asked
them, and they both said: “Shut up and join us”. How did this happen? A conservative girl
changing her mind so rapidly? Please understand that this was not an isolated incident. My friend
was an expert in seducing "Lesbian Virgins" as she called them. She was always telling me: You
see, all you need to do to have sex with any chick is to make her just "hot enough" so she's not
able to “resist the temptation”. Interesting enough, her theory worked like a charm almost every
time!
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A friend of mine, who happens to be a private pilot, once invited me to fly in a single engine
aircraft… We got all geared up, got on board, and after starting the engine she started taxiing the
aircraft towards the runway… suddenly, just before reaching the runway, we heard the air traffic
controller saying: “November Sierra Yankee, hold-short of runway one-seven” and my friend
replied: “Sierra Yankee, holding-short of runway one seven”… I had NO CLUE what this “radio
babble” meant besides that “Sierra Yankee” was the registration of the aircraft, but I noticed that
my friend stopped just before entering the runway and remained there until the air traffic
controller said: “Sierra Yankee, you’re clear for take off!” Then she released the brakes, engaged
the engine in full throttle, and within seconds we were airborne!
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Please look at the picture above to understand better the "Threshold Concept".
NOW…you have isolated your candidate. Now she’s in "the terminal" — in other words: The
Place where the three of you will have sex…
Your job now is to make her “take off” with you into threesome bliss; in other words, to get her
horny enough so she can’t “resist the temptation”. By talking about sex, giving her massages,
playing suggestive games, voyeurism, etc, what you're doing is slowly, slowly ”taxiing her into
the runway” (getting her into that specific point of horniness).
If you do your job correctly, all you need to do is allow her to cross her sexual threshold and
eventually she will engage in ”full throttle”: She won’t be able to help herself and before you
know it, the three of you will “take off” on threesome bliss! This will happen 90% of the time!
You can bet on it! For some people their sexual threshold is very easy to reach; for others it’s a
bit more difficult. BUT (and HERE'S THE CLUE):
If you want to seduce a woman, all you need to do is slowly escalate her sexual desire until she
reaches her threshold. Remember: sexual drive is one of the strongest human emotions! Besides,
it is embedded at the core of the human reptilian brain where our survival instincts reside.
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When you get really horny, it’s almost impossible to stop yourself from having sex or touching
yourself! This is not a tactic — it’s a principle! And you can count on it that this urge will be
unstoppable as much as you can count that night follows day and summer follows spring!
So again:
Every-Single-Person-Has-A-Sexual-Threshold!
I have shared with you the biggest seduction secret ever! Now is time to give you practical
examples so you’ll feel comfortable putting this secret into practice J
Pressure steam cookers have a valve that will help the accumulated pressure be released. If these
cookers had no valve, the cookers will eventually explode! Human beings are very similar.
“Sexual Pressure” is built slowly through several actions: A stimulating conversation, a kiss,
fondling, watching porn, erotic or sensual thoughts — you name it…
An assortment of circumstances and acts can create sexual arousal. Sometimes the simple touch
of silk on your skin can make you aroused. The more aroused you are, the less logically you’ll
think and the more susceptible you’ll be to do something you normally would not do!
Every good seducer knows this and uses it to his/her advantage.
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Click the links below to see Rita Rudner and Ellen DeGeneres
http://www.ritafunny.com/
http://ellen.warnerbros.com/galleries/videos/
Comedians have very well-practiced routines and when they perform them, it really looks as if
they are just thinking of their jokes and gags while being onstage! Of course, there’s always an
element of improvisation, but mainly it is very well-rehearsed. Especially comedians are very
aware of timings. Many experienced comedians will tell you that for them “timing” is everything.
Same thing happens in threesome seduction. The trick is to make it look as if everything that’s
happening is “just happening”. Your target should never feel that she was part of a seduction plot!
Remember, magicians, are two or three steps ahead of the audience, right? As a threesome Pickup
Artist, you will also be two or three steps ahead of your candidate. You’ll need to plan as much as
possible in advance so you can accomplish your goal of having a threesome with your target.
Remember, everything must look like it is happening “in the heat of the moment” and not like it
was planned.
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For example, avoid starting your seduction before dinner, or while cooking. Awkward
circumstances and a “start-stop” process present too many choices, because they give her too
many chances to think about what's happening. It will be hard just to have her swept away by the
moment. Your smoothness will be the big clue here. Emulate the River Smoothly Rolling
Downhill. Let the flow from the mountains to the sea be uninterrupted by stops, starts and sharp
turns. You’ll need to think of the right excuses to move further in your seduction. This is where
your creativity will be paramount. If you have the privilege of having a Jacuzzi at home or a
sauna or a steam bath, these are excellent “innocent excuses” to follow the path of least
resistance. These are the type of things you have to think of in advance in order to improve your
odds.
- Robert de Niro
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Undressing, is the pivotal last step before the action begins. At some point, everyone knows
what’s about to happen and everyone is ready and willing but still dressed. Bridging the dressed
to undressed abyss is crucial and can prove to be quite uncomfortable. It’s imperative that you’re
very considerate of her modesty. Especially with younger girls, you should provide some kind of
non-threatening excuse to smooth the transition between “just friends” to lovers.
Whatever your plans, make undressing easy and private, and make the excuse simple and logical.
Some women are self-confident enough and have no problem undressing in front of others. A
significant minority are even closet exhibitionists who will disrobe at the slightest excuse. You’ll
be the only ones to measure her comfort. Do everything in your power to make this huge step as
easy and painless as possible.
After dinner, I signal Karl, telling him that now is the time and he discreetly acknowledges it. He
stands up, pretending he’s going to collect something and return to the dining table; however,
instead of sitting down, he remains standing behind me. He put his glass of wine on the table and
starts massaging my shoulders. We continue the conversation while Karl continues massaging
me; I’ll naturally tilt my head forward and mention how wonderful it feels. He now takes a seat
behind me and continues massaging me. However, this time he starts to move in a downward
direction toward my lower back and waist. The conversation still goes on... After around 10 or 15
minutes of back rub and massage, I’ll say; “Hey, it’s not fair for Julie!” (or Linda or whatever
your candidate's name is). “I’m lucky enough to experience your massages regularly, but she
doesn’t. Why don’t you give her a massage?” Most likely your friend will be delighted!
(The interesting thing in this move is that, subconsciously, our target knows that I have already
approved, so she is more relaxed with it.) This is Karl’s opportunity to start the action! He
massages her sensually. He starts with the shoulders, but also goes to the lower back and dares
also to go below the waist towards her buttocks... When massaging her, he gets his body close to
hers and lets her feel his breathing. He caresses her hair and blows tenderly on her bare skin.
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If she’s wearing a tight blouse, he’ll ask her to release it from her pants, so he will have access to
her back without having to massage her blouse. He’ll insert his hands from below so he has
access to her back. He’ll keep the massage soft and sensual, while the conversation still goes on.
Then he’ll carefully undo her bra, and continue massaging. If she doesn’t object, Karl knows he’s
already at second base. If she does object, he’ll simply slow down... by that time I’ll also get
involved. I’ll take her hand and start massaging her hand and arm. By then she probably already
feels that warm glowing feeling in her tummy. Normally, I’ll say: “Have you ever experienced a
four-hand massage? It’s wonderful!” You can follow with, “Well, why don’t we give Julie a four-
hand massage?” At that moment, she’s so tenderly relaxed and so comfortable with you guys that
it’s highly likely she won’t object.
Your next move is for either one of you to say, “Come, and let’s go to a more comfortable place.”
So you stand up and one of you can go get her a bathrobe and a towel so your friend can cover
herself. Later show her where she can get undressed, then leave her and say, "I will go warm up
the oil. When you finish, lie down and relax for a minute.”
This will allow her to privately disrobe and choose a comfortable position without anxiety. With
her face down, you may remove the towel without revealing all of her treasures at once. This
makes the transition easier for her and the surprises more exciting for you, like unwrapping a
present. Both of you could massage her for a while. Avoid getting too quickly to her intimate
parts. Do her arms, her face, her feet, her toes, and legs and little by little start moving towards
her butt and inner thighs.
I recommend that the female of the seducing couple takes care of her thighs, bottom, and getting
close to her anus and labia. She’ll feel more comfortable being touched by her friend than by him.
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At this point, your new friend will be moving from passive recipient to an active participant and
your husband’s male body is a familiar terrain for the transition. By allowing her to touch your
partner, you give permission for what is about to happen. Showing her how he likes to be touched
gives her experience and confidence...
Oil her hands and say, "This is my favorite part. I'll show you how he likes it.” Explain the
technique and then help her massage his erect penis. By inviting her to touch his penis, you’re
simply giving green lights that it is okay, and she’ll be encouraged to continue. Let her stroke
him until you’re sure she has slowly moved to a heightened sexual mood. This is the time to
switch... If you’ve reached this point, she has long before crossed her sexual threshold…
NOW comes one small bump… She may be hesitant at first in exploring a female body so he
must encourage her. While you are laying face down, give small approval noises when she‘s
doing what you want. When she massages your erogenous zones, move slightly in concert with
her strokes, letting her know how much you enjoy her touch. Your husband should position
himself behind your head, so she will have no option but to massage you, below your waist. This
way she’ll grow accustomed to feeling your intimate parts.
Perhaps this is her way of giving permission or merely a unique way of saying thanks. If she
doesn’t make the first move, what I usually do is claim that I’m getting cold, open my arms to her
and invite her to lie on top of me.
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I move my hips beneath her and slip one thigh between hers. Interestingly enough, at this moment
is when our lips find each other for the first time and we passionately kiss. I think it’s now clear
to you why massage is my favorite method to transform friends into lovers. It’s sensual and it also
heightens the anticipation and the sexual tension. Besides, it’s the perfect prelude to a very erotic
experience.
As I strongly believe that a massage is a surefire technique which gently sends any woman's
sexual desires into white hot overdrive, I will give you more tips on how to give a perfect erotic
massage a bit further on in this chapter, but before I do that, let me tell you about the second
scenario.
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He says that men are like welding torches. As soon as they’re lit up, they’re ready to burn. Their
flames can be on full blast within seconds. However, women are like ovens. You must wait for
the oven to be hot before you put the turkey inside. Beginners tend to massage her back a few
minutes and then jump on top of her. This is a bad move. Extend the massage much, much longer
than you think necessary.
Massage is very erotic and will also help her acclimatize to being nude with new partners and to
grow accustomed to the female touch. A long, sensuous massage will overcome any last minute
jitters. A massage is an excellent technique to convey that no part of your body is off-limits by
lightly touching and gently exploring all of her.
Avoid concentrating on her erogenous zones; you’ll have enough time to do those later. What you
are doing at this moment is “warming the oven”, remember? The key point here is to prove to her
from the beginning that you are a slow, sensuous couple who’ll make sex everything she always
dreamed it could be and more! If you’re the best she’s ever had, she’ll come back!
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Remember: The whole body can be an erogenous zone, given the right touch, mood and
setting. In order to become a real pro, the first thing I'll recommend you to do is to receive a full
body massage yourself. Make an appointment with an experienced professional so that you know
you will receive skilled care, with no sexual expectations or motivation. (Get personal
recommendations.) This is about treating yourself, learning to receive. The experience of
receiving, as in all aspects of life, is also a great education for when it is your turn to give. When
preparing for your seduction night, it will help if you have a firm bed, cushions, a mattress on the
floor, and soft sheets or towels. It's key that the three of you are comfortable.
If you have the possibility of getting a massage table, then even better. It'll be very useful for
future seduction nights and will enhance also your sex life. We have one and it has worked for us
incredibly. They're not expensive; you can get one for less than $250.00.
(Click the link below to get one for less than $250.00)
http://www.bestmassagetable.com/products/tables/index.html
Make sure you have a variety of sensual massage oils. (Click the link below to see massage oils)
http://www.mypleasure.com/store/dept.asp?dept_id=401
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Warm your oils by standing the bottles in warm water or the microwave. You will need oil or
lotion so that your hands don't pull the skin and to make the experience as pleasurable as possible.
Using oils is just another excuse to undress fully. Once your friend is naked (at least her back),
take a few deep breaths to centre yourself and apply your chosen oil blend to your warmed hands,
and then softly rest them on their upper back. (You are at their head.) Start with a long, slow,
oiling stroke. Don't be afraid to move your hands away to add more oil as a moment without
contact can increase anticipation of the next delightful touch... or perhaps you prefer to drip the
oil on their expectant skin! If so, make sure it's warm!
Remember, this is going to be a four-hand massage! You must focus on her back and your wife or
girlfriend should focus on her legs. This is less threatening for her and she'll feel more relaxed. Start
with light pressure and increase it. Travel down the centre of the back from neck to tail, then let
your hands slide to either side and ease back up to the top. Repeat this type of stroke many times.
Avoid direct pressure on the spine. Now vary the pressure, speed and types of stroke. Use the
spread of your palms, fingertips and thumbs, knuckles and forearms. Slow down. Do it again, and
again focus on each part of the back: shoulders, muscles along the sides of the spine, lower back.
The inside of her elbows. This part of her body is very, very sensitive. Start on the inside of her elbows
and work your way outward. At the same time the female in the seducing couple should start doing her
feet, her toes. Massage them; if you're a bit daring, kiss them. Nibble them. Hold them close to your
face.
Let her know you really like her feet. Oil her legs. Give lots of attention to her inner thighs, hips
and feet, while your husband grabs the muscles on top of her shoulders and back of her neck. Dry
your hands a little and massage her scalp, and tug her hair gently. Let her feel your four hands all
over her back and body. If you feel she'll not object, remove the towel on top of her buttocks and
let your wife start gently massaging her ass.
Make sure neither of you touches her pussy yet! But feel free to spread her ass and massage her
between her legs and in her inner thighs. Communicate pleasure or discomfort with words,
sounds or signals. Leave aside all other conversation. After a while of massaging her, she'll be
putty in your hands. Ask her to turn around and then quickly cover her pussy with a towel,
leaving only her breasts uncovered.
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Again, the male in the seducing couple should start massaging her arms, avoiding her breasts,
while the female in the seducing couple massages her feet and legs. Let him smoothes oil down
over her chest, breasts and belly down the centre and up the sides as well as on the back,
including arms, armpits and hands some more! While you're doing her upper body, let your wife
move around her legs and slowly approach her legs underneath the towel. Carefully remove the
towel and continue to massage her legs, approaching her pussy.
This will be a vital transition! (Especially if your wife or girlfriend has never been with another
woman). It's time for her to massage her pussy. Even if neither of the females has had a lesbian
experience, your target will feel more comfortable having her being close to her pubis than
having him there. By letting her massage her inner thighs and pussy, both women will feel more
sexually comfortable with each other. This might feel awkward at first, but before you know it,
you'll feel very comfortable touching her pussy while your husband massages her tits.
Pussy Control!
So there you are, with your hands for the first time really close to another woman's pussy... stand
or sit at her side, or sit facing her between her legs. Anoint her vulva with oil or lube and slide
your upper hand down over her belly as you draw the other up to meet it. Continue sliding the top
hand down all the way to her vulva and repeat this stroke several times, alternating hands as you
pull up over labia and pubis. Fingers point toward anus. Tug on the pubic hair, moving in sections
down to the sides of her outer labia. Trace the curves of her vulva lips with your fingers. Circle
all round from perineum to above the clitoris. Explore and stimulate each part of "the vulva
clock." Squeeze, tug, rub and pinch the outer, then inner lips. Start gently and vary your pressure.
Go SLOW! Breathe.
A little slap and tickle? "Drum" on her belly, her thighs and her pussy. Start with light slapping
and find the speed and pressure that thrills her. Lighten your touch as you 'feather' over her
clitoris. Tease her. Press on her clitoris with your thumb. Repeat several times. After each ring of
the "doorbell", lift your hand off her vulva completely. (Your other hand is still touching her)
Imagine a clock face around the clitoris and lightly jiggle or massage with one finger at 12
o'clock and move slowly, hour by hour around the clock. Linger where she loves it most!
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Ask her to tell or show you how else she wants you to give your loving attention to her clitoris
and/or elsewhere. As labial and clitoral massage follows on from full-body sensitization, inner
vulva touch comes only after outer play. You want plenty of lubrication so your fingers always
slip and glide. Any hint of dryness and reach for the lube. Slide a couple of playful happy fingers
back inside so that they curl toward her belly from the inside, and explore this bumpy 'urethral
sponge' (G-Spot). Many women find great pleasure here.
Press and let go a number of times on the most sensitive spot. Circle and explore with a light,
steady pressure. Spend a few minutes going back and forth between clitoris and G-Spot. Slip
inside again with one or more fingers (ask her) and move slowly in and out while twisting at the
wrist. Sex experts call this stroke "Twist and Shout". You twist and she shouts! Stay with your
breath and sensitivity to her responses.
Your fingers may move with varied or steady speed and pressure. Massage her labia with your
other hand, her clitoris, her belly, while you continue to stimulate her depths and invite her to
discover total bliss and profound sexual ecstasy. At this time let your husband take over. Enjoy
her as much as you both can, make her feel incredibly special, and I can guarantee the three of
you will have the time of your life! (A reminder: fingernails need to be short for pussy massage,
especially soft and tender places!)
Many of the pussy massage strokes described here are demonstrated in the excellent guide The
Female Masturbation Handbook written by my friend Gaby Moore
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YES, I am a pro using psychology to seduce a woman to have a threesome; however, I am 100%
against her feeling used afterwards. You need to understand that the most important person in an
FFM threesome is the third person, NOT THE GUY! That’s why if you want to have a successful
threesome, you need to Spoil Her Rotten! Here are a few other things that you can do during a
threesome:
Use your mouth everywhere! Kiss, blow, lick, suck, and nibble. Some places you might like to
explore especially: her lips and mouth, ears, breasts, underarms and nipples; her spine, neck,
small of her back, hands and fingers, feet and toes; the back of her knees, inner thighs, and, of
course, her vulva. Integrate using your mouth into your massage routines. You can try a “body”
massage: Try a whole session of sensual touch without your hands. The three of you can get
involved in rubbing each other's body for a period of time. Water play can be an added delight to
erotic massage. This could entail a full-body massage in a warm bath or shower. Remember to
use your favorite oils in a bath.
Experiment with texture. Try sponges, rubber, hand-held massage toys, loofahs. There are even
waterproof vibrators. Hand-held shower heads with a variety of settings are a great treat for solo
or dual play. If you have a Jacuzzi, be creative with the power jets too. Experiment with texture:
many sex stores and some fabric stores sell feathers. Ostrich feathers are long, silky and soft.
What else might feel good? Fur, leather, latex, silk, satin and velvet. Run them over your
sweetheart’s bodies. Look for interestingly textured mitts and toys in sex stores and catalogs.
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Vibrators can also add dimension to your threesome experience. (Mind you, many women prefer
padding between genitals and intense vibration.) Try a hand (yours or hers), towel, or some of
that soft, sensuous fabric. Choose a vibrator with variable speed and interesting attachments.
Use edible body gels, balms and oils; however, before you buy them, make sure they taste as
good as they smell. Lubricants are also often edible and some come fruit-flavored.
Introduction to Tribadism
Another activity you can easily engage a woman before a threesome is tribadism or
frottage. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tribadism
http://www.43things.com/entries/image/1475?t=e
Lesbian and bisexual women call this pleasurable experience by many different names: "bumping
fur", "scissoring", "scissor kissing", "scissor bumping", or "scissor fighting." Slang names
include: "bumping donuts", "slamming clams", "train spotting", "and clit clatting “,” clam-
jousting" and so on. Some Latin American countries dub the act "making tortillas" since the
physical act reminds them of the hand motions used for hand-flattening tortillas.
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I normally introduce tribbing as a “pussy massage”, or I ask her directly if she has ever
experienced tribbing. 95% of the time she will have NO clue what tribbing is (unless she’s
bisexual). But tribbing is another great transition technique from a massage to sex. I thoroughly
recommend it too as part of your threesome seduction tool box.
Click the link below to read the comments of people who've tried tribadism
http://www.43things.com/things/view/44447
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The goal in this phase of the seduction is to avoid making your new sexual friend get
"buyer’s remorse". You've played my M.I.S.S. strategy correctly and you were successful
seducing your target and enjoyed a night of steamy threesome sex.
As in everything, there is a beginning and there is an end. Now is time to come back from
Nirvana and return to our “normal life”. If you don't know WHAT TO DO now, your experience
can turn from a magical experience into a really rotten experience in a heartbeat.
Let me explain…
You met your target yesterday in a museum, you built excellent rapport with her, and the two of
you isolated her and asked her to go for coffee. In Starbucks you had a great conversation and
everything went incredibly well, so you decided to move on to the 3rd location. One thing lead to
the other, your plan fell into place exactly as you expected, and you managed to escalate the
situation to that point of horniness where she could not resist the temptation of having sex. You
had sex like sexually starved teenagers and had a fantastic time.
Suddenly, the “pressure from the pressure cooker” was released and there is obviously no “sexual
pressure” anymore. Slowly but surely, reality will begin to sink in and she’ll suddenly realize that
she has added two new lovers into her sexual partners list on the same night. This might be
disturbing for her and she can rapidly develop “buyer’s remorse" and start feeling very bad about
what she has just done. If this happens… trust me, you will NEVER ever be able to have another
threesome with her and she will hate herself for doing something that although was pleasurable,
now she finds shameful. After everything is over, she’s going to have the following questions
rumbling inside her mind:
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That’s why you need to be ready to handle your friend and alleviate all her doubts!
Just a few words can make all her uncertainties disappear! In order to make her feel good about
what just happened, it will be great if you say things like this:
That was the most exciting night of our lives! Thank you for sharing our bed.
I can't tell you how much I enjoyed last night... You are fantastic.
You two are fantastic women...You made every man's dream come true.
Darling, thank you for helping me seduce her! I loved sharing you with her.
Honey, I loved watching you together.
Remember, the last thing you want is for her to feel in any way used! How you deal with her after
the threesome is over will greatly affect how many more threesomes will follow! Remind
yourselves that whatever happens, you should not withdraw!
If you make her feel like a stranger in a strange land, she’ll never repeat a threesome ever again.
If she has no rush to leave, hang out together naked, shower together, enjoy each other’s
company, wrestle your husband together — be as playful and as loving as possible. What you
want is that she leaves that day with a feeling of happiness in her heart, instead of a feeling of
doubt!
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I don’t fully agree with this definition; however, I do agree that Pickup Artists use an arsenal of
trickery to persuade women to have sex with them. I consider myself also a female Casanova and,
YES, I also have used an arsenal of tricks to seduce women for my threesome sexcapades.
HOWEVER, being a woman myself, I also understand the psychological and biological issues
happening inside a woman’s body and mind before, during, and after having sex. If a woman
needs reassurance and acceptance after having one-on-one sex, IMAGINE her needs after having
a threesome for the first time…
If you want more and more women to be open for threesome sex, your job as a threesome Pickup
Artist is to culminate your threesome experience, making your guest feeling totally excited about
the experience instead of feeling used.
-Bob Guccione
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Chapter 4
On The Road with Suzy Bauer
-Gloria Steinem
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In this manual, the focus is not really the “bedroom” but the “pickup”; that’s why I want to take
you into a wild road ride with me! By the way... don’t you think I look really cute on my cartoon?
Lol! Unfortunately I cannot take you with me for "field workshops" as the other pickup artists do
so the following chapter is a short "road trip" with me. On the videos you will see LIVE how to
do it but I think these "golden nuggets" will be very useful in your future pickups!
These vignettes of threesome wisdom come from other bisexual friends of mine; some come from
e-mails I’ve received; some are from my own personal experience some come from forum and
blog posts. Obviously they have no logical sequence: they are a collage of wisdom for you to
explore and that I feel will be helpful in your pickup adventures.
Enjoy
XOXO,
Suzy
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Karl and I go out for drinks into a nice and trendy bar. (We avoid places where people know us
well!) We always go nicely dressed and ready to seduce (this is a key element)...
We always try to get there early so you will get a nice table where you can overlook the whole
bar!
Remember, our goal is to look for candidates. So, if we seat in the bar itself, we will be only
facing the bartender, and that will automatically decrease our chances of spotting the right
candidates! These are exactly the qualities that we look for in our candidates: We look for a
couple of single girls sitting together. These girls should be in their mid-thirties or early forties.
(This kind of girl will be the most responsive to this strategy).
Note: If you are asking yourself why it will work better for women that age, bare in mind that it's
at this age when women are at their horniest! Besides, it’s highly likely they are in the bar to flirt
or, if you we are lucky, they are there to be "picked up" or to "pick up someone". This will
obviously increase your odds! Usually, we'll find these girls close to the bar because that's where
most guys go ask for drinks, right? If we don't see any girls there, we look around or wait for
them to arrive. This is what we do after we spot our candidates: I remain seated and Karl will
approach the girls... Now this is the most challenging part… the pickup line... Some guys are
good at this, some are not; so it's up to your "approaching skills". Here's how my husband does
it...
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Then he points at me… This will establish that he is obviously accompanied, so they will not feel
he's hitting on them. This will automatically lower their defenses! After it has been established
that he is with someone, he can easily have a friendly chat without them realizing that you are
trying to pick them up! After a little bit of casual chitchat, he simply says, "Nice to meet you
girls" and returns to where I am sitting. We wait for about three to five minutes and then the two
of us will approach the two girls. Karl will introduce me and from there I take over...
Our goal is to establish a nice conversation going full of pleasantries and casual chitchat that we
women are very good at! After good rapport is established, it will be time to do some "fishing"...
this sequence is very important, so follow it carefully!
We wait for the response. If they say “Yes”, then our following question will be, “So, you are
familiar with how it works here, right?” If they answer, “No”, then we say, "Do you know what
night is tonight?" Most likely they will say, "How do you mean?" or "No, what night is tonight?"
We follow our comment with, "Well, every day there's a different thing happening, here isn't
there?" Again, most likely you will get a blank stare...
We then follow with: "Well, we do not come here often, but we learned on the internet that
Tuesdays (or whatever day it may be) is a night for couples..." Then follow with: “That’s exactly
why we came here today…" At this point they will be still a bit confused, so normally we need to
elaborate…"We heard that tonight this is the spot where swingers go for a drink to meet other
couples?"Normally we get a grin or a hysterical laugh of disbelief... So we ask: "Is this true?" or
"Did you know that?" By now we have swiftly moved them to a topic of conversation that they
will not normally come up with... "So, you didn’t know about this?" we insist... They will still be
surprised; however, you have already established that you guys are a couple and are ready to
play!
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Our next step is to keep the "fishing" going... For us the “onion peeling approach” — from
innocent questions, proceeding to more intimate questions — works the best! Everything geared
on the topic of swingers, couple swapping and bisexuality, using our experience to keep the fire
burning! We keep on doing this until Karl feels the "time is right" for us to ask: Had you girls
ever done something with another woman? Normally they laugh and then they will either
admit they have or they will say, “No, we have not!” We are aware that if we managed to get
them to this point we can now move on "fishing" with more specific questions: "How?",
"When?", "What Happened?" Now, in the event that they will respond negatively…
Karl will ask: "Is it something that you will do under the right circumstances?"
Please pay attention because the next step is a very important step!
Before we proceed to this step, we make sure that the four of us are in rapport and the
atmosphere is already of mutual trust...
Here's what Karl will say next: "It's weird how we started talking about this naughty subject…"
My wife saw you and she told me that you girls were kind of cute, and as we thought tonight was
swingers night, she sent me to check you out... (With this comment we have already established
that we are interested in them in a very safe non-threatening way.) Then he follows with: "Do you
girls find her cute?"
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We normally get a "yes", so at this point they're even more curious! After this moment, the
conversation must be mostly about female bisexuality. By now, these ladies are on their toes
with curiosity… Then here is the next milestone in the pickup…"The Kiss". Your goal here is to
get either of the girls to kiss your wife or partner. Karl is always creative in coming up with ways
of doing that. The ones I know work the best for him are the following: The “bet” or the “truth or
dare” approach. If he is successful, we know that we are going to have lots of pussy that night!
After this moment, it is all downhill! Before asking the girls to join us for a drink at home, Karl
normally asks for a round of "sexy drinks”…for example: a “Creamy Bush”, a “Sit On My Face”,
a “Buttery Nipple”, a “Cunnilingus”, a “Tight Snatch” or a “Get Laid”. (Please notice that he
never requests a "Blow Job" or "Sperm" or any of those drinks that have a male connotation. He
only requests drinks that are female-related. This is obviously because it keeps the conversation
going in the direction we want to take it!)
After we finish our drinks, Karl excuses himself to the restroom and secretly pays for all
drinks. In the meanwhile, I invite the girls to come home for a drink. When Karl comes back, I
simply say "Why don't we follow our conversation at home? I have already invited the girls
over." Then he simply says, "Good idea!" When the girls ask for their bill, the bartender tells
them that Karl has already taken care of the bill and they will thank him very sweetly, sometimes
with a tongue kiss! When we proceed home, our strategy is normally that Karl goes by himself in
our car and the girls and I follow him.
The biggest mistake you can do at this point is: Letting the girls drive on their own and you
driving back with your husband.
The last thing you want is that they get cold feet and suddenly the mood changes. That's why you
need to be there with them and, if possible, keeps the “girlie” talk flowing.
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http://www.club-rub.com/
http://www.torturegarden.com/
http://www.clubwicked.org/
http://gwendoline.nixnet.com/
Fetish clubs do have some adventurous and horny women in them ;-) Just be ready to enter a
completely different world.
Suzy’s comment: This is a really good tip. Karl and I are not too much into the "fetish world" but
Liam is 100% right, these places are full of single bisexual women! For more information about
where pansexual clubs are in your area click below
http://www.dungeonnet.com/weblinks/Clubs/
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We met Laura on a pansexual party at club x 90 minutes after meeting her we were in our hotel
room in San Diego tearing apart each others clothes as if we were animals, after 30 minutes of
long and deep 2 way and 3 way kissing, Laura got on her back, and told Maggie, who was
sitting upright on her knees, to move forward until her vulva was near Laura’s mouth, Laura
eagerly thrust out her tongue to Maggie's moist clitoris, and licked and kissed and sucked it in a
way I've never done for Maggie before...
You could see Maggie’s body slowly swaying, like a pendulum, which started to speed up
as Laura speeded up her tongue motion. Then, in a frantic way that I have never heard Maggie
say, she said, "Please... more." At that moment, Laura inserted one
finger into Maggie's vagina and another finger from the other hand into her anus and began to
earnestly and rhythmically bring her down the home stretch with her tongue and lips and fingers.
Maggie exploded into a orgasm that I have never seen in any woman before, I was in awe...
As Laura was slowly caressing Maggie during her short time of recovery, my passion arose to a
height I've never felt before. I walked over to the bed and got on the bed next to Laura and started
to kiss her. I helped Laura take off her bra, revealing her beautiful breasts with very hard and
erect nipples; I could feel the animal heat emanate from her vagina, begging for satisfaction.
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She then took hold of my very hard penis and began to rub it firmly, and then went down on me
and began to lick and suck it. I could feel the moistness around her mouth, no doubt from
Maggie's vaginal juices.
Laura then completely inserted my penis into her mouth as far as it could go and really began to
suck. It was a beautiful experience. As I approached an explosive orgasm, but before it was too
late, she let go of my penis, leaned back on the bed, with her beautiful
breasts pointing majestically upward, and rubbing her wet pussy mentioned the 4 magic words to
Maggie: Sweetheart... "NOW IS YOUR TURN"!
Maggie had never licked pussy before but after experiencing Laura’s tongue flickering, she knew
she had to reciprocate! She did and she loved it! This did not end here...
Maggie continued her oral caress on Laura's clitoris in the most loving, tender, and yet vigorous
manner, and from this very delicious stimulus, Laura had four orgasms in the next few minutes;
each orgasm was more intense than the previous one. Her last orgasm was so intense and
obviously so pleasurable that Maggie broke down and cried for Laura in happiness. We all then
fell into a long and dreamy sleep, snuggling close together, to recharge for another round several
hours later! So, what’s the lesson to be learnt? If you want to make a woman instantly bisexual,
let another woman pamper her orally for at least 30 minutes and then let her mention the 4 magic
words “NOW IS YOUR TURN”. That’s the way to get women to loose their fear of licking
pussy!
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Nearly a third of Britain's female revellers consider themselves bisexual and almost half have had
some sort of sexual experience with another woman, ranging from kissing to fondling and full
sex. These are the revealing findings of an exclusive Daily Mirror survey of 1,000 women across
the UK who regularly go to clubs. We found that 57 per cent of those who consider themselves
bisexual are "dabblers", who have the occasional fling with a woman. But 23 per cent say that it's
a serious lifestyle choice. Between 10 and 50 % of female clubbers self-identify as bisexual!!!
Suzy’s comment: Good to know the B-word made it into a newspaper, even if it is the Mirror :-)
Here’s one of my favourite threesome frames: I've been trying to tell Mark what makes a woman
sexy so we're going to the mall to scout different types. I need someone who is smart enough to
make him understand how women feel.
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I'll/We’ll buy dinner if you help! Here are some more daring requests:
I've always wanted to make love for an audience, but I'm scared to death. You're the only one on
the whole earth I trust enough to ask this. Will you please watch mark and I do it? Mark and I
have been experimenting with massage. I've been trying to show him how I like it but she's too
rough? I need someone like you to show him the right techniques. Would you let me demonstrate
the right touch on you?
-Source Unknown
Threesome Chemistry
“No matter how many parties are involved, sex and seduction are all about one-on-one chemistry.
I don’t expect to be pulled into a torrid threesome simply because my hubby has chemistry with
another woman, nor I expect the reverse to happen. If we both connect with her and in our candid
way we let her know that we’re open to um, alternative bedroom jinks, we will end up in a sexy
three-way pile more often than not.”
After a while of steamy talk, ask: "Assume you are a struggling young actress who desperately
wants to be a superstar. You are offered a role that will catapult you into instant stardom, making
you rich and famous beyond your wildest dreams. The most important director in Hollywood says
you are perfect for the role and no one else will do. The only drawback is the movie contains a
scene where a woman will seduce you. You are totally heterosexual and refuse, but the director
says the scene is central to the plot and cannot be cut.
"As a concession he allows you to pick any woman on earth to play your seducer. Who would it
be?" Give her time to think about it. When she tells you, say, "Great choice!" and asks her,
“Why? What makes this woman more acceptable than the rest?” Make her think about what she
likes in that woman.
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If she cannot think of a name, tell her the director will find someone from central casting. What
type of personality would she like? Does she prefer outgoing or reserved, wild or demure,
talkative or quiet, sweet or bitchy, uninhibited or shy, take charge or go with the flow, dominant
or submissive? Say her fantasy is driving you crazy with desire but you cannot visualize the other
woman. What does she want her seducer to look like? Ask her specifics on hair length and style,
eye color, height, weight, and body type. If she is comfortable with the discussion, ask about
breast size and shape; nipple size and shade; clit shape, size and sensitivity; labia coloration;
pubic hair length and colour. Would she prefer the woman to be hairy and shaved?
If she is still comfortable talking, ask her to describe the perfect seduction. Glenn Wilson found
women begin their fantasies with romantic settings and costumes. Ease her into the seduction by
asking her to describe the time and setting. What would she and her seducer wear? Who would
make the first move? Would they undress each other or separately? Who would kiss whom? What
would happen next?
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No. I can't [tell]. (Cover your face pretending to be ashamed before you let out your secret)...
Promise me you'll never tell anyone about this and that you won't let it affect our friendship.
THEN
Tell her that you want her to help you do either of the following:
1) Videotape you giving your boyfriend a body-to-body massage
2) Give your boyfriend a 4-hand massage
3) Take classy naked pictures of yourself to give to your boyfriend.
Tell her you'll be eternally grateful to her.
Suzy's Comment on these Stats: I believe stats can be very misleading. If you know your way
with numbers you can have 200% of nothing. HOWEVER truth is human beings are voyeurs by
nature and many are closeted exhibitionists. As you will see in the video section of this program a
camera can be VERY VERY handy when picking women up for a threesome.
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Suzy's comment on this stop: I love Naomy's post. She's absolutely right! This reminds me
about the first time I did a fire walk. I was shit scared to do it and I said to myself: I'm not going
to do it, I'm not going to do it. But then the trainer mentioned something: "Don't decide right now
if you will do it or not... make your decision in front of the burning coals!"
" I had to climb Everest because it was there". If you can bring women "there" they will do it!
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I’ve done also house call massages for 100% hetero couples and we end up having a really wild
threesome! Mind you I’m not a slut or a push, I just make it feel "natural" and EACH and
EVERY one of the women I’ve met this way indeed feel it "just happened" and are happy to
repeat the experience. That’s why I know as a fact that bisexuality is not a "preference" but a
"state of mind"."
- MissClairol69
On a bi forum I’m not allowed to disclose.
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Suzy's Comment on this stop: I wanted to include this post in the book because I think it is
critical for you to notice (again) from a real case scenario how valuable is that you work as a team
with a female whenever you want to make a threesome happen with unsuspecting single women.
We Love Complicity!
"My hubby and I have been doing PU’s together for several years. Picking up women with your
sweetheart is a lot of fun. Since we started doing this our relationship has grown stronger and we
feel incredibly connected. The best part is that prior to doing this our sex life was relatively
boring, now we have sex as often as we had sex when we were teenagers, some times we have a
friend joining us some times not, but certainly the fire is there. I recommend threesome pickups to
any couple!"
-Jane Steward,
Surrey, England age 42 and married for 17 years!
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-Neal, Detroit, Mi
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It is time for fireworks, decadent debauchery and unrestrained erotic pleasure. They need to be in
the mood where nothing is judging their actions and they should not pay any attention if there is.
They are going outside of societies rules and they don't give a fuck. They are going to have such
mind boggling exciting pleasure that nothing else matters. The three (or how ever many) of you
are an elitist cell/group which is better than everyone else because you have transcended the
bonds of society and are willing to pursue the forbidden pleasures.
Before hand, she is there with nervous anticipation that something wonderful is about to happen.
A kind of liberating eroticism that she can't even imagine the boundless pleasure of.
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She is going to fuck, fuck, fuck until sunrise and beyond. Her brain is going to melt at the
enormity of the rush of massive waves of awesome excitement will be far greater than stepping
out of an airplane and hurtling toward the earth in freefall. This is going to be the single biggest
thrill of her life that will leave second place trailing behind like fifth best. When a woman is in
this state she will not do anything, she will do EVERYTHING!
Now, that is bit of an explanation of the personal feelings involved when getting into something
like this. IT IS NOT LIKE A COUPLE THING. It is a party. There are more than two people so
it is going to be wild, not timid and intimate. Remember PARTY, PARTY PARTY! WILD
FUCKING PARTY. You compete with each other to give and receive pleasure. Social proof is
each other having their minds blown. It is virgin sex with experience already there. It is
something new, but you already know the tools of sex. It is more glorious than battle, more fun
than a rave and more of an adventure than walking on the moon. It is unrestrained fuck everyway
possible BLISS.
Women are mostly conditioned to do what they are told. They love to rebel, and this is rebellion.
It is probably a similar rush to pillaging and burning during a riot. I can imagine the Vikings
would have been into this kind of thing! It is not a feeling of intimacy you want them to feel, it is
sheer unbridled horniness and total freedom of expression combined with an elitist "we do
whatever the fuck we want" attitude.
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Here’s what you have to do: Go to a Lesbian bar by yourself… (YES Agree with hubby first)
look for a girl you like and flirt a bit with her, let her approach you, after getting to know each
other a little bit just be straight forward with her…Tell her: "You know, I am a lesbian virgin and
I’m dying for a woman to make love to me… I’m married and my hubby allowed me to come
here to experiment. I find you very attractive and would love you to fuck my brains out!" Trust
me you’re in for a treat that you will never forget! Fucking a lesbian is an experience EVERY
WOMAN MUST ENJOY AT LEAST ONCE IN THEIR LIFE!"
Suzy Comment on this stop: I think this is a great piece of advice. There’s only one thing you
need to keep in mind… most lesbians don’t like bisexual women and they will laugh at you if you
tell them you are bi-curious. I can see that whoever made the postabove is an experienced
bisexual woman as she used the EXACT wording you need to use to get a leasbian interested in
having a one-night-stand!
These words apply to more than having threesomes with women. Whatever your intended
outcome with a woman is - whether it is, for example, getting her number, getting her to go on a
date with you, or getting her back to your house - ASSUME IT'S NO BIG DEAL, and a lot of
fun. Women are like professional psychics when it comes to picking up on when MEN ASSUME
that something is a big deal. Even if we don't explicitly communicate that we think something is a
big deal, women somehow always intuitively know.
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A female friend of mine told me that she always knows when a guy is scared to kiss her. "When a
man thinks it is a big deal to kiss a girl he unconsciously displays all sorts of nervous and
indecisive body movements conveying his fear," she told me. Assuming that something is a big
deal can stifle your chances of achieving your intended outcome in two ways.
One is that by doing this you are lowering your perceived value in her eyes. She will stop seeing
you as a PRIZE to be won over. When you ASSUME, for example, that it is a really big deal to
ask for a girl's number, it conveys to her that she is of higher of value than you. By doing this you
are, unknowingly, ESTABLISHING that she is the PRIZE to be won over, not you.
Two is that when women intuit you assuming that something is a big deal, they begin to believe it
is a big deal as well!!! How women feel about doing something with you is oftentimes a mirror
image of how you feel about doing something with them. If you are nervous, they will become
nervous too. If you, for example, ASSUME getting a woman to go out with you is a big deal, she
will pickup on your nervous energy and feel the same way. When you, however, ASSUME that
achieving your intended outcome with a woman is NO BIG DEAL, your perceived value in her
eyes will increase.
Furthermore, ASSUMING that your intended outcome is NO BIG DEAL will often time put a
woman at ease making her assume that your intended outcome is no big deal. When you have
perceived value in a woman's eyes and she construes your intended outcome as no big deal, it
makes it very easy to get what you want. There have been women I have slept with after only
knowing them for a short amount of time - in some cases, as short as twenty five minutes! I was
able to do this because I ASSUMED it was no big deal, and a lot of fun. Also, if a woman puts up
resistance when trying to kiss her, DON'T become distraught. Instead, keep your composure by
ASSUMING it to be no big deal. Then, try again a few minutes later. Of course having the
mindset that achieving your intended outcome is no big deal is easier to achieve if you have the
skill sets for both establishing yourself as the PRIZE and creating the emotion inside a woman of
her wanting, reaching, chasing for more of you.
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-Michael, La Jolla , CA
Suzy’s Comment on this stop: PUA’s use a term for dressing in a way that creates attention —
they call that "Peacocking". When women want to attract other women, Peacocking also works!
I suggest you dress sexy but not slutty. Below are some examples of what can be considered
"standout" wear. Trust me, whenever you see women "peacocking" in a club, beach, or any other
place, there’s a REAL high probability she is bi and she’s ready to flirt!
adamandeve.com
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Suzy's Comment: girl. Remember "Peacocking" is about projecting sexuality and it is very
arousing for men AND women! One of my favorite ways to do this is sometimes by using sexy
hats or push up bras and beautiful cleavage. As a last tip on Peackoking, I suggest you visit
Odgirl.com to get more ideas!
I'm honestly NOT sexually attracted to effeminate looking guys, I like my men MANLY and
most women will agree with me so once and for all: If you want to peacock, do it in a manly way.
PLEASE! Buy clothes made for men!
You can never go wrong wearing nice, stylish jeans. A nice button-up shirt is great to wear for a
night out. A good pair of shoes or boots without the platform lifts are good as well. If you want
to add flash, get some interesting accessories, such as watches, belts, rings, necklaces, etc. Wear a
cool jacket when you go out. Have your hair spiked or combed nicely, and if you’re bald or
balding, shaves your head completely. Bald is sexy, go with it. Be well groomed (even if you
prefer the scruffy look), be clean, smell nice and most importantly mind your breath! BE manly
with how you dress. Masculinity is attractive to women!
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Peacocking is about style, and I am aware that sometimes masculinity is not really paired with
style, so that's why I recommend that you learn from the gay (Mind you, I'm not saying dress like
a gay) If you have not seen Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, you need to see that show, I really
recommend you to get these set of DVD's. They will sure help you in becoming become more
stylish!
Sexual Overdrive
"My first real girlfriend was bi and we often included her female lovers. A year later I dated a girl
that was a complete group sex freak. We had multiple males, females, and both. Next, I married a
bi girl who was "more into women than men" we included one or more women pretty often. Nice
arrangement: I worked, we shared the housework, and she spent a lot of time picking up girls. We
even slept with my first girlfriend during a visit to my home town. For about two months, we had
a steady girlfriend which required us to invent the word binogomous. That was odd. Since then
I've partner swapped a few times.
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Funny though, I'm starting to get to the point where I appreciate 1 on 1 sex a lot more than group.
More than one man often seems like a competition. More than one woman is fun but not nearly as
intense as two people letting go to each other. Maybe I just lived the fantasy too many times.
Still though, I really want to try twin sisters."
Suzy's Comment: This is also true after a while of having group sex, you start appreciating more
one on one sex :-)
-Mignon McLaughlin
Well I hope you've enjoyed my road trip!
Now Enjoy the Videos
xoxo
Suzy
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Chapter 5
-Walt Disney
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3 Years of Promises
I launched my stepbystepthreesome.com site in May 2003. After I saw how popular my site
was, I wanted to have a video sequel for my book where I’d be really detailing my threesome
pickup strategies… My idea was to use real footage of our seductions to educate people on how
to do it, but I encountered a lot of problems making this happen. I don’t want to bore you with all
the details but let’s just say it was very complicated, so I decided to put the project “in the fridge”
for a while.The problem was that I had already promised my subscribers that I was going to
release a threesome video product very soon.
This was 2 years ago… and until now, I have not yet delivered.
This video project was in my mind regularly, but I had no clue how to go about solving the
problems that I faced earlier on, so I thought this project would never be finalized… until one day
while planning a vacation to Brazil, we purchased a guide from a site called:
4womenoftheworld.com.
http://suzybauer.com/recommends/wow
With the purchase of our erotic guide, we got a special bonus: Temporary access to over 25 porn
sites.... As I'm very peculiar with PORN, I never really paid attention to these bonuses, until Karl
pointed something out to me... This wasn't regular porn.... This was Reality PORN!
Like in all TV reality shows, people do the unimaginable either for money or for attention! And
unlike regular porn, in these films there's was a REAL plot to the stories: To pickup an
unsuspecting female and have sex with her in the shortest period of time! (Sounds familiar?) Prior
to the sex scene, you can watch EVERYTHING these Pickup Artists are doing to convince the
target to have sex with them! These videos are indeed "reality" videos and I'm convinced many of
these girls are INDEED picked up unsuspectingly!
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Now, my point here is NOT to debate if these videos are "reality" or not. My point is that,
regardless of how these videos were shot, the way these people pick up woman is brilliant! And
(talking out of experience) it's not far from the way it is in real life! I was in complete shock and
disbelief when I was watching for the first time these guys using the same strategies I/we use to
pick up women, bring them back to their "studio", and have sex with them. UNBELIEVABLE!
These guys/gals are unrecognized master Pickup Artists! For me, some of these videos prove the
theory I’ve been talking about throughout the Ebook:
Any woman will have sex with you if you know how to take her to the edge of her
sexual threshold and encourage her to let go of all her inhibitions!
In his book: How To Get Anyone To Do Anything, David J.Liebermann mentions that if you know
what you're doing, you'll be able to transmit certain "cues" to people, and these "cues" will trigger
automatic responses! http://www.suzybauer.com/recommends/anything/
I have watched people who did certain things — that assumed a "sexual rapport" with the person
that they were with — and within a short period of time, the other person was starting to feel
sexual as well. That's EXACTLY how I was initially seduced to participate in a threesome, and
that's how I have seduced literally most of the "straight" women I've had sex with! AND that's
how many other bisexual women and couples seduce women for their threesome sexcapades!
Master Pickup Artists know EXACTLY how to use their actions, body, space, attitude, and touch
to elicit a sexual response in their targets.
Convincing is not about twisting someone's brain so she does your unconditional bidding; it's
about bringing the person's submerged desires to the surface, and this is exactly what some of
these guys do to make these "reality" videos. Now, I know this is probably the least marketable
angle of "reality porn" and, seriously, which "dating guru" in his/her right mind is going to tell
you to look at porn to learn about "psychological triggers"?
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I know by experience that it's absolutely possible to meet a woman for the first time and within
one hour (or less) be having sex with her! I've done it and I know of lots of bisexual women and
straight guys who've done it! Teaching this in theory is hard; it's better to watch people do it and
learn from them. That’s why I wanted to use video instead of describing it in a lengthy manual
that very likely will sound unbelievable! After watching these videos, Karl said to me, “Honey,
these videos will be perfect for your video project!” At first I was not convinced because not all
the videos were as good as I wanted them to be. I had to be very selective with the videos, as
some of them were WAY too pornographic for my taste, but some of them are perfect.
I contacted the webmasters of the following sites and negotiated with them the possibility of
including selected videos of the following sites in my project:
This site is a MUST see! It's great to see how a bisexual woman convinces a "straight" girl to
have lesbian sex for the first time!
2) Couples Seduce Teens (Click the link below to see Couples Seduce Teens)
http://www.suzybauer.com/recommends/coupleseduceteens
This is yet another great site! Yet a bit controversial...because, yes, the girls are "barely legal".
While watching this site, think of the techniques only, ok? You'll see how couples indeed seduce
another girl for a threesome!
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3) Milf Seekers
(Click the link below to see Milf Seekers )
http://www.suzybauer.com/recommends/milfseekers
I've mentioned over and over that single mums are great candidates for threesome sex!
In this site you'll see two guys seducing mums for an MMF threesome! These films have great
examples on how easy (if you're bold) you can pickup a willing lady to have a 3 way!
They agreed to let me use their videos and allowed me to select the videos I wanted to use as part
of my Threesome Pickup product. As you can imagine, when I got the “green light” I was
thrilled!
What I’ve done is select 7 Videos adding up to 3 hours and 25 minutes of steamy threesome
pickup education. These videos will reflect as many aspects of the threesome pickup seduction
and possibilities. There are many other aspects about threesome sex that I did not cover in this
Ebook because I have already covered them in my Step by Step Threesome manual.
As part of your “Threesome Package” you received also a complimentary 1 month subscription
to the “Threesome Pickup Artist Video of the Week Club” And also FREE instant access to the
Threesome PUA Secret Society Membership Site: http://www.threesomepuasecretsociety.com
This means that for a full 30 days you’ll receive access to the membership site and 4 installments
of the videos (Up to 8 videos) that I will send for you.*
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Also, I do not endorse all the techniques used by the Pickup Artists in these videos!
In my eyes, some of the trickery used goes a bit too far. However, you’ll still be able to recognize
the principles I talked about in this Ebook. You’ll be able to see exactly how these guys/gals use
the M.I.S.S. method to pick up women and how they “taxi” their target into the point of horniness
where she cannot resist the “sexual temptation”. I’m convinced that after reading this guide and
watching these videos, your threesome pickup skills will be dramatically enhanced.
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The Layguide, Clink Tony
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guygetsgirl.com
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.sexuality.general?lnk=sg
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http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com
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